After One | Short Film

[Music] the birth of a child comes with an inexplicable jaw [Music] so this is how god must have felt when he made adam my name is jane and i'm a first-time mom [Music] the story is about the pains during childbirth hey you have no idea nice plants our baby girl is on our way let's go y'all know you're going to hear your feelings let's go i'm telling you i went in strong like my mother did like her mother did unlike the entire clan of women that were before me well at least that's what i was told last friends let's go apparently i didn't quite get the full picture and i definitely filled the clan john is my rock i know his eyes only used to be on me but now we have a cute baby to look at i'm unsure how to proceed but with him by my side we can get through this adventure [Music] together [Music] oh [Music] water warm [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] uh [Music] don't let instagram and team snatched body put you under pressure [Music] just face your reality [Music] [ __ ] [Music] mother i would advise you jump on any platform that is offering you 200 return on investments no no no no no [Music] well i'll say check the platform again in the next two weeks if they're still offering the same investments of 200 percent return then you can give it a shot you can't move your phones there okay all right no problem thank you [Music] okay [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] your help only comes from the lord [Music] hmm [Music] so [Music] oh yeah [Music] if only everyday worry parts hey finally some fun even the baby corporates this is my congress thank you so much this tummy looks like this so something is like wow i remember [Music] baby thank [Music] [Music] how are you somebody bought us to ask it's overwhelming oh i know how that feels thank you and that's why i brought you a gift ah right darling i just call it um let's call it a baby girl oh you know and buy your favorite this is so thoughtful of you thank you thank you thank you so much thank you so much just for staff and you have already done it well you should be getting ready for the next one no no no no no not even three years sincerely in the past few weeks have been under serious stress sleep last night back to back to back and even with my shadow of work it's not helping matters hold on are you not supposed to be on fatality i'm not on any type of leave and there's no paternity leave policy in my company what are you talking about patterns is he supposed to sit down in the house and be carrying baby up and down um this one is for the street man come on he's a father now so he's not for the streets his first duties for his home oh am i not a father [Music] [Laughter] you are talking about look you need that sleepless nights so your wife can rest and get back in shape mentally i'm okay see after one that place cannot be the same again me i'm telling you that you cannot enjoy the quality as it used to be gj today it's not okay at all it's not oh am i right hey yeah hurry that is [Music] i don't expect you to be cheating on your wife let alone bring your mistress to my childhood christening [Music] i know how to bring my wife back into shame and i know how to make a fresh all the time come on [Music] i'll come and see you guys [Applause] [Music] uh are you not using that anymore i don't know how they wear that thing i couldn't breathe but don't let her say that your tummy is still too big i just said it's your body jane suit yourself oh really the tummy is reducing right i think it is er oh yeah it's reducing i bought you this for me it's perfume um do i do i smell awful trust me jane i bought it for you please use it thanks of all where to cosplays but i can't do all of these things by myself i need you to be present are you trying to say i'm not helpful i am not saying you are not helpful i am saying that you can be more available but you have grandma all to yourself she's there to help you please use her he doesn't get it it's okay grandma would do just fine i'll go back a few hours [Music] yes and just so you know 50 to 75 of new mothers suffer post pattern blues [Music] are you okay i can't i can't just lose anymore dad did i say something wrong she was really dead [Music] me [Music] ugh you are not a bad mom for feeling overwhelmed or insecure or clueless being a woman is hard enough being beanie mom well [Music] do [Music] [Music] uh [Music] hey [Music] john do i have to ask before you help withdrawal [Music] she [Music] wow a break a break john then i should get a what's vacation [Music] um my god [Music] on some days you feel like you're filmed [Music] [Music] i want the men to listen to me this morning it's very important that i share this with you [Music] like i said in the course of the message answer to prayer is not so much of a function of how you shout [Music] some things are not prayer points as a matter of fact some things are prerequisites to answers and it is one of such things that i'm quickly sharing with you this morning see the way you relate with your wife will determine how god will relate with you it's very important the way you relate with your wife will determine how god will relate with you the people i want to talk to or the class of men i want to speak with are men who have wives who have just delivered the baby who is currently nursing the baby it is a season where if care is not taken you who loves the person the most at the very person because of your ignorance [Music] [Music] [Music] and that's why i said i'm going to speak to you sitting back you have to be different you have to be different if you have a young child even if you have five-year-olds in your house i want all men i want us to make a change it is not easy let me say the way my wife says it i am somebody's daughter always remember that lady is somebody's daughter do something to help protect her that's not the time for you to invite people who expect her to wake up and go cook for them okay she's been breastfeeding for like three hours and then you wake up four o'clock you say have you boiled water for me to have my mother how about the baby is crying and then you carry the baby you don't understand if i sleep over the baby falls down cause the baby will not fall down tie the baby to yourself especially you don't understand my own baby if you don't care she will not stop crying you were the one that didn't do so guaranteed baby face but you don't understand i have to go to the office exactly what were you thinking embrace what embrace your responsibility is what i'm saying to the young men are some of you men listening to me you are about to step into it i speak prophetically you're about to step into it listen your preparedness perhaps they configure some things for you single men not yet in a relationship it may even determine the kind of lady you will attract god says sends his prized daughters to guys who understand what's going on those who are going to follow that we're going to treasure them [Music] so be there for her secondly this is the time for you to speak good words to her we need to understand men we are moved by what we see women are moved by what they hear this is the season for you to speak words this is uh gene hope you feel better jade i am very sorry i am so sorry for ignoring you [Music] i promise to be more sensitive [Music] i promise to be more caring [Music] and i promise to pay attention more to your needs [Music] gene i love you jade [Music] my mother i'm sorry i'm sorry [Music] awesome [Music] oh [Music] [Music] [Music] dazzling my eyes i'm tickling my senses oh you always deserve the best you weep or without bacon [Music] yes baby [Music] yes you are god's perfect gift for my life and i will always cherish that for the rest of my life i often felt like i was the clueless one but i realized i wasn't the only one yeah my car keys okay okay okay [Music] we're both learning this new life as parents together [Music] [Music] cool [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] after one or two or more you will always feel like you're clueless but it will get better you'd embrace the good days and push through the tough ones you'll stop judging yourself [Music] time [Music] do [Music] so [Music] so [Music] [Music] [Music] you

Channel: Kinsman Media

Views: 86,002

Rating: 4.9441261 out of 5

Keywords: After One, IWM2021, After One Short film, Fiyinfolu Okedare, Kinsman Media

Id: z0B1_USGIu4

Length: 34min 45sec (2085 seconds)

Published: Fri Apr 02 2021