Married And Singles

oh [Music] [Music] a shame hallelujah hallelujah do we have a graceful woman in the house this morning can we drop our voices to heaven as we begin to appreciate and celebrate this good god the pillar that holds our life the lord that fights our battles for us as we as we hold our peace up the lord that loves us with his everlasting love the lord that draws us with his loving kindness the bible says not of him that we let up it's not of him that run at her he's of the lord that shows mercy if you are a woman that the lord has shown mercy this morning lift up your hands to heaven and say lord we are grateful lord we worship you lord we honor you lord we adore you we enthrone you as king in our lives you alone deserve the praise you alone deserve the glory you alone deserve the honor for it is in the mighty name of jesus we have worshiped hallelujah praise the name of the lord please let's warmly welcome our neighbors to our left and to our rights as we take our seats in god's presence hallelujah we are all warmly welcome in jesus name and we also want to welcome our online viewers thank you for always keeping a date with us please if you're here and you're with your phone kindly bring out your phone and share the broadcast share the broadcast share the broadcast so we can invite someone to fellowship praise god psalm 124 verse 1 if he had not been the lord who was on our side let israel now see if he had not been the lord who was on our side when men rose up against us then they would have swallowed us alive when their wrath was kindled against us then the waters would have overwhelmed us the stream would have gone over our soul those then the swollen waters would have gone over our soul but blessed be the lord who has not given us as prey to their teeth our soul has escaped as a bed from the snare of the fowlers the snare is broken and we have escaped hallelujah do we acknowledge that if he has not been the lord that has been on our side i would not have been here today there are women that have acknowledged that and they want to come to testify to the faithfulness of the lord hallelujah it's testimony time and we have 17 testifiers can we please keep clapping as we welcome sister nekker eze to come and share her testimony as she's come now read some testimonies hallelujah sister rosemary barnabas i am thanking god for his faithfulness in my life and also for provision of school fees after my sit soon during the anniversary the bible says that after we do the will of god we shall receive the promise of god she sowed her seed i said that after that the lord provided her children schoolfist can a woman clap onto the lord praise the lord praise master jesus i'm a living testimony and i'm here to say father i am grateful i'm grateful that i did not give up i'm grateful for life i'm grateful for my family i'm very grateful for the life of my mother i have three testimony one is uh um for 11 years i was i separated from with my husband and he came back this morning i'm here to say father i am grateful that is not he's changing he has given his life to christ and each day he woke up to say i am sorry i am sorry and i'm here to say father i'm grateful for the life of my children they are intact they are not giving me problems he look at them and say you try i thank god that i married you for all the mistake i am sorry i'm here to say father i am grateful i am grateful that god has given my first son admission this month and i'm here to i'm here to thank god because i've been standing in a gap for my mother in church and now she's expecting i am grateful i am grateful father i am grateful now every i've been looking at you'll be looking at me i'll be did you hear that testimony there is no forgone case with our god no matter how long it has turned the bible said wait for it because it will surely come to pass and that with the lord has done for your life sister shall be made permanent in jesus name let me quickly read this testimony from an online viewer from sister grades from calabar last tuesday communion service i received my healing from ovarian cysts as a result of a myomectomy i had in 2019 at a26 i was diagnosed of fibroids right inside my womb and was booked for emergency surgery which was successful and i was discharged home two weeks after i developed some complications which i could not do pulse was coming out from my vagina with offensive odour and the wound that was almost healing began to tear i was rushed back to the hospital placed on oxygen because i was losing my breath i was on drip for weeks for more investigations and observations behold i was taken into the theater the same wound was opened again and it was discovered that my womb has deteriorated and the only option was to remove it to save my life five months after they hysterectomy i started developing severe pains in my anus and lower abdomen several scans said i had ovarian cysts likely infected i have been on antibiotics and pain relievers since 2019 till last tuesday 7 september after i took the communion and anointing oil i robbed some of my stomach my hands leg and my face behold when i got home in the evening i had the urge to stool but due to severe pains then my drug had finished i tried to use the restroom lo and behold i felt there was something stuck between my abdomen and my anus hence i could not push i called on jesus to help me and i placed my hand on my stomach and i said god please for the sake of this anointing i took today saved me immediately i felt something strange come out of me and all the pains ceased i saw tissue like something inside the toilet and i knew i was healed and set free i have not felt any pain whatsoever since then i come to return all the glory to god for he has done what no can do hallelujah we serve jehovah rapha with him there is nothing that he cannot do no matter how difficult he might see man i pray that someone will keep into these testimonies this morning in jesus name let's welcome sister sophia essien as she comes to share her testimony sister gloria ono i want to thank god for healing my brother from a heart disease during the trumpet service for this month i took my holy communion home and gave it to my brother when he went back for checkup the doctor confirmed that his heart had perfectly been fixed back and he is totally healed without taking any drugs again hallelujah isn't our god wonderful praise the lord praise the lord women of god um i'm a bit nervous it's the first time i'm standing on this podium to share a testimony i'm deliberate and i'm grateful to be standing here for every 24th of august god always give me a thirsty money and during the anniversary while i lay down and i was praying i was i told god that it is it's been a while i shared testimony on the podium and i want you to give me a thirsty money and pastor oh declared that that friday that by by friday there will be testimony and he said we should write 11 things we wanted i wrote 11 things i wanted for all my family members on my younger sister's name i was specific about what i wanted on that friday of that week i got a call from someone hello do you know anyone looking for a job in abuja usually i would in my field and you you need to be certified usually i would check around who is certified who can i call but i remember that my younger one needs a job and a job has been up and down so i called and they said i told them they said send a cv i sent a cv and she was called two hours after the next day she was called for an attitude test by the grace of god she scored 98 over andre she is not certified in that field so we were waiting to get a call we kept waiting to get a call and she was called on sunday to resume work yesterday i thank god for jesus is faithfulness my life itself is a volume of testimony and i am grateful that i have made a request to stand here and to testify and god acknowledged it and grant me my desire i am grateful to god praise the lord hallelujah indeed the lord himself confirms the words of his servant and performs the counsel of his messengers please let's all remain expectant and the lord will not pass us by because he is not a respecter of persons hallelujah let's welcome sister or drama a chema as she comes to share her testimony sister ojama achima sister olusihari i'm thanking god for his faithfulness in my life and my family i am also appreciating god for my fifth wedding anniversary last week congratulations sister ek casumi abbyodo i want to thank god for his faithfulness in my family and for provision of school fees for my son hallelujah praise the lord i have come this morning deliberately to give glory to god the almighty god the ever living god the one who was who is to come my healer my shield or my child in jesus name two years ago i was very sick when i mean very very sick i did not understand what was wrong with me i just wish i can just smile every time i come i would sit back there and look at people and i would say god just take away everything give me back myself i just want to be happy again so after that i kept on going for a checkup they did not see so i met i traveled came back came back with only multivitamin because that was what they gave me so i told on coming back my other sister too was sick and i told that this is more spiritual than physical so we got to this altar we held our hands we lay down here we cry to the god of this altar and i said almighty god deliver us from this strange affliction if you do i will come back to the same order and give you the glory indeed he's a good god he heard our cry and the lord delivered us and saved us from this affliction i have come deliberately this morning to return glory to my maker that did not allow me to go with that affliction and healed us and made us so father i say thank you and i give you all the praise last week tuesday pastor or kept saying on the seventh day of the ninth month somebody will have a testimony and i held on to that seven then it kept ringing seven then nine months after we left here on on my way home i saw my husband's driver he said madam or guy is looking for you i said her by this time what up why would a girl come home by this time ah so she said no is that one waiting i kept saying oh god what happened because i've not done the need for when i got home i met my husband or two and i welcomed him then i said you are back this time he said yes he's back 30 20 minutes later the gate opened and they drove in a clinker and he said why this is for you the lord did not just heal me he restored me he gave me everything and gave me a beautiful car otherwise come to return glory to this mighty healer father i am grateful hallelujah father will return all the glory to you because you are a faithful god and we put a seal of perfection on your testimony in jesus name sister abisal kali i'm thanking god for the success in my final examination and also thanking god for saving me from domestic accident this morning hallelujah sister estella youtuber i am thanking god for my 31st year wedding anniversary and also for journey messes i am also thanking god for answering all my prayer requests during the anniversary she said oh hallelujah sister nair i'm thanking god for my promotion to the next level in the office god has done me well sister uche okoro i am grateful to god for divine healing and for financial provision for the entire family sister chukwuemeka victoria i am thanking god for the life of my baby sister oluwabamila oluatoin i'm grateful to god for my husband he had a project to do within one week at his office and after prayers and trusting god for him god helped him and the project was successful to the glory of god sister johanna affinity i prayed and was trusting god for my house rent i am here to say thank you jesus for providing me with my house rent at the exact moment i wanted it without me working for it god did it in his own way thank you jesus and thank you when women pray sister mary eric i'm thank sister mary eric cosima i'm thanking god for healing protection and his faithfulness upon my life and sister of young i am thanking god for my 14 year wedding anniversary the lord indeed has been good to us he is the doer of all these testimonies and i want every testifier to rise as we appreciate him our father in the name of jesus we just want to say thank you you have done us well indeed we do not take it for granted thank you for always showing up for us thank you for hearing us oh god when we call thank you for always confirming the word of your servant thank you for always reminding us that you never asked us to seek you in vain indeed you are a good god may your name be exalted forever in the name of jesus we put a seal of the blood of jesus upon all these testimonies we decree and declare that the enemy will not be able to steal the joy of all the testifiers in the name of jesus and for us many that are trusting you oh god for one thing or the other as you have done for these ones do for demo god and take all the glory thank you abba father because we prayed with thanksgiving in jesus mighty name let's welcome pastor evening to pray for nigeria hallelujah good morning do we have nigerians in the house this morning amen hallelujah i just want us to begin to appreciate god for our nation let's thank god for all that he's doing and all that he will do all the prayers that we have been praying concerning this nation by the mercies of god will receive answers in the name of jesus in psalm 147 bible says he makes peace in the borders and a fill that deal with the finest of wheat lord open your mouth and say father we speak calmness into every troubled state in nigeria in the name of jesus the word of god say he maketh peace in the brothers in the borders of all the states in nigeria in the 6-0 political region in this nation open your mouth and begin to make peace and begin to declare calmness in the name of jesus upon every troubled state upon the north upon the west upon the south open your mouth and say father it is your word that you make at peace in our borders upon all the borders of this nation let there be calmness of peace in the name of jesus he said not just on the pizza but with the fineness of wheat which represent prosperity it represents peace it represents wholeness there is fruitfulness in our land the lord is causing a recovery over the economy of this nation the political sin is taking a new dimension because this is the word of god we declare peace oh lord we declare peace oh god in the name of jesus and we take authority over every power of hell working against the peace and the calmness of this nation do you want to take authority this day there are a lot of powers powers from hell from the beach of hell working against the pizza wherever they are gathered this morning now the word of god come against him in the name of jesus the blood of jesus come against them in the name of jesus and every god winner every party of association working against the peace of this nation let there be confusion in their minister and rendered their works oh god useless in the name of jesus father we thank you this morning we are praying according to psalm 27 psalm 72 verse 11 bible says yea all the kings shall fall down before him and all the nations shall save him open your mouth and pray lord we ask this day that our leaders will submit themselves to your leadership and to your authority they bow to your sovereignty in the name of jesus the president the vice president all the members of the senator every oh god house of representatives whether they are local governments lord they bow down to your sovereignty in the name of jesus according to your word sir let's begin to pray for when women pray we are going to begin to pray calmness in the borders of when women pray international all over the nations we are when women praise represented we speak peace we speak peace in the brothers are in caliber in our we speak peace upon the borders of when women pray and we make declarations this morning that the leadership all over when women pray we submit to your authority we submit to your leadership in the name of jesus from the head all from pastor allah to all the pastors to pass to ibiza to pastor all for her to all the pastors we lean not on our own understanding but we bow to your sovereignty as you lead us we will go because you know it's a new season it's a new dimension because we do not know what is in the season it's only the father that knows and therefore all the pastors and all the leaders are father this morning we make declaration sir and we decree and we declare that we submit to your leadership to your relationship oh god in the name of jesus except you lead us we will not go up on your mouth and make declarations this morning that they will not lead us by flesh i tell you if they lead us by flesh we will go astray but if they are open to the spirit of god then we will fulfill purpose on planet earth open your mouth and say father as i follow the leadership of pastor oh i know she's following you i know she's obeying you and therefore i will work in the name of jesus you are going to pray one prayer for yourself you know one person always following god and we are not following then something is wrong you are going to pray as she follows help me to follow as she follows help me to follow as she follows help me to follow him may i not be the link oh god the weak link in the name of jesus father we thank you this morning we give you praise this morning we thank you for unity units your purpose and when women pray international in the name of jesus thank you have a father in jesus name have we prayed hallelujah please help me wake me come to pastor ivy sheiku i go hallelujah celebrate pastor evelyn wwp victoria island celebrate her eco celebrate her thank you god bless you we lay our grounds and worship you oh [Music] oh [Music] oh oh [Music] [Music] [Music] yes oh [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Music] oh [Music] you and i jesus you are [Music] in front of my bed [Music] oh [Music] oh [Music] oh [Music] [Music] [Music] yes [Music] [Applause] [Music] yes you are [Music] yes you are [Music] yes [Music] is [Music] [Music] yes [Music] oh oh [Music] just lift up your voice and worship him lift up your voice and magnify the lord [Music] [Applause] [Music] lift up your voice one more time and just worship him if indeed he's the lord over your life and look at that situation i want you to lift up your voice and magnify him i [Music] i know [Music] [Music] is [Music] [Music] oh jesus a woman needs to be still [Music] we choose to be still in the midst of the stumps for indeed you are the king over every storm you are the king of every storm the one who writes on the wings of the clouds my god daddy we choose to be steel in the midst of the storms ancient of days we bless your name this morning lily of the body we multiply your name that we exalt you high above every situation will lift up the name of jesus above every situation that we declare your lordship of our lives of our homes we declare your lordship of every situation my god we declare your lordship of our marriages and relationships uh jehovah you are god all by yourself father have your way this morning ancient days have your way that you prepare our hearts to be receptive to your word this morning and let there be a shift in the realms of the spirit i yield myself to you our father that my tongue will be like the pain of the ready writer write your law in our hearts this morning no god and change our situations thank you ancient of days blessed be god forever in jesus mighty name we have prayed in jesus mighty name we have prayed jump those are together [Music] turn to your neighbor and say good morning good to see you in church has god done you well ask your neighbour are you sure make sure they answer you has god done you well why is god owing you you is like god is owing you you looking at me hallelujah welcome to service this morning the lord indeed has been gracious to all the lord has done us well and we cannot take that for granted [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] i is [Music] my [Music] i [Music] [Applause] are you sure he's your defender are you sure [Music] [Applause] [Music] times [Applause] that is for those who know he's your answer he's your defender he's your helper he's your healer because for some of us it's like we are not sure for some of us it's like you don't you don't know maybe for you your helper is your husband maybe your father your mother but some of us we know that if it were not for this jehovah the chapter will be closed please take your seats as you celebrate god for me because it's my own helper hallelujah praise the lord welcome to service welcome to fellowship this morning is somebody excited to be here the summit said i was glad are you glad we are glad when they say let us come into the house of the lord hallelujah just one or two announcements before we go into the word um yes we're talking about my husband most prospects these people is like you don't it's like you don't know your husband you don't want your husband to prosper let me face this side my husband must prosper by fire by force by lightening by thunder by pack anyhow he must prosper look at those people sitting there your husband will arrest all of you if we ask you where were you when your mates were praying it is happening live on saturday this saturday the 18th day of september the ninth month of the 21st year is somebody ready is somebody ready you know it's been a while we had my husband must prosper so all the past areas all the accumulated the leftovers the ones that are still hanging on saturday we're pulling them down they say there's one so now two little two liter oh yeah take it now i take it now somebody is taking it this saturday enough is enough the harassment the oppression the delay the disfavor the disappointment this is the story not too long are you not tired of the story are you not tired of the same prayer points day in day out for your husband no he must prosper in hell though he will prosper financially he will prosper spiritually he will that's what the bible says i wish above all things that that word means so our husbands must they don't have a choice like pastor obi said the only mistake is that they married you because he married you the favor that is due him it has to come it is downloading this saturday the 18th day of september and the time is 7 00 am i want to encourage you but always say the first shall be the last don't sit down here and say you have flagship it's open to all the other centers so if you're not here on time guagulata might fill up the hall caboose i might fill up the hall mara rapper we have so many centers so be here on time unless you want to sit at the canopy want to sit with your husband at the canopy the choice is yours so saturday be here before seven i will advise you and then um you know it's pastor who's wedding anniversary this month so because of that she's having a lunch for 22 couples celebrate god it's going to be an amazing time out it's going to be an amazing time out we will tell you the modalities when we come in on saturday but that lunch is for sunday the 19th and um the time is 12 noon praise the lord celebrate now i know i'll go but those who we get it just be happy for them so that it will reach your turn next time hallelujah pastor is not here this morning but of course she's here in spirit prayed so much for this meeting and i trust the lord that he will do what he has promised her he will do concerning this meeting can you one more time celebrate pastor for us our dear pastor the lord continue to bless her strengthen her keep her increase her in the name of jesus let's celebrate pastor evelyn who is worshiping with us evelyn from is it eco your vi all join please celebrate her she's a resident pastor when women pray thank you for coming always a delight to have you with us god bless you so this month is our month of what marriage you know we can never be tired of talking of this marriage because we are living inside it every day is marriage so for those of us who are married every day you are in the marriage every day you have seen one dimension of the marriage or another version of the true of us there are many shades and many dimensions and many versions and verses of the marriage so today again we'll be talking about the month this month again we'll be talking on marriage the lord will help us but i pray that we will be not just hear us because wisdom this is when you apply knowledge don't be that one that every day pastor will stand there talk doctor you will write some of you your notes are full but you never go back to those notes you don't even know where they are then the next tuesday you dig it out again and come wisdom is applying it is in the application you get your deliverance praise the lord so last week pastor spoke extensively on um the topic married but in the next few minutes i'll be talking on communication in marriage hallelujah you're not answering me you don't know without communication there's no marriage communication is the bedrock for marriage true or false so it is very important that we talk about communication in marriage because that is the very foundation most of the problems some of us are having in our marriages they are not spiritual do you believe me some of you the only problem is that you are not communicating and for some of us we are communicating we think we are communicating but we are not communicating properly for some of us we think we are not communicating but we are not being heard you're just shouting they're not hearing you is the one day here or is the one he hears that he will be able to act on so this morning the lord is going to help us look into this topic communication in marriage to help our marriages to be better see marriage can be sweeter do you believe it if you don't know come and ask me 23 years down the line by the message of god me i'm a testimony that there is heaven on earth in marriage it's true it's working and there are just some little things you need to readjust and your own will be like that praise the lord so for somebody this morning might just be one person let's look at communication in marriage the bible speaking in the book of proverbs chapter 13 verse 3 it says he that keepeth his mouth keep it his life but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction that is the bible i remember one time the house pastor was talking about this woman who would always come and cry my husband she would cry my husband would cry the husband is always doing her something and she'll cry so one day i think she got tired of this same story same version and she said come let me ask you what what how does it actually happen how does it have to happen and of course by the time she got talked she found out that this scripture says he that opened it wide her mouth she used to open her mouth very wide and he used to deal with her very widely i pray a woman with borrow sins well not today is not preach preach but just a word is enough for the wise so this is what the bible says so by the time she spoke to that lady and counseled her she had to know how to contain her words you know our mouth as women is like acid we just release it release it release it once it's as i said the heart i said they do me i see the heart i said they do me the lord will help us proverbs 25 verse 11 he says like apples of gold in settings of silver is a word spoken at the right time this version says timely advice is lovely it's like golden apples in a silver basket they didn't say advice is lovely some good advice will be taken very badly why because of the timing some of us we don't know how to be we lack wisdom we don't know when to say we don't know the when look at he's talking about timely that advice is good but it must come at the right time he can't just be coming in from work and he's so stressed and you start that thing that i told you yesterday don't you know that don't you know that did you not know that did you you know did you go to see your mother after you should have gone to did you call my mother did you it's not then there's a time and you know what that time is not the same for everybody for me that's what helps me marriage i know my timing i know my when i know my when not so if you're like be doing your own i'm i'm happy for you but i know my own so you need to understand your timing for some of you it might be very early in the morning for some of you maybe once you've just finished making love with your husband you have his ears he's ready to listen to you for some of his when you go to bed for some of his when he's at dinner for some of you might just be when he's in front of the television he just wants to just find his time my time is not your time so that is that is that is part of it the wisdom so you must understand that your timing that will be like apple of gold in the setting can you imagine can you just picture this version this verse gold on the silver doesn't it look beautiful that is how your advice your communication will come when it is done at the right time proverbs 25 15 it says with patience you can make anyone change their thinking even a ruler it says gentle speech is powerful it doesn't matter some of us you say you don't know my husband he's very tough yes he just really might be very tall but they say we like my sister would always say to me they say wait to be every man's husband every man's wife some of you saying butti you should know the moment whatever you call it there is a way it says with patience some of us are not patient come down play the fool behave as if you are not seen believe us if you are not hearing there is a right time it says with patience you can make anyone even your husband change his thinking i mean we've had diverse testimonies here look at sister kate in the choir and sorry in the prayer team yesterday she was telling us the cars are packed in the house but the husband said you will not drive my car will you hold this drowser you will hold this jazz and his belt what would you do but with time with patience with prayer now he's the one everything that was denied her is in front of her it works tell your neighbor it works there's a right timing and there's a right way there's a right way proverbs 14 1 says a wise woman makes a home what it should be but the home of a foolish woman is destroyed by her actions some of us we don't understand that we are the thermostat of the home you don't know that as the woman you are the one that regulates the temperature of the hope you are it's not the husband it's not the children you are the ones that's why it says if you are wise you should know what to do and you should know how to do it it says but the home of a foolish woman is destroyed by her action uh is it fuji house of commotion oh my house what are you calling fuji house of commotion that behind my house of commotion fuji house off but that is how that is some people's reality that's some people's reality you come into the house like this number one the other hits you you don't understand but there's a woman in the house you know you can enter some houses i can't drink water in every household i don't know about you i'm sorry i won't drink because all the glasses are smelling there then soap now the people are making cheap soap you can just wash it put a bit of warm water it will be clean but we don't care our eyes are not on the ground and then he has gone out he's been so harassed he wants to come into a cozy environment if you come into my house you don't want to go if you enter my house you don't want to go i love my home i want to once it's two o'clock it's as if they are pursuing me i want to go back home why because somebody has made it so you can make it so for that man you can make it so for yourself you can make that environment beautiful so that when it's time to communicate the talk of the entire you the clothes you wear are hanging the bra is standing the boxer is lying down you don't understand are we in the paddle or are we in the bedroom are we in the bathroom you are laughing if i call some people now not your story praise the lord so a foolish woman destroys her homes and you know some of those things will make her husband very irritated i'm married to a very neat man my husband i didn't say this one a problem he just you can't keep this paper like this by telling you call me like this when he keeps his wallet it can't be tilted it has to be like some do you know what i'm saying this cannot be it's not straight so before i vote on he has just put it like this if the books i'm doing he will just arrange it like this he will just he will just everything must be i say what can i express myself a bit i know there for prison so you have that kind of a husband and then you are the jagger jagger type when you throw bra yeah you throw nets yeah you throw the bombs yeah you throw this you throw everything he can't hear you and the truth is if there's no communication there's no marriage forget it if there's no communication there's no marriage so the bible says it's a foolish woman by your actions so today let the lord give us wisdom so that we can arrange the environment because the environment is key for the talk to enter praise the lord psalm 19 verse 4 it says may my words and thoughts please you the words we speak to our spouses are they pleasing let the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart let them be acceptable when you speak to your husband for some of us hey the way some women talk to their husbands is frightening they wash him as in practically wash him i don't know what gives you the f1 tree to think you can talk down on your husband even if he's a wheelbarrow pusher now you maria true or false so he's your head you can't dishonor your head and expect to prosper you can't dishonor your head and expect to prosper it's not possible not only will he not prosper you will not prosper the family so now you change yourself it's not from the village you must honor him with your words let us let me quickly run there are many scriptures many scriptures ephesians for 29 it says when you talk don't say anything bad we can manage what we said you know the pastor was telling us here you know when she was so angry she would change her voice for me i don't change my voice but i just keep quiet i just keep quiet because i know if i speak then i will say the wrong things we're human beings we have emotions at times they run wild so wisdom demands that better not speak so do that you don't say the wrong things i'm a nipple woman i've said that i'm married to your obama and my husband is big on respect anybody who knows if he respects everyone he's so respectful so he wouldn't take any atom of disrespect from me but i'm an ibo girl born in buttercup bread in potato lived in potakota so when we want to talk the amount they go you know we're not send alpha what is this why are you doing this i won't take this this is rubbish i won't wrap it up that was just before i got married and that day muslim was just looking at me like this i was just talking talking i was so angry i was just irritated he took me to show me the house we're going to be leaving and after we got mine i said why is it like this i don't like this why is it like this why didn't you do this one he i was just like a mad woman wouldn't just tune in and as from there he didn't speak again so when i came back home later in the evening the next day i said what's the problem now why are you not talking i said why you know what is wrong i said what's wrong with you i got that i said what's wrong with you do you have a problem why are you not talking the moment they talk the man they look at me say we carry this open i said but why are you not talking is there anything wrong with you it was later i understood that it was all that plenty talk i was talking that just shut him down one week two weeks you will talk i said i can't do i can't but you know what it's 23 years down the line i haven't tried that again please clap for me everybody know thyself know yourself it didn't go down well and i love to talk i hate to be around you and you know i don't know how to keep that kind of malice some people you are living your husband one week you know i tell you i call my husband 10 times in a day before we leave here now we communicate communication so i don't know when we are not talking i was sick i would be sick so i don't know how not to so i love it so when he's quiet on me it affects me so you ensure that wisdom is profitable to direct so say the right things but say the good things that people need that's what the bible says say the good things that people need whatever will help them grow stronger for your husband say the right words is he perfect no he's not better are you perfect far from perfect but say the right words proverbs 12 18 it says there's one who speaks russian like the trust of his word but the tongue of the wise brings healing as a wife let your word bring healing to your husband the first the bible verses are made but let just quickly run through my notes in the next few minutes you see good communication is basically active listening communication is not just speaking speaking some of us we feel because we know the english we can construct the english our voice is sweet so every time we want to be the ones to speak communication has to do with not just speaking but you must be a good listener not just listener because it wouldn't be nice your husband is saying something and by the time you ask a question he said the caller the car is green and then when you turn he said was the car purple that it was obvious that that he was talking to you your mind was not there you know when you're not there your body is there they can't tell that you are not there and then when you ask one question you will not look very foolish and he will feel bad because it's like i'm pulling my heart this is something that is serious to me and she's not even listening so a good communicator is a good um listener proverbs 18 says listen before you answer if you do not listen you are a silly fool can we see that version um another version previous proverbs 18 13 he says we must listen communication starts from listening he who answers before listening that is his foley and he and his shame there's another version don't so just listen can you just listen spouting off before listening to the fact is both shameful and foolish so for some of us this is our problem you don't listen you just speak it you will just rest but what are you responding to when you haven't heard they say it's foolishness so they say stupid see another version they say the person is stupid are you stupid we are not stupid in the name of jesus so james 1 19 he says quick to listen let us be quick to listen or slow to speak women i know that you need special grace to come down but the truth is if you know yourself take it to god in prayer this is when women pray and one of the things we do we pray if you know you talk too much pray about it help me to be more patient with him help me to know when to respond help me to calm down help me to say that the bible says we should be quick to listen but slow to speak to listen you should be able to pay attention without distraction leave your phones at so the problem is the phone so when he comes back from work the next two three hours can you leave the phone can you just leave the phone shut those of you h o d d h o d here h o d d h d leg h o d hand h your marriage comes first you're doing it your husband can't reach you he will be forced to talk to somebody outside because people want somebody that they have their ears somebody who who had some issues some time ago one of the things she said to say pastor ivy i love to come to your home because you listen to me for me i listen i love to listen so for me that one is not my struggle i have my own struggle so you you know the one that is your struggle walk around it but you must listen keep the phone it's a distraction phone if you don't hold your phone two three hours nothing will happen phone is scattering homes every day four of us are here but four of us are in different countries of the world by the time you check these guys when she did london my time you checked this one you did singapore you checked on that afghanistan you checked on it all of you under one roof but you can't connect and you're a family your husband is on his phone decide you you're on your own decide how will you share those moments without communication there's no marriage praise the lord so let's learn to speak the right words like i've said um cussing blaming accusing lying gossiping those things scatter the marriage they do they do and like i said always say don't be saying did i not tell you do they make mistakes yes you know at times you know men now you are telling them don't do this i can't tell you one story that happened in my house but it was like maybe we shouldn't have but of course eventually he sure did it it didn't quite go well but it's not it's not for me to now can tell you because it was big how that said what i told you did i not tell you the true body was it did i not i didn't do the next thing i said i said it's okay it's happened it's okay so what do we do now what do you think is the best way out of it how do you think we can manage the situation better how do we get out of this we have to think fast and we have to act fast i never tomorrow made reference to it was only in one day when the children were around he said and your mommy told me you and your mommy told me i wish i listened to your mommy he's sweeter when he comes from there look on which wall we built hold my chest i think i tell you i can't tell you no one here i see the trouble it's not for you this is the part of the problem no communication you could do that tomorrow he won't even tell you at all at all now for cnn you go read the news breaking news the property has been sold people say eh and not do again you pack your bag they go if you go they replace you so let's be let's be see today we are telling ourselves the truth we're telling ourselves the truth so don't be quick to blaming them don't be quick to telling them did i not tell you even if you told him it's okay it's okay communication is that vehicle by which all other important parts of marriage are performed if you love your husband will you not tell him you love him answer me now you people ask what give us spiritual toji i know now correct chevy you will tell us i love you these ones are prayer warriors they don't tell the husband they love them because if you if you love your husband you will open your mouth once you open your mouth today how many of you told your husband i love you before you came out god bless you i'll buy you a recharge car that person your wife and me me i'm going to give your charge card to somebody which one they say you did don't let how many of you told your husband this morning i love you me i told my husband and the pastor was there she would have bought me the church card my head goodbye for me frank are you on this everyday leave your own what is good though keep at it you know don't end the conversation without saying i love you the world is hard the word is wicked there's problem everywhere problem left right and center as i stepped out this morning i turned i said love you i'm off i love you i do that all the time i can't end the conversation with my husband or my children and not say i love you it's not possible it doesn't matter what the fire that is burning around me it's my way of expressing it to him let us hear it him too he knows it even to your children i my son is 23 if i finish dropping the phone i say love you boy i suppose you know i love you he said mommy love you my daughter said davin i love you at times when they want to be doing i say i'm not hearing the love say mommy i love you now you know i say say it it's important these are the things that help the children help the communication is key this is communication so every other aspect of marriage the bedrock is communication you can't say you love me and every day you're standing at me i'm not jesus christ i can't read your mind i can't interpret your emotions some of you say you love your frowning how so i can't tell so let me hear it it is is it not sweet to the ears so if you trust your husband let him know you trust him your dad looked at me and said thank you so much you've done so much in such a short while i really appreciate you and i am grateful i am really grateful the lord bless you say it is he heavy in the mouth so when you express all those things every other thing will um is the expression of these things that produce a marriage that is worth envying by the mercies of god today i know a lot of people around me say they love my marriage but it's not like i always say there are things that you do it doesn't just happen overnight and these are some of the things for me communication ah is top for me there are many things about married book because everything else you want the sex communication you want okay we'll get there how many more minutes they say my time is over this one who would arrest you here today so it's the expression of those things that make your marriage beautiful let's display a marriage that our children will see and say ah i want to get married every day my daughter will say can i find them find a man like my dad for me that is the testimony when a daughter go ask your picking one girl said i can never marry a man like my father that's his heart rendering but when the daughter will say she she says also say mommy can i find a man like my father i said you will find one better in the name of jesus because there are still some same people but you go search now god will give you but many people are not well that's the truth many people are not especially what and you know what it's what they are seeing it's what that is what is being mirrored to them a father will not talk to the mother the mother to we do her own when she wants to go i remember some time ago i was going to i wanted to come travel and i was telling my friend oh i've not gotten my husband's permission she was looking at me like a movie say you won't travel you don't be permission now yeah i said i've not gotten his permission i don't know if he will let me go he may not let me go but it's okay even if he doesn't let me go shut up i would have loved to go she's heavy waiting to talk permission to go here look at your back they go now yeah i said carry my back she said go pack your bag just tell and say tomorrow that they go legos and they go here yeah i said no faith too they know about me complete for ya but i'm sure some of you that's how you do you know you have business executive c-e-o-n-d-g-e-o group md our only day nobody dare not reach they're not born me complete i can't take a step without his permission but you know what he never stops me i'm everywhere some people's happy every time you day here you dare but you know what i don't just go i get his permission i get his blessings you can't just be moving around the day i heard that counsel i fear should i be saved permission to go here i said i won't travel say die what did they talk carry your back they go when you pack finish tell us how they go tomorrow i said so that is how it operates she said that's how they do now i say see you so you see you can't make friends with everybody or some of them you go borrow sense she's still my friend though but i knew not to follow that counsel because if i had followed that counsel these 23 years that i'm do you know my age am i not looking very beautiful it's called peace of mind peace of mind peace i'm at peace my my walls are peace i'm telling you peace peace that i can't even explain peace around my home around my peace why because of these things these are just the things some of you be saying waiting then they talk there it's alright there are those now who are doing women and what do you call them women will speak up soros okay sarasota soros okay you can't take it if you don't take it somebody will take your place so express what you have express your feelings express your emotions quickly there are different types of communication you know when i talk about communication i talk about words i talk about um [Music] listening and speaking but there are various types of communications of course the verb which we all know being able to express your feelings your emotions to your spouse you must express your feelings i'm not saying that i don't get angry i do and i let him know when i'm upset i do it's not the one to pretend that like they will say there's a time to delay your emotions and there's a time to display them i just know when to this when i say display i mean express you know i said oh i wasn't too happy about this thing i just thought you would do it and there's nothing shouting so of course if we haven't shouted he never dawned we will shout it so he we know you are talking how you are talking to your head you can't be shouting but you connect you must express your emotions because at times some of these things they do or even the other way around you might have made a mistake and you didn't know and if he doesn't tell you how do you say oh i'm sorry about that some of us can't even say we are sorry to our husbands say you know trump are we here those ones are not in wwp a lie you are lying and what does the bible say about the liar some of you not say to get i'm sorry from your mouth not talk of war for waiting i've been making go waiting waiting nothing nothing day express your emotions let him know you express your emotions him to he will express his emotions and what do you say and they say but we say i know green and the tear clothes i know gree you know grey are no green no green so everybody's but i'm sorry about it there is peace soft words that's what the bible says it turns away wrath and all of that so if you love and you don't say it the other person may never understand how deeply they are loved they want to understand how deep they want to be secure in your love they want you to guarantee and to assure them that you love them so that's for the verbal communication then you have the non-verbal here you use your body language to communicate with your spouse it could be positive it could be negative we are just talking you're not saying anything but your eyes are like you have killed him 100 times but he can pick those signals he can pick those signals and what happens is that he shuts down he will shut down so when you as when you come back in the afternoon and say i got a call my mom is not feeling well they may not answer you they may not answer you but if it's um on the positive two you could express with your body language it could be a smile you could just touch it could be whatever let me go teach you that one but find your own body language and express it to your husband but you know that when you are angry he can read it from your eyes sometimes it's better to even say it with the mouth that you're angry because the looks we wear on satan satan can arise that's just a draw satan with that look so um your body language expresses how you feel and then of course communication you can communicate through physical act it's important you understand i we talk a lot here about your um your husband's love language i know for some of you i'm speaking latin or spanish language greek say which one be love language how many of us don't understand what the love language don't be you know wwe is a place where we come to learn if you know nothing sport you will lend it to they meet you i lent it to one day that's that when language i say which one again is love language now so you need to understand your spouse's love language you need to understand what it is that he loves that there are different love languages for some people it's physical touch does your husband love you to touch him is it words of affirmation thank you i really appreciate you i i'm grateful i married you you are a good man those are words of affirmation some people these gifts i know that women most of you you like gifts do we all have gifts what's your love language doctor what's your love language you're my student in this class you're a good student she says for her it's gifts and words of affirmation so you you some of you you sit down here you don't know your love language so how would the man help you he now wants to express the love how can he find his root waiting the money money is not there who is money is that allah mom hearing her voice let me know she said my money which kind of money you go chop money so you you first you have to know your love language and then when you know it express it to him this is what i love i love it when you touch me here i love it when you say this to me i love it when you walk with me i love it when you hold my shoulders i just i just love it let him know let him know but if you don't know your own love language then it's difficult for him to be able to express love to you in that dimension of course some people's acts of service doing something for them that they would like just they just you know some wives just loved me i know did that category because my husband is extremely domesticated so if he's traveling before you turn around he's brought out his things his practice things i thought i said my parking need the reason they need to waste my time you nasty like i'm so he does it's how he loves it but what i try to be around him while we're existing we're talking my husband cooks he loves to cook sometimes in the kitchen cooking i'm with him i'm just those are the things he loves i won't bundle him out of the kitchen and say you are a man can't sit down here he won't be happy then there will be problem in the home so since he loves it then what do i do i come i come i come into the kitchen with him at times you know we sit down there we're just him at times when i look at his face he's not in the mood for me i leave him i give him his space do you understand don't suffocate them so when he's doing his things you you read the eyes you read the expressions okay now he's looking for milky let's hang around and just and all of that at times i would just turn around what do you want to have for breakfast yes he asked me 23 years he asked me what do you want for breakfast no club now now you know you lose now me the enjoyer see these things happen they are real your husband is not a devil but position yourself well win him and win him well praise the lord so do those things for him that will that will just blow his mind because when you do don't do these things people outside we begin to do them there are many little girls out there with agenda with plan you you don't know they have planned over your husband you are just doing yourself anyhow so communicate um communicate properly to your husband express yourself express express yourself express yourself let him know how you feel when you're upset let him know when you're happy let him know when you're grateful let him know when you're worried let him know for some of us our first uh our what you call it our auto dial or whatever it's a friend it's a mother it's a father your husband is the last to know what you are dealing with it's not i know that there are some peculiar secure situations but you know for the most regular ones when there's a problem let him be your first the first person if i just start my car now did that redo like this win-win-win i don't pick my phone no i said see the car is not starting they say where are you did i come and get you i send somebody for you i send somebody to get you so he's the first person at times the person that can help me might be beside me but i'm just so used to then it's after i have called him i said okay there's somebody here maybe somebody can even help okay don't bother but he's on my he's the first person i call when i'm troubled he's the first person that knows where is your husband in that place in your life you must communicate because without communication i'm sorry that you're not married if you are just sleeping in the same house having sex you are not speaking that's not a marriage and that is not what god planned for marriage you must communicate you must talk about the children you must talk about your concerns about the children you must talk about you know the ones that are doing well talk about it oh this child is changing now he doesn't do like he doesn't play too much he's doing his homework talk about the children talk about your future together talk talk talk talk communication is key so quickly what are the benefits of good communication in marriage the home is very friendly like i said if you come to my house you don't want to go up and down noise play really now the house is full the house is just friendly nobody's uptight everybody's free everybody's relaxed and all of that good communication it breaks down the walls of partitions it breaks down the walls of partitions and then it takes away any cost for suspicion and it takes away any cost for suspicion because when you don't communicate when your phone is ringing you will just get up like spirits carry the phone we go like this you're not speaking he begins to wonder who is calling her who is not calling her my phone is there the password he has when i'm in the bathroom the phone is ringing he'll be the one answering you know be open be open but the lack of communication grieves room to suspicion and when their suspicion in marriage is difficult to truly there might be nothing but it's difficult to prove that there's nothing and then of course good communication you're able to draw strength from one another misunderstanding is avoided a lot of missions many things that cause problems shouldn't cause problems the things that we fight about are not they're not important there are too many serious things going on out there can we leave all the they say stop measuring on the minor and major on the major we we worry over things that are not important so that's why it's so there's so much turbulence in the home that is why there's no peace that is why mommy and daddy are fighting a child this weekend we've had two wonderful trainings for our children a child said i can never save the god my mother is saving one said i can never get married if marriage is what my mother is doing so tell me have you made god proud you are here you are women you are praying but your child is saying i can never be married if this thing my mother is doing is called marriage should it be so tomorrow that child will grow up and if god does not entertain the child may never get married why because of the memories what i saw mommy do how i saw mommy behave or how i saw that they behave we damage our children by our selfishness or by ignorance and that is why we are here to learn that's why i'm begging us i mean we've laughed and all of that but we should be deliberate about going back home and putting these things to practice the home will become a better place children will be happier children will be there will be peace praise the lord of course it increases trust like i was trying to say the dangers of lack of communication is you'll be miserable like i was you won't know how to please your spouse because you don't know you're not talking to him so you can't call him some of you can't call him i said so what do you want for dinner tonight or i want to surprise you blah blah blah no communication so the man is just eating a chinese fried rice at work when you come house is the same chinese fried rice you have gone to cook you won't eat now because no communication you can't ask he can't call you some of you you're in the same house your husband this text message now the right text message it's not funny you're in the same house some of them are sitting on the same bed but i send you texts you reply by text those things destroy the family you your blood pressure will go hard but i can't stay there i don't know i don't know so lack of communication is it's it's it's it shouldn't be head around our borders if you don't communicate you can't express your feelings when something is wrong you can't say when you get into trouble you can't see and things just go from bad to worse you feel like you are living with a stranger and you can't even get support from your spouse so quickly i'll be rounding up here now what are the pointers how do i know that my communication is poor for some of you you may not know but this is it your sex life dwindles of course you only talk about house matters yes no no money there's money you can't read in between the lines your spouse that's why personal say how can you be there and he's going to take another wife and you could not decode you couldn't read in between the lines is when there's a break of communication so you wouldn't know you would before you know that by four he's back when he's not backed by four sweetheart why are you not one by four but now because you know there's no communication he'll be back by six five a consignor he concerned and they are fixing the date he confined and they don't a confiner and the ground already consigned and baker don't bake a consignment you see it on facebook your husband is married that is what happens when there is a breakdown in communication oh so you can't decipher your spouse's emotions of course when you're not speaking to him you don't know where he is that you dismiss your spouse's consent you know some of us are very dismissive you just when he's saying that this is what it is can you listen to him it's not that one that you think is important like pastor always say and when she was got married she wants to cook her husband likes it like this lies like listen to the one he's saying listen some of us we do we want him to hear our own is he hearing your own love him the way he wants to be loved listen to him the way he wants to be listened to just understand your spouse like my husband wonderful man good man kind man but he doesn't like going out so now we tie your rope on his waist and say you drag him say you must take me like then when we passed oh i don't know if she still does that every thursday she and her husband you know now lovely dovey every thursday evening they will go out you know spend some time together because of the schedule good good for him happy for her he can't walk in my territory i will come every thursday man we know the night come on every thursday i'll say pastor is doing like this you must be doing like this you're they're going down though they'll be going out on friday so every friday i will we should dress up we ask you you must take me out you know go walk that is where my own marriage now we have problem so understand your terrain and be happy for the i'm happy for her she's my pastor my friend myself i'm very happy for her every thursday it's good me i can't then i will not gonna be quarreling with my husband don't you see that your mates every day that every week they take that you you jam rock at times one month ever two months i never go anywhere yes but i'm madly in love with him and he loves me scatter our love is in my bedroom when you want to tell me you are taking me to hotel ask a lover my house sweets me so understand what what i'm saying is what works for you just do your own but don't go and impose your friend's formula on demand you will kill yourself high blood pressure will finish you it doesn't work that way yes so i'm happy that's all does it i'm happy and she said i'm happy for her but i can't get it but you will be good now when i blew the plus sir no go out with you oh did they hungry man i dropped myself good job oh hoodie now you know now today hungry is not taking you call my people marry record sima find a way find way order um just cause something something to me there is a way you don't have to die some of you now because it's not taking you that they said you will not cook in the house you will frown from morning tonight you will not you will not cook you are angry when they say what is the problem did you not see that in kitchen husband took her out yesterday i've been telling you for the past one month to take me out you say yeah okay you never begin now chinese hungry you thank god now there's what they call delivery delivery hello chopsticks this is what i want other other delivered to your house stay in your power put wine drink its way celebrate yourself don't die for i can't die you if you know my age you go say this god pasha but i have to look good and arrange for the grandchildren when they go i go nowhere by the mercies of god so don't stress yourself some things are baggage throw it away it's not important focus on the call there is a way tell your neighbor there's a way if they don't take you you take yourself find one friend okay may we go to your girl drink just relax you want to go to the movie which movie i don't know which year last my husband i said which movie so no need to call her when my children around i said let's go and watch a movie now in the homes thank god that many things are in the house now be moving in the house with a bottle of wine all this movie i'll abi movina no dayo every saturday they will take the children they will hold their hand is good but if that will not reach you nothing spoiler there's the one he's doing for you that their own is not doing if i tell you some of my old you will say mama daddy leave the outing just did they had been the cruise we're there for cruise there's is a cruiser and i pray it sincerely for every woman here in the name of jesus so love him the way he is don't change him if you change him he will be he won't be him anymore and you won't enjoy him so speak express your emotions express your concerns don't criticize them too much every time when they do small thank you it's good to say thank you it's good to say thank you and let them know that you are concerned when he's frowning sweden what's wrong i don't like the way you're looking are you okay is anything bothering you these are the things i do these are the things i do so that they will know that you care you can read their emotions that's communication you can read their emotions and then of course the lord will help us in conclusion at this one let me close at this one in conclusion we must realize that our words can ignite hope and rekindle passion in our partner job chapter four verse four can i see the message version as i close job chapter four verse four our love can our words can ignite job chapter 4 verse 4 message version your words have put is that message your words have put stumbling people on their feet it has put fresh hope in people that is about to collapse that is what our words does it has put stumbling that's people who are staggering by reason of your word by reason of your words to your husband for some of us we have demand is now on the floor because of the words you are good for nothing you are a useless man you are a foolish man you cannot provide you cannot give there was a time for four years we didn't have a job don't worry that is part two of my story in marriage but the story has changed what am i saying that condition is not permanent but when you use your words let them build him he says it has put stumbling people they are now firm because of your words and those who are standing because of your words you have brought them and put them um okay then put you i put fresh hope in people who are about to collapse can you do that for your husband for the one you love can you do that our words must be carefully considered before speaking proverbs 13 verse 3. we're closing now at this proverbs 13 verse 3 message version proverbs 13 verse 3 it says careful words make for a careful life but careless talk may ruin everything some of us the words we have spoken is what we are reaping today some of you you have spoken the man out of your life you have spoken him out of your heart he might be there physically but he's not married to you and i'm sorry some of these mental can be so when they hurt they hurt deep so truly they have gone it will take the holy spirit to bring them back why did you take that scripture off so careless talk may ruin everything what you have labored for should not be scattered by your words all the things you have suffered you should not use your words to to scatter them because of being careless or because of a friend that will be telling you no takam ansara why are you gonna do like that be wise be wise they say it's always green on the other side be wise be wise think deeply before you speak i want to beg a woman like i told you my story that time when i started my mouth was going but i hadn't thought but today i don't just open my mouth in 23 years it hasn't even happened again because i know to think deeply before i speak freely see what it says think deeply before you speak freely otherwise you will be forced to think deeply after you have spoken loosely let's take that again think deeply before you speak freely you know they say talk is cheap if not you will be forced to think deeply after you have spoken loosely our words must be kind and considerate speak the kind of words that you would want to receive don't say words to your husband that we hurt you you know some of us are deliberate when we want to hurt people we know how to we have battle but otherwise you get bad mouths you get bad mouth and you know it when you are spitting venom but if those words were spoken to you how would you feel how would you feel and find rounding up our words will protect us from pain proverbs 21 23 the message version at this one proverbs 21 23 the message version watch your words and hold your tongue you will save yourself a lot of grief rise up to your feet can we rise up to our feet this morning and just begin to bless the name of the lord just say thank you to god for the privilege of being here today for the message you have heard [Music] i know that for one or two people this message was for one or two people not necessarily everybody [Music] but just lift up your hands and say father thank you thank you because you have allowed me to hear this because for me this is giving me another chance to repair the wrong that scripture says so that you don't make a mess of everything you don't make a mess of everything but before we pray i just want to call out a few women this morning who knows that i'm not in the right place i just need to give it give it back to god come on come out quickly i need to give it back to god my marriage my heart everything is not i need to give it back to god [Music] i surrender all to you can you come forward please the lord is here to heal us this morning can you come forward come forward there's two more people in the crowd i want you to come forward you've heard the word of god this morning i just want you to come and say lord i give it all to you starting from my heart my marriage i surrender can you please come forward come forward keep coming keep coming give it to him he's the only one who can keep it he's the only one who can hold it he's the only one who can mend it he's the only one who can repair it he's the only one who can touch the heart he's the only one [Music] i surrender all to you oh to him myself foreign [Music] i don't know who it is but your case looks very hopeless it looks like there's no hope it looks hopeless it looks like all hope is gone but i want to say to you by god today that god is going to restore yourself he will restore to you the years that the woman the caterpillar has eaten you will be like them like the bible says when the lord turned again the captivity of this marriage you will be like a dreamer in the name of jesus just lift up your hands and say lord jesus i come before you this morning i surrender all to you i give you my heart again and i ask for your mercy this morning in the name of jesus holy spirit of god take over my life be the lord of my life be the engineer of my life i submit all to you i give my marriage to you i ask o lord take your place in my life take your place in my marriage in the name of jesus from today my father as you lead me i will follow thank you for healing thank you for a new beginning blessed be god forever in jesus mighty name we have prayed and so father i surrender this once before you you are the one and the only one who is able to hear not to restore you are the only one who is able to give us a new beginning yes the bible says behold i will do a new thing i hear the lord said behold i will do a new thing but they're concerning that marriage concerning that home of god concerning that life jehovah we ask that you will do a new thing in the name of jesus satan the devil will break your hold of others homes we break a hold about this heart by the power that is in the name of jesus loose them and let them go in the name of jesus but not cover your marriage with the blood of jesus i speak over you that your marriage will be a tool for evangelism that jesus will be glorified in your home in the name of jesus thank you our father blessed be god forever in jesus mighty name we have prayed [Music] let the lord begin to heal just lift up your hands lift up your hands those are false in the crowd let the rain come let it come my counselor my mighty deliverer i worship you today and forever in the name of jesus is anybody here who has had to leave her home because of these issues you have left the home you have left the home are you here can you please come forward you have had to leave your home because of this issue total breakdown with your husband don't be ashamed come forward if you're here this morning come forward the lord bless you don't be ashamed i just had a witness in my spirit you have had to back out because of this issue the rest of us lift up our voices and say my redeemer my counselor mighty deliverer i worship you today and forever lift up your hands and just begin to cry out to god and say my father my father i worship you you are my god you are my healer you are my enabler you are my strength jehovah god i call upon you today i give it all to you blessed be god forever in jesus mighty name we have prayed say after me lord thank you for bringing me into the last four months of the year and thank you for the privilege of being married lift up your voice those of us in the crowd and begin to say thank you for it's not by might it's not by power it has been by the help of god that you are here you are still in your home father we lift up our voices and we say thank you we give you the praise o lord we give you the honor we give you all the adoration we say be thou exalted oh god in jesus mighty name we have prayed i want to beg you this morning i want you to stretch out your hands towards this women because as i was you know standing there praying i had a witness that there are some who have actually left some of us were still there trying to patch things but for some there's nothing too bad but the bible says he's able to do all things he can bring life back from the dead do you believe that i want you to stretch out your hands to watch this homes that the one who is god all by himself let him show himself on their behalf in the name of jesus he is the god of restoration he said is there anything that is too difficult for me to do i want you as women to be very passionate if these were your children if these were your mothers if this is where your sisters are i'm sure you will pray better deeper than this cry out to god this morning and say my god arise that is silence the agitations that are speaking from the foundations of their marriages that if i silence the voices of god by the blood of jesus lord we are asking today let there be a restoration now that it turned things around we have seen you doing before we are confident that you will do it again we call focused marriages uh come back alive uh come back alive come back alive for a per adventure you have made any mistake that has brought us to this point we ask for mercy even the love for captive the bible says they shall believe other father we ask for your mercy we ask for your healing oh god of others once uh thank you ancient of days blessed be god forever in jesus mighty name we have prayed [Music] is falling down i'm not afraid [Music] i'm not afraid it's falling down [Music] [Music] please forgive me for any unprofitable contribution to my marital destiny in the name of jesus lift up your voice and cry out to god and say father forgive me i ask for every unprofitable contribution in any way i have brought the issues into my home i can't hear a woman praying you don't want to be sent out of your home by reason of your carelessness for that today we are asking by reason of every unprofitable contribution let your mercy speak cleanse me my father in jesus mighty name we have prayed [Music] say father forgive me if i have made the wrong choice have mercy on me lift up your voice and that's the law lift up your voice and say father forgive me if her adventure i have made the wrong choice if her adventure i had disobeyed you you know for some of us the lord said don't go but you went but father we come this morning to say lord if for adventure i have disobeyed you that is show me mercy that it show me mercy that he showed me mercy in the name of jesus i want you to ask the lord even if you have made a mistake that is show me a way around it in the name of jesus there is a way there is a secret lift up your voice and say my father in your mercy oh god show me a way around it that he restore that which i have lost in the name of jesus is there anything that god cannot do is there anything that is too difficult for the lord to repair the i asked this morning show me a way around it thank you abba father in jesus mighty name we have prayed i want us to pray for our daughters they will not make a mistake in marriage your daughter makes a mistake in marriage your own peace is over your own peace as a mother is over forget it we're going to hold our wombs am i going to cry out to god that concerning our sins the daughters the husbands our sons that the lord will guide their steps in the name of jesus lift up your voice and pray lift up your voice and pray out to god and say my father order the steps of our children they will not marry jesse bells that you will help our children you will help our daughters that we marry right then we marry your choice then we hear the voice of god you need to cry out to god let my daughter hear your voice when it is time to make me the right choice that did not hear your voice let her not marry the enemy of god let her not marry her enemy level i don't like the way somebody now father this morning we cry out to you as we hold our whoops my god our children will marry your choice now they will not make a mistake oh god then we hear the voice of the father saying this is the way thank you our father in jesus mighty name we have prayed say father i plead that every bitterness every wrath every anger every malice every slander let it be put away from my heart in the name of jesus created me a clean heart oh god [Music] lift up your voice and your hands and cry out to god tell the lord father a clean heart and right heart the right spirit of god [Music] oh [Music] [Music] unto jesus oh [Music] take not your homeless merry prophet salvation [Music] there's somebody here you're very bitter with your husband you can't even pray for him you can't even find yourself praying for him he did something to you that hurts you so deep can you please come forward [Music] can you please come forward the master is here can you come and lay down at the feet of the master just come just come quiet help me give me a song come and lay them in there lay them at the feet of the master somebody here you have said i cannot forgive him lord i cannot forgive him please come daughter of zion just meeting oh oh jesus let your healing power flow let your healing power flow right spirit within [Music] me i know it's difficult i know it's difficult but the lord is saying can you let it go can you let it go for my sake he must have he he hurts you so bad for somebody here is a case of betrayal i hear the word betrayer i hear the word betrayal yes daughter of zion the lord is here to heal can you help me choir i need a song on healing i need a song on healing yes for somebody there is a betrayer there is a betrayal pastor overcome must the offer come please come yes he's the lord that heals can you let it go come and hug her for me yes he's the lord our healer can you just let it go somebody has been betrayed so badly yes i hear the word betray out oh jesus jesus jesus jesus jesus can you let it go for the sake of the master can you let it go yes yes yes he's the lord that heals yes yes yes can you rise up let her just hug you for me your pardons have been lifted pastor even help me help them oh jesus sleep round in the bush yes let the healing blood flow let it flow let it flow let it flow let it flow you have god [Music] yes [Music] [Music] oh [Music] [Applause] is [Music] me [Music] me [Applause] [Music] oh oh oh [Music] [Music] say my father my father rest upon my marriage rest upon the marriages and when women pray that he rest upon our marriages in the name of jesus lift up your voice and cry out to god send your hope and rest upon our marriage rest upon my marriage i cannot do this on my own daddy i cannot do this on my own that he rest upon my marriage come [Music] [Applause] [Music] invite the lord one more time come and walk with me come and walk with me on this journey daddy i cannot do it alone i cannot do it alone i cannot do it alone my formulas are not working my principles are not working the environment is not even helping me oh jesus come walk with me for the road is rough and narrow come walk with me for i cannot [Music] [Music] is [Music] foreign that should be a woman's prayer forget about the lyrics of the song but i wonder [Music] lift up your voice and say my father got the fidelity of my marriage and blind our eyes from every temptation in the name of jesus say father i receive clear thinking to combat confusion and to bring a calmness in my marriage in the name of jesus i lift up your voice and begin your cry out to god i receive clear thinking i receive calmness in my marriage and around my borders are in the name of jesus thank you our father in jesus mighty name we have prayed i want you to pray the bible says he that finds a wife he finds a good thing you are a good thing [Music] if you are a wife you are a good thing and because you are a good thing the bible says he obtains favor favor i want you to pray today that the favor that has his name today let there be a release enough of stagnation enough of struggling enough for frustration enough of going round in circles for your husband because he is married to you the bible says because i am his wife favor is my inspiration lift up your voice and begin to pray hey let the fire of favor come down let the fire of flavor come down [Music] i don't like the way you are praying [Music] i don't like the way you're praying is this how you're negotiating for your husband's favor today are you not tired of him being at the same place are you not tired of him getting frustrated are you not tired of him going around these circles let the word of god find the expression now [Music] let the power of god release to you your husband's favor let the power of god fall down and release your husband's favor in the name of jesus christ precious pleasures come and help me please [Music] let the power of god [Music] your oh oh foreign [Music] yes hey foreign oh is [Applause] they must let your husband go in [Music] oh oh foreign [Music] foundation oh [Music] oh judgment here fire [Music] [Music] i [Music] foreign lift up your voice and say i declare i declare that wwp will fulfill her heavenly mandate therefore i approach every intruder in the name of jesus lift up your voice and begin to pray when women pray must fulfill its mandate [Music] foreign [Music] blessed be god forever in jesus mighty name we pray lift up your hands and begin to appreciate god [Music] thank him for today thank him for his word thank him for another opportunity to uh to to repair our marriages thank you for the word that has come to deliver the world that has come to enlighten the world that has come to help to save us the world that has come to set some of us free father we are grateful thank him for the outpouring of the holy ghost thank you for the power of god that is at work here today thank you for visiting our foundations uh thank you for shifting our husbands uh thank you for releasing to them that is their deal in the name of jesus father we give you all the praise we thank you our father in one minute i want us to just say whether pray over pastor oh that the heart of the lord will continue to be mighty upon her that the lord will continue to be a shield round about her that the lord by himself will uphold her he will continue to be gracious unto her he will continue to defend her culture with his mighty hand he will continue to steady her she will not stumble and she will not fall by the wayside hey tata thank you abba father blessed be god forever in jesus mighty name we have prayed in jesus mighty name we have prayed it's time for offering let's bring out an offering [Music] bring out a worthy offering and please let's not forget my husband must prosper i want to encourage us if you have friends family that are battling with anything invite them let them come i'm not sure if it's going to be on virtually but i think it will be so if it is tell friends and family that are not in abuja let them connect online there is no distance in the realms of the spirit let god heal marriages when homes are healed the society is healed when homes are healed children do not want to commit suicide when homes are healed things go well please don't take this my husband must prosper um like a joke connect online tell friends and family praise the lord rise up to your feet if you have your offering as we call on the choir hallelujah [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] okay [Music] okay ah [Music] me [Music] my show [Music] [Music] oh foreign i [Music] am is [Music] thank you jesus praise the lord sorry just a minute um as regards the my husband was prospered on saturday we have 500 raffle tickets so it's from the raffle tickets we're going to draw have a draw for the 22 couples that are going to have to go for this wonderful lunch if you know how to pray pray if you cannot pray go and beg prayer people if you cannot reach prayer and beg pastor offer that your husband especially the one that you know is having talk of war who needs to hear past offer help me pull him out in prayer so that you will get that there's only 22 tickets 22 tickets so from the raffle draw we're going to pull do a um you understand it a minute thank you praise the lord sorry she says the first hundred that will come will qualify for the raffle the first hundred men the first hundred men that will come will qualify to pray fast sex peace food anyhow you will do him let him be the face that saturday a word is enough for the club for yourself praise the lord father we thank you for this offering we give you all the praise glory honor and adoration unto your name thank you oh god for the provision thank you for the grace to be able to bring token out of the plenty that you have given unto us for that we pray that this offering will be used oh god to the glory of your holy name in the name of jesus and we pray oh god that you would yet provide for us enlarge our coast and increase us on all sides in jesus mighty name we are prayed amen hallelujah thank you pastor ibe thank you for blessing us please let's clap for our pastor we're so blessed with pastors in this house you know the take-home for me is communication do not be quiet as you're communicating with god communicate with your husband hallelujah and i pray that god will help us our homes shall be heaven on earth in the name of jesus we welcome our online viewers please let's clap for all the online viewers all over the world you're welcome in the name of jesus and here we're also welcoming those worshipping with us for the first time if you're worshiping with us for the first time on a tuesday like this please can you be upstanding we want to greet you in the wwp way hallelujah please if you're sitting close to them give them a warm welcome thank you for coming we prayed for you and then you're here hallelujah you can sit down but please after the service you would meet here with someone that will be speaking to you hallelujah this is when women pray but we call it wwp for short our vision is to raise a generation of women who are hungry for god spiritually alert and conscious of their spirituality in their spheres of contact these are women who are international in their christian work with god and so they practice what they profess as christians our core values are god's word forgive quickly no gossip love and patience the second woman over this ministry is pastor missus opie i am she's unavoidably absent today can we make that club bigger hallelujah thank you for clapping for my pastor and the resident pastor of abuja and the regional pastor for the northern zone is pastor ib agoye the woman of god that brother wore to us this morning our assistant is pastor bibia rasa and our prayer coordinator is our own dear pastor offer eligible can we please clap for god let's appreciate the grace of god in the lives of our pastor the regional pastor for southwest is pastor temi ladies zurich the regional pastor for south south and southeast is pastor stella chicory we have fought three chapters in nigeria and seven in diaspora as i call out the names please let's clap onto the lord eight centers in abuja maraba cobwa caboosa guava lada karachi kujay buari and the flagship center here in fct asaba abba kalaba obudu ikom abakaliki obigo enugu ota ugab haoji lagos with six centers ogodu lekki vi okorodu orgbaf and festac then owari kajuna binin baochi and two centers in the united states of america that we have won in houston texas another in new jersey we have three centers in canada toronto calgary and sarcastic we have two centers in united kingdom london and manchester there we have a taraba oh no sorry loading taraba using maitama ghana and other branches are loading can you locate the one close to you and begin to fellowship with us today hallelujah the theme for the month of september is married and singles i thought you would join me to say that so the media will project the scriptures on the screen for us to have and then my husband must prosper hallelujah are we excited about this program it comes up on the 18th of august 2021 sorry 18th of september 2021 here in this auditorium have you called the prayer bug yet that's a question for us join the thousands of people from all over the world experiencing the touch of god upon their lives join us on this thursday 12 noon the lunch break for another online prayer hour pastor oh hallelujah join us on friday for change life talk by 12 with pastor opie to hear the amazing stories of miracles of turn around in the lives of our sisters as you prepare to be the next to share your story our account detail is when women pray international ministry we're bank with zenith bank the account number is one zero one three two one three nine one seven so if you're addressing the check please write that in full when women pray kindly make your online transfer for partnership and so on beware of scam pages of pastor opie and wwp and please do not accept any friend request from those hallelujah please no converging outside after now kindly go home can we be upstanding for the benediction the lord has indeed done us well we have been refreshed there's been a shift in the realms of the spirit of our marriages let's share the grace and fellowship and surely wwp i'm a soldier for christ wwp it's time to soar and i am unstoppable hallelujah first timers please to my right hand side here once has he spoken and twice have i heard that power belongs to god [Music] foreign [Music] i [Music] i oh [Music] [Music] belongs to yourself [Music] oh [Music] [Music] me [Applause] [Music] is [Music] [Applause] [Music]

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Published: Tue Sep 14 2021