Hey everyone, and welcome to TopThink. Today, we are going to learn about 10 signs
you’re more attractive than you realize. Now, let’s begin. 1. Attractive Assumptions
Has anyone ever assumed you’re smarter than you are? Has anyone assumed you’re successful, even
if you aren’t flush with cash? Why would someone think you’re smarter or
more successful than you are? It’s because you’re attractive. People assume that attractive individual are
brimming with positive characteristics, like intelligence and success. We project an idealized vision of attraction
onto physically good-looking people. In other words, we assume every good-looking
person has “the whole package.” If people make these assumptions about you,
they’re making a cognitive error. Their brains are fundamentally biased…because
you are better looking than you think. 2. The Attention Magnet
Do people naturally gravitate toward you? Attractive people are like magnets. Wherever they go, they attract more attention
than the average person. If you’re in a crowded room, for example,
you may notice other people staring at you. When you’re at a coffee shop or a bookstore,
complete strangers go out of their way to get to know you. In each of these scenarios, your physical
appearance has captured someone’s attention. Think about what that means. Talking to a stranger is a difficult and intimidating
experience. Many people struggle to take social risks
because they’re afraid of rejection or failure. But when you entered the room, this person
overcame their fears, just to hear your voice. If you think about it that way, your good
looks have a profound impact on the people you meet. Your beautiful face convinced a complete stranger
to put themselves out there. And that’s anything but a coincidence. So, think about how often you draw attention
from others. If it happens frequently, you’re more attractive
than you realize. 3. The Double Take
Have you ever caught someone staring at you? Whenever you catch someone staring, they always
do the same thing. They quickly turn their head, trying to hide
their mistake, but after a few moments, they sneak another peak. As hard as they try, they just can’t look
away. This double take is a dead giveaway that somebody
finds you attractive. They stare at you because they’re spellbound
by the way you look. It’s possible their mouth is hanging open. In that moment, you’ve stolen their undivided
attention. In other words, you’ve swept them off their
feet. But as soon as you catch them staring, they
panic. They snap back to reality. They quickly turn their head, and they try
to cover up their mistake. They’re likely feeling embarrassed or nervous,
but you are the only thing on their mind. They pretend to be doing something else, but
all they want to do… is look at you again. Inevitably, they will look again. They’ll sneak another peak as soon as they
can. They’ll wait for you to look another direction,
because they need to see you at least one more time. So why do we stare at attractive people? The answer is simple. We like to look at beautiful things, especially
beautiful people. Your brain rewards you for staring at incredible
landscapes and pieces of art, but it has a particularly strong reaction to attractive
faces. If you ever catch someone doing a double-take—looking
and then looking away—you know one thing for sure. There’s nothing they’d rather look at
than you. 4. Temperamental Behavior
How do strangers act around you? Are they warm and friendly? Or cold and rude? Attractive people may experience odd, polarizing
behavior. The people they meet vary between two emotional
extremes. Some people are very excited to meet you. They try hard to make a connection with you. They seem nervous and jittery, and they laugh
at everything you say. But other people are cold, unfriendly, and
unnecessarily rude. They tease you about every mistake you make. They may even laugh at your expense. If you are an attractive person, you may feel
like you only meet two kinds of people. Either they are the pinnacle of kindness…
or a complete jerk. Why do attractive people experience so much
extreme behavior? All these people—the warm ones and the cold
ones—are attracted to you. One moment they’re complimenting your appearance. The next, they’re teasing you for doing
something stupid. In either case, this person finds you very
attractive, and they’re doing everything they can to let you know. 5. Radiating Happiness
Are you a happy and confident person? Are you satisfied with the life you’re living? Many people don’t think happiness affects
beauty or attraction. It’s an emotion, not a physical characteristic,
but happiness does change your appearance. When you’re happy, it’s written all over
your face. You smile and laugh more often. You display more confident body language. You have the courage to take social risks,
and you’re not afraid to be vulnerable with the people you like. If you are a happy person, other people feel
happier around you, and that makes you more attractive—physically and emotionally. People feel happier when you’re around. They associate you with the brightest moments
of their day, and they go out of their way to spend more time with you. This kind of emotional connection creates
a halo effect around you. People see you and everything you do through
a happy and positive lens. If that doesn’t make you more attractive,
I don’t know what will. Even though your emotions aren’t the first
thing people see when you enter a room, they’re often your most attractive features. If you are happy, confident, and fulfilled
person, you may be much more attractive than you could ever know. 6. Honest Expression
Mental and intellectual stimulation is another aspect of attraction. Some people are drawn to intelligence or experience—people
with good stories to tell and something interesting to say. While intelligence is a common and attractive
feature, more people are looking for someone else, something much more difficult. Expressing yourself is a challenging thing
to do. You need to be honest about your weaknesses. You need to understand your emotions. You need to reflect on your wants, desires,
and dreams. When you’ve done all these things, you still
need the confidence to express yourself to others, and that confidence is very difficult
to find. If you’re already an expressive person,
you have a confidence and emotional intelligence that other people find attractive. You are in-touch with yourself in a way that
many people aren’t. And whether you realize it or not, you express
your rare and attractive confidence everywhere you go. 7. Unwanted Attention
Sometimes, being attractive is a burden. For example, let’s say you want to have
a quiet night with your friends. You go out to a public place, but you don’t
want to attract any attention. You’re not interested in meeting someone
new, but strangers approach you anyway. This is especially common with attractive
women. As soon as they stop looking for attention,
that’s exactly what they get. But this doesn’t apply exclusively to romance. Attractive people have the same problem in
the workplace. Maybe you want to be alone to concentrate
on a project, but people keep asking for your help or your opinion. When someone needs something, you are the
first person that pops into their mind. If someone wants feedback or constructive
criticism, they turn to you, because they respect and value you as a person
This is a different kind of attraction, but it’s still attraction. People are drawn to you, not because you’re
physically good-looking, but because you’re mentally and emotionally mature. In other words, you’re honest and reliable. People respect you because you are someone
they can trust. 8. Opening Your Mind
Are you an open-minded person? Do you enjoy listening to people whose opinions
differ from your own? Most people in the world are stubborn and
close-minded. They’re only interested in hearing their
own opinions, and their close-mindedness pushes many people away, no matter how physically
good looking they are. Everyone wants to feel heard. We desire someone who takes our opinions seriously,
even if they don’t agree with us on all the same things. If you’re an open-minded person, you make
others feel heard. You’re open to perspectives that are different
from your own, and you validate the feelings of the people around you. This quality makes you intellectually and
emotionally attractive, as both a partner and a friend. You may not realize you’re doing anything
special. But you are. If you are open-minded, you have one of the
most attractive qualities a person can have. 9. A Contagious Smile
Has anyone ever told you that you have a nice smile? Let’s say you’re talking to someone you
just met. The two of you have great chemistry. The conversation has been lively and interesting. You’ve made each other laugh, and you’ve
learned personal details about each other’s lives. Now you’re starting to wonder if this person
is interested in you. All the sudden, they give you a compliment. They say, “I really like your smile.” What does this mean? Are they flirting with you, or are they just
being nice? Complimenting your smile is not as overt as
acknowledge your shape or your clothes, but it carries the same message. If someone likes the way you smile, they are
attracted to you, and your smile is just one of the reasons why. 10. Positive Passion
Are you a passionate person? Passionate people have confident, adventurous,
and attractive personalities that enrich the lives of others. If you are a passionate person, your excitement
is contagious, and your positivity attracts the attention of everyone you meet. But passionate people like you are respected
most for their dedication. You have found something you care about, and
you’re dedicating your life to the pursuit of your goals. Often, people are attracted to personality
traits they wish they had. By embodying both passion and dedication,
you give others a window into the kind of person they want to be. Not only are you a joy to be around, but your
passion is attractive and inspiring. Thank you for watching TopThink, and be sure
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