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you know you use the word husband I don't think you were married but you used the word husband well we had a little ceremony but it wasn't a marriage ceremony no no God no we're far far too together for that but we I got my rink as we'd been together seven years and we figured that was sort of common law at the rock well this one I got before and it's clear you can see it's not cuz you know it's not always the size although that's a that's a huge rock but it's the clarity you know you're looking for it right it's clarity so you can get a big rock let me tell you this lady you can get a big old stone and cane see through it that's right looks like a piece of marble it means he didn't spend a lot on it but this this is big and clear and clear yeah so anyway we we I do refer to him as my husband because I do I'm tired of calling him what's his name I mean I you know we we said well what do we call each other honey well live-in lover yeah I mean after a while you know really reach a certain age I hate it too cuz he a boyfriend yeah no he's not a boyfriend it's just the whole thing you know so I figured there has to be a word that we need to create in the English language like husband mhm I don't know what it is so for now husband's okay so for now husband I'll do you know it seems to me that you know and I get bug with this question all the time - and I said recently about when are you getting married and I think so often that people are interested in a wedding they're interested in wedding they want doves flying around right they want Luther Vandross singing and yes you know when the truth of the matter is what you have and I think what you have is words cannot define it no piece of paper would make it any different or any better no it won't it won't and you know Kurt and I both feel that way if you leave the door open you'll never walk out of it sometimes if you close the door and a sense of finality that a lot of things happen to people a lot of times they feel like their life has stopped a lot of times they feel because they've signed a paper and because they've taken a blood test and because they've gone through a bureaucratic macca Macan is machination that you know suddenly you feel that your spirit is squelched and you know it is just a piece of paper and it is a vow but a value take every day you don't still take it once you take it every day and if you have an argument you say it before you go to bed at night to each other and that's what keeps a marriage alive and this whole thing of spending millions and thousands or whatever it is people spend over they got of weddings I just think I'd rather take that money and give it to abused children hi youtubers I'm excited to give you an update about our own YouTube channel now you can find new videos every day they're the kind of videos it'll make you look at life differently they may even make you laugh a little bit subscribe to the own channel today and we'll see you on YouTube

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Views: 330,207

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Length: 3min 24sec (204 seconds)

Published: Wed Nov 22 2017