Hello my wonderful friend Today's video
is on the seven subtle signs you are more attractive than you think. This
comes from my insights as a woman as well as my extensive research and
training as a certified coach. The most important and the most attractive sign
is the one at the end so make sure you pay close attention. Before we get
started be sure to subscribe and ring that notification bell.
My name is Melannie. I am a Christian dating coach for men. I help good guys
and get the girl of your dreams so you're gonna want to make sure you ring
that bell. Okay, have you ever known a woman who you just thought was so
gorgeous and so beautiful but she seemed to have no idea that she was
attractive? Have you ever been in that situation? It happens quite a bit, right?
As humans, that's actually a fairly common occurrence. Fun fact for you, the
same is true of men. Just like you see a beautiful woman and you realize that she
has no idea she's beautiful, we see men who are super attractive and they have
like no idea that they are attractive. The truth is, God made all of us
attractive but there are traits about ourselves that we don't notice, we're not
really aware of. And even if we're aware of them we don't know that they're
actually super attractive. So here are some subtle signs that you are more
attractive than you think. P.S. The best part about these things is
that even if you're not doing them they're really easy to start doing. So
with that, let's get started. Sign number one that you are more
attractive than you think is that you don't play hard-to-get.
If you have seen this video you know that I do not suggest having anything to
do with a woman who plays hard-to-get. If you haven't seen that video, it's a good
one, be sure to check it out through the link in the description below. The truth
is, so many people are told "Oh, play hard-to-get. You'll get her
attention and you'll make her crazy about you." The truth is, it may get her
attention, but if she is a smart, non-toxic girl it's actually not going
to leave a good impression. But, guys who do not play hard-to-get, guys who are
authentic and genuine, now that is insanely attractive. And because
so many people are taught to play hard to get,
when you don't play hard to get you stand out from the crowd.
Subtle sign and number two kind of goes hand in hand with the first one and it
is that you let her know that you like her. Now that does not necessarily mean
you like walk up to her and say "Hey, I like you." Especially if you don't know
her very well, that will freak her out. But it's just a fact that people like
people who like them, so when we know that someone likes us on any kind of a
level it is attractive to us, it automatically makes us like them better.
Now this obviously does not mean that just because someone knows you like them
that they will automatically like you back. However, someone who is going to
like you back, that is going to be insanely insanely attractive. When she
sees that you are showing her that you are interested, that you are pursuing,
that you are flirting, that is insanely attractive. Sign number three is that you
are a gentleman. If you saw this video that is going to sound familiar to you.
There is a link in the description below if you haven't seen that one. But if you
are showing respect, if you are using good manners, if you open the door, if you
give her your jacket when she's cold, things like that, all of those little
things are insanely insanely attractive. Now I know that there are a lot of
people who think chivalry is dead and it's not attractive anymore. The truth is,
unless she's a toxic woman that is insanely attractive. And since you don't
want to attract a toxic woman anyway it doesn't really matter. So if
you are making sure that you stay a gentleman and you have good manners, that
shows that you are really really attractive. Now as a little bonus tip to
go with that, if you are a gentleman to everyone not just her, that is a deal
breaker. If you only act that way with her she feels like it's just because you
want something from her. It's not so much about who you are it's just about who
you want to impress. But if she sees that you treat everyone
that way, and she's a girl so she is going to notice that, if she sees that
you just treat everyone with that kind of respect, now that, that's attractive.
Quick question before we get to sign number four.
Should I make more videos on signs you are more attractive and then you think?
The truth is, there are so many signs I had a hard time picking so I can talk
about this all day long. So if that's something you want more videos on be
sure to comment "YES!" in the comments below and I will know what to do that
for you. And sign number four is that you listen to her, that you are a good
listener, you pay attention to what she's saying. If you saw this video then again
this trait is not going to surprise you. Be sure to check out the link in the
description to watch that one. So I'm not going to go into as much detail here, but
the truth is, women need to feel listened to. It's what makes us feel special, what
it's what makes us feel important and connected to you. So if you're really
good at listening you are far more attractive than you realize. And number
five actually goes along those same lines and that is that you talk to her.
Women love to talk. That's how we connect, that's how we feel like we belong, and so
as important as listening is then replying to her and carrying on
intelligent conversations with her, that is insanely attractive. Sign number six
that you are more attractive than you think is that you are invested in living
a healthy lifestyle. I like to tease with my family and sometimes I'll say I don't
know what it is about bumping into a guy at the health food store but it is super
super attractive. And whenever I go into one I'm always like keeping my eyes
peeled and like looking around, because the truth is, that someone who is
invested in themselves, no matter what part of your health journey you are on,
as long as that person is like invested in themselves and improving, that is
insanely attractive, that says something huge about the type of person they are.
In addition to that, God just made us in such a way that as humans we are
attracted to health. So someone who is interested in
maintaining a healthy lifestyle, it shows that they're interested in being and
staying attractive. And that is just super super hot. And we are to assign
number seven, and guys, like I mentioned this one is probably the very most
attractive trait. It kind of covers all other traits and includes all other
traits, so if you have this trait everything else is going to fall into
place, it's very very effective. This trait is that you are always working to
improve. You're always trying to be the best you that you can be. Someone who
works on them and makes self improvement a priority is always going to be
attractive. They are so much more interesting than someone who doesn't and
they're always improving, obviously. How boring would a relationship be
that just like never improved and it never changed and it just kind of stayed
the same? Many people think that that type of a relationship isn't really that
bad, but the truth is, it's incredibly boring, especially after the infatuation wears off which it totally does. So after the
infatuation wears off, if there's nothing else to keep you interested and nothing
else to keep you attracted, well then that relationship becomes awful, and
that's not what you want. On the other side, someone who is always
trying to improve, no, this is not about being a perfectionist, but someone who's
just always working on them, that is insanely insanely attractive. Now
speaking of that, since you now know some of the signs you are more attractive
than you think, how would you like to know how to become way more attractive
and how to actually get the girl? Because the truth is, it doesn't matter how
attractive you are, if you don't know how to get the girl, if you fail in that
important step, well then it's not really going to work for you. I have put
together some free training for you on the three secrets you have to know to
get your dream girlfriend. Be sure to check out the link through the
description below and you can check out that free training. I know it is going to
help you so so much. Knowing the three secrets that can keep
you from getting your dream girl or get you to your dream girl is super valuable,
right? So be sure to check out that link. Thank
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free guide today. Thank you so much again at my amazing friend and have an
amazing day. [blooper beep] ...pay attention to what she's saying and actually... Pay attention [laughter] Yeah. [pause] My mind just totally went blank. I want to hear from you in the comments. If you want
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