Why everyone is always obsessed with me

throughout my whole life I would always have people extremely obsessed with me but I was a friend whether it was a relationship anyone that came into my life and got to know me when the friendship ended because of disrespect or betrayal or anything these people would stalk me till this day and try to become friends again and everything and everyone like my relationships the guys would always worship the ground that I walk on literally make sure that I'm always okay in every aspect of my life and then I was thinking to myself why is it that everyone is always obsessed with me um my mom would even say my sister would say they would be like Liz when people come into your life or get to know you they are like parasites they like stick on to you and they do not want to leave you at all you know and then I really started thinking about okay why is this so I started to analyze my behavior and I think I understand now the human psychology behind why they become obsessed with me um is this a good thing well I think it's 50 50. I think it's scary because it can become dangerous as well like stalkers and things like that but in the same way you can use this to your advantage so in this video I am gonna share with you why I think everyone becomes obsessed with me so people can become obsessed with you if that's what you want of course hi guys my name is Liz and welcome back to my channel let's get right into it okay so first thing first my name the wizard Liz uh why did I choose the wizard basically when I was a student I used to work in this restaurant and I always had like customers coming there I worked behind the bar and it was so insane like I had women that came up to me and were like my husband finds you mesmerizing I just have to tell you and I would have people constantly come up like whoa and people would even ask my boss like can she serve me and then they were like no she only works behind the bar but they were like whoa like she's amazing like she's so mesmerizing um one day I had like these a group of clients uh which they all came like from business meeting women and men and they were like ordering coffee and I was like do you got some cookies with your coffee and then they were like one guy looked at me he's like literally whatever you sell me or want like me to have I will take because you it's almost like you put a spell on us that's how mesmerizing you are so then I was like well guess then I'm a wizard you know and that's I never forgot that so then I was like the wizard list you know that's how my name is created and to be honest I want you guys to be Wizards I want you guys to walk into rooms and people be like in awe of your energy you know like whoa she or he is amazing that's how I want people to think about you guys so first things first um I think why everyone is obsessed with me is my energy is so important it is not about looks most of the time do I look good yes we're not gonna act like that's not true but I'm also not the most beautiful person on Earth you know so it is my energy that attracts people see when I was working that job as a student in all my colleagues would be like Liz when you work and when you walk in it's like a sunshine like we are happy to come to work just because you're here you know and my energy is always very high listen I was watching this video of um this movie from Elvis Presley and everyone that was talking about Elvis and why he's such an icon they said he has such an energy about him that the other artists did not have he you could really feel the authenticity you could feel them love he had for his music and it was his whole energy right so with me how do I keep my energies high is because first of all I don't engage in drama or gossip that much obviously like sometimes I talk about things and things like that and that can be considered gossip but I don't like I don't spread rumors about people I don't try to tear people down because that's all low vibrational things you cannot be in a high Vibe if you're um tearing other people down you know um also I am just always like focused on myself and I'm always like um yeah how can I get better what can I do to get better um obviously I have bad days you know I have bad days and then when I used to have bad days I used to get very depressed but now I'm always like okay what can I learn from this bad day what can I do to for this bad day to make better or what what is it that my emotion is trying to tell me about myself to feel those emotions I'm not like oh this is a bad emotion or something like a couple of days ago I got very competitive over someone and then I was like Liz why are you feeling this and then I was like okay let's feel the emotion let's feel the competitiveness and then then I was like what is it that you're missing in your life that you want from this person and then I was thinking maybe their consistency is what I want I want to be more consistent then I was like okay Liz okay good then we have to get consistent you know so don't shun away your emotions really feel the emotions that's how I I'm always like vibing High and as well I just I don't watch negative like news things like that really will bring me down I don't watch negative videos um I just uh I really like I like laughter I like like things that will lift up my vibration always you know and then I do things like Yoga Yoga is really good to align your chakras as well like it makes you so it's so nice and I feel so good like when I work out when I go to yoga it's just an energy that I'm like I feel so balanced I feel accomplished when I'm doing things that I love like making videos like this that makes me feel accomplished that's how I always keep my vibe and energy high and when that's high then obviously other people can feel that we can all feel energy another thing is I am very detached why am I detached first of all I I don't know I always had this analytical thinking about life I always saw life as in I can accomplish anything I want but there's a certain reality aspect to it so for example in my head I never think that for example if I have a relationship or anything that that person has to stay with me forever because I do not I do not Define myself from a relationship or a friendship or a job no nothing defines me I Define me I do not get attached to those things and and this is really good because if those things leave I am not completely shattered yes it hurts sometimes and yes I have to get over it I've been through heartbreak as well but I get over it fairly quickly because I never in the first place went into something thinking that this will last forever you know I think one thing that is Promised in our life is that nothing lasts forever and I think once you develop that mentality of like Hey listen this might leave you know a relationship for example I really dislike it when I see people completely do everything in their relationship and base everything solely on their relationship and then after years when it ends these people don't know who they are anymore you know when I go into a relationship then I'm always like my partner is working on themselves and I'm working on this on myself and we do that separately we always try to become the best version of ourselves and then together we can work on the relationship but it's never like oh everything has to be together and this and that no we still have our separate lives because we are individuals we are individuals you know even if we leave this earth we will leave this earth alone you know we came here alone we will leave alone you have to understand this it's a it's a it's very peaceful to live like that because when there are no expectations there is no disappointment and the kind of person like uh if me and my ex broke up or if a friend left my life I was like okay it was not meant to be our soul contract ended they were supposed to be in my life for a period of time to teach me something or to give me joy or or to elevate me in some way but when their purpose was done they were meant to leave and I'm okay with that so what I do then is I don't stalk them I don't reach out anymore I don't do that I just float and I go on with my life and I think they see me then like damn like she's just elevating and she doesn't care it's not that I don't care I understand the purpose of people in my life and I understand when it's time for them to leave um so I see that as a beautiful thing to be honest I see I serve my purpose in their life they serve their purpose in my life and now our contract is supposed to end and that's okay that's really okay because I am so detached I am also not desperate I don't chase for things I let things come to me because you know what the thing is when you're chasing it means that you're not whole and what you chase will run from you this is always the case but if you're whole and if you're vibrating on a high level then you can just sit back and relax because those things will automatically be attracted to you you know I've seen this many times when women for example go out or men and desperately are looking for love they don't get love because you're desperate but once you make that click in your head you know what let it just come to me it always shows up it always always does but see the thing is I create avenues for example with my work right I made the YouTube channel I made the videos I make the content but now I don't have to be desperate about it because every video that I uploaded is amazing so I can just sit back and let my manifestations come in because I did the work already I'm not telling you to just do nothing you know create the Avenue and then just watch you come into your life I only make decisions that will benefit me so whether it's a relationship whether it's a job opportunity whether it's someone that I allow into my life these are always people or things that will benefit me in the long run so for example in my relationships I always uh I always date people that show me that they love me I do not like to hear things I do not like to hear oh I love you I love you I don't need that I need you to show me that you love me because I am a very caring and loving person and I want that from my partner once there is something that is not benefiting me in the relationship or I am feeling like I'm being stagnant or I'm not being elevated in any way I leave the relationship I'm very easy with this because I have to grow in life I have this life and I want this life to be my best life I cannot waste my time I don't want to be tomorrow like 80 years old and look back and think like oh Liz why did you go into this relationship you're wasted it you didn't learn anything like nothing elevated you no you stayed too long even though it was toxic no you can never ever catch me in a toxic relationship I only date people that are literally obsessed with me literally I all the guys that I have dated my exes till this day they would still marry me like this because it's just the way that I choose my partner if they do not show me that they love me I don't date them I need to show you need to physically show me you know and yeah in job opportunities I don't I don't I'm not taking every job opportunity that gets to me look at look at me I never do promotions why I'm waiting for the biggest ones I'm doing big promotions I'm not doing silly little things I'm not doing it why because I know I can do big things I deserve to do big things so that's what I'm doing um and yeah as in friends you know what I make lots I made lots of mistakes with female friendships and to be honest I think I'm gonna do a video on that and I am the kind of person if you're my friend if I am good and if I get rich you will get rich literally like I am so giving and generous but I the same way that I love I can switch as well if you betray me you're out I don't care you're out there's one disrespect you're out I do not care how many years I've known you how close you were how much you know about me you're out another thing is I do things that I want to do so for example say I have a date that I'm going to if I do not want to go on a date and I just want to spend time with myself do some self-care and things like that I'll say Hey listen I cannot make it today and yeah they get upset and stuff but then I don't care because I chose myself and I chose what I wanted to do first when you put yourself first in every aspect of life people will put you first when people just see you put yourself first they think like oh wow what does she think she has like what is it about her because she thinks that she's so important you know um and when I say like put yourself first it's not like neglect other people because I'm very loving towards everyone and I give so much I give so much to everyone but if Liz wants to do something for herself Liz will do it and she knows what's best for her and I always show up for myself so I think that just vibrates other people like whoa she thinks she is important so she must be important another thing is my time is precious to me um listen I am not gonna waste my time years everything on a relationship on a friendship that does not benefit me or in a job I'm just not gonna do it I think that this thing is not elevating me not benefiting me I am out you guys just don't understand how quickly old age comes I watched this uh YouTuber um I think it's uh over 60 with Sandra or something and basically it's an it's an older woman and she was talking about yeah um you young girls don't understand how fast I went from being in my 20s to being in my 80s now and she's like you guys have to enjoy your life that's what I would really say because time flies you know if you're in a toxic relationship if you're in a job that you don't want to do all these things um please please find something to get out find a plan to get out because our time flies or time is precious we have this life let's make the best of it you know let's make the best of this life I do not want to be old and and look back and think like oh Liz why why did you waste time on this why do you do this no I want to look back and be like yeah I lived my life I'm cool grandma like I did so many fun stuff and I enjoyed the best that I can enjoy that's how I want to look back so yeah I value my time so I don't just give everyone my time no if if you're valuable to me if what you're gonna give me is valuable then yes I'll give you most of my time and I'll give you lots of love as well but if you're not then no it's precious to me don't waste my time another thing is I am private and exclusive so I do not share my personal life um I do not um I share the things that I want to share other than that nobody knows anything the only people that actually know things about my life are my family I'm telling you everything else you hear is not true if it did not come from my mouth or my mom's or my sisters anyone else doesn't know why am I like this I have made big mistakes of trusting the wrong people by trusting these people and I'm telling you if you think that your friends that you've been years and years friends with will just take it to the grave and everything I'm here to disappoint you because I've seen friendships of more than 10 years people betray each other be careful be careful what you share be careful happens when you are like this is you create a whole mystery around yourself don't do this on purpose this is genuinely how I am I'm a very like I like to be on my own one day I'm just hoping to go live in a like a country that's just filled with nature and just have a house there and just be on my own literally or be with my mom or my family you know but I don't I like to be on my own so then it creates a mystery but the human brain loves fantasies I read this in book from Robert Greene they love fantasies so um even my mom I was talking to her I was like mom uh why is it that people create these rumors about me like because I heard a rumor was so stupid and I was like why did they say that that's so stupid and then she was like but Liz it's because the human brain loves fantasies and their life is kind of boring you know they're boring so you are interesting to them they rather fantasize about you and make you something that you're not then then come to terms with their own pathetic life yeah the less people know about you and just you know they they like to then create stories about you so you're on their mind people will become obsessed like that one thing as well about over sharing if you used to do this I'm gonna tell you something now you have to think about are these people worthy of knowing this about me because once you share something you can never take it back so you have to really think about are they worthy of knowing this about me you know some things you know what you have to keep yourself not even tell your family if you really need to tell someone talk to a tree another thing is I'm not always available like you can't call me up a list come here and this and that no uh respect my time it's literally like you have to tell me hey Liz are you okay okay like if can I come over do you want to come over and if I feel like it yes I will come but it's not like oh last minute you have to come here you have to do this do this blah blah blah no I will not do it simply I will not do it because I don't have to be available for you that's not my responsibility I take calculated risks so um when I started my brand when I started my business when everybody was like hey Liz um you're about to lose us you're about to lose your whole family if you continue this okay so then I was like okay uh guys listen I'm gonna do this anyways and you guys will turn around when I am successful I know you guys will turn around so I took the risk of losing my whole family and doing this and now I have everyone and I can help everyone I can you know I can do things for them now which is such a blessing and now everyone is so proud of me but see I took calculated risk so what even happens is my family um everyone in my family now looks up to me and is like whoa we can also do things like I'm kind of like the cycle breaker I started to heal myself I created my own brand I'm really healing all my family members I'm doing everything and then they're like looking at me and being like whoa she really did what she said what she was going to do and now they cannot do anything but respect me for it so they look at me as in like whoa but when you take calculated risks when you're not afraid to do certain things I'm not saying uh put your life in danger you know when you're not afraid to do certain things and you don't quit and you go for it then other people start to admire you they come to you for advice the conversation is different now they talk to you with respect because they can see that you can do it so they want that in themselves so you are even more mesmerizing for them I've always been like that I've always been the kind of person if I want something I do not care how but I was going to get it always and I think other people find that so interesting and it's just the fact that oh she doesn't quit like nothing can stop her and she still goes for it I think other people just admire that I mean they're like whoa I want that as well I am very authentic like extremely extremely authentic I genuinely just want the best for others and if somebody gets like successful or anything I don't get envious I get motivation like I look at them like whoa if they could do it I can do it as well you know that's how I look at others and I think that energy of truly because every friend every relationship everything every person has ever met me said whoa you are truly who you are like I do not have a whole fake thing and I create like who I am and then I'm nice online that I'm really mean in real life no I'm just really not and why is this I think this stems from my mom my mom's also very authentic very giving um even at her job um one of her colleagues came up to uh my mom and she said when I first saw your daughter online on YouTube and stuff I thought like she was fake she was faking it like being this whole trying to help people or whatever but then she said like knowing you that you're her mom I absolutely love her and I just know that she's very authentic because my mom is literally like the best woman I can ever like there is not a bad thing in This Woman's bone my mom is literally like me she's always helping people at work she's always like healing others she's very spiritual as well like I can see even when I'm becoming older that I'm becoming so much like her and I just think that's such a privilege because if I can be anything like that woman I'm just ugh I'm so proud of myself literally I want the best for others when I had friendship when I had everything I'm like come down here I'll pay for your ticket like I will pay for everything um like let's do this to make you better let's do this will make it better like uh when they have a problem okay if we can fix it see the thing with me is I do not see problems I've never seen problems in my life never the thing is like I only saw Solutions always see I come from a very very abusive uh childhood right so I was mentally and physically extremely abused but the thing was always like in my head I was like oh I'm gonna get out of this I'm gonna get out of this and when I get out of this I'm gonna create a good life for myself I I always knew that that was gonna happen and I always knew that uh that I would be in this like uh in the media world I always knew I always knew that I was meant for something really big I had that feelings ever since I was young so I just have this thing of like when somebody comes to me with a problem I'm like okay let's fix it it's easy let's fix it let's do this you know and and I do fix it so that's why people they they gravitate towards me they're like you make my life better every single person that has ever been in my life I have genuinely made their life better they have left my life a better person always always without a doubt and even like my exes used to tell me like I literally became so much better because of you and just you leaving my life is a loss it's a big loss when you have this energy of everything will be good and you have that strong faith and you just want the best life and you want the best for others you want the best for yourself you take care of yourself you love yourself to such an extent that to be honest if I was a man I would 100 beat myself 100 because there is no person that is ever ever come out of my life more depressed they always left better always but left a better human so it just it just I think people think it's just fun to be around me I am just very detached as well you know I like don't chase them I'm not desperate um and yeah it's just like I'm just like this ball of energy and they want to be around me thank you guys so much for watching I hope you guys learned something um and yeah I love you guys so much and I'll see you in the next video

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Published: Fri Sep 16 2022