It's a scientific fact that the hormones of stress down regulate genes and create disease, long-term effects. Human beings because
of the size of the neocortex we can turn on the stress
response just by thought alone We think about our problems
and turn on those chemicals. That means then, our thoughts could make us sick. So if it's possible that
our thoughts could make us sick is it possible that
our thoughts could make us well? The answer is absolutely yes. All organisms in nature
can tolerate short-term stress. You know, a deer gets chased
by a pack of coyotes when it out runs the coyotes it goes back to grazing
and the event is over. And the definition of stress is when your brain and body
are knocked out of balance, out of homeostasis. The stress response is
what the body innately does to return itself back to order. So you're driving down the road someone cuts you off,
you jam on the brakes, you may give them the finger and then you settle back down
and the event is over and boom. Now everything is back, back to normal but what if it's your coworker
sitting right next to you and all day long you're turning on those chemicals because they're pushing
all your emotional buttons. When you turn on the stress response and you can't turn it off now you're headed for disease because no organism in nature
can live in emergency mode for that extended period of time. 95% of who we are
by the time we're 35 years old is a memorized set of
behaviors, emotional reactions unconscious habits, hardwired attitudes, beliefs and perceptions that function like a computer program. So then, a person can say with
their 5% of their conscious mind "I want to be healthy, I want to be happy, I want to be free" but the body's on
a whole different program. A habit is a redundant set of automatic, unconscious, thoughts, behaviors, and emotions
that's acquired through repetition. So if you think about it,
people wake up in the morning they begin to think about their problems, those problems are
circuits of memories in the brain each one of those memories
are connected to people and things at certain
times and places and if the brain is a record of the past the moment they start their day
they're already thinking in the past each one of those
memories has an emotion. Emotions are the end product
of past experiences. So the moment they recall
those memories of their problems they all of a sudden feel unhappy,
they feel sad, they feel pain. Now how you think and how
you feel creates your state of being. So the person's entire state of being when they start their day is in the past. So what does that mean?
The familiar past will sooner or later
be predictable future. If you believe that your thoughts
have something to do with your destiny and you can't think
greater than how you feel or feelings have become
the means of thinking by very definition of emotions
you're thinking in the past. And for the most part you're
going to keep creating the same life. So then people grab their cellphone, they check their WhatsApp,
they check their texts, they check their emails,
they check Facebook, they take a picture of their feet,
they post it on Facebook, they tweet something, they do Instagram, they check the news and now they feel really connected
to everything that's known in their life. And then they go through
a series of routine behaviors they get out of bed on the same side, they go to the toilet,
they get a cup of coffee they take a shower, they get dressed,
they drive to work the same way, they do the same things,
they see the same people they push the same emotional
buttons and that becomes... the routine and it becomes like a program. So now they've lost their free will to a program and there's no unseen
hand doing it to them. So when it comes time to change
the redundancy of that cycle it becomes a subconscious program. Most people then wait for crisis
or trauma or disease or diagnosis, you know they wait for a loss, some tragedy to make up
their mind to change and my message is why wait? And you can learn and change
in a state of pain and suffering or you can learn and change
in a state of joy and inspiration. And I think right now, the cool thing is that
people are waking up. The moment you start
feeling abundant and worthy you are generating wealth. The moment you're empowered and feel it you're beginning to step
towards your success. The moment you start feeling whole your healing begins and when you love yourself
and you love all of life you'll create an equal
and now you're causing an effect. And I think that's the difference
between living as a victim and your world saying,
"I am this way because of this person
or that thing or this experience they made me think and feel this way." When you switch that around you become a creator of
your world and you start saying, "My thinking and my feeling is
changing an outcome in my life" and now that's a whole different game and we start believing more
that we're creators of reality. If you're not being defined
by a vision of the future then you're left with
the old memories of the past and you will be predictable in your life. If you can sit your body down and tell it to stay like an animal. "Stay right here, I'm going to
feed you when we're done. You can get up and check your emails,
you can do all your texts but right now, you're going to
sit there and obey me." When you do that properly and you're not eating anything
or smelling anything or tasting anything, you're not up experiencing
and feeling anything you would have to agree with me that you're being defined by a thought, right? So when the body wants to
go back to its emotional past and you become aware that
your attention is on that emotion and where you place your attention
is where you place your energy you're siphoning your energy out
of the present moment into the past and you become aware of that and you settle your body back
down in the present moment because it's saying, well it's 8 o'clock you normally get upset because
you're in traffic around this time and here you are sitting
and you're used to feeling anger and you're off schedule. Oh it's 11 o'clock and you usually check
your emails and judge everybody, well your body is looking for that-
that predictable chemical state. Every time you become
aware that you're doing that and your body is craving those emotions and you settle it back down
into the present moment you're telling the body it's no longer the mind, you're the mind and now your will is getting
greater than the program and if you keep doing
this over and over again, over and over again,
over and over again just like training a stallion or a dog, it's just going to say, "I'm going to sit" and the moment that happens and the body is no longer
the mind, when it finally surrenders there's a liberation of energy. We go from particle to wave,
from matter to energy and we free ourselves from the chains of those emotions that keep us
in the- in the familiar past. So if you think 60 to 70 thousand
thoughts in one day and we do and 90% of those thoughts are
the same thoughts as the day before and you believe that your thoughts
have something to do with your destiny your life is not going to change very much because the same thought
leads to the same choice, the same choice leads to the same behavior, the same behavior
creates the same experience, and the same experience
produces the same emotion. So as you become familiar with the thoughts, behaviors
and the emotions of the old self you're retiring that old self
as you fire and wire new thoughts and condition the body
into a new emotional state if you do that enough times,
it'll begin to become familiar to you. So, it's so important just like a garden if you're planting a garden
you've got to get rid of the weeds, you got to take
the plants from the past year and you've got to pull them out, the rocks that sift to the top that are like our emotional
blocks they have to be removed the soil has to be
tenderized and broken down, we have to, we have to make room
to plant a new garden so primarily, we learn
the most about ourselves and others when we're uncomfortable. The stronger the emotional reaction you have to some experience in your life the more you pay attention to the cause. And the moment the brain puts
all of its attention on the cause it takes a snapshot and that's called the memory. So long-term memories are created from very highly emotional experiences. So what happens then is that people think neurologically within
the circuitry of that experience and they feel chemically within
the boundaries of those emotions and so when you have an emotional
reaction to someone or something most people think that they can't
control their emotional reaction. Well it turns out if you allow
that emotional reaction it's called a refractory period,
to last for hours or days that's called the mood. You say to someone, "Hey, what's up?"
And they say "Well I’m in a mood" "Well why are you in a mood?" "Well I had this
thing happen to me 5 days ago and I’m having one long emotional reaction." If you keep that same emotional
reaction going on for weeks or months that's called temperament. Why is he so bitter? I don't know,
let's ask him why is he so bitter. "Why are you bitter?" "Well... I had this thing happen
to me nine months ago." And if you keep that same emotional
reaction going on for years on end that's called a personality trait. And so learning how to
shorten your refractory period of emotional reactions is really where that work starts. So then, people when they have an event what they do is they
keep recalling the event because the the emotions
of stress hormones, the survival emotions are saying pay attention to what happened because you want to be
prepared if it happens again. Turns out most people
spend 70% of their life living in survival and living in stress. So they're always anticipating the worst-case scenario
based on a past experience and they're literally, out of the infinite potentials
in the quantum field they're selecting
the worst possible outcome and they're beginning to
emotionally embrace it with fear and they're conditioning
their body into a state of fear. Do that enough times body has a panic attack without you you- you can't even predict it because it's programmed subconsciously. The hardest part about change is not making the same choices
you did the day before, period and the moment you decide
to make a different choice get ready because it's
going to feel uncomfortable. I think that, I think that the bigger thing is that we- we keep
firing and wiring those circuits they become more hardwired,
so they're... you have a thought
and then the program runs but it's the emotion
that follows the thought if you have, if you have a fearful
thought you are going to feel anxiety the moment you feel anxiety
your brains checking in with your body and saying, "Yeah you're pretty anxious" so then you start thinking
more corresponding thoughts equal to how you feel. So the body says, "I want to
return back to familiar territory" so the body starts influencing
the mind then it says, "Start tomorrow, you're too much like your mother, you'll never change,
this isn't going to work for you this doesn't feel right." And so if you respond to that thought as if it's true that same thought
will lead to the same choice which will lead to the same behavior
which will create the same experience which produce the same emotion. When people say to me, well I can't predict my future I'm in the unknown, I mean I always
say the best way to predict your future is to create it not from the known but from the unknown. What thoughts do you want
to fire and wire in your brain? What behaviours do you want
to demonstrate in one day? The act of rehearsing them mentally closing your eyes
and rehearsing the action. By closing your eyes
and mentally rehearsing some action if you're truly present the brain does not know the difference
between what you're imaging and what you're
experiencing in the 3D world. So then you begin to install
the neurological hardware in your brain to look like the event
has already occurred. Now your brain is no longer
a record of the past. Now it's a map to the future and if you keep doing it,
priming it that way the hardware becomes
a software program and who knows, you just may
start acting like a happy person. And then I think the hardest part is to teach our body emotionally what the future will feel like
ahead of the actual experience.
