Living Together Before Marriage: Should You Do It?! - WTW

[Music] no matter what the odds may bring away i can see the blessings [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] hey guys it's drake and bree and you're tuned in to work the way podcasts we're here with the second episode so the first one was a little lengthy and we were just my gosh yes letting y'all know a little bit about us our background and you know how we got to where we got how we knew that we were the ones for one another but we want to talk about now moving into our relationship and living together before marriage and moving in together just in general this is a big thing we got a lot of flack for this back in the day we did and guess what i didn't care at all like my business we did get a lot of flack for this and i guess we'll start here we'll start with why we did it in the first place yeah we're gonna talk about why we did it then we wanna talk about like what we learned from it and if we would do it again if we had to do it all over again and then for those who are doing it or want to do it we're to give you some tips and things that we learned in our experience living together that can you know hopefully help you yes because spoiler alert we don't think it's wrong um so starting off why we did it so i'll say it you got stuck there i moved here with my assistant and i had a two bedroom two bathroom apartment i was paying way too much dre told me when i got the place that's that's a lot um so financially when i moved here i was in a good place but i decided i wanted to close my studio in cleveland that was my full time like my full-time gig and i told jerry about my decision of wanting to close it but i was nervous because it was my only source of income so he had an idea it was only supposed to be a transition it wasn't supposed to be a forever thing but he was like yeah you should just come stay with me for a few months so that you can figure some things out get on um get on your feet and he was in property management so he actually gave my assistant a really good deal at their a complex a complex what is that at the complex um so that she had like a discounted apartment and it was working out great and the goal was only for it to be for a few months so i'll say this i'll fill in the blanks because bree she does a great job of summarizing but i'll go in a little bit more detail of the situation so yes when bree moved here i told her listen like the places you're choosing is a little expensive and the thing is that brie had a little decent like nest egg set up but first because she had horrible credit her deposit was like a lot it was like two months or something like that it was like something insane it was like it was a lot of money so you had to pay the deposit and then you had to pay first months right and then you had your little um hotel jail thing that you had to pay for oh that was a lot yeah so i had a dui yeah um and that was very very expensive and i had like an actual attorney it was very expensive it was a lot of money that she had to pay to get all that stuff expunged and all that stuff happened and then she was moving to a new place and then she was thinking about closing her studio which like was one of her main sources of income and at that time i kind of foresaw i was like what you telling me and what you trying to take going is like a lot yeah and i don't know how you're going to do that so my mindset was is that my stepdad always told me this when it came to bree he was like i saw your commitment to her very early that you like almost took responsibility for bree um so for me i was like all right this is the woman that i think still early that has the potential the like wifey material that i could spend the rest of my life with she's not a wife necessarily now but i feel like she has the potential to be and i saw that bree did not do well with money like it just wasn't something that she was really really good at i was not taught how to manage money at all at all not at all she knew how to make money she was a hustler she could finesse if she needed to like she was she could make money it's just managing it she just wasn't good so for me i was like all right here's what's going to happen because at the time i had the money to take care of whatever bills she had i could have gave her x amount of dollars for a rent could have gave her money for a car note but my thought was like that's not teaching you anything and if we're ultimately going to be in partnership together you need to learn how to manage money so then you can hold me accountable too when it comes to things so i was like i'm not going to bail you out like i'm not going to give you money but i'm also not going to let you drown so this is the thing moving with me i'll take care of the rent you know the food for everything like i'll take care of everything that we need you just take care of your own bills so i think that was like a car note at the time car insurance cell phone and that was pretty much it what's crazy is i don't even remember how i like felt when you even asked me it's like like i don't know if i was surprised i don't know if i was like yeah or if i was like what like i don't even remember i think i was still like honeymoon phase ish and that was like the time was flattered he liked me for real that would be like you know in the beginning of your relationships when you're with somebody you're always at that person's house all the time anyways so i think i remember your mindset was like we are always over each other's house anyways all the time and stay over and stuff like that so it's like even though this may be a little earlier than what the natural progression of this would have been like you know let's just do it but that's one thing i just wanted to talk about because i think a lot of people especially when we were talking about it when we had our channel and we were first in our relationship people thought that we just did it just like let's move in together but it was like more of a situational thing to where i was like all right bree's trying to figure out kind of her life right now what she wants to do and that's causing a little dip in her income and making money so let me help her i'm not doing anything for her like but i'm gonna let her learn and you know make money and stuff like that to pay her own bills but what the thing that people don't get either because people would make comments like you know like she could ghost they were her parents or she could go do this or do that and like i had there was nowhere for me to go like that was another thing is there was no moving back to cleveland i had nowhere to go back to cleveland um my family lived in florida florida and my brother lived with my mom it was not i'm not living in florida so it was like we did look at all the options it wasn't like just oh we just want to do this thing it was very situation no yeah it was very situational and it was based off of that so um that's why we we made that decision and like brie said it was supposed to be a temporary thing like six months uh and then after that we were gonna you know cause y'all dre lived in a literally a man cave it was a studio in den apartment it was just me it was there was no closet space it was very small it was perfect it wasn't my favorite place for a man and a woman i had a full-blown like walk-in closet in this hallway closet i did i i sacrificed a lot and let's also talk about this which dre also told me not to do your girl then got i had got like a built-in fireplace and um like mounted my like tv put these big ass mirrors up in my apartment i decked it out yes he did it was very it made me sad um i pain i mean it was it was decked out and i did all of that to leave in two months so that was fun yep that's exactly what happened but that's why well that's how we ended up moving together and why we moved together yeah and during that time and i guess the big question too is why we stayed living together because the plan was to move out after six months but the reality was is i think a big the biggest thing was that and when i look back at this this is insane like we started dating in may i think we moved in in august so that's like three months maybe two months and literally within six or seven months of us dating we started a legit whole business together like to the point where drake like left his job like merged our finances together i mean like seven months of dating that's a pretty no i mean crazy but i think that that was a big reason why we stayed together but was because at that point then our income was coming from the same place so that's what it made so then it wouldn't have made any sense for us to like let's take this one thing that we're bringing income together and then split it to pay for one place and then you play for another place and then when we we thought about it and we were looking at places in the same building and we were just like how stupid and also like we live in the dmv specifically we live in tysons it is expensive out here like it is it is expensive so two rents no ma'am like not if it no no no no and it's different if we were both like we worked salary jobs and we were like oh you know but yeah at that time our income was joint at that point because we started a business together um within five months of us starting a business i quit my job and we were doing it like fully together so it was like it didn't make sense for us to in our minds it didn't make sense for us to pay for different apartments yeah if especially it wasn't getting us closer to our goals at the end of the day so it was like no yeah we felt like it would have been a waste of money to pay like another two three thousand dollars especially because we are at each other's place anyways it's like i mean we would have still been sleeping over like it yeah so and the biggest thing so next with that is we have those people who jumped us for it because it's funny when we started our work the weight youtube channel we never really we didn't start with the attention to say like oh this is a christian youtube channel like we never did that we just talked about our truth and what it was and then that drew a lot of of course a christian community because of the weight yeah and we used to get jumped for it like friends family like and then people um especially because both of my parents are ministers as well and they were actually fairly chill about it um initially when i told them but like we used to get jumped for it from people in the comments and all that stuff and [Music] we didn't think it was an issue mainly because we weren't having sex yeah like we had already made the commitment that we weren't having sex so it was like i don't understand what's the issue we're not like if bree was my roommate and she's my best friend would that be wrong exactly and it's like that's essentially what we were and then you know of course people so let me tell you a little bit about my background too i grew up in a christian school from kindergarten to eighth grade like both my parents are elders i grew up in the church my grandmother was a church superintendent like church school conferences like all that stuff i grew up in church so like i really had classes on the bible like abc joseph jacob moses or david like a b c or d like i grew up classes with the like so i understand the word and i get a lot of people were bringing up these verses and saying this meant this and that meant that and the biggest one was always like oh you shouldn't have the appearance of sin right the appearance that you're doing i'm like so we have a channel telling you that we are waiting for marriage that's how that's the only reason you even know us is because we have a channel telling you we're waiting for marriage what do we appear to be doing to you yeah you're under this comment because you know we wait for marriage so me telling you that i live with my girl or fiance what am i appearing to do i didn't that always confused me and then i knew that like we're waiting for marriage so it's like we're here we're doing this because we started this business together we made sense like i held her down and then i feel like god continued to bless us in our relationship and give us favor throughout our relationship so throughout that time i'm like we're not doing anything wrong yeah and if anything i felt more tempted to have sex when we weren't living together because when we would have like moments you know how like if you don't see someone often like if you have a long distance relationship how when you're with that person then it makes the time you spend with them like more valuable or um special so like you do extra things or whatever like we could be at my place knowing that dre is about to leave and in the moment i could feel like tempted and it's because we're in this space for just this one like moment and then he's like leaving i don't know if this makes sense for you but once we started living together it just became normalized to me to always have him around and i didn't start to feel anything like when i would see him with the shirt off like i wouldn't think like ooh like sexual thoughts it's like oh they're straight it was definitely like a roommate situation which could be a con at the end of the day because then once you get married it's like well where's the you know you kind of like have seen and dealt with all of that but um it made sense for me and it felt right and it was like at the end of the day it's your choice so whoever you're dating talking to and wanting to marry like it's what you guys ultimately want and what works best for your relationship we knew that we could live together and not be tempted or feel like that would break our vow and that's because of the boundaries that we put in place so that's very important is to understand that it's like everybody is different and we were just honest about our situation we have to we'd have to tell people that we lived together and it was just so weird how yeah people were just like and i think that as soon as even as i said just what i said somebody paused it right there and started writing their rebuttal to me in the comments i'm pretty sure we'll probably scroll down right now and see some of you guys writing your rebels that's not what that verse means this is not whatever whatever and i'm like okay whatever but i know that my my girlfriend and i we're doing things intentionally we're waiting for marriage so it's like i know plenty of people who say they're waiting and mess up we didn't do that i know a lot of people who live separately and get it on get it in all the time but it's like so you rather us be like all right we're living separately and if we just had a relationship channel talking about our relationship i feel like people would be more okay with somebody like these woke people would be more okay with somebody living separately and having sex versus somebody not having sex and living together moral of the story is y'all just too judgmental and care a little too much yeah it's like if somebody tells you something you have no reason not to believe it unless you feel insecure in yourself that you would not be able to do that if you were in that position which we get a lot so it's like if we said hey we're waiting for marriage you have no reason not to believe us unless you feel like if placed in our position you wouldn't be able to do that so then therefore you can't believe that that can be a real thing that somebody can do but i digress i'm gonna move on but yeah that's why we did and i know we got a lot of flack for that but the biggest thing is that although i'm saying all this if i were suggesting it to somebody would i tell somebody to do it and i think the answer is no like especially not like how we did it like saying your answer to living together before marriage is now like i'm just saying like i wouldn't either way you could do what you want and i think that there's pros and cons to it but i think that especially how early on we did it like i would definitely if we could do it differently i think that there are a lot of cons to living together before marriage or before being like super serious with someone i know some people do it with engagement i think once you make the commitment that it's like this is what i want spit this is the person i'm gonna spend the rest of my life with and you already made actions to show that that's what you guys are doing then sometimes it's like you guys are starting to try to plan the future as early as you possibly can together so whether that's living together and saying like all right two years three years we're saving for a house so we're gonna move together now even though we're getting married in seven months or something like that to save money because this person's lease is up here it's like you make it make sense but i think that there are some like cons to living together too and i think one of them is you kind of miss the the courting aspect of dating sometimes and i think it's because we especially how early we moved in with each other you miss that like hey i'm coming to pick you up like we're going on this date and we're doing this yeah it's like you're seeing that person all the time looking raggedy because y'all just in the house and it's like it just becomes the norm and it's less of like ooh ah moments yeah that's for sure but i would say i suggest living together before marriage and the reason why how early though um not that i'm against it but i'm just no i think what you said made perfect sense it's like if you know like okay this is somebody that i'm gonna spend my life with or you know we're planning together and things like that like you should be together long enough to know that for me i would think engagement i think when you get engaged i would suggest living with each other because an engagement is a promise it's not a vow so there's a difference you can be engaged to somebody and not work out and then you don't get married but if you do not live with that person and you get married and like i've seen this before you realize like oh man i didn't really know know this person until living with them and i don't like living with them there are certain things that people aren't willing to change adjust and i mean you can definitely have those conversations but it's there's nothing like experiencing it and like realistically going through what that looks like so i feel like you should not move in with someone unless there is a commitment to building your future together which in my book is engagement so literally being engaged and then that way you can kind of work on all the things so that you know that marriage makes sense and that this is something that you could do lifelong because girl girl y'all she'd like to call me a girl sometimes i do call drug girls and thoughts about that ebay um but yeah i would not be able to marry someone without living with them first only because i'm like uh um we don't need any surprises but i do also believe that if you're getting married there's nothing that you guys shouldn't be able to like work on or you know fix or adjust but some people are very stubborn like i don't feel i would have had that issue with you because of the type of person you are but i do think there are some men out there that aren't willing to change certain things or adjust or you know i mean even simple things like roles right like you don't really know what someone's expectations are until you live with them like do you expect me to cook monday through friday do you expect me to wash and fold all your laundry do you expect me to and sometimes you don't know until you're in that situation so i feel like it's to your own you know your own situation and the two of you what makes the most sense and what the end goal is don't just be out here moving in with people yeah i feel like one thing that i so the two things that i took from it is the courting situation you you miss that when it comes to waiting i mean not waiting excuse me today very uh living together you kind of miss that courting uh phase but i think also is that sometimes you need a break from one another and i think that that's something that honestly really could have helped us but we i think that let me say this there are multiple ways to get to a destination some is like right left you're there there's other ones right left over the pothole like through the back of this neighborhood construction zone and it'll still get you there but you took a little longer a little harder road to get to where you need to get so i say that to say is that bree and i of course we're married now we work through a lot of our problems but i think we could have benefited from space when we went through certain things especially because in the beginning bree as far as like communicating how she felt or like when she felt some type of way the way that she would react initially versus how she would come back once she had time to like think about things was a little bit different but if you're living in a house together like like remember that remember the champagne night yeah luckily if you were like if you had went home versus like being coming home to you coming home to me yeah and we were lucky though because we lived in an apartment where i had friends that lived in the building so i had my little escapes to mimi's and dominic but she didn't live with us she didn't live there in the beginning melissa did dominique did yes they all did there was always somebody living there i always had an escape you probably didn't but ah what i'm saying it wasn't escape enough to like you know i mean like true space yeah yeah um what i would say that i learned from it is how important like boundaries and like expectations are like when because there's it's one thing to communicate because we talked about some things like you know like what's your biggest pet peeves and like you know how are we gonna work out the bathroom situation like where are my clothes gonna go and then the biggest thing y'all i am so particular and he had like a bachelor pad and i'm like um yeah this isn't gonna work i wanted it to look like my apartment too so that is a big thing learning your person's like that is a challenge i'm glad you brought that up keep what you're gonna say but that's a huge important part of living together as well is that a lot of times when people move in you're moving into one of those people's space and that's a challenge because that's not it will never for that person feel like especially if a woman is coming to a man's place it will never truly feel like her home in a sense yeah like so i know some people get a place together and then it feels like you know you love our place now way more i mean for a lot of different reasons but well the thing is we were like yours yeah it's like we were making we were making a space makes sense that did not make sense it was just way too small for the both of us um but what i will say is like even once we were living together my expectations of myself changed i don't know if that was the thing for you but you know i thought that coming into that i would like cook and clean and do all the things because i thought that like oh it's my like womanly duties she did not do that wait working okay or like i would just i realized i didn't want the traditional like roles like i didn't want to play the old woman role and like you're the bread winner and we had to find a routine that worked for us like when you live with someone like your sleep schedule is gonna be affected because someone's alarm is going off and then a big thing for me that i would say is the biggest con to us living together is my personal work ethic and motivation and what i mean by that is when i'm by myself and there's no one to not distract because you're not distracting but or you're not a distraction so not distract you but essentially like take any of your attention or like you know they're always on the top of your brain because they're in the other room or they're sitting right next to you when i was living alone i would take advantage of a lot of pockets of free time that i had to work on like other projects and things that were in the pipeline whereas when we were living together any free moment i had i wanted to like snuggle up with him and watch animal planet or like go take a walk or like you know spend little moments that's legit we literally just watched the animals i felt that way too that yeah when you're by yourself or you're in your own space you tend to be a little bit more focused mm-hmm more productive if you want to go to sleep at 10 then a lot of times if you live by yourself or you yeah you'll go to sleep yeah and you'll wake up the next day and you'll say hey i'm going to sleep you know versus like living together even now i'm married just like bree would be like all right i'm waking up at six i'm going about 11 but if i come home or if i'm in a bed and i put something on this literally happened last night she literally took her eye mask off last night you know what like and basically watch something with me when i got home i like put headphones in and everything but it's like it's and it's not anybody's fault necessarily normal you just want to spend time with that person if you want to spend time with that person but yeah that is a big con of that is that your motivation sometimes can go a little or your schedule can get a little bit thrown off um and it is an adjustment to having to work around that and i guess our situation is unique because we're both in entrepreneurship and there is nobody saying you have to get up at this time versus two people who have jobs that have to report yeah and then at that point you're leaving the house for the day anyway so the time that you're spending together is probably what you would spend together if you were dating and not living together so it really just depends another con that i have is that living together will make you argue about the dumbest things that if you weren't living together this wouldn't even be a topic of discussion taking the garbage out someone's dish or like underwear on the floor or this or that or it's like just little daily things that might spark a little like um that is a con but it's a pro in a different way because getting through those things really has to do with communication and respect and again setting boundaries and kind of like planning to actually live together so it's like it gives you a taste of what life is gonna be like after marriage so pros and cons um but specifically if you're choosing to wait for marriage the goal would to obviously not be to live together because you may be tempted if you're around that person more often if you're seeing them a certain way so that is something that depends on your relationship for dre and i it never affected our like temptation but it's because of our boundaries like we didn't get drunk together we didn't touch each other in private areas we didn't french kiss like our boundaries were hardcore pg-13 so it's like there's no way we're getting tempted imagine trying to have sex with someone but you can't like french kiss them that'd be pretty weird would be very weird yeah very weird no but i'm trying to think i think that's i think you hit a lot on the head when it comes to living together as far as like practical things that we implemented ourselves like bree said communicating roles and who's doing what is super important um [Music] is is very important when it comes to living together i think also like making sure that you have adequate space yes because that'll make it ten times worse making sure you have adequate space for one another and everything you both are trying to do because just being on topic one being on top of one another for a certain amount of time can cause stress and anxiety yeah and that has it can sometimes have nothing to do with either of you guys it's just that like the space is just too small dre and i went from a studio apartment to now we have two apartments because we live in one and dre works out of another one so even at a point where like space is needed we have a whole second home that's right down the hall so and like that's the best thing we could have did for our relationship it's been great so yes space is super super important yeah and i think that a big thing too is being open to your partner's like suggestions and things that they do so as we all know like you're coming into a relationship with somebody who's different than you as much as you think they're the same they're raised different they do things different so like talk about the dishwasher yeah so i was about to say that like as you grow up i'll say this as you grow up you realize that first there's things in your life that your parents tell you that are like right and wrong right don't steal don't lie and you get in trouble if you do those things yeah but that's right like you shouldn't do that then there's things in your life to where your parents have certain particular things that they like and it's not wrong but you would still get in trouble for it yeah but there's nothing like wrong with the other way that you were doing it it's just your parents want it this way and once you get older you understand that so everybody has different ways that they were taught to put the dishes in the dishwasher what's supposed to be put in the dishwasher how you're supposed to clean certain things what materials what products what like sponge washcloth scrubber like everybody has these particular things how you put the toilet paper on how you use towels like everybody has these particular things of how they grew up of how you're supposed to do things when you're supposed to do things and i think that's a huge adjustment for like moving into somebody and you have to be understanding that all right we have to come to some type of like what are we going to do what are we going to do like some i remember my grandmother house all the pots were under the stove to where all the pans were understood to where somebody they may put it like up here or all the glasses are over here where they grew up or the spices and salt and pepper was like this and it's like you have to make the adjustment fellas let you know let your woman do whatever she want that's the real key and you just chime in on small little things and when you battle but you let her do it whatever she wants um because you only have a few things that you can be adamant on that she's actually going to be like okay that's fine so you got to pick your battles when you choose this stuff the i remember the day i was like what i was so baffled so i put like a cup i don't remember what it was it was a pan okay a dishwasher i put a pan in the dishwasher dre like is like oh my god like you don't you don't put pans in the dishwasher i'm like okay dish police like please show me the rule that says you cannot put pans in the dishwasher it is a dishwasher washes dishes is a pan not a not a dish so i was just like what it wasn't a dish though i mean it wasn't a pan it was something super simple because what happened is i went to his mom's house like later that week and i went to go put something in her dishwasher and she yelled at me and i was like this is why dre is this way so i think it was a cup god bless my mom i think it was a cup and that household just in general my mom and pop like i thought i was particular it's a very like love my mom but it's they they my mom has a way she likes to do things and so does my pop and that's the structure i grew up in so like my mom is the type it's like if you want to wipe your face and like oh you reach a grab paper towel no grab a napkin yes like and if you all know me i don't know the difference between the two so she don't it's like grab a napkin or or if you're doing this you need to do it this way like we used to have to clean every saturday and then my stepdad will come and examine everything and like so i'm telling brie like you have to clean this way this is the way to clean you have to use comet the powder kind throw it all over the top the scrub like it's all these things that i'm telling her this is how you got to do things in order to make it make sense and then you realize it's just conditioning yeah from how you grew up and it's not necessarily saying that one is wrong or right it's just about you guys coming together to be like okay this is how we're gonna do in our house and this is what's gonna make sense for us uh this is how we're gonna wash dishes and this is how we're gonna put the toilet paper up and like i don't know some people like buying things in bulk like my parents house is like a fortress like if the world ends we are going to be good they'll be good for a while like they buy things and bought costco to where other things other people like they're like oh i get what i need a normal amount at a time at a time but it's like you just adjusting to each other and figuring out like what do we like or what do i like and coming together and and making a decision and being okay with that decision yeah and i think another would you rather see something i think another part too is understanding that there is a financial thing with that as well and i wouldn't suggest living together as bree said unless you guys are like doing it to like you're working toward like first you're going to get married but you're trying to plan your future like there should be a reason to do it i don't think you should just do it just to do it and one of the things that i feel like that i've noticed and i think is also a little bit of a con when it comes to this is that for bree and i living together didn't necessarily i want to say ruin marriage for us because because we were waiting it still gave us something to look forward to yes we were very roommate pg-13 so i think that sometimes like marriage is this amazing thing and i feel like when you get married it should feel like amazing and i think sometimes if you have sex if you're having sex and you're doing all these things and you put your finances together and then you move together then it's kind of like the marriage thing is kind of like i mean what what is you know it's like what am i really getting like we get married and it's like oh it's just exactly the same as how life was before we just paid a whole bunch of money and had a big party to celebrate this so i think that for us what was really cool is that even though we lived together because we waited it still gave marriage like this kind of like like it was a it was a difference it was a difference or that we were waiting for something or we accomplished something that opened up a new like level or like a new thing for us s-e-x yeah so i think that that was really really cool for our relationship yeah so i would say the three things that you need to consider if living together before marriage is an option is one finances like your financial situation your goals what you're doing all that uh two communication and boundaries so like really talking about what it looks like and like you know just being able to communicate when issues do arise like putting a dish in the dishwasher the wrong way or whatever because it'll happen and then number three expectations in terms of roles and responsibilities because that's major you don't want to get into a situation where your expectation was different and you had a whole different role planned in your mind and a responsibility for that person that they didn't take on and now it doesn't make sense but you literally are on their lease so now where do you go from there so definitely those three are the biggest things but ultimately you have to figure out what is best for you and your person so and that's what i was going to end with is that it's all about what works for you there's so many different situations like bree and i did not come in our relationship saying we want to live together it's just the situation that we had like had made that a reality and i think for everybody your situation is different and i'm not saying that one is worse than the other is the state all comes with their pros and cons like we just like laid out so it's up to you what you want to do but whatever you do you need to do it with intentionality and do it for a reason don't make decisions in your relationships or make next steps um without having some type of intention behind it and taking it serious because it will affect you and affect your relationship and you know living together and having to break a lease if things don't go well and all that stuff like it's a hassle yeah that you have to go through and it's emotional and it's it hurts so it's just making sure that you're intentional with whatever you do um that you make sure like brie say communicate everything that you're doing key and making sure that you're looking at your future and seeing like how is this affecting what we're trying to do and make it make sense make the things make sense because if it don't make sense it don't make sense i thought you were going to say something like really great that was a simple simplistic simplicity you're going to say something that rhymed it did rhyme it was just the same word no at all no but thank you for listening um please comment give us your opinion what you think how you feel i know a lot of people are commenting anyways off of what i said but uh make sure you comment subscribe to our channel please write reviews and give us nice little five star reviews if you like what we're talking about on apple and stuff like that but make sure ultimately that you follow me astray smith you follow my beautiful wife at it's brief wow no what where 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Length: 41min 38sec (2498 seconds)

Published: Wed May 11 2022