450: Going Through a Transition? The 8 Stages Of Your Soul’s Purpose - The Dharma Evolution

[Music] and welcome back to the highest self podcast a place we discuss what makes you your soul's highest involvement and before we get into this week's episode i am so excited to share that i am offering a free sample class from the dharma coaching institute curriculum especially for those of you who are interested you're curious but you want to get a little microdose of the experience and this is our master class all about the energetics of sales so if you're someone that really wants to create a business for yourself coaching maybe one day you see yourself writing books launching a podcast speaking on stages but the whole like sales and marketing part feels really overwhelming well this master class is for you i dive into reframing what making an offer really is about which is actually making an offering and allow you to see that a lot of the limiting beliefs that we have around sales comes from the fact that most sales in the past have been around things that we don't actually need think a used car which actually is a lemon but when we are offering our gifts as a coach we are helping someone step into the highest version of themselves which truly is the greatest offering that we can do so we don't need to have that same shame or weirdness around it but we can actually see it for the gift that it is so if you're curious you want to dive deeper into this topic and experience a sample class of dharma coaching institute you can head over to my show notes and try the master class right now also i'm so excited to announce that doors are officially open for drama coaching institute for our october class so once you download the sample class you'll get all the details to join us for our early bird special this month i'm so excited to see you inside [Music] if it's your first time listening welcome i'm sahara i'm a best-selling author host of this podcast and founder of the dharma coaching institute that trains soul purpose and spiritual life coaches and i'm super excited to really dive into the topic of sole purpose in this conversation if you're not aware i recently wrote a book called discover your dharma which is all about stepping into your soul's purpose so in this episode i want to talk about how that purpose can actually evolve and transition over time and in fact how that is a sign that you are in alignment so first you're going to hear me say the word dharma what is dharma so your dharma is essentially the big reason why you are here and it's more than just what you do but rather it is the frequency that you carry so i host this podcast but i wouldn't say my entire dharma my soul's purpose is just to host this podcast but rather this podcast is a medium through which i live out my purpose and i can also do so through writing books through sharing on social media through djing through dancing through hosting goddess circles and rose gold goddesses through teaching and so much more so this really is a more expanded view around our purpose i feel like in our western society we're so hyper focused on purpose as in our career thinking our purpose needs to be this thing that we do as our jobs and for some reason that's for some people that's actually not going to be the case some people actually like to keep their purposes as things that are very sacred to them that they never end up monetizing and for other people they want to focus on their purpose full time so they need to figure out a way to monetize it so they can devote their full days and all of their attention towards this thing and both of them are beautiful paths that you can take and ones that i share in my book discover your dharma so in this episode i want to share with you this this idea this concept that i essentially came up with after the book came out called the dharma evolution and the reason this came to be is because i found myself questioning even what my dharma was and i'm like i literally wrote the book discover your dharma how am i questioning this but i realized that my dharma was shifting and evolving as i finished this very big role of my dharma which was to write the book but there's so much more to me you know there's this side of me that wants to explore myself through being a mystic and writing poetry and being in my artist there's a side of me that loves to create experiences through people through djing through hosting events retreats so there are all these other multi-dimensional aspects of my being that were not just encompassed under the role of being an author and a teacher so i realized that that didn't mean that my dharma is done or it failed but rather it meant that it evolved and one of my gifts is i'm able to notice patterns so i look at life and i notice what are the patterns that i see continually occurring so i essentially broke down these different stages of the dharma evolution into eight stages that i'll share with you on this episode that i go way more deeply into in dharma coaching institute and the purpose of this podcast is to allow you to first of all see which of these stages that you were in but even greater than that to give yourself permission to evolve because many of you listening you may have had careers that you were very enthusiastic about for years but right now you're feeling a shift you're feeling like there's more to you there's this aspect of you that you haven't quite yet explored and you don't know where it's taking you and i'm going to guess because you listen to this podcast there's a spiritual side to you you're probably that friend that people come to and they're seeking guidance you probably are naturally diving into personal development and spiritual growth and astrology and human design and herbology and past lives and ancestral healing and these types of things are actually fun for you you want to dive into them and maybe you've been diving into them for a while but you feel the next step is how can i share this with others particularly with people who have been where i have been before so maybe you are a mom of young children and you know what it's like to feel overwhelmed and burnt out and like you're giving everything and you've learned how self-care can be such a radical tool to reclaim your sovereignty and that's what you want to share with others or maybe you were a pharmacist that never believed in anything natural until you experienced health challenges and that caused you to look more deeply into the foods you were eating and dive into herbs and naturopathic alternative holistic ayurvedic medicine that's what you want to share with other people who have experienced similar issues to you so our dharmas really aren't outside of us but they come in that integration of what we love with what we've learned so your dharma is the integration of what you love you're obsessed with you're googling you want to have conversations about you can do this all day and what i've learned what did i learn from my past experiences whether it was a challenge a health scare a breakup a move a breakdown and now how can i integrate the two and as we move through life this is going to evolve this is not set in stone but rather you're going to learn different things you're going to love different things and the point of the compass is going to continue to move with you so your dharma is not set in stone it's not a one-time process or understanding but rather it is a lifelong evolution so let's dive into step one so step one is not knowing your dharma and that is where the majority of the world is so most people have never really even asked the question of what my purpose is if you if you go on the street you ask someone are you living your purpose they they would look at you kind of funny because for most people it just feels like too of a bombarding question to even begin to comprehend like why are we here i don't know why am i here who knows like what's for dinner so most people have thought about it but it feels too colossal of a question that they don't allow themselves to sit with it long enough to hear the answer so when you're in stage one you don't know your dharma at all and and this is why i trained dharma coaches at dharma kochi institute to be those bridges for people to start asking those bigger questions how can i connect the dots to the different experiences of my life how can i step into my dharma archetype am i a teacher nurturer entertainer researcher and then how can i find my mediums that flow through me how can i know my superpowers how can i tune into what's exciting for me and then use that we call this actually the dharma blueprint and use it to navigate you towards your purpose so step one stage one people i'm sure you know many people who are there in your life now stage two happens once someone believes they have a dharma because you're not going to find your dharma you're not going to know your soul's purpose if you don't believe that you have one so part of moving out of stage one is to first believe that you have one and that brings us into stage two i believe that i have one but i don't know what mine is so this really looks like diving into personal development going to seminars reading different books listening to different podcasts going to therapy coaching maybe this is what brought you here so you're on a journey of self-discovery to realize who you are what your purpose is but you still aren't really sure what that looks like for you so this is really the time to believe in yourself to believe that you are here for bigger things because sometimes what happens is we're faced with family resistance expectations people pleasing fear of the unknown scarcity mindset limiting beliefs all of these different obstacles that we face and sometimes that causes us to go back to stage one so this is a really important time to trust and believe that you have a purpose and when you have that confidence built that you're like okay i might not know what my full purpose is but i'm trusting i'm on the path that's what's gonna bring you to stage two so stage two is about taking action on your dharma so at this point you're passionate about what your next step is and you're ready to take action so this is really when you're in go mode you might be signing up for a new training like coming to dci dharma coaching institute you might be working a new job you might be writing your book you might be launching your podcast starting a business taking classes really doing anything that's bringing you into action towards your dharma so when i speak about the chakras this is really the solar plexus action stage you're in your sacred doing so this step of action is quite longer than the other stages because it takes time to get something off the ground you know you're not going to become a purpose coach overnight you're not going to write your book overnight you're not going to become a confident podcaster in a week or a month these things take time like at dci it's six months of training so know that it takes time so if you're in the action stage continue to take action continue to follow the momentum and the biggest obstacle that people experience here is that overwhelm that feeling of oh my god i still have so far to go and i want to quit because i didn't realize how much work it would be so this is why it's so important at this stage to connect to your why why did you start this in the first place why did you decide to become a coach why did you launch this business why did you go into this field reconnect with your heart because this is what's going to propel that energy it's the ignitions the fire underneath the stove that if the fire is off underneath the stove you're not going to cook anything when you reconnect your heart you reignite that fire and then it's easy for it to burn and simmer and move thing move through things that might even be hard and challenging that happens when you're living your dharma then that moves us into stage four the first experience of living your dharma so this is when you're finally living it you feel and witness yourself living your soul's purpose you feel in alignment flow gratitude you are finally here and this might be when you worked with your first client or when you're fully in launch of your new product line or you're fully in swing of things at work and you're like yes this is why i'm doing this this is why i'm here like i love what i am creating so this is such an important moment that a lot of people overlook because they're so focused on what they need to do next and how much farther i need to go that they forget to celebrate and celebration is such an important energy because when we celebrate we amplify we pay attention we become mindful of what matters so whatever we focus on persists right if i think about red cars i'm going to start noticing red cars everywhere now if i tune into a celebration mindset that i am celebrating like yes i just worked with my first client and it felt so good and i'm seeing them transform right in front of me and you really let yourself celebrate that you start to attract more of it you start to see more opportunities of more ideal clients you start to notice how much farther you've gone in other areas of your life you start to heal your relationships heal your money mindset and so much more so it it needs to start through celebration through that acknowledgement of what's working because when we put our focus there of what's working and how far you've come which by the way you even listen to this podcast shows you have a lot to celebrate for because the average person is not listening to this podcast you know like you've done a lot of healing work to even be in the space even to be receptive to these types of messages so just that i am applauding you so celebrate that look at how far you've come where were you even a year ago and how many lessons have you learned take a moment to journal that even right now hit pause on this and journal how far you've come or do it after this but it's really important to celebrate your wins to regulate your nervous system and to show your mind and your body that it was all worth it you know if we don't celebrate our minds and bodies get so caught up in the striving and the not having that we lose the momentum you know because we're like well why should i keep you know going this direction because i'm not even getting anything out of it when you celebrate you start to remind you create evidence for your mind you start to embody the energy of joy celebration growth that the mind is like wow it is safe i'm progressing it's worth for me to continue doing this and the body echoes that sentiment so this is why it's also both physically and somatically so important to celebrate so that moves us into stage five you know and then we're done we're living our diamonds forever there's still three more stages to go and that's a good thing you know it's a good thing that we're continually evolving we are the seasons we are the cycles we are the rhythms we are the ways we're gonna continue to evolve and grow so stage five feeling an urge a little scratchy scratch to shift due to lessons learned so there's one thing you can trust in this lifetime is you're going to continue to learn lessons as long as you are alive even after that in different lifetimes so that is the beauty of growth that sometimes we feel like we're on top of the mountain we have it all figured out and then that mountain has a little bit of the earthquake you know and sometimes it actually feels like the ground moving before your feet but sometimes it's like um i actually want to keep climbing this trail and see where the next peak takes me and the next one and the next one the next one so learning your dharma is not about getting somewhere but really it's about the journey and the cycle and that really is the path of the feminine we move in spirals you know nature moves in spirals if you look at a seashell a turtle shell if you look at really anything in life it's it's never straight it always has it waves and it flows and that's really what nature the divine mother is created from so we are the same as we step into our purposes different expressions and iterations our sole contract reveals to us new areas for exploration and growth so at the beginning it might look like you're really excited about other things and then it might even look like the things that you are doing feel really draining so maybe the first thing that you do let's say you have a business you start to hire out for the things that are very draining in your business let's say you're doing all the customer service work you hire a customer service person let's say you're doing all the tech you hire a web designer or maybe you're within a company you shift your roles there used to love doing hr but now you want to move more into coaching so you start to shift because the old shoes start to feel stuck and tight and and you're ready to try on some stilettos or some or some moccasins or something else something new you don't know what the shoe is but you know that this shoe is not fitting so this is really giving you valuable feedback that you can only gain from action and it's completely natural to evolve with more awareness in fact every single person does we go through life we try we learn things and that makes us shift you know even foods you used to love you don't love anymore even friends you are super close with you're not as close with anymore so how can we expect our purposes to be stagnant when we don't even like the same sandwiches that we liked a few years ago you know everything changes i think i like peanut butter for the rest of my life to be honest it's that kind of relationship but who knows anything can happen and chocolate so this is where a lot of people give up i'm gonna be real a lot of people give up they think they're a failure or they like hold on to that thing because they're like i tried so hard to be here i worked so hard and this is the thing and now i'm trying to get out of it like no i need to stick with it exactly how it is because they don't allow space for evolution it's like even in relationships like you might have entered into a relationship as one person and you evolved so much throughout the years of being together that sometimes you need to rewrite the rules of your relationship you know both like literally and unspokenly of just hey here's how i show up in the world now here's how i honor and respect myself hear my new boundaries like get to know the new me as i'm getting to know the new me sometimes you need that so and this is also when people give up and quit so they're like hey i've changed and evolved this relationship is done and sometimes the relationship is done but sometimes it just required a renegotiation so the same thing happens with our dharma that sometimes you just need to renegotiate the terms you need to change how it looks it doesn't mean it's a failure it just means you need to shift roles a little bit and sometimes that chapter of your dharma is done you know you maybe spent years doing hair and you're just like i've gone as far as i could go and like yes i see how i could grow in this i could do like shamanic haircuts with affirmations like i see that potentiality but when i tune into my heart i don't want to do hair anymore i just really love having conversations with people on the chair and so i want to step more into coaching therapy you know something like that instead so this is why it's important to allow yourself to be honest with how you feel and also to know that there sometimes is a honeymoon stage when starting something new especially a project like a book or a podcast like at the beginning you're so excited about it you want to keep doing it you're like yes i'm doing it and then the writer's block hits and then you've been podcasting for six months and your numbers aren't growing and then life happens right so know that there often is that honeymoon stage but that doesn't mean that it's over it means that you deepen your level of commitment to it should you choose to continue to commit to that thing so you deepen your voice maybe at the beginning you were podcasting and you were kind of repeating everything that you heard from other podcasters you thought that's what's going to make you successful and now you're ready to like really let out the magic sauce that you've been holding back or maybe you're writing a book and at first you're like oh i have so much to say and now you're like oh my god it's really confronting to write my story and this is when you deepen you buckle down why is it confronting how can i go deeper into it maybe you start coaching you love working with your first few clients and you have one client that there's a little bit of tension there you know maybe they weren't happy with the coaching session something happens you know life happens not everything is always perfect all the time so that doesn't mean that your coaching career is over that means wow what a beautiful opportunity i'm facing resistance right now and how can i go deeper into myself to notice what is this resistance bringing up in me maybe it's this feeling of i'm not enough maybe this feeling of if i shine my true light people abandon me means this this belief i have of i'm not good at finishing things and that's coming up for me to heal and clear what a blessing so this stage is really important for you to know were you just inspired by a shiny object and is it just because the work is getting tougher that it's easier for you to daydream about something else that doesn't actually require you to show up to what is needed i mean i give it to you real and i that happens so much i see a lot of people they jump ship just because it was about to get real and they couldn't handle it because it's easier to be like you know what maybe i'm supposed to do this and now maybe i'm supposed to do that i'm supposed to do that because there's no friction when you're daydreaming there's no actual realities when you're daydreaming it's just in your head so it's of course it feels light and easy because it's not real and this is what i see in the spiritual community happen so much these people who have big visions and it's amazing and i pray to god for them to channel just one of them because one of them will really heal the world but you daydreaming about a hundred of them is not it's not gonna do anything and again i'm calling a former version of myself out here because i used to be that person so if you are that person who's like oh wow i do recognize that i start a lot of things the moment it gets hard then when i hit month three i get busy or i find another shiny object and i create a story of why that thing didn't work for me but it was actually me not committing to something and this is why anytime i do sign up for a training i'm committing to finishing that training i'm not going to sign up for a million trainings and not show up and that's really in creating dharma coaching institute i created it to be legit a portal of transformation that you go through otherwise it just becomes another online course thing that you sign up for and you don't really see any results and that's not what's going to change your life and it's definitely not what's going to change the world so i really call people forward to seeing that that higher version of themselves that requires them to show up and do the work and be on calls and practice and get feedback because it's the only way that you're going to become stronger as a speaker as a thought leader as a writer as anything that you want to be it comes through the tangible practice of it so as long as you love who you're becoming through the journey then keep going if you don't you know again you might say i don't love continuing to do hair i don't love the version of me if i think about myself three years from now and i'm still doing hair i don't like that version okay then it's time for you to look at what you've learned from the experience and how can i now integrate that with what i'm loving right now or if you're like i love who i'm be coming through this experience and it's challenging as and it's super confronting and it's bringing up on my own you know keep going because that's the juice that's the magic sauce that's how you become an embodied leader not someone who's talking about it not someone who's memorized whatever is the trendy spiritual topic to talk about today but someone who is embodying the vibration of their dharma and you can feel the difference so from stage five we move into stage six and this is a very crucial stage to evolve and move forward this stage is all about integrating the lessons learned so too often people think their previous career was a mistake and they disregard the lessons learned they're like oh yeah and i used to do hair for 20 years and like that was crazy i hated it how many times have you heard someone talk about something they did for years and it's like this thing that has nothing to do with them now and i understand that you want to distance yourself from who you were in that stage of your life that you no longer feel like you're that version of you and i understand that however who you became through that experience is why you are the way that you are today so it's not about brushing it off but rather it's about the integration so let's say you're a kindergarten teacher for seven years and now you're becoming a coach but you're like well i don't want to tell people i was like a kindergarten teacher like they're gonna think i'm childish or whatever no like what did you learn as a kindergarten teacher that should be what you lead with like i'm a coach and i really exude a lot of patience and understanding and i'm able to take complex things and make it playful because of the seven years that i was a kindergarten teacher like that to me makes you interesting that to me is like oh wow that's a really unique life experience that i would want to learn from even though i'm not in kindergarten you know so sometimes we throw away our experiences and the experience can be one that you're even ashamed about you know maybe you were in jail and you're like i don't want people to know this about me like they're gonna think i'm a criminal they're gonna think i'm untrustworthy i don't wanna talk about that stage in my life but what lessons did you learn in jail who did you become in jail what did it teach you that was valuable to you in your life and how does that now integrate in what you're sharing today that's someone i want to learn from so so often the things that are actually the most interesting about us we discard away because we feel like they don't fit into the picture when they actually are the colors of that picture they're what paint it with experience and livelihood so really start asking yourself what did you learn from that experience what did it teach you about yourself what did you like about it what did you not like about it how is that valuable feedback and what tools can you bring to the next iteration of your dharma so for me for those of you who don't know my career really started with writing books on ayurveda the world's oldest health system the sister science of yoga based on the mind body connection so my first book was called eat right for your mind body type which is all about digestion and nutrition for your dosha the mind body type then i wrote the idiot's guide to ayurveda which really was an introductory textbook to ayurveda then i wrote a book called eat feel fresh which was a modernized plant-based approach to ayurveda i've created the ayurveda course for mind body green i've taught it at google and facebook and to millions of people around the world i mean i had a seven year long career solely focused on ayurveda and then i noticed within myself and this was even before my book you feel fresh was coming out but i was getting a little bit tired of just talking about the doshas you know what's ayurveda what are the doshas what should each of them eat like i could say it in my sleep at this point and i wanted to go deeper i wanted to talk about why we feel the way that we do and what is the meaning of life and what is our purpose and how can we live it and how do we connect to our divine feminine energy how do we bring joy to the world what are our past lives how do we heal our ancestors how do we connect to our highest selves what is embodiment like these were the conversations i wanted to have but i figured i would never fit into the box of you know what people come to me for they come to me when they want to learn about what should i eat for my pit in balance you know so i got to stick with that and then i saw this ayurvedic doctor and teacher who's like in his 60s and he was talking about what the doshas are in ayurveda and i thought to myself wow if that is me in my 60s i won't be happy with this lifetime again some people can really commit to one thing and that's who they are forever for some of us we really shift and evolve and and also too i think in the former generation they didn't even allow themselves to that i don't even know if you really wanted to explain the doshas for the like one millionth time or if he just felt like he needed to because that's what people came to him for it could also be that so i started to be honest with myself i want to have these conversations and one night in the middle of the night i changed my instagram handle from eat feel fresh where i was sharing food to my name i am sahar rose and i wrote a post i'm like hey guys like i'm sorry if you don't like the direction this is going in but i can't talk about food and nutrition and take pictures of food that takes me like 10 hours to make and photograph i'm not even eating them because i'm full by that and i want to talk about why we're alive in past lives and shamanism and herbs and sisterhood and the witch wound like these are the kinds of conversations i want to have and that's what led to me creating this podcast because i wanted a forum to have these discussions and now this podcast is over five years old and it shifts and evolves as i do every single week i'm exploring different topics and it's given me so much freedom to explore my own dharmic evolution and share some of these different concepts and even talking about dharma now you know three years i've only been really focused on dharma and i can even feel that next evolution is coming through of me as a poet as a mystic as a dj as a dancer in these other areas of my life that relate to my dharma but are showing up in these different ways so i share this with you because you might be in the stage right now that you had a career that was successful that served you that people might still come to you for and it feels really scary to move on because you worked really hard on it and here you are like where you once dreamed to be but you can still feel something's missing you might not fully know what that is you might have glimpses of it you might know the whole picture but you got to be honest with yourself how you feel right now so i'm not saying you gotta quit cold turkey for me i integrated ayurveda into understanding your dharma i created a course doshas and dharma so i started to integrate that and then until finally i could just talk about dharma and then finally i can just talk about spirituality and just the ship slowly starts to move it's like one kayak connects to the next and that other kayak can go and it finds another one and it continues to move forward so i share this with you because you might be in that space right now and again doesn't mean you have to abandon integrate the lessons learned and now step into this next evolution this next cycle and again maybe it's just you getting educated on a new thing that's really interesting to you maybe you want to do yoga teacher training maybe you want to learn reiki maybe you want to go learn how to garden there's so many things that you can do but you have to trust where your excitement is guiding you because excitement are the bread crumbs to guide you towards your dharma so in this stage it might not just be one thing one thing will bring you to the next and bring you to the next and this stage also it can be a long one and it really continues because you're gonna keep finding new things you know for me just the example of djing in 2019 i just had this urge within me i'm like you know when i was in college i always wanted to date a dj you know so then i realized wait i wanted to do the dj because really i wanted to be a dj right because be who you want to date i'm like bucket i'm going to learn how to become a dj and go to dj school it was right after my wedding and we were moving it was so busy i had so much going on i was writing discovery or dharma i was launching rose gold goddesses but i still showed up every single week for those dj classes and even though i had so many excuses i didn't have time to go i was exhausted by the time it started at night i went and every single time after i felt like i was on cloud nine because i learned a new thing so i continued to follow those breadcrumbs i dj'd at my birthday party and then my friend's conference like seminar and then this other thing and now i have my first paid festival gig coming up this fall so i share this with you because it was just this tiny little baby this little seedling that i continued to water and water and water even though i felt tired as sometimes i kept watering it and now it's continuing to grow and it doesn't mean that now i'm going to like full time be a dj but it's an expression of who i am that i get to talk about that i get to weave in to my retreats and my events and my workshops an offering that i bring consciousness through so i share this with you because not everything that you want to do you need you don't need to have the full picture of what it looks like sometimes you learn certain things because the skills that you learn through them shift who you are you know for me becoming a health coach i'm not a health coach today but it radically transformed my life and then moving into becoming a life coach a truth coach a dharma coach which is now what i share with other people and i've had so many students at dci who through at first they only signed up for dci which is dharma coaching institute to learn about their own purposes and then through doing the curriculum and getting all the practice experience they realize wait i actually do have what it takes to become a coach and then from practicing coaching they're like my dreams are so much bigger i want to speak on stages i want to write books i want to create a movement so they would have not even gone into that area of their dharma had they not started with following the thread of becoming a coach and before that wanting to step into their own purposes it's had they not stepped into wanting to know their own purposes they wouldn't have followed the thread that led to they actually want to create a whole movement of people living their purposes so i share this with you because those little nudges that you get the experience they're showing up in front of you they can guide you so many places and again different time periods of her life have different expression i went through this whole womb healing training and i was doing all this deep room work and it was just this beautiful season i was in that maybe i'll come back to it's just not my main thing right now so sometimes we just need to learn tools to have in our tool kit for them to really come up in the perfect moment and also from what we learn from that and who we become from that to be integrated in how we show up in the world so this really continues to evolve and evolve and then we move into stage eight which is called beyond dharma so i remember asking deepak chopra what his dharma was early in my career in fact it was here on this podcast if you go back i think episode 14 i remember this because 14 is my lucky number um i interviewed deepak chopra and i asked him what is your dharma and he said i'm beyond dharma so at that point i couldn't even imagine that like how can you be beyond your dharma it's your purpose on this planet now i've realized that and have two gone beyond dharma so the switch really occurs when you are even beyond the role that you are playing in humanity as beautiful and as helpful as it may be you realize that you're not your personality you're not your identity and that there is no self to even love you are an infinite being limitless the cosmic void eternity everything nothing so this is really a state of non-duality called samadhi which is complete oneness and union in all it's really when you've dropped any story of who you are and why you're here and you realize yourself as a vessel of pure consciousness and light so this doesn't mean that you tap out or you stop sharing your gifts in fact i've noticed that a lot of people in this in the stage like eckhart tolle deepak sun guru they actually become even more inspired and energized to share than ever before because it's no longer arising from the ego again they still have egos they're still humans but they're more just feeling and it's not just them as an example there's many people who are not famous who also are in the stage but you're just completely open to what the universe asks you to do you're you're beyond manifestation you know and this is why for me i don't really work with manifestation anymore because i have nothing to manifest because i know that whatever the universe shows me is what is here to serve me and i've just kind of gone beyond like okay i need this and like by then and i'm gonna call it in i definitely think that manifestation can help you with empowerment but there are realms beyond that and that's really when true true trust comes to be that you're you no longer have this like very human desire to control your outcome and instead you trust that if you surrender to the flow of life and you tune into where you're being asked to be of service you will always end up in the right place with the right people and the right things around you and you don't need to use the will and the mind and the struggle to manifest it or will power it or make it happen but again you have to rise to that state naturally so in this stage what i noticed in myself is i no longer have goals people ask me like what are your goals i don't have any goals in fact i don't really even have intentions because again i just know what the universe has in store for me is what is beyond what my mind could even fathom i i could have never intended this you know i never had a goal to live in miami at all wasn't even in my mind but it showed up and here i am and i don't know how long i'll be here and if it doesn't fit anymore i'll move somewhere else so you just move to this different state of being that you're open to whatever's meant to come through without any preference of how it's supposed to be that's really a big shift there's no more preference there's no more i like this and i don't like this i want it to be this way but not that way and it needs to be a little bit like this like that again is coming from an egoic control place but instead when you drop preference you're just again you're completely in service to humanity however it's meant to show up and you're also doing it from a place of joy you're doing it from a place of fulfillment and unity and desire rather than a place of the mind or saviorism or martyrdom which again i have definitely been in before of like i need to save the world because no one else will and it's like how can i bring peace to the world if i'm not in peace with myself so every single person has the ability to reach the state and i will say i'm not always 100 at this state like i can oscillate and slip into times that i'm like oh like i really want this thing to go well but it's to be honest that barely happens anymore like even with launches i'm like whoever's meant to come through will come through i don't have any goals of how many people i don't know however many people feel a call and it feels really good to be in this place because there's nothing left to be upset about because whatever you're served it just is and when you don't set any goals you're just happy with whatever you're served and it's this beautiful state because then you're constantly delighted and surprised like oh wow like you know this person showed up great oh wow i met this person wonderful you don't have expectations anymore and you're no longer judging and you're just trusting and if something doesn't work it wasn't meant to work doesn't mean i'm not trying in life i still show up and i record this podcast but i don't have any goals of how do people listen to it doesn't really matter who cares as long as i'm having fun that's really what it's about so i especially really shifted into this being in morocco for a month because i had no goal i wasn't really doing anything for a month besides traveling and exploring and any form of like that old energy of like goal achievement success that was in me still was just slipped away it faded away with the sahara desert in in the sandstorm that i was in and now it's just like i'm here to experience life and those who want to dance come dance with me and those who don't lovely may you still dance so this is really where i'm at right now and it's such a beautiful place to be because there is no goal you just are the goal so this just may happen to you naturally like maybe when i speak you're like i feel this too and maybe there are parts of you that feel this and you're like but a part of me still doesn't really know what my dharma is but i also feel beyond dharma and you can have both within you you can have you know different dimensions living inside of you this part of you maybe you do a lot of ecstatic dance or breath work or different forms of healing so that brings you into this really cosmic yet grounded world view so you have this side of you that's like i don't really have goals and i want to share my gifts and make an impact so you you can have both and for me too i am still very excited to share my gifts i'm still very excited to see what comes through but i don't have a goal like of i need to write a book i need to this i need to that i used to and i think that really helped me i think having goals can give us that fire and that motivation and then we realized that the goal was really never about us but rather it was like this dangling candy for us to fulfill our dharmas because once we get there and you see there's another one another one you start to realize the game and you're like oh wait it's all about the living experience of it and that's really what stage eight is about so as a recap the eight stages of dharma evolution again this is a journey that i have channeled so um there is no more reading on this i i talk about and teach about and teach you how to coach on it in my school dharma coaching institute so if you do want to learn more that's the perfect place but the eight stages again are not knowing your dharma figuring your dharma out taking action on your dharma your first dharma experience making shifts integration the evolution and then moving beyond dharma so if you're interested in diving more into this doors are open right now for dharma coaching institute our next class starts the first week of october so we are taking new students in right now and if you're curious to actually try a sample class you want to have an experience of learning from dci i've actually made my energetics of sales class available it's a 90-minute deep dive into really healing our relationship with sales and marketing and selling and making offers because for so many of us that's really where we remain stuck and we remain stuck we're not able to serve our gifts and the world isn't able to receive the medicine and the codes that we are carrying so if you're interested in learning more about dci hopping on a call with our enrollment team or trying the energetics of sales master class you can head over to my show notes or or dharma coaching institute dot and you will find it there again you can find the show show notes wherever you're listening to this we'll have it all there and it's dharma d h a r m a coaching institute dot com i hope you enjoyed this episode please share with me on instagram what stage or stages you felt most resonant in and share this with anyone that's living their dharmic journey maybe someone's in a big transition in your life that this will give them a feeling of affirmation and trust that they are exactly where they need to be so thank you so much again for tuning in i hope to see you in dci if it's aligned and otherwise i'll see you on the next episode namaste [Music] be [Music] hmm [Music]

Channel: Sahara Rose

Views: 4,099

Keywords: wellness, mindfulness, consciousness, balance, mind body, mind body balance, purpose, dharma, higher self, highest self, highestselfpodcast, sahara rose, ayurveda

Id: QrINro0VMRo

Length: 47min 5sec (2825 seconds)

Published: Tue Aug 23 2022