6 Signs You’re Bottling Up Your Emotions

[Music] hey psych2goers thank you so much for the ongoing love and support you've given us psyctico's mission is to make psychology and mental health more accessible to everyone and you help us do that now let's start the video have you ever put dry ice in a bottle as the co2 turns into gas the bottle gradually expands with pressure until with a sudden pop the bottle explodes and bottling dry ice is exactly like bottling up your emotions there's a time limit before the metaphorical bottle explodes and it can be hard to release the pressure the first step in properly processing your emotions is to recognize that you're closing yourself off from them so here are six signs you're bottling up your emotions one you rarely yell or cry but you can erupt over small issues let's say your partner drops a cup and breaks it while washing the dishes and you suddenly feel your blood boiling with this overwhelming anger your outburst over this relatively minor issue can be a sign of deeper more suppressed troubles in your relationship or personal life in a study by the university of texas researchers had one group of subjects watch horrifyingly disgusting film scenes while suppressing any reaction or emotion they felt afterwards the first group was significantly more aggressive than the second group of subjects who were allowed to express themselves the study published in social psychological and personality science shows how bottling up your emotions can actually make them more powerful two you distract yourself whenever you start to feel uneasy do you find yourself mindlessly scrolling through instagram or guilty binge watching hours of the good place a telltale sign of suppressing your emotions is avoidance you engage in self-destructive behaviors like drinking or smoking you try to escape by watching tv playing video games or even oversleeping in order to avoid thinking about how you feel three you feel like you're a different person around others than you are by yourself bottling up your emotions can create a divide between who you think you are and how others see you you might feel exhausted anxious or jaded in private but your friends may see you as confident and calm in fact you may even be the clown of your friend group if you avoid expressing yourself you may feel like you have two separate faces and that no one truly knows you perhaps you're not sure yourself who you are as activist bryant mcgill states to know yourself is to love yourself and to welcome and love all the emotions that come with you or you often feel uncomfortable around highly emotional people if you suppress yourself you might think that crying or screaming is embarrassing or bad but more subtly you'll just feel uncomfortable around highly emotional people who visibly express their emotions you might struggle with how to react or how to offer comfort to them in their time of distress especially if emotions hold a sort of stigma and pain for you personally five you experience life from a third person perspective maybe you're at the mall with your friends and everyone is laughing and joking around but you feel as if you're observing the fun rather than fully engaging in it you feel distant from others you may also find intimacy difficult and have only a few close friends by bottling up your emotions you distance yourself from how you feel it makes not only anger and sadness harder to express but also expressing happiness and joy and six you avoid confrontation and never address the cause of your emotions perhaps you feel powerless over your own life you're unable to think deeply about your emotions nor can you talk to others about how they make you upset even if you bottle your emotions you can still feel angry and sad but instead of finding the cause of the negativity you numb yourself to the pain you fear any sort of confrontation and you avoid your emotions just like you avoid emotional people psychologist perpetua neo explains that emotions shouldn't be so fear inducing they exist for a reason in fact she calls them our first intel in a war because they're often a sign that something is wrong and needs fixing you can learn to let in your emotions and use them to identify changes that need to be made in your life so did you recognize any of these signs in yourself and how you connect with others if you enjoyed watching this video give us a thumbs up and share it with someone who might find it helpful too the studies and references mentioned in this video are in the description don't forget to hit the subscribe button and the notification bell icon for more sectional content and as always thanks for watching and we'll see you soon

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Keywords: bottled emotions, depression, anxiety, mental health, emotional health, psychology, psych2go, repressed emotions, feeling, feelings, emotion, emotions, signs of depression, stress, mental illness, emotionally numb, emotional numbness, numbness, emotional pain, feeling helpless, fake smile, smiling depression, suppressed emotions, process emotions, deal with emotions, emotional, psych2go depression, depressed, numb, feeling numb, bottling emotions

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Length: 5min 5sec (305 seconds)

Published: Wed Jul 29 2020

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