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[Music] [Music] Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev is a realized master mystic and yogi [Music] he has shown the way for people to attain to their natural joy and to live life with experience from one's own inner nature his presence is filled with grace and compassion Sadhguru scientific approach toward spirituality and work towards the upliftment of humanity have received accolades worldwide the words that come from him in intensity and utmost clarity from his deep understanding and wisdom can change the very core belonging to no particular tradition Satguru incorporates what is most valid for the modern person from the spiritual sciences his work an outpouring of his blissfulness finds expression in the form of a ceaseless offering to help all themes available to all who are willing sadguru's life is an invitation to the divine through individual transformation welcome to the silent revolution of self-realization [Music] I'm so good [Music] [Music] melanin murder good [Music] I'm so good [Music] [Music] milliner smarter [Music] but never shall be circular sir my yard [Music] Akhila [Music] okay love [Music] the existence happens in two different dimensions one is the non-dual oneness of the existence on one level and the many manifestations of the Durrell all the manifestations the various types of manifestations that you see as life today fundamentally rooted in the duality because there is two there is many if there was one there would have been only one when I said to the duality is like light and darkness male and female life and death because the two is there all the games are happening if there was only one there wouldn't be any game there will be just existence the many manifestations as I said are fundamentally rooted the duality once duality comes sex comes when I say sex probably when most people's mind the man is thinking of a woman the woman is thinking of a man it's not like that the birds are blooming it is sex because what you call as sex is the duality is trying to meet and in the process of the duality meeting there are also certain functions that the nature wants to fulfill like procreation and survival of the that species always the duality is trying to meet because what was one has manifested itself as two now there is a longing to become one all the time this longing to become one finds expression in many ways when you are young and your intelligence is hijacked by your hormones sex will be the way physical sex will be the way when you become middle-aged when your intelligence is higher hijacked by your emotion then love is the way when you transcend all this then if you seek the same Union in a much higher level of awareness then we say it's yoga or the divine there are many names now these two energies which in the human race we are calling as male and female it's in every way we are referring to the same way always constantly trying to come together at the same time except for this longing to be together there is nothing common between them they're lovers and enemies at the same time constantly this is going on because they're opposites if they look for similarities there is no way no common ground but the attraction of the opposite is always there what you call is opposite is always a relative thing the whole process of what we are referring to as sex is just two opposites making an attempt to become one the intention of sex is good but the method is hopeless never are you going to be really become one the intention is fine that you want to become one but the method is quite hopeless isn't it pleasure is involved so it draws people but oneness never really came so we are trying to meet in other areas of emotion and intellect trying to find some common ground we like the same things we like the same kind of ice cream we like the same color like this people are trying to find a common ground but actually there is no common ground unless you understand that there is no common ground it is just that you learn to enjoy the opposite it just becomes a hopeless thing to make a simple physical act beautiful we have invented all kinds of decorations around it without those decorations most people would be unwilling to get into this physical act a lot of people cannot simply face the basic physical act as it is because unless it's decorated they will feel obscene they will feel like an animal they will feel so basic and physical which is the reality in some way we are trying to cloud our vision of reality with lots of decorations we always add emotion to it because without emotion it would be ugly today in the modern world the sex is a natural thing sexuality is invented by you to understand sex is a natural thing it's physical it's dead in the body but sexuality is something that you invented you created it's psychological there is no such thing it is something created by you today this is sweeping the world it is no more healthy in so many ways it's become sick because if sex is in the body it's fine it's beautiful the moment it enters your mind it becomes a perversion it has no business with your mind it has something to do with your body if it's in the body it will just fall into its natural place where it belongs it is a small aspect of you but today it has become a huge aspect it has just become life itself if you look at the modern societies now I would say probably 90% of human energy is being spent either pursuing sex or avoiding sex whichever way yes sir whichever way that has become a huge aspect it is just a small thing if you look at a man and a woman physiologically it is just a small difference like somebody said a that the pocket is inner the pocket is out with one the equipment is inbuilt with one another the equipment is hanging out you made such a big issue out of it this simple physical process we are trying to make it so many things which it is not it is just nature strict to reproduce because if this attraction was not there you wouldn't reproduce the species would end right now but now we made such a distinction between man and woman as if there are two separate species we are going about treating everything man and woman separately as if there are two separate species they are not the same species no other creature on the planet has this kind of problem with their sexes as man has isn't it when they have it in their body they have it otherwise they're free from it but with humans it is on their mind all the time endlessly one big reason why this has happened is somewhere in the past especially your religions especially in the West it is not so much in the East especially in the West your religions went about denying a simple physical process to such an extent that they even have to make it so ugly that they could not accept the simple biology of a human being see religion means liberation isn't it yes religion means freedom how can there be liberation how can there be freedom when you cannot even accept the biology of a human being they could not even accept the simple biology of a human being so we went on saying that instead of looking beyond the limitations of the biological process we try to deny the biological process we went about saying if somebody is holy if somebody is really sacred he cannot be born out of it he is born without it now once you do not accept the simple biological processes that is where the bondage began that is where in so many ways once you could not accept the simple biological differences between a man and a woman and what happens that is where the whole exploitation of the woman started if we had nose problem with the biology then we would know we would we would not make a distinction between who is who everybody would be known for what they're worth isn't it now whether somebody was born to your virgin or a prostitute what's your problem what the man is worth is all that it matters isn't it so whether somebody is a man or woman what's your problem what that person is worth that's all that should matter to you only because you could not accept the simple biological processes that's where the distinction that's where all the exploitation started and [Music] unfortunately these few religions always denied a simple biology of life you don't have to make the biology sacred nor do you have to make it filthy it is simply there it's life it is through that that you exist it is neither filthy nor is it sacred it's just life if you know how to live it without decorating it or without making it ugly it has a beauty of its own now the biological process which you're referring to as sex is simply fundamentally to reproductive but if there was no sexual difference if there was no sexual attraction between man and woman I want you to know this by now man would have killed all the women on the planet not one would have existed they would be extinct by now only because there is a deep need he's kept her alive the physical strength of the man gives him the power to physically destroy the woman if he had no need he would have destroyed her long ago yes or no definitely it would have happened only because there is a deep need within him even though see anything that is physically weaker than him he's gone about destroying isn't it it's not know anything that is physically weaker than him he's gone about destroying the same would have happened to the woman only because there is a need the survival has happened now this need between the sexes this need between the two biological entities of the same species is fine as a survival process but if you're seeking anything beyond survival it'll never be enough even people who are into this process are even though this process is active in people in different levels without the decorations of emotion they were not willing to go through it if you discover in a certain relationship a sex based relationship now unfortunately in the Western countries it has happened this way if you utter the word relationship they'd simply think it has to be sex based yes nothing else is a relationship only man woman or whatever some sex based relationship is the only relationship this is unfortunate this has happened because your identification with the body has become so strong as you get more and more identified with the body sex or sexuality becomes more and more important as you become less and less identified with the body you will see the sex recedes you see in your own societies somebody becomes very intellectually active he becomes identified with his intellectual process do you see the need for sex receives in that man somebody who is physically identified with his body in him the needs are very heavy it's always so where you are identified it is through that everything functions in you so in any relationship sex based relationship if you discover one day that actually in the other person there is no emotion it is simply physical suddenly you feel that you're being used yes is it so after all it is sex it is physical that's all it can be but without the decorations of emotion you will feel that it's not good enough it's an abuse in sex based relationships what is usually passing off as Lao is just a mutual benefit scheme you give me this I'll give you that if you don't give me that I won't give you this it's like this one day Shankaran Pillai went to the park Shankaran Pillai means it's a common name in India went to the park there on one of the stone benches a pretty woman was sitting he also went and settled on the same bench after a few minutes he more closer she moved little away again he more closer she move little away again he moved closer she moved little away now she's at the end of the bench the only choice she has is either she has to get up and go or she has to do something else again he more closer now she pushed him away Shankaran Pillai waited for a few moments it was evening Sun was setting you know when the Sun is setting the Twilight those are the times you can say things and make people believe when the Sun is up there nobody's gonna believe you so Shankaran Pillai went down on his knees and told her I love you I love you like I have never loved anybody in my life the woman is always a fool for love she melted nature took over things happened then it is becoming 7:45 she got up in a hurry and he said I need to go I need to go what you're going you said you love me in her understanding the moment he utters the word I love you they have become one he said no no I need to go my wife will be waiting 8 o'clock is dinner time at home so I love you is a mantra when a person transcends the limitations of his duality the struggle of the duality is gone in him only then the divine manifested self what you have referring to as the divine it's a much abused word I know but what you're referring to as the divine if there is something divine there should it be or where can it be to question I just want to help you to look at things not just you know I am NOT preparing any theory or philosophy I know so many philosophies are being profound adjust to supports people sexuality I don't see why you need a philosophy to have sex it's just biology you don't need a philosophy isn't it but people are always propounding philosophies to have sex so no philosophy just be with me and look I want you to look at it don't make a theory out of it first thing you make something which is so simple and basic right and wrong then you want to find a philosophy to support the wrong and I still have it it's unnecessary all these complications if you just see the simplicity of what it is it'll take it'll become a simple part of your life if you make it complex it becomes an unnecessarily large part of your life you know now if there is divine where can it be where can it be yes if there is something that you can refer to as the divine it has to be a prevent isn't it if it's just with the new one just within me or just in my temple and just in your temple it's no good isn't if there is something that you can refer to as divine it has to be everywhere if something is everywhere what faculty do you have to know it yes what faculty do you have to experience something which is every bit because right now the only faculties of experience within you are the five senses the five sense organs cannot experience anything if there is no perspective or if there's no comparison see only because there is darkness you know what is light if there was no darkness you wouldn't know what is light isn't it this is the way your eyes have made only because there is silence now you know what is sound otherwise your ears wouldn't be able to perceive your sense organs always perceive everything in comparison always in bits and pieces it does not perceive anything in its totality always it perceives just one side of everything please see is it so right now if I show you my palm if you see this you can't see this if you see this you cannot see this this is the way your eyes are made isn't once there was a philosopher rush what a fish the philosopher yes is that anybody who is not a philosopher everybody has a philosophy for whatever they're doing isn't it if you want you just go to the drunkard on the street ask him why are you drinking like this he has a solid philosophy as to why he's drinking yes sir you stop a thief and ask him why are you a thief he's got a solid philosophy as to why he's a thief you go and ask the sex maniac why he's like that he's got a solid philosophy too for whatever nonsense that anybody is doing they have the support of a philosophy of their own without a philosophy you cannot continue to do stupid things all your life your intelligence will not allow you to do it if you have a philosophy you can go on doing the same thing every day not thinking about anything especially if you get guard stamp on your philosophy you don't have to turn back and look you can just go on doing the same stupid things endlessly yes yes or no the moment you get guard stamp on your philosophy you are through you don't have to use your intelligence anymore you don't have to wonder what nonsense are you doing with your life you are just clear do you see the clarity and such people's faces this is so with anybody it doesn't matter which religion which nonsense you belong to the moment you get guard stamp on what you believe in that's it you don't have to apply your intelligence and see what are you doing with life you can just go on so you an official philosopher one day this philosopher fish is in great misery sitting in one corner and thinking badly I I see that a lot of people are lots of thinking here and let's think it's all flying around here the other thoughts so into deep thinking and misery another fish came by and yes Oh philosopher why are you so miserable what has happened to you they all know I am in deep trouble what's the trouble said very when I go people are talking about the ocean I wanted to see this ocean so I went every which way I could go but I don't see the ocean where is it everybody is talking about it now the problem is he is in the ocean he is part of the ocean he is ocean in so many ways no no way to perceive it if you are outside you could see this is the ocean this is not but when you're in it you don't know how right now the same situation is with the divine when there is nothing to compare ok this is divine this is something else you could recognize but now if divine as you said if divine is everywhere how will you recognize it how will you experience it because the only way you can experience life right now is through five sense organs yes is it so so that which is everywhere how to experience that how to know that within the limitations of the five sense organs there is no possibility now seeking the divine is not something that you have to start as a project now from the moment of your birth the seeking is happening but unconsciously it is just that the choice that you have is a that you can seek it unconsciously or you can seek it consciously if you seek it unconsciously we can call it sex one expression of unconscious seeking of the divine is called sex one expression of it if it becomes a conscious expression if you're seeking finds a conscious expression then we call it a spiritual process generally if it is looked at as a science then we say it's yoga you know probably in your mind yoga means twisting your body this way or that way now the word yoga means to become one that's what love means that's what sex means whether you're seeking it physically or emotionally or truly seeking oneness beyond all these limitations if you are seeking it beyond all the limitations of your body emotion and thought then we call it yoga if you are seeking it with the physical body physical bodies will always remain - no matter what you do it's all kinds of weird things people are trying to do in the name of sex because somewhere they want to find some unity but it won't happen a few moments of fake unity will come and then people fall apart it is bound to happen isn't it physical entities can never become one it doesn't matter how much they try unless you transcend the physical there is no question of oneness now I don't want anyone Ness I'm just seeking pleasure that is also okay but it is just that you will see it's not enough I am not saying there's anything wrong with it it is just that this human being will not be satisfied with it it wants something more isn't it so yes just the physical pleasure is not enough it wants something more what is that something more something more than what this little person has become physical body means a bondage because in this vast existence this little body is a separate entity if you are identified only with this little body then there is a sense of insecurity there's a sense of feeling lost I would say at least 60% of the sex in the world is happening out of insecurity and nothing else not out of love not out of anything else not even for pleasure it is insecurity two bodies coming together feels little secure for at least a few moments do you see most relationships sex based relationships are made because otherwise people are lost by themselves isn't it so by themselves they're totally lost they don't know how to be by themselves it's not for love it's not for joy because there's some sense of security in two bodies coming together one thing I see is it is say with all the effluence for example here on the streets what I'm seeing is with all the saloons with all the comfort that has come to the Western societies compared to other parts of the world you see so much more insecurity on people's faces than anywhere else in the world this is the reality if you are not traveled around this is actually the reality here on the streets of a metropolis like Paris you see so much more insecurity in people's faces then a beggar on the street in the Eastern countries it is so this has happened simply because slowly the cultures took on too much of physical identity too much identified with their own physical body the more and more you get identified with your physical body the more and more insecure you become because this body is never safe next moment it may be anything isn't it once your identification is limited to the physical body then insecurity is the natural way and naturally the need for sex will increase dramatically when people are insecure now seeking a spiritual process does not mean going to the temple does not mean believing what your father said does not mean believing what your priest said does not mean believing what your book said whatever the so called sacred books of the world it simply means that you are seeking to to go beyond the limitations of $0.05 perceptions and experience something more than the physical that's what spiritual process means you are my perfect mirror you show me what and in the end this pain of what once was me layer you love me the pain is my batch oh thank you showing me what I'm now showing me what I could be Thank You Leslie [Music] Oh so be within see [Music] thank you even for the leaves I'm not aware [Music]

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Published: Wed Aug 15 2018