5 Attractive Habits Taylor Swift Uses On Everyone She Meets | Classic Charm

Taylor Swift is one of the most famous musicians songwriters musical artists ever ever lived in the whole world and it's not just because of her music it's also because of her personality there's a reason why millions and Mill and probably billions of people are obsessed with her she's a polarizing person not everybody loves her but that's also what makes a Charming person you can't be a Charming person and be 100 liked by everybody and so right now you're about to find out exactly what makes Taylor Swift so Charming in this episode of classic charm so on this series on this channel what my life's work is all about is learning what makes somebody charming and using it for my own life and also teaching it to you so you could take it into your life let's say for instance you're an aspiring musician or an aspiring actor maybe you just want to have better social skills for going to parties and socializing with your friends my goal in life is to teach the people that have that potential for charm to learn that charm and become the most because I just love I love Charming people I want I want more of them to be around as a social skills and relationship coach over the past 15 plus years I have attempted to break down exactly what makes a person charming and I've come up with nine points here they are I have not found anything that does not fit into this list that makes a person Charming you have to have all these things in order to be Charming now with Taylor just watching her videos and just knowing her for so many years I believe there are five main things that make her Charming that I'm gonna teach to you today now first and foremost Taylor Swift is a songwriter she's an artist she's a musician and she's super passionate about that and what I have found you guessed it in every freaking Charming person in the world they all are passionate about at least one thing like passion do you know what passion means it doesn't just mean oh I like to do this it means like I'm obsessed with this I can't think about anything else except for this and for Taylor as we know that is songwriting when she was young she tells a story of how she aspired to be a songwriter and the things that she did to get there at some point when I was about 10 years old I was watching TV and I was watching a special about Faith Hill It talked about how she went to Nashville that's the moment that I realized that Nashville is where you need to be if you want to sing country music and from that point on I thought about nothing but getting to Nashville and dreamed about it and imagined in my head what it looked like and how it would be when you finally got there and so every day I would beg my parents just obnoxiously non-stop we need to go to Nashville please just let's take a trip to Nashville I just want to go to Nashville so bad on spring break can we go to Nashville and eventually when I was 11 years old we took my first trip to Nashville we had heard about this place called Music Row which is where all the record labels are and we drove up and down music row and I had this little demo city of me singing karaoke music my mom would pull up outside one of the record labels and I would run in and talk to the receptionist and say hi I'm Taylor I'm 11. I want a record deal call me growing up in Pennsylvania and wanting to pursue country music those are two different things uh I remember uh you know when I went through this period of time when I didn't really have that many friends at school kids would just Heckle me and at that point it just dawned on me that I had to love being different or else I was just gonna end up being dark and angry I definitely was more nervous walking into my first day of my freshman year of high school than I was walking up to record labels and handing them my CD I just was so much more comfortable playing a show in front of thousands of people or sitting in a conference room with music industry Executives than I was playing at my high school talent show and think about it every Charming person that you've met they've probably been super jazzed about something when you talk to them they were like so into something they wanted to show you it they wanted to teach you it they wanted to learn more about it and that's what makes these Charming people alluring you meet them and there's just this magic around them it's because they have an electricity for life and we cannot go any further without acknowledging that about Taylor Swift I mean just watch her in the studio right here for the first time presenting her song Lover to her producer and friend Jack Antonoff look at her face look at how excited she is to show this new thing that she made lover yeah I love the walk down I love the walk down I was trying to figure out like what the hell is going to happen there so the so much better [Music] so if you're looking to be charming and you don't have passion in your life you're not obsessed with something you don't get excited about life because this is with you because you get to do this that's the first thing that you should be focusing on now the next reason why Taylor Swift is so damn Charming is well it's another part of what makes people Charming which is making people feel special Taylor Swift and all Charming people have this unique ability that when anybody's in front of them they make that person feel like the most important person on Earth the most special person on Earth can I say that in Hannah like I literally wanted to learn how to fight after I saw that movie I'll teach you if you want yes it's so good and you carried that whole movie it was like just you and so much of the movie oh fantastic thanks yeah it's a bit of a loving for you twice tonight so we're winners too really well thank you you're so you're very Charming thank you should we date yeah thank you so I believe that you are a bit of a single Pringle at the moment like myself Pam that's an amazing two words to rhyme together single Pringle I like did you invent that I'm going to say yes I think you should take credit for that I'm going to play in that one you're amazing with Rhymes really good have you made one of my name yet are you working on it still well I was thinking Tate my name's Rachel so Ray Wright that's an amazing couple name you look like a supermodel you see and then there's no one that says a bad word about you um can you tell me something just to make me feel better about myself like do you eat in bed or do you do something talking about you are so gorgeous it's hard to talk to you don't even do that little cheekbones I love the cheekbones I don't have the cheekbones she also makes whatever situation she's in feel like it's the best situation so let's say you're in high school right you know that there's popular people there's less popular people whatever you want to call them whatever however you want to categorize them Charming people it does not matter who they are with they could be with the least popular person in school and they will make that person feel like the most important person in the world and they will also make that experience that situation whatever situation they're in with them seem like it is the best situation Charming people wherever they go it's the best situation and I want you to watch Taylor she does this exact same thing and whenever she's of people that she knows she also has this amazing ability to pull out what's beautiful about them and describe it in just the best way in a way where it makes you go damn I wanna I wanna meet this person too do you have any advice for Jonathan you're a first time host uh this week uh well I I met him and I just want to say he seems like one of the coolest people on Earth yeah I think that everyone needs to watch and just like he's amazing I mean his work is obviously so incredible and I'm a big fan but meeting him you just get such a good very real very like nor abnormally talented normal personality yes those people are unicorn special yes it's a it's a very very nice couple special people you're hearing this interview with Seth Meyers even just the way that she reaches out and touches Seth and just thanks him for complimenting her the way that she does it you could just tell that she wants to make him feel appreciated or when she was on this Night Show with Jimmy Fallon and Jimmy Fallon mentioned this like cats game then night name 10 cats or whatever she like exploded we were actually thinking can you name see how many cats you can name in 30 seconds and just do it she wanted to show Jimmy how excited she was for this idea that he had she wanted to make him feel like wow Taylor really enjoyed appreciated this experience whenever you hear people talk about like Charming people that died they're always like oh they lit up the route whatever room they walked into they lit up the room right that's a Charming person when Taylor goes into a room she has that energy she lights up the room she makes everybody feel so special she makes every situation feel like whatever that situation is right there it's the best there's no other situation other than this one right here this next Mark of charm that tailored 100 has like this is so so so obvious and apparent part of her personality you might not like them but John Mayer said it best about Taylor Swift Taylor is the world's biggest star who doesn't know she's a star so it's weird to get her tweets where she's like oh my God who knew I just won like 1901 works in the same show and it's like Taylor Swift is the last person to know she's Taylor Swift apparently so which I think is totally sweet you know I think it's totally sweet to uh I think it's nice for America to watch somebody appreciate it's almost like Taylor Swift is a character in a movie about a small town girl who has her dreams come true and what any small town girl would do when their dreams come true which is to freak out and I still like it that she freaks out but pretty soon she's going to have to stop because it's sort of like you're that good yeah you're that good you might have to go to therapy and have someone else tell you you're that good you know so it's great to have someone who's hugely talented and still is able to receive the pleasure in in all moments because I'm dead inside so what does that mean Taylor Swift is down to earth I have never seen Taylor act arrogant act like she's too cool for school she's always humbling herself and she's always lifting everyone else up she's never acting entitled to what she gets she wins an award she's like are you like even if it's like her fifth Grammy she's never acting like yeah of course I'm the best she's down to earth this is what all Charming people possess there there is not one Charming person in the world that acts like they're better than anybody else I even see it in her body language she's tall she does this kind of like hunch thing I know what she's doing like she's basically trying to show like hey I'm not some Superstar like I don't want you to think of me that way that makes her so relatable that makes her so welcoming it makes you feel comfortable interacting with her Charming people never try to make anybody feel like intimidated they never try to make you feel like Oh I'm a celebrity and you are the fan right I'm a celebrity and you're my waiter no no no no no no she is always lowering herself not like not on herself right I'm not talking about making herself look bad I'm saying not trying to look better than others she literally does this with every single person I've ever seen her interact with ever next Taylor Swift owns who she is she's not afraid of being herself she's proud of herself she loves loves who she is and that is such a huge part of being Charming so as down to earth as you are that doesn't mean that you don't like yourself that doesn't mean that you're not proud of who you are that you don't love who you are all Charming people are like this she knows she's a cat lady she's not hiding that she's a cat lady yeah here's another thing she doesn't shy away from talking about her dating past she says the media just shits on me because I had a normal dating life in my 20s whereas men would be celebrated for all the people that they dated I am if I could talk to my 19 year old self I'd just say hey you're gonna date just like a normal 20-something should be allowed to but you're going to be a national lightning rod for shaming she's not apologetic about anything about herself she owns everything because she likes herself she loves herself It's Not a Bad Thing To Love Yourself In fact I don't believe that you could truly love others until you love yourself first now this reminds me of what makes a confident person most people are taught that being confident is about comparison oh I'm better than them so I feel good about myself I feel better like I am better than these people that makes me feel good confidence by comparison but the problem is there's always if you're doing the comparison thing there's always going to be people objectively better than you you're never gonna get to a place where you are just the best person in the world that's just not real true confidence is about loving yourself and loving everyone around you loving every moment that you're in because every moment that you're in and everyone around you is part of your life your life so if you don't love them if you don't love every situation you're in if you don't love your body if you don't love your personality your voice your face then you are not truly confident now am I gonna say that all confident people are just like absolutely absolutely 100 percent in love with themselves and their situation at all time no listen everybody is working on themselves growing everybody's trying to get better but it's that journey of believing you could love yourself believing you could love every situation you're in believing that you could love every person that is sitting in front of you at any given moment that is what confidence is about now as I say all the time in these videos charm is about balance and that's why there are two marks of charm that are kind of opposite from each other one is basically being polite being cordial and we know Taylor has that in Spades she is extremely polite she has that kind of like Southern I know she's from Pennsylvania but she kind of has that like Southern politeness wherever she goes but at the same time and this is important about charm there's a balance there's always a yin to the Yang and Taylor definitely has this one too she is rebellious I think the best example of this is the fact that Taylor Swift did something that no I think no other recording artist has ever done ever so if you don't know the way the music business works if you are on like a record label a big record label they own your songs so if you write a song and you put it out you don't own that that's not yours that's the contract that you sign it's kind of like making a deal with the devil you get famous you lose control you lose ownership of your babies of what you've made and there's that trade-off Taylor got to a place where she said listen I'm not okay with this I don't believe this is the way the music industry should work and she re-recorded all of her music and she actually made a deal with some platforms like iHeartRadio that they will only play the music that Taylor re-recorded not her old stuff that the label Zone what else did she do for some time she publicly left Spotify she did not like the way that Spotify was paying its artists she wrote a letter talking about how she will not do business with companies that are not treating their artists right once again she's break taking barriers she's doing things that no other artist has ever done in the history of the music industry this is Big Stuff This is rebellious stuff but Taylor does it with class I want you to kind of look at the difference between how Taylor Swift Rebels and does things versus how Kanye West when he Rebels he doesn't do it with class and why because he doesn't balance out that rebelliousness being cordial being polite to others he Rebels and he disrespects that's not charm look at the way Taylor Rebels she does it with class she's polite she's cordial she's thoughtful while she Rebels that's charm I'm still someone who is the first to apologize when I'm wrong but I think I'm better at standing up for myself when I've been wronged so that's something that I think also comes with growing up now I do these classic charm videos every two weeks if you want me to cover a certain person you gotta put it in the comments the most upvoted the top comments there are the ones that I'm going to be considering the most if you want to learn more about how to be a confident happy attractive person I just wrote a new book it's called the god pill this is the thing that I've been working on for the past 10 years of my life I believe every single person that wants to be happy confident and attractive in their lives should read this we don't learn confidence by comparison we don't learn confidence by shallow means of like getting lots of money and actually this book breaks down why people talk about you need to be famous you need to have a lot of money you need to have six-pack abs in order to be attractive in order to be confident and happy you can get it free on skillshare in the link below and you could also get it in audiobook form 2 video book form hard copy soft copy and you can also get it as an ebook thank you so much I'm so appreciative that you're watching my video I just love that I get to do this for you so thank you so much for watching [Music] [Music]

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Published: Wed Nov 23 2022