Our Entire Friendship Is A Lie / Unlock The Phone: You Got Caught! 🔓🤫Karamo Full Episode

today on Kama two former close friends I found out about you because I went through his phone one shocking secret Asia playing with me they dated the same man Asia I was with him from 2012 like you're still I am because basically you stole my man Vicky make sure you don't miss what happens plus he caught his fiance looking for love online I want you to know that no matter what I do I love you it's time to unlock your phone what will we find when we unlock her phone we found 20 photos that were in your phone all nudes of you welcome friends my guest Victoria found herself caught up in a terrifying game of cat and mouse with her man's side piece named Asia Asia blamed Victoria for her breakup and swore to take revenge Asia chased Victoria down in the streets got her fired from her job and even posted negative videos about her on Tik Tok things got so bad that Victoria had to file an order of protection against Asia Victoria is here and wants to set the record straight and hopes Asia can forgive and move on all right everyone let's welcome Victoria to the show hi how you doing good how are you you look super cute thank you I like this outfit H nice to meet you nice to meet you yes so Victoria tell me how did you in Asia meet me and Asia met when we actually went out for Q's birthday um we went to the strip club okay to celebrate him so I just want to be clear who is q q is my long-term lover so to speak okay um I have been on again off again with him since 2012 and then with Asia they just met maybe back in 2019 2019 and they had a relationship as well yes yes but neither of you knew about each other or did you know I knew about the fact that they were dating they were dating because okay so you're here from 2022 you and him are going in and out you then meet her and you built a friendship we did we were going out we were going to get our nails done we were going shopping going to get massages together ultimately really building a really good friendship but she has no idea that y'all have this long-term relationship since 2022 right understandable so how did Asia find out Asia found out because I had a friend so-called friend um basically tell her the nature of our relationship and how bad did things get things got really bad so basically um Asia was you know chasing me around you know with in her car you know cussing me calling me a and you know saying you know she was going to you know uh do things to me and kind of really getting violent and she posted some things on Tik Tok as well she did she called me out by name you know really derogatory things I mean I felt threatened by her because she was making all those comments and chasing me around and all these things to the point I had to go get a no contact order when was the last time you spoke or seen Asia um it's been about six months ago when we went to court for the said no contact order where I had this is really recent that y'all are still in court right but to be clear because I know my producers told me before that the judge threw out the order um the no contact order because of what cuz there was nothing besides verbal communication that I was able to prove that she did but she still did them got it so why is it important for you to address this here today ultimately because Asia felt like I was trying to be his side piece and and honestly whenever me and him came to Asia we were looking to settle down with a another partner that he wanted to kind of have in the picture as well oh okay are you still with Q today no I haven't talked to him in months because of the said situation well listen Victoria says her ex-friend Asia tried to tear her entire world apart after finding out that they both were sleeping with the same man it's been seven months since Victoria saw or spoke to Asia Asia is here so everyone please welcome her to the show you ass you was a l ass fat I found out about you because I went through a F uh you a you a loud ass you was never his you was never his ass dog you call me cuz you're a punk ass with me with Hi how are you I'm good so I so this is your first time seeing each other what was it that just got you so angry right there so quickly she just back here capping playing a Victor role she took me to court because she got in her feelings that I wasn't going to stop talking to him well she said that she said that you did things to her car that you tried to run her over that you did that you posted about her on Tik Tok you didn't do any of I did post Tik toks I yeah story time I absolutely did yeah you told your side of the story on Tik Tok yes I did seven part talking a are you suspicious of Victoria at first were you were you I was suspicious yeah why were you suspicious because he likes F okay okay what did AJ what did Victoria tell you she T me they was just friends they knowed each other for a while and they were just friends MH and you became close friends with her I did mhm and what was that friendship like I mean it was cool it was straight I mean I'm not from the city so me not being from out of town and it was good to have somebody that was getting money like me so we could go out what was C to you at this time and how did you meet him he was my living boyfriend living he lived he lived with me and how long you together at that point it had to be at the point I met her we were together for a good like eight months eight months so it's a pretty long term at that time yes and so when you found that out you didn't know he was in a long-term relationship with her no but the the funny thing is she even admitted that before he brought her across my threshold he said don't say nothing to her about it she knew from the gate she couldn't say nothing about it to me they and I told them both I iont I told them both in front of each other if I ever found out it was more than what it is y'all going have to holl at me like something like you feel like she was pretending to be your friend straight capping but to sit in my house in my presence sit at a dinner table with my mother and act like like you're a friend that is why I said she's a pope she's she's she's fool of she's a clown for that you brought some text message you want me to see I did can I see the text messages she keeps stalking me stalking me why am I here can these women deal with the past Asia I was with him from 2012 like you're still I am because basically thinking you stole my man viy make sure you don't miss what happens Q is my longterm lovers Asia they had a relationship as well yes he was never as he was never as to sit in my house sit at a dinner table with my mother and act like you're a friend she's a clown for that you brought some text message you want me to see I did all right he's still acting up we ain't talked since the argument really though facts that that's really not like him well next pull off a stump we go here we got pictures sooner than later you snooze you lose yes he moved on so I guess so you were confining her about your relationship as well exactly I understand now so you see that right there do you feel like you manipulated her at the time uh I felt like things were going on longer than they should have so it definitely seemed more manipulating and that's why I felt like Asia did have a reason to be upset so you feel the answer is yes yes that's a little bit of acknowledgement has she ever said that to you before no she always plays the victim okay so Asia how did you find out about the truth I went through his phone one day while he was asleep mhm looked at a test uh a thread and see that he was talking to her uh they were talking about going the hotels it it it was a lot it was a lot enough to confirm everything I felt was she a good friend to you before that moment she was she was a good friend she was mhm so Victoria you called the show to repair your relationship with Asia yes um what is it that you want to say to Asia Asia ultimately I know whenever me and you first met um and I know that I was not really truthful um and I was honestly enjoying your friendship I really was so I understand that you have these perceptions and I give you the the perception that you have because that was what I demonstrated to you at the time because I wanted a friend to do nice fun things together and US enjoy our our time time together it wasn't anything that I was trying to really do malicious toward you but I do see why you are upset and and why you felt manipulated and everything at first I'm sorry I really you know I strongly apologize to you but that wasn't my intent Asia it was really to um be a more understanding of what Q um was selling me at the time as well Asia what do you want Victoria to know so you came into my crib you sat there and used me too okay okay ain't no coming back from that bro ain't no coming back like from this day and I want to be so clear when I say this so clear crystal clear this is my absolute last last time talking to you about this bro okay are you still dealing with Q at all yes yes he closed my Uber door for me on the way here so you're still talking to him yes okay but he got his too well I want to take this to the comments cuz I know some people people in this in my audience got some questions about this who in the audience think that Victor was wrong for not telling Asia come let me come let me give your point of view all right so you think Victoria was wrong for not telling aan yeah I think it was dishonest I mean I I I guess I can understand why you said you didn't do it but after a while you should have came out and said it he should have too so I just hope you keep the same energy with q that you got with her because he was fou also he was living with you do do you keep that same energy that's a good point he worse he got worse energy so I even no so does anybody think that Victoria was not obligated to tell Asia you actually do come on now uh this is just a very complicated situation and uh there's only it's not that complicated well I mean it's complicated there's only one person getting out of the scotf free is what I'm saying he's pitting the two of you against each other that's why I brought up before we came through the comments about the fact that you're still talking to q and she saying that Q was telling her that hey we going to try to get her so she can be our third that's a lie that's a li that's the truth my truth that's but your truth you always hide behind lies I'm not I'm not hiding behind Any Lies that's you just want to basically Asia I was with him from 2012 yeah and you still you're still on it like you're still on it I am because basically thinking you stole my man Vicky hey y do not play with me cuz quit a I mean that's the truth qu play it with me can these women deal with the past she keeps stalking me stalking me why am I here you won't believe how this conversation plays out you're hurting and that hurt is being misguided the biggest thing to me is that he's not even here in between [Applause] [Music] y'all I went through his phone one day while he was asleep and see that he was talking to her they were talking about going to hotels it it it was a lot I was honestly enjoying your friendship so I strongly apologize to you this is my absolute last last time talking to you stole my man Vicky hey yo do not play with me cuz quit play with me the truth a I mean that's the truth quit playing with me bro that's the truth if you want to play you stole him when you found out all right there's more stuff going on that you aren't going to be accountable for so a so I'm going to tell you right now so I understand completely the hurt that you feel you were manipulated 100% you deserved more respect than that when she walked into your house I would have similar anger and pain in me if someone that I thought was a friend was sitting in my face and doing this so I want to let you know I understand what you're feeling but what I don't get is why still continue your relationship with Q it's not a relationship so what is it we still are we're still or romantic got so that so my question is that if I'm going to forgive him why is it I can't forgive her now I can understand if you said to me right now I am done with Q I'm not talking to Q I promise you I promise you what would be coming out my mouth right now is Victoria you are crazy for sitting on the stage trying to ask this woman for forgiveness that would have come out of my mouth if you would have said to me I'm not talking to q no more but the minute you let me know you still talking to him I'm I'm like I don't I don't but see even that I don't get I don't get why you're so angry there's beef there because everybody knows whether it's right or wrong when you absolutely love somebody you tend to maybe be a little bit more lent but at this point she was nobody to me so it's easy for me to just write her off and she keeps stalking me like she keeps stalking me why am I here why am I here well well you're here you're here because she she wants to she she did Apologize she could did that in the court the day after like only thing I can say from it is for anybody young out there with friends if you got something like this going on tell them tell them okay this is a dangerous game you cannot play with people's emotions like this get that but I can also see how you're hurting and that hurt is being misguided and that's the truth of it hurt like crazy I know you are like I sat there in silence for hours I felt betrayed I felt used Li to manipulated but do you realize and recognize that the person who truly play with your emotions is cute absolutely 100% 100% he play with both of our emotions 100% And I'm not going to sit here and say that he didn't I'm not I'm I'm not cuz to a sense I know that you you there's a sense of like I'm in control because you said we're we're kind of romantic but you still having an emotional involvement with him and so there's there's an ability for him to do this again to you because your guard is down with him but it's up with other women and so when your guard is down with the wrong person and and I'm only saying this not about a friendship with Victoria because I can already see you are upset you're done with this but I do want to make sure that I'm not going to have you leaving here having all this hatred in your heart not realizing that there's a man that is still not treating you the way that you deserve to be treated absolutely absolutely and you're forgiving someone who betrayed you and hurt you and who actually was trying to manipulate you even more than her because he was trying to convince her to like get get in there let's figure out how to sneak in there so that we can have our little threesome or whatever like like there I know you said she likes to play the victim but to some degree she's a victim too because the same way he's gotten in your head the same way he got in her head and was like hey when you get in this house don't say nothing and so all I'm trying to say the biggest thing to me is that it's interesting that he's not even here in between y that's right because at the end of the day like Q should be sitting right here so I can talk to him yeah because I trust me he ain't goingon to be able to manipulate me right and I'm I'm going to be able to get him to give the truth and so I I don't see this I'm going to let you know you said your apology you said your peace I think the best thing for you is to just own that she's hurt and that there won't be a friendship and I will tell you this much to say yourself any future hassle I know you've had a relationship with Q since 2012 on and off and I know there's attachment there to some degree while he's messing with her do yourself a favor and stay away stay away stay away stay away but in the same vein as I'm telling her don't press push no relationship I would just encourage you to say let me think about where I'm channeling this anger and is it serving me I really want you to seriously ask yourself it's not I can tell you that I can tell you you know it's not serving you it's not you know but I'm in the process of moving on and trying to find my life and all of that good stuff okay and I appreciate that but I can tell you that growth is not going to happen until you get rid of Q all right I'm going tell you that I'm me tell you that point blank because if you're the seed if you're the seed that needs to Blossom he is the shade that is keeping the Sun from um shining down you understand that understand that okay I mean you're Fly you're Fly and I just don't want this for you and hopefully you'll both take my advice yeah good luck to you both okay all right stay with us friends we'll be right back with more he caught his fiance looking for love online I want you to know that no matter what I do I love you it's time to unlock your phone what will we find when we unlock her phone we found 20 photos that were in your phone all nudes of you stay tuned you are the get off my [Applause] St so a few months ago my guest Troy says he caught his fiance Christina having an online affair with a guy on Tik Tok and after confronting her they decided to leave it behind them well he's realizing that he can't get over it and he thinks she is still having a relationship behind his back so today we're going to unlock Christina's phone to find out what's really going on but first we got to get this story so everyone please welcome my guest Troy to the show hey Troy how you doing man yeah nice to meet you yeah how did you find out about this affair that Christina was having on Tik Tok I was having a birthday party for her on her birthday and uh actually she was drinking a bit and I think drank a little too much and uh I overheard her talking about it to people so it kind of sparked the sparked the the thought you know so later that night when she fell asleep I decided to look in her phone and uh yeah looking I ended up coming across some stuff on Tik Tok you know and I was pretty shook up about it when I seen it it really was a shocker and what exactly did you find um so I just found videos conversations what do you mean by videos uh just like typical Tik Tok videos but specifically made to a person I guess you could say so sort of like we're making the Tik TOS for me to send to you directly exctly yep exactly you know and did the text messages say like hey we it was so fun sleeping with you whatever what what were the no he's uh the person lives pretty far away but there was some planning talk of planning a trip in the future it's not just innocent flirting exact now we're making a plan exactly okay so how long were you together at this point when you saw this uh was actually pretty recent we were together about 10 years at that point what did it make you feel like when you saw those messages cuz now you been together for 10 years yeah you know um it was rough man you know and I have a past I you know I was with someone during my high school days and a similar situation happened to a a much larger extent yeah um so you know it brought back a lot of bad memories of just you know pain and stuff and just feeling disrespected we have two kids together so a big part of it was you know like thinking about the kids and you know what's going to happen from here on out how did you let her know that you knew um so I didn't know how to bring it up to her so I screenshotted some of the messages and actually put it as the background on her phone so so when she woke up in the morning you know that was the first thing she seen and I actually left to go to the store I've heard a lot of things that is a brand new one I have never heard anybody do that so that kind of started the conversation you know and um there was kind of some blaming at first right off the bat like you did this you know this is your fault type thing she's blaming you yes yeah yeah and you know I know it's kind of like a defense tactic I think you know but that's not the right way to handle it and it hurts you know I want to go back what did she say um of why this happened um basically that I was just distant you know I worked a lot she felt like she wasn't emotionally attached to me as much as she wanted to be and so she was looking for it elsewhere okay um you know and I work a lot you know 16 17 hour days some days and my part is working as much as I can so that she can stay home with the kids you know and raise them you know and that's my been my ultimate goal how do you feel like your affection is different than the way she she gives affection well she's a very um emotional person she's I hate to say clingy in a bad way cuz it's not you know she likes a lot of affection you know cuddling and stuff and I am more yeah cute couple yeah um I'm more of a uh a distant person like I in my head I just know we love each other I love her you know I'm definitely at fault of not maybe showing enough affection all the time for the type of person that she is so my producers told me you don't like your wife's job yeah yeah um what's her job uh she's actually a lingerie model um and she uh I found out she had an only fans as well um and a lot of so let me stop you right there you said you found out she had an only fans yeah yep okay so you're in a 10-year relationship yeah and she didn't communicate with you hey this is a choice that I want to make how do we feel about that how's this going to affect our F family yeah first of all I love her she is my woman you know I don't want everyone else to see her in that aspect you know like revealing yourself in that way on the internet I feel like could bring more problems we're we're a family you know we have kids I don't want that out in the open have you told her this how you feel about this yes yes I and what did she say um you know she agreed to a point but in in in her eyes she kind of says it's more of like her dream and her passion and so it's not fair to me to try to get in the way of that do you ever say things to her that you wish you could take back definitely what do you say I don't want to be with you you know and then I'm like I'm going to leave you you know and more of an argument aspect you know of kind of just back and forth that's a pretty hurtful thing to say no definitely definitely and I hate that I said things like that and I I hope she does too she says she does you know 10 years do you still believe she's the right one for you I do yeah you do why um there's a lot of Pros to her you know she's a very uh emotional person which is where I also lack but I also love about her because she is an emotional person um she's a great mom you know and I love my children and she's fantastic with them you know so what do you need from her to make this work work um trust trust back you know trust y y uh and how do you build that trust um you know just proving that you know something like we what we just went through would never happen again and it wouldn't still happen you know or still be happening you know and um so that's why the stakes are big because you want me to unlock our phone to see if things are still going on exactly if things are going on what type of decision are you willing to make today I won't sit around and allow it so okay well listen everyone Troy wants to keep his family together but he is having a hard time trusting his fiance Christina she cheated but swears it's over I think it's time to find out the truth once we unlock her phone but first let's hear what's going on from her everyone please welcome Christina to the show I had somebody showing me attention will this 10-year relationship end you know he's never not once told me I'm beautiful really what will we find when we unlock her phone we found 20 photos that were in your phone all nudes of you stay tuned no one does nosy better than me photos we found 378 photos good what he do cuz I don't know how he S A years of snooping okay I know you nosy too head over to nosy where you can watch full episodes of the caramo show and be nosy with me when she fell asleep by just decid to look in her phone so I just found videos to talk of planning a trip it's not just innocent flirting exactly when my producers told me you don't like your wife's job she's actually a lingerie model revealing yourself in that way on the internet I feel like could bring more problems we're we're a family you know we have kids everyone please welcome Christina to the show hi Christina how are you doing thank you for being here for thank you yes of course so why are you here unlocking your phone today I actually don't even know why I'm here to lock my phone because I thought you know we were past you know this part tell me about start getting emotional no no no worries it's it's hard this is your your your family MH so tell me about that online relationship you had oh man it's just a Tik Tok crush it wasn't you know anything too crazy I mean like like anyone um that would find someone kind of attractive on Tik Tok you're like oh I'm going to follow them then you see that they follow you back and you're like oh oh man they must kind of like me you know well at that time I was like like you know really emotionally um just overwhelmed I felt really alone um Troy's not very like he's not a very um emotional person there is lack of like attention for me you know when we first got together he was like I mean I was his everything and over the last you know years of being like you know a mother to his children I just felt like I didn't have like that support from him anymore that love like you know he's never never not once told me I'm beautiful through our 10-year relationship really um he doesn't like post me on social media and that's what I do I'm a social media influencer you know um I post myself so I can have like you know feedback from people to know that I'm a good person I had like really rough growing up so like you know knowing that I can do something in my life and come from nothing makes me feel really good about it yeah I understand you know um do you wish that Troy would have found out about the online relationship from you honestly probably not just because we're not very good at communicating I think that it would have like been more um it would have been really hard for me to bring that up it was something that I was kind of trying to hide you know um something that wasn't it I was being sneaky and I shouldn't have been but at the same time I just like really needed attention at the time were were you thinking about him at all during the situation I was thinking mostly like you know this is wrong guilty feelings um but at the same time I felt really good you know I had somebody showing me attention somebody you know talking me up um like I said we've never been on a date he's never like called my dad and said you know can you please watch the kids so I can take Christina out yes to an extent but I think a lot is is left out in the aspect of It kind of goes back to my working and my working shouldn't be my excuse and I should do more but we've been kind of in this build mode in our relationship for 10 years now you know we started with nothing you know and it's really been like a mission to reach goals you know but just because you're building doesn't mean you can't tell your wife she's beautiful yes that's very true and I definitely lack there on I definitely you know I should be doing more you know and I think that I do get tunnel vision and not just with my work but with Hobbies the Hobbies take weeks you know sometimes he'll get into something building something and he'll be out there every night all night and you know I you know comes to like house chores and things I need help with he's not he's absent so it's like I feel very overwhelmed I feel like sometimes I'm a parent when it comes to like those things I mean he's a great dad you know he's a great dad um just like being absent as a partner you know I feel like sometimes we're more roommates a big thing that has gotten in the way of that is friendships and not that friendships are bad but more friendships are it's Halloween and um instead of doing more than just some quick trick-or-treating you're going to the bar with your friend I think I go out and I want to go hang out with my friends and I'm gone a lot because I don't get attention from him I understand so when you're doing the photo shoots did he tell you that he wants you to stop U well when we first got together it was more like a oh that's what you do you know and I'm like you know when I first started it was very like small it wasn't anything I was just a regular person trying to get my name out there and now it's like progressed so much you know it was more later on the more you know even like as time progressed the internet progressed as well you know and so the more the pictur the more it just started toate more fans I also kids now come in the picture I understand those the mindset do you feel like this relationship is right for you I do I do I feel like we have a lot to work on I feel like we're really compatible as far as like you know um our parenting skills the love we have for each other I mean I know that I messed up I know that I you know did something I probably shouldn't have you know but there's been some trust issues in our relationship not just from my side you know but from Troy as well oh so you've done something to break the trust will this 10year relationship end I want you to know that no matter what I do I love you it's time to unlock your phone what will we find when we unlock her phone we found 20 photos that were in your phone all nudes of you stay tuned you are the get off my St you know he's never not once told me I'm beautiful through our 10year relationship we've never been on a date I feel like sometimes I'm a single parent sometimes we're more roommates there's been some trust issues in our relationship not just from my side you know but from Troy as well oh so you've done something to break the trust yes I've spent money um fin Financial infidelity and yeah I did you know um so you spent money on another woman no no no no um no just just stuff like U my hob and stuff just not say on yourself let's just say it was like $3,500 that I calculated all in one I mean every day he was going to the bank grabbing money out so got it okay for this and like what are you spending it on you know not things for the house it was things for himself you know selfish things do you get upset when you think about being with him yes I do because I don't know where I would be without him I don't think that like I would even be able to be here today without him you know why do you feel that way um just cuz he's helped me so much you know financially supported me emotionally but he's always still just held my hand and told me like good job I'm proud of you even though I know he feels you know some type of way sometimes but I just you know I want you to know that no matter what I do I love you and all I want from you is just your attention and I just want you to love me back like I love you okay you no I'm sorry I'm a cry baby no no no worries no worries what I but the thing before I can even give you any of my opinions on any of the things that I heard today I think we need to get to these phone results first so I'm your phone all right Christina we went through your phone to look for apps to see if you were talking to anybody else we also went through photos locations and text messages part of the locations I want to be clear is because you were worried that maybe she was seeing someone else somewhere else yes this a Tik Tok guy you want to see if there was any visits or anything yeah so when we went through your phone Christina the first thing we found we went through apps we checked for any suspicious things in apps and we found Zero apps when it came to photos we searched for any suspicious photos and we found 20 photos that were in your phone all nudes of you but they were never sent to anyone else they're for his eyes only all right when it came to locations we did find one location that was in a different state that wasn't your home state I don't know where you were and I don't know who you're with you know um it was either Minnesota because my grandfather passed away in 2021 do you know about this yes I or it was in 2019 when I did a music video with afan in Ohio do you know where this guy lives on talk um yes I do yes okay is it either States no it's not okay great all right all right so when it cames to text messages we look through your phones for suspicious text message between you and anyone else to see if there's anything that could be suspicious I did find 1,284 texts between you and the same person someone named Fester do you know who that is yes oh my gosh I'm so sorry he's our neighbor he's like he's like an uncle us okay he's a good friend okay makes sense we're just tell you what we found okay great that's your message okay great now there was one other text that after my investigator went through the phone that I wanted to see because I'm all big on communication and I found one text that was between you and Troy that I thought was pretty bad will this 10-year relationship end you have been neglected your entire relationship the emotional answer is next you say my husband never calls me beautiful and not once did you decide to turn and say you're [Applause] beautiful and we found 20 photos that were in your phone all nudes of you but they were never sent to anyone else I did find 1,284 texts between you and someone named Fester he's our neighbor I found one text that was between you and Troy that I thought was pretty bad we're no longer engaged I literally don't even want to be with you but for the kids sake I'm going to keep trying and just no I'm not happy period but there's a bigger symptom in this relationship that I saw and realized right there and I was listening and taking notes on what you all were saying here one of the first things I asked you is why do you think you're compatible and the only thing you could say to me was parenting Echoes what you said here only staying with you because of the kids I also asked you if you are happy you were like oh yeah wasn't convinced the answer for somebody who's been with some for 10 years I just sat here and watched you say several times my husband never calls me Beauty beautiful and not once did you decide in this moment to turn and say you're beautiful because there's a whole bunch about not having the same emotional bandwidth to be able to communicate maybe the same way she does she could be overly expresses but there's another thing about just showing common decency to your wife yes your wife has literally said you don't call me beautiful and not one bone in your body thought to turn and tell your wife she's beautiful even right now thank you you're beautiful I love you I'm G tell you this right now um and this is going to sound this might sound crazy to some I don't fault you at all for having this relationship on Tik Tok I don't fault you one single bit I don't and let me tell you why I don't fault you because if if even half of your relationship has been what I've seen here you have been neglected your entire relationship I do agree yeah I appreciate you agreeing because all I'm doing is just going through facts I'm not thinking about anything else I'm looking at what you said looking at what you've done and looking at what you told me about your past you've never gotten over trust issues you have a wall up do you want to talk to her about why you have this wall up I think I've never just acknowledged the wall I'm right here um [Applause] I think uh I've never um acknowledged it fully and um I know that it's there um I I know that it's there and it's been there a lot longer than you know since my my childhood um it's just one of those big walls that you can't get over you know and and and a big reason to why I haven't gotten over is because I haven't accepted that it's there I think yeah and um I think I need to look at that wall and climb over it it's okay bab I love you the fact that you would be able to establish and say yes I there is a wall and it's been there from childhood I don't know what happened to your childhood and I don't have enough time I wish I did to really go into it deep with you but there is something there let's just say we have a trauma Bond I believe yeah but part of that is I appreciate the acknowledgement but as you're doing the work to get over that that wall it doesn't give you a right to neglect your wife it [Applause] doesn't and your wife is screaming out for one thing just look at me give me a little attention make me feel good do you think I'm cute yes I do are you sure it's it's it's very interesting because the things that you're saying that you don't like they're a direct result of the way that she's being treated in the household when you start looking for things like attention from another man that's just an emotional connection there's not been anything physical that's because it's like I'm not getting it from you and this is not an excuse I'm not saying that you were you're just absolved totally but I I understand your point of you and I understand what it could be like to be a in a house where you're raising the kids where you're doing everything in the house and you just turn around and you're like I am alone I understand that feeling and how much that can hurt you so yes I'm going to figure out since I have this one thing where I can connect with people how I can figure out for somebody to say I'm good enough I'm beautiful I'm sexy I'm nice look at me like me love me I get it you you all have been together for 10 years and there has to be some new boundaries res set in this relationship there has to be a reset if he does those boundaries this doesn't give you a right to keep seeking attention from other people oh definitely so then you have to check your behavior yeah I just need your attention really you know I'd like to wear my laundry for you instead of everyone else got it boom I do wish y'all the best of luck yall going to be all right all right thank you everyone for being with us come back next time friends so we can keep talking and growing I love you [Music] [Music] [Music] up

Channel: Nosey

Views: 175,161

Keywords: Jerry Springer, Maury Povich, Steve Wilkos, Divorce Court, Judge Karen, Eye for an Eye, Judge Judy, Judge Joe Brown, Judge Faith, Judge Mom, Judge Dad, Judge Pirro, Judge Show, TV Judge, Free TV, Dr Sean, Sean McMillan, Lynn Richardson, People’s Court, Judge Wapner, Nosey, Nosey TV, Court Room Shows, Sally Jessy Raphael, blind date, 5th wheel, Trisha, talk show, talk shows, reality, reality tv, daytime, daytime TV, karamo, karamo show, karamo brown, queer eye

Id: Vo6OBL7lP0c

Length: 41min 37sec (2497 seconds)

Published: Fri Oct 06 2023