Why My Chinese Wife Changed Her Mind on China

the only thing that upsets me it's how I feel about like my country to people they wouldn't listen one of the craziest experiences that I remember with my wife is when we first started dating she had absolutely no idea that a lot of these websites actually existed YouTube Facebook Twitter all this stuff is blocked in China so when I kind of opened her mind up and opened the world of the Internet up to her by using a VPN everything changed in our relationship and that's really special the VPN that I use is Nord VPN and they actually sponsored this video I find that Nord VPN has the easiest interface you can hop around the world to any country you want change servers when things go up and down but even when I'm back in the US I still use a VPN because you never know when you're on unsecured Wi-Fi and coffee shops or in restaurants or really anywhere it's best that you're on a VPN so that people are not snooping on your data to keep yourself safe to create that safety net or to even hop 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jealous basically because you are a good student that means you're a good student that means you love your country and that means your family and your teacher taught you well so doing one the generation when I was growing up there's a lot of propaganda about like outside world are evil of course the powerful country something like America and something like Japan and they jealous about the growing speed about China we need to support be it one citizen to support our country growing at that time we're being fighting the idea about if we are Chinese we need to believe in our country if we are Chinese we need to accept to the idea that like our country will make mistake it's just like a normal human being but we correct ourselves that's how we grow so like every single time it if it mentioned about like value island and those kind of thing we're God so end up and got so mad because like we feels like the whole world is against us we are humble we are growing and normally humble person got beat up we need to be strong enough to handle all the stress and also we got taught about like if we we support our country that's how our country we grow stronger they need us to say our country need us to support them we call the country as our mother we are out there kid mean like that's just giving me a huge conflict about by the time I actually get to know about how Americans taught their kids about speak of yourself it doesn't matter about the government government is work for the people no that's another way around even though like as people said we are pretty much brainwash in our whole life but at that time I don't think like China actually do anything wrong to us the society didn't do anything wrong life goes on nothing got affected until we go to Macau I go to Macau to study which is also they call it as a China but it's a special colony that like back down run back Portugal so that land technically it's like freedom of speech back then not now so the internet was uncensored people get allowed to go out to protest and people allowed to talk about what ever they feel and they won't have punishment the most importantly people in Macau able to travel everywhere in the world they got different perspective from the world so I went to college and this kind of situation at that time in my whole grade and because we're freshmen right so we got split to different kind of school or a different kind of class system but we able to get the best education from different kind from the teacher from all over the world to now I really respect how they taught us they taught us to be open-minded open-minded as not not only belief in one side a story I appreciate the way I've been taught it's like don't only listen to one side just open-minded to let listen to how people talk that costs like the problem later on in my life after school I graduate I need to go back to China and get involved in the society that like it's totally closed up no multiple information comes from which is like the government can show all the information which I'm cool with that I'm not a political person I don't talk about anything of this so every single time so like a new event comes out when people get mad when like people talk about back down the history and even I have something to say it just enter Bryant all the friends that are really close to me getting mad about for example about Taiwan situation for example about those like Hong Kong people not necessary wannabe brew by China and whatever that is every single time if I try to talk with my family about this if I try to talk who friend about this never end up half a good story comes out like everybody end up get pissed because they have the opinion that like the information that only can't get from China I don't want to say is that right or wrong I leave it up to you guys to decide and a lot of people said that's good because there's a lot of garbage information that your country fill it up for a filter for you so that you don't get brainwash so at the end of the day who is getting brainwash I don't really know but still we're open-minded people said foreigner shit in China Chinese people say foreign media and foreign country should talk in China and in the mirror but in the Western country western countries said oh I feel bad for the Chinese people can never know the truth but the problem is the set the real setting is do they it do change people actually have the ability you know about they'd be more brainwash to get to know about the outside perspective I don't know because once the point in time my dad said you're being brainwashed because in America there's a bunch of thing that probably America don't allow you to see so I leave it up to you to see say is that correct my father and some of my friends they're like we never been brainwashed we have a multi-information China only allowed certain a certain media to go get involved I don't want to say it clear you can think about it so why YouTube Twitter Instagram cup lot at that time at the very beginning they said it's about following going it's about the evil cult that tried to walk people's mind it's about America try to figure out a way to warp Chinese people's mind is that true or not I leave it up to you all I can say is like I wish everybody it can be open mind to see everything I a lot of people ask me when my husband talk about the stuff that like against my country or the stuff that like not so good about country and my view met again I keep it open minded I keep it the dialogue if you have anything one to talk talk about just listen more you don't need to get mad about some certain perspective you can't just like change somebody minds because somebody say something the only thing that upsets me it's how I feel about like my country to people they wouldn't listen I only wish that if they can listen to the mold the different dialogue and when people try to talk to you and you the thing that you have it's not only anger just process the information try to think to pay just think the reason that I want to make this video it's because too many people asking me how I feel China tried to raise their whole generation loving their country I think there's nothing wrong about that other than that your life still go on you don't need to necessary because of the political situation and then get mad of your friend get matter of people who talk about have different opinion that's just not right think about the perspective about how we raise how we grow up who to brain who to who exactly is brainwash what kind of information we get probably you will understand more about like change before not necess is stupid it's only can process in our mind about what exactly what kind of information we fed surrounding our world it's not wrong to support your country it's not wrong to love your country it's not wrong to feel bad about people talk shit about your country but it's wrong that you didn't have the full image it's wrong that you didn't try to get to know more to duck out more about what exactly is happening so who is Right who is wrong do not ask me anymore who as the open minded person do not ask me anymore I leave me about two you guys to think about and talk about you

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Id: _Ym5gKiNv4g

Length: 12min 30sec (750 seconds)

Published: Wed Sep 25 2019

Reddit Comments

[u/MistyMystery]

Felt more like a VPN advertisement...

[u/[deleted]]

Really? It was Hong Kong that changed her mind? I know that change has to start somewhere but really? Seems like she wasn’t paying attention to begin with...

[u/chuchucha]

Downvote this post to oblivion, karma whore posts are useless.