Stop Doing These 5 Things If You Want To Find Love

I actually said this to Tom Cruise a long time ago that movie Jerry Maguire you complete me really messed a lot of people up there wasn't a dry eye in the movie theater and all the women went home but she completes him when in fact no one completes you know that instead of looking for the right person work to make yourself the right person for you and the right person will then be drawn to you based upon the work that you've done for yourself that's it that's what I hear you sounds exactly everybody who's looking for somebody and believe me there are lots of people who are like looking for mr. right or misery or whatever that is to complete them no one will love you until you love yourself no one can complete you until you yourself are complete you must get to the place where you don't need another but you can enjoy another without attachment where you can give love without the need of receiving it back love without conditions you are not you plus the other person you existed before the other person and you will exist long after you will always be yourself and knowing that you can give more when it comes to love and relationships you can think of it like a mirror if you love yourself you will find more people have love for you if you respect yourself you will find more people have respect for you if you value yourself you will find more people value you if you are mostly happy joyful and positive you will find you attract mostly happy joyful and positive people and relationships so don't focus on finding someone to complete you focus on completing yourself first then the right people will show up if you do the work on you if you become the person you want in your life it will happen for you and you'll be thankful you didn't give up leave that [Music] love is the most powerful force on earth some say that finding a genuine connection today is harder than ever but that's no reason to give up trying that's no reason to give up believing you deserve it knowing you deserve it real love will find you when you're ready for it real love will find you when you understand that you don't search for love and others that you find it in yourself first we all deserve to be loved and the first step on the journey to real love is to love yourself first next you will need to do the work rather than waiting for someone else to come along and fix you and finally now is the time to let go of the habits that have kept you from getting hurt but are also holding you back from a true partnership built on love and respect so if you're asking will I ever find love you must stop doing these five things first number one you have to stop looking for others to love you and instead love yourself first in the search for real love the very first step must be loving oneself first if you don't love the special being that you are how can you expect anyone else to if you are looking for a true partner to share your life with someone who will walk with you and encourage you to live your best life you have to treat yourself that way first when you find yourself frustrated in your search for a loving and respectful partner take a step back to examine how you honestly feel and treat yourself take a close look at yourself talk and begin to shut down the negativity that we can often inflict on ourselves when you aren't at peace with who you are and you are constantly waiting for someone to fix you you will likely attract toxic people who are looking for someone to take advantage of don't fall into this trap take the time to do the difficult self work that makes you an attractive partner and will help you to attract loving and respectful people into your life when you want someone else to do the heavy lifting for you you will likely be disappointed with the caliber of people who enter your life when you know that you are a whole and complete person who is looking for a partner rather than a savior you are opening yourself up to attracting like-minded people who are also seeking someone to walk the journey of life with number two stop wearing masks and trying to appear perfect be yourself the most common mistake people make when looking for a real connection is in authenticity true loves will never find you if you aren't ready to reveal your true self if you want someone to love you despite your faults you must be ready to do the same for them false advertising has never been higher tender Facebook snapchat Instagram are all at times authenticity killers people seem more obsessed with appearing perfect than ever before if you want love be yourself your raw true authentic self flaws and all lungs of love who you are and stop hiding it from the world one day someone will fall for who you are not how you wish to be perceived if you're always wearing a mask covering up your real self how could anyone ever love you for who you are real love can only come to those who are real themselves remember the right person is always waiting for you to reveal your real self all the wrong people will always be available for the mask to you most people don't learn this until much later in life so start expressing your true character today because you never know who's watching number three stop expecting someone to be something you are not giving back this is the concept of the mirror most people aren't actively looking for someone who is negative pessimistic lazier or uninspiring you set the standard for the type of person you want in if you want a particular type of person you must mirror that quality if you want someone fit and healthy you must be a mirror of that person you want someone who always sees the positive in every situation mirror that mindset with your own outlook if you want someone with drive and ambition ask yourself if you possess those characteristics like attracts like mirror the person you want and that connection will happen much more naturally finding genuine happiness within yourself is one of the most important steps to making a genuine connection with someone else number 4 stop hiding nothing will come to you in this life if you are hiding from it nothing will come if you are running scared if you want something you're going to have to be brave and put yourself out there if you don't put yourself out there no one will ever be able to find you sure this will work for every time but it will never work if you never put yourself out there become someone capable of loving and being loved self worth the stories you tell yourself become your reality so do that work on yourself the real deep self work that creates a better you because the better you feel about you the better you are going to show up in the world the better you show up the better your relationships number 5 stop holding on to comfortable habits that are holding you back there are a lot of habits that you know don't serve you well but you've become comfortable with the perceived protection that they offer habits that you know aren't helpful in your quest to find true love but you may be reluctant to give them up if you want to find love you have to make sacrifices if this is your situation remember that life's greatest growth comes when leave your comfort zone don't let feeling comfortable and safe hold you back from a full and vibrant life that can lead to the love of your life opening yourself up and allowing emotional vulnerability is an essential part of finding true love let go of the defense mechanisms and withdraw strategies that have kept you from getting hurt and also holds you back from finding love do you recognize yourself in some of these five things to stop doing if you want to find love if you do it's time to get down to the hard work that is necessary to get you to a place where you can attract true love yes it may be scary to let go of these behaviors and mindsets that have protected you from emotional hurt but if you truly want to find a love you really have no choice let your light shine brightly bravely be yourself and like moths to a flame you will attract the right people make sure you mirror the characteristics you find important and you will find love and never forget no one will love you until you love yourself [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] you

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Length: 10min 28sec (628 seconds)

Published: Wed Oct 23 2019