38-Year-Old Millionaire Shares How He Built His Wealth | Anthony ONeal

so would you recommend someone watching right now if they've never had that experience to go do that themselves absolutely absolutely but what if they're saying well david i can't like i mean what do you mean you want me to go down to the rolls-royce i mean they're going to look at me like i'm crazy of course i don't know how to get there google [Laughter] [Music] hey matt you're a fool for this one [Music] while we're building these businesses and building these dreams and manifesting all our desires stress and anxiety is a part of that so what exactly is the definition of love i've been an adult since i was 16. i definitely feel like i've transitioned into a better place mentally and another part of self-care um self-pleasure orgasms they're healing so absolutely that part is important [Music] what's happening no [Music] everybody wants to be wealthy everybody wants the fame everybody wants um uh some people the bags louie the gucci but nobody really wants to work right nobody really wants to put in the effort to actually put in the work to build the wealth and when you think about building wealth a lot of it is practical but the majority of it is mental what are you thinking mentally what have you learned mentally what are you putting inside your brain that comes into your heart that comes out of with your actions and man um about two years ago i put on my instagram i was like yo who should i have on my show and a lot of y'all started italian people started tagging people started tagging people and man one of my good friends man uh michelle williams she tagged this one guy i was like i've heard of him but i never really followed him i ain't gonna lie to nobody i never really followed them but then she tagged them and then i saw it at my one of my spiritual mentors pastor darius dan news he follows him i was like oh he got to be legit if double d follow this guy he's legit and so when i started following him this dude like his swag is going to be on point ladies i'll let y'all ask that question when y'all say y'all can ask him that i'm a grown man i don't need to ask him that um he loves people he loves people and one thing that i you you definitely will see that he makes good money but one thing i love about him is everyone who's connected to him loves him honors him and also make good money and i was like yo i need to get connected to this guy and we talked maybe about two months later connected he brought me to his conference allowed me to speak on his stage um and this guy is is amazing um i got to meet his mom i see where where he comes from he's just a strong stop just throwing stock period but before we get to my friend and good uh and he's become a friend a mentor i've called him when i was in my transition season and this man dropped so much knowledge into me and so his name is david i'm not gonna pronounce his last name just yet i'm gonna let him say it correctly because i always mess it up every time i say it but before we get to my brother real quick man hit the subscribe button and make sure you hit the thumbs up you're gonna enjoy today's show so if you're watching this on podcast yo listen subscribe share this with a friend today's show is going to give you some wisdom and give you some knowledge and you're going to leave inspired to go and do the things you have to do so you can't become wealthy but one of the things to building true and lasting wealth is really life insurance my friends over at ethos man um have partnered with me to make sure that we in a minority culture when we do pass it's not a matter of if it's a matter of when when we do pass we have life insurance in place to leave to our loved ones to leave to our kids to leave to our family members so we can give them a head start especially our kids we give them a head start to start building generational wealth and i want to make sure that i equip you with the tools necessary to do just that because the majority of you are watching right now yeah 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he's gonna bring some wisdom so y'all ladies and gentlemen welcome to the table for the first time definitely not the last time uh because later on throughout this year we're gonna bring them back on here to give us some more wisdom on how we can make some more money but right now let's get those wisdom and knowledge my friend david david iman emontier i was i was so believing in you dude you know what i'm believing go ahead david you can do it eat you right there you got it eat money what is what is what is that culture mana my uh my origin is is nigerian nigerian yeah okay okay how long you been in states well we moved here when i was 10. okay 10 years old yeah but i was born here i was born in the u.s for real but about six weeks old we moved back to nigeria my dad played professional tennis in nigeria for many years so wait don't you play tennis i do are you good i'm i'm okay i played in college i had a scholarship you did yeah so you ain't okay you good then you got scholarships i want a pro my my dad is 68 he can still beat me today he's that good so does he still play on a regular he coaches a little bit here and there here and there okay okay he's staying in the states or he's back in the house he's in houston man that's awesome that's awesome but let's get to it man yeah one of the things i really like about you right is you are and i hate to say it like this because i well i love to say it but i don't want to defend nobody but you're black and you're wealthy successful and you love people and you're making other people successful yeah right um from my little bit of research and correct me from wrong please within your business structure you've you've sold over billions of dollars worth of products oh yeah and i've met can i say what and services and services and recently at your conference i was actually i was sitting next to i won't say his name on the stage you can say it but i won't say it cause i wanna you know just put people business out there um i was i was at your dinner and i was sitting there see this guy just chilling having a good time saying what you do he's a man you know i work with him i said okay cool cool um great and he was like yeah i'm gonna go you know jump on the jet i got to speak somewhere and come back tomorrow said y'all want to chat you know what i'm saying but and he's doing close to a million dollars a month i'm like what in the world like everyone around you is wealthy successful and if they're not at that level yet they're going there what made you want to love people i'm curious because you love people well i think it's one of the commandments it's one of the commandments that supersedes all other commandments yeah yeah right love god and and to love people so i think for me it's it's really born out of understanding the pain and the struggles that i had growing up and in business when i first started okay and wanting to see other people succeed not wanting them to live a life of doubt and unbelief and worry and anxiety yeah and there are some tools and strategies and techniques that i've learned yeah that have allowed me to be able to live the life that i want to live so it's really really rewarding when you can give that knowledge to someone else and they take it and they go on and create the lifestyle that they want so let's let's rewind today you know let's just be real you're a multi-millionaire and but let's go back to when you weren't what was your what was your foundation you know what i'm saying growing up let's let's let's not go down to your childhood let's go to your beginning stages when did when did you identify that you want to build wealth and what was the starting process and what lessons did you learn in that starting process uh to to get to where you are today you know it's a it's impossible to to go and start there without actually going to the very beginning okay because what you're exposed to as a child a lot of times make makes a huge difference in your life and one of the things my mother always did even though we were living in nigeria she always brought us to whether it was england or brought us to the u.s so this desire for more was already really inundated in me from a kid yeah and then it was basketball i wanted to make it to the nba i fell in love with michael jordan and that was my goal my goal was i was going to make it in the pros well that dream was shattered right around 12. okay so so it was that wasn't going to be the route that i was going to take went on to college dropped out of school didn't finish but then i got introduced to direct sales got introduced to entrepreneurship okay and that's where the love and and the drive for success was really home because now i was exposed to people that look like me they were making you know 30 000 a month and i was like wait a minute back then you know i was like 30 wait that's what people make a year and that's a good job right you're telling me you're making that per month right and i just i said okay whatever it is you tell me to do as long as it's legal and morally right i'm gonna do it and that was that was my start at 21 years old i started and i'll be 39 in july so it's been about 18 years now 18 years on this journey what was i thinking at 21. i was not i wasn't thinking about making no i was thinking about making money but i wasn't thinking about making money i was trying to get out of debt i was trying to get back on my feet i was trying to make sure i don't go back to suicidal thoughts at 21. and bro like this this is this is solid right this is really solid what what was the secret ingredients to you building your success today yeah um you know funny thing is they're really not secrets i was about to say that yeah they're not secrets i mean we call them that because it sounds really good but they're really not my journey like i said starting at 21 it starts with your environment yeah the environment you hear it all the time you're a product of your environment but your belief systems are fortified by your environment i was able to move out of an environment where it was lack it was scarcity yeah it was fear i was able to move into an environment that was about building wealth about success and then i was exposed to the right people so it's environment then it's associations who are the people that are in your life that are inspiring you that are motivating and encouraging you there are examples of what can be yeah that is so vital to life and then those individuals introduce you to information yeah see the fact that you know your listeners and people that follow you they're exposed to who you are as a person so they're associated with you but now what you're doing is so powerful because you're giving them information that they can now take that transforms their minds in form that goes in it forms right and then asian that's action it goes in and starts to form starts to take action on what i what it is that i heard yeah and that's what happened for me i started to get the right information thinking grow rich and magic of believing science and getting rich and leadership books to start the study started to listen and then now my mind started to be renewed my my whole being started to be transformed and then the results came in yeah right so because what happens is this and this is big when you move from being in the wrong environment to the right environment and you start surrounding yourself with the right people you start getting the right information the last key is the experiences experiences make the biggest biggest impact on your belief system because i don't you never believe what you haven't experienced what's your favorite food ribs ribs why taste good because you experienced it if you never experienced it it couldn't be your favorite be my favorite and people don't experience the life that they want why because they open their mouth and they say i can't afford it so why go to the dealership why go to the multi-million dollar home why surround yourself with the right people and you're thinking i can't afford it so now when you open your mouth creation starts so you never go there i tell you all the time before you get there you got to go there so i would do this broke i would go to the most expensive hotels i would go shopping without buying anything i'm also going to stores and expensive restaurants and i would do that so i was getting the experience the emotional connection to the life that i wanted yeah and then i would go back to work go back to work yeah to go get it to go get what i experienced right now i had the drive to go get it because i experienced it so would you recommend someone watching right now if they've never had that experience to go do that themselves absolutely absolutely but what if they're saying well david i can't like i mean what do you mean you want me to go down to the rolls-royce i mean they're going to look at me like i'm crazy of course i don't know how to get there google just put it play your gps bro you know they are going to look at you crazy they did that to me they did it to me yeah yo they did it to me man true story this man right here this man right here is the reason why i'm driving the car that i'm driving i made a post what was the post about do you remember i don't remember but i i think i i think i sent you a message yeah you did it's okay it's okay i'm telling you davey don't play y'all he don't play i i posted something he was like bro listen you make good money it is okay it's okay enjoy go go spend a little something and the next day i went and bought my dream car the next day and sent them a picture he said that's good i got two up you gotta keep dreaming you gotta keep drinking now what's the purpose of dreaming if you're not gonna live the dream think about you you have this dream car and you do all this work and i know this is you know yeah but you i know what you teach right no but you teach there's a there's there's a balance to it right it's not doing anything stupid with your money but it is rewarding yourself for the work that you've actually done yeah and you know people talk about materialism materialism really starts where people can't afford it oh explain that though i mean so you're saying so you got the money yeah so like people say you're materialistic because you have rolls royces or you have lamborghinis or ferraris well it's because they can't afford it that's why they call it materialism there are people right now in africa right that have no shoes and people all around the world kids have no shoes how many pairs of shoes do you have tons right so they could look at you and say you're materialistic oh [Music] right so wealth is relative what you have is relative the guy that has two rolls races thinks he's doing pretty well you go to dubai they have 12 of the same kind same kind same color and then their lights watch this their license plates cost more than the car what yeah in dubai anybody else they have million dollar license plates like if it's a single number right it's over a million dollars like if your license plate is one or two or three or five yeah that's a million-dollar lesson plan yeah easy yeah so what are we talking about here you know people say okay don't buy yeah i love when people do that just don't buy the cars out of that but they have a private jet or they have a t-shirt on shorts but their watch is right or million right yeah or a million yeah so you gotta be smart about it but and and they backtrack because that's that's way ahead right there there are goals that you have to set you know when i first started this journey my goal was 10 grand a month that's what i want to that's every entrepreneur that should be your first goal i think most jobs don't pay 10 grand a month absolutely so you want to that's your first goal yeah and then i grew it to 30 okay then it was a hundred okay right then it just kept going from there but there's a formula on how to actually accomplish your goal oh talk talk that through there is a form there is a way to do it what's that formula it's a three-step process but you have to understand what success means for you i heard earl nightingale actually say this in the stranger secret he said that success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal okay so meaning that success is about growth yes it's not really about the destination right and because success is a moving target like today you're watching this you're thinking man if i can get to 100 grand a month i've made it right i promise you when you get there you're going to want to absolutely i mean you get two you're going to want five so it's a moving target so it's not about actually hitting the goal yeah it's about developing who you are developing the mindset that can believe for that yeah that's the key all right so once you understand that and understand where it is that you are now it's about desire okay desire is the starting point of all achievement if i can learn how to cultivate my desire for what it is that i want what it is that i truly truly want it is going to come into my life by default desire being the starting point of all achievement the key is to know how do i cultivate it and you do it through your senses yeah your five senses i think that's what you were asking me about yesterday yeah today your five senses your ability to see hear taste touch smell so my desire let's say your desire is 10 grand a month okay do you see it every day yeah come on come on do you hear it every day do you touch it every day so what do you mean by that well when i started this journey i took a dollar bill changed it to a hundred thousand and i put it on my bathroom sink so every morning he touched me i had to i had to see i had to touch what a hundred thousand my subconscious mind doesn't know it's real what's not all right and i wasn't seeing the broke person in the mirror anymore i was saying the person was making a hundred thousand dollars a year in six months it happened i went all of almost five years anthony without making six figures combined when i learned what i'm teaching you guys right now six months went to six figures wow desire touch what do you mean by touch okay well someone who makes 10 grand a month where did they have dinner yeah you know and that place smells a little different from chili's it sure does you ever saying but we ain't gonna not chili's though no i am i haven't had it i haven't had chilis since 2008. since 2000 i have blue poisoning oh so you ain't knocking it because yeah it's just mine it's just not your thing oh my god i haven't had it since like two thousand and like probably like eight or ten as well yeah yeah see because your taste buds have changed you're you're not you're not you're not accustomed to sitting no in the chilies i'm i'm not but you know what though i've learned it's just that's just not where i'm at anymore exactly you know yeah and here's the thing if that's where you are right now that's fine but it doesn't mean that you stay there so what i recommend you do is go to a five-star restaurant yeah maybe you can't afford what's on the menu fine they're not gonna kick you out go there get dressed get a drink yeah sit there right and when you go back to chili's you're gonna realize i don't belong in chili's it's called the comfort zone see like right now you're driving a pretty nice car right oh yeah yeah really nice car really nice get back and afford focus i can't do it you can't i mean no no i can but you actually can't your body you will feel so uncomfortable like people would feel a little weird watch this uber black versus regular uber oh we're black uber black why why won't you get into regular uber because i've been exposed to the black exactly it's almost like when i started flying first class man i i get a little disappointed it exactly but i don't want to i don't want us to sound like we don't we don't understand but we do understand we understand both because i've flown in the back of the plane right right but i didn't want to stay at the back of the plane i and that's what i'm saying is it okay to fight but yeah it's fine you're going to get there at the same time i'm going to get there yeah right right but if we're talking about building this mindset because remember a mind that's been stretched to a certain point can never go back right and i mean i think it was paul that said i've learned to abound and i've learned to base so yes if it is necessary for me to do that of course i could do it yeah but my comfort zone is different it is because of what i've experienced and that's what i'm that's what we're teaching people right now but if you want more out of life you've got to prepare for more yeah yeah you got to expand yeah god is only going to give you what you're prepared for yeah if you're not prepared for more he can't give it to you he can't according to your faith right may be done unto you come on man so what are you learning right what are you what are you listening to what are you hearing every single day because that's what's developing your faith right you know so let me ask you this question um it's speaking a lot right along what you said right i think maybe like two three years ago i probably would have did a reaction video to this and said this is the dumbest thing a rich person could have done but uh i think it was rick ross bought his daughter a lamborghini suv for her first car yeah and when i saw that i was reading the comments i was like oh man you're spoiling her you're not giving her wisdom you're not letting you're not making her go earn it and you're not making her live the rough life and then i was reading some of the other comments like yo but that's why he worked hard so she doesn't have to work as hard but she could work hard moving forward yeah but she doesn't have work as hard and it's like man when i was sitting back thinking i was like do i want my kids do i want to expose my kids to my struggle or do i want to expose expose my kids to a different type of life and then let them struggle in that life yeah yeah new kid well you got you have you have you have daughters they turn 20 they say dad i want a lamborghini and you want them and you got the money are you buying them the lamborghini for their first car my daughter uh she's 18 now right so she turned 16. okay i did get her a car wasn't a lamborghini it was a bmw i think it was x3 or something like that what is the bmw so here's here's my philosophy on that when she was about 12 13 because of what she was exposed to right on her with me being her father she wanted a nice car and she would talk about it and one of the cards she wanted was it was a bmw it was a bmw or ben's okay now she knew that dad had the money to get her the car right she knew it one thousand percent he can do it right and i made a promise i said listen you get straight a's all right you know you'll have the bmw or the benz whatever it is going to be when you turn 16. she never had to ask me again because she knew and she trusted that her father had what it took to give her what it is that she wanted why am i sharing that with you well i always look at things from a spiritual standpoint first before i look at it from a physical standpoint i'm her physical father but she also has a spiritual father and a spiritual father owns everything yeah yeah so i have a spiritual father you have a spiritual father people are watching they have a spiritual father your father owns everything right he owns all the wealth right so it's what do you want is what he's going to give you if it's if it's a ford focus that's what he's going to give you if it's a lamborghini that's what he's going to give you so it all depends on what you're actually desiring what the actual number is it's small i remember joel osteen talking about this he was contemplating buying this house and he was worried about what people were going to say like why are you buying this house here pastor and he said he was on the plane and he said god told him to look down and said how small are the objects down there to you the houses that you see the cars that you see driving how small are they to you from this point of view and he said very small so how much smaller is that house that you want to buy to me [Music] so whose perspective are you looking at life you're looking at the perspective of rick ross buying his daughter lamborghini like oh my god why would you do that but to god it's like a slammergate it's a lame guinea so what's the car it's just a car wow yeah my daughter works very very hard she does yeah when she graduates from college yes i plan on shocking her what that shock is gonna be i don't know but it's always going to be reward there's always a reward for doing what you're supposed to do that's how god works that's how father works it's not just i'm just going to give it to you just to give it to you there's a reward for you doing what you're supposed to do and that's that's how i operate my daughter and my son that's how i feel too man whenever i'm blessed to have kids um if i ever have kids um you know my thing is i just want to be able to expose my family to things that i was not exposed to yeah and i do that now you know i'm saying like that's why um i bought my car you have a much i don't say much better but it's definitely a step up for my car and you don't know how much you exposed me when i got in your car we i listened to you and i was just like just moving my my butt in the seat this is nice i'm looking around i mean because i was like man okay this is what's next down the road yeah of course you know and then leaving that conference i literally printed off that car yes and it's in my office and i'm just like all right all right that's that's goals yeah that's goals because the car i have now was that was goals yeah and then i get there it's okay i don't know what's next maybe the jet i don't know you know but it works for anything it does it works for any area of your life yeah it works for everything it's you know abraham he wanted a son yeah and he was having trouble but he wasn't having trouble with his faith he was having trouble with his belief because he was looking at his current circumstances current circumstance said i'm too old my wife is too old yeah so the facts said i'm not supposed to have a son so god had to have him look at a different picture look up at the stars and imagine a child's face on every star that's what i want to do for you and when he did that that's when he believed that's why i tell people put the picture there yeah yeah yeah yeah but you're maybe a mercedes right now right but you go from faith to faith face-to-face yeah also all day what about the people watching right now because i think this is what a lot of people have right it's i don't believe i deserve that i don't believe i can get there yeah my mama didn't get there my dad didn't get there i don't see no one in my family getting there we all just work at you know mcdonald's wendy's you know the these shops the most we'll make is about 15 to 20 an hour yeah for the rest of our lives that's not for me maybe that's for you but that's not for me and i just i talk about this all the time in my show you know you got to believe in yourself further and sometimes you got to believe in what your parents and your family don't even believe in what would you say to someone because you you talk about this often actually i actually learned a lot from you when you talk about believing in faith but what would you say to that person they came to you and your company right now said david i just i don't believe i could be as successful as you mm-hmm my question to them is are you happy with that oh no i'm not happy with that okay well let's change it why do i change it though i mean i'm i'm not you i'm not i'm not where you are okay yeah you're not where i am and and and that's okay but if you keep saying it that's exactly what you're going to keep getting we were created in the image in the likeness of god and there's one thing that god always does he speaks and when he speaks he creates and he's given us that same power so when you say i can't afford that and this is what my family's always done and i don't believe i can be successful you're actually using the power of creation you're just creating what you don't want that's why i'm saying what do you want are you happy with that you say i'm not happy well let's change it what are we changing we're changing what we're speaking first so i have a mantra that i've taught and i learned from bob proctor um he's he's incredible right he passed away a few a few months ago at 88. wow i mean just a life of impact but he taught me this phrase i'm so happy and grateful now that i am anything you put after i am goes into creation mode so if you do want to change the generational curse what's the curse the curse is a set of words it's the words that you've been speaking that your parents are speaking your grandparents are speaking that's the generational curse how do you break a curse with a new set of words that's it that's how you break a curse yeah right that's how you break a spell spell s p e l l what do you do with words you spell right so it's what's coming out of your mouth first is what you change right if you're making 15 an hour right now are you happy with that no i want to make 100 000 great get out of pen and paper write the vision i'm so happy and grateful now that i earn ten thousand dollars a month by december 31st 2022. you have no idea how it's going to happen i know you don't right you're not supposed to know how because if you knew how you'd have done it already right right but you know who knows how your reticular activating system knows how your mind knows how and when you give the mind a direction it will go and find the right people the right situations the right events for you to get to where it is that you want to go your mind is the gps but you're giving it the wrong address you're giving it 15 a month 15 dollars an hour whatever that is that address and it's saying okay good i'll take you there give it a different address 10 grand a month 100 grand a month a million a month a million a day give it that address and watch how the right people will come into your life the wrong people will leave your life right opportunities you'll get phone calls like oh it's it's called the magic of believing so it starts what i'm saying and then it goes to what am i seeing so write the vision make it plain so who sees it will run so you can only run in the direction you see so if all i'm seeing is lack i'm running towards that direction i've got to start seeing abundance i guess i seem well yeah and it's hard in the very beginning but it's a habit you've had the habit of looking at things the wrong way i'm saying let's look at it now the right way and create that habit and what happens is when you speak it and you see it long enough you're going to start developing the emotions and the two emotions you've got to develop is one of love and gratitude yep i got you all right okay so i am grateful for it now even if i don't have it i'm grateful for it after i get it i then show gratitude see gratefulness and gratitude are two totally different things he teaching you teach it yeah oh my goodness grateful is what you do before you get it yeah yeah gratitude is showing after you get it after you get it yeah that's why it says whatever things you desire when you pray open your mouth believe seeing that you receive it receiving is a soulless transaction okay receiving is not physical yeah like if i called you and said hey anthony i'm going to send you a million dollars to your foundation what are you going to tell me thank you thank you you just received it have you gotten the million no no but you received it absolutely yeah and then you shall have it yeah yeah and then the check shows up now you have it that's how it works whatever you want any design it doesn't matter so if it's 100 grand you want great if it's 100 grand a day you want great it's 100 grand a week and i'm not like this is not like hocus pocus i've done this yeah yeah yeah yeah it's done several several times yes million holidays million dollar days yes several times i know about the million dollar months i didn't know you had millions days days days several yeah and it didn't happen until i started to write it down and i put signs he said he will confirm his word with signs and then the wonders yeah yeah yeah my pastor always he's always say miracle signs and wonders that's it that's what he prays for miracles signs and wonders he's on the had a million-dollar days yeah but you know what i haven't done they're people that have had billion dollar days so it's all relative yeah it's it's what do you want what is what is the desire that god has put in your heart and it will grow it will grow and it'll grow and grow and it gives you the capacity to give more i mean we we we give multiple seven figures yeah every year yeah i just gave a large check to one of my friends of direction and uh the church over there in houston we fed 200 women single mothers every mother gave groceries for one year for one year one year yeah so you're not just making the money you're generous oh you have to be you have to be john taught me that i was already doing it before he taught me this but he kind of put it in the right perspective john maxwell he said you have to have stabilizers in your life okay he said the stabilizer for money is generosity yeah stabilizer for power is accountability if you have a lot of power with no accountability it will destroy you a lot of money without the generosity of the story do you think being generous helps you make more money absolutely why when you're giving it away i'm curious from you it's a spiritual law exactly that whatever you give right it comes back to you you only get to keep what you give see if you don't give it it owns you yep yeah does that make sense yeah it makes sense to me and whatever is in your hand is the harvest but once you let it go it becomes seed seed is always smaller than the harvest so if a million dollars is your harvest and you hold on to it right that's your harvest but the moment i plant the million now it becomes a seed [Music] and it has to reap something bigger than the seed bigger than a million dollars there you go which is one of the main reasons why i'm always telling people you have to tithe and i actually tied more than 10 of course because it's like i don't want to give god the bare minimum i want god to know that he could trust me with the 90 but i'm like yo i want i want this 90 to be bigger yeah and so i'll give you 20 so i can get a bigger 90. absolutely and i i really do believe that's one of the main reasons why since i've stepped out on my own congratulations too by the way thanks man yeah it's big it was scary you know that's when you know it's god yes yeah and you have to lean on him i have to yeah you convicted me i haven't written down million dollar days yet but i will be doing that after this show cause i've had i've had hundred thousand dollar days but i have not had million dollar days you'll have you'll have that this year for sure said one more time you'll have that this year with the hoodie on it that's uh you know i don't do the jackets y'all know me leave that to me hey you know i'll leave that to him i said hey bro you know i'm gonna be in the hood he was like okay that's what y'all young people go ahead my man said i'm putting on the suit you know what i'm saying i make a million dollars a day some days you know i was putting on suits but i always can't spell a million so ain't nothing change someone who is drowning in debt living paycheck to paycheck yeah they're watching this show saying yo i'll talk about million holidays million dollar months million dollar years i just want to have i just want to get out of the life that i that i that i'm in right now yeah um i think we've given him a lot of wisdom i think we've given him a lot of you know things that they have to start saying but what is the very first step yeah you know it's interesting i never focused on the debt you never did i never did what did you focus on the solution and what's the solution yeah so if you have debt focusing on the debt doesn't allow you to pay it off like if i sit there and i complain about the debt talk about the debt that that debt i'm giving that address to my mind to create more debt i like okay all right i see where you go so what i've got to do is okay what is the solution and the solution is i have to make more money yep because that's what takes care of the debt right it's more money so what avenues and the avenues are going to come through people who do i need to be connected to what field what am i passionate about what am i what am i going to put my hands to that will allow me to give value to the world money is about the exchange of value that's all it is if i have something that people want they will pay me for it yeah is it a product that i can sell is it a service that i can sell is it a skill set that i have that i can sell and i'm going to focus my energy on honing my skill and mastering that learning from someone like you learning from a coach and a mentor so i can expand and grow where i'm not thinking about that i'm not think i'm thinking about the solution and the solution brings about what it is that i want i pay off the debt i had debt but i didn't pay attention to it i had that coming out of college i focused on the solution right and when i focused on because whatever you focus on expands the income dad expanded saying here take that no problem one time right right right right like that versus now you have courses and things that you show people how to pay off their debt and all that but at the end of the day they still gotta generate still gotta generate income they gotta generate income yeah that's true and i would hate for you to okay you got a job you pay off your debt using your job okay now you're debt free but you ain't got no money i'm debt free money hey let's let's take a trip nobody i'm different i get it i'm happy for you we'll celebrate it but let's focus on expansion growth and there has to be that balance so you're right you're right i like that philosophy focus on the solution the solution would take care of not just the debt problem you'll take our a lot of your problems because if you if you i'm gonna go there because i'm not married but i mean that's the more reason for divorces right now is money so maybe you need to focus more on you know getting more money and taking care of your spouse but at the same time okay let me just be the man the provider get in some money and fix it no don't get it more debt don't do stupid stuff to get more debt i know that yeah that's common sense they know that this right no you would do this right focus on the solution of how to create the life that you want yes and that life that you want is a life of debt free now you're you you've been in entrepreneurship space a lot longer than me and and i honor people who who are generals in this space right but since i've been in this space solely on my my own i couldn't go back to having a job and i've learned so much like when it comes to taxes i've learned what the rich people are doing with taxes i've learned that um what what are we thinking like there's nothing wrong if you're calling to have a job okay cool i'm not going like that but as an entrepreneur what is like one major thing you've learned being a black entrepreneur that you think other entrepreneurs need to know because you've i mean you've sold billions and i'm i'm not even near there you know when it comes to what i've done but what is one thing you've learned being a minority entrepreneur i'm not going to be politically correct with my answer i don't see color you don't see color i don't talk to me explain what you mean i am a spirit i live in a body and i possess a soul okay my spirit is not black or white true or green true my spirit is in the image of god okay i lie does that make sense i love it so how i see things is i have the ability to create exactly the way god had the ability to create has the ability to create now we live in a world where other people do see color yeah yeah and you have to understand that right right and i've used that over the years as not necessarily motivation but i've never looked at it as a disadvantage gotcha because i was of a certain color yeah because my spirit man that's who god gave dominion to right he gave to me into the spirit man my words have dominion on this earth yeah and i can command what it is that i deserve based on what my faith is so as an entrepreneur as an individual that's got to be the first thing that you got to look at now do you do things to help the black community yes do you do you serve as an example to the black community absolutely right but internally you've got to first see yourself as a spirit as a spirit man that's so good yeah and when it comes to male and female you know a lot of times you know women talk about equality and you are equal because the male and the female they were created at the same time it was the spirit that was created at the same time the bodies were created at separate times but the spirit of who we are the dominion that's why you can you've had powerful women on the show that have created millions of dollars in revenue millions of dollars of income because it's their mindset yes it's the spirit of who they are yeah so if you operate from that standpoint you won't look at it and say i'm at a disadvantage because of this because of that even if those disadvantages are there right right there are many examples of people like you yeah and so many people around the world that are of african descent that have gone on to do incredible things so i'm never going to use as an excuse i'm never going to use it as a disadvantage because i'm a child of god yeah and i am spirit yeah and i have dominion yeah and what you see maybe a black man and that's fine but i know who i am on the inside yo we're going to show right there because man when i was with ramsey solutions i said something similar to that i didn't say i don't i don't see color because i do see color i just don't acknowledge it and look at it as a it's a flaw of mine something black or it's a flaw of yours that you're white because i'm like yo god made you white so who am i sitting here and be upset with you because you're white right now how you use your whiteness how i use my blackness how we steward who we are that's where i have a problem you know true i don't have a problem with white privilege because there are black privileges and i'm like yo how are you stewarding your white privileges that's that's what i look at absolutely you know cause i'm working with dave ramsey and he's putting me on stages and platforms that he invited me on too he used it correctly and well i'm like so i can't sit here and be like white people are or black people are i'm like how are we stewarding the spirit the opportunities that god has given us yeah see they're good people and they're bad people absolutely they're good white people right bad white people they're good black people black people so it's the person yeah it's the spirit of who that person is it's the love they have on the inside of them or the hate they have on the inside of them and and if if we don't want to be judged we have to start stop judging we have to other people as well and i know that's not i see what you mean by you're saying that's not gonna be political yeah i get it i understand we're gonna have some negative comments yeah and that's okay that's fine that's fine that's fine it's your prerogative when you have a million dollar day come high levels you ain't got no debt and you you have a million dollar days and you're changing people's lives come on ladies until the end no no no but that's real though man but if people want to learn more about you because you have some great things coming up later on this year where can they go how can i learn more about you um believenation.com it's a platform that we created that is a free platform teaches people how to really believe and develop leadership skills as well to win in any area of life yeah and then obviously my instagram at david come on ed it's simple maybe it's not simple you have a unique last name powerful african name come on you got it there we go yeah look at that look at that you say it you got an eta so they can follow me on instagram okay uh as well but um a lot of great things are happening uh i'm excited about the future and it's it's gonna be powerful no madness and congratulations to you no bro really really proud of you you make us proud appreciate it and uh you did some great things and god will continue to increase you and your wealth and your wisdom appreciate it and uh thank god for you i'm a canadian i'm connected to him you know what i'm saying amen i'm connected to you hey brother listen i'm but i'm connected i'm connected you know what i'm saying so i mean that that's big i'm literally about to do that we about to go catch a flight but i'm like i'm literally about to write down a million holiday yeah it's done so let it be written so let it be done so let it be done and i think you all should do that too maybe yours is not a millionaire all day right now maybe it's a i need a thousand dollar day yeah i need a four thousand dollar month and we just gradually go there because man you're right ever since i stepped into that car i'm like man this is different yeah it's definitely different and i see what exposure does to people and when you touch it and you smell it and in my case it's paid for cash so it smells and feels different i'll be like that smells like cash yo we're going to drop my man's david information in the today show notes thank you all so much for rocking with us man today's show was absolutely amazing i didn't have any questions for the guy i just really wanted to flow and introduce you all to an amazing man that you all need to follow i'm excited about his future um god has his hands on him and i believe he's going to have a 100 million a year um and i'm just excited about it so we set it here we'll bring him on here in 12 months from now and see you know he surpassed 100 million but um i'm excited about his future so check him out you'll learn a lot information from this guy and yo we'll see you on the next show peace out [Music] [Music] you

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Length: 49min 28sec (2968 seconds)

Published: Wed Jul 13 2022