Yes, they present themselves
A lot of them especially for him. Gosh! DMs Babe, they even send you nudes Have you ever seen them?
Women! Yes Have you ever seen nudes?
Yes By the way you are usually a very good person, very chilled There is no day in our relationship that you've ever diminished me, complained, or been angry I'm normally the one who is dramatic and that is why I go and come back. I have ever gone but I returned to where there was peace So today I'm here with Babe. Babe the last time we did this was a while back
I thought it's just normal Ours is like---
Once in a while
We were even asking ourselves about it It's about not showering everyday Because I actually don't like it but nowadays you are improving and you've learnt to lift your toilet seat up Let me say it in terms of material things, that would be my car Take a guess
Mmh, another car?
Yes, a bigger one And you don't do it nowadays
I have never cooked for you? Have I ever cooked again? When I remember that you lied to me that your hobby is cooking, you love cooking Oh my God! When was the last time you were in the kitchen apart from when you cook the the dog? You could have even pretended a little bit after you got me
But I had that passion in my heart You even told me in another life you'd be a chef
But in terms of my education I only went up to form 4, where would I have learnt how to cook? And why did you lie to me?
I didn't lie to you, I was talking about cooking cyprinid fish (omena) That is what we used to eat back in Mathare when we were going to school But it's not like I don't know how to
Then you should cook for me Then why do we have house-helps?
No, once in a while Be romantic
But you don't eat omena or fish and those are the ones I know how to cook Create time in your busy schedule babe
Don't I create time? He normally juggles selling clothes and doing other jobs, So, yeah, more time would be good As for you, you're good You know I don't talk much. I might say something little here and then we find ourselves trending on other things So you're good
You've said that I'm good? The fact that I don't overreact
Yeah Even if things get heated, whether there is pressure, my personality is always the same. I'm always cool and chilled Even before I make any decision or whatever I'm always relaxed, right?
True Did you know it?
And now I will lie on the ti**es. Awww! Did you know that about yourself?
No Do you remember the time we went to Kabartonjo, I don't know Kabarnet?
Oh, Kabarnet not Kabartonjo The place is called Kabarnet?
Yeah, Moi's home area
Yeah, that place We just went on that road trip. We were supposed to go and then come back the same day but it took us 1 week to get back I'll never forget that memory Was that the time you learnt how to drive?
That was the time you taught me how to drive by the way So for me my driving school was Seeds Academy Driving School You know for me everything sweet that I have ever tasted was cooked by you
Awww You were the one who made me eat pizza for the first time, I had never eaten pizza before and I was so excited that day I even preserved that pizza box for a month at Kamau's mother's place Babe, are you serious though?
I swear before God Even the potatoes that have meat inside, you were the one who made them for me the first time They are called cutlets
Yeah, those ones There are other foods that you normally make, as in you are amazing at cooking And that's why I wonder why you cook for us once a year Are you saying that Auntie doesn't cook the way you want?
Auntie doesn't use spices. Auntie only uses salt Auntie's is just natural
It's just natural man What would it be? You know English is also--
I think I'd say singing for me By the way do you know that you perform for people but the last time I heard you singing around the house was so long ago In the house I'm a husband and a father not an artist But you can always sing for me. I wouldn't mind being performed for, private show? You are a celeb and the fact that I know there are men who are always in your DM They think they are better than me. And they might ask you what you see in that boy And you are also beautiful so people are after you and I'm left thinking about how hard it is to marry a celeb Are you sure? By the way and vice versa You have done that I almost started developing health issues You thought my answer would be otherwise? And I feel like that is the biggest thing that I have an advantage in for marrying you And we have never given each other toxicity -without stress, conditions, and the mentality of 'I'm your husband' and all that. I love that honestly. You are like 'my boys' Gossip
I always want the gossip once you arrive, how can you fail to tell me But that is not my thing But babe you see now that you don't like gossiping, I'm the only person you can gossip with So you should make sure that you always tell me whatever is happening out there
About my boys?
Yes, about your boys So you want me to tell you things about my friends?
Yes Babe, surely! But I also tell you But you are the one who normally tells me
You also need to tell me Okay then, I will need better I feel like daily is for better for worse. But I feel like the one that really woke me up and shook me up was when you got into an accident I was like I might be here with you one minute and then the next minute you are not there When I think about that every day, I normally panic Oh my God! Oh my God! This man has safe answers There is the next question here, I have not liked it. You haven't seen me putting this card aside a little And I feel like they are so many such that I don't even have one special one because babe you sure do deliver Don't lose the momentum
So I should continue eating groundnuts? Yes, continue with that steam When Auntie is in the kitchen, we are getting it in the sitting room
Babe, you want me to send her away? In the kitchen, on the fridge, adventure with you hanging like this
Then Gold will appear like this Like daddy, daddy, what are you doing?
He will hang We are gonna try. I think we will just go on holiday by ourselves and live Gold with Auntie at home Let me tell you, I was so--I had so many emotions that I cannot even explain up to date But then every single day I was waking up and seeing you there and I would start imagining my life without you around Don't you see that I even stopped the threats of leaving you or going away? After that accident I started imagining like what! Oh my God! Man I don't even know--it was tough And I was seeing that you are depressed
I was going crazy What was running through your mind when you looked at me?
I was just seeing Jesus I swear I was just seeing God because when I looked at you I was seeing a miracle Because the fact that I was there is that accident, I knew what happened. Someone lost their lives So I was just seeing a miracle, I wasn't overthinking everything else but that is what I was feeling For me a lot of issues were running through my head and I was asking myself why God had saved me And when I looked at you I wondered whether it was because of you Then I looked at Gold and wonder if it's because of him Then when my mum came I also looked at her and wondered if it was because of her so I was just there And up to now I have never gotten the reason as to why I'm alive Babe I think it's because of us because I was telling God that even though this man annoys me at times, thank you for not taking his life Because you are really important to us, so much The time of the accident was the hardest but you were there Like the support, everything I was doing you stepped in and started doing them and I never heard you complain The hardest thing again is that I've heard so many scandals but you've been there all through The thing that people don't know is that it gets bad to the point that you even go back to your parents home But then God just helps this young man Say it is because of His mercies
Yes But for me I'd like to say that we've had so many hard times but I'm thankful that you are always very firm in fighting for me and our relationship We've never gotten to the point of giving up on each other. You really try so much to make sure that we are fine And that is commendable because it's not everybody who goes after you when you walk away But for you there is no day that you haven't come after me Hubby, you say yours first At the time he was born we were on the headlines because of a lot of things So that time when we opened the accounts, I had regrets But the funny thing is I never have regrets, even if we rewind it back to the time he was born I would still take him there again The key point is 'I will take him back there again'
Yes Because first of all the main reason we opened it was for business, you remember? He got an ambassadorship and all that so we just had to be there because we had already taken the money But nowadays we have even limited the times we post him there On his page he has so many fans
Yeah, a lot Allow me to confess today, it was always my dream to have a baby like me
Yeah A celeb, a public figure. So that even when he walks around here people know who he is The funny thing is a thought we'd have different answers but I feel the same way At first I was feeling regrets. At the time I felt like we had subjected the baby to bullying And the bullying was not even directed at the baby, it was directed at us
They were trying to attack us Yeah, because when you touch a child you touch their parents But right now I feel like even Gold himself enjoys it, he tells me mum shoot me and all that And then again he will turn out to the full potential that God has intended for him whether he is on social media or not If he becomes a doctor, he becomes a celebrity doctor, If a pilot, then a celebrity pilot so either way I have won Babe I feel like it's just the scandals that hurt me the most But one thing I have come to know and you're the one who taught me is that the noises out there will always be a lot, you understand? Because people can't fight us out there and we also fight here, like we won't survive it So we let this peace in here to control the noise out there You have asked this question because of that scandal Though that wasn't even a scandal babe. It was just an opinion There was an office where I went to for a meeting and one guy there asked me if I had even listened to the whole interview Then I told him no because I had only watched the one that bloggers had posted. So I watched the whole clip Tell me sorry
I'm sorry It's normal so I understood
Especially knowing how bloggers put out the story and to make it worse the comments I understood that and then we had also talked about that story and I had told you about it before so you overreacted the next day Yeah, I overreacted the next day even before watching it
After the pseudo accounts There are those people who come to comment
They had gas-lighted me And when you look at their accounts they have 1 follower or 0 There were like 2 comments there which made you react that way But for me, the first mistake I did was that I brought boys talk live on camera
Yes To start from there that was my issue with the men because they were like they couldn't disagree that I was telling the truth but why did I bring it on camera But for me I was speaking in general and then again there are a lot of stories about our grandfathers and a lot of other things But I think people misunderstood me
But what's your view?
For me I'm with you How long have I been with you?
I don't know--8 years I think it's like 9 years And again I don't even have the strength, yourself you give me a lot of--- If I add another one you'll kill me We'll help each other out Because you have dumped me a couple of times By the way you are usually a very good person, very chilled I normally feel like I can even serve you mud and you'll still eat it And you'll just eat it without complaining that it's bad, you'll just struggle with it And there is no day in our relationship that you've ever diminished me, complained, or been angry I'm normally the one who is dramatic, you are always chill even when someone has done something to you out there You don't bring the issues that have bored you here, as in you have peace honestly That's why I go and come back. I have ever gone but I returned to where there was peace They broke your heart
They didn't break my heart. My heart has never been broken except for you Me?
Yeah If you ask me what I regret in my life, I never have regrets I believe everything that God had planned in my journey of life is what God had planned So if I start regretting maybe there are things I could have learned Or there are things I have learnt or that have made me into the person I am today and if I had gone back and changed them I wouldn't be this person today So for me everyday I try to be a better person in the way I think and handle my things So I never want to correct--because whatever happened has made me not want to do the same thing again If I'm making sense
It makes sense First of all the name husband is normally heavy
You've never gotten used to it Like I'm someone's husband You know even me at times when I wake up and give you breakfast I'm shocked that I have a whole husband and a child and I'm like oh my God At times it gives me a panic like I'm getting old I think I have said a lot of nice things When I met you my life wasn't stable I was living at Umoja 2 and I had a lot of struggles because my music wasn't doing well I wasn't just doing well in terms of business and as a brand People knew me for sure, I was doing gospel music at the time but I just had struggles But when you stepped in you helped me to start thinking differently I started seeing life in a very different angle because I had already lost hope We moved to Ruaka and life was quite hard
Yeah But you were there for me so you've been there to encourage me, to give me a shoulder to lean on, to support me The journey started there and then we moved on to another place and we still had struggles even there but you never said--- I told you that you are a celeb and you are beautiful, even if you stepped out right now especially since we are near--- ---we are near that TV station and that big hotel behind here, and Central Police Station as well--- --so if you stand out there for just an hour looking stranded, Prados will pull up in front of you And the way people are praying for husbands but they haven't gotten them
I'm telling Right now if you decided to stop being with this young man and you decide to look for someone else, it will be so easy But the fact is that you have been there for me, you support me, you show me love, you're there for my people and family I feel like it's the BNN one, right? And people don't even know that before it went live you had called me and told me to brace myself And we overcame that scandal because It's like I said before, we dwelt on the peace that we have between us and we ignored the noise that was out there I think that was what enabled us to stand throughout that scandal because it was quite huge And the funny thing is after that scandal things started doing so well for you Oh my God! Things really did well for me
So much So when it came it really shook us but then again, man we made money Then you bought me a car, you bought me land so I think we should just say that things worked together for good You know I think I can say that my darkest moment was during that scandal. Did I ever tell you?
No It was one of---not even one of, it's number one when we talk about the dark moments of my life And from there I learned a lot of things because right now even if anything hits me--- That time I knew I was totally done because I had no way of redeeming myself and at that point people were seeing me differently That time I was so stressed so I went to the studio and then some of my friends picked me up and we went for a drive When we were around Roysambu, the windows were rolled down and we were listening to music--- --so some ladies greeted us and then asked me what else Edgar (BNN account owner) was saying at the time and that really affected my mood so much I felt so bad and I wondered if everybody was going to behave like that and then the fact that you're just walking and everybody is looking at you That was the time I decided I'd be walking alone and being by myself So mostly even nowadays you'll see me sleeping in if I have no work to do At that time I told myself that was my last one and if God got me out of that one nothing else can shake me And even up to date even if you bring anything But it actually damaged me in a way especially mentally, feelings wise and heart It damaged me such that right now I even fear people especially the ones that I don't know It's so hard to find me adding a new person to my circle Most of the people that I spend my time with are people I have known for more than 7 years and above What will you be talking about man? Yeah, I normally don't have a problem
I also have no issue, you can talk to your ex That person was once in your life and now you want to pretend that they don't exist I think people should be mature enough to know boundaries especially if you had already closed that bring then it should remain closed It's not a must that you talk on a daily basis but it doesn't also mean that you can't talk because he is an ex or that it becomes an issue Yes, they present themselves
A lot of them especially for him. Gosh! DMs Babe, they even send you nudes Have you ever seen them?
Women! Yes Have you ever seen nudes?
Yes
Oh my God! I almost added them to my stories and tell that person that the nudes they were coming to my phone but I pitied them A certain lady
Nudes?
Yes For real In your DM though I was told that my agemates were progressing while I was doing other things. Such comments
They are very boring The ones where you're compared with other people and one thing that people don't know is that I don't post everything online But someone else will comfortably post everything
True But it doesn't mean that I can't do what that other person is doing, it's only that I haven't posted
Or maybe you've even done it already So the fact that some people just sit and think that you're useless or you're just there Or why this other person is progressing like this while you're---I don't like such comments They make a person start working under pressure or working to prove a point
True For me I feel like the comments that hurt me the most are those where some people comment about you instead of talking to me directly So they comment about you or about Gold because I'm like if a person wants to insult me they should just insult me directly instead of involving the people around me Babe understanding is not an issue because you've always been 100% understanding so that has never been an issue at all You becoming understanding? Dealing with this one especially under pressure is a lot You can't even tell her that something has gone wrong so you tell her after I don't handle it and the problem is you always tell me after it has blown in your face When something happens you tell me after it has blown up in your face so you wonder how you could have told me so I tell you I had already found out But I still know that I don't handle it well Ask yourself how you would handle that thing or the business that has gone wrong if you were me, like that We are never consistent with our things I swear I wasn't something of something like that but 'the ape sees not his own hinder parts' That's a bad habit
Very bad We are consistent in our personal business but when it comes to a business that is--
A joint venture Yeah, it becomes difficult because we will do it this month and then next month
We'll stop
We start doing other things I know it's me that you don't trust with finances but babe I have improved unlike the time I was a girl, right? I can even take all my money and give you and tell you to guide me on how I will eat, invest, save, and do other things If there is a person I know who doesn't spend their money poorly, I have to give it to you Babe it looks like I'm the one with all the bad characteristics in this relationship
No You normally look like a person whose got everything handled Seed is the kind of person who will have money and they will know that this is going here, this is going here and they can account And say that I spend Ksh 50,000 on this and this amount on this But right now I'm improving babe unlike in the past, right?
Right now you're good I feel like there are a lot of things though we used to do and we still do them but with a kid involved, right? We feel like there is a third-wheeler who has come in the middle I don't know how to hide things like you because you could be really stressed and I won't know but when I have it I show Like you do so much to help me, pray for me and encourage me Losing your mother and the pain from all the scandals Because we have been in the stages of each other's life, we are almost at 10 years And I have gotten used to you and you see the way I had a family and I'd tell you I'm going to our home (parent's home)-- ---nowadays I go to that home and I tell them to allow me to go back to my home with is you Like when I'm around you I feel like I'm familiar Our dream date night or weekend is staying in the house Let me tell you guys, he doesn't have, what do we call it? Adventure When Seed is feeling the happiest he will want to be in the house, chilled I'm not a person for dates, they don't make me that happy
And why is that? Or you see them as a waste of money, you know you are from ghetto so maybe you see that when you go--
It's not even about wasting money, it's just not my kind of fun And then I'm also someone who doesn't like posh places, I like places that have nature In the forest?
Yes You think you'll take me to Kempinski and scare me? No!
You don't like, you even keep saying that the food is I don't know how That's why when we go for vacations or I go for a show out there I just feel like I'm already bored and I just want to come back home Yes it's a great place but---like the time we went to Senegal, I never told you, I stayed there for 2 days and I was so exhausted already And that day we went to Mayann and then management asked if we wanted to add another day but Seed was like we should go back home I just wondered like oh my God because coming back home means coming back to work You know I normally feel like when I'm somewhere like on vacation I get to forget everything--- --clients don't start calling me or that I'm supposed to do this and that. I just feel like I have--- But at home, there is pressure. You wake me up saying you're hungry, I should cook for you, oh my God For me, especially Mombasa I get there and by the second day my mind shuts down
You get tired and for me I'm like no. Oh God! But anyway I think you normally have a balance because you normally take me on vacation and all that I think you're the one who holds our family You have literally held us in everything and I feel like you're really good in terms of finances So on the finances side, then you're very caring, and I'm going to say it again you're very selfless Oh my God babe, there are a lot of things you do that I know a lot of people wouldn't agree to do Like when I tell you that I'm tired you just do it without complaining that it's my duty or something It has made me---go back
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