Money Matters: Living Joyfully Within Your Means | E. Jeffrey Hill

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♪♪<i> THIS DEVOTIONAL ADDRESS</i> <i>WITH JEFF HILL WAS GIVEN ON JUNE 9, 2015.</i> >>GOOD MORNING, BROTHERS AND SISTERS, AND WELCOME TO OUR DEVOTIONAL. WE ARE PLEASED TO HAVE JEFFREY HILL, A PROFESSOR OF FAMILY LIFE, AS OUR SPEAKER TODAY. WE EXTEND A SPECIAL WELCOME TO HIS WIFE, TAMMY, AND THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS WHO ARE HERE. PROFESSOR HILL RECEIVED HIS BACHELOR'S AND MASTER'S DEGREES FROM BRIGHAM YOUNG UNIVERSITY, THEN EARNED A PH.D. FROM UTAH STATE UNIVERSITY IN FAMILY AND HUMAN DEVELOPMENT. <i>HE TEACHES CLASSES IN FAMILY FINANCE,</i> <i>AND HIS RESEARCH DEALS WITH SUCCESSFULLY INTEGRATING WORK,</i> <i>FAMILY, AND FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES.</i> <i>PROFESSOR HILL WAS AWARDED THE</i> KARL G. MAESER EXCELLENCE IN TEACHING AWARD IN 2012. JEFF AND HIS WIFE, TAMMY, HAVE BEEN MARRIED EIGHT YEARS <i>AND ARE JOYFULLY BLENDING A FAMILY OF 12 CHILDREN</i> <i>AND 21 GRANDCHILDREN.</i> AND NOW WE'LL BE PLEASED TO HEAR FROM BROTHER JEFFREY HILL. >>GOOD MORNING! I'M EXCITED TO BE HERE TODAY! I PRAY THAT THE SPIRIT WILL BLESS US. THE TOPIC TODAY IS IMPORTANT, BOTH TEMPORALLY AND SPIRITUALLY, AND I INVITE YOU TO LISTEN WITH BOTH YOUR MIND AND YOUR HEART. EACH YEAR, I TEACH ALMOST A THOUSAND BYU STUDENTS ABOUT FAMILY FINANCE IN SFL 260. <i>ODDLY ENOUGH, THE PURPOSE OF THIS</i> <i>COURSE IS NOT TO TEACH STUDENTS HOW TO GET RICH.</i> <i>INSTEAD, THE GOAL IS TO HELP STUDENTS GAIN A STEWARDSHIP</i> <i>PERSPECTIVE AND WISELY MANAGE MONEY TO JOYFULLY STRENGTHEN</i> <i>FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS.</i> <i>AS A BONUS, THIS CLASS FULFILLS THE</i> <i>QUANTITATIVE REASONING GENERAL EDUCATION REQUIREMENT.</i> <i>AT THE BEGINNING OF EACH SEMESTER,</i> <i>I TELL MY CLASS TO REMEMBER THREE THINGS,</i> <i>AND I INVITE YOU TO DO THE SAME:</i> <i>FIRST, LIFE IS HARD, BUT YOU CAN DO HARD THINGS.</i> <i>WITH THE HELP OF THE LORD, YOU CAN DO ANYTHING HE</i> <i>WANTS YOU TO DO-- EVEN BALANCE A BUDGET OR</i> <i>INVEST IN A MUTUAL FUND.</i> <i>SECOND, WHEN LIFE DOESN'T GO AS PLANNED,</i> <i>DON'T GET FRUSTRATED; MAKE THE BEST OF IT.</i> <i>MOST OF THE TIME, THINGS DON'T GO</i> <i>AS PLANNED-- ESPECIALLY IN</i> <i>FINANCIAL MATTERS-- AND IF YOU DON'T</i> <i>MAKE THE BEST OF IT, YOU'LL SPEND MOST OF YOUR</i> <i>LIFE FEELING FRUSTRATED.</i> <i>AND THIRD, T.T.T., THINGS TAKE TIME.</i> <i>IN FACT, THE BEST FINANCIAL PLAN IS THE</i> <i>"GET RICH SLOWLY" PLAN, WHERE YOU SAFELY AND</i> <i>SYSTEMATICALLY INVEST.</i> <i>WHENEVER I TALK ABOUT FINANCES,</i> <i>I AM REMINDED OF A STORY I</i> HEARD ABOUT A COLLEGE FRESHMAN WHO DIDN'T BUDGET VERY WELL. HE KEPT RUNNING OUT OF MONEY BEFORE HE RAN OUT OF MONTH. ONE NIGHT THE STUDENT TEXTED HOME: "NO MON, NO FUN, YOUR SON." HIS WISE FATHER TEXTED RIGHT BACK, "HOW SAD, TOO BAD, YOUR DAD." I HOPE MY TALK THIS MORNING WILL HELP YOU AVOID THE PLIGHT OF THIS STUDENT. THE TITLE OF THIS DEVOTIONAL<i> TODAY IS MONEY MATTERS:</i> <i>LIVING JOYFULLY WITHIN YOUR MEANS.</i> <i>TO INTRODUCE THIS THEME, I WOULD LIKE TO GET PERSONAL</i> AND BRIEFLY SHARE SOME THINGS I HAVE LEARNED OVER MY LIFETIME ABOUT MONEY AND JOYFUL LIVING. A LONG, LONG, LONG TIME AGO,<i> JUANITA RAY AND I MET</i> <i>WHILE ATTENDING BYU.</i> <i>WE PLAYED RACQUETBALL TOGETHER, COURTED FOR A TIME,</i> <i>AND WERE MARRIED IN THE TEMPLE.</i> <i>AS NEWLYWEDS, WE HAD NO MONEY.</i> WE LIVED IN A TINY TWO-ROOM APARTMENT WITH LOW CEILINGS, WE BOUGHT CLOTHES FROM D.I., AND WE ATE HER FAMILY'S FOOD STORAGE. WE DRANK POWDERED MILK FOR ALMOST A YEAR. YUCK! BUT WE HAD EACH OTHER, WE HAD OUR LOVE, AND WE HAD THE GOSPEL. IT WAS A GOOD YEAR. WE LEARNED YOU DON'T NEED A LOT OF MONEY TO BE HAPPY. I GRADUATED, GOT A GOOD JOB, AND WE STARTED<i> DRINKING WHOLE MILK.</i> <i>HEAVENLY!</i> <i>I HAD BEEN TAUGHT TO PAY 10 PERCENT TO THE LORD,</i> SAVE 10 PERCENT TO INVEST, AND LIVE ON THE REST. JUANITA AND I DID THIS AS WE CREATED OUR FAMILY BUDGETS OVER THE YEARS. WE WERE FRUITFUL, AND AFTER TWENTY-FIVE YEARS WE HAD LOTS OF KIDS WHO FILLED OUR MORTGAGE-FREE HOME. WE ALSO HAD SOLID INVESTMENTS. WE LEARNED ABOUT THE MIRACLE OF COMPOUND INTEREST: IF YOU CONSISTENTLY SAVE A LITTLE MONEY AND INVEST IT IN A BROAD STOCK MARKET FUND, THAT MONEY NATURALLY MULTIPLIES. <i>CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN ALSO MULTIPLY.</i> <i>THEN CAME THE HARD PART.</i> THOUGH JUANITA AND I WERE FINANCIALLY SET FOR A LONG LIFE TOGETHER-- AND WE ANTICIPATED MANY MISSIONS, LOTS OF TRAVEL, AND LOTS OF GRANDKIDS-- LIFE DIDN'T GO AS PLANNED. JUANITA GOT CANCER. SHE FOUGHT VALIANTLY, BUT CANCER WON. I LEARNED THAT THERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT MATTER MUCH MORE THAN MONEY, AND I LEARNED <i>THE HARD WAY THAT "YOU CAN'T TAKE</i> <i>IT WITH YOU."</i> <i>AFTER JUANITA DIED, I WAS A LONELY SINGLE DAD.</i> I COULDN'T SLEEP. I GOT ANGRY EASILY. I DIDN'T EAT WELL. TO COMPENSATE, I WASTED MY MONEY. I LEARNED HOW FOOLISH IT IS TO SPEND WHEN YOU ARE HUNGRY, ANGRY, LONELY, AND TIRED. <i>THEN A MIRACLE HAPPENED.</i> <i>GOD SENT ME AN AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL WIDOW</i> <i>NAMED TAMMY MULFORD.</i> <i>IT WAS SO FUN TO BE DATING AGAIN,</i> <i>AND TO HAVE MONEY THIS TIME!</i> <i>TAMMY AND I FELL IN LOVE AND WERE MARRIED.</i> <i>WHAT PURE JOY!</i> <i>AND WHAT A GOOD WOMAN!</i> <i>IT TAKES A REMARKABLE PERSON TO MARRY A STUFFY BYU</i> <i>PROFESSOR WITH SO MANY KIDS.</i> <i>JUANITA AND I ARE BOTH ETERNALLY GRATEFUL TO TAMMY!</i> <i>IT IS NEVER EASY TO JOIN TWO FAMILIES,</i> <i>BUT TAMMY AND I HAVE LEARNED THAT MONEY IS USEFUL WHEN YOU</i> <i>ARE BLENDING A LARGE FAMILY, ESPECIALLY ONE WITH TWELVE</i> <i>CHILDREN, SIX IN-LAWS, AND TWENTY-ONE GRANDCHILDREN.</i> <i>ONE FINAL NOTE: WHEN THE KIDS WERE OLDER,</i> <i>TAMMY TOOK THE INITIATIVE TO GO BACK TO GRADUATE SCHOOL.</i> <i>SHE NOW BLESSES MANY AS AN EXCELLENT MARRIAGE AND</i> <i>FAMILY THERAPIST AND ADJUNCT PROFESSOR AT BYU.</i> <i>THIS WAS ONLY AN OPTION BECAUSE WE HAD THE</i> FINANCIAL RESOURCES TO DO IT. WE LEARNED THAT MONEY MAKES IMPORTANT THINGS POSSIBLE. OK, THAT'S MY LIFE STORY! LET'S GET BACK TO TODAY'S THEME: MONEY MATTERS: LIVING JOYFULLY WITHIN YOUR MEANS. FINANCES CAN BE PERPLEXING FOR MANY OF US, BUT THIS MORNING I HOPE TO MAKE THEM A LITTLE SIMPLER. I WILL FIRST BRIEFLY EXPLORE WHY MONEY MATTERS TO FAMILIES. THEN I WILL SHARE FIVE PRACTICES TO HELP YOU LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS AND THUS CLAIM BLESSINGS OF JOY. LET'S GET STARTED! FIRST, MONEY MATTERS. THE CHOICES WE MAKE WITH MONEY ARE AT THE HEART OF MORTALITY'S TEST. WILL WE CHOOSE TO WASTE OUR RESOURCES UPON TRANSITORY PLEASURES? OR WILL WE CHOOSE TO SERVE OTHERS AND BUILD UP THE KINGDOM OF GOD? WILL WE CHOOSE TO ACT ON IMPULSE AND BURDEN OURSELVES WITH DEBT? OR WILL WE ACT PRUDENTLY SO THAT MONEY BECOMES A TOOL FOR FAMILY JOY AND NOT THE CAUSE OF STRESS AND WORRY? MONEY MATTERS TO A HUSBAND AND WIFE AND THEIR MARITAL RELATIONSHIP. INDEED, RESEARCH SHOWS THAT FINANCIAL DIFFICULTIES ARE OFTEN ASSOCIATED WITH MARITAL STRESS AND EVEN DIVORCE. DR. BERNARD PODUSKA REFLECTED,<i> "THE SAYING</i> <i>"'MARRIED FOR "'BETTER OR WORSE,</i> <i>"OR UNTIL DEBT DO US PART' "SEEMS TO REFLECT TODAY'S</i> <i>"MARITAL REALITIES MORE "ACCURATELY THAN DOES THE</i> <i>TRADITIONAL VOW."</i> <i>A WORD OF ADVICE FOR THOSE</i> SEEKING AN ETERNAL MATE, YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE: AN IMPORTANT CRITERION FOR A FUTURE SPOUSE IS THE WAY THEY HANDLE MONEY. MONEY ALSO MATTERS TO PARENTS AND CHILDREN. PARENTS HAVE A SACRED RESPONSIBILITY TO REAR THEIR CHILDREN IN LOVE AND RIGHTEOUSNESS, AND THIS INCLUDES TEACHING THEIR CHILDREN ABOUT FINANCES. ELDER JOSEPH B. WIRTHLIN TAUGHT,<i> "TOO MANY OF OUR YOUTH GET</i> <i>"INTO FINANCIAL DIFFICULTY "BECAUSE THEY NEVER LEARNED</i> <i>"PROPER PRINCIPLES OF FINANCIAL "COMMON SENSE AT HOME.</i> <i>"TEACH YOUR CHILDREN WHILE THEY ARE YOUNG."</i> <i>THERE ARE MANY WAYS</i> PARENTS CAN TEACH CHILDREN ABOUT MONEY. ONE PRACTICE OUR FAMILY ADOPTED WAS TO ESTABLISH A FAMILY BANK. UNTIL THEY GRADUATE FROM HIGH SCHOOL, OUR CHILDREN MAY INVEST THEIR MONEY IN AND BORROW MONEY FROM THE FAMILY BANK. MONEY INVESTED EARNS 10 PERCENT INTEREST PER MONTH, COMPOUNDED MONTHLY. MONEY BORROWED COSTS 10 PERCENT INTEREST, COMPOUNDED MONTHLY. THIS ARRANGEMENT QUICKLY TEACHES CHILDREN THAT THE SMART DECISION IS TO SAVE AND EARN INTEREST AND THAT THE FOOLISH DECISION IS TO BORROW AND PAY INTEREST. THOUGH MONEY IS IMPORTANT, WE MUST VIEW ITS PURPOSE WITH AN ETERNAL PERSPECTIVE. MONEY IS MEANT TO BE A MEANS FOR SERVING OUR FAMILIES AND OUR GOD. WHEN CONSECRATED TO THOSE PURPOSES, IT IS OF GREAT WORTH. HOWEVER, WHEN MONEY BECOMES AN END UNTO ITSELF, IT DERAILS US FROM OUR ETERNAL PURPOSES. WHEN WE FOCUS TOO MUCH OF OUR TIME, TALENTS, AND ENERGY ON MAKING MONEY, WE SIN. THE APOSTLE PAUL TAUGHT THAT "THE LOVE OF MONEY IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL." OK, YOU'VE SEEN HOW "MONEY MATTERS." NOW LET'S LOOK AT "LIVING JOYFULLY WITHIN YOUR MEANS." WE MUST BUILD OUR FINANCIAL HOUSES UPON THE ROCK OF THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST. FORTUNATELY, OUR PROPHETS, SEERS, AND REVELATORS-- CHRIST'S REPRESENTATIVES ON THE EARTH-- HAVE GIVEN US CLEAR FINANCIAL GUIDANCE. I HAVE DISTILLED FIVE DISTINCT THEMES FROM THEIR MESSAGES <i>OVER THE YEARS: ONE: CREATE, USE, AND</i> <i>UPDATE A FAMILY BUDGET.</i> <i>TWO: MINIMIZE AND EVENTUALLY ELIMINATE DEBT.</i> <i>THREE: INVEST EARLY, CONSISTENTLY,</i> <i>AND WISELY TO BUILD A FINANCIAL RESERVE.</i> <i>FOUR: DON'T DO DUMB THINGS</i> <i>WITH YOUR MONEY!</i> <i>FIVE: BE GENEROUS AND SHARE YOUR RESOURCES</i> <i>WITH OTHERS.</i> <i>IN A RECENT FIRST PRESIDENCY MESSAGE,</i> <i>PRESIDENT THOMAS S. MONSON TAUGHT THESE PRACTICES</i> <i>SUCCINCTLY: "WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO</i> <i>"LOOK TO THE CONDITION "OF YOUR FINANCES.</i> <i>"WE URGE YOU TO DISCIPLINE "YOURSELVES IN YOUR</i> <i>"PURCHASES TO AVOID DEBT.</i> <i>"PAY OFF DEBT AS "QUICKLY AS YOU CAN,</i> <i>"AND FREE YOURSELVES "FROM THIS BONDAGE.</i> <i>"SAVE A LITTLE MONEY "REGULARLY TO GRADUALLY</i> <i>BUILD A FINANCIAL RESERVE."</i> <i>AND I IMAGINE PRESIDENT MONSON CHUCKLED AS HE WROTE,</i> <i>"MANY MORE PEOPLE COULD RIDE "OUT THE STORM-TOSSED WAVES IN</i> <i>"THEIR ECONOMIC LIVES IF THEY "HAD A SUPPLY OF FOOD AND</i> <i>"CLOTHING AND WERE DEBT-FREE.</i> <i>"TODAY WE FIND THAT MANY "HAVE FOLLOWED THIS</i> <i>"COUNSEL IN REVERSE: "THEY HAVE A SUPPLY OF</i> <i>DEBT AND ARE FOOD-FREE."</i> <i>LET'S EXAMINE MORE CLOSELY FIVE PRACTICES THAT CAN HELP</i> YOU MOVE TOWARD LIVING JOYFULLY WITHIN YOUR MEANS. ONE: CREATE, USE, AND UPDATE A FAMILY BUDGET. THE FIRST PRACTICE IS TO CREATE, USE, AND CONTINUALLY UPDATE A BUDGET. ELDER ROBERT D. HALES TAUGHT,<i> "WE HELP OUR CHILDREN LEARN TO</i> <i>"BE PROVIDENT PROVIDERS BY "ESTABLISHING A FAMILY BUDGET.</i> <i>"WE SHOULD REGULARLY REVIEW "OUR FAMILY INCOME, SAVINGS,</i> <i>"AND SPENDING PLAN IN FAMILY COUNCIL MEETINGS."</i> <i>A BUDGET IS SIMPLY A PLAN FOR HOW YOU ARE GOING</i> TO SPEND THE MONEY THAT IS AVAILABLE TO YOU. EVERYONE, INCLUDING YOU, SHOULD HAVE A BUDGET. TO CREATE A BUDGET, YOU DETERMINE YOUR SPENDABLE INCOME AND ALLOCATE IT TO DIFFERENT CATEGORIES OF EXPENSES. THEN YOU TRACK YOUR ACTUAL SPENDING AGAINST YOUR BUDGET. A BUDGET IS A LIVING DOCUMENT THAT IS MODIFIED AS CONDITIONS WARRANT. I SUGGEST THAT EVERY BUDGET SHOULD ALLOCATE AT LEAST 10 PERCENT TO TITHES AND OFFERINGS, AND MOST BUDGETS SHOULD ALLOCATE AT LEAST 10 PERCENT TO LONG-TERM SAVINGS. YOU CAN FIND SAMPLE BUDGETS ON NUMEROUS INTERNET SITES, SUCH AS THE MARRIOTT SCHOOL'S EXCELLENT SITE PERSONALFINANCE.BYU.EDU AND LDS.ORG. IN MY MIND, THE MOST OVERLOOKED BUDGET CATEGORY IS MISCELLANEOUS. UNEXPECTED EXPENSES ALWAYS COME UP THAT DON'T FIT NEATLY INTO YOUR BUDGET CATEGORIES: A CAR REPAIR, A ROOT CANAL, OR PERHAPS AN ENGAGEMENT RING. IN MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIPS, BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE SHOULD HAVE A SAY IN BUDGET CREATION. IN MANY MARRIAGES, ONE PARTNER IS A SAVER, AND THE OTHER PARTNER IS A SPENDER. BOTH PLAY AN IMPORTANT ROLE. EARLY IN A MARRIAGE, IT IS A GREAT BLESSING WHEN THE SAVER CAN HELP THE SPENDER STAY WITHIN THE BUDGET. ELDER ROBERT D. HALES POIGNANTLY ILLUSTRATED THIS POINT IN THE FOLLOWING STORY: "WE WERE NEWLY MARRIED AND HAD VERY LITTLE MONEY "I SAW A BEAUTIFUL DRESS IN A "STORE WINDOW AND SUGGESTED TO "MY WIFE THAT IF SHE LIKED IT, "WE WOULD BUY IT. "MARY WENT INTO THE DRESSING "ROOM OF THE STORE. "AFTER A MOMENT THE "SALESCLERK CAME OUT, "BRUSHED BY ME, "AND RETURNED THE DRESS TO ITS "PLACE IN THE STORE WINDOW. "AS WE LEFT THE STORE, "I ASKED, "'WHAT HAPPENED?' "SHE REPLIED, "'IT WAS A BEAUTIFUL DRESS, "BUT WE CAN'T AFFORD IT!' "THOSE WORDS WENT STRAIGHT TO MY HEART." ELDER HALES FINISHED THIS STORY SAYING, <i>"I HAVE LEARNED THAT THE "THREE MOST LOVING WORDS ARE</i> <i>"'I LOVE YOU,' "AND THE FOUR MOST CARING</i> <i>"WORDS FOR THOSE WE LOVE ARE 'WE CAN'T AFFORD IT.'"</i> <i>THE SPENDER CAN ALSO PLAY AN IMPORTANT</i> <i>ROLE IN THE MARRIAGE.</i> IF, AFTER A PERIOD OF TIME, THE FAMILY IS DOING WELL FINANCIALLY, THE SPENDER CAN TAKE THE LEAD IN BUDGETING FOR SOME SPECIAL EXPENDITURES THAT WOULD STRENGTHEN RELATIONSHIPS: PERHAPS A SECOND HONEYMOON OR A NICE FAMILY VACATION. I INVITE EACH OF YOU TO CREATE, USE, AND UPDATE SOME FORM OF BUDGET FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. TWO: MINIMIZE AND EVENTUALLY ELIMINATE DEBT THE SECOND PRESIDENT THOMAS S. MONSON RECENTLY QUOTED PRESIDENT J. REUBEN CLARKE, JR. WHEN HE SAID,<i> "ONCE IN DEBT,</i> <i>"INTEREST IS YOUR "COMPANION EVERY MINUTE</i> <i>"OF THE DAY AND NIGHT; "YOU CANNOT SHUN IT OR</i> <i>"SLIP AWAY FROM IT; "AND WHENEVER YOU GET IN ITS</i> <i>"WAY OR CROSS ITS COURSE OR "FAIL TO MEET ITS DEMANDS,</i> <i>IT CRUSHES YOU."</i> <i>SO IS ANY DEBT LEGITIMATE?</i> THE COUNSEL OF CHURCH LEADERS ON DEBT WAS RECENTLY SUMMARIZED BY ELDER ROBERT D. HALES: <i>"SOME DEBT INCURRED FOR "EDUCATION, A MODEST HOME,</i> <i>"OR A BASIC AUTOMOBILE "MAY BE NECESSARY TO</i> <i>PROVIDE FOR A FAMILY."</i> <i>I MIGHT ADD THAT NECESSARY DEBT FOR A BYU EDUCATION</i> <i>USUALLY PAYS OFF QUITE WELL.</i> <i>A RECENT STUDY REVEALED THAT THE COST OF A BYU</i> EDUCATION HAD THE HIGHEST RETURN ON INVESTMENT OF ANY UNIVERSITY IN UTAH. HERE I WOULD LIKE TO INTERJECT WHAT I BELIEVE IS THE BIGGEST FINANCIAL MISTAKE MADE BY RECENT BYU GRADUATES: BUYING A HOUSE THAT IS BEYOND THEIR MEANS. THERE IS A REASON FOR THIS PROBLEM. WHEN YOU APPLY FOR A MORTGAGE LOAN, YOU ARE ASKED ABOUT YOUR DEBTS. TITHING REPRESENTS A DEBT WORTH 10 PERCENT OF YOUR INCOME, REDUCING THE AMOUNT YOU CAN AFFORD FOR A HOUSE PAYMENT. PLEASE TREAT 10 PERCENT OF YOUR INCOME AS A DEBT WHEN CONSIDERING HOW MUCH YOU CAN REALLY AFFORD TO PAY FOR A HOME. IF YOU ALREADY HAVE DEBTS, THE KEY IS TO INCLUDE A "DEBT REPAYMENT" CATEGORY IN YOUR BUDGET. THE MONEY ALLOCATED TO THIS CATEGORY IS APPLIED EACH MONTH AS AN EXTRA PAYMENT TO THE DEBT WITH THE HIGHEST INTEREST RATE UNTIL IT IS ELIMINATED. AGAIN, PERSONALFINANCE.BYU.EDU HAS EXCELLENT ADVICE ON THIS TOPIC. THE PROPHETIC COUNSEL IS CLEAR, BUT SOMETIMES TEMPTATIONS ARE VERY CHALLENGING, EVEN AFTER BEING DEBT-FREE FOR YEARS. LET ME CONFESS AND SHARE ANOTHER PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. TAMMY AND I HAVE COMMITTED TO FOLLOW THE PROPHET AND LIVE DEBT FREE, WITHIN OUR MEANS. WE DON'T HAVE A MORTGAGE NOR ANY OTHER DEBT. WE DO MAKE A CAR PAYMENT EACH MONTH, BUT INSTEAD OF PAYING A CAR DEALERSHIP, WE MAKE A DEPOSIT INTO OUR OWN CAR SAVINGS ACCOUNT. A LITTLE WHILE AGO, WE TOOK ABOUT FOUR YEARS OF CAR SAVINGS AND WENT SHOPPING FOR A NEW CAR. WE REALLY LIKED A BASE MODEL TOYOTA, AND IT FIT OUR BUDGET PERFECTLY. WE THOUGHT WE WERE READY TO BUY, BUT THEN THE SALESMAN SHOWED US THE NEXT MODEL UP. IT WAS MUCH NICER BUT WAS A LITTLE MORE THAN WHAT WE HAD SAVED. BUT THEN, AND THIS WAS THE TEMPTATION, WE WERE LED TO A TOP-OF-THE-LINE MODEL, A REAL DREAM MACHINE. NOW, I'VE NEVER BEEN INFATUATED WITH CARS, BUT DRIVING THAT VEHICLE WAS A TRANSCENDENT EXPERIENCE; IT WAS SO SMOOTH, SO POWERFUL. I WANTED IT! I REALLY WANTED IT, AND TAMMY WANTED IT TOO! WE HAD JUST ONE PROBLEM: THE CAR COST MUCH MORE THAN WHAT WE HAD IN OUR CAR SAVINGS. THE SALES PERSON ENTHUSIASTICALLY SHOWED US THAT WITH OUR LARGE DOWN PAYMENT, OUR MONTHLY CAR PAYMENT WOULD BE VERY AFFORDABLE! WHAT WOULD BE WRONG WITH A LITTLE DEBT IF WE COULD GET WHAT WE WANTED NOW? WE WERE SO TEMPTED! FORTUNATELY, TAMMY AND I DON'T MAKE MAJOR FINANCIAL DECISIONS ON THE SPOT. WE TALK ABOUT IT, PRAY ABOUT IT, SLEEP ON IT, AND MAKE THE FINAL DECISION WHEN WE'RE FRESH, AND HOPEFULLY MORE INSPIRED. SO, WE WENT HOME AND TRIED TO TALK OURSELVES INTO THIS BRIEF EXCURSION INTO DEBT. BUT WE DIDN'T FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT, SO WE DECIDED TO WAIT. WHEN I TOLD THIS STORY TO MY FAMILY FINANCE CLASS AT BYU, ONE STUDENT ASKED, "DR. HILL, "WHY DON'T YOU JUST BUY A USED "VERSION OF THE CAR YOU WANT? "IT'S BETTER FINANCIALLY ANYWAY." HE WAS RIGHT! IT IS MORE ECONOMICAL TO BUY A USED, LOW-MILEAGE CAR THAN TO BUY A NEW CAR. I GOT EXCITED! RIGHT AFTER CLASS, I SEARCHED CARFAX.COM AND FOUND A BEAUTIFUL CAR WITH LOW MILES IN REXBURG, IDAHO THAT FIT OUR BUDGET. MY DAD LIVES IN REXBURG, SO I ASKED HIM TO TAKE A TEST DRIVE. HE CALLED BACK AND SAID IT WAS THE BEST CAR HE'D EVER DRIVEN. IF I DIDN'T BUY IT, HE WOULD! I BOUGHT THE CAR OVER THE PHONE ON CONDITION THAT MY WIFE WOULD APPROVE IT. OUR ANNIVERSARY WAS COMING UP, SO I DECIDED TO SURPRISE TAMMY. I ASKED HER TO GIVE ME 24 HOURS TO CELEBRATE WITH A LITTLE GETAWAY. WE PACKED OUR BAGS AND HEADED NORTH ON I-15. TAMMY KEPT GUESSING WHERE WE WERE HEADED, BUT I KEPT SAYING, "YOU'LL JUST HAVE TO SEE." SHE HAD NO CLUE. WHEN WE NEARED THE CAR DEALERSHIP I SAID, "LET'S JUST STOP HERE FOR A MINUTE." WE WALKED INTO THE SHOWROOM, AND THERE WAS OUR GORGEOUS, NEW-LOOKING USED CAR DRAPED<i> IN "HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!"</i> <i>BALLOONS.</i> <i>TAMMY SQUEALED IN DELIGHT AND NEARLY HYPERVENTILATED!</i> <i>A FEW SECONDS LATER SHE CAUGHT HER BREATH AND GOT CONCERNED.</i> <i>SHE PROTESTED: "BUT, JEFF, WE CAN'T AFFORD THIS."</i> <i>WHEN SHE HEARD THAT WE COULD PAY CASH FOR THIS USED CAR,</i> SHE HUGGED ME, GAVE ME A KISS, AND SAID I WAS THE SMARTEST HUSBAND EVER! THAT IS AN EXPERIENCE I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER. I CAN HONESTLY TELL YOU THAT WHEN YOU ARE TRUE TO A COMMITMENT TO LIVE DEBT-FREE, WITHIN YOUR MEANS, YOU CAN LIVE JOYFULLY AND CLAIM BLESSINGS. THREE: INVEST EARLY, CONSISTENTLY, AND WISELY TO BUILD A FINANCIAL RESERVE. ELDER JOE J. CHRISTENSEN SAID IN THE APRIL 1999 GENERAL CONFERENCE,<i> "THERE ARE THOSE WITH</i> <i>"AVERAGE INCOMES WHO, "OVER A LIFETIME,</i> <i>"DO AMASS SOME MEANS, "AND THERE ARE THOSE</i> <i>"WHO RECEIVE LARGE "SALARIES WHO DO NOT.</i> <i>"WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE?</i> <i>"IT IS SIMPLY SPENDING LESS "THAN THEY RECEIVE,</i> <i>"SAVING ALONG THE WAY, "AND TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THE</i> <i>POWER OF COMPOUND INTEREST."</i> <i>LET ME ILLUSTRATE THIS WITH A LITTLE ANIMATION.</i> ALBERT EINSTEIN IS<i> QUOTED AS SAYING,</i> <i>"COMPOUND INTEREST IS THE EIGHTH WONDER OF THE WORLD."</i> <i>LET'S CONSIDER AN EXAMPLE OF THIS WONDER.</i> <i>IMAGINE THERE ARE FOUR 20-YEAR OLD BYU STUDENTS,</i> <i>EACH WITH $10,000 TO INVEST NOW IN PREPARATION</i> <i>FOR RETIREMENT IN 2065.</i> <i>LET'S COMPARE DIFFERENT INVESTMENT OPTIONS,</i> <i>ASSUMING SIMILAR RETURNS TO THE PAST FEW DECADES.</i> <i>THE FIRST STUDENT DOES NOT TRUST THE FINANCIAL SYSTEM,</i> <i>AND HE PUTS THE MONEY UNDER HIS BED IN A STRONG BOX.</i> <i>IN FIFTY YEARS, HE STILL HAS $10,000.</i> <i>THE SECOND STUDENT PUTS HER MONEY IN</i> <i>A SAVINGS ACCOUNT, WHICH AVERAGES ABOUT 2.5</i> <i>PERCENT ANNUAL RETURN.</i> <i>BECAUSE OF COMPOUND INTEREST, IT DOUBLES EVERY</i> <i>25 YEARS.</i> <i>WHEN SHE RETIRES, SHE HAS $40,000.</i> <i>THE THIRD PUTS HIS MONEY IN A SAFE GOVERNMENT</i> <i>BOND MUTUAL FUND, WHICH AVERAGES ABOUT 4.5</i> <i>PERCENT ANNUAL RETURN.</i> <i>IT DOUBLES EVERY FIFTEEN YEARS.</i> <i>BY 2065 THE $10,000 BECOME ALMOST $100,000.</i> <i>THE FOURTH PUTS HER MONEY IN A BROAD DIVERSIFIED</i> <i>STOCK MARKET FUND, WHICH AVERAGES ABOUT</i> <i>10 PERCENT RETURN.</i> <i>IT DOUBLES EVERY 7.5 YEARS.</i> <i>IN 50 YEARS, IT DOUBLES NEARLY SEVEN TIMES,</i> <i>AND THE $10,000 HAS BECOME MORE</i> <i>THAN $1,000,000!</i> <i>THAT IS THE MIRACLE OF COMPOUND INTEREST!</i> <i>WHEN YOU CONSISTENTLY INVEST LIKE THE FOURTH STUDENT,</i> <i>YOU HAVE THE PEACE OF MIND THAT COMES FROM KNOWING YOU</i> <i>WILL BE ABLE TO RETIRE IN THE FUTURE AND THAT IF AN</i> <i>EMERGENCY HAPPENS NOW, YOU HAVE A RESERVE.</i> I INVITE MY STUDENTS AND I INVITE YOU TO BEGIN TO INVEST NOW. IF YOU DON'T HAVE MUCH TO INVEST, THAT'S OK. YOU CAN START AS SMALL AS A $1.00/MONTH AUTOMATIC WITHDRAWAL FROM YOUR CHECKING ACCOUNT THROUGH SOME MUTUAL FUNDS THAT CATER TO THE SMALL INVESTOR. IN THIS REGARD, IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER THAT ALTHOUGH MONEY MATTERS, IT IS SIMPLY A MEANS TO DO SOMETHING MORE IMPORTANT. HAVING A LOT OF MONEY WHEN YOU RETIRE BECAUSE YOU HAVE MADE WISE INVESTMENTS IS MEANINGLESS IN AND OF ITSELF. THE MONEY ONLY HAS VALUE AS IT IS USED TO DO GOD'S WORK WITH YOUR FAMILY AND ELSEWHERE. FOUR: DON'T DO DUMB<i> THINGS WITH YOUR MONEY!</i> <i>WHEN DEALING WITH MONEY, USE YOUR COMMON SENSE;</i> <i>IF IT SOUNDS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE,</i> <i>IT PROBABLY IS.</i> <i>MY FIRST SUGGESTION IS TO AVOID SPECULATION.</i> SPECULATION IS ANY INVESTMENT THAT PROMISES A GREATER THAN MARKET-RATE RETURN. MOST OF THESE ARE SCAMS OR EXTREMELY HIGH-RISK VENTURES. IN A LETTER FROM THE FIRST PRESIDENCY, MEMBERS OF THE CHURCH WERE WARNED ABOUT <i>"THOSE WHO USE RELATIONSHIPS "OF TRUST TO PROMOTE RISKY</i> <i>"OR EVEN FRAUDULENT INVESTMENT AND BUSINESS SCHEMES."</i> I KNOW OF A YOUNG WIDOW WHO INVESTED PART OF THE PROCEEDS OF HER HUSBAND'S LIFE-INSURANCE SETTLEMENT WITH A CLOSE FRIEND, WITH THE PROMISE OF A HIGH GUARANTEED INTEREST RATE. THOUGH THE INVESTMENT PAID OUT FOR SEVERAL YEARS, ONE DAY THE CHECKS STOPPED COMING. SOON THEREAFTER, THE COMPANY FILED FOR BANKRUPTCY, AND THE WIDOW LOST MANY TENS OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS. SHE FELT BETRAYED THAT THE SACRED FUNDS HER LATE HUSBAND HAD PROVIDED HAD BEEN LOST IN THIS WAY. IT IS IMPORTANT TO REALIZE THAT THE ONLY WAY TO GET GREATER THAN MARKET-RATE RETURNS IS TO TAKE GREATER THAN MARKET-RATE RISKS. THIS MEANS IF YOU PUT MONEY INTO INVESTMENTS THAT PROMISE LARGE RETURNS, "GET RICH QUICK SCHEMES," YOU LIKELY STAND TO LOSE MUCH. IT IS MUCH BETTER TO TAKE THE "GET RICH SLOWLY" APPROACH AND INVEST WISELY FOR THE LONG TERM. MY NEXT SUGGESTION IS TO AVOID HOME EQUITY LOANS. WHEN PROPERTY VALUES GO DOWN, HOME EQUITY LOANS CAN LEAD YOU TO BE UPSIDE DOWN IN YOUR HOME. THIS DOESN'T MEAN YOU ARE STANDING ON YOUR HEAD IN YOUR LIVING ROOM; IT DOES MEAN YOU CANNOT SELL YOUR HOME FOR WHAT YOU OWE ON IT. WHEN THAT HAPPENS, YOU BECOME A PRISONER IN YOUR HOME BECAUSE YOU CAN'T SELL IT. WORSE YET, MANY IN THIS SITUATION HAVE LOST THEIR HOMES BECAUSE THEY COULDN'T AFFORD THE PAYMENTS WHEN FINANCIAL CHALLENGES OCCURRED. BE VERY CAREFUL WHEN CONSIDERING A HOME EQUITY LOAN. ANOTHER SUGGESTION IS TO AVOID IMPULSE PURCHASES. I RECOMMEND YOU MAKE A POLICY TO NEVER MAKE A MAJOR PURCHASE ON THE SPOT. GO HOME, TALK ABOUT IT WITH YOUR SPOUSE OR SOMEONE ELSE THAT YOU TRUST, PRAY ABOUT THE DECISION, AND DECIDE LATER WHETHER OR NOT TO MAKE THE PURCHASE. YOU CAN REMEMBER THIS ADVICE WITH THE ACRONYM <i>HALT (H.A.L.T.): DON'T MAKE MAJOR PURCHASES</i> <i>WHEN YOU ARE HUNGRY, ANGRY, LONELY OR TIRED.</i> <i>FIVE: BE GENEROUS AND SHARE</i> YOUR RESOURCES WITH OTHERS. THE PROPHET JACOB PROVIDES US WITH SOME EXCELLENT COUNSEL ABOUT RICHES AND HOW THEY SHOULD BE USED: <i>"BUT BEFORE YE "SEEK FOR RICHES,</i> <i>"SEEK YE FOR THE "KINGDOM OF GOD.</i> <i>"AND AFTER YE HAVE OBTAINED "A HOPE IN CHRIST YE</i> <i>"SHALL OBTAIN RICHES, "IF YE SEEK THEM;</i> <i>"AND YE WILL SEEK THEM FOR THE INTENT TO DO GOOD."</i> <i>WE HAVE A SPECIAL RESPONSIBILITY TO BLESS THE</i> POOR WITH OUR RESOURCES. ELDER JEFFREY R. HOLLAND ELOQUENTLY TAUGHT US THAT WE ARE TO "DO WHAT WE CAN TO DELIVER <i>"ANY WE CAN FROM POVERTY "THAT HOLDS THEM CAPTIVE</i> <i>"AND DESTROYS SO MANY OF THEIR DREAMS."</i> <i>CONTRIBUTIONS TO THE CHURCH BEYOND TITHING CAN BE HELPFUL.</i> <i>ELDER HOLLAND ALSO SAID, "BE AS GENEROUS AS</i> <i>"CIRCUMSTANCES PERMIT IN YOUR "FAST OFFERING AND OTHER</i> <i>"HUMANITARIAN, EDUCATIONAL, AND MISSIONARY CONTRIBUTIONS."</i> <i>THERE ARE ALSO MANY WAYS TO</i> USE YOUR MEANS IN ANONYMOUS AND AD HOC GIVING. JUST ONE EXAMPLE: TAMMY HAS TAUGHT ME TO BE MORE GENEROUS WHEN WE GO OUT TO EAT. SHE WAS A WAITRESS EARLIER IN LIFE, SO SHE IS VERY AWARE OF HOW MUCH WORK SERVERS DO JUST TO MAKE ENDS MEET. SHE HAS ENCOURAGED ME TO STOP BEING STINGY AND TO BE GENEROUS IN MY TIPPING. I HAVE TO TELL YOU, IT FEELS SO GOOD TO GIVE AN UNEXPECTEDLY LARGE TIP. I APPRECIATE TAMMY'S GENEROUS SPIRIT. I INVITE YOU TO BE THOUGHTFUL AND PRAYERFUL AS YOU FIND WAYS TO BE GENEROUS AND SHARE YOUR RESOURCES WITH OTHERS. I PROMISE THAT YOU WILL FEEL JOY AS YOU DO SO. LET ME CONCLUDE WITH A QUOTE AND MY TESTIMONY. ROBERT D. HALES TAUGHT,<i> "WE MUST PRACTICE</i> <i>"THE PRINCIPLES OF "PROVIDENT LIVING:</i> <i>"JOYFULLY LIVING "WITHIN OUR MEANS,</i> <i>"BEING CONTENT "WITH WHAT WE HAVE,</i> <i>"AVOIDING EXCESSIVE DEBT, "AND DILIGENTLY SAVING</i> <i>"AND PREPARING FOR RAINY-DAY EMERGENCIES."</i> <i>I HAVE A TESTIMONY THAT WHEN WE UNDERSTAND THAT MONEY</i> MATTERS AND TAKE THE TIME TO BUDGET, ELIMINATE DEBT, INVEST WISELY, MAKE SMART DECISIONS, AND SHARE OUR RESOURCES, WE RECEIVE BOTH MATERIAL AND SPIRITUAL BLESSINGS. I TESTIFY THAT WE MUST BUILD OUR FINANCIAL HOMES UPON THE ROCK OF THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST. IF WE DO THIS, WHEN THE RAINS OF RECESSIONS DESCEND, THE FLOODS OF LAY-OFFS COME, AND THE WINDS OF HIGH INTEREST RATES BLOW AND BEAT UPON OUR HOUSES, OUR HOUSES WILL NOT FALL, FOR THEY WILL BE FOUNDED UPON THE ROCK OF CHRIST. I INVITE YOU TO LIVE JOYFULLY WITHIN YOUR MEANS FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE SO THAT ON JUDGMENT DAY YOU MIGHT GIVE A IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST, AMEN. <i>>>THIS DEVOTIONAL ADDRESS WITH JEFF HILL WAS GIVEN</i> <i>ON JUNE 9, 2015.</i> ♪♪ ♪♪
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