Therapist reacts to Hope by NF

high five I've been so excited to listen to this song hope hope I've got hope hope I'm on my way I'm coming don't don't L Fai in me I know you've been waiting know you've been praying for my [Music] soul 30 years been Fe I was not expecting the song to start like that that was beautiful I'm um okay he's out in the middle of the ocean I just feel like that is how so many people feel like I'm literally stranded in the middle of the ocean and I'm just trying to hold on to this little life raft like my life raft is hope I don't know if that's where it's going but like okay 30 years you been draging your feet telling me I'm the reason we're stagnant 30 years You' been claiming your honest and PR missing progress where's it that I don't want you to feel like a failure I know this hurts but I gave you your chance to deliver now it's my turn don't get me wrong great it's time to give the people something so without further Ado I like to introduce my my ALB my album my album myb My Hope what's my definition of success listening to what your heart says standing up for what you know is right everybody else is talking their between their legs what's my definition of success sucess creating something no one else being brave enough to dream big ring when you're told to just quit giving more when you got nothing [Music] left hold on hold on a second hold on a second this is really interesting it's like again we're seeing like these versions of himself I feel like he's talking to himself like different pieces him him like don't get me wrong Nate you've had a great run but it's time to give the people something different and I love this line this whole section what's my definition of success listening to what your heart says and then what's my definition of success creating something no one else can I think that that gets lost your uniqueness your unique voice being imbued in in imbued into your creation automatically means that it's something that no one else can create so whatever your dream is like no one else can do it exactly the way that you can do it and that is so beautiful like no one else can do it the way exactly NF can do it I just love I I love this I love this journey that we're on I love that he's like you know in the other videos he's like I don't know I'm imag that the white is symbolizing something that he's wearing all white as well in this and maybe that's a different version of himself let's let's just let's go back a touch creating something no one else being brave enough to dream big when you're told to just quit giving more when you got nothing left person that'll take a chance on something that would talking never happen it's a person that can see the bright side through the dark times when there ain't one it's when someone who ain't never had had nothing ain't afraid to walk away from more profit cuz they rather do something that they really love and take the pay cut it's a person that would never waiver or chain through they are just to try and gain some credibility so they can feel accepted by a stranger it's a person that can take the faes in their life and turn them into motivation it's beleving in yourself when no one else does it's amazing what a little bit of Faith Can Do if you don't even believe in you why would you think or expect anybody else that's around you to I didn't did things that I oh he it he's he's like battling with himself like I feel like this white version his hopeful self and like all the work he's done and that like that version that's getting to come to the surface a little bit more and then this version that's dressed in all black is kind of the one that like when he starts to Hope talks him down off the hope and when he starts to like reach for more this map is interesting it's taking me back a little bit I feel like yeah I'm just thinking about like when you're looking at a map like you're looking for something the search we did that one these lyrics are so powerful and how he's trying to speak more life into this version of himself like this is who I'm trying to be a person who sees the bright side in the dark times when there ain't one it's someone who keeps fighting it's someone that can take the failures in their life and turn them into motivation like that's who he's trying to be here and now this like other guys come coming in and it sounds like sounds like he's not be show nice let's see else it's amazing what a little bit of Faith can't do if you don't even believe in you why would you think or expect anybody else that's around you to I didn't did things that I regret I didn't said things I can't take back was a lost soul at a crossroad who had no hope but I changed that I spent years of my life holding on the things I never should have kept full of hatred years of my life carrying a lot of baggage that I should have walked away from years of my life wishing I was somethingone different looking for some validation tears on my life trying to feel the pretending I was they get it I just have to pause before we even before we even get into it this this is so real that when you start to cultivate hope in your life the piece of you that is afraid of hope that feels like it's dangerous to hope will naturally rise up and try to fight against this because hope is defiant and it puts you at risk for disappointment and if you are a person who has had a hard time with disappointment in the past that is a really thing scary thing to put yourself at risk to but if you don't hope it's even riskier because without hope then there's no reason to keep pushing forward being in a place of hopelessness is actually the riskiest place to be because it puts you in a place where there's no there's no possibility for a better future and that's a quick spiral easy spiral down into suicidality into self harm into depression and so although hope is risky it is less risky than not hoping but sometimes that little part in us doesn't see that right away and it's trying to protect us so I just I just had to note that and if you're at a place where you feel like it's really scary to Hope because you're scared of being disappointed please share in the comments by tagging at support if you feel like you're starting to Hope and there's a part of you that's coming up raging against that please share that in the comments by taking out heart support we're doing C you okay where'd he fall where' he fall let's go body hits the floor don't love [Music] [Music] toity yo when I tell you I've been listening to this on repeat since we covered it Mansion is my favorite song it's going to be my top Spotify rap song this year I can tell you because I've listened to it a thousand times okay so he's in his Mansion so he's in his Mansion he's in his Mansion I got too excited sorry if you had to listen to My Singing okay [Music] [Music] gr pains a necessary evil difficult to go through is but beneficial some would say having a mental breakdown is a negative thing which on one hand I agree but on the other hand it was the push I needed to get help and start the healing process see if I didn't never hit bottom would I be the person that I am today I know so I'm a pro example of what happens when you choose to not accept defea in F your demons took me 30 years to realize that if you want to get the opportunity to be the greatest version of yourself sometimes you got to be someone you're not to hear the voice of reason having kids will make you really take a step back and look in the mirror at least [Music] [Laughter] for what oh my gosh he's moving through his Mansion differently he's realizing that yeah the Mansion there sometimes you want to lock the door sometimes it's scary let people in but it's necessary and he's he's realizing that that pain point at the at the that he was at in his mansion that he felt trapped in like that mental breakdown yeah it was negative but it was a push he needed to open the door and let someone in that Rock Bottom is the foundation for who he is today I'm this is like can you imag like ah I'm a prime example of what happens when you choose to not accept de feat and face your demons like do that like I was scared too I get it my mind felt like a home I was trapped in I know what it feels like to live here and only feel pain so I get it and I know now that I'm on the other side that you can face the Mansion differently that you can experience your mind differently oh my gosh okay wake up every day and pick my son I pull them in my arms and let him know he's love love standing by the window questioning if that is ever going to show up up isn't something he's going to have to worry about don't get it twisted that wasn't a shop mama I forgive you I just don't want him to grow thinking that he'll never be enough 30 years of running this man is brilliant mama I forgive you I just don't want him to grow up thinking that he'll never be enough can we just talk about the levels of recognition the layers of that like recognizing that his mom not showing up made him feel like he wasn't enough forgiving her for that because he knows that she had her own demons and she was doing the best he can she can and then recognizing that his pain could lead him to continue that cycle with his son but he's doing the healing to make sure that it doesn't to break that generational cycle like oh my gosh he use to search 30 years of hurt and 30 years of pain 30 years of fearful 30 years of anger 30 years of empty 30 years of Shame 30 years of brok 30 years of Anguish 30 years of hopeless 30 years of 30 years of never 30 years of maybe 30 years of later 30 years of f 30 years of H 30 years of Sorrow 30 years of Darkness 30 years of day 30 years of Badness 30 years of sadness 30 years of staging 30 years of change 30 years of patience 30 years of suffering 30 years of Torment 30 years of 30 years of bitter 30 years of lonely 30 years of pushing everyone away never weol I know I can change we are not enough we are not the same you don't have the heart you don't have the strength you don't have the will you don't have the faith you never be loved you never be safe my just want give up not running away you don't have to G you're the one afraid I'm the one to I'm taking the I'm taking the Reigns are you so serious this is a masterpiece okay let's talk about it I just I think there is so much gold in this video there is so much that I could talk about but there's a couple things that I want to highlight one The Authority that he gives himself on Pain by recognizing that he experienced 30 years of it and he can still he still found healing and is no longer in that place makes it possible that that could be your experience too he went through 30 years of Sorrow anger pain shame anguish sadness change suffering and he is no longer chained to that the fact that that has been his experience is hope for you that if you've experienced 30 years of pain it might not always be your experience and that is is beautiful in itself but I want to highlight something else actually because in the end of this song what we see happen is that as his hope rises that voice of inner critic that you're not enough you'll never evolve that is also Rising too and sometimes as we get stronger it feels like our voice of defiance against healing also gets stronger too because change is scary even if it's changed in the right direction when you AR used to these beliefs they will fight to state in your life and so actually we need to acknowledge that sometimes an increase of these beliefs sometimes doesn't necessarily mean that we're not healing some times it means that they are trying like heck to hold on to their pull in our life and it's a conscious decision to allow that part of us to exist and still give the Reigns to the part that has hope I'm taking the Reigns I get that you're here I get that you're trying to protect me I get that you're scared of change that part that comes up and says other things I get that you're afraid if I hope I might be disappointed I hear that I thank you for trying to protect me I don't need that protection right now if I need it I'll let you know but right now what I need is hope to take the Reigns right now what I need is to move through life with this belief that I can turn my pain into my purpose because I've seen myself do it in the past I've seen other people do it before me when you listen to this song I want you to allow hope to coexist being hopeful doesn't mean not feeling anything else being hopeful doesn't mean not having doubts being hopeful doesn't mean not hearing that voice that tells you you're not enough you'll never get better that voice it might be there for a while and it'll eventually get quieter is it gets proof that it is safe to Hope but when you listen to this song I want hope to coexist because if you have to only be hopeful that is a really hard standard but if you can see that Nate changed his life with the coexisting of Hope and doubt at the same time by making a decision to give hope the Reigns that's what this song can do for you when you listen to it you allow both of it to exist together and you consciously decide to give the torch to the part of you that has hope oh my gosh this song is freaking magical I'm obsessed and if I love you thank you and if you are having a hard time giving hope the Reigns in your life I want you to share that in the comments by tagging out heart support and if you want to be someone who brings up hope in other people I want you to do that with us there are NF fans that need you need your support they don't need a therapist they don't need NF they just need someone to walk alongside them and we will teach you how to do that just click the link below and you can volunteer with us and help fans in this community please please please you are important you might be the hope that somebody else needs okay I love you guys oh my gosh

Channel: HeartSupport - Music to Improve Your Mindset

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Id: pJ5YzgjgOqw

Length: 17min 8sec (1028 seconds)

Published: Fri May 10 2024