Today we’re going to show you how
you can handle complaints in English. And how you shouldn’t handle them.
This is going to be a lesson in American English politeness.
And British English politeness. OK Jay, I’ve got a saying for you: ‘The
customer is always right’. Do you agree? Hmm. No, of course not. Customers
are human and they make mistakes. In Germany they have a similar saying.
The customer is king. And in Japanese they say the customer is God.
Yeah, but customers may not have understood the contract. And some customers
might lie and cheat. Well, let’s see what you think. Watch a
telephone call and see who you think was in the wrong. Yeah?
At last, a human being. What?
I’ve spent half an hour trying to get through your automated telephone system.
Well, that’s nothing to do with me. What do you want?
I ordered a sun umbrella from you three weeks ago. It hasn’t arrived, but you’ve
charged my credit card $120! Who are you?
Vicki Hollett. And you ordered what?
A sun umbrella. What date was that? June 7th and you billed my credit
card on June the fourteenth. … Hello? … Hello?
Are you still there? Yeah, I’m looking it up. OK, we
delivered it on the thirteenth. That’s nonsense.
Aha! And you signed for it. What? No, I didn’t!
We’ve got a signature, so you must be lying! This is outrageous. I want
to speak to a supervisor! We don’t have supervisors
here. We all work in a team. Well, I’m telling American
Express not to pay this bill! So who was in the wrong there?
Well, obviously you! You were so rude! I’ll never buy from you again.
Well, you were pretty rude too. What do you mean?
You started complaining right from the start. At last, a human being.
Well, everyone gets frustrated with those automated systems.
But it wasn’t my fault. And then you didn’t pay
attention and listen to me! I ordered a sun umbrella from you three weeks ago. Who are you?
Vicki Hollett. And you ordered what?
You see, I’d just told you what the problem was! But you were so impatient. I needed
to look it up on the computer. Oh, I know.
Hello? … Hello? Are you still there? If you’d told me you were looking it up,
I wouldn’t have got impatient. I had no idea what you were doing.
But here’s the thing. We’d delivered that umbrella 3 weeks ago, so you were in
the wrong. But I didn’t receive it.
Uh-uh. We know you did because you signed for it so we have proof.
Aha! And you signed for it. What? No I didn’t!
We’ve got a signature, so you must be lying! This is outrageous. I want
to speak to a supervisor! We don’t have supervisors
here. We all work in a team. That must be a terrible team
Or a very supportive one! Well I’m not paying for that umbrella.
We’ll see. OK, we’re going to look at a different call now. This time the
conversation goes differently. You have to listen carefully
and spot all the differences. Sunshine Incorporated. Good morning
At last, a human being. I’m sorry? Well, I’ve just spent half an hour trying
to get through your automated telephone system.
Oh I’m really sorry about that. How can I help you?
Well, I ordered a sun umbrella from you three weeks ago. It hasn’t arrived, but
you’ve charged my credit card $120! That’s awful. May I have your name?
Vicki Hollett. And you ordered a sun
umbrella. What date was that? June 7th and you charged my
credit card on the fourteenth. OK. Bear with me. I’m just calling it
up on my screen. OK, now this is odd. According to our records it was
delivered on the thirteenth. Well, I didn’t receive it.
That’s strange. It looks like we have a signature from, … it looks like Jay
something. Oh, that’s my husband. He must
have forgotten to tell me. So you have received it?
Oh, he’s probably put it in the garage! I’m so sorry to have troubled you.
It’s no problem. If you find it hasn’t arrived, just call us back.
OK, I will. Thanks for your help! You’re very welcome. Is there
anything else I can help you with? No that’s it. Thanks very much. Bye.
Bye-bye. See. The customer isn’t always right.
Yeah, but you were a lot nicer to deal with there. Did you spot the differences?
Here’s the first one. Sunshine Incorporated. Good morning
At last, a human being. I’m sorry?
Well, I’ve just spent half an hour trying to get through your automated telephone
system. Oh I’m really sorry about
that. How can I help you? I was more professional there. I
answered with the company name. And you apologized for keeping me waiting.
Even though it wasn’t my fault. ‘I’m sorry’ can mean different things.
We can say it when we don’t hear what someone’s said. Sorry?
And we can say ‘sorry’ when we make a mistake, but it can also just mean ‘I’m
sorry to hear that’. But you didn’t actually accept the blame
for me having to wait, but you were sympathetic and made me feel
better. And you listened and told me what you
were doing. OK. Bear with me. I’m just calling it up
on my screen. OK, this is odd. According to our records it was delivered on the thirteenth.
So I felt you were professional again there. We started to develop a relationship.
Well, yeah. You didn’t accuse me of lying. But I didn’t receive it.
That’s strange. It’s looks like we have a signature from, … it looks like Jay
something. So you said ‘That’s strange’. And you
sounded a little unsure and tentative. Yeah, even though I knew you were wrong.
The customer isn’t always right but sometimes you have to pretend they might be.
And that made it easier for me to admit that I was wrong. I’d buy from you again.
Well, thank you. By the way, I have a bridge in Brooklyn I’d like to sell you.
So to summarize, if you have to handle a complaint, be professional.
And apologize. Sometimes you can say you’re sorry without accepting any blame.
And tell people what you’re doing if you have to keep them waiting.
It’s all about being polite really. When you have to tell someone they’re wrong, do
it nicely. You can say ‘That’s strange’ or ‘That’s
odd’ instead of ‘You’re a liar!’ We should make some more videos about
how to be diplomatic in English. They could be useful.
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Thanks for watching everyone. Bye-bye.
Bye now.
