"If We F***** Other People I'm Not Living With You" | Joe Budden On Cheating Rules In Relationships

what are the cheating rules whoa oh the cheating rules there's rules to cheating oh that's yeah don't get caught that should be the number one that's the rule ten sheet Commandments and Rule Number Two video that a woman put out after she found out that her spouse was cheating I guess she made some rules moving forward okay right because I love you he's so cute man I never wanted to not be with you I never wanted to be without you I want to do life with you that's right but in the process of all that's happening you a liar oh you got to attention I had to hear from this which all relationship was about no we're not [ __ ] no more I want to see other people you act like you're the only [ __ ] in this relationship that other people wanna no we we no let's let's be real let's so what we gonna do is we gonna stay together we're gonna have a beautiful life together for the rest of our lives we're gonna continue getting money together we're gonna continue raising this little girl together we're gonna have a fabulous home we're gonna love and take care of each other but I'm gonna [ __ ] other people and I hope you do too Jesus Christ and we will never ever talk about it don't bring me no babies don't bring me no diseases but we gonna do what we want to do outside this house because to this point it has worked he's like 10 minutes wait let's go with that that she was speaking directly to him and that's him saying time out time out time out yeah because I didn't want that okay I say it all the time bro a lot of men want the one-way open relationship we want our kids to eat it too well I hate that because what else do you do with cake I hate when people say that both eat the [ __ ] cake but no dudes want the one-way open relationship I want to be able to do what I do but you better not um so you're looking at me because you look like you are simmering over there not at all I I think that I think that's a adult way to look at that particular situation like you you if you think it's okay for you to dance outside [ __ ] I want to dance in the rain too so are you staying in that situation are you agreeing to her if you got caught cheating um I think it's a conversation to be had can you move that mic closely I definitely think that it's a conversation that could be had amongst the two people definitely I don't know where I would be in in that particular situation but I think she's well within her rights to feel that I agree she's a thousand percent I think that was a very and I think that more relationships would stay together and would be if it was like prosperous if they came to some adult terms like that I think that yeah the system that we live in has set up uh the roles and I think that people just abide by them but I don't think that so what if the next [ __ ] [ __ ] your wife good yeah [ __ ] you can't ask questions she said we do not ask questions don't bring me a baby and do not bring me anything ego can't handle that right that's the truth she first of all she's doing New Tricks I'm not putting that on [ __ ] what women don't what woman don't ask questions a lot of [ __ ] cannot handle the thought of somebody else so even if we he could sit here at the table and say okay cool I gotta agree to this to keep you in the back of his mind every time you leave that house you're going to get [ __ ] and he's going to [ __ ] with him and I'm speaking I know somebody personally that went damn near through the exact same situation hurdle was cheating on her she found out about it well a girl came to them and was pregnant and they thought it was his baby and that's how she found it that's how she found out come to find out it wasn't his baby [Applause] some [ __ ] got divorced for that and and that was the thing she was like yo all right no we're gonna stay together but now this is open mm-hmm you can do you see and I can I know but I'm gonna get to do me now I was down a YouTube rabbit hole this morning the caption caught me it was here are the NBA players that [ __ ] their teenage girls or wives or some [ __ ] right he got a sick algorithm no no he went on YouTube this morning while I was at my fever I was lit I started with the ray Carruth killer the person he hired is doing an interview Stone Cold emotionless like yeah that's how it happened I killed her got to throw it like that but anyway in the NBA one Steve Nash's wife or girlfriend at the time was pregnant and he found out that she had been sleeping with Leandro Barbosa [ __ ] [ __ ] but if so when she had the baby the baby was black so she he Steve Nash thought the baby was Leandro Barbosa so they took the test and the baby was Jason Richardson oh [ __ ] damn she was doing Steve dirty she liked them guards then they talked about Shaq and Gilbert Arenas his wife Paul George Roy Hibbert we did the same wife oh let's play Paul George of Roy Hibbert I thought it was George Hill and Roy Hibbert nah Roy Hibbert and Paul George Tony Parker and uh that was the other one yeah Barry brimberry um who was [ __ ] who look at you very much uh no Tony Parker was cheaper and that's why him and Eva like they are the groupies is groupies so use the man in college why are we call somebody groovy just because they [ __ ] your teammate I think it's an I think it's an affinity for I'm gonna call him a hole because I [ __ ] your teammate yeah I'm not even talking about her I'm saying but me and you you've called people that we know Jersey Chasers I've called people hoes no no cause I was hurt no I said no I said Jersey Chasers that's a groupie no I don't think that a woman [ __ ] two teammates necessarily make no no no no no no no no no no but I'm saying that's independent Jersey Chasers we know what that is okay yeah that's grouping right but if I'm an upstanding woman they talk about Matt Burns Matt Barnes and uh I'm sure Derek Fisher but if I'm an upstanding woman I'm not a hoe I'm not a groupie or none of that this is my life's down there my husband's a uh NBA player these are the circles I'm in and I got caught slipping with this one person I'm not gonna necessarily card oh you [ __ ] my teammate you know how come all these rules apply to women and we do whatever the [ __ ] we want no that didn't make it be wholesale dude I just said that if you got caught cheating and your wife felt like that young lady felt she's well within her rights to feel that way and that's a conversation I also was starting to say that when people have these understandings I think their relationships last way way longer and are way more um productive productive positive Progressive than the other [ __ ] A lot of people who believe that love is undying and you know I just think that I think it's an understanding I think that with love comes certain amount of respect and I think that um when you when you're able to communicate whatever you got to communicate with your significant other I think that's a great thing because I think it's a lot of people in relationships that don't have no communication with their girl or they do it sounds really good until you get to that red tablet I'm telling you back to my homegirl and and what she said so what happened dude can handle it he couldn't yeah and they had they had their whole communication and all that but it was starting to bother him that she was going out getting piped down by dudes how do you know they were open communicating oh so she would be like I'm going on a date today yes but shorty said something totally different she said y'all I want to know you don't gotta know we ain't bringing it home I've had girls that I've dated in the past say yo dog sound good yeah she said that but even if y'all are not communicating about it you are bringing it home like I believe I believe in the energy and protecting the sanctity of the house whatever you go out there and do sometimes you do bring it back well as a [ __ ] when we go out and cheat sometimes when we come back in the house it ain't over yet like our brain the way we function in the house is not right yet um maybe I gotta if I if we both [ __ ] other people I'm not living with you not at all I'm not living with you I'm not doing that they got a daughter yeah what if you have kids so now back to you so now back to your point though um but but the [ __ ] could live with the girl and he [ __ ] other chicks we're selfish no I don't know I don't think that's right either oh it's not right but we selfish I do understand in like a long-term marriage kids everyone's successful everything is good I could see how an open relationship would probably make things easier better easier for everyone like we're not trying to [ __ ] this all up we got a nice house we got cars we got kids everything is good but we're tired of [ __ ] each other yeah the problem with living with your girl and cheating is all of the cheats be finger roll layups like they all go perfect they all seem like they were in let's go back to the house take it back to your place it's all steamy like ah [ __ ] I live with my girls still I didn't leave her hey I'm gonna get this hotel my hotel why don't we just take it to your place [ __ ] ah damn it that's crazy she's be perfect when you live with your girl you find the perfect looking girl you want to cheat with you find that girl that you want to go and win if it wasn't for your girl the hotel just got a bed yeah that dirty conversation to it like yeah yeah if I come to your house and we're just sitting on the couch I know I'm a [ __ ] you will be sitting on the couch but when you say yo let's go to the hotels yeah you just one night standing me and they feel away they fill away it's a nice hotel no they feel away in the crib you get to stay it's more like it it didn't seem pre-planned yeah we're not going to the hotel to watch a movie I'm coming to your house just to watch a movie no you got your good draws on you got your good set on Mama you ain't come over here these [ __ ] hoeing harlots out here have ruined [ __ ] cheating and [ __ ] in your actual house because that's when they tell your girl exactly how your house looks and they leave that they had a man cave look where your birth mark is where your spot is that the last time that ever happened that's exactly what happened so start describing [ __ ] yeah yeah I know have it have it have it been a situation where the person that you're cheating with they know you're married and all that stuff or they know you had a girlfriend and they hold it down meaning like they can see your wife in public or see you together and they're not gonna say anything like a ride or die absolutely yeah [ __ ] you know I mean yeah but you know yeah it's not even that they rare it's just me a lot of times I watch a lot of women expose mad [ __ ] listen a lot of times you took the words out of my mouth a lot of times [ __ ] is lying to this other chick got it or downplay in the relationship he got with his girl or whatever the case may be and now once she found out that she was lied to oh what's up yeah I blur this I'll blow this whole [ __ ] up now that's what it that's usually what happens but [ __ ] don't do the same thing to girls no because [ __ ] ain't telling a girl husband yeah I [ __ ] yeah [ __ ] [ __ ] ain't doing it you know I might come along with that hmm I know I'm like but [ __ ] don't do that [ __ ] that's the reason why because [ __ ] shoot you or fight you you [ __ ] right okay [Music]

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Length: 12min 54sec (774 seconds)

Published: Sun Aug 13 2023