- [Narrator] Hey, Pscyh2Goers,
welcome back to our channel. Are you an introvert? Extrovert? Are you an introvert who's curious about what qualities
might be more compatible with your introverted self? Or maybe you're an extrovert
who has an introverted partner? What might they need from
you in a relationship? Well, here are six things
introverts need in a partner. Number one, someone who is
comfortable with silence. Sweet silence. Is there anything quite like it? To some extroverts, silence
can be intimidating or awkward, but introverts don't always wanna spend their time talking. Sometimes just being in the
same room as their partner makes them feel happy and connected. So while you may be having
a cozy dinner together, don't worry if there's a long pause while eating your delightful cuisine. They might just not feel
like talking at the moment, but value spending time with you. Or the food's just really good. Less talk, more eating. Number two, a good listener. Are you a good listener? Who doesn't love someone
who can be there for them when they need to vent or
are having a tough day? Some active listening and
reassurance can go a long way, especially for introverts. Why do introverts value great listeners? Well, since they don't often open up to strangers or acquaintances, they spend most of their time talking with their closest
friends and loved ones, especially their partners. Introverts can spend a great
deal of time in their head, coming up with interesting
ideas and theories. Who are they going to
tell these theories to? If they tell anyone, it's likely that it's
going to be a loved one or their partner, which
is where you come in. Both of you can listen and share your thoughts with each other. And if there's a bit of
silence afterward, no problem. Number three, someone
who values quality time. Do you enjoy quality time? Introverts may just wanna spend some of their days with
you doing simple things, and really getting to
know you in the process. Perhaps you'll both go on a walk together, or have a calm day of shopping
and browsing the markets. A simple evening hanging
out with your family and good old uncle Joe. Perhaps you'll spend your mornings having tea and baking biscuits. Good combo. Whatever it is you do, the simple quality time together can be just as good as the
exciting and busy days out. Number four, someone who
understands personal space and alone time. Do you enjoy your alone time? As much as you may love your partner, sometimes you just gotta be alone. Introverts often need
time alone to recharge. Their energy can sometimes
get drained quickly when socializing with others, or spending more time in crowded groups. So in return, perhaps at
the end of a long day, they just need some time
to unwind and relax. If you notice they wanna
spend some time alone in their room one day and are wondering if you did something wrong,
ask yourself this first. Did you recently do something
that may have upset them, or are they just being an introvert? Who doesn't love some peaceful time alone? Ah, recharging. Number five, a love
for deep conversations. Who needs small talk? To an introvert, small
talk can be a great bore. It's not great, but it is greatly boring. It may make them simply feel a bit awkward having to force a bit of small talk when someone initiates the dreaded, can you believe this weather? Instead, they value the
deeper conversations they have with their partner. Talk about your ideas, your goals, what you enjoyed about that
film, that book, that trip. Don't be afraid to hold back
the inner thoughts of your mind that keep you restless in
the wee hours of the night. Let them out. You may find you both have
something else in common. So if you're not often looking
to talk about deeper things than the weather, then, well, you may have a stormy relationship ahead. (narrator chuckles) See what I did there? No? Oh. And number six, someone who
can take things slow at first. When you start a relationship, do you wanna take things slow? Some relationships move fast. One minute you're exchanging numbers, the next you're moving in together and introducing them to
your old uncle named Joe. Why is Joe always around? Introverts may simply need
more time to open up to others. They wanna feel comfortable
in your presence before opening up about
what truly makes them them. So go on a few casual fun
dates, hang out together, get to know each other. And in due time, you may
just be moving in together and meeting good old uncle Joe. So do you have a crush on an introvert? Are you an introvert? What is it that you look for in a partner? Let us know in the comments. We wanna hear from you. Just not about the weather. Yeah, we get it. It's raining. Although, I do love the rain. We hope you enjoyed this video. And if you did, don't forget
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