tuers Tu bets and of course crazy people uh first thing I want to announce about this video is that I put on the on the front on the thumbnail viewer discretion advised and I mean it because this is a chat amongst expats that have been here for over a year and a half and we discussed some topics that as my father likes to say would get a little salty as far as the language and the topics so if that's not your thing I would advise you just not to watch it but if you'd like to hear from the three of us and what life has been like for the last 6 months a lot has changed in the last 6 months for all three of us and we thought we'd share our experiences with you I actually released this three days ago on my memberships only and because of the language and because of some of the topics but I got such a positive response from that that I figured I'd go ahead and unleash it upon the world all right so here comes my chat with uh Daryl myself and the infamous Goldfinger coming right up start saying something hello there are we actually recording now yeah oh hello we're back hello we're back whether you like it or not we're back so I wanted to talk to these two uh yo-yos about what life has been like in the last 6 months you want to go first there Hawkeye no oh come on go finger I've lost 20 lb I'm happy okay I've lost uh uh 9 kilos which is 20 lb in 6 weeks that's incredible and I'm doing it by I just started off with fasting uh intermittent uh one meal a day and then I went to one meal every day and a half and then I just I haven't eaten now in 4 days so today is the fourth day actually an hour not a not a not a drop of food no food just water just water and you get hungry it was horrible on the second day the first day I was hungry the second day was horrible you get hungry headaches hunger headaches oh I got withdrawals just total withdrawals what about the first day of fasting I had uh nausea the first day was Hunger the second day was worse it was withdrawals it was uh uh in in the way of of of I was hungry but I also was nauseous I just I mean literally in a body withdrawal it just just it's like if you were on drugs we won't talk about that but I've been on withdrawals from from Coke but we're not going to talk about that so can't get in here anyway so but I it was it reminded me of of coke withdrawals to be honest so uh was horrible on the second day the third day was uh a little bit of hunger and now today the fourth day no hunger whatsoever and I'm thinking I might go I was going to go 5 days but I've lost so much weight so quickly and I don't feel hungry if I don't feel hungry tomorrow I'm going to go for 7 Days cool yeah cuz I fasted through three days is the longest and you know what you need to go on the fourth day because the third day you you you're hungry still actually the funny thing is is I almost had to make myself eat on the third day oh it's weird the first day I don't feel anything the second day is torture horrible torture horrible torture man seriously and then you're smelling food and I'm taking I'm with May so where does she want to go McDonald's so I got to sit there and stare at all the freaking pig Macs and french fries and milkshakes and the coke floats and everything and it's just like Agony uh but anyway it's either here there now what I didn't do is I didn't take I had terrible leg crap this morning I get up early and I do uh I I swim and I woke up this morning and moved quick out of the bed cuz I know we had a b busy day today and my leg just cramped up ridiculous you know I call it Charlie Horse but it's a cramp okay and I remember reading subwear that if you take mustard uh right mustard a couple spoonfuls of mustard it will relieve the pain and it did I I told Carolyn my fiance go get some mustard in foodon she thought it was nuts okay she's getting me and I said and then get me a bottle with uh you know salt they have minerals and they have something else uh the one that helps with memory yeah yeah obviously the moment helps with memory cuz I need take it how's that working out for you what how's that working out for you what huh I it help what talking about it helps with your hearing okay so so it has something else in it I don't remember I stuff I don't know something ions I don't know and and uh and I'm you fill in the blank I'm drinking now see I only drink water that's all I drink uh at a at a spoonful of Busters that's what I've had in four days spoonful of Busters well that's it was a thrilling story Ginger I really want to thank you for sharing that us what were we talking about before that that I lost weight what I want to know is you guys are both engaged is that correct are you engaged or just living he's engaged you're engaged yeah you are sure well you awful quiet tonight what's the matter with you just did blurted out matter are you pensive he's holding back passive I'm engaged no plans for Mar I'm engaged no plans for marriage how about you darl you're what you're you're engaged with no plans for marriage I've never heard that I've never heard why would you engag means you're to be married I'm faithful to her she's the one and only I love her I just don't think a 32-year-old girl girl should be with I'm going to be next week I turn 68 okay I don't think a 32-year-old should be with a 68-year-old manad I don't want to I don't want to I don't know I don't want to stradle her with that I don't know it just seems wrong that's the way we were brought up okay that made absolutely no sense I'm sorry something can you add some uh some uh you're engaged reality to this conversation here I I don't know why you're worried about it cuz it's everywhere here so it's the norm I know it's the norm here but it is normal it does bother I mean if you think back to where we come from yes would it be accepted probably not as much unless you're a celebrity of course but the norm here um it is the norm but with me it's I just I put her in charge you tell me where to go where to sign what to do and then you know it's all on you Caroline and so when it happens it happens and but I'm not pushing for a date here's my primary question is because I observe and I like to watch and I see things go on and so much of it reminds me of me and so since you guys first got here you were both in big hurry up mode like I everybody does and you know I always scream slow down and nobody listens to me right and so that's fine y but we how long have you been with your your lady uh I met her January of last year okay so what a year and a half ago okay so 16 months for Caroline she moved in with me August of last year okay today is our anniversary today's our anniversary 16 mon whose anniversary Caroline and I oh happy anniversary cele every month on the 27th that's every month have you found that since you moved in found somebody that you're in love with someone that you're dedicated to has it changed your whole mm Mo of how you navigate the Philippines as opposed to when you were single I was more active uh like I said I met her in January and we just kind of I mean she worked at a restaurant and I we would frequent there gold finger night yeah and I would see her and we would talk and and we met once or twice for you know a lunch like a little lunch coffee date or something but nothing real serious cuz she was very as they call it Shy or reserved right um and it wasn't until um actually in July of last year I just told her you know what you know I give up I mean I'm going date other people and move on and then the she did a 180 it's so when you you know you can say see you later have you know good luck but when you say goodbye that's the key word I think you say goodbye the light turn turns on inside them and then they she immediately change from this reserved conservative person to okay well I want to be with you but I want this this can you do can you do these things and and I said sure So she moved in a month later after she decided okay and I asked her what why you been why have you been kind of reeling me in put me off willing me in put me off for so long and it was the proverbial I was testing you ah yeah they do that yeah I just kind of told her I said you know what testing's over it's either piss her get off the pot right and she decided to um you know but what I really want to know is challenge me has has it eased your life over here has it made it has it made it more complicated well simplified that's where I was trying to go with this kind of getting I was more active and doing more because when you're by yourself you don't want to sit home by yourself right so I was out every day I was out doing something yeah I traveled and since moved in I'm home more I've gained 25 lbs since she's moved which before I was losing the weight now I'm slowly putting it back on so I need to do something about that you know and the thing with these Filipinos is when they cook there's two of us when she cooks there's enough for 10 I'm like why do you cook so much food yeah and you like I don't want to go to the waist I don't want to wa so I eat more and then I gain more now you love this I'm on a fast and Carol and cook few meals I don't eat it's water she'll cook a she'll make a whole salad but it's healthy you got you got to eat you can't go without food you've been 3 days without food here's a salad is healthy yeah well and you know the proverbial say that you want rice with that right right of course you do God damn rice for breakfast lunch dinner drives me crazy I don't need right no right how about your finances and I don't want to get into specifics of this that together but with a lady without a lady change no change more do I do I spend more probably a little more um but you know you when you go shopping you give the money to the Filipina and send her and you stand 20 ft away because your price and her price are different correct so we kind of do that when we go to the market if you will or somewhere that's you know there's no there's no posted price there's no price they have they have the Filipino price and then they have for um you know I was a good boy I learned when I was you know in my early 20s how to invest and you know I've got you know several sources of income that come in I'm not hurting I can live anyone in the world want anywhere in the world cost is not a factor to me so but I like it here I choose to be here and um Janessa keeps me grounded here that's something that you're really focused on uh where a guy like me who has you know a source of income from Social Security or an annuity or rental property or whatever kind of has to keep an eye on the budget I was a little different what about you I don't know well for Caroline I tried to buy her love ohow in the first 12 months I bought her everything she could possibly want she do artwork so I bought her easel and all these different pencil sets and everything from Amazon and spent several hundred on that she liked it wasn't buying her love so then she wanted to do you know uh she wanted to talk about computer work but I need a higher speed computer okay a laptop okay it was a th000 bucks I bought $1,000 computer and with it she needed uh wireless mouse and speakers that were Wireless and then we needed a power a backup generator in case the power goes out because they won't give her a job online in the states unless you have a power supply to back up your Wi-Fi and your computer okay got that I and then she wanted a a notebook got that you know she was you know for last birthday and I I didn't mind spending but I spent a lot of money on her and you know what she can't be bought this is mind r she can't be bought I I tried to pay her I wanted to pay her to feed the children cuz we did that this past weekend and we said 30 kids and I wanted to pay her I said well I have the funds donated me to hire and and you're working you work from 4:30 to 8:00 at night I don't want any money for that that's volunteer I'm not taking money for children you got to take your site on that well I agree and I said okay you're still leading with your wallet yes and you haven't broken that habit yet no I think it's one of the worst habits that men have over here in general I don't mean just here but I mean around the world is leading with your wallet you're out you you're you try to dress to impress you try to own things exactly you try to take good you know if you're going out to dinner you try to go to some place upper scale and you try to show off be a big shot blah blah blah the and here in the Philippines you lose respect from women I can guarantee like if you are Frugal they will look up to you and they will respect that because they're perpetually thinking about their future and they're like yeah man let's sock it away and um she has this little rice cooker good for four or five people we had 30 kids they all need a cup of rice I said we need to go buy a 50 cup rice B like a a 8 L commercial it's this big I know I almost Ste on it yeah okay so I said we need to get a really big one you have plenty of rice I says and she well I'll just make several in the small one and store it that doesn't make sense to me I'm sorry just make one three or five kilos of rice you know and just boom you're done and and then I says we also need a giant pot she's using two or three smaller pots this is just order a huge pot and when you're making you know whatever they make I don't know what it is I forgot the name m Mal Goose or whatever it's lentils and and it's got pork in it and it's got vegetables in it and then they put some uh different oyster sauce and and uh what is that St see that that I didn't take that packet you I think you I think you're changing your tun a little bit because you have started to teach her how to make money you're taking your we won't go into details but you're taking your business action which you're very good at way there's ways to make money there's way time way for her to make money yeah and she was trying to do a little food thing and it was just a waste of time energy and she didn't make any money at it broke even best she was oh she tolds me I'm about to doing it for mddy well and what I said to her you're not you're right because you're losing money selling food you're selling Dynamite sticks for four or five pesos and they're costing you seven I broke it all down as to the basics of the meat going in the cheese the tortillas she rolling the fry the oil the gas you're losing money and her time hey do you guys find it hard when you're talking to your Filipino of just communication in general being tough oh yeah a lot get lot let me tell you that's what I can tell you I got a story for you you're going to like this tell me I was we're home I was in the shower and I was drying all got I was driving off and she says here all Filipinos call their significant other babe okay so you know you go to the mall and you hear babe and you got 50 foreigners looking right is that one mine yeah so so I'm getting out I'm drying off and it's babe I'm like what I need help what do you need help with she's in the other room I asked her what do you need help with the shits I was like what you need help with what the shits what and I'm I mean I'm thinking like I'm not wiping your ass you know and and I'm again you need help with what the shits so I dry offats I go in the other room and she's got sheets hanging up I started laughing she says what's so funny I said I thought you were on the toilet she goes she goes you foreigners yeah oh like you said n sheets she summed it up you call you Porters and another time she the title of this video you Porters you Porters so another time she says babe I'm like what can we go eat out I have to make the MERS she she says can we go eat out tonight and I said sure I said where do you want to go she says I want to go to Moon coffee Moon coffee and I know you know there's Tom and Tom's coffee there's Bose's coffee I'm like coffee you want to go eat it I said where's this at she says it's at Robinson's don't you know he said no and I said I don't think I've ever been there and she says no you've been there I said I no I she says yes we've been there and I said I I ordered something she says yeah I said did I drink cuz I'm thinking Moon coffee did I drink something there of course you did like okay so we get truck we're driving to the Robinson's mall and I'm like where is this again you know it's on the second floor and I said I have never seen nor heard of a moon coffee she says we've been there several times he said no no no no no no no no not with me you have it so we get there we get to the mall and we're walking in I go now where is it she points up there it's Moon Cafe Moon Cafe not Moon coffee Moon Cafe is kind of like a Mexican so that was that's another story and then another one that's funny you talking about communication so back in the States you you pack up you're going somewhere you know and your spouse might say hey did you turn off the air conditioner you go yeah here it's did you off it yeah did you the AC did you off the light you not did you turn off the light did you off the light so yeah the communication is real open and cl the light is what I went you know they do you want the light open and you don't take your medication you drink your medication oh it's hilarious the thing is though is we've got to adjust to all that you know I mean it's their place it's their language it's their thingss but uh the pronunciation will get you how about you you uh Carolyn speaks good great English yeah she she does she's very good she doesn't realize her potential though uh she worked as uh um again my mind's gone a paralal uh for attorney for several years before I knew her she knows a lot of legal stuff she knows how to use a laptop she knows how to get things done licenses permits stuff she do that yeah I've seen her right up some stuff she's wrote up contracts for other people seen it it's very very well done she's done a what do they call it when you have a business profile or something for herself you have a like you submitting a a profile to a company on yourself resume a resume she did the most professional resume I've ever seen in my life I I couldn't believe I say this is really good this is a really good resume very thorough very clear very punctuation perfect everything's right I I go and then she goes but but what I want to do is I want to draw faces with chalk I said well how much you get paid for that oh sometimes they pay me and sometimes C the hell okay I mean honey you know how you you have the potential to You' got the laptop now you've got the power backup you've got the knowledge in your head and you could be a legal a legal aid a paralal you could you know English and you know Vian and she knows some other one too I so you're seeing a lot of potential but she doesn't seem interested she's not interested in making money well you can lead a horse to water you know what I'm saying um I don't know maybe you shouldn't get so frustrated about it but you've always been that way your entire life is making a buck not only making a buck but looking at your potential and thinking about right what you're wasting your time you know what you know what you know what was the first clear with me was back in the day when you sent me all those B buying boxes yeah but you had you had a tie dye deal with a full tiedye kit you bought at the swap meat a guy sold you for like 20 bucks or something like that whatever it was shirts D you know what here's the difference this is what I realized how smart you are is I would have walked by that guy and glanced at it and said what the hell am I going to do that thing but you came up you I'll never forget you saying this where else can you buy a business for $25 and I thought that is genius because this guy taught you or showed you didn't he I don't want put words no he did he he had he came over show me how t-shirts I had no idea and he showed me and and you were able to to do that you made a bunch of shirts I don't know if you ever made any money off of it but that it doesn't matter if you did or not but you see potential in things when it comes to that that's just a knack that's a gift that you have I'm Jewish yeah the answer to that is I'm Jewish okay all Jews see money okay they know how to make money I you know how to make money I don't have to tell you I used to say I used to laugh about it cuz I had three businesses at one time and and one of them was jewelry you know and one of them was uh Financial investing I you know it's you just oh well we do need to talk about another subject okay well what subject would you like there's two of them health insurance all right on the last time we were together uh I cuz we see what Jules is going through right now oh God you got to have insurance when you get here guys it's affordable okay you have to have health insurance the first year I was here I had expensive health insurance before you go any further I want to interject okay I really don't want you pitching any particular product or any particular name okay all right cuz I that's on my channel and I don't want if somebody gets it it doesn't work I don't want that to happen but the general idea of insurance feel free to to to give your opinion well okay I'll give you the the just of the cost and the type of shirts like sh without the a thank you however they can go on and get my ebook and see it okay so free ebook you know everything includes all the insurance okay for vehicles and health and life okay and will definitely put a freaking link thank you stupid EB I think he just gave you the middle finger so so with the Assurance pay my eyes were bleeding after reading the 10 book okay go ahead $1,250 twice every 6 months for the first insurance policy and it was phenomenal I it was worth it had a million it was in US Dollars a billion couple billion or five billion it's five billion policy5 billion dollar US dollar policy you can't spend $5 billion in the Philippines you I don't care if they have to reattach your arms legs and give you a new heart you could not spend $5 million here it but I didn't know that what I first got here now I've seen what people have gone through and how much they they paid for insurance and I've seen people have literally heart surgery and they won't spend 5 600,000 for uh pesos pesos what does that come out to I think it depends on the surgery I think it's about 20 grand if you go in for a bypassers a USD if you're go for Grand so that's a million pesos that's a million pesos that's a million pesos okay so I found a policy and it's I'm about G to say who I found it really I found it Ure for a million it's a it's called a Filipino policy but it covers anybody you apply you have no uh uh testing they don't test you anything you get a million peso coverage a year every year we us to a billion so if you use 400,000 you only have six left for that year it covers everything there's no uh does it carry over to the next year no no it's so you don't get 2 million resets Max resets 1 million every and uh there's no dedu you have you have an insurance card so now let me ask you this real quick do you have to pay up front and get reimbursed no no when you go to the hospital and you show them that insurance and they verify it you're in okay I guarantee you entry to a philppine hospital I'm a little leery of making that statement well that's what I'll tell you why because you haven't done it yet and so you haven't gone to this hospital that's hospital that hospital that hospital they may look at you and you might get the person behind the counter that says no that's not the way we do it here so I would be careful about saying that all right I just want to be okay clear that you know sounds too good to be true it may so I would I'm going to interject on this one pal I would be prepared to go ahead and pay that $220,000 and then wait to be reimbursed I think is a safer statement okay to make a blanket comment like that is a little you know say they get you he say they said the insurance company saying that yeah but the hospital didn't say that true okay and I've heard I'm always having the correcting I don't know if it's true maybe you know but I've heard that it takes sometimes years to get reimbursed from the insurance company is that true I have heard only on car insurance um my friend Mike who lives in SAU he has a Wego just like mine he hit a tree he flipped it into a ditch and it landed on the roof and believe it or not this guy didn't get hurt not a scratch I go did you get hurt he goes not even a toenail he goes I'm perfectly fine but the car is total total and I'm cool I thought man upside down with the with the seat belt on that had to hurt the Necker no complaints from him anyway but that being said it took him 6 months to get the money for the car but he got it but he got it he got it but that's the again that leads us into having that million dollars in reserve $20,000 in in in cash in reserves 10,000 whatever the number is I was told Different Strokes for different folks a million peso account savings account for emergencies a million pay that's $2,000 okay so and and that's what I'm working towards but in the meantime I don't have it so this policy for my age of 67 I'll be 68 a week but they go by your current age uh so for 67 and uh I had some prior things nothing major but nothing majori nothing I haven't had heart attacks Strokes um I'm just diabetic but I'm no longer diabetic but basically they didn't really care there was no testing and it was 52,000 pesos which is under it was like $900 us per year per year and you either pay it lump sum $900 or you can break it up into two payments every 6 months but they will charge you 8% and does that coverage start from day one or is there a 90-day waiting period no waiting period no deductible and that's in your ebook yes it is and you have some corrections to making your ebook by the way always we're already on version 21 I had a guy email me on some of your well you didn't forward it to me okay I will uh they're minor okay and then the other thing and that you really should get that policy cuz that there's a lot of guys here that that or a policy something say here's my here's what I'll tell you um I don't like to give advice but just to counterbalance Goldfinger I would encourage you to research a lot of policies you can also get his little ebook for free uh I'll put a link in and he'll email it to you and uh he gives all of his words of wisdom in there right names numbers dates yeah I mean I've learned a lot and there's a lot I got a lot of people that gave me information I wasn't sure about about visas I wasn't totally clear on it so I put that information in there or buying a car cuz I didn't buy a car so stuff like that or renting motorbikes and scooters U the disadvantages advantages the buying versus red de all that kind of stuff it's all in there including traveling tips for flying and we're getting off the subject in any case uh I've known for people that did not get health insurance and it's devastated and they and the reason why they don't get insurance is because they all we have um Medicare is it Medicare back in the state what it's called yeah they have Medicare it ain't going to do you no good if you have a stroke it doesn't work out here you break arm go home or the your arm is hanging there you're not going to be able to fly back home it doesn't work here okay I mean you get into an accident and you get hurt you're going to have to go into the hospital here that medic I dropped my Medicare Part B it makes no sense to carry it if you're going to live here okay because it isn't going to be any good you're not going to spend so much money to go back home and then you're going to have to pay for hotel food and then you're going to have to fly back well I think we got Healthcare cover yeah have you found Goldfinger and I were talking about how we've over the months time years that we've been here how we have found little nuances that have made our life so much simpler so the example we were talking about before you got here was what time do you leave the house for example if May and I are going to go in dag Getti or I'm just going to go in dag Getti do not leave the house between 7 and 9: :00 in the morning cuz that's when the kids are getting dropped off school and it'll take you longer to get there so you have to leave if I got to get to town I either got to get out before 7: or after 9: and then you can just Boogaloo and 400 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. in the evening 4:00 to 7: in the evening psychotic yeah well I mean I had to go to immigration this morning to pick up my visa extension and they open at 8 so I left the house at 7 right at 7:00 and traffic was already starting to get bad yes yeah I'm going to go back to something we forgot touch but it's it's it's insurance but it's not health insurance vehicle insurance another subject that people get caught up on here is a rent a motorbike and they just take off and go or they buy a car or rent a car okay it is literally 200,000 pesos worth of liability coverage it doesn't matter who's driving it it has to do with the vehicle not the driver ,000 bucks yeah 200,000 worth of coverage yeah it ain't enough well you can buy 400,000 but 200,000 mote it's 300 pesos that's five bucks it's $5 to buy $4,000 wor so and 200,000 covers a lot if you want 400,000 so you buy two policies cuz they only do 200 at a time but that's $10 and a lot of people what happened was somebody we know is they drove their vehicle and they had a medical problem where they knocked out and they drove it into a ditch and they hurt somebody very badly and that guy had a a broken leg a broken hip the guy he hit the guy he hit in the ditch was a worker and it cost him nearly 400,000 at the hospital one one little nugget for you guys is the guy that's doesn't matter if you're a Filipino or a foreigner especially though if you're a foreigner especially but it doesn't matter if you have the bigger vehicle you have to pay for whatever injuries they sustain or if you're a foreigner so for you're paying uh 600 pesos $10 you could have saved $400,000 yeah that's you got to get well I think what happens is guys come over here and they everything and I'm not there not just women but everything is eye candy to them everything is everything's I candy I want this I want some of this and look like you said when we we're in a hurry they're in a hurry they want to go do everything they spending all this money next thing I find out like people I know a year later they find out you know what I'm broke I'm not only broke here I'm broke I spent all I spent everything I have in the US too I got nothing and then they're in trouble and you know that's where I think maybe I don't know if I'm different than I'm Different I know you savings well I didn't have I have I planned for my retirement back then when I was 20 years old right right you're unicorn I have a nest egg I have income I have Investments I have sure incoming check I have all kind I have more money than I need okay we'll just leave it at that but and and some of these guys I just you know like you advise them I'm like dude it's none of my business but you're going to get yourself in trouble and I'm rude for suggesting that and I shouldn't but I do because I they're my friend and then I get looked down upon because I'm caring because I care about you cuz you're my friend and then they get in and the I mean I can't and they're embarrassed it's not the right thing to say I told you so right but they're embarrassed they don't want to talk about it and it's oh I should have done this different I should have um but like you said lead people to the water if they don't drink they don't drink but the problem is what I got here I'm very excuse me very materialistic it's just way I was in the St was very I had jewelry i Custom clothes from Italy I had fancy cars you don't lose that you're spoiled okay I lost the money and I lost all that stuff but it's still in brain you know I like good stuff not secondhand stuff never used you know anything like that when I got here I still had the same mentality and I spent all my money from month to month and it got me in trouble CU I had a borrow from you I had a borrow from you on a certain month I had a borrow from another guy a friend of ours Andy and he paid back I did pay back he paid us back he paid it back paid back but but I shouldn't have with the income I had I shouldn't have had to be in a position where I'm borrowing 10 20,000 pesos it didn't make any sense because I kept buying things I didn't necessarily have to have right away it was just a bad habit of buying I have a very bad I don't Window Shop I bought I made a video a few videos back and I and it was about that topic and I said one thing that I think men need to be aware of oh and women is impulse and you get emotional and we we I I'll do things on impulse that was a good video yeah did you see it and I really really believe that that's Sage advice and I and I like go to my channel you know Jesus do the 244872 hour thing you know I want this I wait 24 hours see if you still really want it that bad tomorrow or the next day yeah for example if I'm hauling down the street with me and she see something cute hanging at an okai oai store and she Taps me on the shoulder of course I pull over because it's not going to cost me more than a150 she she's a pair of shorts literally you buy a dress for she she rolling out with three things she's proud because they were on all on sale for 40 pesos so she gets three dresses for that's an impul th pesos to Caroline to go shopping she comes back with 900 the point being is that the the these guys that like we're talking about this gentleman he met a lady and he started to work off of emotions of logic try to buy love and before you buy a car before you buy a scooter before you rent an apartment I just say you know sleep on it for 24 hours I have actually a 72-hour rule if it's a major decision and I believe me I thought for over a year before I bought a car and I had the money in the bank a year ago but waited until it was just it's like okay Now's the Time because if you want to travel or move around those things hold you back youed really bad case in the US was i' strive to buy expensive stuff but then that expensive stuff owns me oh yeah I have to worry about it I have to protect it I have to ensure it I have to cover it you know buy it's like ridiculous so you work really hard to get all this really fancy stuff but eventually that big rock grows so heavy and you're like I I I of a a a slave for the stuff I owed right that's what her M do right that's why you know you buy like well some guys get really hyped up about if there's a little scratch or a dent or ding or whatever I could care less can't worry about you know what it just is what it is it's a car it's a bike it's supposed to go from A to B it doesn't have to be perfect it doesn't to China I'm not impressing anybody with it I'm not being Joe cruel I'm not 25 years old anymore trying to of that is different here than in the US big time go on that expand on that little well you know in the US you know my truck was my prize you know or my boat was my prize my you know everything I own was my material but yeah but like he said it owned me because everything was about you got to clean it wax it clean my Hurley and clean my truck and clean but here it's you just have like we talked earlier you can't own anything nice here cuz it's going to get scratched in and you know who did it it doesn't matter cuz nobody cares so it's a point A to point B kind of thing right you don't really carry any extra weight with anybody on anything that you own no or how big or S small your house is no one gives a they just they either like you or they don't and they're either going to hang out with you or they're not and no one really cares if you're rich and I'm poor and you're in the middle um no one no one no one no one gives no one ever talks about um no one ever talks about the same the conversations out here do are 180 from what you had in America when men got together all they ever freaking talked about was their job and it's not about what you have it's not about what you have got this I don't know that I don't know about y I don't watch TV here yeah I don't either when I when I was in the states I watch TV every evening and watch the news and you know the news is what tore me up yeah yeah politics that's all us has got into is politic poit everything you had a conversation about teddy bears and somebody's going to turn it into a Biden Trump thing I don't know why people feel the need to do that but here you don't have that stress yeah we don't and it's Unwritten we don't talk politics we don't talk religion right yeah um right and we help each other there are I'll put a I'll put a little spin on that birds of a feather do flock together so there are guys that love to talk politics but they tend to click up together and they get their own little little coffee cluts going uh or they might want to talk about the Flat Earth they're flat earthers or whatever so they get actually there's like a a group out here of like 10 guys that they get together they have a they have a meeting you know or something but I figure what the hell you know they're not hurting me they're not hurting you and you know why that is it's because the Filipino people are only concerned about one thing their next meal yeah they're not worried about worldly things they don't have they don't they just can't they just they're always the only thing they have to worry about and they don't really worry much is is feeding their kids or the next meal that's it and it doesn't it doesn't take a lot to make them happy yeah and rice rice is life here goes Life Now Dental know for crying out let's go to dental what do we got Marcus WBY on the channel today I don't know so I said I really haven't had a teeth cing in two years I needed teeth please I didn't do it in Mexico it's been a long time he doesn't brush his teeth either it's 1500 brush my teeth he only brushes the ones he wants to keep I Rush this too I Rush this one uh it's only, 1500 pesos what is that, 1500 30 bucks 30 bucks 25 bucks5 for for teeth clean and they have professional teeth bleeders here they have professional equip it uh use the high water pressure Sonic thing that's pretty good Caroline reminds them every night babe go brush your tooth and I thought well you know I should take Carolyn in too because I said when's the last time you teeth I back in 2016 or something or 17 I said well you know what you should at least get your teeth please let's go and get your teeth please CU she know played about any her teeth are nice she actually has nice teeth she never wore braces but she has beautiful teeth and she doesn't complan about any pain I bet she had a lot of cavities 12 cavities I'm sorry but 12 this is definitely for members only 1500 pesos a cavity 9,000 pesos later no no not n 18,000 pesos like I had to go to the bank and and withdraw all the funds I had to pay for just her 18,000 pesos just for her 195 by the time we got out I'm sorry I I who has that's like 350 who has 12 cavities I don't they had 10 seriously mhm Janessa had five Janessa had five what is the deal with that because they never go to the dentist Cy they brushed their teeth they brushed their teeth May washes your teeth three times a day um I get my teeth cleaned every four months cuz I smoke um and I drink a lot of we know to you need a facel Janessa had never been to the dentist I took her the first time with the dentist she had three teeth pulled in five cavities over teeth pulled teeth pulled three teeth pulled ouch what do they charge for that do you remember um I think the whole thing all the teth fillings and everything was 5 or 6,000 pesos maybe it's not too bad I could believe she 120 they came back to me they said it's 18,000 and I look at it go well everything's negotiable will you at least give her teeth cam for free yeah but her teeth that were full well Rabbi not Jewish you that's the jewi I got to get something for nothing it's I be an arm and a leg at least give me a finger okay they gave me the middle finger I literally had to withdraw 25,000 from my Bo account in order to cover her and mine and all I nothing no cavities I've never had cavities no cavities and she goes how long has it been I said at least 2 years okay I said when should I come back she goes I don't know 2 years you don't really have anything really you're good because I don't eat carbs and I don't have sugar and you only brushed one tooth to worry about so I don't eat carbs and I don't have Su you soak them in the in the glass that's why they're sitting in the jar next to my bed I don't have cavities I can't have teeth but I don't have cavities takes them outside pressure washes them every now and then okay so you're officially the dubbest okay dub duber dubbest okay fine got that out of the way stupid should we wrap it up that sounds like a wrap we have we have we actually imported anything on this video I don't know who knows we just talk we never know we just open up our mouths and see what happens funny so let me ask you this how long have you been in the Philippines Dar I came January of last year I went back year and a I went back to Texas for 3 weeks to come back again so I was with a 3 we break so got a year and a half year and a half with a three week you how long a week after him a year and a half yeah okay yeah biggest regret biggest regret oh I have a couple only one a um I know exactly I don't have any regrets but I really really really miss a good steak a real Texas Steak and I miss uh waterburger okay so there's nothing that you've done over here that you say G whiz that was all for terrible anything could on you how about you what well I just moved so I'm gonna I had a nice place I would have thought you would have said your first your first place because of you had a nice place but the road up was was funky and you had to go through all that that traffic it was a nice place uh up on a mountain it was new first one to live move there actually was it uh Mike's Philippine retirement did a video on it uh um the place was nice but it just so far from everything and uh up the mountain the road was dirt so when it's not raining rain in it was so dusty and so you had to roll the windows up and then your car is always dirty from the dust and then when it was raining your car was muddy as hell on the mud and it was muddy I just didn't like it how do you like Valena I like it you like your new place um he has a beautiful place you going have he came and visited yesterday nice I mean really nice um so you have to do a separate video it's a lot nicer I think what do you pay if you don't mind me asking the same as where I was before actually 35 th000 p and he locked it in for three years yeah I negotiated with the landlord three additional years with no price increase good on you it's an individual residence it's not an apartment it's a little complex there's one other unit that and then separate yeah we're separate they're not they're not connected and there's a pool a pool in between us that I share the pool with one other person the place is pristine and not how did you find it people are CU about that Facebook I don't know uh can I say the realtor's name yeah Elma what's what's elma's last name huh F Elma fulco so I've dealt with several I dealt with several Realtors on the first place and I didn't like any of them really but this one Alma FCO she's great so if you come here look her up Elma F FCO and she's on the Filipino peel look her up and she's great she knows her stuff she's professional she's on time she does what she says and and says what she does whereas the others don't um she was great um it's a good point yeah that I'll go with that I'll go with I know she's very credible yeah very my biggest biggest regret not coming here soon I was going to say no after you got here that's not that's not a fair answer I was going to say all that money you blew sending it to chicks onl I would to blow it remember I regret for that I don't care don't regret that not at all okay I had fun um it wasn't that much money biggest regret not coming here sooner I could have come here in 2012 anytime from 2012 and I didn't get here till what 2023 yeah yeah big mistake I blew all my money in Las Vegas over a 10year period blew it blew it so you could have been here hook instead on hookers well no you forgot about the coke hookers and drugs yeah and the coke also was drugs too but I'm just kidding that's okay it's going to be a member only so you can started it off a hooker's tits and a I bought can I say it I bought two sets of tits at a ass I did I paid for them two sets of and I didn't even get to to see him now now youall know why I call him gold not gold finger I had a lot of fun I don't regret I don't regret spending the money okay I enjoyed the two sets of tits of the ass and all the girls in the coke and everything else but I do going to have to put a parental warning introduction to this video I have actually had some people say Paul I thought it was a family you know and depends on Whose family it is kids cover your eyes yeah yeah definitely be the he no evil hide the children oh my God I don't regret spending any of the money on all the girls all so you just regreta come over here earlier oh man I had a great time I should have come here earlier if I had come here earlier I would have SP all that money what's your greatest accomplishment or what are you proudest of or what's what's been your best day I don't know here yeah yeah if there is such a thing I mean that's kind of a tough question I don't think I can pull but overall what are you H what makes you happy about being here uh well you know my first 6 months like I said I met Janessa right after I got here at the she was a waitress at the west and I always thought she was cute and we talked and she would reel me in and throw me back out so and I she knew it I I was dating other people because I couldn't get her to commit um and those didn't just didn't work out because you know if it don't fit it don't fit right right and you know when I told her that day um I I give up I'm not going to try and good luck to you goodbye I'm moving on and I'm going to and um somebody a the day after I sent her that goodbye a friend of mine I think it was you went to where she was working to that restaurant ah where she was working I didn't tell her anything so I she sent me a message and says your friend is here and says you're on a date and I so I no this is Guy this is guy I'm just telling you what the woman did I had your back I did not say that so she insisted that you were I said no I sent her a message back and said yes I am I told you I was give I gave up goodbye yes I am and that's what you get a turn around and so I think the coolest thing was when she sent me another message says okay I'm done testing you and I'm ready to do this and I want to I want to be with you and I want to do this and I said okay so what is your plan I asked her what is your plan she says I I'm ready I will I didn't ask her to uh I'm going to quit my job and I want to come stay with you and I said okay when would you like to do that she gave me a date and I said okay um I think that would be okay cuz you I think you really need should or should live together to see if you can cohabitate and if you can't then if it don't work then you know you try it yeah and so she gave me a date and the date she gave me she moved in everything she said she would do she did she moved in and um and that's when my life changed from you know every day I'd get up and go out and spend the day with different friends and stuff and different excursions you back then and then uh that's when it was just you know became her and I I think that's the dynamic out here once we hook up with somebody is um with when we enjoy our partner's company there's a lot less motivation to leave the house yeah you know sometimes you leave the house just to get away from yourself when you're by yourself you know you just want to get out and and and have a conversation or meet somebody or have some interaction cuz we're social creatures but when you're with somebody it's okay just to stay at home like I stayed at home for 3 days in a row because it was just so freaking hot out you know I was like I I look I think God I don't want to go on that feat I go babe you mind if we just stay here or you can leave if want to but I don't want to go out in it and we just stayed together all for three days in a row and right now she's out doing her thing on her scooter and I'm out on my scooter going my direction and we'll find each other eventually sometime during the day but we're not glued together but we've got I think it's great balance you know uh like you brought your girl with you and our sister here to Forest Camp and they're out splashing around having time so that's awesome and um my best moment yeah is the kids it is so cool to see their eye the kids here are not like the kids back home the kids here are so respectful so thankful they are they are they're so cute okay they they put little ducks in their hair they braid little ducks that that wiggle in their hair yeah and they do things that I just have not seened a and they take your hand and they thank you whether it be helmets or food they they bring they they they take your hand and they put it to their forehead that's a bless a bless and a respect they're all so respectful I was worried about things getting stolen because I had them in the house doe the weather no no way doesn't even ENT their mind no that doesn't happen at all or they might hurt the dog you know Einstein cuz he's little you know now these kids were so quiet yeah and sitting in their seats and thankful um when we did the helmets you remember how it was you know the helmet psch those kids were Swedish kids I've ever yeah I actually have a video I actually have a video that I did what Saturday yeah was it today's what Monday okay it is two days ago I haven't put it together yet cuz I did all these little Clips but he had a little get together at his house or his apartment and you fed what 30 kids we fed 30 we invited I videotaped it and um I've yet to put it together but that's be coming out soon and I'll probably start that out of members only also and I got uh I just uh I said okay this is going to work we going to do this we may have to keep it down to 50 or under 50 if we're doing it inside my home because you going to do that every week yes so every Saturday every Saturday that's cuz may and I want to participate and may says she loved going over and helping I bought and big rice cooker well next time we're going to bring one of the dogs with us oh yeah yeah okay cuz well see we had places to be that day like remember I had to leave and I had a no and then I had a 2:00 and I had a this o00 and a that o00 and Nick said we'll just well you missed when they were doing the the games at the end where they're name the anals oh really they Carly print the pictures of adal really so the kids had to name the an just some shape and then she did math problems uh well maybe I should redo the video you can wait till the next next that I think I will because I got I got it was weird light and all that kind of stuff now that I know now that I know what's going organized so maybe the next one might all right so I'm going to do that I I actually bought tables so I don't have to take borrow table we had borrow table I bought tables and I bought stools we had chairs with backs like these and and it was it the the chairs with backs take up more room I bought 40 stools and had them delivered yesterday uh giant rice cookers we're not making little things of rice stor uh big giant pots so we could you know cuz Carolyn's not familiar with cooking for large groups she's cooking like it's a family it's 30 40 people you you got to cook you got a big lady I ordered long stainless steel Giant ladles and stuff to to mix things and serve it you know well let's wrap it up we Bor them long enough so basically to sum it up you're on a 4-day fast I'm on a five day fast day fast to S you're losing weight defin you're taking memory pills but you can't remember the name of them I don't remember the pill uh you've gained 25 lbs since you moved in with your lady yeah same thing happened to me so you're going to try to take charge of that or I've already started no I've already started okay cuz I lost weight and then I gained some back so it's time for me to reamp too I mean we all fall off the wagon every now and then so you hell your weight vastly affects your health it sure does I need to drop it back it really feel great when you lose that gut but I got I can feel I got about 5 six pounds right around the middle and the pants are tighter uh the shirts are tighter it doesn't feel as good it's um and you're just lugging that around makes it harder to walk harder to breathe harder to do everything but overall you guys are happy campers yeah and we we're all settled down with a significant other you're not going back to America are you going back I don't ow anything back there I sold everything I don't care if my driver's license uh expires in the US I'll get a driver's license here first I will not go back all right well that's it um lighting's kind of weird on this deal but hey what the hell conversation was fun yeah all right we'll see all you guys later this is going to be members only really because it's oh absolutely yeah I can't throw this out to the general public and I have to I'm fun wait you'll see you should put some shorts on there I might be able to edit it okay or have may edit it so I can put it out to the general consumption I don't but may does so we may have to bleep out some of the words or something you can bleep all right all right all right all right well uh welcome to the 99 cent store that's what I charge for my membership 99 cent 99 C store went out of business so I I I resuscitated it 99 peso store now Show a show a one minute clip of this and say if you want to see the whole video which is I don't know 40 minutes long become a beber what a Jew I saw everything for a buck trying to make money you got you got to you know you got to think how could I how can I motivate these people Rabbi gold finger all right we'll talk to you later bye bye go 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