Translator: Tanya Cushman
Reviewer: Peter van de Ven A few years ago, I was speaking to an audience
of about 50 people about intent, wellness, balance, purpose. Intent, I explained,
is who we aspire to be, as individuals, as members of our family, of our community, as citizens of Mother Earth. They're very different from goals, which come from our mind
and are often task-oriented. Intents come from our soul,
and they represent our deepest desires. So while I was having
this conversation with the audience, I was having a parallel
conversation in my head, and it went something like this: "Oh, God. Why did I have that chocolate chip cookie
and double macchiato right before getting on stage? (Laughter) I got to go pick up the dry-cleaning, get the dog food, and, oh shoot,
my daughter has a soccer game - I forgot to get the snack." In fact, the conversation
in my head got so frenzied that I decided to ask
the audience to meditate. That way I could deal
with my own drama, in peace. (Laughter) And I knew that often
people felt very special when they got to meditate
with the daughter of Deepak Chopra. (Laughter) I learned how to meditate when I was nine. I've taught thousands
of people how to meditate, and yet for years, I was not meditating. I wasn't exercising, let alone doing yoga because, frankly, I couldn't do
downward dog and I hated yoga. I ate a chocolate chip cookie
almost every day, and as a mom of two beautiful young girls, I was busy as an entrepreneur
of my startup company, which felt like a neverending startup - intent.com - consumed me during the day. And at the end of the day,
I'd feel exhausted, frustrated often, not even knowing
what I had accomplished all day, but feeling like I was never caught up. Most importantly, when we were young,
my dad would ask my brother and I to ask ourselves several questions
after a meditation: Who am I? What do I want? How can I serve? I realized I had no idea
how to answer those questions anymore. I felt like a complete and total fraud. So that day, on stage,
I made a decision to change my life and to really think about what health
and happiness and purpose meant for me. I spent a year reading everything I could about sugar and fitness and exercise
and mindfulness, meditation, health. I spoke to luminaries in the field, including my father, who - to be honest, I had never
actually read one of his 85 books, and found that, you know, he had actually had
some really interesting things to say. (Laughter) And I started to make small changes which had a huge impact on my life. There was one conversation, in particular,
that was very magical for me. I had decided I wanted to speak
to Eckhart Tolle; he was the well-known author of
a popular book called "The Power of Now." So, I communicated with his office, and it took me about nine months
to schedule a meeting with him. In that time, I read all of his books,
watched his videos, took meticulous notes on all of his work, and knew that he
was really going to help me to understand what it meant
to live with purpose. So, the day of the meeting came. I was flying from LA to San Francisco,
where he was giving a talk. I woke up at 4:30 in the morning
for my early-morning flight, and I was besotted with the worst
allergies I have ever had in my life. I was sneezing nonstop. My eyes were watery,
my throat was scratchy; I felt so miserable
that I actually thought, "You know what, I should
just cancel this meeting. I'm going to embarrass myself." But then I realized that this was
a very important project for my book, and so I was going to
just suck it up and go into it. I picked up my cell phone,
which was on my bedside table, and there was a text message
from my father. And it said, "Good luck
with the interview. Remember, he is always in the now." I read it again - "Always in the now"? What the hell is he talking about? (Laughter) So, whatever. I got ready, went to the airport,
got on my flight. I was sneezing nonstop; I felt so bad for the businessman
who was sitting next to me, who cringed with every one
of my sneezes and sniffles - I feel so bad, still. And landed. Another text message from my dad: "Remember, in the now." I went to the hotel, cleaned myself up, and met Eckhart's assistant in the lobby. He was incredibly gracious. He said that Eckhart
hardly ever took interviews, but he was a friend of my father's, he wanted to support me, and, frankly, he loved the idea of intent. He also gave me
the protocol for the meeting. He said, "You will have 15 minutes.
You sit down, talk to him. I'll come back up, knock on the door, and when you see me,
you just get up and leave. So my mind started racing
to "Oh, my God. I had 15 questions. Let me think about 3 questions," and so - but I smiled,
and we headed to the room. In the elevator, my phone buzzed again. I looked at it: "In the now." At this point, I was really irritated, so I put the phone off and tried
to get my breath for our meeting. We got to the hotel room, and when Eckhart Tolle opened the door, I have to admit, I felt a sense of peace. My grandfather-daddy had just died
a few years earlier, and he was someone I loved
more than anything, and Eckhart had a similar presence. I also noticed that my sneezing,
my itchiness all seemed to stop. So we sat down, I introduced myself, told him about the book I was writing and my yearning to really understand
what it means to lead a life with purpose. And we were about five minutes
into the fifteen-minute conversation. He listened patiently, and then he said, "Intent is a most powerful concept." I leaned forward, super excited to be inspired and
understand all the mysteries of my life. And then he stopped. And he said, "Do you hear those bells?" And I said, "Yeah, I hear some bells." There were church bells in the distance. He said, "You know, when I
was young, living in Germany, I used to work in an office,
and there was a church nearby, and these church bells would ring, so I'm reminded of that time." I smiled politely, thinking, "Okay, we are
about six minutes into the interview." (Laughter) And then he said,
"Let's listen to the bells." (Laughter) So, I tried to keep smiling. Now my heart started pounding faster, my eyes were getting itchy -
I felt like I was going to sneeze. I started to think, "Okay, well,
I'll have one question - what will I ask?" And Eckhart sat there, smiling,
listening to the bells. And the bells rang. And they rang. The damn bells would not stop ringing. (Laughter) And finally, at about
eight-and-a-half minutes, with the bells still ringing, I thought, "You know what?
I have to listen to the bells." And so I took a deep breath, I surrendered, and I was present, listening to the bells with Eckhart Tolle. Completely and totally in the now. And I felt peaceful, clear, purposeful. The next thing I knew, there was a knock on the door,
and his assistant opened the door. My 15 minutes were up. So I got up, said, "Thank you,"
and began to walk out. Eckhart said, "No, no, no, no, no.
Sit down. I want to talk to you." And we spent the next hour-and-a-half talking about intention and purpose and what it means to have
the universe serve through you. At one point, I confessed to him, saying, "You know, I feel
so frenzied and crazy every day. I'm running around, and I feel
like I need to do something important, but at the end of the day, I just feel like I'm a soccer mom,
driving my kids from class to class." And he said something really beautiful
which made a huge impact on me. He said, "It's the everyday people who do extraordinary things who are increasing
the frequency of this planet. There is nothing - (Applause) There is nothing more important,
more special that you can do than be a soccer mom
at this stage in your life. But do it with love,
with compassion and with conviction, and you will be living a life of purpose." I'd like all of you to sit comfortably
and close your eyes. I'd like you to breathe in and out. In and out. I'm going to ask a few questions. Don't feel the need
to answer these questions, but just listen
and experience the answers. Who am I? Who am I? What do I want? What do I want? How can I serve? How can I serve? Now, take a breath and open your eyes. When we sit quietly, often our mind
wanders from thought to thought. But sometimes, if we
give it a chance or with practice, we experience inspiration, peace, knowingness and clarity of intent. My hope - my vision for 2020 - is that we, as a humanity, take time to think, to be still and to know our truths. To know that we are enough, and that we all can serve
in our own unique way. And in that knowing, we will lead healthier, happier, more connected and more purposeful lives. We will live with intent. So please, please listen. Listen to the bells. Thank you. (Applause)
