(7 ATTITUDES of a person)who ONLY USES YOU and is DOESN'T CARE about YOU... | stoicism

welcome to this video that highlights seven behaviors that reveal a person who wants to use you without any real interest in you inauthentic relationships can be a challenge to recognize especially when we wish to believe in the goodness of others in this video we'll explore the depth of these toxic behaviors highlighting seven critical situations that scream that this person doesn't care about you and is out to use you it's time to expose the false friends in your life follow us to discover how to recognize these har ful behaviors and how to stay away from negative influences and don't forget if you want to cultivate a healthy environment and protect your energy subscribe to our Channel and learn how to identify these harmful influences our journey in understanding complex human Natures is an art that requires acute sense and experience on our journey we encounter a variety of characters some of whom enrich our lives While others harm us getting to know someone willing to use us can be a pain and is often not as straightforward as we would like how however recognizing these behaviors is the first step toward affirming our worth and setting healthy boundaries if you resonate with this content and find Value in the information shared I invite you to subscribe to receive more useful insights together we will continue to navigate wherever difficult human experiences arise analyzing and understanding the patterns of behavior and emotions around us your support is vital on this ongoing journey of Discovery and learning remember the key to healthy fruitful relationships is getting to know ourselves and working with above all respect for self and others have you ever experienced extreme frustration when you felt like you were just a ladder or a tool being used by someone dealing with inauthentic relationships can be a tough challenge especially when we wish others well however there are hidden signs and keywords left by people who only see us as as a means to achieve their personal goals in this video we will explore the depth of these toxic behaviors highlighting seven critic critical behaviors that indicate that this person does not care about you and is just using you it is time to expose the false friends in your life follow along and find out how and do not forget if you wish to cultivate a healthy environment and protect your energy subscribe to our Channel and learn how to recognize and stay away from these toxic influences in our difficult journey to understand the intersections of human nature it appears that being intuitive and gaining experience is an art on our journey we encounter a variety of characters some of whom enrich our lives and others who harm us getting to know someone who is using us can be as painful and unclear as we would like however recognizing these behaviors is the first step toward affirming our worth and setting healthy boundaries in our journey to understand intentions and build authentic relationships we find a fundamental understanding we deserve relationships that are mutual and respectful if you resonate with this content and find Value in the information shared I invite you to subscribe for for more insights like this together we will continue to explore the complexities of human interactions unravel Mysteries and better understand the behavior patterns and emotions around us your support is crucial on this ongoing journey of Discovery and learning remember the key to healthy or more enriching relationships lies in self- knowledge work and above all respect for self and others signal two exploiting selective availability in the complex interweaving of Human Relationships a second signal emerges as a prominent warning selective availability this pattern occurs when a person is readily available when they need you but strangely becomes unavailable when you are in need imagine this scenario you constantly find yourself in the role of helper fulfilling various requests whether it is offering a shoulder to lean on for emotional support fulfilling requests or freeing up your time and attention but when you find yourself in need of support or help the person's response is silence ignored messages unanswered calls or at best a quick change of topic these are the responses you receive this pattern creates a situation where the balance between giving and receiving is imbalanced you find yourself on a path with no return where your efforts and Care seem to flow in One Direction these Dynamics show not only a lack of consideration but also a willful neglect of your needs and feelings so selective availability is a mirror that reflects a painful truth the other person is only present when it suits them these one-way Dynamics provide fertile ground for feelings of frustration and resentment it turns the relationship into an unbalanced balance where one party's needs are constantly exceeded recognizing and confronting this reality is a vital step it's important to ask are we truly in a rich Mutual relationship or are we just a convenient source of satisfaction for someone else's needs this is where self-respect and self-esteem come into play forcing us to evaluate our boundaries and consider whether mutuality and respect are truly shared values in this relationship the third sign lack of detailed attention in the complex journey of Human Relationships there is a third sign that requires our attention a lack of detailed attention true friends and loyal Partners take a deep interest in our lives listen to our stories share our joy and stand by our challenges but when we deal with someone who shows a lack of personal interest the difference is clear this person devalues himself to the point where he does not ask about your day your feelings or your Ambitions he focuses is only on himself and his participation in conversation seems to be just discussions about his experiences and needs these Dynamics demonstrate a painful disconnect where a person feels that their voice and story are valuable only when it serves that person's interests your involvement in the relationship is limited to Simply being an audience for their narratives or a supplier for their needs this absence of curiosity and empathy suggests that your worth is conditional on what you can offer not who you are although this reflection is painful it is necessary for self-evaluation and maintaining your dignity it becomes necessary to ask are we in a true reciprocal relationship or are we seen as supporting characters in the theater of someone else's life fourth sign the use of guilt and manipulation in the Maze of human interactions a fourth sign appears as a mysterious indicator the use of guilt as a tool for manipulation this manipulation may be diverse in its methods but its Essence is always to persuade or even Force someone to take steps in accordance with what the manipulator wants imagine the following moment you find yourself in situations that impose hidden pressure on you to meet requests or demands the other person may subtly use your feelings playing with them as if they were toys to achieve his own goal phrases like if you were truly my friend you would do that or I would do the same to you are thrown onto the emotional Battlefield like sharp weapons aimed at exploiting your kindness and compassion the danger of these tactics lies in their Insidious nature as they often hide behind a mask of normality or Conformity it aims to make you question your perceptions and feelings gradually eroding your emotional and psychological well-being on the other hand we must realize that healthy relationships grow in an environment of trust and mutual respect with freedom of expression and attention to individual needs without fear or pressure if you find yourself trapped in these manipulative traps time and time again there is an urgent need to reevaluate it's a moment to think is this relationship sustainable or is it an opportunity to set healthier boundaries fifth sign constant respect and lack of detail in the Mosaic of relationships a persistent lack of respect manifests itself as a clear warning of wrongdoing respect which is the way to go in any kind of relationship must be constant a true friend or loyal companion shows this respect through actions that reflect mutual appreciation however the person who is abusing you tends to ignore these boundaries imagine yourself in recurring situations where your plans are canceled at the last minute the other person is late or doesn't even show up at all there always appears to be an expectation that you have to fit into an unpunctual schedule and habits this constant pattern of neglecting your needs and time clearly indicates that this person devalues the relationship these behaviors when viewed as a group create a behavioral pattern that reflects selfishness and lack of thinking however we must realize I that mistakes are part of humanity we all at times act selfishly what distinguishes someone who is exploiting you is that these behaviors continue over the long term without acknowledging it or seeking to change it as we move forward on this journey of deciphering the details of Human Relationships self-awareness and self-affirmation are powerful tools they protect us from manipulation being aware of these signals and understanding how to deal with them is vital the sixth sign superficial connections and their destructive effects in the complex fabric of Human Relationships a sixth sign clearly appears to reveal itself superficial connections this signal is particularly malicious where you hide the true nature of the relationship the person who is taking advantage of you tends to avoid making a deep moral connection this behavior is manifested by Rare interactions that go beyond the surface in this type of relationship conversations usually revolve around trivial topics and they avoid discussing deeper or more personal topics ICS these people keep their secrets and tightly control their emotions this invisible barrier prevents relational development to a deeper level of trust and Brotherhood the relationship feels like it's trapped in a constant state of launching where even after a long time you realize that you don't really know this person behind a superficial facade this is a clear sign that this person does not consider the relationship important nor a path towards a true sharing of experiences and emotions this invisible disconnect shows shows the relationship in a constant state of elementary school where even after a long time has passed you realize that you don't really know this person behind The Superficial facade this superficial awareness is an important indicator of the health of your emotional relationship it is an invitation to reflect on the value and depth of your relationships challenging this sign asks you to consider are we investing our time and energy in Fertile ground capable of nurturing Mutual growth or are we clinging to the shadows of connection that do not materialize into something more solid the seventh sign absence in moments of testing on our journey to explore the depths of Human Relationships the seventh sign appears with bright Clarity absence in moments of testing the essence of a healthy relationship is often revealed not in the quiet beautiful times but in our darkest days it is during those difficult periods whether due to illness the loss of a loved one or intense life stressors that the relationship is tested and takes on the quality quity of being the seventh sign appears clearly in those crucial moments that carry the burden of emotions and challenges the person who is taking advantage of you is conspicuously absent not showing up to support you or provide emotional support when you need it sometimes you may find yourself facing challenges alone while the other person stays in the background he may avoid offering help or emotional attention leaving you feeling alone and isolated in those difficult moments this Behavior reveals a lack of willingness to share responsibilities and bear difficulties together this absence in testing moments highlights important aspects of the relationship is it truly a relationship built on Mutual support and commitment or are they merely superficial bonds that can be shattered by the slightest vibration in these moments we have to think seriously about the value of real relationships and how to provide support in times of need only when both parties are committed to building strong Bridges can a relationship withstand life's challenges and thrive in the face of difficulties the eighth sign negative change in the world of Human Relationships the eighth sign manifests itself as an indicator of negative change when a person's Behavior towards you turns negative there should be an alarm bell ringing in your mind this change can manifest itself in different forms such as being dismissive of your feelings being intentionally ignored or even turning to more negative behavior there could be a change in the quality of communication between you shifting from a friendly or loving relationship ship to a cold or even hostile interaction this shift can be clearly seen in his words and actions as he becomes less eager to show interest or positive interaction it is also important to be aware of the change in the pattern of interaction between you as it may shift from sharing Joys and challenges to repeatedly engaging in clashes and disputes if you feel that there is a negative shift in the general nature of the relationship this calls for serious thinking and checking the level of commitment and communication between the two parties in these moments the challenge is to restore balance and open communication to understand the source of negative change and work to correct the course toward a healthy positive relationship ninth sign mysterious fluctuations in viewing relationships the ninth sign is clearly visible as a red dot volatile behavior when the other person is inconsistent in their behavior and interactions this can be a sign of instability in the relationship you may find yourself in frequent situations where a person fluctuates between positive and negative actions unexpectedly he may show interest and enthusiasm one moment then turn into neglect and recklessness the next this erratic Behavior can create a feeling of confusion and uncertainty as it is difficult to predict a person's next reaction consistency and balance in actions are two important pillars in building a healthy relationship when there is consistency in actions and interactions the parties in the relationship can develop more stable and trusting communication let's continue to explore relationship signs and how to build a strong foundation for healthy relationships keep watching to discover more sign 10 feeling drained at the end of the journey to understanding the mystery of relationships the 10th sign clearly appears feeling depleted when you find yourself expending your energy and time without receiving the equivalent support and attention this should be a wakeup call the person who uses you may constantly draw energy from you but does not provide the care and support you need there may be frequent feelings of emotional and physical exhaustion as you find yourself giving too much without receiving the same response or attention this feeling of depletion indicates a lack of balance in the relationship the relationship should be a sustainable exchange where both parties contribute their efforts and support each other when giving is disproportionate to receiving this becomes a sign of instability in the relationship these 10 signals form an interactive map for understanding interfacial conditions each sign acts as an indicator of the need to re-evaluate and reflect on the relationship it forces you to look deeper into the nature of interconnection and whether it is helping your personal growth and happiness or whether it is putting a negative burden on your life if you find yourself in a relationship where these signs appear the first step may be an open and honest dialogue with the other party talk about your feelings and needs and see their reactions and response if you're not seeing Improvement or cooperation in the direction of a healthy relationship it may be time to rethink its place in your life ultimately healthy relationships are based on mutual respect Mutual support and shared commitment the success of a relationship is linked to its ability to provide a safe and supportive environment for the individuals involved enjoy watching more content on healthy relationships and how to build them on our Channel

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Length: 15min 51sec (951 seconds)

Published: Tue Dec 26 2023