On attachment and detachment | J. Krishnamurti

attachment brings about a kind of emotional exchange a human warmth this seems a fundamental need detachment produces coldness lack of affection a break in relationship it can also deeply hurt others something seems to be wrong with this approach what do you say attachment brings about a kind of emotional exchange a human warmth this seems a fundamental need detachment produces coolness lack of affection a break in relationship it can also deeply hurt others something seems to be wrong with this approach what do you say I don't have to say anything you I'm attached to you the world attached means to cling to hold at the car at ASHRAE tell a girl come so the feeling that you belong to somebody and that somebody belongs to you to hold to cling to adhere like a plaster all that's implied in that world and the questioner says cultivating detachment net breeds lack of action a cordless a break in relationship the cultivation of the opposite natural it work you understand if I'm attached to you the audience and I feel this attachment is dangerous because I know I'll be unhappy if I don't meet all of you and talk to all of you which is my fulfillment which is called attachment then seeing the danger of that depression when I don't meet a large audience for me to people and you know I've got go through all that every business and seeing on that I say I must cultivate detachment so I must break from you I must break my relationship for a wife or a husband a girl or boy of authorities so gradually withdraw and in this process of isolation I thought others right had my wife or my father I heard lots of people and so now is there please listen is there an opposite to attachment if detachment is the opposite of attachment that detachment is an idea is a concept is a conclusion that thought has brought about realizing that attachment produces lot of trouble lot of conflict jealousy exams also so thoughts it but you much better be detached detachment is a non fact right whereas attachment is a bad I don't feel following on please don't go to sleep another 10 minutes or cotton I'll keep awake in the neutral zone or meditate often look the speaker has done this not attached to a thing how's the audience the books the speaking people he'd be like that from childhood so he's a freak biological freak so leave him alone but we can see clearly that the fact and then that which is not right that which when attachment is there to cultivate detachment is a movement toward solution and in that illusion you become cold because that's illusion it is a reality become cold how bitter isolated without any sense of affection that's what we are all doing we are all living in non-fact so can you face the fact that you are attached is not only to a person to an idea to a belief to your own experiences which is much more dangerous your own experience give you such sense of you know excitement sense of being alive so are you are we aware that we are attached to something rather and you may be attached to a furniture a piece of furniture is all polished well-kept 15th century Ang's means we beg you and you are a text see what happens when you are attached to a fine piece of furniture you are that furniture yes go into it so if one is aware that one is attached and see all the consequences of their attachment anxiety lack of freedom jealousy anger hatred follow the whole consequences of human attachment to something or other in that attachment to something there is safety there is a sense of stability a sense of being guarded protected and where there is being possessed and posit possessor and the possessed they must be jealousy anxiety fear all the rest now do you see the consequences of all not the description of it but the actuality of if I'm attached to you and that attachment takes place out of my loneliness and that attachment and that loneliness says I love you you understand I feel a communication because you are also in the same position right two people clinging to each other out of their loneliness out of their depression out of their unhappiness all of them you're all the rest of it so what happens I am clinging not to you but to the idea for you understand what I'm saying so I'm clinging to something which will help me to escape from myself right right says you'll agree with me just observe it you are attached to your experience an incident which has given you great excitement a great sense of elation a sense of power a sense of safety you cling to it that experience please listen to if you're interested that experience would you have had what is it either you are projecting it right you want some kind of experience and you will get it because that's what you want and then that experience is registered in the mind and hold it that is something that is dead you're holding on to right so what you are holding and so that which are holding which is dead you're also becoming dead I wonder if you see all this so if you see all this without any direction without any motive observe it then you will see if you observe that inside it shows the whole thing as a man when once there is the inside the thing disappears completely you're not attached you have been attached to this and let go and you are attached something else attachment is the ending of pain

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Length: 13min 35sec (815 seconds)

Published: Sun Jun 21 2015