S9 RHOC Shannon vs Heather and Tamra 1

okay um very intense what's it like reliving all that it's not pleasant it's not pleasant at all uh lots of questions let's start with the email we got some questions wanting to know if you always communicate about such serious relationship issues via email David why did you send those thoughts in an email I think sometimes your thoughts are better thought out if you write them down as opposed to you're in the moment I've done that because I feel like you know sometimes you can say things you don't mean and sometimes it's better to sort of Journal it and sometimes I'll just write it to myself and then read it to him so I know I'm clear on what I'm saying I remember typing the email out of my office I tears were just streaming down my eyes because it's a very difficult thing because I love Shannon and I certainly love my kids and I love my family so I I just remembered because I'm kind of one that that'll hold things inside and I think it just all flushed in this email and I apologize uh 12 24 hours later about the email so still it still talked about you know so it's it's hard it's frustrating because Tamara betrayed my trust and went to Heather and told me something that she said that she didn't why did you tell Heather about the email because Heather and I were talking we were making up she said it's not very it wasn't a gossiping mean way it was very she was always very supportive of Shannon she was saying it to me so supportive that I was described as a sad soul soul at the time I don't mean right this second Geneva from Pittsburgh said Shannon Vicki warned you teletimra telephone Tamara didn't betray your trust and gossip to Heather none of this would have happened do you blame Tamara absolutely absolutely I blame her for starting to stir this whole thing up and as you watch the season after this whole email you see how she continually stirs the pot with the take the badures down comment and saying that I drink straight vodka when she had been with me everywhere I drink a shot of vodka and I get a large Pellegrino and I make two to three you drink a lot Shannon you tell everyone that I have a drinking problem yet you're on camera saying you can't even remember the second half of Lizzy's party I couldn't I had too much to drink I remember a hundred percent of it because I didn't drink too much don't talk to me about my drinking okay don't okay so after you told Tamara you told Heather I just want to let you know and I've told you this before that when I was talking to Heather I'm talking to one of my good friends as if I was talking to Vicki it wasn't like I was trying to cause this big well what it did cause I didn't know I wasn't trying to do that so when you got the text message I'm like you Heather that was my very first comment it was because I thought I just left you and now she's getting text message saying the whole situation Heather is telling the world and I'm like no I didn't say Heather's time all of Newport and I did I thought Heather wouldn't do that because you know I don't repeat that but should I have said anything no I apologize for saying that I really felt like it wasn't a a news alert like it wasn't that big a deal I want to move on to when Shannon went over to Heather's house to discuss the email Caitlyn from New Haven Connecticut said Heather kicking Shannon out of your house when she was obviously at her lowest point was the coldest thing I've ever seen where is your compassion I had no idea what was going on with you I feel terrible I was so wrapped up in what was going on with myself I couldn't see if I had a time machine and I could go back I still wouldn't have thrown Tamara under the bus because we had just made up and I felt like I was in a lose-lose you would have just run back to her and told her that I said it but I wish I had been softer and easier with you and I am very very sorry I appreciate that because that was probably one of the hardest I I'm not going to get emotional but that was probably one of the hardest nights of my life hardest nights of my life Terry do you think Heather did the right thing by asking Shannon to leave the house I I felt very bad for her I just thought it was for me very odd that she's having these horrible problems in her marriage and people are talking doing the telephone effect and I thought why is she in my house why isn't she in her house talking to her husband we had resolved it at that point Terry Heather you continuously said that you never kicked Shannon out of your house but the you politely asked her to leave I don't think I said politely I think I just said I asked Julie let's call it what it is you kicked me out of your house I asked you to leave my house you can call it whatever you want I asked you if I said we're done please leave we're done please leave equals you kicked me out of your house the semantics game it's just crazy me you did kick me out of your house I appreciate your apology and I accept your apology because I'm a forgiving person you apologized to me once and I will forgive you for it which makes it so difficult for me because I apologize to you at least five times for yelling at you I don't think I was looking for another apology I think I was always trying to explain where I was coming from okay Tamara I have to say that night at Lizzie's party it seemed like you were at the center of a lot of things that night seems like it do you see that or well the whole thing about the doors taking the doors down I felt like Shannon had an agenda she got in the limbo started talking to David about it as soon as we got there we're having a good time and then she brings it up and I'm like why are you bringing that up you know if you bring it up it's gonna be an issue the rest of the night there's the truth and the goddamn truth Tamara you look so bad with all of your lies oh yeah my life what are my lies Shannon you make stuff up you either made up to take the doors down comment or Terry said it and you backtracked on it listen I swear to God I swear to my children that I did not say that well Vicky has said on the show that you said right you said it well why didn't you bring it up that way I don't know if Terry ever said it that's where I'm at I didn't hear it from Jerry I heard it from you

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Keywords: rhoc, Orange County housewives, heather dubrow, Shannon beador, Tamra judge, vicki gunvalson, lizzie rosvek, heather vs shannon, Shannon vs heather

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Length: 6min 27sec (387 seconds)

Published: Fri Oct 14 2022