6 Ways men regret losing the women they rejected

when a man breaks up with a woman or lost interest while they were dating then disappears ignores her within weeks or months later he's back like a boomerang sometimes pretending nothing happened I wasn't ignoring you I'm just not a man of many words don't women like the strong silent type or even better I know I left I know I was ignoring you but I just realized how important you are to me I want you back I regret losing you I wish I would have seen that earlier yeah that's what the captain of the Titanic said as well after hitting the iceberg he probably wished he saw that one earlier too it's too late the damage is done and this happens often men finally seeing how much they like a certain woman especially right around the moment where that woman decides to finally move on then some men suddenly see the light they get an epiphany they realize how important she is to them they want her back and sometimes they will even claim they will do anything to get her back finally The Love Story can continue or can it because in general this raise her alarm level just as much as When someone knocks on her door at 4am so at least a little bit if she didn't just order a pizza in the middle of the night why do men come back after losing interest first what are they thinking when they do this do they really regret losing her then now some women do this to men as well of course and the first questions we should always ask ourselves when a love interest does a 180 or should we believe what they are telling us what are their true intentions and why should we care that's the most important question so let's talk about it my name is I'm an author I also use the pen name Brian Knox and here's the thing if someone doesn't see our value when we are present when we are dating them or when we have a relationship together it really doesn't matter how valuable they suddenly think we are when we are absent and sure absence makes the heart grow fonder and we should give each other space of course but if someone doesn't see our value when we are present it doesn't matter how great they suddenly think we are when we are absent because also when someone comes back they're not doing that for us of course they're doing it for themselves perhaps they suddenly feel lonely perhaps they regret they left us sometimes because now they have nobody they can treat badly and yes that's a thing for some people or they just want to get physical or the grass wasn't greener on the other side after all and so on now it's also important to know that sometimes when a man comes back it is indeed because he he regrets his decision to break up with the woman he broke up with but that's not always a good thing it doesn't mean he's suddenly going to treat her right if he didn't treat her right before and sure he might put in efforts for a day or a week or two if she's lucky but he will usually go back to his old patterns it doesn't really matter whether a man regrets losing you or not of course what truly matters is how he treated you before and one of the bad reasons why a man may regret losing you and may come back is a bit controversial but it's the following when a man is in a relationship with a woman that may give him the confidence that he can easily get a girlfriend or sleep with a woman so because his current girlfriend may adore him may put him on a pedestal may think he's all that he may start believing it too of course so he then gets confident and perhaps a bit cocky and says great now I can climb the ladder a lot of women probably want me so he breaks up with her goes out into the dating pool you know where the other fish in the sea are but perhaps nobody bites or the women he would bite swim away or torpedo him what a reality check again that's why I said if someone doesn't see our value when they are with us it really doesn't matter they suddenly see it after the breakup it's too late they are back for the wrong reasons they want something or someone else but just couldn't find it that's why they are back and I'll give good reasons why a man may regret losing you and may come back in a minute but let's stick with the bad ones first because they are really important here's another one some people will be looking for things in life that they cannot find so they are always drifting they cannot stay in the same spot for long they always want new things different things and they won't just do that in their romantic relationships but probably everywhere in their life and there's nothing wrong with that but that can be a bit hard for relationships so in this case a guy is single and besides he's ready to mingle he finds a girlfriend he enjoys the girlfriend experience for a while but then he starts to miss the freedom he had when he was single so obviously he just follows his emotions without thinking breaks up with his girlfriend is single and then figures out that being able to decide what movie you are going to watch without having to ask the opinion of someone else being able to meet up with whomever he wants whenever he wants isn't as great as he thought it would be so he's now single but ready to mingle again and at first he will probably try to test some new Ventures to date new women he never dated before but if that is unsuccessful or if the new globe breaks his heart or doesn't give him the attention or validation he needed guess who will get a so how have you been text message right the girl who shouldn't take him back now this last thing can happen often with Drifters people that always need something different something new the new girl then breaks their heart or isn't adoring them like they hope she would and then they go back to where it's safe and that's usually an x one more bad reason and then I'll give you a good one the biggest reason why men come back or seem interested again especially when you decide to finally move on is scarcity at that moment you are no longer available and that makes him believe that your value goes up and as I explained in other videos that's truly how the human mind works for women and men when something becomes hard to get we may want it more just because it's no longer available now if you then add his male ego on top of that scarcity then you create fireworks but the bad kind be aware of this if someone comes back right at the moment where we move on they probably shouldn't deserve another chance they have had their chance now here's a good reason why a man may come back in this case he was respectful he treated his girlfriend well but he wasn't ready for anything serious so they break up and then after many months of working on himself of dealing with issues he clearly still had to deal with he says he's finally ready for the next step now if this happens then this probably will not be ego driven then but it's still risky of course it's always better to start a relationship with someone who was ready for us from the start or who didn't have to change their mind in the first place there's a bit of a controversial reason why a man may regret losing a woman and may come back sometimes even years later because what also happens is that some men that broke up with a woman we'll have different girlfriends after her will mature mentally as well so the years go by and then years later they finally realize that the right woman for them might have been one they left many years before and that's often because with their maturity they start valuing different things when they were in their 20s and 30s chemistry and looks were always on the top of that list in their 40s they finally realized that personality and compatibility and having the same goals in life are so much more important and in some cases they may then reach out to a girlfriend they had many years before here's a tricky reason why men may come back after leaving a woman first they have the wrong memory of the relationship after a breakup some people will only remember the bad things that happened in that relationship but other people start to focus on all the good things and only the good things so men may think about the romantic moments or how fun it was to work out together especially inside the bedroom or Great Vacations they had together but they totally forget about everything that led to the breakup so they come back and want to give it another try which in this case may not be a good idea of course because the things that led to the breakup will usually still be present now there is an exception sometimes we meet the right person at the wrong time and then if the time truly becomes right in the future it may be a good idea to give it another try now if you are on the receiving end of a man that suddenly decides he wants you back what should you look out for well first of all all of the bad reasons I just gave but second try to take your time you will need to know what his motives are and what his true intentions are and therefore you need time is he back because he's lonely is he black because he misses the bedroom activities has he truly changed here's the thing if he's back for the wrong reasons then he will usually give up quickly so let's say you have a date with him and he wants the chill part of Netflix and chill but you say no no I really just want to watch Netflix how long does he stick around and not just that evening but in general remember he's on probation he doesn't get the full package and all of this is not to make him work hard for it it's just to let time pass because if he's serious he will still be there a couple of weeks later that's an important rule in general when a man isn't serious about a woman his words may not reveal his true intentions because he may be manipulating her but his actions will and even those may not immediately reveal his true intentions but if you add time into the mix then they will when someone comes back we cannot just pick up where we left off this is a new chapter we will have to go slow and give it time and try to be as rational as possible does it make sense to get back together rationally have we both changed are the reasons of the first loss of Interest or the breakup still relevant are they still present or have we both grown enough for them to no longer matter those are really important questions and time will help you to answer them and there you go I hope you found value in this video as always there is more in my books on Amazon or on my website briannox.com I want to thank you for sticking around until the very end of this video I always say that but that's because I really love it when you do that and I hope to see you in another video

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Length: 9min 51sec (591 seconds)

Published: Tue Apr 11 2023