Rewriting Your Specific Person (Attract Who You Want!)

are you working on rewriting or changing the story about a specific person in your life rewriting our relationship changing a dynamic making a relationship something different than what it already is this episode of Roxy talks is all about how you can erase the old story so that you can usher in the new one stay tuned what is up my fellow dreamers and soul searchers thank you for joining me here for another episode of Roxy talks where we discuss confidence mindset manifestation and more I'm Roxy Lee I'm a mindset coach and I'm here to help you banish your negative thinking and limiting doubts so you can bring love clarity and joy into your life if you'd like to sign up for one-on-one coaching so we can discuss your specific issues you can sign up at Roxy talks calm I've also got a brand new manifest a specific person workshop it's designed to help you get to the heart of your specific person issues you can start that right away and dive deep into your limiting beliefs blocks patterns all that stuff that's on my website Roxy talks calm I've also got exclusive merch podcasts and more the link of course is in the description below you can also join me on social media I am on tik-tok Twitter Instagram and Facebook before we get into this video please hit the subscribe button and click the notification bell so you never miss an update and if you're feeling generous please like and share that helps us reach as many people as possible and everyone deserves to know that they are in complete control of their reality now one of the key components of manifesting a specific person is understanding that you truly control the narrative on every single level not just oh I want them to be with me oh I want them to want me oh we have a relationship no do they communicate well what is their love language how do they treat you what do they care about what are their hobbies how do they communicate these are things that a lot of people tend to think are amove about I see a lot of clients talking about their situation I'm doing positive I'm doing this yet they're still telling a story about how their person they're not really good at communicating they don't really like to text much he's not much of a texture she's closed off she said she'd never want to be in a relationship again I'm like wait you're listening to what they say you're letting your own manifestation tell you what to do with your manifestation No I like that outcome and I enjoy it I want more of it that's the end of it I'm shutting that [ __ ] down now I'm paying attention to what I was thinking that got me that what I'm thinking right now in the moment in response to it and where I'm going next because that's really important and this all happens in a split second this is the practice this is paying attention to yourself telling a limiting story realizing that if I don't want someone that's a bad texture I don't need to have a bad texture if I want somebody who text me 27 times a day guess what you love texting 20 times you are not limited to anything except what you continue to describe or expect react to when you experience think about fear worry doubt you don't need any of it unless you love in your mind then it's definitely coming your way so when you're working on a person it's really important that you don't let anything they say or do think feel whatever effect what you do with your mind going forward now I know this sounds callous I'm not saying [ __ ] them who cares what they think I mean kind of I am saying that but I mean it in a way of if you continue to let their opinions affect what you do with your mind you will continue to manifest them the way that they are now you're not going to change them by thinking positively about what you already have okay I call that making roses out of diarrhea is it disgusting yeah yeah actually it's disgusting in both ways right it's you being positive about the shitty situation that you don't like well I mean I'm proud of you for thinking positive about that thing that you don't like but why take you to that level when you can go even farther with it and realize you don't even need whatever it is that you've got you don't even need to continue whatever it is that that is now you change the story now you flip the script now they change your situation changes you be that change in every single moment you stop allowing yourself to think anything but that you get that anytime that person comes up on your mind they're only the version of them that text 27 times right just for this example okay this is how we do this in real life okay let's say you get a text message a person what are the options first they text you everything you've ever needed to know everything you've ever wanted to hear they're engaging they're kind they're complimenting you little great good they're exactly the way we need them to be affirm it reaffirm it yes I did that they're amazing a great relationship awesome let's say the text says hey well great they text me all the time we have such an amazing communication I love how communicative this person is we really get each other we have such a great relationship they text you something angry wow this person really is so kind to me we have such a great connection I love that I can just always trust them and they always have nice things to say to me let's say they text you nothing it's been 27 days since you got a text vs. 27 a day right they come up in your mind wow we really have an amazing connection I know they always think about me they're always reaching out to me they always want to share their day with me they've never really been filled by anybody no one really gets them the way that I do we have these amazing conversations now let's examine these right whether or not the text is in your phone whether it's a text you like whether it's something you don't like whether it's a phone call whether it's complete ghosting each one of the responses that I gave you in response to any of those outcomes still keeps you in a reality where things are working out for you and we have to do this for a period of time where it feels like we're lying to ourselves in order to get things to change now the cool thing about is that you're already lying to yourself you're already telling yourself a bunch of [ __ ] that's not actually true it's just stuff that you believe so good we're good at it okay we're gonna change the content I talked about that earlier this week your world is being replicated and materialized according to what goes on in your head not what goes on in your phone not what your eyeballs see not what social media says not what your friend says not what your SP says not what your mom says now what you even think or feel ultimately it's what you decide that means that's what manifests your definition of your life your narration of your story is what is simply manifesting okay so always awareness and discipline you must know what's going on in your mind and you must be willing to shut it down and replace it with something else if you don't accept this before you might as well not even do this like I feel like if I was only half-assing it which I mean I guess I did I have fasted for ten years nearly ten years and thankfully led me to this process but now it's full ass it's the whole ass I treat every day like a whole ass okay I don't half-ass anything because I figured it out it's doing what I say it's doing so guess what it's doing it's being successful it's perpetuating yourself everything's great Rosa and all this stuff you've heard me say it a million times okay so how do we rewrite a person who seems like they're just like that and no matter how positive I think about them they still do that [ __ ] I don't like okay well guess what first things first you haven't rewritten them I can guarantee you that at least not fully if they're still doing the stuff consistently you're not consistent in your rewriting process I can tell you that comes from love not judgment I just I know I speak to a lot of people like I understand the patterns I can tell if someone is doing the work or they're not all the way it's very obvious so you must be willing to do this process you must be willing to make this a dedicated practice but the cool thing is is that once you do your whole life works out the benefit far far far far far far outweighs the cost of doing the work okay it's so worth it there's nothing in the world it could be more worth this so you're dedicating yourself to the process you're not allowing anything that happens in the 3d world or even in your mind like we talked about in Wednesday's video we're not allowing anything in our mind or what we think what we feel what we're here to tell us what that means for us we're controlling the narrative all the time okay so we want to control the narrative about your person romantic or otherwise we need to only be telling a story about them that matches the reality that we're working towards okay so I want you to think about a giant you know those big chalkboards those ones on wheels and I want you to think of like oh the whole story of your SP all the patterns all the history audibles should everything standing in your way everything between you two that's written on the chalkboard and then I want you to take a big ol eraser I don't know the kids today even have erasers but remember those that were like squishy like native Ellie I always want to touch him they're so soft those big velvety ones that brown like a tan ones mmm erase erase erase erase erase erase that whole chalkboard erase the whole story all of it top to bottom the whole damn thing just get it out of there and then blow that dust away - right let's not leave that just lingering around either erase the chalkboard delete the story do not allow yourself to tell that again don't allow yourself to react to them again as if they're still written on the chalkboard that way we've erased it we've turned the page the new chapter has begun that is no longer the person you have and if you react to them if you think of them like that if you allow them to tell you how you feel if you start to worry or wonder or any of that stuff you're getting the old chalkboard version that's just how it works you already have them they're already here they're really sticky they're really easy to get to they trigger you and you immediately go back to that old version okay so this is why they awareness in the discipline are so important I keep harping on it because that's what everything boils down to am i telling an old story about them did I just imply that that person doesn't want to text me and talk to me all day long I'm their favorite person how could they not how could they not if I'm manifesting them - so good so I'm not gonna believe that [ __ ] anymore I mean I remind myself I'm in control they love talking to me we talk twenty-seven times a day every single day deep conversations they tell me how their day is we have an amazing bond what is next your old story with your SP is water under the bridge anything that they've done you've done past history feelings resentment pain anger sadness all of it needs to go if you are manifesting from the standpoint that they did something wrong or you did something wrong we're trying to fix something bad we're trying to make them do something different than they are you're already behind you're already doing it and then way that's too difficult it's like you're not gonna swim with ankle weights on if you want to get across the pool really fast swim with ankle weights on if you want to build your power - resistance fine you want to get to point A to point B you wear the least amount of stuff you streamline your self freaking cap on your head speedos goggles we're not gonna let our eyelashes flutter and your boo off that block straight to the end of that pool shed the deadweight shed the old story shed the anger the resentment all of it because you know what it is that's your own [ __ ] that's your own manifestation you manifested them to be the way that they are I'm not saying forgive everything and forget and let yourself be walked on I am saying realize you did that and that's okay that's good that's actually the best thing ever because it means they don't just treat us like [ __ ] for no reason they don't just act like that because we're not good enough to get something better they act like that because we tell ourselves we're not good enough for something better great that's good because now we're just not gonna tell ourselves that [ __ ] anymore we're not gonna tell the limiting story anymore remember cuz we erase the whole chalkboard so now that story doesn't exist anymore I want you to get out a new piece of chalk it's gonna be pink this time and we're gonna whole new story and I want you to describe your situation your SP your whatever the hell is the way it is now the new reality what we're working towards what you're focusing on in every single moment what you're making yourself live in every single moment that's how you get there that's you shedding the weights erase the old story let it be water under the bridge what has happened before is your own manifestation okay fine fine maybe I didn't ask for that but maybe I've had a program running for the last 30 years this says people cheat love is hard love does it last I'm not good enough things always get taken away from me people walk all over me if you have that program running people have to fulfill it they have no choice but to fulfill the role that you've written for them so you being angry and resentful at them for that is misplaced creative power your power lies in the conceiving the perceiving the narration of your world and if you are using your creative power to describe how much that person sucks in the version that they are right now guess what you are continuing to get I don't think I've to say anything else so I want you to comment down below the past is absolutely irrelevant the past is absolutely irrelevant and it's true because you are manifesting new new new new new new new realities in every single moment by the millisecond by the billions you can't even perceive it it's happening so fast you're shifting in and out of realities already this is not something you have to figure out you're already doing it what you do have to figure out is how to stop telling yourself stuff that you don't like anymore and not just telling yourself stuff that you don't like but listening to it attaching it deciding that that's your life now because you have the thought or someone said something to you or you saw something happen in your life or you didn't see something happen you're missing someone that doesn't mean that has to continue from one moment to the next time is not linear our awareness is linear right our awareness is like one big long stream of consciousness broken up by what are essentially naps okay we're the same people we were as children then we are today we're just filled with a lot more experience and knowledge the template is still there right the old programming is probably still there we're still very much running the old story and trying to adapt to the new but the moment you can realize that the old story never ever has to continue from right now forward that's it you can change it right this very second it's you that we're waiting on it's not the other person it's you you change it in the moment and then you refuse to think that it's not changed ever again you refuse to think that it's anything but the thing we just changed it to and that's how you stay there and how you get it fast that's how you shed the weight and you zoom your ass down that lane to the end of that pool that's how you get it now if you'd like to stop doing the old stuff that doesn't work for you and just get really focused on manifesting your person quickly and deliberately while simultaneously getting rid of all of the stuff that's been holding you back your whole life check out my manifesto specific person workshop it's actually designed to help you get to the root of all of your issues it is work on your end but it is the most rewarding work that you could ever do for yourself you can actually join that course and start right this very moment getting to the bottom of your problems of your situation right now you can sign up at my website Roxy talks comm you can also sign up for one-on-one coaching so we can discuss exactly how you can rewrite your story and rewrite your person and live that out in every single moment one-on-one coaching is available at my website Roxy talks as well I've also got exclusive merch podcasts and more that's all at my website of course the link is in the description below you can also join my facebook group Black Moon Society it's a great community for like-minded people who are helping each other manifest that's in the description below as well and don't forget to join me on social media I'm on tik-tok Twitter Instagram and Facebook here on the Roxy talks channel I go live every Monday at noon ish PST 4qa and I've got brand new videos out every Tuesday through Friday so make sure you subscribe and hit the bell notification so you never miss an update and if you're feeling generous please like and share that helps us reach as many people as possible and everyone deserves to know that they are in complete control of their reality we're all raising our vibrations together you have the power I believe in you

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Length: 16min 31sec (991 seconds)

Published: Fri May 08 2020