Woman Hunts For Real Father After Near-Death Experience (Full Episode) | Paternity Court

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You may be seated. Hello, Your Honor. Hello. This is the case of<i> Walker v. Simmons.</i> Thank you, Jerome. Good day everyone. AUDIENCE: Good day. JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Walker, you claim that your near-death experience has made your desire to determine your biological father more important than ever. Yes, Your Honor. JUDGE LAKE: After believing one man was your father, you learned about another possibility, Bruce Simmons. PARTHENIA: Yes, Your Honor. JUDGE LAKE: Now, you'll meet him for the first time in a minute, but you say you must first prove to his doubtful wife that he is your father. PARTHENIA: Yes, Your Honor. Well okay. Ms. Simmons, you contend that there's absolutely no way your husband is Ms. Walker's biological father. No way. JUDGE LAKE: You argue Ms. Walker needs to let go of this fantasy and move on to another candidate. Yes. Ms. Simmons, please, share your doubts. DIERDRE: We've been together since we were 15. We just got married 2003. I have two biological kids. We've never made any. I believe my husband is sterile. I believe he can't make no kids. If we've been together that long and we ain't made none together, what makes somebody just pop up and say, "Oh, you're the father." And so the two children you have... DIERDRE: Are not his. Are not his. No. So, you know you're capable of having children. Yes. JUDGE LAKE: But don't believe he is? Yes. So, Ms. Walker, so why do you believe he's your biological father? Your Honor, I went on the search, and I didn't particularly just go out and just pick this random guy. In the beginning, I was also told that there was another man that was on my birth certificate, and I was told that was my father. JUDGE LAKE: So what made you exclude the man that's on your birth certificate? I excluded him because I had, as you know, I had a near-death experience. I had to, I was going for a congestive heart failure, <i> and I had to have a lung biopsy.</i> And in order to have this lung biopsy, they said that I can reach out to my family and before they went for donor blood, reach out to my family and ask if they would go and donate blood. So I called my dad that I was told that was, and asked him to go and asked his family all to go down and give blood so I wouldn't have to have donor blood. So, after everything was said and done, the doctors comes into me and told me, "The guy that you were thinking that's your father, "and this is not something that's supposed to be told to you, but, "there's no possible way. We wasn't able to use his blood. "We had to use donor blood." And so how did you connect to the name Bruce Simmons? Okay. My mother had to go to Jersey where I resided when I was a child, and his sister reached out to my mom in the middle of the road, stopped her, "Hey, hey, hey, I've been looking for my niece." And my mom came back to Florida... That's not what happened at all. My mom came back to Florida and was, like, "Hey, listen, let me tell you something. "I think I might have a possibility of who your dad is." So I'm like, "Okay. Go ahead. Give'em my number." She gave my number, she reached out to me, she was like, "Well, we knew about you since you were a baby. "Your mom had you around, and then all of a sudden, she went off." That's not how it happened, Your Honor. Not at all. JUDGE LAKE: And this is Bruce Simmons' sister... Sister, yes. DIERDRE: And this is not how it happened. ...talking to you? PARTHENIA: Yes. All right, so... She cool. Ms. Simmons, you say that's not how it happened. DIERDRE: No, it's not how it happened. Were you there? No, I wasn't there. JUDGE LAKE: Well, how did it happen? Because the sister called him and said, "Bruce, I met so and so and so, she asked me for your number. <i> "She believes you are her daughter's father."</i> So I said, "First of all, your sister should have called you first, "for permission to give out your number. You have a wife. "I believe that's disrespectful to me." "Come ask me first, is it okay?" Okay, now he's talking to her on the phone, "Oh, call this one. Call..." Why is you giving out your family numbers to people that you ain't even sure that's your daughter yet? PARTHENIA: What's it to you... It's a lot to me. That's my husband. I'm not asking y'all for nothing. I don't want nothing. I just want to know where I belong... I understand that, but... No you don't! You're building somebody's spirit up. All right, Ms. Simmons, with all due respect, I have to ask you, are you upset that she made contact, or are you upset that your husband may be her biological father? No, no, none of that. None of that, because he wants to be a father, JUDGE LAKE: Hold on, hold on, hold on. You say, "None of that." None of that. I'm not upset. So what are you upset for, because this can not be your calm state. It's the way they went about it. He reached out to me! What you being sneaky for? I didn't contact him. I never heard of her mother, never heard of her. Okay, hold on. Hold on. So, your anger stems from, you just felt like in this equation, they left you out. Exactly. And I was upset for the way the sister went about it, like I say. So you felt like his sister overstepped her bounds. DIERDRE: Yes, yes! All right. So, Ms. Walker, when you first connected with Mr. Simmons, what happened? Well, I get this message of, "Hi, Parthenia, my name is Bruce Simmons, "and I'm your father. Call me back." And I was just stunned. So, I played it for my boss, I played it for my mom, I played it for my husband when I got home, I played it for my kids. I called everybody, and I just kept playing this message, because, just to have that little bit of hope of where you belong, it means a whole lot. JUDGE LAKE: And so, Ms. Walker, even though you got that message, you have never met Mr. Simmons? Never. DIERDRE: No. JUDGE LAKE: To this day? I've seen his sister, I've lived in the same town, you know, he's seen me, from my understanding of what he said, he's seen me as a baby when I was brought around as a baby. Him and my mother were in a relationship, I guess on a breakup here, as well as in a relationship... It was never a relationship. As well as a relationship, That's your say, I'm not worried about what you say. No, that's what he said, okay, from his mouth. So, Ms, Walker, did Mr. Simmons tell you he believed that he's your father? Yes ma'am, he did. (CHUCKLING) He didn't. Jerome, I think it's time we meet Mr. Simmons. DIERDRE: Yes, please bring him in. Please. Hello. Can I give you a hug? Um, Your Honor... JUDGE LAKE: Mr. Simmons, welcome. Thank you for joining us here today. Yes. So we are discussing the paternity, as it relates to Ms. Walker. Now, she says that you contacted her, and said you believe you're her biological father. Yes. JUDGE LAKE: Now, take me back. Tell me about the relationship with her mother. BRUCE: Well, me and her mother got together, I was trying to get her sister, her mother's sister. That's how it really started out. And what had happened, her mother pushed up and said, "I'm gonna make you my man," because her sister wasn't that into me at that time. And, you know, we was, like, courting each other. We called it courting, back then. And we made plans to spend that weekend together. Okay. So we spent that weekend together, and then after that, we lost touch with each other, because... Like I said, no relationship, it's just the weekend. She upped and left. Okay, so when you say you spent the weekend together, let's be clear, you were intimate with her? BRUCE: Intimate for two days, yes. No protection used? No protection. No nothing. But was in a relationship before that, because he just said that they were in... Well, Ms. Walker, yes, we understand that it was not a one-night drunken booty call as Ms. Simmons suggested. PARTHENIA: Thank you. That's all I wanted. He said three days, a weekend. They spent the weekend together. JUDGE LAKE: Well, your husband already testified they courted each other. A weekend is not a relationship. A courtship. That's a relationship. That's not enough relationship. JUDGE LAKE: They courted each other. They spent a weekend together. And then your mother left, for whatever reason. PARTHENIA: Yes, Your Honor. Bottom line is, when she left, did you ever find out or know she was pregnant? BRUCE: No, I did not. When I found out that she was pregnant, she had the child, it was when she come walking around the corner and she had a baby in the stroller. 'Cause I didn't know until she walked up on the porch and said, "Okay, this is your child." And she gave me a picture, and immediately I went upstairs and I showed the picture to my father, and I said, "Does she have any resemblance to the family?" <i> And to him, he turned to me, he said, "You better have a test."</i> <i> This is what my father said.</i> At that time, when I came back downstairs, she was having a dispute with the other lady that I was involved with, and she left. So, here it is now, we come 26 years later down the line, and... JUDGE LAKE: And she's having another dispute with somebody you're involved with. BRUCE: Yeah. It's interesting how history repeats itself. When his potential daughter was right before his very eyes, her mother got into a dispute with the woman that he was with. And now his potential daughter is right before his very eyes again, but she's in a dispute with the woman that he's with! Do you believe you're sterile, as your wife... Do I believe I'm sterile? Now, my wife says so. Now, me... (DIERDRE CHUCKLING) Me, and that's her, I don't know about it, practically nothing. I've learned from a doctor, he said that my sperm system was weak. It didn't say that I was sterile, you know what I'm saying, so... For her to say that I was sterile, it wasn't God's intention for her to have any children by me, and I leave it at that point. And it was God's intention that her mother probably had a kid by me. All right, so, Ms. Walker, What are the other reasons, outline for the court, what are the other reasons you believe he's your father? I have a lot of medical issues as well as my children have the medical issues. All six of my children, including myself, has asthma. My mama don't have asthma, my grandma don't have asthma, my granddaddy don't have asthma, but I found out... Mr. Simmons, do you have asthma? I have asthma. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. And it runs in my family, 'cause my mother's got it. Can I say something? He has asthma. I have asthma, Does that make him my father? My son has juvenile diabetes. On the men's side of their family, runs diabetes. BRUCE: Diabetes, yes. The cancer, me and my daughters have a rare cancer cell that runs on their side of the family as well. So even if it's not him, somewhere in this long line, I'm somewhere close to finding out. That's one reason why I'm propelled to really find out, because there is a medical history in my family. And so, ultimately, whether or not she is your biological child, she's still a young woman with very real health issues, <i> and a lot rides on the results we present here.</i> We say all the time, there are no small claims in paternity court. However, in this situation, we can truly say that your life depends on these results. I mean, I have no animosity and no illness towards her. I'm married myself, and if somebody was to come out and say, "Okay, this is a possibility, that you might be my..." Guess what? I'm not gonna battle him. Let's find out. I'm not gonna have no ill will about with the woman, I'm not gonna have no ill will with the child, because at the end of the day, I'm the innocent one, because whatever she has animosity, that's with my mama and him. Because, guess what? Y'all weren't together. DIERDRE: My point is, it should've been done. I've been telling him, "Get a blood test. Stop signing on the dotted line. "Stop claiming kids that you know aren't yours." You got two kids that's not his! They're mine, though! They're mine, though! They're mine, and he raised them! They're mine, he raised them from birth. They're mine, though. I know who my kids' daddy is. Let's, let's, let's bring it down a notch. When he first reached out and called me, Your Honor, when he first reached out and called me, we were talking good. He called me once a week, and this is not no 8, 9, these are 10, 11, 12 o'clock, 1:00 in the morning phone calls, because he's hiding from his wife. But this is just ridiculous! You all are acting like you all are two women he's involved with intimately! This is a young woman... No, no, like I say... JUDGE LAKE: No, no, no. No, no, no, no. What I am observing is a level of animosity, Jerome, that we see with two women that are involved with the same man sexually, not involved with the same man because he's your husband, she can't take that away, but he potentially might be her biological father, which you can't take away. He don't have to sneak and talk to anybody on the phone. Why is he sneaking? JUDGE LAKE: Ask him! Ask him! Every time I come out of the room, he's on the phone, he's talking real low. I do ask him! JUDGE LAKE: Ask him! I do ask him. Why are you sneaking, sir? My reasons for sneaking is because I, like, I suffer from a low self-esteem. You know what I'm saying? So I don't want no conflict. I feel scared, because I don't wanna be... JUDGE LAKE: You don't want to hurt either person. BRUCE: Yeah, I don't. And so what you do is you avoid the conflict... So how are you a man but you gotta bow down to a woman? I'm married. I'm married. I'm married. No. It don't have nothing to do with bowing down. My point is... JUDGE LAKE: We need some order! (BANGING GAVEL) Let's et some order. BRUCE: Yes. I'm really, really trying to figure out, Ms. Simmons, why there is so much anger and animosity. Because I don't think anybody's after you, or after your life, and look, even if you believe the process wasn't the right way, when you look at a beautiful young woman that has... DIERDRE: Okay... No, no, let me finish a sentence, 'cause, see, I'm not your husband. I got to finish a sentence. I know you're not my husband. JUDGE LAKE: Let me explain this to you. It's just an innocent young woman that doesn't know who her father is. And if it is your husband or not your husband, it doesn't take anything away from you to be kind and open to it, even if you feel like... But you're not letting me say why I feel the way I feel, though. I get... Ma'am, I have. I asked you before, why the anger, and you said it was about the process, that they didn't go about it right. No, I don't want to get into it a lot, but I want you to understand... She never like me from the beginning, because I'm saying something about the phone. Because of what she out up on her Facebook? JUDGE LAKE: We're not going to argue about the Facebook. I'm just saying to you, you're a woman that's lived a lot of life, and this is a young woman that hopes to live the lobg life you have, and part of the way that she can do that is to figure out her history. And... Look... I'm a woman of a certain age myself. I'm just saying to you directly, it serves you no good to in any way argue about this. Just support your husband. I'm ready for the results, and I'm hoping during that process, whatever it is, respect the fact that she needs and deserves to know. Jerome, the envelope. These results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics, and they read as follows. JUDGE LAKE: In the case of<i> Walker v. Simmons,</i> when it comes to 30-year-old Parthenia Walker, it has been determined by this court, Mr. Bruce Simmons, you... ...are not her father. I'm sorry. I wish to put it better, but... PARTHENIA: It's okay. It's whatever God has it. JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Walker, I'm sorry this was not the answer you wanted. I know you're looking for closure for more reasons than just the spiritual, emotional closure. You need the medical information. Yes. And for that reason and more, I am encouraging you to continue your search. Mr. Simmons, I appreciate you being open with this young girl. And Ms. Simmons, despite the anger I saw you express, when the results came down, you just took a beat, and just gave her a moment to process it. And I thank you for that, because ultimately, this is a really serious situation. And I want you to find your biological father. Oh, I'm gonna find him. I'm determined. I know you are. I wish you all the very vest of luck. Jerome, court is adjourned. Please bring up Ms. Walker. Ma'am, could you come up? The judge would like to speak to you. I'm so sorry. I really am. I just wanted it so you just know. But don't stop. Be strong. You got six kids. Right? You're a mother, you're a wife. Get your answers. They're out there, okay? Good luck to you. Thank you. Okay, honey.
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Length: 17min 28sec (1048 seconds)
Published: Fri Jan 11 2019
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