Intimidating? Why, Thank You!

everyone there are many adjectives you can use to describe a woman strong charismatic money understanding but what about intimidating hmm well according to elite daily if someone describes you as intimidating it's the greatest compliment you'll ever receive they say it's a good thing if you aren't easily impressed and there is something about you that exudes mystery and inspires fear so ladies you agree that being called intimidating can actually be a compliment I think so yes yes have you has anybody ever called you intimidating I'm intimidating in the bedroom okay yeah okay okay I think that Sophie Cohen says you know you're intimidating in the bedroom okay I hear that you're intimate you're um your success is intimidating you're intimidating yeah if your personality is intimidating I'm sorry that's not a compliment yeah good night girl what like I believe that some of the most successful people in the world like literally like super successful super beautiful people most a lot of people I've met have really welcoming kind and warm that very day example was Michelle Obama Beyonce and a lot of people say oh she's probably so intimidating she is the kindest warmest person she makes you feel comfortable I think there's nothing doper than meeting somebody who might have a really intimidating resume but they make you feel like you're one of them they make you feel good about yourself having an intimidating personality is not cute to me so I or a college anyway I think what's an example of like an intimidating personality and like standoffish having an air about you as if you are now you think you better that I don't know are you questioning a lot of things well thank you that I have a friend I have a friend her name is Catherine Hoke she runs an organization called safai ventures and her organization adds a different spin on path fellows so she works in the prison system every single day she's in the biggest Penitentiary's across tomorrow and all she does is encourages felons show them there's new life and showed them how to you know look outside just beyond bars and to think of a new future well that being a woman she's got to have a certain demeanor that carries a no-nonsense business attitude righteous men to not mess with her and to show that she's here to help you and just because she's an attractive woman she's not trying to be looked at like that yes she knows she's got it going on but she's trying to look out what's going on for you I like when there's a positive spin to the way people are going to categorize you for example when someone says you're bossy no you're not bossy you are a leader if someone says hey lazy no you're just disconnected with that that you're not into if you're intimidating you're doing that for a purpose and a reason and that could be something that you're doing to help the greater purpose so don't get tripped up by a category that's what I'm saying it it's a double standard though it is when men are intimidating they say that that's powerful but when women are intimidating you're a yeah you know I'm dying right you know yeah and as well I've been told I was intimidating what yes honestly I your resume your success right there well in college if I'm honest okay I couldn't wait to go to college because I spent most of my life on a set I did Sister Sister for about six years I started when I was 14 and I ended you know when I was 20 so while I was in college I was shooting Sister Sister all I wanted was for somebody to sit next to me in class yeah my sister and I had like this running joke we would sit together but there was always an empty seat next to us and we didn't understand you know why because when meet my sister and I I mean we always have like this big big smile on our faces but I guess looking back in hindsight maybe people thought because we were on TV or whatever we didn't want to I want to be by you I know we all are sitting here like keep acting like a normal girl we know you why to me why okay dramatize and you in a while because I was like what's wrong with me the reason why I wouldn't do it is because I would think that I didn't want to make you feel uncomfortable right thinking that I'm just sitting next to you because you like on some goofy on some groupie level like on some groupie tip I don't want to look like and I would I painted next to you because you would see some super yeah and I'm happy with that on that asian girl sitting next to you just because I want to borrow your money cuz I knew you were sister whatever what if I am I'm a big smile on my face and I want to get high so I thought you deserves because I would think they can go on it like we started doing this so I was intimidated by you because you I grew up with you probably oh I want to see you know she's gonna think I'm crazy a really silly cat and look on your face sometimes like yeah and so it took a while so in fact it's not that it's not a bad thing I think it's more of a respect thing when it helps to you we hope people respect you guys so much here you clean cut you go you're not you know and all that kind of stuff come on me in play you gotta be on your best behavior when when they meet you and yes nothing is wrong with that just take it and just deal with it that's it okay it makes people hold yourself to a higher standard exact role but then you guys also have to realize that I mean I'm just a normal human being yeah like everyone now earbuds for you buddy to sit next to me darn I'm glad so so so for that oh yeah

Channel: The Real Daytime

Views: 1,143,161

Rating: 4.9065962 out of 5

Keywords: the real, daytime, talk show, women, tamera mowry, adrienne bailon, loni love, jeannie mai, Intimidating, girl chat, Intimidating women, Intimidating men, compliments, backwards compliment

Id: K6hPN0ERmfE

Length: 6min 17sec (377 seconds)

Published: Wed Apr 12 2017