How To Manifest EXACTLY What You Want! (Beyond The Secret & Law of Attraction) | Reality Transurfing

what's up you guys Josh tonga here today I want to talk about how to manifest exactly what you want while you sometimes get exactly what you don't want as well and this is still part of a series I'm doing based on the book by Bobby New Zealand called reality trend surfing because once you become more aware of the amount of energy that's needed in your desires and by the end of this you'll be able to manifest whatever it is you want effortlessly you see the problem is that a lot of people believe that you gotta want something badly in order to manifest it right I mean I've even heard motivational speakers use that kind of language where they say things like you gotta be desperate and be obsessed with your dreams and your goals if you want to reach them look I don't deny that they eventually manifested what they wanted but the question is did their desperation and strong desire help them or did it hurt them along the way body and Zeeland mentions a phrase that you might have heard growing up if you were scolded by someone where they say I want never gets I want never gets and he rephrase it slightly in order to explain something that I think you're gonna want to remember from this point on that goes like this the stronger you want something the less likely you are to get it let me say that again the stronger you want something the less likely you are to get it you might be confused hearing that wondering like why isn't that how you're supposed to quote-unquote attract things or doesn't that show that you have a strong faith nope in fact it's a complete opposite let me explain in my recent videos which I suggest for you to watch in case you haven't yet I talked a lot about how everything in life strives towards balance yet I'm saying everything in nature for instance when you find yourself in balance and in harmony with the world around you what do you notice life runs a lot more smoothly and effortlessly right but then what happens when you're not in balance and in harmony with the world around you here's what happens and I'm sure some of you listening can confirm this too but life becomes a battle with balancing forces and just in case you did miss my previous videos I'll break it down again so the rest of what I'm gonna say will make more sense you see although we live in a material world we can't forget that everything has an energetic foundation where everything that occurs on an invisible level listen is reflected in the visible material world so with me that being said Zeeland also talks about something called excess potential now what the heck is that excess potential is something that's created whenever there's too much importance too much meaning and value given to something like to a particular object or an event and wherever there's excess potential of any form he says balanced forces come into play to correct the imbalance and restore equilibrium ok back to what I was saying earlier when you want something badly where you're willing to freaking put everything on the line and get it think of it as like placing everything on one side of a scale then what you're doing is you're creating huge excess potential which then destroys what balance it destroys balance and whatever there's imbalance and keep in mind nature strives for balance but what's the natural effect again balance forces he says will throw you onto a life line where there's no trace of the object you desire but what our life lines again think of a life line as scripts as sets of scenery that are more or less uniform in quality you see although all possible events exist including your desires you shift to certain life lines and get the things that correspond to your thought energy so if you're obsessed with your desires elín says it's like a wild boar trying to catch a blue bird the boar once a bird badly right licking its lips and sorting out loud and rooting the ground in anticipation but then naturally the bird flies away see if the board just wandered around somewhere nearby not giving a rip about the bird but just being indifferent believe it or not it would have had a better chance at catching the bird and here's why ready according to Zealand there are three types of desire the first type of desire is when a strong desire listen closely transforms into the determined intention to have something and does whatever is required to get it when that happens then the desire is fulfilled but might say Josh if it's a strong desire I thought that creates excess potential and the answer is and here's a game-changer the potential created by the desire is dispersed how because the energy behind it is fueled into action ok the second type of desire boddyhm says is a desire that's inactive it's tormenting and it represents excess potential in its purest form because it just lingers in the energy field and in a best-case scenario is simply waste your energy and in a worst-case scenario it attracts all kinds of unrelated problems now the third kind of desire he says is the most insidious of them all it's when your desire becomes dependent on the object of the desire examples being when you say things like if such-and-such doesn't happen that I'm screwed or if I don't get this nothing else matters or if I achieve this my situation will improve dramatically or if I don't achieve this my life will lose all meaning or if I do this I'll prove to myself and everybody else what I'm worth or if I don't do this I'm worth nothing and so on but you see it it's a desire that becomes a dependent relationship you guys which ain't good let's be real here ok whether you acknowledge it or not according to Zeeland when your desire has become so dependent like a kind of psychosis where you're willing to do whatever the heck it takes to get something then somewhere deep down inside folks you don't really believe you can't achieve it and what this does is that it creates a strong interference and a thought energy you're transmitting and so you're gonna end up trying really really hard convincing yourself that you can achieve it right which then boosts the level of excess potential even more and shoot with that kind of dynamic it'll protect you forever to achieve your goal because it'll keep getting further and further away from you to the point where you'll get so burned out from the constant struggle and most likely drop the desire cuz your efforts seem to lead to nothing which is sad that's why you want to stick with the first type of desire where your desire is transformed into pure intention free of excess potential ok but what about the common believe that there's no such thing as a free lunch and that everything has to be paid for heard that well Zeeland responds to it and says that in truth we only pay for the excess potential we create because in the alternative space aka the infinite field which can all the alternatives of all possible events in this field get this everything's free so way you can look at it you can say that the absence of importance and dependent relationships are a kind of payment for the fulfillment of desire that's why the energy of pure intention pure intention being desire and action without the attribution of importance he says is all that's required for you to transfer to a life line where the object of desire becomes a part of your reality I mean think about it you exercise pure intention every day like walking to the mailbox to get your letters or getting a drink from the fridge or going to the supermarket to buy your daily food to eat that's pure intention folks where you're not bottling up a bunch of emotions placing any importance on those things which is why it flows so smoothly but then for some reason when you have a quote unquote big goal all of a sudden you shift so much energy to one side of the scale and then to your surprise balanced forces take it from you now from now on you guys exercise pure intention towards your quote unquote big goal and lower the stakes another way to look at this is that the more you want to avoid something he says the greater the probability that you'll experience it it's like this balanced force has simply have two alternatives either to draw you away from encountering the thing you want to avoid or to bring you into contact with it in other words if you keep radiating the energy of avoidance where you're actively desiring for something not to happen guess what Zeeland says that you always get the things that you love to hate and I could totally relate to this too for instance it's like when I bought my very first car see when I first got my license I was driving an old 1989 Honda Accord and it was my parents's car it was a good car but it wasn't mine and thankfully the whole time dude I had no accidents no dance nothing at once I finally saved up some cash I eventually bought my very first brand new car and it was a big deal for me at the time and honestly I treated a car like it was my baby I always kept it clean it was souped up like a typical rice rocket you know I'm saying some of you will know that term let's just say I place huge value on it okay where I always made sure that there were no dents no scratches none of that I just wanted it to look perfect in other words without realizing it at the time a lot of excess potential was created check this out in just a short period of time even when I was trying to be super careful with it the windshield cracked while I was on the freeway from these rocks I shot out from the wheels of a big rig what are the chances of that another time my car literally slid off a snowy road and landed on a tree stump a tree stump no joke which ended up smashing my friend bumper and other unexpected stuff as well when all those things happen I was like dude all those years driving my parents his old car where I was kind of like whatever just neutral none of that stuff ever happened ever and what's also interesting is that once I stopped placing so much importance on my new car because of the damage it already took believe it or not no more problems other than the typical maintenance you do in a car so if you're like me of how I was back in the day placing so much importance on a material object whether it be with your car your bike your home whatever the solution boddyhm says is to level out your attitude towards it treat it like the ordinary object that it is seriously that doesn't mean being careless about it it means don't idolize it plain and simple and then the chances of it being damaged will be create Lear adduced for real all right real talk now I want you to think about the problems and the challenges you're facing at this time whether it be with money your health relationships whatever it is I want you to think back for a moment and try to see where you might have attributed excessive importance to it and trust me I get it you mean well but don't forget having a strong desire to either get or avoid something is always gonna screw you over you know I'm saying so the best thing you can do for now regarding your desire is to reduce the level of importance you're giving to it straight up it'll make a difference then once you do that start transmitting positive energy right away start focusing on the good stuff like showing gratitude counting your blessings etc and if things seem really bad to you at the moment well then take heart because based on the law of balance things can't stay bad forever folks they can't balance forces will eventually compensate the bad with good right and since all possible events exist right now including your desire all you got to do is simply choose it no need to force anything you don't gotta be all super intense about it now do you just play it cool relax and then move towards your goal in the same manner Zeeland says as you would if you were to go to the shop to buy a newspaper that's it and with the power of pure intention you'll shift to a life line that corresponds to your thought energy and you'll get the very thing that you want because you get what you believe gyah alrighty guys in case you haven't heard I'll be doing a live coaching in Q&A session soon yep I'll be answering your questions and so if you're interested in that just click the join button below but if you enjoyed this video please do me a favor like and share it or if you're listening via podcast I'd really appreciate a review you gets more people to discover my work and of course I've spread this message and I'd love to hear your experiences or questions in the comments below hit that subscribe button and the bell right next to it to be notified of my next video I pump these out every single week so you don't want to miss them and don't forget to register for my free online training right dive deeper into how you can start manifesting the life you really want right now so check it out links in the description like I always say Moore's coming till next time I'm out peace [Music] [Music] 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Length: 12min 30sec (750 seconds)

Published: Wed May 06 2020