Law of Attraction: 3 Things that Attract Men 50 and Up! | Engaged at Any Age | Jaki Sabourin

hi ladies Jackie Sabourin here and I'm excited to connect with you today because I want to talk to you about three things that attract men over 50 and it's really over 50 over 60 over 70 and beyond because this is what men are looking for in a woman that are over 50 and so the here's the thing is all men want to attract the same type of woman all the men when I read through the statistics I it all it all shows the same thing all men want a fun honest woman that they can have a good time with so that's easy right you're a fun honest woman that they can have a good time with so you already you already solved half of the problem hi Terry nice to see you and so but there's specifically different qualities that men are looking for as they age and I want to share those with you today and so one of the things that really stood out when I looked at the statistics and what I hear from my my the man that I know and also from the women that I'm coaching is that men are really looking for a relationship over 50 over 60 in over 70 they really are they're more relationship minded so ladies I don't want you to be afraid to be expressing they are interested in a committed relationship because that is exactly what men are looking for over 50 over 60 and Beyond because they are they recognize that the important things in life is having a loving partner by their side and they want to experience life with someone and they're recognizing that more and more as they age so that's such a benefit a bonus right to know and to really understand and accept and empower yourself with this knowledge that men over 50 60 and 70 really are looking for long-term committed relationships that lead to marriage and face it what else are they gonna do I mean you know having a relationship when as we age is really the most rewarding experiences you can have and so I like that I'm sharing this with you because I really know that to be true based on my own experience with Michael and the ladies that are getting in to relationships I Carol hi Laura hi Jean hi Susie nice to see you here all right so so men are looking for relationships over 50 in fact they are more interested in that then than just dating for fun and so a loving partner is a priority two men over 50 60 and 70 and another thing that men are looking for men that are over 50 looking for a woman and a relationship over 50 60 and 70 is is a woman who is valid values intelligence and so men are looking for intelligent women so emotional intelligence and intellectual intelligence so emotional intelligence is your ability to have a great communication skill your ability to hold a conversation without getting triggered your ability to bring more wisdom to every situation because that isn't such a benefit to him benefiting from your wisdom your intuition and your knowledge your life knowledge and your life experiences actually when he's looking for not that you're younger that you have all this life experience and you know how to apply it that's what emotional intelligence is having compassion having empathy having good listening skills being being present and being open minded that's another thing that men are looking for over 50 60 and 70 in a woman is a woman who's open-minded because what happens is over time and this is a really a something I want to dig into a little bit more being open-minded as we age we tend to get generally speaking of course we tend to get more closed-minded we used to tend to get rigid in our thinking and in doing that we limit ourselves we limit not only with possible but we limit ourselves from learning something new and so you want to always keep an open mind sometimes when we feel like we know it all or we know a topic that somebody is sharing with us like especially on days then we we shut that person down because we're not really open to hearing anything new and so life is all about learning and growing and evolved expanding and so men over 50 60 and 70 are really looking for a woman who is open to exploring possibility is open to looking at life in a different angles who sees the value and learning and growth and so that's what men are looking for of course it goes across the board to say that men are looking for a woman who has a sense of humor I mean all men are looking for that when I looked at the statistic so who else is coming on hygiene nice to see you here hi Vivian and so here's a surprise that you may not think that is true but men over 50 60 and 70 are looking for romance they're looking for romance they're not done with the romance in fact they are more likely to be work more romantic because they are they value those the quality that a woman can bring to a relationship bring that that touch of feminine energy that makes life more rich and interesting and more colorful for a man and so they're definitely looking for for more romance and I know as women we love romance so I think that's that's a wonderful thing to keep in mind men want a romance shoe they want to have romantic experiences with you so she as they get older so they're looking for that quality so don't shy away from those romantic experiences because men really do want that and so and so here's the last piece I'll share with you and there's so many things but this one is really key as men over 50 60 and 70 really are looking for someone who they can be active with whether that means riding bikes taking walks skiing whatever it is for you being active is a really important thing to men over 50 and I think that's obvious why when we're active we live a healthier life we live longer we sleep better we feel better about ourselves so if you haven't been active lately this is a good time to break out your walking shoes if summer is coming and you can get out there if it's really hot in your environment you can go really early in the morning right so getting yourself back into yoga routine workout routine anything you can share on dates this shows that you're active even if it's just taking really long walks that is something that is going to appeal to a man over 50 60 and 70 because he wants to remain active as long as he lives and I know my husband is like that he's like I'm gonna work out until the day I die because I never want to not be able to get out of bed and do the things that I want to do and I couldn't agree more with him so we we do that together that's one of the things that attracted me to Michael's and him to me is that we were both active so ladies they're not looking for younger women they're looking for women that are relationship minded they're looking for women that are active they're looking for women that are easygoing that are looking from they're looking for a woman who's intelligent emotionally and spiritually intellectually so make sure you begin to cultivate those parts of you to make sure that you bring that forward when you're out on your date and of course we're all looking for a sense of humor that's what we need to do to do all the dating right you have to have a sense of humor about everything so bring that sense of hearing to your date because it's going to connect really well to men over 50 that's what they're looking for and I don't know about you but you know it's good to have a good laugh with somebody especially when you're on a date so if you can come up with some jokes or don't forget to be playful and witty and have that fun playful banter not taking things so seriously not taking things personally that's for sure and questioning things when you don't understand something shows emotional intelligence it doesn't show that you don't understand something it it shows you acknowledge that you're curious and you want to be clear about something of a shared sheis you're not afraid to ask questions especially when you don't understand something or don't know something I think it's really attractive when you are when you don't know something and you're not afraid to admit it when you're like gosh you know I'm not familiar with that tell me all about it instead of think instead of faking it and going yeah huh sure I know about that when you really don't so bring that vulnerability forward and and it really connects I mean I'd rather say I really don't know about that I've never heard about it I'd love to hear more about it than to pretend that I do because that's you don't have to do that just let that go and so ladies I hope this was helpful hi I'm Amanda nice to see you here mmm hi Jill okay so I want to answer a quite answer a question that was sent in earlier before I conclude this our talk here how do you know if he's the right man and should you commit to let me see how do you know if he's the right man you should commit to if most things are good but then you question other things that aren't matching up to your core wants and needs and so I would need to know what those other things are but I would I really recommend that you look at what your core wants and needs are more closely sometimes the things that we want and need we haven't examined them in a while and our needs and wants change over time and I would really look at more about what your needs are what are the needs because the once a lot of those things you can fulfill in yourself maybe you want to travel to different places and maybe he doesn't so maybe you can go well are you okay with me going on trips with my girlfriends and if he's okay with that you guys have worked that out so may I mean but maybe that's a deal-breaker for you maybe you want to travel with your partner so that would be a need so really getting clear about making the distinction between wants and needs is going to help you to take the confusion out of whether or not this man is is it has a real place in your life and now you said your core your core wants so I I'm just imagining that the core would be maybe front financial would be a core or maybe children's ages could be a core thing you don't want to take on a relationship where if somebody has younger children so you really just have to get clear on what those core needs are but I certainly would come to the table with a lot of questions and seeing if you can negotiate I mean if you have if he has a lot of good things that are matching up I think that it's worthy of conversations to see if you can't negotiate some kind of compromises because relationships are compromises and I say that in the highest with the highest respect in a good way I compromise my time I compromise where we eat or we're gonna watch on TV where we're gonna go on vacation because my core needs are to be with Michael to be with a man who loves and adores me to be with a man who supports me to be with a man who accepts me and treats me well those are the things that are the most important to me the other things like where we're gonna go what we're gonna eat and all those little things I can let all those go and go with the flow because I'm easygoing and and those things just you know aren't that important compared to the core needs so really it's just getting clear on what is it a need or a want and how important is it to you it can you negotiate that because if the man has the qualities and the principles that you really resonate with I say it's worth negotiating and so I hope this was helpful ladies if you want more clarity on what I'm sharing as always you know I'm here for you in these facebook lives and I do the youtubes and I'm always here providing you these tips but if you need to learn how to apply them and take action on them because intellectual knowledge was what I'm supplying here but it's useless if you can't take action on it and you know I'm winding down my enrollment into my engaged in any age program and I only have two spots left and so if you're interested and you've been toying with the idea and you're you regret not taking advantage of it I'm gonna give you this one last opportunity to jump in with us and join the group so I want you to private message me on Facebook where we can talk in a private message and see if that's a fit for you so just go ahead and private message me and we'll have a little dialogue privately and I'll tell you if it's a fit for you and share with you the details II the big commitment and I have a special bonus for you if you sign up it's kind of a fast action bonus but I'll tell you that in a private message so I hope you join me I'm really excited about this group that's amazing women I've already seen one of the ladies that is in the group has such exciting news just in two weeks of meeting the group after talking to me and and really laying out a plan and really looking at her believes that she didn't feel like she can meet a man in her town and so he opened up that possibility to meeting a man outside of her town where she really wanted to live and made some tweaks to her profile and made some other changes and within two weeks she she connected with the man in another state he flew her to the States she put her up in a hotel she met his friend and now they're planning a life together she's flying back home right now and and where I'm gonna be working with her for the next nine months so she can continue to move forward in the relationship in a healthy way with clear boundaries making sure that everything's on track for that commitment and and taking her time to get to know him but this is very exciting because love happens fast two weeks ago she was worried that she wasn't gonna meet anybody today she's making plans for her future so that's exciting that's how fast things gonna happen especially when you're working with me okay ladies hi Donna hi Marissa I hope that answered your question and ladies um you oh thank you Susie for saying that she's encouraging you to sign up that it's worth it I'm really excited about this program and we're going to Vegas in a couple of weeks not everybody and the program is going to go but it's one of the bonuses so if you're interested in being a part of my workshop that's coming up in a couple of weeks definitely take a look at that and private message me right now so that we can talk okay ladies thank you for being here I just love you all so much Cindy sending you love narita I'm so happy to see you here honey how are you and I know you sent me a request for a Facebook live I just want you to know I got your request I was just reading it today and I'm going to create a training all about what you sent me a couple weeks ago I haven't forgotten about you okay all right ladies I hope you have a beautiful evening and enjoy the rest of this week what's left of it and have a great weekend sending you lots of love bye ladies

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Length: 15min 28sec (928 seconds)

Published: Fri May 11 2018