The SECRET To Living A MILLIONAIRE LIFESTYLE Explained!|Kevin O'Leary

welcome to another episode of ask mr wonderful as always it starts with a question or sometimes questions this week i mean i love this this is from cindy rose hi mr wonderful i got into your channel recently and i've watched the last seven episodes you spend a lot of time talking about the traits of successful people and for the most part i have enjoyed the shows but you really leave a lot out what about diet what about exercise what about fashion what about grooming what about drugs what about alcohol what about sleep i'm interested in where all these fit into a successful lifestyle i really think you should take the time to answer these questions because i'm going to bet many other people want the same information okay grooming this is an interesting one i feel that when you get up in the morning and you work out you know my routine is i get up i work out i have breakfast i get up pretty early i get a lot of work done early on i get my three things done but before i go out particularly if i'm gonna spend time outside one of the problems i've got is i'm always putting on makeup i have makeup on right now generally i put it on and i got a lot of real estate you don't want to be shiny on tv so i'm putting this stuff on my you know my my golden dome a lot and a ton of it under my eyes like this and around my nose and here where it gets shiny if you see people that are on tv they look great on the camera when you see them in person they come off the set they look like they're dead they got so much makeup packed on you know i don't endorse products that i don't use personally i just don't want to do it if i'm going to get a sponsor which i have you know on my youtube channel i'm going to use the product i want to know all about it and i want it to work for me why would i endorse it for somebody else if i don't try it on myself you got to eat your own cooking i really believe that tiege hanley has a scrub that i've really started to use and particularly around you know my eyes and my nose and i mean you know it sounds crazy talking about this but it actually become part of my routine the wash is a basic wash for your face morning or night for me and the scrub takes all the crap out of my pores skin care for men who knew i'm using it now because i want to keep looking like mr wonderful and naturally when i invite tiege hanley to be a sponsor of my video because they use their products i want them to give a little certain junior sequoia to my base i want them to give you a deal i want them to give you something extra special so they're sponsoring this video today they're hooking up my viewers with a special offer just click on the first link in the description to get a free totally drop bag with your first box so you know i do a shout out for their products because they work and i hate perfumey stuff and theirs isn't so i i don't want you know a smell coming off it it's it's just clean good stuff so i'm you know i'm shameless endorsement for them but it's good i bring it to the idea of grooming i'll tell you why in your career in doing deals and being an entrepreneur and being a leader in being a great employee whatever you're going to do you want to walk into a room and you want to feel good you want to look good and that involves grooming and fashion finding out what you like to feel like what you how you want to present yourself when it comes to financial services like oh shares and bean stocks and all the fintech stuff i invest in and i'm in new york i'm in la or i'm in zurich or i'm in london and i travel to these places for business i like the crisp suit look i got a classic look some people think i'm nuts it's always the same i got 25 of the same suits 25 the same shirts 25 type ins 25 black ties i vary my watches as you know they all have red bands and i've got a very broad collection of watches but consistency is the red band that's my thing and i you know change my watch almost every day sometimes three times a day depends where i'm where i'm what i'm doing you know i travel with watches and i like to have a sort of a fashion look and people say well that's kind of nuts why would you need more than one watch why would you need to watch it all why don't you just um use your phone you can get the perfect time off your phone it's always accurate i get that i like the fashion statement i like the the art in the dial i like the way it works with the cufflinks so that's that's a that's a grooming slash fashion thing and you got to find your groove you got to find your look you can shake it up but people get to know you about whether you've got that that vibe that fashion vibe you know take barbara corcoran i know about her she always is dressed real sharp i mean she always looks spectacular lori the same way these women know how to present themselves and they have a look barbara's different than lori but i'm just making an example of people i've been working with for 12 years i know when they walk out i'm not talking about on the shark tank set you go to anywhere with either of them and they are dressed to kill i get it that's a certain persona that they're projecting that's a certain look i look around the other sharks damon really into some eclectic style but that's his thing means the fubu guy robert has a west coastie breezy kind of thing these are all and of course cuban likes to just wear sweats because he's saying something with that he can wear anything he wants that's what he's saying and i get that too but the point is it becomes a little bit about who you are and i think you should spend some time thinking about it and and you don't need a lot of really expensive stuff and i always air towards buying something really good and having less of it you don't need like 15 jeans you need three fantastic pair you don't need 20 leather jackets maybe you need two i mean that's my whole point my suit thing i like the consistency of my look so i wear that you know i've gone overboard on watches but that's just my own thing but i'm trying to make a point about something here that becomes part of who you are and it happens to you in your late teens you start to get a feel for the way you want to project yourself and i think that's very cool i think it's really really worth thinking about make that decision consult with others there's so much stuff online obviously but it's it's what makes you feel good you know that's that's what really matters what makes you feel good what makes you confident to walk out there and do your thing that's how you should groom and that's how you should fashion up you kind of have to make up your mind how you want to present yourself and if you're comfortable with the way you look be cool with it that's it i mean look it doesn't it doesn't mean it's going to affect your performance that's not the case unless you're some kind of fine-tuned athlete or something but i also don't want to let it drag me down in terms of how i feel and how much energy i've got i care about energy levels that's what matters if you're an entrepreneur if you if you really want to if you want to run you got to have some energy and sometimes and when i mean run i mean you want to run through your day i don't mean running around you can do that too is exercise energy to me and weight are somehow combined and you know i like everybody else tried dieting i tried all the apps what i found works is you have to get into a lifestyle groove because weight is really very simple equation calories in calories out and depending on how much you burn a day whether you're burning 1600 1800 2100 whatever it is you're going to either gain or lose weight but you want to keep constant weights so you got to kind of think about that in the context of what you're eating all day long because maybe i want to only eat 2 000 calories a day i don't want it to be 50 in wine so i have to constrain myself in terms of how much wine i actually drink but my point is if you get into a groove where you have to me i have a normal breakfast i gotta eat something in the morning right after i work out and then i don't eat anything again until lunch and it's those in between periods of snacking and eating crap that's no good for you that really helps you keep weight off or packs it on over a long period of time you've got to look at it that way i don't really buy into the super diet taking all the supplements and all that stuff i believe in good food i believe in food in moderation but i really want to be able to try everything wherever i go and just be pragmatic about it you know if there's certain things that you're allergic to or you know non-dairy and all that and then everybody says to me why don't you become a vegan well i am a vegan i'm a modified vegan i don't eat meat on tuesday from breakfast till noon hey it's my my tip of the hat to vegans i eat less red meat i eat more fish i eat more chicken i moderate it all but yes i'm modified vegan i like to say that anyways my point is you got to eat well not too much of any one thing and if you can you know and if you want to modify your weight you have to do it over a really long period of time like set a goal of losing seven or eight pounds in six months that's my you know you all these diets you crash diet loses crash diet with that that's all you can do is crash you gotta just modify your eating habits slightly and it has a big impact over a period of time okay so let me tie that to alcohol for a second because i want to talk a little bit more about that and i like cindy rose's question about how this fits into a successful lifestyle let's talk about alcohol let me give you some do's and don'ts just from my point of view okay i'm in the wine business i drink but i never do it when i'm working why because it only takes one mistake and you get cancelled and i don't mean just cancelled off tv you can get canceled out of life you've seen it happen social media is cruel people get drunk they say stupid things maybe you shouldn't tweet maybe you shouldn't go to insta when you're drinking maybe you should really think it through before you become public while you're relaxing i'm not saying getting drunk but just some rules about drinking here's some other rules i've interviewed thousands of people in my time i've never hired anybody where i could smell alcohol on their breath not because i think they're alcoholics not at all in my view this is a personal opinion they didn't take that interview very seriously if they had a drink beforehand or maybe they had nerves and they couldn't do the interview without having a drink that also i don't like in life you're going to have to make decisions about this stuff and when you drink and basically for most stuff you drink people can smell it if no one else in the room has had anything to drink and you have people are going to smell it what does that say about you in my view not good things because you've done it during the work day now in europe sometimes when i go over there to do business and around wine and i'm in with with others in the winemaking industry yeah we drink at lunch i mean that's you know it's sometimes a burgundian or you know if you're in bordeaux that that's happening but you're dealing with the craft of making wine and you're in the wine business slightly different i'm in new york city having a meeting with an executive or talking to a producer about something i'm working on a television at one in the afternoon i'm not drinking just not going to do it i can wait and when the market's over for me my routine is 4 4 30. i've been doing this ever since i've been involved in financial services yeah i'll go have a drink with somebody and that's after the market's over i don't drive anywhere after that i'll tell you that but this thing with alcohol is kind of weird and i'll tell you why i say it i've got lots of friends that have completely stopped drinking altogether and i know why not necessarily full-blown alcoholics but it changed their personality they were different people even after a couple of glasses of wine they were not their original self and what would happen is the next day someone would say to them you know hey listen you know last night were you drunk do you remember saying this or that if that starts happening to you alcohol is actually changing your behavior if it happens consistently and people comment about it to you you could have a problem not necessarily being an alcoholic but letting something like that change other people's perception of you alcoholism breaks up families destroys wealth causes huge fractions between friends sometimes for lifetime periods nothing tastes that good that it's worth destroying your life over i don't care what booze you're talking about do not let alcohol define who you are that's my advice on that great segue into drugs okay now drugs is a whole different ballgame i don't do drugs because i don't like what it does to my abilities to process information my day is packed with stuff that i deal with sometimes it's problems sometimes it's opportunities i don't want to make decisions when my thinking is altered now i know there's a huge debate about cannabis and the merits of it and all that i never invested in cannabis why because all the companies that showed me deals never were able to separate the medicinal opportunities should there be one with cbds etc and recreational i don't invest in recreational marijuana because it's not legal in every state and i do business in every state and there's something called the rico statute and it's a schedule one narcotic i don't want to fight with that stuff i don't want to be involved in it so i don't do it and i don't invest in it someone said to me recently hey wait a minute didn't you invest in psychedelics yeah i did i i have invested in a company called mind med which does it's now public and it basically is doing scheduled trials with the fda level one level two level three in micro dosing psychedelics to see if in some way it can help with opioid addiction or anxiety or alcoholism and all these afflictions that there really haven't been any new drugs for in 35 years that intrigues me because it's legal and it's not being done recreationally but that's different than drugs same thing in that interview thing i talked about earlier and i said okay wait a sec you come to me and this has happened you know sometimes very interesting engineers come in i know they're stoned i can smell it if it's you know if they've blown a joint they've had it i can smell it it's just me the answer is no i don't care if we're in a state where it's legal i don't like drugs because i'm pretty happy just marching on the way i am and i don't want to change but i also want to i don't take any risks i don't want to mess with stuff that messes with my head just a personal opinion and you can say well you know i like to smoke spliff once in a while i get all that i'm just telling you what i do generally speaking the people that i've known to be very very successful they get high on winning they get high on moving forward they get high on business and being successful i will say this about one drug that you know i've been around for years because in the television industry you see this all the time you see it in the bathrooms whatever cocaine that's a bad drug it's a bad drug in every way i don't know anybody that's been able to manage that drug anybody that i know that's gotten into it for a long period of time it's been a real bad outcome including death really sucks but destroyed lives discouraged marriages destroyed businesses i mean talk about changing behavior talk about unhealthy i mean it's just brutal and i get people's attraction to it but i don't believe that that's a drug that you can have a little bit of that's not how that one works so you're going to have to make your own decision but for me i don't want anybody working in any of my companies that's doing coke because i know the outcome it's never good and when i find out they are i'm sorry that's you know i try and get them help but very often it's not a drug you can get off easily and i'm just i'm just saying i understand addiction i got it but if you have a choice is what i'm saying and we're still on the cocaine issue you don't find cocaine associated with success you just don't you don't not over a short period of time or long period of time so my advice to you don't mess with it it's that simple if you can completely avoid it do that if you have to try it be very cautious and conscious of where it takes a lot of people to a really bad place okay last on cindy rose's list was what about sleep now i never thought about sleep it was not a big deal to me sleep when you can get some rest then i joined this group called the longevity league it's it's a bunch of uh entrepreneurs that gather together every couple of months sometimes it's a zoom call sometimes it's it's a dinner depending on what city they're all from different places so sometimes they meet you know but they're interested in understanding how to maintain a really healthy lifestyle both for balance of work you know in life and everything else but there are certain things you can do that are very very healthy and one of them is sleep now i never really got into it but rem sleep deep sleep how much sleep you know i used to think i don't need eight hours sleep well you do actually it really really helps you become a much better and more productive person now there's all kinds of devices on the market um you know there's there's watches i don't wear those electronic watches i wouldn't be seen dead with one i prefer the art of a handcrafted piece obviously but there's rings and other things and you put them on this is one of them and it basically tracks your sleep and it's there's there's dozens of devices you can choose whatever you like but the point is monitoring sleep is really interesting because you start to realize certain things about your lifestyle i'm really good at taking a 20-minute snooze in the middle of the day when i'm traveling somewhere and i'm in a car you know back of a limo or in my plane flying somewhere and i would have thought that's the same valuable sleep that it would be in the middle of the night it's not now one of the things about sleep you should know and this is i found this out just you know by just monitoring my own sleep i love wine i'm in the wine business i've talked about that a lot i love to drink wine with dinners it turns out the later you drink any alcohol the more it screws up your sleep which is heartbreaking for me because i just love wine and i've had to modify a little bit instead of you know drinking wine let's say i'm gonna have dinner at eight o'clock or something or even worse it's gonna be much later because miami where i hang out quite quite a bit it's a very late lifestyle sometimes dinner's at 11. um i don't drink at 11 o'clock at night anymore because it totally screws up my sleep it reduces my rem sleep and reduces my deep sleep and you can see the results off any device that monitors your sleep it's brutal so you know maybe you have a drink at six or seven i mean i don't know if you can do this but i'm just telling you over a long period of time screwing up your sleep every night because you're drinking is really stupid that's my view so you have to modify maybe your weekends you ignore this but at some point you really don't want to mess up your rem sleep and your deep sleep with alcohol that's the one big change that i've put into my life and it's really helped me quite a bit it gives me a lot more energy in the morning you'd be amazed how fantastic you feel after a solid eight hours sleep with a good cycle of deep sleep and rem sleep i mean you get up bouncing out you're just ready to take the world on it's fantastic what screws that up too much alcohol late at night or any alcohol really close to when you go to sleep and i don't it's just the way it is i mean you know it technically you'd be better off drinking wine at nine in the morning which is crazy not recommending that but you want to get it as far away from when you're sleeping as you possibly can either you give up alcohol completely which i'm not prepared to do because i'm in that business or you modify your use of it so i've got a couple of reasons for this the sleep thing i don't want to do too many calories knowing it's 160 calories a glass so maybe a couple of glasses of wine three maxerino like that's max because that's a ton of calories but it takes a toll on your sleep so that's kind of a little bit of a snapshot about how for you know cindy rose all these things fit together you're going to find that successful people have one way or another dealt with drugs dealt with alcohol worked out the whole sleep thing and figured out grooming and fashion they found a path to all that and they made a lifestyle choice you can too but it's got to be conscious you're going to want to do that and and for the guys that are you know constantly worried about their weight ah get over it i mean look as long as it doesn't make you unhappy about the way you feel about yourself you can be any body style or any weight that's cool but if you want to modify it which seems to be an obsession with about a third of the population you have to change your lifestyle there's no for me dieting just doesn't work you know and i've and it doesn't really work for most people starving yourself making yourself miserable really stupid changing your lifestyle small modifications watch over months how you shed the pounds so we talked about a lot of stuff on this um i've dealt with all these issues myself i've kind of found my path bottom line let's end it this way you want to get up in the morning and feel great about the day you're going to be in whatever it is you do and so much of that is based around things you have control over what you eat what you drink the drugs you take you know how much sleep you get you were gifted with control over those things in many many many ways and it's really up to you to make the decision to do it or not but that's the part i like the most about cindy rosa's question pretty well everything on that list she can do right or she can do wrong and so can you you know i got to admit i love doing this because i think we're kind of i'm learning i'm reading questions it's a back and forth thing keep them coming i really enjoy it take care my friends the one thing about food that i want to point out is it can be a fantastic opportunity for friends and family i love to cook yeah chef wonderful i've made a business out of that cooking itself can be an absolute guess what i love to do with family and friends is make pizza and it's just a party it's really healthy food because you decide what you're putting on it i love to knead dough i love to just work with it i love to make pies it's just it's fun as can be and i probably do it every week wherever i am and believe it or not i invite all kinds of people i do business with to come over and we have a gas doing it food can be fun and it can be great for business and it can be healthy hey what's wrong with that hey chef wonderful here and you know i love to make pizza you know what makes making pizza even more fun your own wood-fired pizza oven bertello it's a shark tank deal i did it i love the product but i also like making pizza so we're going to do it together the first thing you have to do when you make pizza is get all the fixin's ready now i've got pineapple i've got cheese i've got olives yeah i chopped these all up myself a little green pepper i like to do the mushrooms full size because i'm an artist the key to tomato is paper thin because you're augmenting the sauce and of course onions together you can make any pizza you want that means you need the dough i've been letting it raise look at these puppies these are standard dough that i picked up at the grocery store i'm going to cut it in four to make 10 inch size personal pizzas what i'm doing is i'm taking just standard pizza dough that i got the grocery store and i'm basically cutting it into four i'm not cutting into the wood here i'm just severing it into four units and that's going to give me basically a 10 inch personal pie in the eye you want to have a little flower here because that's how you stop it from getting too sticky in your hands this is what you're doing you see that it's very simple and it's fun it's fun the great thing about pizza dough is you let it rise under a little towel and then you just kind of get think you're thinking okay i'm thinking 10 inches you can let gravity help you get your 10 inch that's that's going to be a 10 inch because it's about a quarter a little flour on there be generous with the flour and then just start rolling it up [Music] i see you're ripping me off on my idea with the olive oil actually dad i'm pretty sure this was my idea oh each chihuahua it's been on for about 20 minutes and the great thing about this oven is it uses listen propane it's a propane but you can also put wood chips in it check this out you throw in a wood chip and it's going to smoke into the dough you're going to taste it later right inside the pie see that smoke coming out that is gorgeous you know what go great with this pizza some o'leary fine wine the cabernet sauvignon the pinot noir or the chardonnay which i'm having right now i love chardonnay pizza it just goes so well with the cheese one second let me have a quick sip oh it's just nectar i love the chardonnay you know my wife helped me blend this it's absolutely spectacular now the moment of truth let's take one of these slices of pie with all the cheese dripping down oh delicioso maximuso that is the best pizza i've ever made the cornmeal gives that little texture it gives that little run on the tongue and then of course the splash of delicious the meats the sauces the cheeses together the crispiness just perfect that little olive oil on the crust rotello pizza oven wood burning combined with gas technology and all of your favorite ingredients and you too will make a pizza delicioso maximoso see you soon get your patello and let's make pie chef wonderful signing out how's the pie

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Length: 28min 13sec (1693 seconds)

Published: Wed Jul 29 2020