Pastor Tamara Bennett "Day of Love" (2-14-18)

complicated because I would dare to say that 89% of things we did in our previous relationships God would know we're in it anyway so would be so complicated because you can't make sin make sense there's no sense in sin and so I like to start on a high level let's talk about righteous relationships and so that we can at least get an understanding of God's Way or God's order and then we can work our way into where we are now but I pray that the room is predominantly filled with believers hallelujah and justice God have this is what I want us to be comfortable and that just as God have blessed our bikes whether it's healing our minds whether it's restoring us whether its financial blessings hi God lest our guys up until this point he'll do the same thing in a marriage and in a relationship and so we want to trust our father like that so I'm not going to I'm not going to give a presentation like I'm an expert on relationships again I'm gonna try to keep it on a spiritual level with biblical understanding and then share experiences and open to questions but again the goal that I'm glad mr. Terry's here to to kind of help me whereas to do pretty good yes how then so the goal is to give an understanding of how things can work in a righteous relationship so okay so relationships okay next slide so we're taught Genesis 1:28 first of all because we're believers this is not going to be any other kind of relationship except it's going to be marriage or we're going to be friends it's not between we're going to be married we're going to be friends there's no live it together there's no shacking there's no sex partners because we're believers only never seen a man so we can just we did try to make any of that makes sense because it's not done fornication that I didn't this is bring up OPP soldier eNOS because I like a church environment as much as we're learning and we're feeding off of one another okay so know that I just wanted I want us to build this because we're understanding the lifestyle as a son and a daughter of God we're moving in our sonship and we're understanding what God is to us and when he's required the less access children and our sonship and the reason why I can give I want to pitch is so high is because we've got to come out with so much bubble gutter of what the world have called love don't assume insane don't go freeze up on me either don't give a about me that is not funny at all best oh don't do that either this is work so to keep it clear and to keep perspective and so that there's no confusion should I have relationships with brothers and sisters in Christ for somebody yes because we want to get to know one another and we want to be friends and we want to get acquainted but the bottom line this does not know us not mystery when sex can in it everything gets confusing talk back to me from us and if you try to act like it doesn't you're deceiving yourself when sex get involved when kissing get involved too much smooching get it off everything is confused and not your group your conscience is bothering you that you want try to rush to make this relationship okay does this really because there's sex happy and I really don't even know this person and with sex didn't fall emotions get involved and now my understanding is cloudy about who you are because it's a bad thing more than I know you so you know the matter is sex joke the matter is is that when we get married we have a lifetime to figure out how we like your neck our lives [Applause] drag tests been a couple you've been back almost demonic flourish while events got to go please maybe have a lifetime to play did you see that both magazine the other day what made you wanna buy your bed over your body I just expected you have a light and the truth of the matter is when you're forming a lot with a person intimacy becomes easier because I love you so you end up giving yourself over easier because I love you so God said Genesis is the very beginning brightness told people coming together church is because I blessed them and said to them I want you to be fruitful and increase the number I want to fill the earth and then I love this part and some dunes rule over the fish of the sea and the bursts inside and over everything [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] he cranks power covers and when he reads that when men and women come together our throat loudly with God what I've been to so bad about business of the possible what I think is so great about this is that it's the principle of marriage whether you believe or not Beyonce and jay-z pop colors I judge people what their vagueness dolana's power comes how many women come together in unity he said I bless them the principle of what I run by period I that's when they come together and they can come before me power cuts some of the most profound ministries in the earth today our husband the blades Power couples to life Lincoln York Power couples the James Power couples God creates power couples you ain't married because I'm lonely cuz then that person go get more to you too but you marry because I believe in God for that person we do this we do the earth yo I'm talking back to me back I roll unhappy about what marriage give it is Madeline Kahn together and so we got this so there's a vibe there's a-- a what this fear is the seen eye-to-eye there's an energy and the synergy of success that cuz you could be the bottom of the bed and I [Music] same thing we believe the same thing that were after something so God in the end the beginning and the beginning he brought Adam and Eve together as a power couple watch this next time here we go so for the man you don't have to say who you are and what you are you never may believe that you cannot be a family man if you don't even know who you are and I hope this out this really I hope today I just hope it can it can end right on both sides cuz I'm giving you principles charts everything I would give you tonight by the grace of God I will give you his principles and its principles don't change life is built on God's principles so man if you don't know who you are or who you are you won't be able to comfortably leave your family says so first right sub-tree but I will have you know that the head of every man is the head of the woman is the head of price or work might be sisters just be calm there's no way you can get around this there's nothing you can protest you can get all the banners you can have as many greats like I'm not going off I'm telling you those that you can campaign it nothing changes God's water you said when I created it I'm great a man's end in my image and I'm it's box it's me it's my son it's man and then it's one so then you don't know that you have a higher power a higher strength that you can pull from called Christ then you go keep going through life blind it lot of unnecessary mistakes a lot of bad decisions because you don't know who you are and if you don't know who you are you don't know how to live your life to purpose as a citizen when I understand that God was my father and he is the head of even I'm not really told wanted to do nothing for me because it's come [Music] [Applause] you understand I don't always though doctors my head and I don't need one to help me do nothing because I get my help from God what a man understands that he really has the potential to be unstoppable because now you can run in the strength of that knowledge you can confidence in the strength that God is with me and nobody over him to get me or to tender me so when I am neither stop a stop god I dare to say he is bound to help me because he knows I am joining their understanding your perspective of our marriage and your perspective about the lady we choose should change it should be different here we go that's one of the most women strangers yes the actual script that's exact that's wholesome fine does not say he says who oh so finding a wife finding the living the tainted favor of the Lord that's because men of God sometimes you need somebody else to help you find a wife and don't take nothing from you when Isaac mother died the Bible says that Abraham sent the servant to go find Isaac a wife because he was grieving the loss of his mother and the servant found Rebekah a kind and the nurturing and a caring woman Saxon who had this anointing in his hair the Lord told his mama don't let get with the horns don't let him marry divorce they won't miss her but he didn't listen he got worthless and we know the story they took his strength so sometimes now I know I have myself a lumen but sometimes brothers the reason why my hell it's because bears up I don't want to call it we because that I'll pinch you there's a what's that our propensity is that right that's right then should you be seduced and thrown one get your attention and the wrong one get your heart my girlfriend's day why right not even the bull seriously nobody yeah not my home he is with dull I did don't know what if I talk back to me soon white yeah not my booty call see white talk back to me what fight your wife you find a good thing so if you contend one from girl girl in X reward without your dual jewel because King do this like phone away do like this I'm throwing the booty hall day if you content the deck and keep it rolling but she can't do you like what no I'm not talking back to him find out why man why your girlfriend you don't want to Ho Chi wonder why you don't want to help up you don't want inches woman you want to walk you said when you find a wife you found some good and that's how you get your favor here we go first use a nap because house and riches are the inheritance of bottoms and improvement [Music] through this wine is from the Lord smart smart smart woman wise woman one less ugly head of the shoulders about that stupid Santa's because recently I will swear by the way cuz what's on the outside Coco the bottom ice macrosomia you might be attracted to Oakland leader we shot in to mention you want to find out because that's all half a minute you it's gonna help you you don't want a funeral don't want the city girl yeah what y'all wanna run it back all of each other's dress she don't keep you act a fool god save robbery in history why there's a lot of history behind him his first right but his new way and everybody was the hottest wear them suits down like my dress this is the woman he's mentioned I was wiped out that he shared a story this is both their second time around being married but he says she changed she because she acts a mystic a Shinto she's a classy woman more classy and so she said to him she said you know y'all will be able to keep going so far in cat suits to somebody that's over maybe start refining himself because you want to marry a woman that wants the best for you that is interested in the best for you because women my age you can be very selfish young man not think about that's me trying to be very fair teaching so I talk about myself women wait we're selfish might meet you we can be here e you can always be all about us I know that's just a part of our nature so when you'll find the girl that's interested in you that cares about your interests that that that listens that I don't know I heard you say something about a certain show or something then they surprise you tickets to that kinda thing that means they're listening they hear about you know we're gonna be approving of a smartphone that's going so we know what a lazy [Music] because everybody but me you want me [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Music] these are things that happen you're not sexual every day no I'm not talking back to real life get up get up we got a boat Burke you're not pain pills Carville breakdown dishwasher ain't working watch machine up up without me close that's every day in that's real hard so that you want to eat notice how she do the table notice tiny stuff tiny stuff what he you know listen no does she care that that there's sugar something spilled on the table does she just keep talking over it little stuff does she try to white big rule things out of the way preparing for the server it's tiny stuff cuz it's what she didn't talk women right now this is she is tiny stuff it's tiny stuff how nasty is her car yeah [Music] [Music] [Music] next one so your White Brothers it equals favor and that melts some of your single brothers are doing well driving and I question your future by the question of whether your unit about Kevin here about meeting those who s person they know that will desire to do it and not leads to what so I don't know that yet but if you have any interests for girls or anything like that that's probably a sign you're not one that you're not leaving so favor life equals paper that's what that means so if you find a good woman favor comes to your life doors start opening it begins so before you as a big hand you begin to get defined when you gain away Simula does not define your manhood because anybody can be responsible for themselves when you take on another person that begins to define you as a man if you look at homes what's funny is there's a tradition that just they just won't be what it is if that family is struggling they only that man his wife would like the end of our ties needed because from one place to another look at that be happy they're not going to calculate that one of those two fathers letter doctor per se and I won't have way that they don't calculate he must didn't take the care of them so will you marry brothers it begins to define what kind of man you are and your ability not Pierce was real deep it just is what it is at the highest funds apartment of America and the more you rule that work in America to get work America sometimes I'll just look look just a normal levels of management or normal levels of employment men are revered a little differently but they have family this is real talk because it says you're responsible it just puts a little bit of dignity to you puts another level hold this accept your statement it says that you're able to several it says that you're able to be responsible all those things are the subliminal messages when a man marries it says that disabled he settled he's responsible he's able to manage things so when a man finds a wife he thought his favorite and the doors begin to hold it because the Power couples begin next slide so why are you agony or contingent or confusion or frustration or irritation or competition or or I've strayed young whatever you can't say well she should bring flavor and that should make you happy we should find pleasure that you should find fulfillment in it we should find that kind of being dull don't be one brother to love them to find it being the girl to found it there's little things little arguments become big arguments when you're married so don't need more little things that jaw has facts about in this chorus danger endure beginning to know her stakes listen to me listen to me listen to me listen to me the little things that you don't know darling can be walking parent you know mrs. cherry I'm gonna ask you to be my partner those little things Jase call the ladies women checks Ted this is James Park single piece of common mr. Jake says that you're never going to get up letter percent of anything invite you know we had a hundred silver carmine hundreds in the Hashi one and that's including precious sight 80/20 so I would take that 80/20 and I dare to say that but I believe into that Michelle I'll try to be a country okay because once you get married at 80/20 can easily because you just hit that waffle that's okay I will shoot that way but alright but don't keep doing it okay acting why we need to pull that book back take them up take them up cuz those a little the wisest that they understand all understand that when we are all whatever questions there but whatever sees were things don't know be honest with yourself do you really that all your guards down no way when you're talking to somebody you think relax I do believe that all your guards now so they don't either so you're not even single so you ain't even listen I need this money there are people that have shacks for years get married anymore cuz somewhere they are still but not me because there was social commitment yes so you know what I ain't know the little stuff no idea you would have been to be deal we feel what I'm saying so there's gotta be more love of my life that I'm just like yes yes okay right right well of course the Bible talks about a virtuous woman and that's it wasn't hers well as I was talking about she wanted to have some love and let me explain why brothers in spite of her degree and she's being educated I think that's wonderful and I'm all for that degrees are all for morning eat your mush I'm all for being a CEO of Amazon whatever your goal is I'm all for it but the reality is where the women mothers and we may become pregnant and we have children we don't billable complications can happen or you may have a wonderful marriage or a wonderful child but do you really want a job to be willing to Amazon to work with you I know it's a popular theme that a lot of women are doing today but does that stabilize the child what a bill home for children I could go on hold on about you not but it is very important but before you say I do conversations about what those expectations are with children not only if you want to happen and not only how many you think you want to have but what are we going to do do you want me to stay home and raise your chin because these are things that some men may never talk proctors they just assume we don't do that anyway and didn't know that you must think not but you will stay home I think mostly y'all have talked about and these are conversations that didn't happen and now there's confusion because the child is here now she feels the private her career and these epitopes wanna stay home with your child s so a promise woman has that kind of quality that there's nothing more important to her than her family be built because careers will come and go back to nature but your children that's my title nesting I'm gonna burn a little bit I was so blessed yesterday I had to my great-niece that I've only met twice her mom and I are childhood friends most excellent speech teacher bernice Tameka to me tonight who wrote to get my all the kids from church to meet and I'm always super duper time like we were so close that I don't remember this movie one time we date based of blood you see the pianist so she and I at eight years of work whether they also temporary I think what is it exactly and we stuck our fingers and we rub them together some we'd be glad assistance lottery pieces she lives in LA her husband wasn't in the streets he does certain things behind the scenes in industry so my husband catering invented them and I met her family something to me she chose us to do the bit which is wonderful and almost well the first time I met her family better children better taught us and we Michael did facility conversation while her daughter is getting married and they called me and said on TV to counsel us yeah you know if you could get your pair of socks like yeah our constituency sure so we counsel the other day and what a delightful surprise so young master where does he look he plays very tasty in such a man jump all around us up tango so he's keep on playing from cases so it did its night yesterday so meeting this young man will first time meeting my great-niece insane Wow okay let's start this young man I can't like it literally just can't buy each other this show that begins again the story of how God started dealing with them some years ago he's I just wanted to give my walk with God closer he says I started changing things he's coming out of certain relationships he said I just wanted to find a girl that I would be comfortable if you're saying would be saving me so he said he met her he said she's nice and everything he said but he said you know he says now I was coming closer to God than who she did know God okay why don't say he perfected this thing with that but he's coming closer to God anyway they got baby and he got himself up he said but I know let me talk about work right he said but I can't represent doctor her if I don't start walking welcome he's talking to Mary because I want to do the right thing he said my catches his Bible he's because I know I'm not really showing her what a godly man should be so how he's going on tour she was the same 47 basis she said she started getting curious because he was so serious about this god thing so then she found this little break room and then the home when they started to him by the stuff he said well he started coming home he said I want to her read the words and then we start having Bible conversations and the warehouse I was so blessed I'm not the same what I'm saying because he declared I cannot move forward in our shacking environment and I be thought to forgive me for that you said I'm an adult I'm determined to walk like a man a table and carries my [Applause] so he said I don't want her to work so we have a one-year-old son he said he said he said I have a one-year-old son he's about one year work he said that right now who's at the table trust these day cares he sent out the trust people with their duties in her mock work so she came and I said why I ever thought about that listen she's dead she said he's becoming my rock she said when I don't my vehicle she does he takes good care of us she said that this one went to one of us that our son is raising the same environment a little bit influences all this copy like 24 25 yes man I can't do anything what lessons because you're trying to do fight you don't bet when you understand and I'm done here we go here we go when you understand that you have been created to meet every male have been created to leave and when you understand that you look for the companion that works with me to meet don't fight me don't compete with me don't pull at me it pulled me down help me with what I see for us to leave your nest named brown ancestors who take these principles and rock my hat with the leaving brothers and sisters sons and daughters is that you take these diving principles and you try to make it work with an unbeliever so you enough submit yourselves women to a duel that makes you in a righteous way and you become this passive submissive who bring all of those qualities you bring all these parties to a man that have no idea because you expected something of the men [Applause] you [Applause] [Music] [Applause] Abby loves these please please please please be these sorts please beat these list starting that first time that you come into please mister so Abigail a spiritual man named Paul who was a foolish man a very rich man with a foolish man I'm not going to say but she could have married a business it was rich as he had money but he didn't have good substance was a foolish man David was a battle David's rifle so David's trying to find some place here he had he had actually saved some the boss felt man and people and so he thought I can all do something so we came to this house hear this voice said Joe be are so hungry baby we can no confusion restroom forbidden can we get something to eat nobody said it wasn't I've given them nothing takes what he said in his boys day he must take him in today with boys it get together they were to take them out but Abigail go on the house she did that Fried Chicken mother she warmed up so it's nice to be that macaroni she should not own anything out [Music] here for instance don't know what I'm trying to say please read the store she said today Dave do you really do you really want to take my foolish husband out we have been called to be king do you really want that blood on your hands in other words my husband ain't worth the call they gotta put on your life what did Abigail do she was wise enough she was cunning enough to guard David's call me Oh God you want that female you want that female that's conscious of the God in you and your destiny you want that female that is sensitive to things in God and what your desire isn't God and what you're supposed to be in God you don't want that finger little take on that you know what heart you want the one that you seen the Lord still with me yes what is the more saying you want the female that's conscious that your your your your purpose is that you will not be making really after you next so that bigger foolish me I chose one and Suez R and X cars smart working the war so does Neiman Marcus told her that her account was closed she got tired and happy [Music] [Laughter] Oh [Music] [Music] [Music] just watch also talked about [Music] [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Applause] [Music] [Music] when you give the letter and she did you rubbing your hey you are [Music] [Music] [Music] okay yes so do you know she told me don't you talk too much to look at you go we do like super me women don't know saving women like a Superman and it's okay if you can't jump I just don't take this back just don't tell it all cuz they win they're vicious about me you're not going to stand when you walk okay don't don't leave social media stay with me don't need sanctions but I would have you know that the handle every man strikes and the comeback the only sister Georgia let's do the skin but I do know that the head of their commanders price end up and up okay and the enterprise's next slide here we go next I so understand that at MRIB here we go here's how I did this and the rib which the Lord God had taken from man made he what yes and brought her what a beautiful he to us from the rim of a band and somebody putting rocks of men and made him from the dust and that series right in our heart burgers and things and then he made women from forgiveness so money with it and said that's why they have the salt and descended this phone because they come from the softness of the bedside I like that next nicer next line here we go so God will watch this so God created man it is all image and in the image of God created what I made woman from the side I still have make them equal as one talk back to me that's the power of a couple if because the jewel become one now how can I say this tell people or at least now there is a chemistry and there is a DNA between man and woman that can't be erased and that chemistry is the balance of a successful marriage I don't have the I don't have the advocacy or the irritation about same-sex marriage it doesn't bother me because that's their thing it does not change the principle you got some out protested that's your thing the principle God putting the man their [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] mission [Music] that don't know Reysol and don't know buddies - then what you gonna do cuz I'd be enjoying going nowhere you know I don't do that man does not have promised were so alive no purpose feel so you keep dreaming if you keep hoping a vision [Music] [Applause] [Music] men to love their wives as their own minds even otherwise for no man ever yet hated his own flesh for the nourishing and cherishing it even as the Lord the church next slide the damaging myth that so many women have failed if I can change them in his own life if he's there responsible of his own life you owe me a responsibility if you can TiVo chocolate is all STL [Music] [Music] they always I went to the restaurant to observe how the employees treating them because my belly was really nice cuz you want me so what I did was I wanted to see how much gonna start was expecting I wanted to see how the I wanted to see how his boss responding because I knew they only know cuz he got every day so Gupta able to do this I actual attack you my you have had some June and anything you to you did want to do dead everybody's against them and the whole earth there's something wrong with it that's my case to see no I'm gonna talk back to me guess what you will be canceled and y'all don't understand when you are yourself together she needs to be doing something and get herself love the life more than wife love us because you gotta bear with us and we're vulnerable and we're fragile and we're weak and sisters again I must tell you your degree does not change your vulnerability it does change you for reading week it doesn't change for the oversensitive so you want a man that's more to you than you are if you always chasing him down you always pants maybe we could also run this weekend oh I see [Music] and I'm not saying be cold-blooded you don't notice it but you want to bother how much I get money into you because they don't cover you and brothers you want the female that you want to cover you want the girl there's nothing ministerial won't do Lavinia sure cuz he loves that the hair she swept by anymore that's pretty that's we should be brother-sister girl she's not fighting for girls is the man that he's proven I'm worth fighting for I said be stupid and don't call so I thought you were saying but it's the mutuality and understanding he really [Music] the madam has all kind of excuses he holder that we are comparing the man that never could get to cannot work this woman everybody's on the sunny thank you to Jesus he's sure we'll need to cheat some millionaire please let me make that clear if you don't get to Jesus before your marriage is not gonna say he's never owned entities the lock it's all good from stop back to me just stretcher wool a husband understands in a dog that is sacrifice because you're giving your life for your wife you're giving your life for your children sisters you don't want to selfish man you don't want anything considerate man yeah because if he's inconsiderate now it's all about him now it's going to be that with no hearing you know it's like this on our name is managing when it is so bad and again please missus he wanted Rachel so bad he's willing to work seven fourteen years I was taught by my whiteness we had seven sons I was buried I think 50 something he stole by my boy it's Teddy when the big many people didn't believe in their to hear she said a man is for sure when he finds the right girl that a woman is and when he finds her he snatches her [Music] women learn all these he little but a man with his heart clean with a girl and that was changing another man was show why is the midst of trouble old single God sisters no friend whatever you're interested in what does he do he's in trouble how does he react and hot [Music] that's one home baby it's going home you want to know what is his strength well this is wrong how does he get help let's say something you can ask solution will be stress you can't ask him that as soon as you got observe that here let me talk that's not in focus on some would love Porsche with it please read that in first Kings Levin and 3,000 head reason to compromise that it will never his neck we can't let that day cream he said 71 but I lost that hunch I won't make this isn't a school and nothing I said tonight my making these things is taxable I'm trying to get parallel trying to get examples need some work if a man does not conquer upsetness over the pooping if a man or woman you don't conquer fornication in your single night you will be in highly tempted to commit adultery in your marriage you've got to conquer that I preserve my body on Young's God so that when the Lord bless you to marry you're already in that preservative mold that I observed to one day that I preserved to one one but if you've allowed yourself to have an appetite from multiple partners male or female female female male male whatever your choice is you have a confident constancy you cannot use marriage as mine as my staple so I was ignoramus knuckle work you wanna conquer that incontinent spiritedness and you want to learn consecration numbers so that you can give it only on to God so that when you marry our concern for the team of Jesus Christ when we ask to begin our sins then porridge they have explained what it's Paul George Spiro you see from one person to another to another it's called course and that is the mother heart that have been birth in art that's commonplace it means nothing to sleep from person no consciousness of preservation no conscience not hold this and keeping myself for one person [Music] [Applause] [Music] you [Applause] [Music] [Applause] red oak recitation but one that is not be our item shop otherwise it was nice to scrub sizes that you see that do to try to talk to the husband his vision is job and money into jobs we know know you wanna do what a badass I can tell me what a pain let me tell you please [Music] [Applause] the truth is and then we suppress the bank in this Terrace the truth is a real man don't be one a moment to embarrass you paint really together they're trying on cuz you don't wanna be expose one thing together so real man what space let me get this together and so you keep making them think I lose my girl you don't make them think i'ma lose my girl you know you don't even know what he's not ready [Applause] [Music] - get ready - these days it's a bit of all but not true let God deal with him that guys were very blessed and very fortunate - okay and from jump how so - never - no God would just always bless us I was this is what I begin to learn what kind of man was so weary that house it was like feels like a plating but it's like oh listen to these models oh this is nice Oh every single time you see some 800 you'll need to eat next $1 to make out who's that oh I got that it's like okay then it became like that the entire process so I don't never when we go right how many days before the actual Sun and so the by side in our credits to come together our money to community center he went to the lender on his goal and he wanted to go from the lender what can i buy for by myself with happen and so the lender came back and showed what was which is still a decent amount we've got house he said I just needed to know what I could qualify for by myself so then I start saying well that's the people you wanna do because it was important to me that he felt I got this I got it do you see what I'm saying so I saw what okay [Music] [Applause] you don't say I like it's the studio but it's time to say you know I hate all that money just be so bad because of Nexus way that's true from now guess what girl that's gonna make them work even harder she appreciate juice with [Music] me he's juiced Bible Lord warns and she's countless stories of how greatly reduced weather still like that where there is Bathsheba well there's strange woman women men may be seduced because we're making you so we know how to get your attention we know how to pull you in brothers and that comes the only thing that you're drawn to alright not my niece to be seduced let's remain the women you food and we'd be fooled because our judgment is off now I must say this and I brought my dish shots firing and I dare to say that we don't have very accurate judgment because God created a man to meet us am I saying we're stupid when I say Dom am i saying with naive but our judgment can be office talk about calls foolish with such a stretch us out started very kidding sorry very kidding men can be seduced isn't that what happened when he said that what happened with Eve her judgment was off and she listened to the sermon so women if you're not careful he's saying all the right things and all you're blind you to is you all the signs of different you just listen to him say and it's gonna get better and he didn't mean it like that you can either smack me it will be fooled and whatever I say he got you everybody that loves us warning everybody that cares about you is telling but you fooled me then she'd open your emotions started was when will she hear what people say loud you can't hear us she never do that to me Delilah really and once you make sure happy with him and you talk to me you see the safe side yeah and then yeah you don't want please please please help me now think about ELQ you've been around them and England the time but you know is he will make it all natural people make everything make sense a little pictures of clouds these long and big things make sense so identify him and necessary yes that's it and I hope you get out for questions so look up get visions and for questions or statements or comments or concerns or what bless you what was highlighted to you what is this [Music] we talk about the flourish do you mind singing so you're right he'll just all nights everybody know everybody how do you know you just don't crave excellent questions so hey how do we know when we've worked our way through it and it will be because designers will change create needs will change we teach our young people bought the five gates the eyes the ears and some say that to say that there is a process the trek walk your way out of lifestyles and walk your way out for sure there are there are absolutely services of deliverance that will I stop get it out of your heart but every man is tempted when he is drawn away when this whole lesson types so for this look at this is why you don't want a lot of experiences because you leave that door to have that little more temptations so how do you know your designers will change and and I would dare to say event that the designers changed more towards God you think about the woman that was found in adultery and you think about the Mary Magdalene the body said that she threw herself defeated Jesus and she threw her emotions she took her hair she washed his feet with her hair and she never said a word all she did was weeping at his feet and she stayed ends meet from that time for the one of them well if I've said the Jesus they came he said he sees I know that available something in the Bedouin in Jersey so I need you to go on treatment this fight never runs dry she said over your name they knew everything about myself I would never say that some of those first stages is when you become transparent with God because it truly is only God that matters god I love the way off God says to kill them to shame and it don't matter to survive some last night when God who gives me it is forgiving like a woman married next week I've got to stand a few Jesus so that will keep me safe the feet of Jesus so that I can learn more about my true purpose and my true identity and then in God's tiny that means will he'll send the man of God that will appreciate the woman that you have become the woman that you are that's why I think the soul but not a little about what we give our hearts to Christ you're not who you are and we'll God begins to take you through that cleanse in that Washington you can't have in your mind and off the street and I will I'm not part of you no more I've left you so God will give that man or that woman the one that will appreciate the one that you are now you know why I have consistently he hasn't walked on all nonsense like that you know in the world if I'm going to talk to me so I'm so glad I'm safe because I'm reading about Stephen and he just had to die because she doesn't makes a scene and that's the newness you got to take it too dearly marriage as I was coming in as I was preparing lesson or something that you know just start well he's a told everything a lot of them of the past has to talk because you're not going to be with her anymore and so even negative things so good or bad any negative thing that she put in your faces may I beat you down or whatever you're not that man you can't take that defense into a new relationship but they she's gonna do the same thing so I would HIGHLY say that anybody that started over you got residue of that previous barracks is over and that you're a new person and that you're a new net and that you Hitler that's I think that's use that you can't be track what you could have done is if this kept blessed room it is saying that's where I listed they're all been on point there so now I've got an opportunity actually the start all over again which is wonderful experience June July the church career paths and then obvious I want away with my sister on September I talk about the way it's a top dog I'm gonna wait for your treat because then I'm thinking okay what am I gonna do with my life and I remember so distinctly yeah sadly vigils called now it's traffic on sets in the Lord I said it's just you and I now since the Lord for the rest of my life is you not what he wanted to a bustle all back to the airline I knew I was supposed to stay in that's the Lord's issue or not I remember like Lenny was uploaded saying you know she's you know what we'll do I've been left there I went to my former husband's grave what did is great and I was weeping and crying and I looked at his way that I said to Marvin has died with you and she will never be back again because I was the wife he needed but he's dead so I would never be hurt okay and I remember getting my own visual of laying in the crate with him and that's where she's been not for long on that item I created this new member whatever whatever God was asking so there's similar things like that little divorce I mean you can have kids on both of things but you've got to declare that I'm not that person anymore and so I would learn what I cleared up differently so that I can be the better man so that will better little or bless you with it could be a brand new start anybody's like this I thought it was very important that she hadn't said about how good one should man yes because we we got married and we had four children but I didn't know him enough to to leave my children with him because he gives my children and you just got to pray didn't know yeah you don't feel yourself there this is it because once it's watching Mary yep it always is coming this is a covenant between you and I this person that she's right you owe money that's right you're treated twenty year old that's not safe expectation where do you [Music] know that's where expectation look at hard to really really have a bearing on whether dog up together it out because that because that becomes that becomes the struggle the struggle becomes that that the man at forty you don't will chart me that could happen in this life of why don't have been important and it doesn't take away [Applause] [Applause] [Music] right [Applause] [Applause] [Applause] [Applause] because that's what happened he was a man starting over and he was working at his job but he was good he always instilled had better credit you know just because there's a lot about me that you don't see me they're not gonna show you everything right because once we show you we bomb and crush our heart and we're not gonna do it for me we're not we not get that hurt man you got a tournament you can't you can't just me to do the expecting to be all coming to me shoulder nah forget that you gotta earn this and if you stick with me [Applause] and if you worthy to get a man steal to Sheldon he gave you something he gave me at what stage would you say because for me and I guess I thought maybe past experiences I really don't want to struggle would anyone like that like I'm not being funny I need to know like where did you cut it off for a game how do you engage that I don't want to totally struggle meaning you don't have anything like I just can't do that I got you I got you were you shopping it where you shopping it if you want I'm nothing man but us paintless it's what you will get you will get what it is right you know now but we call pork ship during this process of portion you're supposed to be like your desires they're designed this is what I focus what you want and if it's not big break that bad well before you ocean de title come on this time trust me trust me he know what he got you he know when he got you he knows he know he ain't that hidden but he knows when he got you wrapped up and I can drive under anything I know you I got you so y'all female Ivanovich other motions all all of all kinda dismiss me with that no one I got you so you need to be careful you need to be careful if you're looking for that type of dude that guy just ain't going off and you mean check him out what is he what's around in him I never want to be the biggest fish in my palm I'm the biggest fish in my part my palms too small and you need to balance because I can't take in a whale [Applause] but I'm always talking about that 8,000 square foot house don't go to the point to where you see but to where you know your standard something you got something you got a business all it's all crazy because you told man you want that because you tell me you want that license you tell me what they were saying is right to do that put my nose to breath I gotta work now I'm working at in a lot home with you right for which one you love it you don't be at work and get this for you I want to be at home cutting up with you watching movie I can't do both I can't do both now the smart one will be like baby go get your brand on for a couple years but you know we got we got to go yo I'm gonna grind I'm gonna put in this overtime I'm gonna get this money I'm gonna make these come on you got a stack man I got a second and then I'm smart dude be like okay I'm wore out now take the mad field go home baby rub my back run the back [Music] [Music] we can't do both y'all leave it to us to decide which one we gonna do and really is just really about what we fill in at the moment right it's really about what we've shown at the moment if you here taking us we really don't work I'm saying no man I mean that's boat talk I know I have a big bottle dirty I never left back it up this result I've been a man my whole life right amenda Buffy no right I got nine brothers a host of bubbles that I all learn from they taught me game early but this is real talk okay tell keep them both we get them both we confuse what do you want you want the house Oh [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] the same thing and I want to use how could you some people's example but I don't invite us five his sisters but we have to be careful of is that we do have these high expectations of our men that we desire and we don't match their expectations because they have expectations dudes with the Lexus or whatever whatever they got one honey that look good in my mixes then have the class of about Nexus that's real talk so if I could just dad was a hard-working man his mom was the sweetest thing um so he comes from good stuff he has hard-working fine I said it don't don't leave my so long I'm just sounds good to me he's gonna want a female to match that he's not a lazy man he's a hard-working man he's a clean man we have nestlings with the other day and you know I've been in the theater we told you everybody's gone so I come outside come out to the house I'm looking in the kitchen as a big Danny Washington dishes did and he said yeah how you know cuz he's so meticulous the way the spoons were perfectly lying to us nobody does dishes like that my point is he's a clean making so he's full-on a female this is it's true it is brothers one it was gone how much baggage all right so I'm saying that sisters to say we got it we've got to make sure we look like something that should be in the next [Applause] we keep it both ways men have expectations too and they got relationship I don't want to struggle I don't mind if I get was sunny in things happy that we're building yes this play on but and I'm not looking for Alexis I'll why do you want to think that I'm materialistic because I have to buy my book about shortcomings and I'm real about you know who I am so I just I'm just saying what at what appointment because when he was speaking it was making a lot of sense so for me I'm like well at what point will I say no you know you know she will you'll find help there could be a man that will appreciate we won't leave the man there will be there is a man that's gonna appreciate the woman that you are and he'll be at that standard and save a few days there's there's a man that first of all were women of God and so if we're talking about that he promises us that no the thing will he withhold from us that all the rights in his work with me he promised me that we deny ourselves and until yes desires of my heart so these type will give you something that's not gonna match where you are and where you have to go [Applause] [Music] [Laughter] [Music] [Music] and you know it's just much so how do you balance that way it's like you know you want to chill do you what at the same time you know you put an age at this time I'll send em in maybe in love but love love disappeared when you're doing especially about the one that and wait wait spear brother seven down losing your dignity connect I'm really sure like I'm saying me we got I know we by hanging now we have missions like we thought that we built this we know what we know everything about it but now because I like this person [Applause] [Music] I'm gonna show y'all the conversation develop that all right y'all didn't we said this table we just talking these are the board we never this we got right so typically the list goes something like this right here they gotta have this person [Applause] [Music] [Music] [Music] we need you we're gonna prepare you with that list so marked in your friend I'm your friend that that's your 10 [Music] when we check check check check check check check and the only thing that's not checking what you won't build again we may not say you know that's just a matter of that she said oh man conquers I think this is especially perspective relationships but a question I had when in a friendship or porch how do you know for determining what's our own feelings and you got like the period period period personally we are not like the training period like I like our conversations I like you know I can eat in silence with them and I can be in homage in the like the person and that's not surgeon or harvest it's just it is what it is you have a mic for the person that there's no pressure they'd like you though miss embolus you know conversations are easy and and things in common it's not trying to try to thank you okay yeah I think that was the coldest you see them maybe what I hate that big my look he was still she also I would say that number one is that you just have to like the person you have to like being around easy I had these put this on the highway bed like [Applause] so you want I knew one person that's the easiest flow just he said so you don't mean he had only restaurant that they show this one getting closer and closer and I'm feeling it and so I so it's not one to say this because this is real that in and you know where you can you know Jim pastor you need to know us and not storm us so yes he was married before I guess there you know yet had first before those whole life stuff so he when he knew we were getting serious he wanted me to know everything for myself so he called us were pastor was in Bakersfield and said I believe I want to marry again and I want you to meet my future they don't they tell people this pastor was a didn't know I would have nothing to do and he said I'm just asking for moment we draw Bakersfield I let this bastard tell me about the man who stood at the same time I'm back at the end of the pastures stop literally the slab and he pins in the past them he said I'm not taking this with me that my future perish he says so whatever Vince's eyeballs I saw he said look this isn't one that I love and I would spend the rest of my life the pastor started off saying a number of pieces sir I'm sorry I cannot see that it is going we talked you talked the pastor literally stopped to set things up I'm hearing the father's telling me that the sea before didn't fall the right round the Polishness it's going around now you want a living lest he said that's just the Papa told me to pray and to pray for both of you for your prosperity he said it's still not here please believe me I want to see this old restaurant took me to the old restaurant that you saw I'm at the owners so I could give the real story of what happened before we did a whole lot of clearing we did a whole lot I can get my own understanding before I said I do we're not going to talk about what he went through on this [Music] this we will talk about the persecution and we will talk about the past is that literally threatened like in his face right right there and this wasn't once this was several goodbye immature baby boom we hope we will talk about that coming it's not family and getting respect for right there and going to my brother and saying to my brother I know you don't think I'm the one for your sister when he said like Jacob I work 14 inches [Applause] so our chart rise together of silence three hours are sitting together of just talking and talking he took a lot right getting him he did a lot to let me know out worth fighting for and and the healing for me was because nobody knew my pain because I had to be a hero to the church I was [Music] [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] because you know she had that birthday we look deeper we have learn how to do a little deeper red God did she get some sickness and always did that dude so she gets sick Archie was was trying to learn a little bit working and just what she looks like I talked to you conversation [Music] [Applause] [Applause] my footage of the more popular as long as I'm just getting a boner goddess to a playlist because like having whatever dude and liking tribal and harmful to children what I wanted to get that the same science August 2 materialistic stuff that had I would say I was saying Cameron that the only thing I would caution caution you is because things can have that include those or not have the ability to have the materials and things I would say thanks to say this that never left the material things be your resemblance of being the man that you don't need so Jose was a perfect so now I can't tell you all the blessings that he's gonna have of your life and God can start you with all those blessings but God will try you in where you are with your walk accounts so I would say to you that as you are rolling into the event that guy was less of you to be there's that variety remain identity must be that God is my identity that's what happened to Joe he was the perfect and upright man so he had tried in them and this blood prosperous nobleman and the city restrictive Royals of cancer and clip outside the city and left with lost all the strands all of this family and it took Jim why did that go for God to make him understand that would be you came conducted and obviously when he repented and James himself got doc turned around the gave all back seven times greater so God can bless you when he also will try you so that he can always be the center of world gap you are a very to me personally because I believe not series I've got a little seriously person I'm really really not I love my state I'm not a materialistic person I like nice things I said don't you know I like this you are an amazing artistic man your art is amazing which tells me that you are creative and so I monitor you all of your life and I've understood your your transition and your evolution because I will you create I also will the challenges of whom you're creative and when you're talented it's almost like you've ended up you cover the jack of all trades and master them because you're so talented and you're so great and even though in so many ways so I would say that it will take them to anchor you so that you'll really know what is the one talent that he's asking you to use that will be your door prosperity but your car something these blessed you with is amazing at such a young age but that is not who you are and that and they don't move and then uh lady you know you're not going to do the console faith that you ain't got good stuff but you'll know she's into you and not into yourself google it and it's because you can't fake personality you can't fake personality and she's going to care about you can and she doesn't care about your well-being and she don't care about you being a better man a real a real smart girl for your choice will almost be just the opposite and she's having some materialistic things at all because she'll make and that create the party to stand up [Music] [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] you have [Applause] [Music] I like drinkin with a cross small component nothing okay so the person is what is for but what like the final question like what does that look like you wouldn't what is it and then in courtship okay houses next to and then English oak wooden to you just like whatever they get boundaries so I I mean obviously like for kitchen all that it's like all the way up everywhere the little girl a clerkship so you know that's a good question that I'm going to tag back to Dana that for me the name of it is as a pastor the challenges because people are I don't really expect such the Georgia to come and get my permission to go out let me break it down my point is different stages right and she's a bona fide wrong so there's a certain level of maturity and respect she's been there done so but for yelling coming up because the Bible said flee youthful lusts I know that temptation is greater at all ages and finding there's not none of the next but it is what it is finally it was about temptation and things at certain ages that well when I tell you that we genuinely care about our little people destiny and all of our singles and all of our gun results and older adults and starting over again we don't want to start over again and again and again and again nor do we want you to get so far into it and neither can hear us and that's where y'all go I just say why I'm company you can't come to me and tell me you got a date I'm trying to wedding date one just don't lock me down like that I'm glad to say this matter right into wife and me don't lock me die like that don't flip that back against the wall to approve your engagement when I didn't even know someone's going down so we put pop that and then go baby right the bad guy or something in the truth is I love them so much on my bad days I'm timing I came out with it so wardship any level should be the friendship and it should be light and it should be easy and it should be fun the video what stage you are right assisted Jarrah and I mean this is she's more mature more mature women and then I've got probably he's more mature middle or the back you know they don't have all this and I'm I doubt me that you do or you don't my point is y'all been through the thrill of the love my stage not that you don't love it dinya you don't get what I'm saying they have different perspectives and then there's the sexist sometimes it's just some penmanship there's somebody that's easy to talk to this I'm tired one home alone where is your is this money will camp be with me in my head my point is there's different stages of worship I appreciate though that she will just be coming it's extremely appreciative to me when you do say something cuz I can pray with you I'm not against you I want you to be happy stop pray with you okay well that's great with that I tested that how many live in two years we talk traditional eases that you'll talk wanna be with that person at night and 11 o'clock and it will be and as some [Applause] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] push into our Bowl and if I dare to dissect an update.we back a hundred and old marriages that the Lord had blessed us to put together are still together [Applause] great because we're trying to get marriages no joke it's no joke you don't want to wait to go waste online and then we come to the phone kiss smooched did all that and now who focuses on preparing okay cuz she took part long so you wanted to want to have it a decent you know relationship that there's boundaries that how about this we don't know the quote keep your emotions in your pocket but it's keep it then it got here no I can walk keep the data don't make me do so fun right now I practice look at me no cuz if you won't break down and cry you going up on to five until you get all three lights question sisters brothers and I don't need to take this better than I can as dr. miles would roll our five godmothers right doctor said courtship is just that its core team that means that person need Cumberland assembly lab everybody that knows you and love you and they should be on the hot seat to see are the right block taken the L say [Applause] [Music] brothers or sisters don't I like the way she talks about heaven 2x I saw her out of her she didn't so that's my thing is that you should build your boundaries and you don't let yourself get in uncomfortable positions and when you feel yourself in too hot you can - no - if I might I don't police I have tied that but you know it's just that you own tribal tribal so we did coordinate someone praying for your family and their team Terry be that a person on your behalf because my interest in vice versa right so if you supporting someone you bring her on your family your friends they supposed to grill it suppose that asking the hard questions and you're supposed to stay in groups because your girlfriend is supposed to tell you when you walked out of the room I saw it check it out oh that's real that's what is about the future if he's successful I'll keep you to themselves and not around girlfriend we already already got you it's just a matter of time hand on the shoulder and it will be interrogated or people that love you and by the person you know we don't stand so that's how you know if somebody is into you the physical part of you but think into it the future of a part of you if that question makes sense though I know you know I think going back a little bit disrespects us - sometimes we know the rule of hardcover so hard to get still works brother say girls saying does play a part thank you it still works and I think grossly they were just too easy or just too easy you want to still hold and have some boundaries that centers I'm not easy and I would say buy back the days are hard to get but I learn from him they told beat Baker on that the reason why it's good man is because he trusts you then another man can't get you that means neither brothers awakened up so how do you know when a guy or girl is into even I would say because they pursue you and baby spinach I think respect is huge and as my husband said when you have to die that respects your values and morals and what won't be on that deck that's what he did with me what's he doing out faster but um that made me get my attention because I wasn't fearful of being around them I wasn't afraid usual try to hit on me I was afraid as well make gypsum you see I said because he recognized my boundaries and my father and all of that and he stayed within those parameters so I was saying part of that is the person says I respect you enough I'm interested in you enough that I respect your space and I'm still here Germa pure pure pure your whatever did run me away I've seen you and vice versa so that's what I would the whole thing so if you don't have values but that in our favor our baby so approaching man you don't have about where you keep your batteries but trust there in his favor so going to any courtship if you put your ballot and and know it's time to be you gotta push against oh no fish against over gates we're gonna call me Bluff right I'm saying we're gonna try and push beyond the boundaries if you'll hold your boundaries then the respect comes in when we back up and we honor those boundaries and then we say to ourselves it took me this long your girlfriend's that you go to did that I mean how many phone call they got back only waiting all day when does one let me get down to pick up clothes I like your shirt pink because she didn't have how about [Music] [Music] [Applause] what do you say I would say only that honesty for our daughters that are first of all we don't stop that it's a panic thing we won't do that we won't put ourselves a panic mode like the clock is ticking when God's lock never stops ticking so we won't live it on a panic mode but I do I do believe that for us to even a pair I don't think not putting yourself out there but knowing that I want to be married and that I hope to be very then I would probably always display myself beautifully and not I'm not trying to make it work what I'm trying to say I can't [Music] so [Music] [Music] [Applause] so that's why we say we're mature women I mean in all honesty you know you know I didn't mean that get out you know he was at a five-star restaurant and so that was my caliber he was the chef of a five-star restaurant I was so Johnson resolutely somebody but it was a man of the last hour - already that caliber we have never suffered but when we've no struggle with callipers of life the story was think you see what I'm saying so that I would give them hit it as this doesn't that stupid burger said get out and I'm saying well you should be a glass tower restaurant you see what saying he was already dead so every Californian looking for you got be where they are so your caliber is doctors almost you become a nurse I'm just saying you do that we have that hammer so it is tough guys that's tonight say but I would be anything you can't look like I let go get there that's what I'm trying to say I want our young women to fill my giant minimizer no matter always be beautiful you don't know where this will be a big ship up just like Jeffrey Browns 4548 but without oh and Pete when he stopped her for ticket no some guy they complete the [Applause] [Applause] you just have to be ready that she was in her pants a nice day and so I control my mind she married recovering definitely get together he didn't have hops at time he's been there before he was a man of the shard only did not they got beautiful thrift 1000 home that they did together as he will start [Applause] tearing thinner so you just don't know so our sisters origami simply comes to children now how do you go Marcus give you compete that lot less fearful Sunita unless you have a baby exactement there's always an action I'm just saying but the point is you know game boxes you can be right I will share plans to die I don't know what she can see that children like what if her desires have been fulfilled and she is happy there so I just wanna the encourage I remember the Wold Angels of Death ya know laughter let's give our daughters would like no I'm in class a lot important and decide that with the price of brothers leader [Applause] whatever whatever some of us are owned in and some of us are not matter to material despite goodness I hear it so what you want to do is make sure the whole your smell so and some of us have decided to marry certain kinds of men and if you desire that then you don't fix yourself inside I think more so than mascara and I could care less about me I might you know I'm just family this airing so like that that's wrong with a lot of times it covers you up we need to know you're hurt get that first and then you know I mean you're not going to have a good relationship unless you're whole everybody [Music] [Applause] if you're not whole systems Edwards do not look for this man to make you all the brokenness something happens in our life if you're not cold then you don't want to either way never female you want to be home with Jesus to the first the first one is what are your thoughts on online dating fight and then the second one is what if the man or woman is not saved but I think then you run the risk of being unequally yoked not i'ma deal with that unequal yoke and it was just cuz I've moved time zone this will be a long time that when you marry on evenly build that you all this man or woman does not know Jesus but you know Jesus I'm not gonna say this is what I have said before I am NOT going to tell you that Kate work but I'm going to tell you you are gambling you're gambling with your marriage because the Bible said be not unequally oh the story of that started with the Caribbean the Corinthian church is going to be other the creatures and the Romans they're all going together they began to keep their relationships with their friends in the world that's what they kept their relationships with their sense of the world and there's not very good impulsive wait wait wait wait you're a believer time he says you can't marry someone that's a non-believer because you are people you know so what God's telling you if they don't understand who God is they're not going to understand where you're going I were thinking what who they tried what our ties why it's fun people ego and I have to clear as a leader when you challenge that's embedded then what a marry someone that does not know the Lord Jesus Christ as their personal Savior you're asking me to marry you and gamble at this whole world I am and I don't do it when it comes to I might looking back that people wore for the women there was started by a young lady named diamond diamond was the sister of the 12 tribes June diamond little Jenkins 12 son died up there with it was because I never able to battle someone that was my usual yes to God so that was not usual life but this man loved this man told Jacob I love her daughter would not stop I love your daughter and I want to marry tiny the brother Jing said no way you are an uncircumcised and the promises of Bob said my son wanna make it rock and not only is he willing to be certain but will be because I what the rate of married somebody that does not know Jesus because they may never know Jesus best estimate well the Bible said although still student and friend as he said let the ugly evil so he's already here let me believe be saved by the life of the believer yes so I already there I was already here but believer depart let them fall down that tells me they never get that means they may get converted we were already paired I've been saying my eyes wide open there are consequences now justice they are out of everybody's control when we make conscious decisions of gifts the Wills I will say to you to do what I did one time and write on the list what is it about them you light and what is above you know and then compare where that missing ungodly link is it's not spiritual spirit leg it's not spiritually the bombing it's not that it's just connecting compatibility not they are believers have got the same winning never happen unhappy we knew I was personally I just have a role with the Holy Spirit I'm wrong with I would have no father Phil you how to fill in the doctor than the doctor then just to get our watch so many things I don't want that the connect us and Exodus questions and that question so you know that's not I went to Jesus yet on the online to get scripture but I will but that's right now yeah it's not spiritual enough for me that's a personal opinion and you can ask the known pastor okay am I being green [Music] to understand I when you unpack your emotions you need to make sure that someone else overseen what you you want to start the leader but some of that that you trust that tend to choose some of that you trust you know I then again that question thing is Google people by yourself [Music] first day though you know if it takes ten days that every person that's different but you definitely should the first ten days I think I think it should be on him - I think you should wonder how to spend money you know and how much was he saying especially the whole thing is a believer so he should you want to see what his scruples are fortunate you want to see what his values are as well you know I would love to beat your master why you want to see where his smaller father as well let's see the piece of believe it if he's not but he won't understand the whole process [Laughter] and then if you really want to go there you can just be his name in my hair and I'll check it Wow this whole thing is as far as the eye and I had to tell my wish was that they loved that boy the name Ruby and it wasn't down he did but I ignored it in that setting so I don't that but as far as what we have any talk to younger younger women about dating my thing is now because next one I'll be 50 want to saw going into last week to church because I'm dating them in this light okay and then this is my work so then you see my court is if I see you come with my company the work come on and let go so my question is is that when I tell them as far as of course if I I'm trying to get this thing when you court despite okay this is the one so it has to be that this is the one that is to try worship as a try and it's when the person has passed the course of worship and again I maybe I just being over something but I respect I mean that's that's I was weird 13 years so I need to go go Chapel when I'm 12 and so people forgot that so what I'm thinking - I'm talking to my daddy's old friends so called jeez that's why some the party I take the stage momma ultimatum you feel what I'm saying so same thing so you're older [Music] because just be careful just watching that so yes it's different it's not a baby yes sorry good I have none of the game five questions some dude you should have except for you you my friend my colleague because again from the biggest fish upon the small so these children then mentor me in distance so that's all I am I don't have a church family so I took a bigger while they were drinking the expensive wines for the expenses to God and they had an after equation right and then we convene down together [Music] so again the Schomburg are not so you can teach me I get that right they was telling me what was best for me because they knew me that was the courtship they put her they interrogated her to embarrass you I said that you know from this [Applause] now that we've got a decent first layer of righteous relationships that we can kind of hold each other accountable that we believe we're sisters we're Brotherhood's it sends different stages different ages but we can kind of hold each other a certain level accountability that I got you and that you know Mike you know I said or right she was saying about Superman the whole thing with Superman complex example too much pressure man always wanted to be a superhero always you know Superman is part of Penn [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Applause] it's just listen not gossip on you and for those not so fond of you amen we look we have had ten marriages in the past to use in this and yes we will have a part two so because you know if you got a deal with leaky families together but we have remarried before that child and how those things come together you know relationships are much your single mom you know and this is man will be right for my child and I promise you all I can tell you that keep Jesus in the forefront they keep Jesus keep Jesus at the forefront of any matter brother journal to them keep Jesus on the forefront he welcomes you I know they got Jesus for real does Jesus will help out through Jesus all right they will try to be more offering if you think rxp marks the side note the most amazing birthday network just thank you thank you I take weeks okay this is not good Oh check that contains X 2 opening cards and stuff this is like a keep stretching it and then embellish it a couple cards on there all over the house and he throws it to the diving to finding things like this noon to rid of them but I do relish every single card every better every little low because you don't have to do anything so thank you very much the snatcher our vegan free-for-all I do hope that the singles of this house can get better you have that and I do with this update you have your dogs like sisters but that means she carries herself but she mops the floor and she is content let me throw that out but there's something even correctly our continued Teleca so there's a young lady named Robin Carol who does mission works all over the world she's in China she's in Europe she's all over the world she's never been there she has no desire to be there she's content then don't work class you have people that are like that and that's perfectly okay and that's the testimony itself she's not worst woman or Nathan nothing she's having all the time to smile all the time so whatever it is that you're stated whatever your snake is that's the price I kept trying to say and she brought that up you don't want to look old you don't want to look like you're not happy whatever stage you're in right now we happy be happy you know that God has the time of the multiple right person for you go out the driveway we thank you tonight thank you opened up so much of our understanding thank you for moving scale from our eyes I would thank you for allowing their word to come in and teach us and lead us and guide us that's why I ask your blessings that will be in front of father that they will follow a good route and that we will reform clean up healthy relationships here in this house rolling through there that we won't breathe our marriages that are out of your sight right yes she would give us of these sins and transgressions that will hinder the blessing I would give us for any desirable ways that without using in your sight well father we declare that from this night forward we will do nothing but bring forth fruit revive you have our day doesn't you have called us to bring you what fruits Oh father I thank you for fruitful heritage fruitful courtships fruitful relationships have rupal families we declare it so in Jesus's name complete this place that perfect recipe it is all around us in Jesus name Amen

Channel: Pastor Tamara Bennett

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Keywords: Pastor Tamara Bennett, Chef Q Bennett, Elder Quentin Bennett, Relationships, Dating, Courting, Sex, 2018, Love, Lust, Marriage, Divorce, Single, Spouse, Husband, Wife, Mate, Soul Mate, Soul Tie, Married, Women, Men, Couples

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Length: 185min 24sec (11124 seconds)

Published: Thu Feb 15 2018