PERSONAL CORE VALUES: The Why, What and How

one of the things I figured out that helps people to live an intentional fulfilling life is knowing and honoring your personal core values knowing and cornering your personal core values core values is at the center of a person's personality once you know your core values it begins to influence every choice that you make the people that you trust and allow into your personal space there are pews that you respond to how you choose to invest your time and your energy your core values becomes a key determinant and how you consciously choose to show up in work and relationships and in life and it helps you to better navigate you internal landscape in this video I want to share with you three key the patterns of setting your core values and it's six steps I used in sets in micro values so you can sit down as searchers to [Music] one mindedness video anyway I'm doing it because and people don't talk much about Cavalli's the patterns and why we should do them when you hear core values you start thinking about the company initial statement visual statement and core values of the company but it's not just about an organization people too can and should have core values because of what it can do for you and how we can make you feel really powerful and part your core values when you know them it becomes easier for you to set decisions it becomes easier for you to make decisions it becomes easier for you to set boundaries your choices become a lot easier because you have setting things that guides you and acts as a standard for your life for your work and for your relationship it becomes harder to compromise because to settle for Less because you know exactly in clear terms what you want for your life now and in the future and why and that's what core values are another important of this is I helps you to see the gaps because sometimes doing inside core values it's not that you're 100 percent of that right now it can be a bit in idealistic and futuristic so I want this amount of I want to be able to give out this amount of love but I'm not there yet and so I can see the gap between what I am right now and exactly where won't be any kind of person I want to be and kind of life I want to leave and so I can start with tracing my step and start improving in those areas because I was able to identify that with my core values and three it's a very very empowering exercise when I sat down if you want to go to write down my core values it was the most amazing experience ever it's a very introspective experience and when you are done you're gonna feel more empowered and feel like you have a better control of your life now and of we are going to have a member to come visit that isn't so how do you set core values I don't know need his book steps or process but I'll tell you exactly how I did mine step 1 get yourself a very quiet space I said already that core values sets in it's a very interesting exercise I think about goal-setting and how amazing you feel and how you need to be alone with yourself on your toes to really do that it's the same thing a covalent bond even more so make sure that you are in learn and you have the time and space to think for yourself and to be totally totally honest with yourself it's not about looking good open your booty and recites the most amazing things no it's been very true to who you are now once again yourself require space number two take a pair and take a paper I took a phone take whatever works for you I write out as many words as possible that mean something to you now typically core values a single words like a sub talent growth love excellence etc etc threaten as many as you can that mean something to you don't be afraid read an exhaustive list you can write 3050 if you know up to 100 different single words that mean something right 100 all right as many as you kind of come to your mind and I mean something to you at the core of this it's right in our world that reflect who you are who you want to be on your wife I'll say the game at the coop this is writing words that reflect who you are who you want to be and your wife number three what you're done with that exhaustive list the nesting is to group them because you find that some of this would mean the same thing only almost the same thing I can bring them together and have one umbrella attempt for them so group them first on when I did my one of my core values recruit I realized that I had words like excellent productivity growth etc and when I looked at all those words together I said oh you know what growth would be the best umbrella term to house all of these words and so it became the core values so group them ideally you should don't have one and all values well you can have three can have five can have seven put on make it more than ten I have several so do whatever works for you but keep it between say five to ten once it does that three gooped them the nesting is to write what each of those core values will do we stand one of my core values is impact impact to me simply means to live a purposeful life do you think I am very passionate about and so that's when zactly what impairments to me it's not it has been definition it is what impacts me means meaning them living my life of proposed I knew my purpose I live my life a purpose and I'm doing it since I am very passionate about it I'm passionate about it I'm not doing it right and when I'm doing is I'm passionate about it has to be reflective or it has to be adding value to my purpose does this mean so for the for your word make sure that you identify what is exactly those words mean for you you're now we're future and your wife when you do me that step 5 is to prioritize so you have five you have seven you have ten words prioritize them and we want you three up to the last one for me impacts it like my number one core value growth is right at number two money is number four acceptance it's number three right and then I have all the way down to number seven so at the inside and prioritize your core values and then the last step is to put this every way that you can see it so you have reminded of it core values do not have the you would have the effect that you should have if you don't internalize it it's not just about sitting down and writing it out no it's about knowing it so you can internalize it we can honor its you can only honor it when you internalize it and you can only feel very empowered and live the fulfilling in life when you continuously corner your core buttons it's a long and evolving process is in lifelong journey it's not something that you're going to attain once you're gonna keep trying to no more core values have more expressions of it have bigger inside and revolutions into this word that means something to you aside them as I just know your personal core values you can go ahead on you know what right are your core values for walk formulation in my view would you can did it this exercise very gene Union very sincerely you could see that you have definitely intersession between or valia work why why relationship I'm going value genuine life it might be a few different things but you find very key technologies I would also hope it's a need much more fulfilling lives in your relations and I work and to choose rather to make better decisions about who you're gonna be loved where we're going to date and kind of jump so you couldn't take exit your ex cetera this was a very interest in exercise from when I didn't want to go and I hope that when you sit down now first of I hope that you actually stood out to do it and that it gives you the same level of empowerment and fulfillments that he gave to me so do it and come back to the comment section and let me know how it was for you I know the things you learned about yourself thank you so much for watching this video please make sure that you like that you subscribe and really put on me share this video to someone I bet you that fest is gonna 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Length: 8min 31sec (511 seconds)

Published: Mon Dec 23 2019