[music] Dr. Charles Stanley: Are you
one of those persons who's feeling hopeless? Nobody cares; nobody's
interested in you. You've had all kind of
experiences. You've had all kind of things
and you've been with all kind of people, but somehow there's
something missing in your life. male announcer: Today on "In
Touch," "When All Hope is Gone." Dr. Stanley: The word hope is
a very, very important word. It's a word of optimism, a word
of cheerfulness, expectation. All of us need hope about many
different things in life. And when you have hope, you do
anticipate; you expect; you look forward to something. When you have no hope, there's a
sense of dread. You find yourself in the muck
and mire of something that you can't put your finger on. Where is my hope? In other words, what am I living
for? And there are multitudes of
people today who do not have any hope. They don't have any hope about
their marriage. They have no hope about their
children. They have no hope about their
health, about their finances, about their future, about their
job, their profession. They have no hope about life
itself, and they have no hope about life after death. They have no hope about
eternity. They're living in the muck and
mire of this sense of existence, but going nowhere. They're just there. That's never the intent of
Almighty God. He intends for us to have goals
in our life; to have a sense of confidence and assurance; and
many people don't have it. And what I want to talk about in
this message is a beautiful example of a person who
absolutely was hopeless. There was nothing about their
life that gave them hope. And I trust that you will
identify with it because it has a wonderful ending, but a very
bad beginning. So if you'll turn if you will in
your Bible to John chapter four, and let's read a few verses of
this chapter. Let's start with this first
verse to give you a little background. All right? "Therefore when the Lord knew
that the Pharisees had heard that Jesus was making and
baptizing more disciples than John, although Jesus Himself was
not baptizing, but His disciples were," and I thought this was,
this said something about Jesus. That is, He didn't want to take
away from anything about John. He left Judea and went away
again into Galilee. "And He had to pass through
Samaria. He came to a city of Samaria
called Sychar, near the parcel of ground that Jacob gave to his
son Joseph: And Jacob's well was there. So Jesus, being wearied from His
journey, was sitting thus by the well. It was about the sixth hour." Or about twelve o'clock noon,
"There came a woman of Samaria to draw water. Jesus said to her, 'Give Me a
drink.' For His disciples had gone away
into the city to buy food. Therefore the Samaritan woman
said to Him, 'How is it that You, being a Jew, ask me for a
drink since I am a Samaritan woman?'
For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans. Jesus answered and said to her,
'If you knew the gift of God, and who it is who says to you,
"Give Me a drink," you would have asked Him, and He would
have given you living water.' She said to Him, 'Sir, You have
nothing to draw with and the well is deep; where then do You
get that living water? You are not greater than our
father Jacob, are You, who gave us the well, and drank of it
himself and his sons and his cattle?'
Jesus answered and said to her, 'Everyone who drinks of this
water will thirst again; but whoever drinks of the water that
I will give him shall never thirst; but the water that I
will give him will become in him a well of water springing up
into eternal life.' The woman said to Him, 'Sir,
give me this water, so I will not be thirsty nor come all the
way here to draw.'" This is one of the most
beautiful stories in the Bible of people who are hopeless and
helpless, don't have anywhere to turn. There's nothing good about it. And I want you to look at this
woman for a moment and see what hopelessness is all about; and
what can happen in a person's life when they become hopeless. Sometimes people are hopeless
because of what they've done. Because the way they've lived;
because decisions that they've made. And then sometimes it's not
always that person's fault. And so, when I think about this
woman, I want to give you a little description of her. Number one, she'd been married
five times; and she was living in an adulterous situation,
immoral situation with a man she was living with at that
particular time. And, of course, having been
married five times, she had suffered a lot of difficulty and
hardship with these first five men or they would have still
been there. She must have been a pretty
good-looking gal to have attracted five men. And so there she was. And one of the problems though
is that she'd endured terrible rejection from the community. To have been married five times
in a small community, she was the talk of the community. There was nothing they could say
good about her. What kind of woman is this who
has been married five times and divorced and now she decided
just to live with this guy and not even be married to him. And so she seems to have been
trapped by this insatiable sexual desire to have her needs
met or to meet somebody else's needs. She was emotionally empty. To be married five times,
nothing works emotionally. So she was empty; and seemingly
failed to meet the needs of these lovers of hers. And so she felt very morally
dirty. You ever felt that-a-way? Am I talking to somebody who
feels morally dirty? That because of decisions that
you've made in your life, you feel dirty spiritually. You feel dirty emotionally. You could be in a situation just
as badly as she was. You've tried it all and nothing
worked. You've been there and it didn't
make any difference. You've been loved by this one
and loved by that one and hated by this one and hated by the
other, and used by all of them, and nothing satisfied you. You don't have anywhere to go. All of your goals and dreams
have been shattered; and the truth is, you don't have
anything to hope for. At this point in your life, your
sinfulness, your disobedience or your rebellion, you turned off
God a long time ago. So where are you in life? You're lost. It's dark, dingy, dismal; and
there you are. It's like being in a swamp
emotionally. There's nothing there that is
attractive to you. And so you've sort of given up. But given up to what? Given up, why? And given up when. Those are the things you have to
think about. And I think there are many women
today and men who have no hope. This is the reason some people
commit crime. They can't see any hope of doing
anything. At least in prison you could
have friends. At least in prison, you've got
three meals a day and a place to eat and you can even watch TV. There are a lot of people who
are very, very hopeless. And we're living in a time when
more people are hopeless. And this is why they cross
borders. This is why they do anything to
find a little hope and a little help. And yet even that doesn't work. And so this is where she was at
this point. And then a personal encounter
with Jesus Christ radically changed her life. And it's radically changing
people's lives today. And so when you think about who
she was and what was going on in her life at this particular
point, she's coming to the well to draw water for the day, but
she's coming at noontime, which was not the right time. But she came at noontime because
the women didn't want to be around her, they ostracized her,
and it just made her feel worse to try to be there when
everybody else was there. So in the middle of the day,
here she comes for water. And strangely, this man is
sitting there. He sent His disciples into town
to buy food. And looking at Him and knowing
that He was a Jew and she was a Samaritan, she was shocked when
He said, Give me a drink of water. And her response was, What do
You mean, give You a drink of water? You're a Jew; I'm a Samaritan. Jews and Samaritans do not have
anything to do with each other. And You certainly wouldn't
expect me to draw Your water for You. And Jesus in His quiet and
loving way, began a conversation with her. And, all of a sudden, she
realized that the barriers were coming down within her; because
the barrier was there. First of all, she was talking to
a man alone. That in itself was enough. The fact that He was a Jew and
she was a Samaritan, all of those barriers were coming down. She couldn't tell you why. She just knew that there was
something about Him that attracted her that had nothing
to do with what usually attracted her, something
physical. And she began to listen. And, "Jesus said to her, 'Give
Me a drink,'" that's what started the conversation. And, He said to her, He said,
You give me a drink and I'll give you a drink of living
water. And so, Jesus began to talk with
her and they began to chat and so Jesus distinguished between
this well water and the other water that He was talking about. And so she enthusiastically
asked Him for it. And so, when He had described
it, she, "The woman said to Him, 'Sir,'" listen to that, she--how
she addressed Him, "Sir, give me this water, I will not be
thirsty nor come all the way here again." And then Jesus, "Said to her,"
That sort of disrupted the conversation because everything
was moving right along and He was talking about living water
and then all of a sudden He, "said, 'Call your husband,'" oh
my, messed the conversation up terrible. And so, "Call your husband," and
she told Him the truth. She said, I don't have a
husband. He said, watch this, You're
correct; you don't. But you have had five. And you're living with a man now
who is not your husband. But watch how He said that. He did not condemn her. He said, You're right; you don't
have one, but you're living with one who is not your husband. Notice how Jesus changed that
conversation. Not by criticizing her, but by
simply asking her a question. And so what He's doing, He's
leading her to realize where she is emotionally, where she is
physically, where she is spiritually. Now, what she did is what a lot
of people do today. When you start talking to them
about the Lord, all of a sudden they want to change the subject. So if you'll notice what happens
when she said that, "The woman said, 'Sir, I perceive that You
are a prophet.'" And then she said, "Our fathers
worshiped in this mountain, and you people say that," and she
changed the subject. She wanted to start talking
about worship; Jesus didn't want to talk about that. He did give her a little
explanation here and there, but He said, I want to tell you
about My water. My water is, He said, My water
is living water. And she said--He said here,
"Whoever drinks of the water that I will give him shall never
thirst again; but the water that I will give him will become in
him a well of water springing up in eternal life. Springing up into eternal life. 'Sir, give me this water,'
Springing up," listen, Not just water, but springing, this water
springs up into eternal life. And He had her attention,
absolutely. And as they began to talk and He
said to her, as they began to talk God, "God is spirit, and
those who worship Him must worship Him in spirit and
truth." And, and so then He comes back,
"The woman said to Him, 'I know that Messiah is coming, He who
is called Christ; when that One comes, He will declare all
things to me,'" and then, "Jesus said to her, 'I,'" am the one
you're looking for. I am the Messiah. Can you imagine what she must
have thought? First of all, she wanted to--she
approached this man to hate Him because He was a Jew. And in this conversation,
because He accepted her and loved her and waited for her to
come to the right conclusion, "He said to her, 'I who speak to
you am He.'" And about this time the
disciples come. And they come back and they're
surprised because He's talking to this woman, and which no
rabbi as we say would possibly be talking to one, and
especially her. Of all people, they--He wouldn't
be talking to her. But it's interesting what the
scripture says that they didn't say to Him, What are You doing
talking to her? Or why do You speak to this
woman? So in the process, the scripture
says all of a sudden she, "left her waterpot." Now the Bible is so perfect
about the words that the writer used because it's interesting
here, the scripture says she left it. She was no longer interested in
a waterpot. He had done something to her
life all of a sudden like she had never felt before because
why would she accept Him so quickly. She accepted Him so quickly
because when He approached her, He didn't condemn her. A Jew would have. He did not criticize her. He saw something within her that
made her see something within Him. For some strange reason she felt
accepted by Him. For some strange reason, she saw
something in Him that she'd never seen in a man before. All of a sudden she felt love
for the first time from any man. And so, when His disciples came,
she left that waterpot and took off running. And where did she go? She went to the one place that
you wouldn't expect her to go. She went to the very people who
despised her, rejected her, criticized her, shunned her,
shut her out of their lives. And notice what the scripture
says. "From the city many of the
Samaritans believed in Him because of the word of the woman
who testified, 'He told me all things that I have done.'
So when the Samaritans came to Jesus, they were asking Him to
stay with them; and so He stayed there two days. Many more believed because of
His word; and they were saying to the woman, 'It is no longer
because of what you said that we believe, for we have heard our
for ourselves and know that this One is indeed the Savior of the
world.'" When I think about this
woman--she became the city evangelist. I mean she went from the lowest
rung to the highest. She was the one who announced to
them the Messiah. She's the first one who knew of
Him. And so when she went back, you
say, Well, you know, if they had rejected her like you say they
have, how could she be so accepted? I'll tell you why. Because they'd seen this woman
who was full of hopelessness and despair and discouragement and
just dismal in her spirit. When she came to the city,
that's not what they saw. She was excited. And she was full of life. And she walked in like she was
the queen, not like she was rejected. Why? Because God had absolutely
changed her life. Jesus had saved her when she
said, and realized that He was the Messiah, she accepted Him as
the Messiah and, listen, She didn't go home. She did what she should have
done. She was so absolutely
revolutionized in her life that the first thing she wanted to do
is to go tell everybody in town. I mean, all those women who had
gossiped about her; all those men who had used her; everybody
who had abused her in any way, what did she do? She, she wanted them to know
this Messiah that had absolutely changed her life and she could
never be the same again. Are you one of those persons
who's feeling hopeless? Nobody cares; nobody's
interested in you. You've had all kind of
experiences. You've had all kind of things
and you've been with all kind of people, but somehow there's
something missing in your life. Well the same thing that's
missing in your life is the same thing missing in her life. Until you are willing to receive
Jesus Christ as your personal Savior, listen carefully, you
will keep on drinking from the same old wells of sex, alcohol,
drugs, money, or on and on and on and we could go of things
that people keep drinking of. And here's the problem. All of those things are like
saltwater. When you are thirsty, you don't
want to drink saltwater. Why? Because it makes you more
thirsty. And this is why people get
hooked on things as we've just mentioned, and many different
kind of things. They think, Well, if I get
enough of this I'll be fine. No, you can't get enough money,
enough sex. You can't get enough recognition
from anybody. You can't get enough of any of
those things to take the place of what God created you for and
that's to be one of His children. Because you see, God created You
for Himself. He created you for Himself and
He sent Jesus Christ into this world to pay your sin debt in
full so that you could become the person God intended you to
be so that He could take care of all of your sins. He could give you a sense of
personhood. He could give you a sense of
feeling like somebody. He could give you a sense of
future. He could give you a sense of
satisfaction and confidence and security. Only Jesus Christ can do that. It doesn't make any difference
who you are, where you've been and how down you may feel, if
you're willing to say to the Lord Jesus, Jesus, I'm asking
You to forgive me of all my sin. And I believe that You went to
the cross, and when You shed Your blood at Calvary, You paid
my sin debt in full. Thank You, Lord, that You can
cleanse my life. And I'm trusting You to forgive
me. And I'm receiving You as my
personal Savior. That's just like being in a
desert and somebody bringing you a whole bucket of ice water and
saying, Help yourself. You'll never be the same again. And that's my prayer for you. And Father, how grateful we are
You do not condemn us. You desire to save us. You don't forgive us a part of
our sins, but all of them. Not in part, but the whole as we
sing. We feel helpless, but You know
You change all of that. And we pray today in the name of
Jesus, that every single person who hears this message who's
never been saved, who finds themselves in all kind of
circumstances and situations, would trust You as their
personal Savior. By simply asking You to forgive
them of their sins and surrendering their life to You. And making a missionary, Father,
to somebody out of their testimony. And this we pray in Jesus' name,
amen. If you're one of those persons
whoever you are and wherever you are, you can stop right where
you are. If you're home by yourself,
maybe in a one room apartment somewhere or in some palatial
palace, you have it all but the one thing your heart desires,
one thing you're hungering for. If you're willing to ask Jesus
to forgive you of your sins, it doesn't make any difference how
deep down in the muck and mire you are, He pulls you out. You don't have to beg; you don't
have to plead; you don't have to promise; you just ask Him and
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