てあげる vs てくれる vs てもらう (to do ~ for smbd vs Smbd does ~ for me) + PASSIVE form vs てくれる

konnichiwa Japanese I'm not mrs. s hey guys today I'm going to teach you how to use a I get a thank you letter and tell Maura so I've already made a lesson on the differences between the verbs I get a good at it and more our so if you haven't watched that please go watch that first also you haven't learned that F warm it's a bit pointless to watch this video so please go watch my lessons on the platform first then come back anyway you ever seen my video on how to say thank you properly in Japanese you might recognize this pair good at it because when you want to say thank you for doing something for me you always use this tech cadet aful with the wood arigato so for example when you want to say thank you for teaching me you'd say oh they're good at that arigato or she had that good at that arigato so he I've seen the video on the differences exam I get it and good at it you know that cou data is used when someone gives me the speaker something right like you usually say give a guy something or good at her then that means the giver gave me something right Humana for example say my mom gave me a computer you'd say oh gosh I'm got pasó con couldn't stop informally and oh gosh I'm got Paso all could mi stop for me but for example you want to say my mom bought me a computer you would use this tech Carrera and say oh gosh anga paso KO kut teh coup d'etat oka sangha pass o KO kut take a data so both sentences similar or car Sanga become clear top my mom gave me a computer and oh gosh I'm got passo cool cut deku data my mom bought me a computer so when someone does something for year and you appreciate that you usually use this form take it if you don't and just say oh gosh I'm got paso kong kappa then this just means my mom bought a computer you didn't who she bought it for then you might be thinking can we just say oh gosh anger what does she mean PO so cool kappa cuz you can use this me particle teacher who the speaker buy something for but this is not natural at all or even if you use the would know tom any like someone no time any is how is a for someone like for the sake of someone like Tomodachi not too many then that means for my friend but again oh gosh and god watashi no tameni paso kong kappa still sounds unnatural like japanese people who didn't speak like that it does make sense so people want correctly probably for saying that but it's definitely more natural to say oh gosh i'm got paso go cut thicker data this way you don't even have to say what does she buy now you know that we hate to hear the word watershed too many times right so oh gosh I'm gonna call cut take credit or for money oh gosh anger pass oh cool cut they couldn't my stuff is how Japanese people say my mom bought me a computer so as you can see Cal Tech is the tech form of the verb color to buy color that's why I said at the beginning if you haven't learned that for me this blue there is not worth watching really because you want to make this form without knowing the typhoon so car all the to through and then verbs should have small surplus path right so cuz cop there so for example the verb to meet also has the UN thing so I also becomes up there when you want to make that platform up there so you want to say thank you for meeting me you can say up they could at that arigato up security arigato so first up the cadet it is someone meets for me for the sake of me like someone meets me and I appreciate that I'm that good at it I'm to connect with the world arigato thank you you have to also change credit into the platform so you say a decorative arigato TT form this is why the form is so important hon tani by day so I said o to do and in verbs it have it's not supposed a so to ending verb for example matter - wait you're say thank you for waiting for me you'd again put the verb matzah and it's the form then add kureta arigato so much becomes mad there right it could also mean wait ma there and then you say ma they could add it when you want to say someone waits for me and I appreciate that my they could at it it's like someone giving me a favor so that's how you should run but like could it I mean someone gives me they are giving me a favor so mom they could their arigato thank you for waiting for me my decorator arigato so it should do anything so when I said it's ending this duel ending is not the era or error ending verbs I meant like I do drew order ending verbs suburbs like Sakura to make or Torah to take or especially he said trashing your Torah that means to take a picture right these lips would have the small to plus standing as well so human for example so my girlfriend made me dinner again you want to say thank top or someone did something for me like someone did something nice for me so so good route to make becomes to cook that right to good that so so good that good at it means someone makes for me like oh gosh I'm got mine Ichiko how to cook that good at it or pass on got mine Ichiko how it's good that good at it my mom makes food for me every day my mom cooks for me every day but for my girlfriend made me dinner you want to say con no joke gah for my girlfriend con mojo car and then dinner I say Bongo hon bun Gohan so you say Pongo huh oh - good day good at that fungal how it's good that good at a human say like my girlfriend made me curry for dinner you'd say come on shoka Bongo honey cut it up - good Deckard at top come on Joker bungle honey cut it out good deck good at top I mean she wanna make this centers formal you just change coup d'etat into good and my stuff so you say come on Joker Punggol how to good that good and my stuff and you can say someone took a picture for me someone took a picture of me and I appreciate that like you asked a stranger on the street II take a picture V and want to say all that person take a picture of me and I really appreciate that or that person too Big Shot man that's nice of him you again want to say good at it so for example a stranger we say a person I don't know so when you want to say I don't know we say all night all night or she did my son cheating my scent formerly I've already made the lesson on the differences between she deny and walk out on I oh she did my sin and wakarimasen so please check that out if you don't know the differences but anyway she denied he taught is how he said a stranger that truly person I don't know so online stop a stranger got shy she thought there could at top online toka shy she thought take that back and that means a stranger took a picture for me a stranger took a picture of me and I appreciate that so I said that this could be used when I asked someone to take a picture of me but say she Auto Tech Loretta could mean that they offered me to take a picture instead of me asking them so when I want to put the neurons of I asked them and they did it for me I would actually use tech moral moral so Mora means to receive right and when you say someone mean the test Maura it means I have someone do something for me so instead of sadhana toga Hoshino Tata kita I can also say sadhana Tony Hoshino Tata Murata shiranai Tony shishio Tata Murata that would imply that I ask that person to take a picture of me and then they did it and I really appreciate so just like I explained the previous video when you say someone me something or model the subject is still I what does she so what does she Wow is omitted right like so it's actually what pass you are someone need something or more out to me I receive something from someone and also the me particle here is used like from someone so the new particle usually indicates the direction to like me horny okay I go to Japan we would use someone me something on what out like I received something from someone so it's the same for someone me Tara someone me expresses who did something for me so Sharon and Tony Shashi no totem or Appa doesn't mean I'm the one he take the picture for that person it means that stranger take a picture for me so earlier we had the sentence oka Sun God Paso KO kut teh kita my mom bought me a computer and I appreciate that um this could mean that my mom bought it without me asking her maybe it was a surprise for me like maybe I always said I wanted a computer but I didn't really ask her maybe I asked once but it's like please mommy computer and then she went to buy it it's more like she knew I wanted one and she got it for me without me having have to ask I mean it could mean both there it could be that I asked her and she got it well if I say oh gosh I'm me Paso gon cut them or Appa then that implies that I asked her to buy one and then she bought it for me so Japanese people differentiate these forms instinctively so here are a Japanese person the difference they might not be able to explain this also when we say Oh Cass I need Paso Kolkata Murata it's not like I really want you to know that I begged her or I asked her it just comes out instinctively so the sentence come on Joker Pongo how to cook the kureta again sounds like she did it because she's nice you know it's not like I asked her I came home and the food was already ready but if I say come on Johnny bang go home ticket Tamura top that implies that I asked her to make it all I kind of made it clear that I'm really tired and I don't want to kick I could be like oh that's good at all I'm so tired and then kicks for me and I probably feel like I kind of made her kick not like I forced her to make dinner but you know I kind of made it clear that I didn't want to kick and then she did it so hard to say come on Johnny Fung go home it's good them water oh maybe I just asked her can you make dinner for me and then she did it come on Johnny Fung go home it's good Damona then you might be thinking to say thank you for teaching me should we use Morada because often students ask the teacher to teach the teacher teaches them right but no when you wanna say thank you for doing something you always say take arigato we don't say Tamura the idea at all so a lot of tech specs make it seem like Ted and Tamara are interchangeable but there is a difference right I mean at the end when you translate into English they mean the same but there is a difference but that tiny difference of the neurons can make you sound more natural but there is also a difference that when someone did something for you and you think that's a nice gesture but you don't want to tell who did that you can only use tech morale so like instead of okar Sangha Paso conquer the coup d'etat oh gosh I'm nipa so co-captain Maura top I can also just say Paso como cut Tamara top that means someone bought me a computer so here's secretive person you don't want to say that you bought it for yourself because that would be a lie but you don't want to say who gave it to you you can use this tomorrow so PI so cool cut them when I thought that means someone bought me a computer or I got a computer it's kind of the same in English when you say I got a computer it could mean that I received the computer or I bought a computer right and it can do kind of the same thing in Japanese you say cut them all up and that means I didn't buy it for myself someone did but I'm not telling you if someone says cut them what up but you could ask that any cut them what a bummer thank you boy for you but yeah maybe that person won't mind telling you or they might attend there or the speaker simply thinks that that information is not necessary it's not like a sugar daddy bought the computer maybe my mom boy but I just don't think I need to say that it was my mom then I can just say peso como cat de Moura top poco cut them what up top so when you want to say I was invited by someone you can either say someone got sasso de coup d'etat Sasso is the verb to invite cervix Sasso Taketa wassakara Jenga party nice a so Taketa and that means sakura invited me to a party I can also say Sakuni party nice I sorta more up top but it kind of sounds like suck coulda said she's going to party and I was like emo I'm jealous what does she weigh keep die I want a good key and Sakurai's like okay it's Jenny cooter do you want to come with me and then it's more like psycho tiny party nice I sorta more up because I kind of asked her to invite me but if I don't want to say who invited me I can't use take credit because ticketed it has to be used when the listener knows who did that for me so I can say party nice ah so Tamura party nice a September Appa I mean I was invited to a party someone invited me to a party like someone says but I saw that man rich saw the net you look happy and making me like pipe Aneesa so tamanho da no party nee-san so damn what a bummer I was invited to a party or someone invited me to the party this doesn't mean that someone dodgy invited me to a party it just could mean that the person who asked me doesn't know my friend I mean of course I can be Tomodachi any party nice ass automata autumn illogical party niece's of the Kurata but if the speaker doesn't feel like that information is necessary and he or she just wants to say that he or she was invited to the party they could just say party nice I saw them what up piping hot bummer but there is another way to say I was invited you can use the passive form so I already made a lesson on the passive form T you change the last sound of the verb into our data and you get the possible right like meter to C becomes me rotted it and that means to be seen like someone nice a scene you want me right at me surely you could translate like that photo was seen by someone or it could just be like someone saw that picture and I don't like that so you've seen my lesson on the passive form you should know that the passive form is used when the speaker doesn't like the fact that some ways doing that to the speaker like kerosene eki O'Meara data so when you use the passive form for the sentence I was invited like you could technically say it's a soul water top right I was invited party knees are so wide and my stuff it can mean something neutral link I was invited to a party but maybe depending on the way you say it it could sound like oh I didn't want to go but now that I'm invited I kind of have to go then yeah you'd say so good I need party nice or Sawada thought maybe Sakura invited me to her birthday party but for example it was a disaster last year now I don't want to go and I was hoping this you don't invite me again but she did you can say oh I'm so good I mean partying it's also what I thought so that passive form can give you that neurons right so to avoid that like you want to say that it's good that I was invited you can say so good I got party knee it's also they could at that also good I need 14 eat sauce or them or not but all right now let me explain how to use tap I get it so I get it means I give something to someone right so when you say something or I get that usually it means I gave something to someone so when we use this verb I get it the subject is usually what does she I or somebody right so do you remember in the previous video I explained that you can only use this verb I get it when I give someone something or I give you something or someone give someone else something it can never be used when someone gives me something right or when someone gives my family or someone close to something we also don't use the verb I get it but we use the verb can edit like we had to send us like mr. Tanaka gave my son a t-shirt we said Tomica Sangha Mosconi t-shirt so could a master Tanaka Sangha Mosconi t-shirt so could a master or could it that informally although my son is not what does she me I would still use the verb could edit when somebody gives something to my family or someone closely so the same rule should be applied when using that I get it we only use that I get it when I do something nice to somebody or somebody is doing something nice to somebody else not someone doing something nice to me or someone doing something nice to my family in those cases you want to use tech editor or tear Maura so first when somebody does something nice to somebody else you always is I get it only when the speaker finds that action nice there for example Mario saved peach and I find that very nice of Maria then are these tech I get it so I say Marty yawa PTO tasket I get that Mario ah PTO does get it I get back Mario saved peach so Mario did that for peach right by the way past gator means to save someone's life usually a lot of learners tend to use the verb task Gator you mean like to help someone with the homework but tascela is more serious like saving someone so don't use TAS get it for the camping some a move or helping someone with the homework you want to use the verb pets adult that's about like Mario helped peach with her homework for example you'd used a verb petrodollar so the verb Ted said that the UN name becomes small soup last eraser that's that okay I get it it's how he says someone or I helped somebody else so Mario our PTO Tetsu that day I get that then that just means that Mario helped peach with something small not that small like it could be like you know carried something really really heavy bites on like he saved her life then you the east of the test it out for example when you were say to help someone with their homework in English you say with by in Japanese we say somebody no she could die oh that's it that somebody know she could I test it out so you can say Mario 1pg know she could die all that that day I get that money over PA Chino chiku dial that's that day I get that this construction can be seen in other verbs like motor to hold or carry Huckabee to carry usually something heavy and now say to fix like to fix someone's computer you say someone know something oh now for carrying you say someone know something oh what Oh Rocco be like Mario ah peachy no Kabam Matta Agata mario RPG no cabal Matta Agata so we say Mario old peaches back pity no cabin Oh Takeshi hua casa me no Paso cool now stay I get that Takeshi fix customers computer for her so as long as we find that action nice we use that I get it right like you can say Takeshi hua casa me no paso como now stop but this doesn't add the nuance of like oh how nice of him so if you want to sound more natural you can start using this day I get it so now when you use I get it about the speakers action but when you say I did something nice for somebody else we the gainsay blah blah hey I get it okay I get that because overusing that I get it about your own action to make you sound a bit without swearing maybe like a I don't know our gun person oh it just makes you sound like you're so full of yourself like you think you are so nice you're so great it's actually really funny because he watch anime and you find a female character that is like always think ah I'm so nice I'm always think something great that character usually uses pet I get it all the time so for example I made dinner for my boyfriend I can say Cudicini fungal huh it's good that I get that Cudicini fungal how to cook that I get that means I made enough for my boyfriend right and it's fine if you say that it doesn't make you sound like a bad person as long as you don't overuse it if you just thought that's nice thing to do you can just say that and you know making dinner for someone is nice but for example a really popular girl and make it be like mannequin - how much target that my bacon hash tag get back and that means I talk to my back in because I'm so nice so for example that speaker thinks my I came for example he's not really popular not cool enough for her and she's like I'm nice so I'm going to talk to him so then that girl could say my back and oh how much they get back because I'm so nice I talk to everyone Oh someone that you not but I feel and I shine it in our stag I get back a really person could be like I will eat that cookie so you won't get fat you could say antig of Doraemon your knee so no cookie Tabata I get it anti-god Doraemon your knee some cookie tabatha I get it so anta is kind of a rude way to say ye um tiger who taught online comes from the web hoot order to get far who taught on my negation not get fat who taught online your knee I have to make it less on this but when you wanna say so da someone doesn't there's something it's a negation plus your name so that you won't get that you say who taught on I your knee I mean doesn't necessarily mean so that you could mean so that I won't get fat the thought on my your knee so no cookie the cookie you have tabete I get it how better to eat and then pay I get it I do something for you I think that's nice thing today or to a skinny person you could be nasty like yes a 9 your knee tok-san Gohan's get the attire I made lots of food for you so you want these anymore wait so this tip I get it can be really good for in a nasty passive-aggressive people I mean I don't know if it's possible go so it's just aggressive but yeah yes and I is something of the verb yeah said it till is white yes and I your knee so dot you won't lose weight that goes on a lot Gohan oh good there I get that so as you can see you gotta be careful when you use I get it right but you can definitely use that I get it when you do something nice if you fix your friend's computer that's really nice of you you should say two more that you know pasó con now is that I get that or tamanna' Tino Paso come on now I step I get my stuff only oh I cleaned my son's room for him it's a nice go not hell so just a I get that miss gonna hang out soul-g stagette that my school son yeah yeah room so g-suit is to clean and then I get that I did that for him if you have thought wait can you use that I get it when you talk about your family yes you can as long as the subject is I so like I doing that for my family I can still use that I get it you can't use to get it when somebody else does something nice to my family like let's say mr. Tanaka cleaned my son's room we'd have to say Tanaka Sangha Muskaan oh hello so this data Oh Tanaka Sangha miss como hello so just take care master I hope you found this lesson helpful he did please give a thumbs up and also please consider supporting me on patreon because I put more example sentences and explanation in a video exclusively patrons alright thank you so much for watching dammit then everybody

Channel: Japanese Ammo with Misa

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Keywords: japanese grammar, learn japanese, teageru japanese, te ageru japanese, てあげる japanese, てくれる vs てもらう, tekureru vs temorau

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Length: 33min 15sec (1995 seconds)

Published: Fri Jan 11 2019