Arguing With My Autistic Teenager

what's up guys welcome to the vlog I have to show you how amazing Abby's doing in the house she has been sleeping it's been a couple days since we've long to be honest with you been making other videos she's been sleeping so well well hey little one oh goodness sakes big stretches come on you gotta get up get ready for school oh you're all wrapped up like a burrito are you ready go conquer the day be the best you you can be yeah smile what did you want today right here look at me look at me keep looking beautiful thank you well we we are a colorful group look at us maybe says me cuz I'm not wearing black or grey like usual I think you guys are dressed the same Thanks come on say good morning let's see can I remember this contraption alright here we go 95 and she's trying to go good job babe so stylish this is smilin I got a lot of you guys a square here clothes from and I get them all over so that Lots from Marshalls crown an IV bring in from Belk and I love them because they do really good sales yeah so you can get like this shorts I think for $10 that's a really good deal and then be a lot from Marshalls yep that's very shot and now there's a Stein Martin here at new house yes and I I had never really shot this 9 mark a lot of her stuff for school came from sideburn Priscilla and I have a meeting that's why I'm wearing a meeting shirt and not ads we have our first PTA County PTA meeting of the year doing that again this year I am the ESC the exceptional student education liaison person board member for Duval County Council PTA and Priscilla what are you doing the same thing we're spending correspond exactly cool yeah same thing is last year I was sent an email by the president this year she wants to like figure out something cool to do as ESC chair yeah so I got to figure something out I have no idea if you guys have ideas this is like countywide this you know something that impacts all the students across the county would be ideal yeah how did we not get coffee enough I know we don't have time but I really need coffee yeah we're running late it like we were running late we left early we still got her out of the car like people are still in lines that's good but we're trying to get here early because Priscilla that's an early meeting before the actual order be himself the problem is this a County meeting of County wider this board okay Abby doesn't go she doesn't start until 905 right and a lot of these people their kids start like in like 8 o'clock yeah Oh Priscilla's Instagram what you've been doing so I'm still is stuffing things ASA can you put it down below yeah I've been trying to help people with lunch ideas and I know obviously Abigail's different cause she's everything yeah but it's it's helping people were having fun and we're like talking about different ideas so I take a picture of her lunch every day and post it on my Instagram just to kinda give you guys some ideas yeah check it out yeah if you're watching on YouTube I'll put the link down in the video description if you're watching on Facebook I'll put it up in the video description all that face I'll get her bucket hi there how was your day was it great we'll ask your teacher when she comes back bye hi Abigail Lorraine ready tone in a snack we get home we're gonna put our backpack away first right without getting angry about throwing a fit then we're gonna get a snack listen we get home listen we'll put our backpack away okay no we've had some full full blow out just tantrums with our backpack routine our new backpack routine every time she goes to do it she just wants to come in and like through her stuff down and you know go sit on the couch and rock and then get a snack but but she's got to put her stuff away first so we're trying to we consulted brandy with it but we haven't worked with her therapist on that but we're trying to get down I really want to get that nailed down for when brandy Cesar again next week that that uh that we already have it established that way she can say we'll do this or do that different you know to change things around but in that I wanted I want it to be in place backpack couch snack okay you got this kid I promise and bathroom yeah I do okay we're gonna do the thing we're gonna do it awesome we're gonna do a great job don't worry I know it's a little Angelus put them shoes on I think she gets ain't oh so fogged out I think she gets anxious not knowing just not knowing yeah you know new routine even though we've been doing it for close to a week here you go so since the pool has been the pool has become an avoidance thing to avoid work and whatnot Abbey has to walk around this side of the furniture vaulting into it just like just like we have been for the last several days nothing has changed that's a good spot you can put it up there that's okay that's a good spot there you go all right hey can you put this back right good job oh fixham Nixon put him underneath put him look up underneath there you go that's better I like I like the effort okay let's get you back back okay here hold this cause we might it's my elevator okay put it down right here can you open it yeah yeah open it up do your thing you're not done yet you got to get stuff out you can do it you're doing great you're doing really good I know I sound like I'm pandering to the behavior here but this is hey wait a sec wait a sec put that down put it down nicely say no no pick it back up again we're getting there come on listen what if you do it the right way we're done set it now nicely get your backpack listen get your stuff out I'll hold it get your folder out your folder what else does it look look in the back what's in there where's that go where does that go goes in there remember and your back goes in there yeah good job what won't work on that we're gonna exact placement where does that go remember that goes up in the kitchen on the island nice job now bathroom hey stop bathroom first bathroom first way better way better yeah yeah I mean it was like oh it was rough guys last couple days okay guess what you're done hey are you done what's up you want to have a snack okay do you wanna go sit on the couch and wait for it listen you don't get to act like that you don't get to be demanding it's not okay you can go sit on the couch and wait go sit and wait have a go go sit and wait go go go soon wait go that is the diagnosis of being 14 so she's gonna go to the game so we have tickets to a preseason game tonight but but Becca is under the weather so I say this you know football practice until after the game starts so the Priscilla's gonna go by yourself no you're not gonna look like a loser I mean it's a little weird but just like I don't know I guess genders specifically speaking it's weird it's odd but Priscilla's the football fan you guys have been hanging out with us for a long time she's a football man yeah I don't want my Jaguars doing more of a football fan than I am but because for her it's like footballs ball doesn't matter its preseason it's football yeah she is a hardcore jaguars fan I just I feel bad I don't want you to go by yourself I don't wanna go by myself now choice will make more friends ah I was like why don't you bring a friend and she's like I don't really have friend now you're like me we don't have friends yeah Lauren we tried to get Lauren to come but she couldn't come here please drive three hours ago to the football game what you can wait for dinner you've had two snacks already what is that you just there's popcorn you can wait for dinner you've had two snacks oh we don't know where Abby's iPad is her communication like that yeah like no clue no it just disappeared right she had it at camp yeah she added today she was coming home from camp haven't seen it since then so she's using her older iPad that she used to use just for mute just for videos and music sweetheart we're gonna eat dinner in a little bit well you're digging deep there no you can wait you can wait you're nervous I am nervous [Music] quiet you're nervous to go by yourself look if you want to go then you should go if you don't want to go then don't go no I do want to go pick those up pick them up pick them up so are you gonna go [Music] dinner [Music] Isaiah made the comment the other day that they were not used to the sounds of the house like understand knowing where a B is based under sounds I could hear you do it you just chilling in your room looks like you're admiring Tim yeah we had that fixed okay it's not really a safety thing but just to keep me from making messes like mom's lotion or something like that [Music] your brother your brother's gonna be home a minute okay mm-hmm what no kid you just ate it's not happening no don't even sit down we're not we're not eating speaking of safety I'm gonna be shooting the safety video tomorrow a lot of you guys have been asking questions about that pull safety safety in the new house getting used to you know understanding like what we need to do to keep her safe and and out of trouble you know keep her out of things she shouldn't be into for making messes stuff like that so well I'm gonna shoot all of that I think tomorrow morning I'll do that so look out for that video if I haven't already posted it if I did it's right up here you'll see what if we saw mom on the TV wouldn't it be crazy you ready for bed are you ready for bed yeah okay come on let's go get in bed I have mom can we give you a kiss when she gets home come on keep going keep walking sis hmm are they still losing gosh they're losing weight a lot Abby it's 17 to 3 holy cow ok let me keep stopping let's go up the stairs I'm waiting on an uber and it's it's been interesting I also got my purse taken away and I have this cute little bag now what's up superfan did you have fun good did you drink a beer and eat nachos cuz you fancy that's true stylish bag nice - a wallet what happened your loss well let me show you for anyone else that goes to a football game okay this is how big your item can be okay okay my knees a little bit bigger than that so they took it where is it but don't worry I have all my things out of it in my bag you got robbed they liked how nice your bags so girl walks up she's like I bet you don't remember me do you I'm like oh I remember you she's like are you having problems with your ticket no having problems with my purse she's like here I'll take it for you and then I'll give it to you at the end of the game I couldn't no problem so I figure out with my credit cards and my IV cuz that's all I need right she texts me they're not letting me bring it in either I'm like just throw it away on mean carriage so I got the who know in your wallet so she gave it to a security guard she's gonna try to get it back after the game and then get with me to get it but the only reason that I did that is because I actually got a new one under warranty from spartina yeah that was my stuff I mean they have a place yeah isn't what you all things like she's like just like whatever just throw it away Martina but guys like so I took pictures of other people and I'm gonna let the Jaguars know if you're gonna have a roll everybody needs to fall into the rule I feel like I'm singled out cuz I was just walking along and I didn't even get a warrant ile I didn't even get up to the thing and the guys like ma'am come here real quick I wasn't even like in the ticket area yet he's like your bags gonna be too big I'm like what like y'all seen my little bag like yeah it's not much bigger than this yeah but this is their measurement thing they're all holding these now and they measure it Wow yep she just went to bed of course she's up there yelling but she brought me this cute little bag with the t-shirt and every oh yeah she's like you're never gonna get your purse back here's a t-shirt that looks like if it's me it does it's a shirt for me where's your shirt but when we brought for you when we went to the Jaguars thing yeah did you ever get that yeah it's somewhere good you yep one glad you had to go yep your daughter's calling you she wants you to say good night to her wife Sheila alright guys we'll see you guys tomorrow thanks for hanging out bye everybody [Music] this is mine you ate fast girl and get one bite it you need another drink

Channel: FatheringAutism

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Length: 20min 9sec (1209 seconds)

Published: Sun Aug 18 2019