Why Abusive Women Won't Change

we're not ever going to gain weight I was a little worried my mother was a little worried but as time went on I became okay with being fat from Australia the country that wants to ban anime we have a public broadcast on fat acceptance now as I watched this special I thought it would be a great opportunity to talk about why all the women who treatment like trash aren't going to change why these women aren't going to stop supporting alimony and child support why they aren't going to stop pretending to like guys to get free stuff and why they aren't going to stop using children as human shields they aren't going to do that because they are addicted to these powers addiction is measured by negative consequence and the consequences of these powers are very negative as for this video the parallels between fat acceptance and gana centrism are just too strong to pass up and not make a video on it so when we talk about addiction psychology the drug of abuse may change but the mentality and the environment is always the same whether it's fat acceptance or the massive wealth transfers from men to women nothing is different to start every addict needs a good enabler a perfect example this comes from a documentary I watched a few years ago called half ton killer which is about a 28 year old woman who was so obese that she couldn't get off her bed because of her enormous size Mara has been bed bound to the past five years and is totally dependent on her husband Bernie for her day-to-day needs basically the only reason she was able to eat was because her husband was bringing her meals and enabling her these super morbid obesity shion's have been found to eat about 18,000 kilocalories per day you and I would be eating about 2,000 calories of a day these patients that are bed-bound obviously would have to have an enabler that is how they get to be that big she admitted to me actually that she would eat the three or four cakes a day oh yes she escaped oh my goodness I love cheesecake 18,000 calories and three to four cakes per day the best part is that this woman Mayra Rosales still blames her genetics for her morbid obesity I will eat the same as my sister's will do but I gained more weight at them so I guess it was my metabolism yes she has a genetically deficient metabolism that caused her to weigh over a thousand pounds now one of the tell-tale signs of an addict is that they will cause severe harm to themselves and then deny that they have a problem they will create all kinds of false stories around why they have the problem and that instead of looking at themselves honestly and resolving that problem they make excuses for why things are unfair oh I'm a thousand pounds well my sister's eat just as much as I do so I guess it's bad genetics just look at her situation all that's required for her to lose weight is for her husband to stop beating her I mean she can't get out of bed her husband has to make all the food he has to clean her he has to move her so she doesn't get bedsores he has to wipe her ass when she takes a [ __ ] and he probably still has to go to work just so she can watch TV all day and eat cheesecake all he has to do to solve the problem is say get it yourself that's literally all men have to do in these situations now let's get back to the news report from Australia because that's not even the full scale the problem they don't just have the mellah enablers at home there are also a whole slew of people telling them that their behavior is perfectly fine and healthy there are many reasons for why if someone might be living in a fat body for some people that's just genetics and they're leading very healthy lifestyles eating good quantities that are appropriate to nourish their bodies to try to judge somebody by their weight we'll give you a lot of misinformation we hear in the news all the time about an obesity epidemic and how people are dying of obesity and what we see is that it's just not true what is true is that people are heavier than they used to be but what's also true is that we're living longer than ever before Linda bacon who honestly couldn't have a more ironic last name is supposedly a doctor a doctor who uses an analysis based on a single variable to describe why being obese is healthy out of all the things that contribute to health Linda has determined that the only one that matters is how long people live well doctor bacon actually in the u.s. where you live life expectancy has started to go down but yeah nobody dies of obesity source citation needed oh wait I actually have a source in 2017 according to the CDC 83 thousand people died of diabetes looking at the information provided by the American Diabetes Association 90 to 95 percent of diabetes cases are typed to insulin resistant diabetes the ATA goes on to say that most people who are type 2 diabetics are obese and obesity causes insulin resistance but nobody dies of diabetes rights what about lymphedema that's perfectly healthy right what about high cholesterol what about high blood pressure by the way this is not to mention the more obvious problem of being hundreds of pounds overweight is that structurally our bodies are not designed to support a four to five hundred pound person who was out of shape people who are morbidly obese get all kinds of joint problems now getting back to our thousand pound lady Mayra Rosales the reason she was bedridden was because she stood up one day and blew out her knee keep telling us though that being obese is healthy telling people that being obese is healthy despite mountains of evidence that it's not is borderline criminal that's like encouraging people to do heroin or take crystal meth only the most morally devoid person could do that this goes right along with what feminists have preached to women there are many feminists gender study X birds who have for decades been telling women that their toxic behaviors are okay they have said things like go ahead sleep with every guy you meet don't worry a real man will love you no matter how overweight you are if a woman hits a man it's because he deserved it and worth that career because it's better the daycare and the government raise your kid than you raise your own kid these women are so out of touch that they think this stuff makes them successful so of course they see nothing wrong with that and most of the people they are taking advice from especially in this Australian news report aren't even qualified to give advice on the topic our next example Sarah Harry is a curvy yoga teacher and is no exception to that I'm Sarah Harry and I specialize in body image and I also teach curvy yoga when I tell people that I'm a yoga teacher I usually get an interesting reaction sometimes people think that I'm joking people ask me all the time if you can be fat and healthy I'm not offended by that question I feel like it reflects on me a little bit because I feel like I am a fat and healthy person who exactly is asking you that I can't imagine that any of these yoga teachers who are morbidly obese actually have students the way she talks in the fact that she is on TV you think that she has hundreds of people asking her questions when in reality the two people who are taking her yoga class for the video are probably the only students she has ever had up to that point if you want evidence that Sarah Harry has no following then just look on-screen but recently people keep asking me to comment more on yoga because I was a yoga teacher well fine I'll tell you why this chick is a fraud and it's not just because she's obese I think they expect two yoga teacher to be a sin way very small and life and flexible and I'm very flexible but I'm not small a lot remember how I said that addicts will make up lies to protect their ego well Sarah is a food addict and she says that she is very flexible okay why don't we take a look at this forward fold this is very much a beginner pose and when I taught Yoga it was often one of the first poses we did when she folds in this pose she barely has an average amount of flexibility when I do this pose I can touch my head to the floor but Sarah is not even flexible enough to get halfway to the ground I don't even think she's flexible enough to be limited by the size of her stomach also her knees are propped up when they should be flat on the floor you can see that her female student on the Left is doing it properly and is far more flexible than the teacher second example of Sarah Harry not being a real yoga teacher this poses another very basic pose called Cobra in an average class you do Cobra between 10 and 20 times it's a very frequently done pose but look at both of our students arms both students are squeezing their elbows into their sides even the guy who looks like he's not very experienced is still doing it right our teacher however has her elbows knocking out and they are outside of her body line which is incorrect when your elbows knock out you lose the structural integrity required to do the more difficult OSes and that will cause you to fall out of said poses knocking the elbows out to the side is such a common beginner mistake that it's one of the first things teachers correct and it's not just those two examples that have pointed out she screws up literally every pose during the video so my question is are people laughing at her because she's obese or people laughing at her because she's not good enough at Yoga to be a teacher she's out there giving advice but there's really no evidence that she's ever put effort into anything especially yoga but yeah keep telling yourself you're a great yoga teacher instead of making actual improvements and well maybe you can do that right up until your Kirby Yoga business fails which it did imagine that and yes women keep telling yourselves that you're Queens keep talking about what a great single mom you make when your kid is about to get his third strike keep saying that you need a man like a fish needs a bicycle the men who weren't dumb enough to marry you will be over there laughing in there paid off homes but check this out I have one more example from the news report of how little effort these people put into solving their problems you name the dot I was on it you name the weight-loss plan I was on it I believed that I couldn't do anything in life that was good until I was deep I couldn't have any form of success couldn't have a good job couldn't have a loving relationship couldn't be happy in any way so I didn't try I'm supposed to think that you're the hero in this story and your response to stress is that you give up if I felt that being fat held me back as much as this woman feels it holds her back then I would do everything in my power to lose weight I wouldn't sit there and rationalize to myself why being fat is a good thing I'm not a disease and I'm not diseased this is the body that I it's not that hard to lose weight all you have to do is not eating a party size bag of M&Ms every day you want more evidence of our lack of effort take a look at her final blog post back in 2018 some of you make me feel like a monkey being forced to dance for your amusement uh okay welcome to being a content creator if you want to make money as a content creator then being a dancing monkey needs to be your special talents she goes on to say that she spent ten years on this and hasn't figured out a way to monetize her work ten years are you even trying have you for once in your life thought what might make you more compelling to other people have you for once thought about what other people want at all or is it just your entire MO to do whatever you want and then complain when things don't go your way and my god real classy blaming your failure on your fans well the damage has been done and things aren't going back to the way they were it takes 50 minute of church but only one to burn the church down by the time a woman has become like this the game was already over some of the women I've talked about in my other videos can't even do the dishes how are they supposed to handle a real Channel and of all these women in the video I mentioned only one of them has actually made an effort to change her life and that was 1,000 pound Mayra Rosales the only reason she was able to do that was because she was threatened with a very untimely death of xxx was an extreme pain was a prisoner in her own house and most importantly she had a huge medical staff which was probably provided by The Learning Channel that no regular person could ever afford even so her most recent public Facebook post of two years ago shows that she is still overweight seven years after her weight loss journey pay attention because this is the kind of force required to push an addict in recovery and my wrists still didn't fully make it the female addicts aren't going to do the kind of work required to better their lives when they keep getting everything for free from men and from the government and from the examples of this video you can see with these delusions lead they lead you to being imprisoned in your own house and almost dying at 30 they lead you to working for 10 years and having nothing to show for it they lead to your yoga business failing it does all of that and then it causes you to blame all of your failures on everyone else or factors that you can't control so that you just keep repeating the same dumb mistakes over and over again the only thing that men should do in this situation outside of never helping any one of these women is learn from the mistakes that they've made when you do something and it doesn't go your way blame yourself for the failure and then ask what can I do next time so that this failure doesn't happen again if you get that right you'll be miles ahead of everyone else and with that said I think that's enough for this video so if you liked it hit the like button subscribe if you're new comment and share if you would like 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Channel: Think Before You Sleep

Views: 1,727,476

Keywords: Fat Acceptance, Australia, The Feed, SBS, Mayra Rosales, Linda Bacon, Dr. Linda Bacon, Dr. Lindo Bacon, Sarah Harry, Kath Reid, Obesity, Weight Loss

Id: 04A_pdEU7os

Length: 14min 51sec (891 seconds)

Published: Tue Mar 03 2020