Good Manners - AbdurRaheem McCarthy

today I have a proposition for you if you're interested how would you like to be from the best of the believers in faith how would you like to be from the nearest and dearest to our beloved prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam yomel teamö how would you like to be or reach the status of those who are fasting during the day and praying during the night without having it fast during the day in praying during the night how would you like to have the key to the heaviest deed and the scale of good deeds on your LP AMA and the deed that will be the most deed that will enter the people into the gender and have a promise a guarantee from Rasulullah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem that you will have a house in the gender are you interested in this proposal all of this can be attained all of this can be obtained through one action which is personal hope good manners if you have proper conduct good Islamic manners you can get all of the things I just said all through your good manners you could behavior the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam said Akmal monena email and asuna home who Luka the best of the believers in faith are the best of them in their manners and he said Alice aloud to a Salaam in Amman a hug become alaihe wa ala become la a meenie minee latin-american yomel Tiana a Hassan Okuma halakha that the most beloved of you to me and the closest of you to me on the day of judgment will be the best of you in manners the best of you in manners when you have good manners you're the most beloved to the prophet salallahu alayhi wa seldom and you will be the closest to mali salat wa salam yama yama the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in nelma mina Laird Rica be facin hulu P he Dara Jetta L saw in evil toy Allah what what the Prophet sallallahu aleyhi wa salem said that the believer can reach with his good manners the rank of the one who is fasting throughout the day and praying throughout the night the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasalam said after Lucia film is an yawm al qiyamah who soon all who look that the heaviest thing and the scale on the day of judgment and your scale of good deeds meaning is your good behavior the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam said actor my youthful and nestled gender chuckwalla watterson or hulu that the most actions that were enter people into the gender will be their taqwa of allah their fear of allah and their good manners Alouette the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa seldom said and as I move that I am a guarantor pay attention the one who is guaranteeing you is rasoolullah sallallahu alayhi wa seldom he said I'm a guarantor with a house in an agenda and the highest levels of the gender Leeman hasan of allah who who have the one who perfected his good manners a house in the gender and that's why you find rasul allah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem when you look into his theorem and you look into his manners you look into his actions you see what I lost opana what Allah said about him praising him well in Nicola Hanna who loop in our theme that you have a high moral status and his wife I showed of the allahu and her when she was asked tell us about the hope the manners of rasulullah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem she said can of Hulagu al quran that his manners were that of the quran so any good deeds any action good morals good manners that a lot man's history no Quran you see the prophet sallallaahu Holly he was selling was the first to do it well Kundalini see first now and say to the people good you find the prophet sallallaahu Holly he was selling was the best in speech when he talked to people and to be added to be just you find the prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam was the most just and he's dealing with the people when you look into the seer of rasul allah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem they described him they said we never have or of the Elohim said we never saw a suit allah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem except for that he was smiling he said loud to a sinner and the impact when you act upon this good conduct this the sunnah of the process of salem of smiling one of the scholars was telling a story when he traveled to South America a 14 hour plane trip locked what and he said I don't have a lot of English so I couldn't really talk to the the with the cabin crew the man who kept passing me I couldn't really talk to him in English that much yes No thank you give me some water that's about it it's all he had subhanAllah but he said every time he passed me he said I would smile at him I was smile at the man to revive the sunnah of rasulullah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem and to show them the beauty of islam because sometimes in the media order see when I see her practice in Muslim Allah Akbar they see something that's not from Islam so he said now I'm going to give a positive message about the ones who practice Islam by implementing the student of Rasul Allah Allah when he said by smiling Subhan Allah when he got off of the plane the non-muslim cabin crew says to him thank you very much and he told him he said for what because he's saying it's usually we should be thanking you not you thinking us we said what are you saying thank you very much for he said thank you for your smile a lot but the sunnah of rasulullah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem and when these students are implemented in the society look at the impact it's going to have on the society when we come we act like rasul allah sallallahu alayhi wa send we implement the manners and the conduct code of rasulullah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem when you come to your brother and everybody says to the Massell I'm on April Nets add a turn out of custom but a bad attend out of out of worship what does it mean peace be on to you my brother smiling at your brother loving your brother because you have the who of the Brotherhood in Islam and how you deal with your brother how you deal with the people that you're honest with them that you don't lie that you don't cheat because this goes against what we're ordered as Muslims to have good conduct that you're somebody who controls your anger at the time of anger you're somebody who controls his tongue you're somebody who's forgive me if we're giving all of this is from the manners of Islam the manners of rasul allah sallallahu alayhi wa seldom rasul allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam even though he was rasoolullah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem he was patient when dealing people they are ah be the brother when he comes and pours on his on his clothes I lay salat wa salam and he leaves a mark on his body Elias L had to start pulling on him and the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa seldom is just ending with dealing with him he's patient in deal with him controlling himself having good manners never never having bad conduct at a salatu wassalam this is the level of personal who look good matters and this is if we implement it what we can reach as individuals as societies as individuals we relaxed inside you feel good when you have good manners and dealing with people and people like you people love you love to deal with you it's beneficial for the individual and for the society but there's something because now we feel good we got revived in the school by saying okay we can reach mashallah from hosting a lookout look at the status we can reach but I have to tell you something I have to be honest with you I have to share a very scary hadith with you because we have to know the Sahaba radi allahu on whom they came to a pseudo loss sallallahu aleyhi wa salem and they told him a story of a woman they said this woman she praised all through the night she passed through the day and she does this in this and she gives Sokka immediately and you hear these characteristics you automatically think what gender she's going to gender law Akbar because of her deeds how she strived for allah subhanho wa taala with these good deeds but there's one problem they said but she harms her neighbor's with her tongue she harms her neighbors with her tongue and I want you to reflect how many times have you harmed somebody else with your tongue that crazy person driving down the road may Allah guide him when he cut you off and you said to him be VP that person at work who's under you and you raise you of what you treated him ill because you think he's less than you you didn't control your tongue with one of your neighbors one of your colleagues at work now remember this lady she braced through the night she's fasting the other day she's giving souther fun she's doing this and this for all these good deeds the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said laughs a Ruffy huh he am in early now the prophet salallahu alayhi wa salem said there's no goodwin in her she's from the people of the Hellfire think about that next time when it comes to controlling your tongue and then they told him about another woman they said she praised them up to but she praised the five daily prayers and that's it she gives a little sadaqa from some some some sour milk that she has and that's it but she doesn't harm anybody she's a anybody else the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa seldom said he am in a hello Jenna she's from the people of the Jenna my dear brothers and sisters in Islam we need to remind ourselves constantly about the status of good manners in Islam the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam said in lemma bu'ithtu leo tim'm Salih hello hello that barely I was sent sent by who sent by Allah subhana WA Ta'ala to all of mankind rahmatan lil alamin a mercy to mankind alayhi salaatu wa salaam since as the last hot amanda being the seal of the prophets he said in them up with verily I was sent to perfect good manners this is the status to our loss of unaware solid central soon allows a little highly Musallam to perfect good manners and that's why you get such a great rewards when you implement an act upon good manners in Islam and I want you to reflect on this story and imagine that you know you're about to die you know your time is coming closer and you have somebody that you love and you want to give him some advice before you go imagine the advice you're going to give him and now pay attention to this story between rasul allah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem and more had he been general de la hoya and the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa seldom used to love math he came to him one day and grabbed him by his two hands and a sell out to a Salaam and he said Yammer I've in Neela he booked Omaha fairly I love you imagine whistle applause Aloha Salem is telling you that he loves you he said Mahad before he died a little otter was salam to yemen he sent him to yemen to call the people of Yemen to Islam and he told them you're going to come to the people the book and give down all this focus on his focus on that more I'll said in the last thing the last piece of advice that I heard from rasool allah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem before he left he said as I'm putting my foot huh as I'm getting onto the saddle is - the last thing I heard from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was Hassan coloca lead nasiha more I live in jeopardy perfect your manners in dealing with the people Omar I live in jeopardy this is the last piece of advice he heard from rasul allah sallallahu silly because will sue the law sallallahu alayhi wasallam knows the effect the impact that's going to have on that day when he goes and he calls those people he knows the impact is going to have when he is meeting with the people of Yemen and inviting them to Islam has in Houla Colinas perfect your manners when you deal with people when we go home today my dear brothers and sisters in Islam we need to remind ourselves of the importance of personal Kuk of good manners in Islam we need to remind ourselves and reflect on our own manners do we have good manners are we following the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in our manners when we deal with others in controlling our angers when allah subhanho wa taala talks about the muta teen allah subhanho wa taala gave from the description will care they mean la well I've been on a nurse those who control their anger and those who forgive the others and a loss it allahu yuhibbu l'amour singing and Allah loves the doers of good Allah loves you when you can throw your angers and you forgive others when you have good conduct good more alone love you remind yourself that through your good manners that you're going to be from the best of the believers in faith remind yourself when you go home today that when you have good manners that yo monk P Amma you're going to be the most beloved and the closest to rasoolullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam remind yourself about how heavy it's going to be and the scale of good deeds as you've received the deed that the most deed that went to the people into the gender and you have the deed when you come home OB ama that you reach the level of that one who was praying during the night and fascinating during the day to your good manners and you have a guarantee from rasul allah sallallahu aleyhi wa salem that she will get a house in the gender

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Length: 15min 0sec (900 seconds)

Published: Tue Jan 20 2015

Reddit Comments

[u/Ismaeal1]

Except this is the Internet where anonymity allows cynicism fester unhinged. Manners then become an after thought.

[u/MeredithofArabia]

TL;DW?

[u/thecrookedmuslim]

Always a good reminder. My favorite: "I must defend the Prophet (pbuh)!" "How?" "With rage, insults and condescension!" The irony is too much. God forbid.

[u/_OldBay]

McCarthy is a great sheikh. He also responds to Facebook questions