The IDENTITY SHIFT You MUST Make Before CHANGING Your LIFE

and so what most of us think is i'll feel better about myself or i'll be more confident when when i get that job when i get that relationship when i get this amount of money when i get that house when i hit that home run when i'm hitting a certain average right and so you're always chasing your tail if your identity and your confidence is contingent upon producing a result that has not yet existed it's pretty difficult to catch it isn't if you have to have it to get it in the first place hi it's ed milette and i'm going to give you a strategy today that's going to help you be more positive and contribute in the lives of other people see here's the thing if you're feeling helpless one of the antidotes to feeling helpless is to get more help full and one of the ways you can be most helpful is to raise your own identity our identity is the core part of our lives we're not going to outperform our identity our identity best set is it's the thoughts concepts and beliefs we hold to be the most true about ourselves it's really the invisible force in all of our lives that holds us back or can accelerate our success our bliss our achievements to whole new levels if you look at identity if you think about it it's almost like it's the it's a life thermostat see in this room right now there's a thermostat sitting on that wall right now and if it's set at 75 degrees this room is going to be regulated to 75 degrees no matter what the external conditions are it could be 100 degrees outside the external factors do not impact the internal thermostat in this room it's 75 degrees consequently also if it was 40 degrees outside the heater will come on it'll heat this room to 75 degrees that's how your identity works it's the internal thermostat of your life and that's why very often let's say that you know relationships or financially you're a 75 degree and if you ever notice in your life as you start to heat life up a little bit starts to go pretty well maybe your relationship's blissful and loving and incredible or financially you've increased your results you're at 80 85 90 100 degrees of success financially or in business and then it just seems coincidental but somehow some way the air conditioner kicks on in our lives you know a car breaks down an event happens we lose an account something takes place and all of a sudden we look up and boom life's back at 75 degrees of relationship of money of business that wasn't by coincidence it is the regulator of your life is your identity and so if you you can do all the right things all the activities all of the thinking all of the execution part but if you don't increase what you believe you're worth if you don't increase that identity that thermostat of your life you will find a way to cool your life back down to what you believe you deserve and so one of the keys for me in my life is not just getting better at the mindset of life and the execution of business or strategy but raising that identity so that i'm at 85 90 100 120 degrees so that i believe i'm worthy of as my execution and my thinking reaches the same level that thermostat setting that life setting will change it's not the external conditions of our life that dictate the terms it's that identity it's that thermostat setting so we got to get more helpful if we feel helpless and the way we do that is by increasing our own identity that thermostat setting that sounds great doesn't it so how do you do that well i call it the holy trilogy of shifting one's identity and that is faith intention and association that's the three things you must work on in order to increase your thermostat setting number one faith for me it's the center part of my life is that i have a god who loves me that believes in me that wants to see me successful wants to see me prosper wants to have favor in my life wants me to feel comfort and peace and so i find often times it's interesting people of faith sometimes god's in their life sunday at church when they're worshiping or they're in bible study or when they're eating a meal they'll pray over it but somehow when they walk into a business meeting a speech a board room a client environment they leave god at the door and they think they're on their own so for me if you're a person of faith and god is with you all the time and he loves you all the time and he comforts you all the time that includes business that includes every area of your life it includes him wanting to bless you with a great relationship bless you financially bless you to the best of your abilities in business and then whatever the other if you're an athlete watching this bless you in that bat over that pot catching that football getting that shot and so number one source of shifting your thermostat setting is reconnecting again with your faith and allowing yourself to feel it inside all the other environments that exist then there's number two there's your intentions see i don't think enough people give themselves credit for having great intention there's a power to intention in our lives and so what most of us think is i'll feel better about myself or i'll be more confident when when i get that job when i get that relationship when i get this amount of money when i get that house when i hit that home run when i'm hitting a certain average right and so you're always chasing your tail if your identity and your confidence is contingent upon producing a result that has not yet existed it's pretty difficult to catch it isn't if you have to have it to get it in the first place instead of saying maybe i ought to get credit and i ought to be worthy of more because i intend to do well as a young man in business i started to figure out you know i i may not have all the answers i may not be the smartest the best looking the most articulate my iq isn't 250 but i intend to serve i intend to make a difference i make mistakes but overall i'm a good person who wants to do good in the world and i should be favored because of that not enough of you are giving yourself credit for your intentions you want to shift your identity overnight connect with your faith you want to double shift it connect with your intentions so when i go into a business meeting or i go into a lunch or i'm going into any type of encounter even in my golf life when my sport i play i remind myself that i've got a god who loves me who wants me to win and wants me to be blessed who wants me to be favored wants me to feel peace number two i intend to do good i'm a decent human being and you know what good things ought to happen to good people and then third is association you are who you hang around see if you're a 85 degree or a 75 degree or financially but you start hanging around someone say like myself who lives at 100 to 40 150 degrees of finances and wealth and abundance you will get heated up by proximity to somewhere in between the two of us and a lot closer to where i am than where you are same thing in relationships if you want to have a great loving relationship in your life but you're living at 75 degrees in your relationships you start hanging around people who are in loving beautiful relationships your thermostat setting will increase same within your faith life if you want to start walking with more faith in your 75 degrees of faith if you start hanging around people who walk their faith life at 150 degrees you'll be heated up through proximity and so these are the three things we do in order to shift our lives our identity is the governor on our life it is the most powerful force in the world it's the invisible force that governs everything is that thermostat setting and then if that's true the way we shift it is always going to be our faith our intentions and our associations and those associations are so huge i know you've all heard you're you know you're the product of who you hang around the most often but look at the last 90 days of your life okay and ask yourself this question other than say your spouse or children who are the two or three four people you've spent the most time with picture their faces in their lives right now and then i want you to measure one thing what's their emotional maturity like see what i find with all successful people is they have a degree of emotional maturity that other people are absent of so i always measure what's their emotional maturity how do they handle success how do they handle failure how do they handle their lives then ask yourself this these three or four people you've been around can you immediately name two or three things that they have in their life in an area that matters to you let's say it's money let's just say it was money that they have that you don't have that you wish you did have or in relationships do you can you name two or three things in their relationships that they have that you wish you had or in business or in their physical body and if you can't immediately go yeah they got two three four things man i would love to have that in my life then i'm not so sure that that's the person you ought to spend the most time with the reverse question is also hey can you name two or three things they have that you definitely don't want when you look at their financial life if finances are important to you do they have two or three things going on in their life financially you definitely want no part of or in their relationship life you know if you want a better relationship if you look at the relationship there are two or three things like i wouldn't want that relationship i don't like the way he or she treats them or they get treated you look at that or their physical body you want to be in really great shape you look at them do they have two or three things about their health or wellness that you don't think are really great well that's an immediate sign maybe they're the wrong people and so taking an evaluation of who your associations are are they emotionally mature do they have the two or three things you would like to have in your life they have in theirs that you'd like to get heated up and get or do they have two or three things you want to avoid these are signs that you should be away from them so the way we get more helpful is we increase our identity and we increase our identity by working on our faith our intention and our associations if you do those three things i believe you're gonna live happier you're gonna help other people become happier you're gonna make a contribution in people's lives that's deeper and more meaningful than you've ever made before and by the way lastly that's what you were put here to do you were put here you were born to do something great with your life in small ways and big ways you were made to do something awesome with your life maybe not all that's going to get limelight or notoriety but you were born to make a difference in the world and the more you realize that the more you step into your intention the more you step into the person you're capable of becoming the more you just decide i'm raising that thermostat setting i'm no longer this other character i was playing at any point you and god are the authors of the lie of your life you can grab the pen and start to write a new chapter and say i'm stepping into this new character their identities higher they're more faithful they focus on their intentions more often they improve their associations and they help people well i hope i'm doing that for you right quite frankly that's why i exist and so if you're not following me on instagram or my podcast on itunes or spotify or one of those platforms or youtube channel subscribe to all of those and follow me every day i create content that i hope improves your life helps you max out your life and today is one of those little snippets for just a few minutes that i hope helps you help more people god bless you max out hey guys thanks for sticking around if you'd like more click the videos right here they're exactly what 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Length: 10min 31sec (631 seconds)

Published: Fri Jul 09 2021