PIVOT PALS | Omeleto

thank you so much for coming on the podcast this week thank you so much for having me I'm so excited to be here yeah we are stoked that you are here uh let's uh let's go ahead and and kick it off why don't you uh tell us a little bit of what we're going to be talking about today yeah so about 60 years ago Elizabeth couger Ross wrote about the five stages of grief but it turns out there's very little evidence for those stages yeah people aren't so predictable right it's a cliche for a reason but we all do grieve different you know the victorians would take photos of their deceased loved ones and carry them around as keepsakes that's so interesting because today it feels like people put so much pressure on themselves to get back to normal you know I like to say when it comes to grief crazy is The New Normal o can you say that again just say it one more time to drive it home for everybody crazy is The New Normal yes folks who were once outgoing may become reclusive some may never be able to open themselves up to companionship again while Others May Chase relationships doomed to fail guilty on the hey little dude you ready to go great let's get out of here wasn't having any fun anyway be cool if we uh oh sure yeah no problem come on hun let's go try to have some fun okay can we just hang out together like normal hun what are we going to do I don't know it's a surprise Mom you don't have to go if you don't want to but clay put so much effort into planning this for you so give it a shot okay okay hey you want your extras just in case I'll be fine all right [Music] where's your car it's getting fixed again yeah why don't you come up front you know mom doesn't let me sit there this cool it's big man time your mom gave me permission really but I'm not kidding come on up yeah what the heck man got a surprise for you boom mom told you I don't like sports yeah but it's the steers man it's different when you got great seats these are some of the best seats in the stadium the stadium are so loud well get your earplugs and everyone is so pushy I know but these these tickets were so hard to get trust me man you'll love it I don't like football okay um what you want to do inste I don't know we can't just not go Dax I mean we can but I spent a lot of money on these tickets buddy come on you really don't want to go really okay fine I just need to make some calls and we'll pivot cool we'll pivot pivot Pals Hey Hey listen I got two tickets to the Steelers today yeah today right now uh-huh absolutely no really okay all right bye dude yeah sure Derek yeah pregaming huh Chuck Chuck Chuck Chuck yeah yeah dude I'm about to make your day got front and center tickets to the Steelers today's game you can't get these seats man well I had a guy who had a guy whose mom was a season ticket holder yeah today's game what no there's plenty of time you can get down there [ __ ] okay yeah sure sure bye dude all right no wor Bud going to hit up Ronnie he's a spontaneous guy this isn't even a Steeler's hat he those things are like 50 bucks it's got smiley on it no it doesn't so what man you know I just just turn it around put it on here you go boom Stillers well great hey man this is the kid huh listen two tickets today's game starts in 15 can't get these seats he it's in 15 minutes and it's [ __ ] freezing bro so bundle up you a fan of what how much 400 [ __ ] off worth every penny n man bro I I spent my whole paycheck on these tickets they're worth it they may be but I wouldn't take them this close to game man and it's going to be a [ __ ] to get there it's a straight shot can we go I know but hang tight parking there sucks fine 200 N man thanks but no thanks $100 I'm cozy $100 D it's a steal dude [ __ ] off I'm not interested and I'll drive you down there for real yeah all right $75 in a ride no take backs fine H it if you don't have your hand in it you're a [ __ ] it's the wave of the future you know JP JP's cashed out over 300K this year easy I mean he was in it like ground up like I mean early days I mean it's like still in its infancy but it's never too late you need a Q-tip no you know about this [ __ ] right you genes sit back you sitting pretty on some crypto there kid you got yourself a non-fungible cryp is just a bubble it'll pop and I'm J alpha alpha dog I like it but you're wrong don't worry about it kid I was wrong once too used to be a Giants fan hey for every minute we're laid for kickoff I'm knocking off a dollar could you did you sit back can you just walk the rest of the way dude it's like a 30 minute walk bro come on no Deal's a deal you want one alha Dax hey you can't just leave me here you want to go after him and I'll stay with the car good point take care of the car [Music] please that's why we do yoga kids [Music] Dax Dax [Music] Dax Dax Dax [Music] Dax why don't you text her Dax buddy there you are you know him Who you calling Mom and you are I'm mom's boyfriend not after this yeah we were going to the Steelers game this little guy just bolted what happened it was too loud oh [ __ ] man I'm sorry I I forgot that might trigger you look you don't need to call your mom okay I'm hungry yeah but the thing is we can't leave your mom's car with Ron but I'm really hungry okay it's simple just two buttons one on each side don't let the ball fall through to start you pull back on the lever and you start punching right here's coin yeah there you go pop it in uhhuh yep there you go nice yep yep good first go go again hey hey man where are you yeah hey can you pick us up no what do you mean no no it's not my fault you didn't see the game you're the one who wanted are you kidding me with this [ __ ] it's my girlfriend's car no don't go home get over here [Music] [ __ ] oh look at you go there you go don't lose focus [Music] Bud go go go oh dude that was insane you okay oh oh oh buddy oh it's okay little dude um yeah come on let's uh let's get you out of here put those on let's just put these come on out bud okay um um all right here I'm turn cool we got here yeah hey what's go here try these on bud hey Granny Gams yeah I I know I haven't called uhhuh uh listen listen gr remember how we spoke about what we could do I get myself into some trouble no I didn't kill anybody grams no Hey listen listen listen remember about the Uber how you can make sure that I'm safe uh-huh I want want to go home uh-huh okay you got to hit the ride button this time okay love you can we get ice cream I thought you want to go home it settles my stomach pretty sure ice cream doesn't do that to stomachs I'm pretty sure to my stomach it does I really don't think that that's a good idea after you know please can I get one scoop of Jamaican Me Crazy another scoop of death by chocolate in a cone and and can you add sprinkles sure what you want bud can I get a t banana split with four layers of Whi cream seven cherries and three rods oh and can you put it in a la Co and make it three huge scops and oh can you add springles for mine too absolutely you sure you can finish all that yes all right what the hell Zach what the hell I didn't mean to yes you did Jesus okay straight up What's your deal Dax nothing what you don't like me did I say something did I do something to you what I didn't mean to you don't want me to be with your mom's at it hey K look at me when somebody confronts you you don't hide you show up like a man I know this has been hard for you and your mom and I like your mom I really do I know so then what your dad was a great man and I'm not trying to replace him you don't have boundaries this is what I wanted to talk to you about today relationships require boundaries sort of like ask your permission don't deserve my mom come you don't have a car you don't have a job and your friends are losers I have a job Ron's like a 100 what's he hanging out with you for if you don't get your life together that's going to be you a loser Dax what happened hey Jess what happened to Dax oh he's fine he's just tired I need to go check wait wait wait just just just one quick quick thing about the car what about the car yeah well so um we had to go sell these tickets because Dax didn't want to go to the game and so we went over to my buddy Ron's house you're with one of your buddies I know Ron is cool play I know I know I know listen listen the second we got in the car Dax is like super overwhelmed it was the first time being alone with you of course he was I know but not like I mean you wouldn't believe it today was nuts we're driving R of the game okay we're stuck in traffic and all of a sudden that's burst out of the door what yeah he he jumped out of the car and I chased him down and I found him obviously me he's here but Ron has your car you got to be kidding me I no no no no no no hey hey I'm going to take care of it look I had all out not believe the tickets that I scored you know he doesn't like scores yeah but does he know that does he actually know that or has he just not been opened up to it or had the right guy show him how to enjoy it sweetheart you took a chance it's okay there's so much Dax could experience if he would just loosen up it's okay we had our fun it wasn't meant to go anywhere anyway well maybe not at first but like things changed let's just call it what it is Jess I love you Mom it's not cla's fault it's mine it's okay Dax I wouldn't call it the best day by any stretch of the imagination but he's not such a bad guy he's just adventurous thanks bud but healthy relationship Dynamics require both adventure and stability clay I'm sorry I don't think you're ready for marriage who said anything about marriage mom just because you're afraid doesn't mean Clay's the wrong person life isn't about either or it's all about riding the wave where'd you learn all this podcast thanks for nothing ass you want me to drive or uh he's having an off day uh-huh some widows and widowers are able to forge new relationships and we know strong relationships are great for mental and physical health yes and now on the flip side I've heard that we're experiencing a loneliness at that's right but we also may have found a surprising cure in intergenerational relationships adults who form relationships with a younger generation are three times as likely to be happy as those who were not and by relationships you mean a friendship right so it's probably safe to say we could all use a good [Music] friend [Music] [Music] [Music] pap

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Published: Wed Nov 22 2023