Most Inspirational Speeches Ever (All Time)

sometimes we have to ask ourselves what's using my life one of the things that we know about life is that it is always changing sometimes you are sometimes you're down sometimes things go real well and sometimes they don't sometimes you're happy and sometimes you say now that's that pain call like and when we begin to understand and know that accepting that reality that that we will never never have things just on an even keel all the time but you're gonna have some ups then you're gonna have some downs but during those down moments that's where the growth takes place that's where the work is anybody can feel good when they have their health their bills the pain to have happy relationships a children I think normal everybody can be positive then anybody can have a larger vision then anybody can have those kinds of circumstances Shifa the real challenge the real challenge of growth mentally emotionally and spiritually comes when you get knocked down how you handling roll takes place what has brought you to this point what did you learn from it are you learning anything are you doing it over and over and over again are you going through it all you're growing through it are you bigger and better because of it things are going to happen to you and the most important thing to do is to harness your will and let it go I'm in control here I'm not gonna let this give me that I'm not gonna let this destroy me I'm coming back and I'll be stronger and better because of it you have got to make a declaration this is what you stand for you're standing up for your dreams you're standing up for peace of mind you're standing up for health you want it all out to have it yes I'm going to turn this situation around I'm not gonna sit back and moan and cry over what happened and what went wrong and who did what I'm going to do something about this situation expect things to get better for you because they are see life is cyclic whatever experience you're having right now it has not come to stay it has come to pass imagine you're on your deathbed and standing around your deathbed are the ghosts representing your unfulfilled potential the ghosts of the ideas you never acted on the ghosts of the talents you didn't use and they're standing around your bed angry disappointed and upset they say we came to you because you could have brought us to life they say and now we have to go to the grave together so I ask you today how many ghosts are going to be around your bed when your time comes in order to do something you've never done you must be born again but most people are living like they're living because of the fact that they don't believe they can have anymore than what they now have they accept the reality that they have been given you have something special you have talents abilities in you that you don't even know first step is you got to live your calling you got to decide what is it you love don't listen to the naysayers I mean how many times have here that you can't do this and you can't do that and it has never been done before yes you can I want you to think about this goal that you want I want you to envision it and see it in your mind's eye and everyday say to yourself I can do this I can make this happen there is no passion to be found playing small and settling for a life that's less than the one you're capable of living you will fail at some point in your life accept it you will lose you will embarrass yourself you will suck at something there's no doubt about it I don't want you to be the next Oprah I don't want you to be the next Obama but you're gonna have some ups then you're gonna have some downs you're gonna have people to do things to you things are going to happen to you and the most important thing to do is to harness your will and let it go if you don't fail you're not even trying every failed experiment is one step closer to success you have to trust in something your gut destiny life karma whatever because believing that the dots will connect down the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart even when it leads you off the well-worn path and that will make all the difference you have some special stuff to win you want it and you're gonna go all out if it's hard then do it hard you've got to be willing to do the things that others won't do in order to have the things tomorrow others won't have do you know how you are whatever your gift is what are you going to do with what you have your freedom and happiness has been restricted by a story that you never double-checked you've never double-checked the narrative with your you never cross-reference the narrative that you were fed you believed it hook line and sinker and now your happiness will be diminished people in general do not want their belief systems to be challenged they want to hear things that pump them up they don't want to be consistently challenged so the reason why people what people often do is they use groupthink in order to save themselves mental energy and then they pare it back the opinions of the herd because they think that that gets them approval and safety literally the mental prisons that you're initially fed that cyfle you down and then now you are the jailer you are your own worst enemy these guys are on I don't agree ever good good good to start the best he literally is his own jailer now he is hurting himself now it's so crazy most people however have a very groupthink strategy the problem with a groupthink strategy is that you have the sheep and the wolves the wolves eat the Sheep everybody is willing to pay to be told what to think and what to do basically the wolves are people that are not mentally lazy if you want to be a wolf in life you have to be okay with a high degree of uncertainty ambiguity realize that you are in a cultural hypnosis so the biggest thing that I have realized over the past year I'd say because I like to share my big sub hip knees when I come to summit of the year is the severity of natural mass cultural hypnosis it is a lot more severe than I ever really understood we're all influenced by our social environment we are not isolated little [ __ ] islands we are permeable membranes so what I realize over time you have to be very controlling of what you choose to let into your headspace okay massively controlling you have to be aware of what's getting in don't let in [ __ ] that you have thought through and that you don't want to let in okay so if you want to move ahead in the world you have to really pull yourself out of easy thinking don't look for the easy truth some truths are easy keep things simple but never simpler than they actually are make it as simple as it can be but don't make it simpler than it actually is you have to choose your influences very carefully and choose what am I putting into myself very carefully then what you have to do is you have to have a very strong personal boundary of anything that's not moving you in that direction but to do this I think to make it practical and pull it off you have to have a reason why you're doing it there has to be something that motivates you to do that with increased purpose it's like your gravity increases and it increases your personal boundaries most people's behavior day to day to think about it is coping behavior they're just trying to cope they don't feel great and they're just trying to [ __ ] coach assume failure assume that you will be a failure assume that failure is the default unless you fix it you have to be on top of your [ __ ] every minute that goes by if you're on a life mission you're going by it's not happening you're losing time then this is not up for debate you're losing time if you use the time better you could have done more if you use time worse you can do less think of a mission think of the [ __ ] higher universal values that you would have to embody to accomplish it and just spend your time moving in that direction think bigger bigger thoughts what I realized what was satisfying to me was finding higher values and the struggle and journey of embodying those values that's where I really found happiness we have our dreams our passion for a reason it is not by chance whatever vision you have with yourself somehow you've been given with this inner voice the spectacular talent and potential that's never ending and most people never live up to that understand that what has been given to you has been given to you particularly specifically for a reason you're one of a kind you're something special don't cheat yourself out of that by living an average life life is hard yeah that's right you're gonna experience and struggle some pain some hardships but it's not about what happens to you because these things whether you believe it or not happen to everyone but it's the way that you respond to these things that really makes you stand out that's what makes a difference you will never be able to control everyone and everything around you you can't always choose what happens me you can't choose what you're going to do about it that's fully and entirely up to you most people will make excuses but if you want things to go your way take full responsibility because that means you have the power to change it it's up to you to make a difference the power is in your hands now think about that for a second that's all the power you need the ability to impact and change anything it's up to you you have to switch out of that pity let the mentality and never look back what gives your life meaning what gives it purpose what drives you the voices in your head telling you that you are not good enough that you can't make it happen as well as maybe even the people around you saying those things it has to stop it has to end that's not good enough that's not good enough you have to do better than that you have to step up with some power make a statement to the universe I am capable I'm powerful I know your design right now you're making your own experience there are some abilities some talent some gifts you have that absolutely no one else can tap into except for you fighting change is a losing battle freedom and happiness are found in the flexibility and ease with which we move through change and obviously I can't stress so I want to start off by bringing your attention to a natural human trait and that is that we love comforts human beings are creatures of habits we love comforts predictability stability notice things remaining the same has been able to relax no like no surprises but we didn't love that and we loved it too much you know what the [ __ ] wrong with loving comfort too much and therein lies the problem and the source of a lot of frustration and unhappiness for a lot of people now why is that you need things like discomforts unpredictability you know things to be changing in order to grow and become more anti fragile of a person the main reason is simply the fact that in this world nothing is stable everything is constantly changing and that's the natural course of life as human beings no we're creatures of habit life comforts we like you know things to remain the same and you really really keep change you know what like anything that's you know chaotic or the unknown and if you look at your life situation now like just really think they're like where you are in life and you go back in year or two I doubt that it was very different okay unless you've already been taking tons of action it's probably the same okay we're very similar psyche you might have a new you know promotion you might be a little ahead to say if you're going to university or something but you know you're probably the same person okay it's like you haven't changed much and just gonna keep going that way okay it's not going to get better and what I want to address today are a series of excuses that I hear all the time I'm not in the mood you know I just don't I just don't feel like it I don't have the energy you know I'm just I'm tired I'm just tired you know what I think I need to read more theory about this you know before kind of like mastering this you know achieve success and basically all these excuses here in or just blaming the current circumstances you know it's like I would do it but the current circumstances really don't allow it so it's not really my fault is just that you know the circumstances suck okay and this frame right here okay this is what you truly believe you're displaying the circumstances it's going to hold you back and ultimately trust and when you hear me say this you will never achieve a me [ __ ] type of successful so there are a couple things you need to realize you know when it comes to your circumstances the first one is that your circumstances are rarely going to get any better okay this is very important understand it's not going to get better okay and in reality as it's often going to get worse okay if your excuses you know what time I'm tired getting older it's not gonna get better you're gonna get even more tired okay if you don't have time now if the older you get the more responsibility you're taking on you're gonna have a lot less time - sorry remember this circumstances rarely get any better and often times they just get worse and with a lot of these excuses as well realize that it's the other way around okay like if you're waiting to feel motivated you know like you know what I'm just not in the mood and I'm gonna eat like you in the mood you know to take action realize that that there is rarely going to happen since this here is a new you know habit a new skill set uh you're not really gonna feel motivated why because as we discussed before human beings are creatures of habit you're used to your little routine this year is something new something that creates a little bit more chaos your emotions I can be like you know what you're gonna feel motivated to create some chaos in your life gonna be like no just my emotions which is liners it's not there yet okay that there is more so it's the other way around but don't waste them what if they didn't just force yourself to take on this new habit and they're going out taking action and by doing that today it's gonna start feeling a little bit more comfortable and the motivations game just starts you know coming after that okay it's like you take action the motivation comes it's not I'm moving to get motivated to take action don't depend on your circumstances then we're going to change the miraculous to get better don't wait til Europe and then you're in the mood it's just basically start [ __ ] man but they start now and all those things will ultimately just take care of themselves try to find a nice middle ground where instead of focusing all your energy on maintaining things that you know as they are focus it is set on navigating through that change in a way that's beneficial to you remember indirect control you know focus on the bigger picture in funding changes in losing battle freedom in happiness I've found in the flexibility you I do not believe that any of us have dreams that were not given to us for the purpose of accomplishing those particular dreams if you feel you have something to give if you feel that your particular talent is worth developing is worth turning four then there's nothing you can't achieve so I applaud you for your dreamy for your running towards your dream I applaud you for believing in yourself because that's what life is about stretching and challenging looking for ways that you can begin to improve yourself not only if it's possible for you to have your dream but it's necessary it's necessary that you go for what is yours in the universe logical practical thinking says you can't do it today what if you want to produce unreasonable results in your life like living your dream in taking charge of your destiny you've got to be an unreasonable person when you grow up you tend to get told that the world is the way it is your life is just to live your life inside the world try not to bash into the walls too much that's a very limited life life can be much broader once you discover one simple fact everything around you that you call life was made up by people that were no smarter than you once you learn that you'll never be the same again it's hard why do people do it finally going people who come out why would a Nelson Mandela give up 26 years of his life even though it's hard it's worth it's worth the people who love to messed up what makes it worth it it's gotta be your pest gotta love it it's gotta be what you are supposed to do you do what it is you suppose are useful to build something you both create something let me share something with you history is being read but it's also being written by people with imagination don't spout Godspell don't stop ready to watch your dream my deepest fear is not that we are inadequate our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure it is our light not our darkness that most frightens us no matter how bad it is or how bad it gets I'm going to make man is the master of thought the molder of character and the maker and shaper of conditioned environment and destiny most men fail not through lack of education or agreeable personal qualities but from lack of dogged determination from lack of dauntless will situations even dramatic situations like bankruptcy divorce death and economic recession cannot directly cause a feeling of any kind until the brain interprets and creates a story about said situation sadness depression frustration upset and anxiety can only be produced by seeing a situation and then producing an interpretation of it and then believing that interpretation so therefore you and I can only be overwhelmed by our thoughts about something never the thing itself usually what we most fear doing is what we most need to do that phone call that conversation whatever the action might be it is fear of unknown outcomes that prevents us from doing what we need to do define the worst case accept it and do it I'll repeat something you might consider tattooing on your forehead what we fear doing most is usually what we most need to do I don't get lucky I make my own luck every journey ends but we go on the world turns and we turn with it plans disappear dreams take over here's the big challenge of life you can have more than you've got because you can become more than you are and of course the other side of the coin reads unless you change how you are you'll always have what you got success is something you attract not something you pursue success is looking for a good place to stay so instead of going after it you work on yourself personal development see one of the challenges that we have in our lives is we don't realize that the process of training ourselves the process of conditioning ourselves actually feels incredible once you get that initial momentum if you want lasting change you've got to give up this idea of trying something you get aside you're gonna commit to master see most people don't get out in the arena of life because they don't want to fight most people don't get out there because they don't want to get knocked down they don't want to be dropped to their knees but see you're going to be dropped whether you're on the field or whether not just sitting on the sidelines you're going to be dropped get knocked down so you can learn how to fight so you can hold your position the last 6,000 years reads like this opportunity mixed with difficulty that's how it reads it isn't going to change you must learn to handle the nights they come right after days you must learn to handle difficulty it comes right after opportunity you must learn to handle recessions they always follow professors don't wish it was easier clarity is power exactly the visual the losers are driving doubt when your faith becomes me yo fortified with it when you have conversation said no don't do that rod and your staff they comfort you like is this I like this if you don't develop the courage to do that which has been given you to do and you spend a lot of time going around trying to convince other people are trying to get their approval what will happen is that you will lose your nerve and other people will convince you that what you're doing doesn't have any value and you'll give up on your dream we go through life trying to seek security not coming outside of our comfort zone and we take most of our stuff with us to the grave in life you either here today and you're gone today and I'm saying that the fact that you're still here that you're still breathing you've got some more work and you owe it to yourself you are to yourself when you get up in the morning that you can look yourself in the face and say hey I'm living my life on my terms see if you don't decide to act on your dream if you don't decide to make a decision to live your life if you don't decide to step into your fears if you don't decide to say yes to your life it will never work for you many of us never realize how great this because we become sidetracked by secondary activity we spread ourselves too thin don't know how to say no and we find ourselves doing all kinds of things and never ever have time to do those things that we need to do to work on ourselves and then there goes a second that goes another second that goes another second and we can't stop it whole time and before you know it you wake up one day and you're behind in your dreams and your bills ask you a question how much time do you have left how much time do you have left decide that you want to take some time to work on you that you deserve that from yourself that your life deserves it's very important you owe that to yourself one idea can change your life one idea can turn your life around and as you convince you as you sell yourself every day every day every day something happens for you it will enable you to transcend yourself wherever you are whatever you're doing do it with everything that you have develop the habit of giving more than what you're paid for if there's something that you want and you're hungry for it you've got to do whatever is necessary until and when you give the best you can and that's not enough you must do what is required when you're hungry you don't care about the facts you don't care about the odds when you step into your fears and continue to push yourself to go on you begin to see things I've been standing there look at you in the face like I can't believe this has been here all this time supposed to be different it wasn't difficult then there be no girl there would be no resistance there be nothing to force you to move stronger with and that's why I say the most important reason the most important thing was for the gift but you received by taking action it's you growing stronger and becoming a stronger version of yourself through the challenges through the resistance and because and don't give up on yourself don't throw the towel in so quickly many people give up on the one-yard line I want you to get to a place in your life that every mistake you make every setback you kick right every obstacle did you know that you gonna overcome every barrier you can't climb I don't want you to give up but I want you to fail for every mistake you make has to be another stepping stone another building block and you've got to learn how to tune out the critics outside and the critic inside and since I'm going to do this I'm going to harness my will stop I deserve this see the last chapter to your life has not been written yet it doesn't matter about what happened yesterday we don't give up we all surrender we don't quit we think differently our perspective is different and because our perspective is different our outcomes are different our rewards are different embrace the stress learning is only there when you have when you're in a situation that is super super stressful for you so I have to put my selves continuously in the situations where I'm in under high pressure because only then I will learn a lot and the fact that I learned is good which means high stress is good as well the refrain that I always have is the moment I feel resistance where I'm like coming up with excuses I know I have to do it it's a rule of mine the moment I feel that resistance the rule kicks then max there is resistance now you gotta do it and if I hesitate it's even more reason to do it even if I [ __ ] it up I learned a lot more because it's a high-pressure situation and even if I don't feel ready I remember I didn't feel ready at first either but I still made I'm alive I'm alive it's all still there my heart still pumping I'm not dead don't think yourself I go when I lose less of a man know is how you deal with how you cope with it it is your attitude toward steps because it's basically just your body telling you this is a situation that counts so it's about the attitude that you have towards that losing gets you to the [ __ ] top but you have to get up again have to get up and fall down seven times get up eight times follow many times get up nine times and so on and so on you have to trust yourself and you have to trust the process that no matter what crisis is going to be thrown at you have the knowledge that at first you will be overwhelmed and you think you can do it but also have the trust kick in okay I've dealt with other crises before no reason why I couldn't deal with that crisis so first of all the thing about crisis it is you never feel ready for one otherwise it wouldn't be a crisis nelli red you always think like that's the worst crisis I've ever been in but you will grow into that you will grow into that role of coping with the crisis there's a lot of a lot of [ __ ] you have to see and the cool thing is the more crises you find yourself in the more you can cope with the next one trust in yourself but the thing is you have to accept it first there's two ways how to deal with the crisis you either accept it because you can't change it at the moment or you can change it and then you do [ __ ] change you experience pain because you're in a situation you can't change accept that pain fully like little egg soak the pain up and walk into the pain keep walking keep walking until there is no more pain every place this is something good because it gives you the opportunity to grow out of that and to trust yourself more so I know it's hard and I know you see Google results and you had before but as long as you just trust the process and keep going you will eventually overcome it even though you might not see it in the results yet even though it might not be manifested in the results your learning process is there you do pick up a little nuances that eventually will end up in you getting better okay running all analogy don't stop just keep going and trust the process get back to that excitement of the beginning tap pat yourself on the shoulder this is awesome start comparing yourself shift your focus from comparing to results so comparing the learning process am i learning more today yes or no you gotta keep going you have to don't stop don't [ __ ] yourself don't [ __ ] stop doing it do you have to step your [ __ ] up you have to be active now instead of bursting your energy of anger just out there uncontrollably you gotta collect that anger together to one very focused on the grade on to something positive okay anger is not something bad anger is something healthy use it as leverage oh I'm angry at myself because again I'm frustrated I can't get myself honest to change this has to stop now I'm gonna study even harder I'm going to run even faster I'm gonna try even harder to get that girl I'm gonna use it as leverage because my anger is energy and that energy can be used for something useful don't interpret a stressful situation is something you have to get out of yourself now see there's a positive challenge that you can goes along with the notion of trusting yourself trusting the capabilities and that is what you should do anger is something good use it as leverage and use it for something purposeful bundle it up together and rockets it's like you don't take life too seriously but you also have taken progress seriously because if you do not then you'll wake up in a couple years from now you mean just where you are now just exactly where you are now so your life will blow of life or faster than you realize this is super super possible right now a year passes for me it feels like a week that's how it feels years will blow five four years from now it will seem like nothing dude and you want to be a pimp showing dude anything that of real significance takes years to cultivate but what's cool is that the years blow by fast and you get what you want actually pretty fast our minds are filled with again for contrasting ourselves as people preparing ourselves ravenous getting its momentum you shouldn't be thinking people are thinking too [ __ ] much or they're comparing themselves to other people as if by comparing yourself Matt Matt what does it matter mental late they're mentally [ __ ] lazy people people Tony Robbins others people major and minor things turn off the [ __ ] TV it's a god news and [ __ ] it's a goddamn [ __ ] tabloid what help has any of that [ __ ] giving you dude like you have to train your mind to be like okay new task look at the task focus on it I work [ __ ] hard dude everybody that I see working is in my mind [ __ ] [ __ ] holy [ __ ] people don't work dude it's so crazy how little people work people go to work for eight hours it's like two hours what are they doing I watch people work I'm like what is he doing why is he here go running a field [ __ ] don't just sit here go run play don't sit here this weird gray zone between working you're not working what are you doing I'm very but I'm Selvin hazard shooting hard [ __ ] work and it being [ __ ] funny so because of that work ethic is built right so it's like I'm just like a like an endurance street so the thing is like you you build that up that's why like I love these guys that look tired of me getting bad man I'll [ __ ] I'm like nope you're a [ __ ] you want to keep being a [ __ ] and then and then have easy money given to you people just don't [ __ ] work they have no work ethic I never meet anybody work out like rarely when I do I'm like yo hype I do and then we're like instantly friends because almost nobody has a work ethic it's so crazy I'm having as much fun working as I do [ __ ] around you guy see that there's no difference to me I don't care if I'm working if I'm having fun recreation is overrated people think you need to be having a recreation to have fun you don't I can't have fun working why not it's your attitude towards the work now sometimes we're can be tough I get that it can be miserable it can be soul sucking but but in general you it's mental strength you choose to have fun because you have no mental muscle that chooses to have fun at that point it's like what could be possible after 10 years I started thinking like that like what could I look like in 10 years what could I look like in 20 years what could I look like in 30 years you're 20 you should be thinking what could you look like in 30 years what could your life look like and I realized that I need Strummer something winners I need to surround myself of people that are killing it and crushing me that life I need to surround myself with people that hold me higher and control and I'm very careful about what this closely aligns myself very very selective about what people I around I allowed on myself people are acting up on your roomie you got to do it man the iron gate baby personal merit please shut the iron gate personal boundaries Eddie [ __ ] shut and as you grow you'll have to do that to more and more thanks get growing is about saying no to more and more things you say no compulsive little tabloid and say no friends are negative you say no fascination say no approaching anxiety of the woman you say no the holding resolved cameras you just a [ __ ] know you you got a dig down deep that got it out keep on going again and again and again until you make it happen because you know that it's possible now what do you do during the hard times less here's what you must do number one is you must have faith Paul said you must have the faith to call forth those things that be not as fill they were judge not according to appearances don't judge your circumstances and the possibilities for your future based upon what you have now and because of what's going on now no no no no that's not the real reality there what you're going through if you're going through some hard times it has not come to stay it has come to pass it's all right now second thing is repeat this after me something you should affirm to yourself every day repeat this please no matter how bad it is how bad it gets I'm going to make it say that to yourself everyday as I used to say to myself when I would get up in the Penobscot building and I had to go into the bathroom and bathe in the bathroom sink I have written on the mirror that I put up in a spaceship and I read no matter how bad it is or how bad it gets I'm going to make it so you've got to have faith you talk to yourself you say that information the next step is you must have patience and engage in consistent action patience and engage in consistent action so everything does not always happen ladies and gentlemen when we want it to happen it doesn't happen quickly so in that process that something in the 40s called the Chinese bamboo tree the Chinese bamboo tree every day it has to be watered and fertilized it's a very hard knot knot and and it takes five years of watering and fertilization every day according to American Geographics before it breaks through the ground at any time the delivering process and the nurturing and the fertilization process is stopped the Chinese bamboo tree will die in the ground now once it breaks through in that fifth year and six weeks it goes nineteen feet tall so the question is does it go 90 feet in five years for six weeks the answers obvious it takes five years that's how long it took to garlic to fill that foundation but nurture it to the reputation the ability to learn to figure it out that's what you must have patience and aged inconsistent action people instant gratification they want you ought to be annexed Diego but they're not willing to pay the price to do what it takes to get up there with the copper well Bryant Oh Judi is they think it was easy no it's simple but it's not easy it's a system that if you work the system it works if you work but make no mistake about it it's all you are the determining factor there's something else as possible you can negative it's necessary that you have goals that you write them down that you surround yourself with a support team that you are created if you that you must take the personal responsibility to make it happen George Bernard Shaw said the people that make it in this world look around for the circumstances and they want in that they can't find them they create them it's hard no easy it's not an option however ladies and gentlemen what you will discover is that it's worth it it's worth it I suggest to you if you want to become diamond write down five reasons or why it is worth it for you to become a diamond to experience that level of achievement what is it that will give you the drive what is it that will ignite the courage in you to get up and come back again and again and again how is it that you would be able what reasons that can tap in to that deep down feeling that goes to your gut that no matter how many times you get knocked down that you're coming back what is it write it down let me tell you something Lee and gentlemen you saw that picture up there the lady mrs. Mamie Brown I'm flying from here tomorrow morning to be with my adopted mother she's 87 years young thank God now be with Mama tomorrow every mother cell to a mic the whole Mother's Day everybody know November 6 my mother's birthday on the whole and I try to go home as often as I can when I started in left Miami pursuing my dream because I knew that as long as you work for someone else they are controlling your destiny I don't want anybody signing my paycheck but B I knew that it was going to be difficult I knew it was going to be hard but every time I thought about giving up and there were times I did because where I am lives and gentlemen it's a long shot the long shot this is a miracle this is a long shot and I had people laughing in this class you're talking about being a motivational speaker you have no college training you a labeled educable mentally [ __ ] you failed twice and still they put you back from the fifth eighth and to the fourth grade and you fail in the eighth grade you'll never work for major corporation and you are going to become independently wealthy right rather laugh at you people gonna laugh at you but let me tell you I believe in revenge like Princeton Opera is that the best revenge is massive success ladies and gentlemen when I was driving around with my mother and she saw a house we were just looking for homes and we drove an exclusive area of Miami for the coach of the Miami Dolphins Don Shula lives in that area called Country Club my mother saw this household that's one of beautiful home and we looked at it she saw oh boy I would love to have something like that one day I would feel like mrs. wrong we just kept that I did not let my mother know at that time that I had it itched in my mind that I was going to do whatever number meetings whatever number of contacts whatever number of calls I had to make whatever it took to make that become a reality at the day that I drove to that house and said mama you remember the house you saw we got out the car so yes I saw I really know the people that live there she said you're doing sin yeah let me take care of the Shorty and then I couldn't contain myself anymore when I got around and helped her get out of the ground and I took it I said mama I gave the keys over 5,000 square feet ROG size Olympic pool 12 feet deep on a golf course basketball court I said mama this this this is for you ladies gentlemen - to see my mother well Quran this house fish lover oh thank you Jesus no no one would have ever ever told me this would have happened to me she said Leslie she said you know that day when I I went in that building and they told me this lady had these these boys that you want to put up for adoption and I told him I said I'll I'll take him in and she said ladies she said raise your hand and swear to me two things I said what is it she said swear to me you won't separate him she saw no hustle I'm keeping together I swear I've never had no children I swear I'll keep them together she says swear to me lady did she will never tell him about me she said I'm married and I got pregnant while my husband was at wall she's in swear to me you won't tell she said I swear I won't tell she said okay you could have him she said mom came out the house look at her job she said I didn't know how I was gonna do it she's out working at the M&M cafeteria she said I have no house no ratio I just knew somehow it's not a lord will make a way somehow that I never thought this would happen to me and I know and during those moments when it's hard not only must you have patience and engage in consistent action but you must turn to a Power greater than yourself and just say Lord whatever I faced today together you and I can handle it and I know some way in somehow you'll make away from me you every passing minute there's another chance to turn around never believed a prediction that doesn't empower you how many predictions have been thrown at you your whole life if you believe predictions that do not empower you you will wither away that die either physically die or your spirit die if you just walk around the world like a carcass you will be given a lot of titles in your life that would you powers you and see it's not important how long you live what's important is how you the first thing I believe together do to turn yourself around it's really take control of your mom or specifically guess what you're gonna make some mistakes so the person we've never made a mistake hasn't done if you're gonna make some mistakes if you want to do something out here beautiful flat on your face you're gonna be criticized when you come out until the arena call light you're gonna feel awkward and stupid and down it goes with the territory when it's okay take charge of your own life then walk away from the 95 percent don't go where they go don't do what they do don't talk like they talk develop you a whole new language don't use their vocabulary don't use their excuses once you look back on it you will never turn back you'll never go back to the old ways and the old language and the old Midland never spend each day trying to be a little wiser than you were when you woke up discharge your duties faithfully and well step by step you get ahead but not necessarily in fast births but you build discipline by preparing for fast spurts slug it out one inch at a time day by day and at the end of the day if you live long enough most people get what they deserve the sheer volume of time-wasting that most people have is out of [ __ ] control okay out of control and the reason why is because human beings are the most rationalizing [ __ ] creature ever invented okay there has never been a bigger rationalizing species in the history of the world than a human being you can just live for in spirt for like short-term temporal pleasure but here's the problem that things are good for a set and then they're not and then things feel good for a sec and then they're not right you smoke the joint you're high and then you're not you know I'm saying right you're watching [ __ ] American Idol and then you're not so how you say your happiness is too shaky life is difficult from people that come from the [ __ ] up background I think the same [ __ ] but you can overcome it so the main difference that I have is that realistically assess it and I'm in a non resistance to it I'm at a point where I wouldn't want it any other way pretty much then what you do is you limit your emotions down to only the ones that will help you okay so if you have an emotion then doesn't help you you just get rid of it it's gone when I feel like what happens is like there's these forces that push you down upon us they push down upon our psyche and when we can rise above those that's like the most powerful experience of life I think a lot of people sense that's it beneath all this [ __ ] there's these deeper values that are more powerful than any of the surface level bullsh and that resonated with people more powerfully you're grounded in your own energy you're on your purpose so you're gonna do it you're gonna do it's like this trans movement and then you're free like you're very uninhibited the last thing on this earth that you're feeling when you've conquered your fears and conquered your obstacles it's like what's that guy look like this the other night irnos than me does he have better calves same I'm gonna get what I want I've got to just do it just shut the [ __ ] up and let's [ __ ] get all of it so when I go in there I just do it all right I shut the [ __ ] up and I do it if you're gonna [ __ ] do it then [ __ ] do it let's get all of it when you when you're the top of the building and you're walking along a ledge you can sit there going for typical what if I go what do I fall or you can say put one foot here put one foot here put one foot here put one foot here what I would love you to do is to become a man on your purpose become so immersed in the movement of your life that you don't have time select these mind viruses invade your head and spend all this time entertaining get rid of it get rid of your menu enjoy your life as soon as you chose this life when you do that you're gonna open up a whole new range of possibility to yourself you're gonna start enjoying walking your own journey and you're gonna let the chips fall where they may when you're happy with the person who you've become that is always the payoff all you have to do is just go to the in-center walk around feel sorry for yourself but when you go home you can lose yourself in infinite powers of Turin to TV shows and torrent advice and when you're on your deathbed if you look back to all your friendships they're all actors they're all fictional little characters but you don't care is you have a lot of friends and that's a lot of people nowadays they go through their shitty job they feel like they don't have much of a purpose they're not very significant in life it's like oh man I just need to feel sorry for myself a few more minutes before I pass out and then I'll dream that I'm in Game of Thrones and my life will be better again where you stay at home the more you stay in that cycle the more but just say the harder it is to snap out of that cycle okay you slowly start losing willpower and then what what happens you know yes you're a willpower okay and then you're like man I wish I could snap out but I know that even if I tried I just don't have the willpower to do it now if that's you and you want to get good at this as I mentioned before something fun it's not going to snap you out of that if your have zero willpower your life is a complete piece of [ __ ] something fun you want to change that [ __ ] fly isn't it cool in terms of motivation you better be [ __ ] serious good enough not good enough okay something fun not good enough life or [ __ ] yet you always know deep down inside you could be better so you really have to move from failure consciousness to success consciousness okay now what does that mean basically focus also on the positive you know find ways to give yourself prize ask yourself you know what did I do well you know I went in with good intentions you know I did this well I did this well like just start making that [ __ ] shift we're gonna have to get addicted to this slow progress building [ __ ] the right way it's like little increments of 1% 1% 1% and then you look back say three to six months you actually see the change get addicted to that be happy at that life is a journey not a destination hey the fun here is in the process the fun is getting a little bit better a little bit better a little bit better you're like a video game once you realize there's a previously discussed there in this for life okay it's not a little sprint where you try to get good fast it's a [ __ ] marathon it's important to understand that but it's also important to prepare for it's okay both mentally and physically just keep moving they don't stop this Olimpica good don't stop to celebrate too bad you don't have time to celebrate just keep [ __ ] going so on the mental preparation side of things this really means sitting down you're watching this video sit down after watching this video and ask yourself these questions okay are you really willing to commit to this you know the rest of your life like is it something like a path you're going to walk no till the day that you die because this is not an easy path okay the easy path is just psyching off and doing nothing now it's not the path that's gonna bring you happiness and fulfillment but that's the easy way out okay this should here means holding yourself at a high standard it means continuously putting yourself in situations that make you grow situations that are not necessarily comfortable it's emotionally traumatizing you're gonna have to go through a lot of humiliation okay stuff you know mostly embarrassing yourself you're gonna have to tolerate a lot of social pressure you're going to have to let your ego just leave it at the door you know let go of that little ego just really put yourself you know on the line you're gonna have to go for failure rejection there's a lot of [ __ ] involved and you really have to sit down now and ask yourself like am I gonna do this I'm I really took ready to commit to this am I gonna hold myself at a high standard am I going to be the best that I can be am I ready for all the [ __ ] that I'm going to encounter am I ready to just let go of comfort let go stability let go of predictability am I ready to possibly cut off some friends let go my reputation to what degree are you prepared what degree are you prepared to dedicate yourself to this task you have to take it seriously how bad do you want it if you have enough leverage is this something that you just can't live without doing without achieving what are you willing to give in return nothing comes for free it's not an easy task what are you willing to give in return [ __ ] your ego [ __ ] your current identity let that go no [ __ ] comfort you got to be a little crazy to do this all the way we've got [ __ ] comfort you know emotional trauma like what are you willing to give they sit down ask us all these questions I ask myself these questions every single [ __ ] day okay - see - up again it's a marathon you've got to be prepared so this one's are quite interesting topic it's about change the powerful path the self-fulfillment a really really important question that I asked myself when I started my journey was where does change actually begins does it begin with the actions I take doesn't begin with results doesn't begin with other people noticing that I changed that I that I got somewhere that I have results or whatever and if you want to change this change begins by the way he communicates with yourself so by the way we communicate we create reality these are four phases of changing again number one is I should change and the really really sad part about this is 99.9% of people who are living on this planet are being stuck in the first stage there's literally people who will spend the rest of their life doing nothing more but saying I should change and after 80 90 years they're dying thinking of I should have changed that's really sad so how can you overcome that and start in your communication it starts in your thoughts you want to get to the next stage which is I can change once you realize the fact that change is possible it will open up a lot more possibilities okay Stage two I can change now what what gets you to the next level you take action Aki will change okay so the only thing that you need in order to get from step two I can change to step three I will change is taking action so you realize you're able to change now is the time to get off your lazy ass and take action now is the time to go out and pimp now is the time to get butthurt to get rejected now it's the time to hit the gym now is the time to read everything about finance ok take action I will change feels good sounds good huh I will change it's not like will I should change at some point nothing I will change and a cool thing is feels good feels awesome taking action and the last thing we actually rightist I am change that's literally one of the best feelings in the world back in the days but in thousands of years ago we're not taught to be massive we're taught to be active to go on hunt to get food to survive we're literally one of the first generations that is being taught how to be passive and how to put a cope with [ __ ] that's like our default state for Humanity I mean I guess because we're we're having all this Luxus and like always you know we don't have to hunt for down we can pretty much tell that if we go outside there's no [ __ ] Tiger killing us so we have all the security I think that's why we're so passive and that's why we brought up waiting for changes [ __ ] your passivity [ __ ] its in order to change out some active will never been changed with me passive and that's what literally everyone does we're all waiting for change maybe someone coming to Boston helps me is that you have to be active in order to change it's not over until you win stop being passive it's not over until we win it doesn't work what will fix it taking action it's not easy I'm not saying it's easy but I'm saying it's possible that's all need and the crazy thing is like I mentioned earlier most of us will keep waiting for changes we're going to die and most of you guys that's the truth okay that's the very uncomfortable truth most of you guys will come home and will not change you'll come home with all the knowledge today maybe some motivation but you will not change because Indian have space you thinking well change will come upon myself but the only thing that will bring change upon yourself is you yourself okay by taking action can't wait for a change you have to use to change yourself you can show you the right path or the right door you can watch me but you have to be on that path yourself with your [ __ ] feet you have to walk through that door yourself the only one who brings change upon yourself is viewed no one else and yes it feels uncomfortable and yes you'll have a lot of setbacks and a lot of rejections that it will hurt but if you enjoy that pain you can make it it will feel awesome let me tell you that amazing life full of adventure what do wants it's not over until I win you you know we've all had dreams and goals we had one stage in our life but very few people ever start to live those because obviously obstacles come up somebody stabbed through the back something doesn't work out and the frustration for most people becomes overwhelming but then there's also just the fear there's the fear of failure that there's a fear of getting your hopes up again and you know you have to get your hopes up you're gonna be disappointed so often in life but disappointment can be turned to drive or disappointment can destroy you everybody's afraid at some level that they're not enough in some context not smart enough not pretty enough not strong enough not rich enough not funny enough they may not be feeling that right now in your life but we all feel that well keep doing what's a near in your life right now that you really want improve what's an area that's important to improve it's your body's great how about your curve careers great how about your relationship intimate one especially or your kids or your relationship with your Creator your spiritual side of your life or is it your finances doing affirmations not going to change your life you've got to go see what the weeds aren't pulling out my point is simple you've got to see what the problem is but you can't make it so horrific that you just give up who you spend time with us who you become and getting yourself in proximity with people that are succeeding even if you have to work for free for somebody getting the environment around that it rubs off on you you begin to think like they think you begin to see what the opportunities are our bodies our reflection of our physical standards they are not a reflection of our desires many people's people have a desire for more energy or a better body or stronger body or more fit body we don't get our goals together mas your income right now as a result of your standards as well it's not the industry and it's not the economy evaluate where you are look at it assess yourself assess yourself and assess the situation what brought you there what has brought you to this point what did you learn from it are you learning anything are you doing it over and over and over again somebody said that insanity is doing the same thing in the same way expecting a different outcome don't let this year be like last and if last year was great still don't let it be that way raise the standard your life is perfect and extraordinary you darn well know you're not gonna be happy unless you keep making it better that's what makes us feel alive it's not what we get to make us happy it's who we become and what we're able to give because we've become more if you want to begin to move you got to clear your mind of all the unnecessary luggage and baggage that's weighing us down you're gonna have people to do things to you things are going to happen to you and the most important thing to do is to harness your will and let it go and move so you can grow so you can get on with your life it doesn't matter about what happens to you what matters is what are you going to do about it if there's anything they'll shift your life it'll get you to thrive in a difficult situation is take some massive action try something else change it try it and move it progress equals happiness if you can start to make progress and you get yourself going even though it's not perfect if it doesn't work you know what to do just change your approach that doesn't work change your approach so often in life people don't begin the journey because they're not quite sure what to do or how to do it right or how to do it perfect you want to change your body get yourself moving don't wait for the perfect trainer just going off here Luke put on your shoes and moving get momentum I'm going to turn this situation around I'm not gonna sit back and moan and cry over what happened and what went wrong and who did what I'm going to do something about this situation the other thing is take full responsibility for your life it's where you are and the responsibilities that you want to take yourself where you want to go so once that we have two primary choices in life we can either accept conditions as they exist or we can take the responsibility to change them see a lot of people want to exempt themselves from taking responsibility all they want to do is talk about the problem every time you see them they'll tell you their story over and over and over and over again no no you want to take responsibility for your life I got me here I can get me out of this and I'm getting out I'm not going to be a volunteer victim and so all you're looking for new breakthroughs to practice and practice and practice you'll get better and better and better and there's still some things that will happen to you that will catch you on the blindside that you did not anticipate you'll get knocked down but you won't be knocked out and so I say to you it's possible you can live your dream if it's becoming a diamond if it's having more it's is achieving more so being a better father being a better mother whatever it is overcoming addiction changing in our society it's possible you can live your dream it's necessary that you have a plan of action that you Riyaz Indian that you stick to and you work with the system that you work with people that you give support and that you be there for them that you have the vision and never give up that you become creative and ridiculous and keep on coming back again and again and again and that excuse that you gotta take personal responsibility to make it happen and that it's hard easy is not an option and with life locked you down jump back up and said it's not over until I win forget about your like Darwinian natural selection has put together on this planet and I would conjecture on rather a lot of other planets will something utterly extraordinary you're here right now at this moment because tomorrow you want to be somebody greater than the person you are today you see yourself succeeding you have a vision you have a dream congratulations you're already ten steps ahead of 95% of the world so I want to share one thing with you it's gonna move you closer to your dreams but before I begin I want to explain the biggest myth that most people think leads them to success and here's the myth you might believe if you're scared to fail you won't fail lies biggest myth ever and I believed it you see I always thought that being scared to fail in life would literally keep me from failing I would look at the losers around me and I would say sheesh I never want to turn out like him I really believe this train of thought would help me succeed until one day I was walking down the street and I saw an old man had a hat suspenders and it came it was about 80 years old this old man was barely walking he could walk but the cane helped a lot he was struggling so anyway he was walking across the street and he ended up falling so I went over to go help him and he gets up says thank you and we introduced ourselves had a little conversation told me his name and I told her mind his name was Robert by the way and right as he walked away I told him this is what I said Robert you should stay inside where it's safe my friend and Robert turns around and says to me I love walking and I love walking way more than I'm afraid of falling so I asked him well what about your safety don't you want to live and he told me this these are the exact words he said he said this solo living means doing what you love to do and if I have to fall here and there to do what I want to do in life then so be it and he just walked away never saw him again that was it but that statement really had me thinking and it had me thinking hard because I learned something that day that's when I realized the true key to success you see I always thought if I could just fear the act of failing and if I fear it like crazy I will succeed because I thought the fear would magically motivate me to get out there and start taking action but after that day uh-huh I realized something I realize it's the love for success that will lead me to succeeding so just imagine if Robert feared falling would he even start walking of course not he wouldn't even do what he loved to do he would sit at home and take no type of action but he loved walking wasn't even scared to fall he gave him life that's what allowed him to get up and do it he loved walking so much he was willing to fall 10 times a day just to do it and you had to be the same you have to love success just as much because that's was gonna allow you to get up and go for it being scared to fail won't do anything in fact when you love success and you start going for it guess what happens you're gonna fail you're gonna fail ten times a hundred times maybe even a thousand times but that's okay failure isn't permanent falling isn't permanent you get right back up and keep going and this time you're gonna be stronger wiser and you'll be more driven than ever and for every ten failures you land one success you had to love success so much that you're willing to fail ten times before you can succeed once that's how a winner does it imagine if Michael Jordan was scared of missing he would have never taken a shot imagine if Steve Jobs was afraid of people not liking his product there would be no iPhone so ask yourself this do you want to be a person who fears failure or do you want to be a person who loves success which one cuz you're gonna have to pick today and I'll tell you one thing one is a failure and one is a success and if you love success there is nothing that can stop you all those negative things people say will mean nothing they're gonna talk about how only 1% make it to the top big deal want to know something else only 1% stick with that Fitness program long enough to see results only 1% of nerds stick with that video game long enough to get good at it only 1% of relationships stick it out to the end that doesn't mean you have a 1% chance it just means you can't behave like the 99% you'll have to do something better than giving up a month from now those are just numbers you want to talk about numbers take a look around you and take a good look around you are you like 99% of the people around you if you are then you're in the wrong video my friend this isn't for than 99% this is for the 1% of people who are willing to take risk who are willing to stay committed who are willing to go out there and die for what they believe in because you know what the 99% they aren't willing to do that they want perfection they want safety and whoever is it there with them they will try and knock you down every step of the way and get you back into safety with them but you have a bigger vision you aren't willing to settle not this time this time you're going for the promised land baby so the next time someone tells you you're gonna fail do you know what you tell them tell them they're right but you're not afraid of fail you're not afraid of take action you're not afraid to jump you're gonna fail 10 times but you know what it's cool because on the 11th time you'll succeed oh you'll succeed alright and it'll feel good and while you're over here living the life of your dreams and complete happiness guess where they're gonna be that's right they'll be failures the real failures over there where it's safe scared to fail ironic isn't it you so I want to ask you a question what are your fears what are you afraid of what are you scared because we all have fears don't we all have something that's blocking us that's holding us back you can either live your dreams or live your fears and I think the majority of people actually are not living their needs but are living their fears your time is limited so don't waste it living someone else's life don't be trapped by Dogma which is living with the results of other people's thinking don't let the noise of others opinions drown out your own inner voice and most important have the courage to follow your heart and intuition they somehow already know what you truly want to become everything else is secondary and the majority of the fears that we have are not life-or-death deals not those kind of fears but through our imagination we blow them out of proportion and we give them more power than they actually have or deserve and we permit them to govern our lives we permit them to determine how far we can stretch out on our dreams and discovering our stuff see now if you go through life being afraid people can sense that they can pick up that fear remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose you are already naked there is no reason not to follow your heart what would your life be like as you look toward the future if you decided I'm not going to allow my peers to stop me what would your life be like when you begin to to look at your life you can decide to use fear as a blocker or you can decide to use it as building blocks I want you to focus on your dreams I want you to focus for your goal I want you to focus on your solution like I want you to focus on that dream light that you have will it be easy to just run out and do it now what'll happen overnight now will it be a struggle yes will there be times when you can't make ends meet yes that's a part of it wouldn't be times you won't know what to do yes that's a part of it will give you the tribe what is it that will ignite the courage in you to get up and come back again and again and again you're why you're wise gonna push you when you can't push yourself when you want to quit and give up your wive's gonna give that edge you need that advantage you mean that that lift that you need to get to the next level you're why just retire yes we're hungry yes the mind is saying give up yes it's saying quit but we cannot quit because we realize we have not reached a goal yet we get blown up it's on their life one chance in life to do it ever you gonna do to lay your foundation to make whatever walk whatever the legacy you believe leave your legs the do is you see around you is that when you want to become is that what you want to look like and if it is copy what they do copy what they [ __ ] do most people's lives in general you really gotta process the certainty garbage you really got a processes and that's what happened to the majority of people that I saw almost everybody that I grew up with became a failure almost everybody no but it's the goddamn truth right I mean it's the goddamn truth like and you slowly get old into it people don't realize you have all this energy in your 20s minute goes away most the people by the way that I worked with this is a human most guys that I work with in my niche weighs in at big dreams are all worked in shitty ass jobs and they look like they've had to face ground in under ten years later that's most people people say that they want truth it's mostly [ __ ] people mostly just want to be happy or not even as good as that people mostly just want to alleviate negative emotions most people are just in coping they're not in thriving they're not trying to thrive they're trying to cope look I want to know the truth of this you don't you just want to eliminate inconvenience and [ __ ] [ __ ] out of your life so you can sculpt and just boost your life nine a lot of people that came across the stack with other brands Bachmann how do you build your life [ __ ] good you've got to build yourself true north principles who are you what are you trying to get a life are you going in life what do you want out of life most guys completely lack this in their own somebody else's plans brutal this is [ __ ] brutal so guys get very bitter about the things that I'm just talking about they're super bitter about it but what I'd ask you is why why are you bitter are you bitter that you can't just keeping a purposeless no Direction little dish that's bother you you can't just be lucky so you want to think of yourself as an entity that has Direction good emotions good people around you what does that mean two different things one is you've got to know who you are but who am I the person what do we find out from my friend got to be somebody who knows from their boundaries in other words you'll take [ __ ] imports horns for [ __ ] it's fine most of you in this room will never do it you're full of [ __ ] most of you will never do it reason why human beings for success raters people have success bears out the [ __ ] pills they're always like he'll do it later it's a very common thing people will say I'll do it later I'll do it later I'll do you know and why cuz they're busy with their lives and they've got stuff going on people in general just get stuck in this weird autopilot rut where they're just doing the same [ __ ] again and again because people always say they'll do it later I'll do it later I'll do later it's gonna happen later and they really believe it and it will never happen it'll never happen focus on being a winner and what I'd recommend to you is try to pick something that builds the structure that you want so this is really a speech about building a structure okay it's about building something where you as a man are growing and increasing in your power so again final conclusion as a man a lot of [ __ ] out there soon failure unless you fight against the law of entropy baby gotta fight against it work to create structures unplug from what you're being told [ __ ] with the veto [ __ ] with our XD is telling you [ __ ] the society telling you got a look at this [ __ ] with your own critical judgment how much energy up how much of the sex drive do you have what do you want out of life what kind of likely trying to build what where are you going with all this [ __ ] and then start experimenting with different structures now while you're young try them out cold approach pickup is a major cornerstone of that and then build it up and you can create a life of your own design you can be a manager Prime and you can become one of those rare men who actually is energy and good [ __ ] having a great life well into your old age you can't connect the dots looking forward you can only connect them looking backwards so you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future you have to trust in something your gut destiny life karma whatever because believing that the dots will connect down the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart even when it leads you off the well-worn path and that will make all the difference your time is limited so don't waste it living someone else's life don't be trapped by Dogma which is living with the results of other people's thinking don't let the noise of others opinions drown out your own inner voice you've got to find what you love and that is as true for work as it is for your lovers your work is going to fill a large part of your life and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work and the only way to do great work is to love what you do if you haven't found it yet keep looking and don't settle have the courage to follow your heart and intuition they somehow already know what you truly want to become but you're gonna have some ups and you gonna have some downs most people give up on themselves easily you know the human spirit is powerful there's nothing is powerful it's hard to kill the human spirit anybody can feel good when they have their health their bills the pain they have happy relationships anybody could be positive then anybody can have a larger vision then anybody can have faith under those kinds of circumstances the real challenge of growth mentally emotionally and spiritually comes when you get knocked down it takes courage time being hungry when you live that takes courage to start over again fear kills dreams fear kills hope fear what people in the hospital fear can age you can hold you back from doing something that you know within yourself that you are capable of doing but it will paralyze you at the end of your fillings is nothing but at the end of every principle is a promise behind your little feelings it might not be absolutely nothing at the end of your look village but behind every principle is a promise and some of you and your life the reason why you not at your goal right now cuz you just all about your feelings all on your feelings you don't feel like waking up so who does everyday you say no to your dreams you might be pushing your dreams back a whole six months a whole year that one single day that one day you didn't get up could have pushed your stuff back I don't know how long don't allow your emotions to control you we are emotional but you want to begin to discipline your emotion if you don't discipline and contain your emotions they won't use you you want it and you're gonna go all out to have it it's not going to be easy when you want to change it's not easy if it were in fact easy everybody to do it but if you serious I'm in control here I'm not gonna let this get me down I'm not gonna let this destroy me I'm coming back and I'll be stronger and better because of it you have got to make a declaration this is what you stand for you're standing up for your dreams you're standing up for peace of mind you're standing up for health take full responsibility for your life it's where you are and the responsibility that you're going to take yourself where you want to go you can decide that I'm going to live each day as if it were my last live your life with passion what sometime decide that you are to push yourself the last chapter to your life has not been written yet it doesn't matter what what do you wanna talk about this year I will make this goal become every other I won't talk about it okay I can't I can't how easy and how convenient is it for us to blame everything and everybody for the things that we have gone on in our lives there is a such thing as you being a positive and a great person with the best of intentions towards everybody and [ __ ] is rough and you just can't get a break but most of you most of you are waking up every day looking for pain dysfunction drama unemployment being broke struggling dropping every excuse in the book about your childhood and the problems and dysfunction that you grew up in that's stopping you from becoming successful you don't like your friends so why are you still [ __ ] with you don't trust your managers agents and lawyers so why are they still there do you really expect your life and career to be any different from messing with the same things people and situations that's all I'm saying stop being a lazy bum ass person that's full of excuses sitting around on the pity party coming up with every excuse in the world as to why you ain't winning you are the reason you're not winning you keep messin with negative evil and dysfunctional people in expecting positive results it's time you get off the pity party stop complaining about being out of shape when you never go to the gym stop looking at your stomach when you get out of the shower and your body and complaining about the way you look when you're eating everything in sight and never going to the gym you are the reason you look the way you look you are the reason you're unemployed you're the reason why your surroundings are so dysfunctional and negative you could still be in the hood broke and [ __ ] up and living a peaceful life it's a choice we are being raised in a generation of people that come up with every excuse in the book as to why they are not winning you have every excuse in the Riesz in the book why you're not spending time with your kids fathers I'm talking to you because you're able to create a child doesn't mean that you're a father it doesn't mean that you understand the concept of fatherhood it's time to stop coming up with excuses why five six seven months and even years have went by without you seeing your child it's wrong and it's only the kids that are suffering in the end excuses sound best to the people that's making them up you got every excuse in the world that's why your [ __ ] ain't moving that's why nothing change and nothing will change because you have convinced yourself that everything is wrong everything in negative is negative and nothing will change and guess what it won't change change your mind and it will change your life change if nothing around you changes change the things that are around you tired of it I'm frustrated with the amount of people that are not successful because they have thought their way into a depression you have thought your way into negativity and misery you have thought your way into holding on to a dude or a girl that you broke up with a year or two ago and you're still sad and miserable at eight and moved on with a life it's all in the mind change your mind and it will change your life you just have to you just have to wake up you just have to break that negative spirit you have to break through all of that [ __ ] that you're carrying I don't want to I don't feel sorry for you you feel sorry for yourself that's the problem even when positive people are trying to give you all this good energy you have tricked your mind to turn every positive thing that they say into something negative every time they say anything to try and motivate you and inspire you you you turn every negative thought and every you turn every positive thought every positive intention everything that they trying to to boost your spirits up you flip it shake it manipulate it and you if you are so determined to be negative in is unbelievable it's a new day it's a new day my message isn't to tear you down and contribute to your negativity my intention is just saying enough is enough God isn't done with you God is not done with you that's why you're still here but I actually have a problem with the fact that there are people out here that could be more successful that you have fought your way into a depression you have fought your way into gravitating and moving into the direction that anything and anybody this negative everything about your life that you decided that you wanted for yourself is so negative but yet you you're expecting to produce positive results it's not gonna happen people the outcome of your life in your career is based on the choices that you've made I love you I'm asking that you get off the pity potty it's not feeling sorry for yourself for every level there's a metal devil for every level there's another devil get off to anybody it's your season is your moment right now the question is are you just gonna look at this video and decide wow that was some powerful [ __ ] and do the same [ __ ] thing the question is are you happy and if you're not happy what's holding you back what what do you think that's the source of your lack of happiness what is it that you think that we're gonna change it will make things different for you that you would be happy what's the purpose of your life we got a look at what makes you really do what you do you need to find something that's eternal inside of yourself that no matter what changes on the surface this part of you does not change if the part you come back to a part that guides you the part that really makes you fulfilled most of us in life are so afraid something's gonna happen that we can't control therefore we're gonna get pain that we try to avoid those things we can't control try to shape our lives where we spend our time who we spend our time with what we do by environments that we feel really comfortable in when we feel like we're really controlling them but what that does is it limits the shape and quality of our lives you know so many times we set goals or we have dreams or we have plans and we work our tail off and it doesn't come out the way we want a lot of people come out of those situations disillusioned or angry or resentful or frustrated they look for someone to blame but you know sometimes I really truly believe that not getting your goal is part of the design causing you to dig inside and discover more of yourself to really begin to use your real capacities human being those traits that are within you that only expand when they're challenged how do you live in a world where suddenly something can happen it can take away your whole business or you know storm could come and take away your home or or some calamity could happen to your personal family or a disease could hit or or someone could die how do you deal with all that and the answer is you have to know the one thing you can control is not events we control is what things need how much time you really waste for real how much of our brains are we really going to use so I don't care if you abuse our athletes I don't give you a billionaire I don't care if you'll see your one most important come down care of you an entertainer like I don't care we all have problems stop letting the problems are part of life there are two types of people in the world ok exactly where they are you have people on one side who have reasons they'll tell you all the [ __ ] reasons why they can't become successful why they can't get what they want my question is what are you going to do it's your time what drives you I want you to focus on your dreams no bunny ain't got to convince me of what I do I want you to focus on your goal I do what I do because I do what I do I want you to focus on your solution because I'm built from something and man then create I want you to focus on that dream life if you've much time this is what I believe and I'm willing to die here this is what you love this is your passion step back don't judge it if your judge a judge not lest ye be judged why because when you judge it you in best emotion in it and that mote emotion could be anger and guess what that hurts you that doesn't hurt anybody else earn the most you possibly can be the most you possibly can and here's why the essence of life is growth the essence of life is growth to do the best you can and here's what's interesting humans are the only life-form that will do less than they possibly can I rather lose out on my dream doing the right thing than the chief trying to make a shortcut to get to my goal my best advice for you is to choose the all earn all you can make all the friends you can read as many books as you can develop as many skills as you can see as much as possible do as much as possible make as much fortune as possible give as much of it away as possible the max there's no life like it I'm telling you once I got on track I've never looked back how much time do you spend working on you how much time do you spend every day working on your dream in the last 90 days how many books have you read in the last year what new skill or knowledge have you acquired what kind of investment have you made in you so I'm saying that as you begin to look at where you want to go if you want to make it today and things are changing so fast you have to literally run to stand still I'm saying that you've got to make some conscious effort to begin to work to develop you here's something else most people are not living their dreams because of fear ladies and gentlemen fear limited vision and lack of self-esteem is what keep most people doing things they don't want to do how easy is it to get up in the morning when you know you're not doing all that it takes it's not very easy at all you can just lay there awake thinking oh what's a few more minutes bed it won't matter much anyway wrong it does matter it will matter now how easy is it to get up in the morning when you're pouring it on doing the best you can anxious to get going make progress toward your dreams it's a whole different story when you're resting to renew your reserves it's much different than resting to avoid your day when you're psyched up and excited for your life when you're excited for what you plan to accomplish for the day it's amazing you'll wake up before the alarm clock even tries to start you away your successes fuel your ambition your successes give you extra energy your successes pave the way for more successes it's the snowball effect with one success you're excited to meet another and another and another and pretty soon the disciplines that were so difficult in the beginning the disciplines that got you going are now part of your philosophy

Channel: Vegabond

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Length: 116min 40sec (7000 seconds)

Published: Mon Jul 20 2015