Overcoming Fear of Judgement & Ridicule | Sadhguru

a man from Canada got a bit drunk in winter months he thought God is speaking then he went down on his knees and he said where are you speaking from if you do certain things you will be ready told me I feel that not of your judgment somebody else's judgment [Music] and you don't know what is their judgment first of all do they have the time to make judgments on you are they that interested in you to waste time making judgments on you but somebody made something may say something if you're you're completely in the wrong direction [Applause] a man from Canada got a bit drunk in winter months then he thought he will go ice fishing so he went and started cutting nice then a booming voice said there is no fish beneath this ice she just startled he thought God is speaking then he thought because he couldn't see nothing he thought maybe it's just a drink and again he started hacking at the eyes once again a booming voice said there is no fish beneath us then he went down on his knees and he said God are you God where are you speaking from the voice said I am the manager of the ice rink [Applause] [Music] you should do certain things you will be ridiculed but most of the time nobody has any time to think about you to make judgments about you to ridicule you they don't have time they busy with their own stuff you know if they get a minute there where are they looking at you they're not even looking at you anymore so you don't bother if you look little ridiculous and people laugh if they do is it in Isn't it nice that you're a source of joy for somebody at least I'm not saying you must make a fool of yourself all the time but it's all right once in a way to make a fool of yourself is very human yes you're always super correct this is a little bit of a problem this doesn't mean that you're right this means you're a little screwed up yes I'm always right doesn't mean you've gotten it it means you're just little screwed up that's all you're not able to see that is when you become ridiculous if you're willing to be ridiculous you will become very lovable a lot of people will fall in love with you because you're stupid really they think you're cute so don't bother about what somebody is thinking what somebody is thinking is their problem isn't it what is happening in their mind is their problem yes or no are they coming and telling you you're ridiculous that means they're very helpful suppose you're digging in the ice rink to catch fish somebody told you they're very helpful suggestion isn't it they didn't tell you you don't know what's happening in their mind why are you trying to read everybody's mind you must be concerned what is the quality of your mind don't worry about the quality and content of other people's minds it's not worth it I'm telling you exploring other people's mind it's not worth it there's nothing really worthwhile if you concern yourself of what should happen in your mind your life will improve if you're concerned about what he may be thinking what she may be thinking you will go crazy because you don't know what's happening it's all guesswork guesswork will drive you crazy on a daily basis if you do it isn't it so from now on you just look at this if you think you something is ridiculous don't do it if you think it's worth doing it just do it it doesn't matter somebody may think it's ridiculous I can make fun of anything in the universe this doesn't mean I'm against it instead of crying about it at least let's laugh about all the idiotic things what to do yes it's a choice you can do many you can see many stupid things in the world and cry about it or you can laugh about it your ability to fix it is better not that we can fix everything but our ability to fix something is better when we are in a laughing mode not in a crying mode isn't it so so you don't bother if somebody laughs you can join and laugh you'll make friends if you react you will become more ridiculous already you've done one stupid thing if you react to that you will become a permanent ridicule if you join with them and laugh they will help you out of something that you may be doing wrong possible but anyway most people are not thinking about you sorry to disappoint you [Music]

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Length: 7min 18sec (438 seconds)

Published: Tue May 09 2023