Fresh & Fit Talk Dealing With The Wildest Women, Men's Accountability, Should Men Get Married + More

bro you live with your mom you make 10 cred in 10k a year yep and you're a bum and you play video games you smoke weed every day no chick is going to take you seriously no no i'm saying like you have to become as a man you got to create your value before she's going to come like if you build it they will come so it comes on both sides a lot of women feel that they're entitled to a high value man just because they're a woman and a lot of dudes think they're entitled to a bad chick that's submissive and the thing is is that both genders need to work you know what i'm saying but what i will say is that on the female side unfortunately women are told a lot of the time they don't have to work yes you the man should accept you for how you are you know if it's funny because like if a woman is rude crass fat whatever it may be oh he's insecure oh he's toxic oh he can't handle a strong independent woman but if you're a man and you're a fat and a loser you're a bum you're you know you're not 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start a show baby yes yes yes we are back back back back and this place looks kind of familiar chris i know it feels like my second home yeah i mean guys you already know what time of day it is we are back in my second home yes miami florida i know of miami south miami shout out dania beach hollywood fort lauderdale the entire surrounding areas not a good memories a lot of good yeah we're going to keep here you would have a lot of good memories huh chris [Applause] he had a lot of calm down okay save for the patreon so guys we had to bring in some new friends some new roommates these people are blowing up chris yes and i'm not gonna lie they're a little bit different than i remember them to be why you say that because chris when we first came to miami this year yes no the second time we came this year we told them let me know let's link up and get on the show yeah they were like hey we'll pick you up from the airport ah and i was like oh man you know no thank you because you know we had other things for you to take care of i was appreciative yeah and almost every time they've always said we'll get you from the airport yeah yeah yeah yeah sometimes they hit 20 000 subscribers these guys hey man yo y'all wanna you need anything from the airport you guys wanna uber nah man we got it nah man we got it hey uh you guys sure you don't wanna eat no we got it you haven't eaten in three days oh no we got it we're good you know i have never heard so many no's good stuff ever when he was like oh yeah we landed one i wanted to offer but i was like nah he's going to deny me anyway hey yo you guys need help with the equipment we got a bunch of stuff here i mean i don't know if i got pre-recorded but let's do it anyway now it's good we got it like i'm like the one time yeah the one time tells me a million times oh man i'm just i'm just kidding guys i'm just kidding these are some of the most generous people there's some great guys and we're going to have a lot of fun today please welcome to the podcast the one and only fresh and free good man guys thank you guys so much for being here thank you for having us man yeah man it's uh thursday on miami yeah i feel like it's the time to party right now yeah you're always down the park oh yeah yeah man but yeah no i mean i'm glad to have you guys back man obviously you guys you know when we first got into this like we looked at you guys a lot like oh man we gotta you know they got the winning formula yeah let's do it and then we started to like do all this raunchy stuff and i was like oh man damn yeah you're gonna make it now and actually we're known as the more raunchy roommates yeah mario and luigi and waluigi and warriors that's great oh man that was great oh bad great evil side oh man the darkness man and you know there's always there's always space for everybody man and i'm glad that you guys are here there's a lot we're going to talk about for the people who don't know who you guys are who have been sleeping underneath a rock can you give us a bit of an elevator pitch and options about who you are and what fresher fit is all about sure so freshman fit man is a place where guys can come to and learn about women dating finance fitness social media everything in between because in this current marketplace a lot of guys don't know what to do when it comes to dating or for example how to level up in life i feel like a lot of guys if they knew the blueprint they would do it and there's no fathers in homes now there's no like guidance or direction only like social media you know rap videos so we kind of bring that place where guys can come to and develop themselves as a person yeah man i mean dudes need help bro like it's crazy out here yeah it's tough out here and it's uh yeah we just keep it to them like 100 no bs you know because the thing is this like society lies to men and lies to women the difference is is that when you don't know the truth as a man there's serious consequences to that you know we did a show yesterday where i always say like women kind of get the privilege of living in a disney fairy tale whereas like men you don't get that privilege like if you tell a lion right hey man you need to you can just dream of eating the gazelle it's okay no big deal you're gonna be able to find it you know what i'm saying you're gonna be able to eat well like just it's gonna happen your soulmate is out there right like they tell guys that ain't gonna work bro you gotta get out there and like hunts at night you gotta stalk to pray you gotta be hiding in the grass and [ __ ] you know what i'm saying like you gotta actually know what you're doing because men live in a fact-based reality we don't get the privilege of having a disney fairy tale you know women can do that because they're the ones that are getting pursued but with us you got to know what you're doing otherwise you're going to take a l and when you lie to men there's serious consequences to that man's life like taking a huge hit with happiness you know you've got to be honest with men and we have two segments we have a daytime show it's like mainly fitness finance and like you know real life stuff and then late night show with some girls bringing celebrities youtubers you know athletes talk about dating and their point of views i love it i love it man so that was good that was good very polite so yeah so i'm curious to how we got here you know we'll we'll get to you know the fitness stuff we get the red pill we'll get to all the good stuff that people want to hear but i'm curious how you two got here so you know fresh myron whoever wants to start just give us a a a general background of let's say who you were at 16 and kind of generally speaking how did you become the man that you were today cool yeah i'll go first no you go for it oh actually i don't know [Music] okay it's the same thing every single time but yeah man for me um i'm from barbados so i'm a small island kid here in miami and for the most part uh i feel like when i was 16 years old i was always like cuddled but my parents my family you know i called my parents no my dad wasn't there okay my mom was wrong okay but i was kind of there for me stepped in for me okay um so whatever i wanted i got so i wanted a nice sports car i got a sports car you know the best schools you know had a very good lifestyle so i never really wanted for anything but i was so scared about you know what's on the outside so it's a small island everyone knows each other and i did pretty much everything you could do on island the parties the jet skiing the uh safaris i think you could do another right when it comes to dating i kind of was like the top dog because everyone knew my family knew who i was so i never had to really fight for girls however coming to america now it's kind of like yo i'm a nobody here where'd you come to america this was like six years ago okay so you were how old i was like 22. that was like 2014. okay so 2014 came on a banana bowl actually yeah you know what i hate bananas but yeah so i came over here and it's funny because right before i came here i had a tragic accident so a lot of people don't know this but like i used to ride motorcycles back in the day so in barbados the roads are very uh i would say uh narrow uh unlike hair they're a lot wider so when this one time has come off with some friends and basically what happened was the light had turned red i stopped at the light no one was there but it was late night and then the light turned green a car came from the whole opposite side came over ran the light and hit me wow right so that moment it was all blank for me i woke up looked up i saw the stars i was like oh damn where am i and it hit me life is so short i could have just ended my life right there and that would be it and i wasted my life because think about this right i've always been catered to i never had to really like work for anything and it's kind of like okay yeah i can stay in this moment right now but who am i really and i say you know what to be a real man i need to step on my of my current comfort place and go elsewhere so i said you know what after the accident i healed up my my wrist was was broken my ankle as well so you know what i've been here long enough and the adventure out and it's funny because my mom was always a citizen from new york so i was a citizen too so at any point i could leave barbados to come to the states and no i didn't mind for papers i didn't do that so you know i sold my truck i saw one of my bikes that was a damage from the accident and i came over here i have four thousand bucks to my name and i said yo how am i going to make it here in america so i went to new york first to visit some friends then vegas then i came to miami so mommy for those for the 400 bucks my name and literally um i found a house off a craic list to stay in a room for like 600 bucks um a month so basically i have four thousand dollars so i'm gonna find a job right away i was screwed yeah so that whole month i went to starbucks i had my computer so i bought a laptop and i bought a car that's all i had laptop on the car went on youtube uh did some resumes um you know apply for some jobs and within that i've actually found a job but i said i'll just say when i came here i was a nobody so when it comes to like dating knowing uh people here i could talk to get out of things i didn't have that so i had to become a man for myself because i i said to myself you know what i don't want to ask tell me anything my grandfather nothing i want to do all by myself so that's the whole plan here so when it comes to like dating uh making money investing i learned not from scratch so all from youtube wow that's right that might start youtube university is real there you go and it's free i love it i love it i love it yeah uh well me man uh at 16 uh so i grew up in new brain connecticut uh shout out to new brand hard hitting and uh you know in high school i was like a nerd like i played halo 2 at a semi-professional level on xbox talking smack but i also played basketball as well and you know sports and video games always kept me out from like doing stupid stuff like i've never done drugs i've never done anything dumb like that because uh you know i was kept myself active whether it was some sports or video games whatever but i didn't lose my virginity until i was 18. you know i was like a late bloomer um exactly man exactly you know you didn't use your virginity at 18. i did i know it's senior high school oh yeah spring uh spring break okay but that was intentional though like i didn't have options brothers i did too actually you said prom too problem um but yeah no so uh so you know i was a late bloomer in high school you know i didn't lose my virginity until i was like 18. and then um i went to college northeast university in boston i wrote division one there um and i built a lot of character there like that's where i taught where i basically like learned like you have to deal with adversity to become it is what it is you know um because i had started working out and like getting in the gym and taking that seriously 18. because i was like always skinny and stuff like that i was self-conscious about that and then um i had been in the gym for about a year went off to college uh and at northeastern because i did a year at central connecticut state in new britain then i was like man connecticut sucks i was like walking to school bro like right there so i was like after this you know what i'm saying so i went to boston transferred over there did four years there because it was a five-year school but i wrote while i was there and i learned a lot about myself and he always makes jokes like hey man how you wrote division one you can't stand bro yeah everybody makes fun of me because i was like the only like color dude on the team because for those of you that don't know rowing is a very caucasian sport sport you know it's a very car y'all know where rowan is that's the yeah you know i think at yale and harvard like them dudes on the river you know at six in the morning so i did that it was really tough man that's that's like one of the hardest sports you know and it's endurance and we were training like two three times a day so that made me tough and then i got into a career field that i can't mention right now no problem but uh i did that for several years and was that career field in um boston or was that in miami it was uh so it took me i started in boston as an intern and then i went down to texas oh south texas on the border okay and then i came to miami in 2018. okay wait you told me you were a teacher oh man i'm curious how do you two meet oh man oh man that's a story in itself yeah uh so our boys solo tv 84 shout out to him um basically so i had a fitness channel i started the the fresher fit challenge you guys know it was originally unplugged fitness and it was a finished channel you know i was given because i'm really big into like lifting weights and like using scientific and evidence-backed uh information to you know tell people how to lift weights and how to train and live that healthy lifestyle right i'm all about like the studies you guys see i've like translated over to dating now but i was always about the evidence and the empirical data so uh i started off with that but you guys are youtubers too so you already know like the fitness genre is kind of like dying on youtube so um i kind of got in late i ain't gonna lie you know what i'm saying so the channel was building at a decent rate and then i started like uh collaborating with a lot of guys in rp space and you know i've always kind of like known when did you start that channel i started it i made the channel in february of 2020 okay i didn't post my first video until may 20th of 2020 like i made the channel and then like i just didn't have time with the prior career okay and then i put my first video out in may okay and then i started as a fitness channel and then um from there i was doing fitness videos everything like that then i started to get into the dating realm and then as i got into the dating realm i met donovan sharp and donovan sharp shout out to him he introduced me to solo tv 84 and the solo tv 84 had known fresh from prior um collabs and talking and everything else like that and for me uh i was also banging into social media because remember i said before and barbados i was popping over here no one knew who it was so for me it was how do i create that same environment here in miami so i i studied social media how to uh grow influence how to also build a brand all that stuff right so it's funny because like i got into dating a year after because the first year in miami i didn't do [ __ ] i literally just went to work um i focused on investing and learning so i didn't date girls at all it's kind of like uh how do you call it monk mode for me uh yeah yeah something more the first year and a half here so after that year um i was kind of more developed i started going out meeting people networking dating a lot of stuff and i got into like the youtube space because um of course i was learning how to like you know uh invest in real estate how to uh market myself and i fell into like a pocket of um uh rp space which is red pill because i might have a single mom youtube algo man what are you doing yeah no no i'm telling about this single mother rp man okay so in that period of time after i finished that monk mode i met this girl at a party and she was cool very feminine here was this this is uh 2016-17 okay cool it's a pretty uh in the past so i met her right uh very feminine girl so obviously you know i was in a point where i wanted to be good for my family i wanted to kind of keep my family name and as a christian you're supposed to if you live with somebody you're supposed to actually like marry them so six months later uh we were going through it and i said you know what just moving with me we're going to make this happen and make this work so i might her but there's one thing that kind of stood out about this girl right she was perfect in all the ways except she had a kid i know it sounds bad but let me explain so me remember i came to america to make it to become successful and i want to be the best person i can be however i felt like if i had to take care of another person's kid it would hold me back and it did so what happened was like come on possibly i was like damn this is kind of pressure on me like paying for all this stuff and like you know having to take time for going to the park with him to like business i'm like you know what i love her but this is tough so i was like yo i looked up on youtube how to date single mothers man i found a platform yeah um what's his name from the uk um king richards king riches i found a coach red pill i found a bunch of people right yeah and oh no this whole rabbit hole that being said that same night i said you know what f this [ __ ] i'm out of here so i went home i said it's not lying he sat in his car for hours hours time like this right tom like is the one i made okay tom lucas is a genius bro anyhow he broke down exactly why you shouldn't do it he had callers calling and say hey i married a single mother 10 years later i'm broke i'm on the side of the street i was like oh hell no that's not gonna be me long story short i went home to her i said look i care about you i respect you i'm gonna give you the car i'm gonna do this on that i can't do this anymore she started crying i said look i understand but you understand where coming from too two hours later she said you know what i understand because she was a good she's a regular girl bro like she was not bad at all just that the situation was bad for me and what i was what i was trying to do so we ended up talking uh gave her the divorce papers next week signed it and that was it so no alimony no um telesupport nothing i was scot-free no worries but that experience taught me you know what i can't settle for anything better than what i need right now and if i do it's gonna take me back for my dreams and my goals so that whole uh situation kind of called me into the rebel space and i met so tv84 through those videos and we became good friends and he saw my lifestyle after i left my girl he's like damn bro how do you live life so good and it's funny because like i said all the time it's all about perception right so that's kind of going through the ripple space um yeah and then with solo because i had my my fitness channel and i was starting again in a dating space and i was like already collaborating with some guys in rp space yeah and then he was like hey uh there's this guy his name is freshman ceo he lives in your neighborhood which we live in the brickell neighborhood of miami so uh so he was like you should link up so he passed me his contact information we had like an instagram like facetime call and then from there we left for an hour this was summer of 2019 2020 it was yeah it was um we started talking pause to knock over yeah it was before it was right it was right before um but we finally started like march of 2020 yeah it was it was it was june of 2020 june yeah okay yeah yeah it was last year it was it was it was last year it was like yeah it was like june of 2020 we started we started because i had went on his channel in june of 2020. i got my first 1000 subscribers so yeah so solo help me get my first 1000 subscribers on that channel shout out to solo yeah and then he linked me up with fresh i contacted him and then we started working um but it's funny man because he did me i was like who was this guy and solo was like yo bro he's he's my boy am i guessing okay let me respond to him and we spoke on the phone for like an hour and we shared the same interest dating lifestyle mindset it was like damn bro like you live down the street let's link up bro yeah oh wow that's great yeah and then that's and then that's what uh and then that's what happened and then i had a prank channel where i used to do like gold digger pranks you know those funny goals yeah i i used to do like i'm also like far pranks whatever the point was that like i had a kind of like a little buzz going on but he had the um rp space and fitness space unlocked because you know let's do a collab where you do like a talk a day a date show uh i was in my bedroom his bedroom and it was in my living room oh living room there you go yeah but yeah we did it virtually for for a minute yeah yeah we did we used streamyard and we had like the the fresh fit podcast the first couple times like through streamyard he was like right down the block for me because like i literally was one block from here and he was like couple blocks down that way yeah uh and right here in the brooklyn neighborhood which you can walk everywhere here this is like the manhattan and miami for those that don't know and and basically uh i'm trying to think here oh yeah so we did the streaming our joint and we were growing pretty quick so we said yo let's just like use one channel combine everything yeah we turn it to fresh and fit and then we're like we're starting to get get some traction and we had like we had grown to like five six thousand subscribers fairly quickly so i was like you know what dude let's take the plunge so i got an apartment we converted to a studio that you guys see here right now um and then yeah we just like threw our money into it and we invested in we're like we're just gonna take a chance and uh we did it all debt-free yeah we yeah we pay for everything up front because before this you know before we were youtubers we had like jobs and stuff so um and then the funny part is is like after like our first month doing the in studio shows we were both getting called into like the principal's office yeah at our jobs like hey you know you guys are talking about this type of thing because as you guys know when you make this kind of content like it's just a matter of time until people and i wasn't texting [Applause] so they both brought us in at our respective jobs so we kind of saw like all right we're probably gonna have to like resign at some point and then at the end of 2020 uh we both left our jobs yeah and we started doing this thing full time they try to put us like ultimate i'm like oh well i gotta stop and we're like well we just had put money into this we're not gonna stop december november uh i left my job december 4th of 2020 and you fresh man i forgot i don't know the days bro it was december probably december as well yeah because i remember we both left the office you left like a week after i did yeah yeah you left like a week or two after i i did and then um because we had we because we we started the podcast october 26 was our first episode yeah in the instant studio and then from there we were growing at a pretty quick rate once we started doing it in studio shows our first video hit ten thousand views right yeah yeah yeah and we had like five six thousand subscribers around that maybe which is our channel six yeah which is huge and then and then uh we started growing at a quick rate and then um we were doing the shows doing the shows october went good and then november went good and then we pretty much like at the end of november that's when we're starting to get like notified like yo you guys are gonna you can't be doing this stuff whatever yeah so then by early summer i was out he was out like a week later and then yeah and then we just like started like going all in on this because it hasn't even been a full year yet but we've blown up since yes since then yeah oh no y'all y'all growth is crazy under a year yes wow it's unprecedented yeah no i mean we're blessed bro i mean the thing is is that i always say like there's a demand for this type of information yeah in today's day and age like like i say man like people are lying all over the place you know i'm saying like look at derek jackson like this dude was out here like you know he made millions line of women you know what i'm saying i always say when you lie women buy you know what i'm saying matthew hussey all these like dating coaches that are politically correct yeah they kind of don't hold women accountable for their poor behavior that doesn't lead to them getting married or getting relationships i would say like their unflattering habits that are not conducive to long-term relationships are starting to be shown because you know i'm saying because the numbers don't lie you know what i'm saying over half of marriages end in divorce right and then 80 of them are initiated by women so what does that tell you like well sun's wrong right yeah so and there's a i have like a bunch of theories as to like why you know the divorce rate is so high because like i feel like there's a lot of propaganda out there to keep men and women apart yeah you know women spend more money but well single people in general tend to spend more money in general than you know married couples so you know it's incentivized for them to lie to women especially since they're 80 of the consumer base because when women are single they spend far more money you know what i'm saying yeah so it is what it is but it's finally being shown like women aren't getting married and they're not happy so what's happening they're getting they're finding channels like kevin samuels they're finding channels like us where we keep it real like this is why you guys aren't able to keep guys around you know what i'm saying no that's good man i think um it's a lot of there's a lot of things that you guys said i think stands out to me a lot and i i want to man do i want to go backwards i want to go forward let's go forwards and if i get backwards i will get backwards because i think what it what it sounds like to me is that you guys really created this content because you're trying to help yeah yeah yeah you know there's you know there's a lot of um resources for women to go to like you know to listen to relationship and dating advice whatever you know the real real you know what i'm saying like it's a bunch of stuff out there you know and i'm gonna keep it a stack bro like a lot of women are like coddled for their bad decisions you know i'm saying but like when men there's nowhere that men can really go to get the reel on what it takes to be attractive and like i was saying before men don't really have the privilege of being in a disney fairy tale we have to live in a fact-based reality to get what we want from women because the things to make you attractive to a woman and get what you want which is let's keep it real bedroom fun right keeping it friendly you need to know unflattering realities about what really turns women on what really gets them aroused because what a woman tells you she likes like some chick came in here and told us oh i like a guy that's funny and then i pressed her i was like really did you smash the guy oh well you know later on i was like how many dates did it take to do like four or five days five days to make it happen but then she's gonna sit here and say oh i'm aroused by a guy that's funny no you're not you know what i'm saying so women always cap and they're never going to tell you what really turns them on because for them to tell you what really turns them on it makes them look unflattering you know what i'm saying and they're incongruent as hell with what they're attracted to versus what they tell you what they like so you need guys to keep it real and tell you this is what it takes to be attractive women so they know the truth and not believe the disney fairy tales because if you listen to girls you're going to listen to what they say girls have told us oh yeah i want a guy to bring me flowers when a guy makes me laugh i want to go to the gentleman yeah bruh that is not going to get you late hell no you know what i'm saying cool and also do you ever see channels on youtube talking about how the girls get laid no only guys why is that because a lot of guys they don't know understand a reality of life and also because of dating i see all the time guys get finesse they get divorced a grape you know everything everything in between because they don't know any better but let's say you have a friend right your friend roderick rodriguez is about to marry this girl that's a finesser and you're like damn bro don't do it you better get trapped and he's like i love her she's bad as hell she's a 10 out of 10. are you going to say to him damn i just give up or send him a podcast yo bro just watch this real quick it may not work right there and then but it's a seat that you plant in his head and i feel like this space that we have here even your channel as well it's a place that you guys can can go to and actually like say you know what damn this happened to me now i understand why and also womenis women speak covertly not directly so what happens is whenever you meet a woman on the street she'll tell you oh yeah i like it something like that you're like yeah i'll do this for you then she's like no i really like this so you have to understand how women really operate and stuff yourself what do you want as a man because i'm be real here men are the prize no one says this in the media because obviously they cater to women they put they put them on a pedestal but you're the price think about this right if you're dating a chick what does she want from you security protection and guidance we don't go for women for that so it's like when you understand your role in terms of relationships and also life you can do you can go way further than you normally would go by yourself yeah and i'll take it further we're definitely you know i'll take it further like we're definitely the price because if you look at it women want a guy that's better than them even though they'll never really say that they want a guy assaulting them makes more money than them confident attractive you know stronger than them all this other stuff they they're looking for someone who's superior to them regardless of what womanism wants to tell people or whatever it is women want a superior so since they're looking for someone that's better than them you need to act that way and you need to act like you're the prize the problem is that a lot of guys pedestalize women when you you should you should be making it like yo you should be happy to have me you know what i'm saying and when a woman is chasing your validation or sh you're she's qualifying to you not only do you win because it's less difficult and annoying she feels that she's winning because women only feel satisfied from a hypergamy standpoint when they feel like they're doing the best they're getting the best that they can get and the way she's gonna feel like she's getting the best that she can get is she needs to chase you that's the only way it works you know what i'm saying when the man has the leverage is she's going to be happy but if the woman has leverage she might say i like this but she's eventually going to lose attraction for you and here's the problem society is creating betas facts all across the country the movies the tv shows it's all geared towards men being feminine every kiss begins with k let's be real here right back in the days your grandfather your dad your uncle right your great grandfather they were real men they fought wars they did all the hard stuff nowadays like oh i don't wanna go outside it's too hot bro you're a freaking guy bro like get outside do some work hit the gym so it's kind of like we've gotta reprogram guys say you know what i gotta stay home play video games all day because i used to do that too video games all the time same you know just like live life but at the same time you understand in life you have to level up like your shirt says level up uh it's important because if you don't you're gonna stay the same and the bodies that you want nice intense guess what they want guys are already leveled up so you've got to catch up to them or at least be on your own level that you can actually reach no this is good but before we before we keep on going so like this there's a like i said there's a lot of layers a lot of places and let's let's break things down one by one because i think i think for me i think sometimes with these conversations people come from different perspectives right and they can get lost really easily if they don't know the genesis of the conversation right some people here may think red pill is the most economic stuff that created columbine shooters and the you know the aurora shooters and stuff like that and some people may think the red pill is the most liberating ideology of the world some people may feel like you know men are trash and men are evil and men want to do damage to the world and you know channels like these fuel these guys some people view that you know some guys didn't feel that way about men you know so a lot of people have these different views and perspectives and so i think to kind of create this conversation we need to slow down a little bit so the first thing that comes to my mind is in you guys opinion do you believe that women are inherently bad and men are inherently good or do you believe both people are inherently good or do you believe both people are inherently bad or do you believe everyone's a byproduct of their environment i'll ask that one more time do you believe that men are inherently good and women are inherently bad or both parties are inherently bad or both parties are inherently good or both parties our environment i mean by practicing the environment give them a good environment they do good things give a bad environment do bad things what are your opinions on that let me say one thing it's a good question we do not hate women okay because that's very it's funny because like we'll say certain things and like oh they're women haters no we date women every single day like i just gave them you know every single date this morning so like why was this is that like i get what you're saying and i'll answer this in a second so we speak the truth so i don't consider myself any pill i can send myself the truth me and myron because we just give it on on the real what it really is we don't dictate from oh i feel this way or i feel like it should be this way no this is the truth take it how you want so yeah um so to answer i would say um both both genders are a byproduct of their environment but there are they're also open to change like if you grow up in the hood right but you end up coming out okay like just because you're from a low-income environment or you know a place that's crime-ridden does not mean that you're destined to be a failure you can overcome that as we've seen many success stories and become a better person but on the other side you can come from a great family and still be a pos so i would say it's dependent upon your environment and the person to change you know i'm saying because we're human beings right we we can change we can you know make uh um how do i say this we can change and we can become better right we can improve so i would say that's what i would say i want to say any part is inherently bad or inherently good but what i would say is you're a byproduct of your environment and you can also overcome that environment if you come from an environment that isn't necessarily always conducive to putting out um successful people at this though men and women are different we have our strengths and weaknesses right so men have their strength in terms of like building creating uh you know the world we living right today society stuff like that women however they nurture they bring our kids up stuff like that so i'll say are men and women equal no right in terms of like being different in terms of their roles that they play in society but our men and women on the same level of like human race yes we're both equal in that sense but at the same time understand that like most people in this world today are following an agenda so that that's being pushed from society being pushed from you know the higher ups so i feel like if you understand who you are and what your role is in society you could play that role but if you've been pushing an agenda oh i'm do this because it feels right but you don't but you know who you really are so i feel like if women understand their role as a woman and manage to understand who they were as a man they could follow their roles and actually do what they need to do in society that's what i feel and the reason why i ask that question is because you know obviously as we progress we'll talk more about red pill ideologies and some agreements and some disagreements that you know obviously i have with it but i think part of the conversation that uh people need to understand especially those women who are listening in and some of the guys who are new to this space is because when you start saying when we all start saying some of these words it automatically is assumed that like we think women are evil yeah you think women aren't a problem we think you know men are you know perfect angels and do nothing wrong and unfortunately some guys have this they somebody once said what you what you do in moderation those who follow you would do in excess you know so that's something i'm always curious about because when i'm saying certain ideas i'm like bro even though i understand nuance this kid at 18 years old he's gonna take it to the extreme so unfortunately a lot of young men who are new to even some of the red pill space or your channels they don't understand a nuance in your brain and if they hear something like that i say or chris say or anyone else say they'll take it to the extreme so i want to start off by saying we don't believe women are evil oh yeah i just want to make that clear like yeah i don't know about anybody at this table yes that like and i'll say this so i'll define it from like the way we because the thing is with the rp is that it's open kind of to interpretation some people are crazy about it some people aren't whatever for us it relates strictly to intersexual dynamics between men and women the unflattering truths about how women really may select simple as that's how we really look at it so we tell guys uncomfortable truths about how women really select men that they're dealing with casually and for marriage purposes right because we know women typically have like a dualistic strategy where they want some dudes that they want to just smash and some dudes that they want like a male paying for whatever so we use it in that sense and i agree with you that like you definitely can't be sitting here thinking like oh all women are bad or whatever no bro not all women are bad and there's a bunch in our podcast we hold both genders accountable yeah we tell dudes because a lot of guys think well i want a submissive woman and like she needs to be on my on my um on my program she needs to be on my program and it's like bro you live with your mom you make 10 cr 10k a year yep and you're a bum and you play video games you smoke weed every day no chick is going to take you seriously you know what i'm saying like you have to become as a man you got to create your value before she's going to come like if you build it they will come so it comes on both sides a lot of women feel that they're entitled to a high value man just because they're a woman and a lot of dudes think they're entitled to a bad chick that's submissive and the thing is is that both genders need to work you know what i'm saying but what i will say is that on the female side unfortunately women are told a lot of the time they don't have to work yes you the man should accept you for how you are you know if it's funny because like if woman is rude crass fat whatever it may be oh he's insecure oh he's toxic oh he can't handle a strong independent woman but if you're a man and you're a fat and a loser you're a bum you're you know you're not successful people will shame you whatever it may be so like with men at least there's like some negative consequences to your inadequacies as a man as a woman a lot of the time there's not and i'll take it a step further there are social conventions out there that make women feel better for their bad decisions like the real like the view like body positivity all this other crap so both genders need to work you know what i'm saying my only thing is that women rarely get told that they need to work men it's like you have to deal with the reality oh you're a loser you ain't getting laid a woman you're fat and you're annoying yeah guys are still gonna give you attention so they're not really reinforced that they need to also work on themselves as well but to sit here and say like oh men are better than women or women are evil that's a very bad mindset to have guys that's gonna take a lot of l's and it's going to make you hate women men and women are different but that doesn't mean that either party is better and we work better together then we do a part we need each other the problem is that the roles have become ambiguous and there's been some confusion where you know men are better certain things and they should be doing those things such as being the leader in the relationship being the masculine authority figure the woman should be more of a nurturer following the man's lead raising the children uh you know being a man's aide essentially right and helping him build the empire but we have it so ambiguous now where we got women running around saying i'm a boss babe i can run a relationship whatever that sounds good on paper but it doesn't work communism also sounded good on paper but we saw what happened with that right so this whole equality thing it doesn't work when it comes to relationships but that's not to say that men are better or women are better it's just that we're very different and we need to know that difference and utilize it to our best capabilities which is men work together with women men are the leaders women follow but women are not inherently bad or men and men aren't inherently bad i'll say this men need to level up in terms of fitness finance at least that how'd that be the foundation because women as well need to submit to the right man however what happens is a lot of women choose wrongly to submit to the wrong guy and then they start hating men vice versa a lot of guys are like why won't they choose me but you aren't what they really want so i say the guys all the time look become that guy that's good for you right become that guy that is leveled up so that when you become that person you attract rather than chase and also as well even on the show with girls after hours that we have all the time it's not echo chamber they get their opinion we give our opinion and we debate a little bit to say okay you know what does that make sense yes or no and it's funny because a lot of times the girls will fight and say oh i feel like it should be this way but the reality is it's not that way life is unfair so i just feel that at some point both dinners need to level up guys need to need to um get their their mind right their body right and their uh fundamentals right and women need to get their i would say how to put this their decision making right because they choose sometimes just just he's tall he has some money but the character isn't there and a lot of women started to say they're born with beauty so they don't get to build a character themselves so all they know is like oh he's going to pay for the dates he's going to take care of me and they don't know how to choose guys properly so vice versa both parties need to work on themselves but at the same time it's kind of like a joint effort yeah so that's good that's good no i think um that's that's something that um it's really important to to even start off the conversation to lay down that foundational principle because i mean that's that's the general theme of i mean personally my life you know my life started where you know i wasn't getting the outcomes i wanted and i knew for a fact it's because of me i knew i knew that i had extremely high standards for women and i can and i always tell people all the time i'm being hundred percent honest people are always like you know if he's never had a first grow up until he's 20 how did that happen you know i didn't lose my virginity till i was like late teens as well like how did that happen you know my if i'm being 100 honest it wasn't cuz i couldn't get girls it's because the girls i wanted were really high level girls most guys generally speaking from my personal experience you know no offense you know they're kind of animals they'll like you know they want steak but they'll eat mcdonald's you know they'll whatever is available they'll take it that was never me i'd rather have no food even since i was a kid i'd rather eat nothing than eat what i don't want to eat damn and so yeah that's privileged kids probably yeah that's rare bro most of these ones will take anything okay i'll do it you know cvs whatever yeah literally like so i that was always my problem so it wasn't until i was like 25 or 26 until i was like yo i am not the kind of guy that can get the kind of girl that i wanted so i had to put in the work i had to improve i had to change the outcome and that's when then by me putting in the work improving you know getting a better outcome then i was able to get the results i wanted so my mentality has always been me but at the same time like you guys said i've also saw that there's also a culture with with women today that's extremely unhealthy that teaches them a lot of unhealthy ideals which will not make you good for a wife and so i've always had a duality but i know so many times people they either lose one or the other right they either focus too much on women being the problem or to focus too much on men's inadequacies versus hey both of us like um fresh said both of us need to put in the work and so i i want to stress that as we move forward every single guy was going to watch this video man at the end of the day if you don't put in the work you will never win you will never win nothing nothing will change your outcomes will not change you can complain about them all day long you can watch you can watch fresh and fit you can watch kevin you can watch whoever you want to watch and be happy seeing women being delusional and crazy but your life will never change unless you put in the work okay let me double down on that because i always say like in today's day and age the days of working you know making 40 grand a year driving a kia sofia and having a good insurance policy it's not good enough for a lot of women man you know what i'm saying and shout out to kevin sam as you watch this show a lot of women when he says you want an average man five foot nine making about 42k a year they don't want that you know what i'm saying especially since women have made more money you know their standards go up with it so not only that but now you got the internet you got instagram you got uh snapchat you got facebook whatever it may be so we live in a globalized sexual marketplace now period so women have more options than ever had before and since they have more options than ever had before it's more competitive now so as a man if you want sexual abundance you really have to earn it and the thing is this i tell guys don't level up and become successful make money for girls 100 you become successful make money so you don't have to tolerate the [ __ ] that inevitably comes with dealing with the girls yeah that's the difference in life in general exactly yeah so because when you make a certain amount of money you start to move a little differently so have a certain type of confidence confidence that you can't necessarily replicate i always say your competence leads to accomplishments which leads to confidence and then that can't be taken from you and then from there you exude that when you meet the women and there's something about it that this girl you start to give this girls a lot of guys run like i hope she likes me game no you need to run take it or [ __ ] leave it game where this is how i am accept it or not you know what i'm saying and that's very rare in a lot of guys but the only way you're going to get that is you're going to have to self-improve and in today's day and age with the competitive marketplace you have to self-improve man it's just like you know okay we get it women are pergamos you know i'm saying a lot of them have bad habits that aren't conducive to a good long-term relationship you know it's tough out here right it is what it is now you're going to cry about it like a little [ __ ] yeah or are you going to adapt to the situation and use the variables in your favor you know what i'm saying yeah oh yeah i do want to say just to add on today it's all about application because we see it all the time we can know what type of video is going to do well if we flame up women and we held them accountable we know the numbers are going to go crazy but we say something about finances or we say something about fashion or working out the numbers don't look the same no so most of these guys would just sit there and just watch the videos or watch you know the guys just you know killing the women you know and that's all they want to watch so and they feel like in their mind they're improving they level up they learn this mentality therefore they just they understand they're not really doing anything right you know so the application piece is something that they have to actually do so you have to learn everything you don't have to learn just the mentality of women or how to move or how to demand respect it's about everything you know and we give them everything but they only want to watch certain things which is extremely frustrating to us because we know we're trying to help these guys out so that's something that i want those guys to understand and know that if you only watch a certain kind of content you're not going to improve you're not going to level up you're really just wasting your time yeah and there's one word that rings throughout everything here for men and women is entitlement so what happens is right men want women that are nice and tense baddies but they're at home like you said earlier in their mom's basement playing video games and women want high-value men bringing nothing to the table at all just sex so it's kind of like both parties at some point need to hey you know what i can't get what i want unless i improve now status though right it's like i'll take us off all the time accountability account variability right some guys have good looks some guys have money some guys have fitness right whatever your ability is to uh use maximize it why not use it right and work on that because i feel like a lot of guys say oh you know what um i should focus on this because uh he's doing it but that's not your strength brother focus on what you have yeah so accountability account for your ability that's good and and the the one of the things i i love how myron brought it up is that you know all this isn't for women you know women is a there is a byproduct of success it's not the goal of success the season another meal you say what it's a season another meal yeah yeah yeah because it reminds me of like the like the the athlete this is a great point i want to do a different point but i'm going to do this one real quick but it reminds me of the athlete who all they want is that big payday yeah right they work hard they go they go really hard and then they get they eventually get the big payday because that was their goal but the problem is if that's the goal what happens when a uh arrow hits his mark it stops it's there so then what happens to these players they get lazy get complacent i made my money so what's the point of working working hard now they fall off that's a 15-year career turned into a maybe seven-year-old seven-year career right they start getting traded and start going bouncing around and then we're like where are these people now because their goal was never to be the best player ever or to work hard or give it 110 percent and to improving their goal was just to get money right so when they got the money then it was the game was over so many guys the goal is women they're watching they're watching you know myron's fitness video but they're only trying to get abs to impress that girl you know what i mean and so what happens for a lot of these guys who do these things is that they they they listen to you they watch fresh and fit they subscribe to the page trying to do everything they're supposed to do but then when they get the girl they stop doing the work yeah and then what happens is they lose the girl yeah because the girl was like i wanted this fit ambitious driven guy and that's not what i got you catfish me the guy feels like yo and now he's mad the girl leaves him red pill rage or whatever kind of race he's going through maybe now he's going mgtow maybe he's not he's going blackville wherever he's going and then all of a sudden he now decreases cycle and so i think the most important thing that everything starts with male accountability everything starts and i want to spend some time with male accountability before we you know get to the fun stuff yeah accountability first 100 and and and what i want men to realize is you got to improve for yourself yep you guys got to improve because because i feel like sometimes you guys probably get tons of fan mail people love you guys right you probably get tons of fam fan mail and they're like they're sometimes trying to do this work to like impress you yeah look hey look it looks sick look what i look what i did say look first of all i just passed my exam oh yeah awesome bro who are you doing this for because i'm like bro if you're just doing this to impress me what's gonna happen when i'm not around what's gonna happen when you're mad at me now what's gonna happen when i don't do something say something that you like you're gonna stop yeah they know endurance exactly and so i really i really i really hope that guys can understand that you better do this for you you better be trying to become the best version yourself regardless of the outcome not for women not for mom not for maya not for fresh not for chris not for anybody yeah and going yeah no that endurance piece is the key man because during the level of process during you know making yourself better you're going to let people down or upset people are going to hurt them you know like your parents may not like your decision to move you know like your sister or your sibling whatever the case may be but if you are doing it for you and not impressing your parents coach girl whatever then that's how you know you can move freely you know because that's what we trying to instill into these guys because that endurance piece is always gonna have to be there the level of process ain't nothing it's forever it ain't you know two or three months never stop three it never stops so that's something that these guys have to understand you just have a final goal of a dollar amount you're not going to last if you have a final goal with just you know just dating this one girl it's not going to last if you don't have that that mama mentality that forever lifestyle that's how you're going to win for sure it is so funny that he said that because you guys said endurance and you said guys get what they want to leave we'll help somebody get a girl of their dreams right on patreon whatever they'll let y'all bro it's been a couple months whatever a couple weeks finally got my girl deuces i'm i'm on subscribe i'm out i'm like okay bro two weeks later bro she left me and i'm like dude you did it to get the girl but you didn't work on yourself as a person and you're right like it has to be from the from within not from what's without it it's got to be i always say um lazy people say that the dedicated are obsessed you know what i'm saying and guys it's got to literally be obsessive you know what i'm saying like and it's got to be true to you because when you do it for girls especially fitness we're like my fitness clients they want to get girls you're never going to sleep eight to 10 hours drink the water go to the gym consistently eat the ridiculous amounts of protein eat the vegetables downing protein shakes all this stuff you're never gonna do it enough and consistently to the degree that you need to do it if it's only for women it needs to be it's a lifestyle it needs to be you need to be so selfish with your success and why you want to do it because that's the only thing that's going to be strong enough to create the heat so that you're going to be motivated to go and do it when you don't feel like it if it's for a girl it's never going to be strong enough if it's for a girl you'll tolerate it to the point where you get the girl just like you guys described and stuff and then bam and when we have our podcast yeah what's the number one thing we asked the girls what do you want what like we say woman ease right you said mm-hmm earlier ambition guys literally is the fundamental uh root of where what girls are attracted to because let's say you don't have money now but it looks like you're going to get money that girl will take a chance on you yeah you know what i'm saying she'll play the game for a bit you know what i'm saying but ambition is the most attractive thing because hard work and dedication will get you to somewhere when talent can't you know what i'm saying like we always say hard work beats talent when talent doesn't want to work hard right that's how it is so if you have ambition that will take you a lot further than just being talented but unmotivated but that ambition needs to come from you directly because that's what that's going to that's what's going to continue to help you propel to see things through you know what i'm saying i'm not just for the girl you wanna you you have to want it so bad like so bad you can't breathe bro dude i remember coming to america right to miami i was at a starbucks i swear to god this is like five years ago i saw a guy pull up in a ferrari with a girl right i was like damn how did i become that guy and it was like burning me for a couple days i was like damn who is this guy why does he get it and not me and then it hit me damn why him and not me that's that's my whole motivation throughout the whole time i've been here what can you have it but i can't have it when i put down my head bro dude i will stay up late on youtube study i will go to work do overtime dude i was the only person on my job working 80 hours a week i did i did more than my boss bro and i made more than him too but the point was i was driven because i knew if i put in the work now i'm read the benefits later on look bro look at us now dude i just work at chick-fil-a seven dollars an hour my pleasure [ __ ] so to come from that to here yeah it's not by accident it is wanting so bad i can't breathe i can't sleep yeah and at that point bro the world's your oyster because you know it is guys don't believe that they can actually do it they see me they say marry they say hafiz they say chris yeah you guys are are cool you guys made it but i can't do it bro saying right now we were in the worst position that we saw right uh in this moment nobody started uh at the very top they were at the bottom at some point so i feel like if guys understand you know what i can do it but you have to want it bad enough you can't sleep you can't breathe you need it right now obsessed man like people see the show yeah and they don't know like a lot of time before the show i'm up late at night rewiring stuff cleaning up the studio making sure it looks good you know making sure the mics work and everything like that ordering equipment studying you know uh products and everything like that how's this gonna work is this gonna be good upgrading equipment all the time taking all the money we take most the money we make we put it right back into the studio he doesn't sleep bro he's a vampire i swear to god this guy works 24 7. i don't know how he does it bro it's [ __ ] beast mode yeah yeah i i just run up an energy drink yeah the energy drinks and like also i'm not gonna lie like i look at like um i'm very competitive so like i look at like other content creators and i look at like other people that are doing we're doing i'm like all right we're going we're going to beat them one million subs by next year or die yeah and me and him already said it like we're not gonna mess with chicks like that for the rest of this year we're not talking about parties listen when we say meth we mean like long-term yeah cause bro we used to like three three goes a day bro yeah we get us man like we should go on double dates and like extra stuff and like we used to do you know like planning stuff like you know going out to clubs and bars all this other stuff now it's like bruh if we can't write this off on taxes monetize these monetize these chicks our network we're doing it bro like yeah if you're not in the vlog if you're not coming on the show to help us then yeah sweetheart i'll see you on the next time so like you know what i'm saying so we we we're just like we're like i'm very competitive so because i grew up like you know playing basketball row and everything like that so like my motivation is always to like beat people and and i guess that's kind of whatever you need to motivate yourself right yeah but for me that's that's how it is like it's like this obsession to become better and beat people especially people that like slept on us i ain't gonna say no names yeah or guys that like told us don't mess with us or whatever i'm alright [ __ ] like we're gonna come for your neck and you know you you know what i wanna leave the guys with i wanna say this right think about this why him and not you think about that because you're here on earth for a period of time and then that's it are you gonna say you know what damn i just gave up that's it i'm gonna get a girl i want a car i want house i want look bro like it takes time it's not microwave policy where you're just putting a microwave and happens one time but if you're putting anywhere showing up every single day guess what at some point it's gonna happen so and iron sharpens iron like i'm not going to lie to you guys we watched your videos we're like we're coming for them yeah yeah no facts you know what i'm saying like you were you guys were getting no jumper everybody like we we look at like the guys that are really doing it and you guys are at the top you know i'm saying you guys are doing killing it i feel like the middle child we're going to come up just like them you know and we look you guys like you know i study my opponents man i ain't gonna lie you know i'm not gonna go into all the details of how but um everything we do is very calculated and we i'd be lying if i didn't say like we didn't like look to you guys for motivation like yeah we're gonna come up whatever yeah and you know we're just like honored to actually be featured as guests on your guys's show so so you know it's i think um what did i say you wanna you wanna turn your idols into rivals you know because i think i think for me um i i really look at everybody in this space you know i'm beyonce i mean i'm a person that has very like uh orthodox and very uh dogmatic views at times so when people ask me how can you talk to this person how can he i might bribe this group with everybody like that's like a general part of life i disagree with everybody my dad my mom my grandma i disagree with everybody so i'm i'm okay with being with human beings who i disagree with because that's every human being and so i just love every guy who's in this space who's trying to help man who's trying to hold men accountable who's trying to you know speak the truth about what's going on especially in the modern day market and stuff like that so so i love i love what you guys are doing i love that you guys are you know trying to grow and trying to expand and all that good stuff and and another thing i want to talk about especially when it comes to the guys is that um man i just i just really when we talked about before so i don't want to kill a dead horse but i really want to see an end with the cap with the guys because a couple of months ago we did a poll on youtube and we asked man what kind of content do you guys want do you guys want fitness content finance content um spirituality content or do you guys want dating content which of those four do you think guys said they wanted the least dating oh at least they said they wanted the least of this oh probably the money or fitness i want to say fitness probably the fitness okay what do you think the least the least probably uh i would say dating a hundred percent i'ma show it to you wait you wanna dating less they said they the type of content they wanted the least bro our numbers show otherwise yeah yeah and i think no no i'm explaining to you yeah this is what on a poll they said what kind of content do you want the least they said was dating and then and then yeah and then what did they say go ahead put yeah because it's funny because the the most requested was money and investing yeah but those actually always do the poorest because we do our money mondays people only two thousand three thousand people in there yeah i'm like what yeah and that's the point so my video that while we're recording this is a thursday i dropped the video and i didn't want to put out that video i had another video i wanted to put out and the other video i wanted to put out was about guys being so full of crap nowadays and the reason why you know i was so mad during that video was because chris did a video about what every high value mansion of his investment portfolio was great video shout out shout out to courtney ryan courtney white ryan came on the podcast this week and in three days her episode did a hundred thousand views um then i put out a clip of courtney ryan shout out to courtney in the first in two days did a hundred thousand views chris puts out this video in 48 hours at 7 000 views about finances i'm okay i feel that pain man yeah and so my my thing is that and like i said we're going to do a little bit accountability gonna have fun guys and have fun but it pisses me off so much because you know what it reminds me of hey ladies what kind of guys do you like there you go bang bang what kind of guys do you like do you guys like nice guys do you guys like bad boys do you guys like alphas do you guys like dangerous guys what kind of guys do you guys like what all the women gonna say i like nice guys that respect me yeah exactly and what guys do you dislike the most oh if he's disrespectful i don't like him i hate [ __ ] boys he's an [ __ ] don't talk to me he's an [ __ ] and so literally it's it's the opposite and this is what these guys are doing they're saying they want to improve financially they're saying they want all these things they say they want to level up they said they want to grow they say all this good stuff online because it sounds good but deep down inside when we put out the videos all they're watching is these videos it's all they're watching and so even to some of the criticism they're like oh all you guys put out is this all you guys put out is this what you don't realize is we put out equal of everything if not more of the leveling up stuff the problem is the freaking monkeys in the jungle don't want those kind of stuff they only want the bananas they only want these you know the sensational stuff they only want the stuff the cotton candy and so to me i'm like yo you're live you guys i'm starting to get so sick of it man like i i i'm so sick of the guys who are complaining all day long and talking about women and talking about this and talking about that and i'm like bro but you guys are not doing anything and even hypothetically speaking i said it in the video i said hypothetically speaking let's say chris's content sucks my content sucks you guys give money monday suck so you're probably going to other places to watch this content right wrong when we go to youtube analytics and it shows you what other videos your subscribers watch and what other channels are subscribed to they're not watching any of the finance stuff they're not watching patrick david they're not watching any of these people so it i'm telling guys right now like i said before we get into the last segment i'm telling guys right now the problem if you think the problem with society is only women everything the problem in society is that women are all delusional you gotta mess up because your experience your experience your experience and my experience is showing me that too many of these guys are lazy they're capping online but they ain't put in no kind of work yeah i'll say this we hold both genders accountable yeah and guess what we do a late night show almost every night right with some ladies in the studio and guys will say oh she's a four oh i would never date her or she's too big for me oh she doesn't look that good she's a she's a two and a show hey i'm just curious how many games you got you see this you see the same name chad brad you know damn saying yo you're a baddie when i see free i'm like these [ __ ] be capping you know what it is you know what it is they want to look good for the viewers they don't look good in public but behind the scenes they put in the work another thing too is that a lot of guys aren't gonna they'll never admit that they need help with getting girls like you know what i'm saying they'll watch the content but they're like ninja watch it you know what i'm saying like as we go you know we tell guys get the likes of you guys ninja watchers and they watch like when we have the girls in because literally we'll have a guest right and then an hour later we'll have that guest again with girls at the table double the views yeah you know with our boy uh we just had austin dunham and uh we did an interview with them and then like an hour or two later girls those double the views 8 000. it's it's ridiculous how there's a reason why only fans make so much money yeah let's keep it a stack you know only fans instagram the why girls get such crazy followers on ig versus men you know why uh you know bikini pictures get so many likes whatever it is dudes just want to see chicks they don't care about necessarily leveling up it is what it is and that is why there's so few high-value men that are that have their [ __ ] together because more guys are concerned with chasing ass bro that's what it is and they just don't want to put the work in and they'd rather look at chicks and and or have me like debate these girls because i'll tell you guys this i'm losing my hair over this yeah uh you know they'd rather see that it's like revenge porn for them to like see me kevin samuels like debating the chicks making them look dumb on air they want to get that like that validation like yeah yeah tell her tell her finally someone is like holding these chicks accountable that's great but does that help you in your life you know what i'm saying like it's good because it's a learning tool because i'll tell you guys this i hate arguing with these chicks but i know the guys like to see it and they get to learn and see like how women really operate from a cognitive level when it comes to like logic and reason versus their emotions but even though that helps you like with learning female nature you still got to put the work in and become attractive in the first place so that girls are going to want to deal with you anyway now you guys are seeing it that women are not congruent with what they say they like and what they're actually aroused by but what are you going to do about it watching me debate these chicks all night isn't going to do anything for you you can learn but you need to still level up to even get to the point where you can use that knowledge that you're gaining from watching me you know what i'm saying no i feel you man it's the complaining part that's like that's that's what's yeah it's so tough to swallow yeah you know like y'all want the help you all ask for it we give it to you yep but you don't watch it and then you have the nerve to come to complain to me about it you know so that's something where it's just so frustrating because people say they want to be on this process to get better and get better but only watching stuff that's going to validate them i want to go to watching them stuff that's going to make them feel good but i'll actually getting in the gym you know feeling the sword and it's feeling the burn because it's uncomfortable a lot of people don't like hearing the truth about themselves a lot of people don't like look in the mirror and be like man dang i need to change this a lot of people don't want to address those things they just want to see the revenge they just want to see people attack and just beat down that's it you know they just want to be lazy and not do anything and that's the frustrating part because we actually care we actually want to see change because we understand healthy men healthy society and we're trying to play our part in that but if they saying they want something they're not doing it it's frustrating i can tell the last show we did you guys with the girls you guys are passionate as hell like i could tell half his face he was fuming he was like i can't believe she said that really and you were like bro is this for real and you know what's funny about that is is that like i've realized now bro i can only help who wants help and i said you know what the comments all the bad talk whatever bro that's on you i'm doing my part if you wanna level yourself like i did like you did like uh christie like myron did that's not your brother and guess what i got left to live too so if i'm enjoying my life if you're complaining exit out if i helped you great here's here's your uh success story i'm happy for you so i tune out all the negative i want to focus on a positive and i move forward because that's all i can do 100 percent you got to become as a man it is what it is and especially in today's day and age it's even more pronounced that you have to become a man yeah like the like the date like i said it's not good enough to be average anymore most chicks don't want average men average women don't want average men no they don't and they will not settle dude they said i'd rather die alone i said god damn no they won't do it they will not settle they're not yeah and and it's great because like you know channels like ours and kevin samuels it's exposing like how women really like what women really want in men you know i'm saying like obviously it's womany so you got to decipher it a bit but guys are hearing it real time yeah i don't want an average man i ain't settling down i've been single for 10 years i'm not going to take another guy that's not on my level blah blah blah or they'll say i dated a guy that made less money than me and it was annoying i can't do it guys this is the world that we live in you don't have a choice you have to become period yeah and another thing that myron said that i really enjoyed was i don't think a lot of these men realize that the world that we're that we're dealing with men also created this world yeah men allowed this world to exist because i think that's that's some of the the arguments of like well men built this world this is true men did build this world but also men allowed this crap to happen yeah and so we have to we have to acknowledge like like myron was saying these girls why are they having hundreds of thousands of subscribers yeah why can they pay their rent by just you know spread lifting your leg being no naked yoga how can they do these things it's because of men because of men men could easily be like they don't say your bank account is gone yeah no more no more only fans we're not putting up with it we're not putting up with it no more we're not gonna be subscribed we're not gonna be following you on instagram you can't do no brand deals it's gone man can do that men have that power but they choose not to because like myron said the same guys that are in the comments roasting these chicks know what they're going to do they're going to their accounts and they're following these chicks they're going to their accounts and they're liking all their pictures bro i never i'll never forget this man did i screenshot this one day i believe i screenshot this so some i if you if you're gonna dm me i'm not gonna respond to you but not too much guys i love you i love you all it's way too much but it's too overwhelming oh man so uh it is even for me and i'm a social media expert yeah it's a lot for me now so a lot of times guys send me these dms and um i guess i usually don't check them but there's a dm that i got that i thought was hilarious man let's see if i can find it can i find it while you look for that all right go ahead i'll say this because i always put it back on the men when i when we bring girls into this podcast studio right you find it yeah okay cool cool so after our famous episode with the one and only oh yeah that looks around now and acts like she's a celeb you know that oh yeah one of her friends crazy bro she was like you really think she has slept now bro in the words of kevin samuels i'll make you famous but um so so somebody sent me this screenshot and and this this encompasses the men's idiocratic if that's even the word and um some it was a screenshot from her page in the comments section and this guy wrote no lord let's go oh it's gonna be good this guy wrote fresh and fit got me here uh-oh then somebody responded to him and said what the f are we doing here [Laughter] the guy responded ignoring hafiz's advice then another guy responded bro not gonna lie she is fine as hell when she stood up during that podcast and i saw her saw that ass i was like i need to find her instagram and then she responded that's good advertising oh my god so the point is after after all she did after all she guys didn't care still follow her her only fans probably went up it did yo you know what's funny we had a girl on right i forgot her name badass badass girl right debated the whole show had the only fans mentioned it maybe one time went up 10k bro and i'm like how the hell you just saw her bad behavior on camera and you're gonna go support that because she looks bad oh she's a baddie i gotta get that i can't i can't subscribe to this weekend okay i can't do it so many hearts i cannot do you see so many men are like that and i get it look she looks good you don't get you you don't get a lot of girls so to use like damn she's a baddie but at the same time we're encouraging girls for this behavior i'll say this that's sad bro i'm sorry man that is sad when i when i hear their personality and their character in my world they become more unattractive you know i'm not just looking at facebook you know tits i'm not looking at that when you start talking yeah it's like that registered me too i'm like so when they have these moments and they show you who they truly are and you still go subscribe to that it's something wrong with you bro how'd it go next i'm sorry all right gotta go go next to me right uh you remember her the one that was debating you oh yeah yeah yeah and i was like yeah all right after this i'm gonna go back to the crib do my thing she spoke i was like bro hell no i just turned me right off right i couldn't do it you can't beat it around yeah and that's that's the importance of like having that abundance mindset and like being confident in yourself from your accomplishments because you could walk away from that ridiculousness because even though she's attractive she's gonna cause you misery in the long run so a lot of people complain about the state of women nowadays we gotta put it back on the men because men are the leaders you know what i'm saying so if your subordinates act crazy that's your fault as a leader for not directing them to act appropriately and since men have become more feminine right women have become more masculine as a byproduct of men becoming more feminine you know what i'm saying so the reason why girls act crazy right now is because guys don't check them anymore we bring girls to this podcast studio bro we warned them a lot of the time yo don't be disrespectful don't over talk blah blah blah we really be trying to not kick them out like people think i'd be trying to kick girls out no i don't even know i'm frank castle but um we warned them and they still act crazy and i have to kick them out and the reason why i have to kick them out is because all the dudes that they talk to leading up to the show let them get away with unacceptable behavior overtalking them being disrespectful thinking that their opinion matters more just because they're a woman or whatever it may be the boyfriend sugar daddy yeah the the guy paying for the for sex yeah like all these dudes and i always say like when guys are trying to get laid they will go to crazy lengths to get laid and they'll just throw their their their cop they'll throw their um self-respect otherwise yeah they'll throw their decency out the window to get laid you know what i'm saying but i'm not trying to smash you baby girl we have a podcast to run here and i ain't going to let you like disrespect me on my platform so i kick them out and they look at me like like i'm speaking chinese or whatever i'm like get them out because a lot of these girls a lot of they have never been told no we brought some very attractive girls in here like that girl probably the first time someone held their accountable told her yo listen i get that you're only fans and you're making money you know that but guess what this ain't gonna last and and she's like oh and then she immediately like you know tightened up and wanted to fight you on it and she's 20. she'll know nothing she's a bimbo you know what i'm saying 2021 whatever it is she has like no life experience trying to tell you oh well i know what i'm doing blah blah you don't know [ __ ] yeah you know what i'm saying but it comes back to i always put it back on the men the reprehensible state of western women is a direct cause from men being feminine and not holding women accountable yes if more dudes were out here frank castle and girls like i do whole you know punishing bad behavior that's why i went viral the reason why i went viral right for those that don't know went viral on tick tock when i said if a girl flakes on a date you need to punish that bad behavior and tell her when you if we're going to go on another date you need to buy the first round of drinks i had feminists coming out the wooza everyone the bad behavior the real did a reaction to us yeah the real everything all the articles in australia canada like like we went like millions of views right on on tick tock and uh you know mainstream television reacting to us whatever yeah and all i said was punish bad behavior from a woman have her buy the first round of drinks holding women accountable in 2021 is a foreign concept you know what i'm saying so when i say yo hold these six accountable punish bad behavior they go nuts it goes viral and by punish he'll mean smack her in the face are we dogs yeah how dare you say that i don't like how he said it i don't like how he said it and what i'm simply saying is that you need to have boundaries and you need to punish bad behavior from women you know what i'm saying if they flake on a date if they disrespect you whatever it may be you need a checker right there and then the reason why i said punish is because i know that when i'm talking to men and coaching men you need to be very direct with them and almost sometimes give it to them in a way harsh that's like harsh so they really understand the importance of you need to punish that bad behavior because a lot of guys she flaked on a date or you know what it's okay i'll let it slide whatever she ain't gonna respect you women don't operate like we do for us to smash a chick we don't necessarily have to respect her but for her to smash you she definitely gotta respect you too and you need to set that foundation that yo i'm not one to be played with you know what i'm saying because yeah you might get the box here and there if you're paying for and sip or whatever but she ain't gonna get that genuine desire to get her really wet which they never said on the show you gotta hold her ass accountable and put her feet to the fire when she messes up and that's what because again that comes from that abundance mindset but these dudes out here that are sipping on this girl oh i'm ignoring hafiza's advice you already know that dude probably get in a box you know what i'm saying it is what it is so it's far more attractive when you let girls know off rip i have boundaries and i'm willing to uh act on them if needed you know it's just that's sad to me that only fans increase after that ten thousand dollars bro that's it like honestly i'm literally frustrated right now i put on the my day is ruined can we do something fun like this too like like like from a business perspective because some people try to criticize oh you guys talk about sims whatever blah blah blah you bring girls on the only fans we look at it like now like listen you guys are going to simp anyway at least simple on our girls you guys want a symbol on girls because here's the thing these dudes they'll talk smack in the in the chat whatever it may be but only a portion of them come when we talk about you know fitness or dating or whatever maybe but when we have girls on 10 000 plus so a lot of them aren't like real supporters they're just there to like look at the ghosty and they just want and they just real talk like we had guys super chatting and be like oh oh i wanna i make a million dollars a year i'm gonna fly to new york and all that extra [ __ ] like tell them about so basically right this guy came on the show and he was talking to every single girl oh she looks bad oh she's a four duh duh duh this is a good same guy donate thousands of dollars right hundred dollars each time if one is one girl on the show columbia chick right you know what i mean and uh he was like he didn't that whole show he didn't super chat oh i was like is this guy dead is he okay nobody shows up this time to talk [ __ ] to the girls right lo and behold we found out from our producer that um he actually damned the girl flew her out to texas took her out for like a week or two said hey i want you to be my girlfriend mind this is the seeing guy that said to every single girl oh you're no good you're lesser than men yeah we began like simpson here like watching us just for that but think about this right he just met her wanted to be her boyfriend it's like these guys they talk a lot of smack and they pretend behind the camera yeah i'm sorry behind a computer but deep down they're the ones the hardest yeah it's crazy bro it's and then one more another girl um that was bad as hell got a flight to dubai the guy the guy flew to buy paid for her expenses for like two months i said i'm like bro off of one show yeah just singing on camera i'm like bro what the [ __ ] and this is why women act the way they do because well no matter how poorly behaved they are there's going to be dudes that are going to take in that take them in regardless of their bad behavior months paying someone bills for two months and and and all these things and this and like i said for people who don't watch our content or don't watch your content they don't know all these stories that we all know behind the scenes yep so they're only seeing the videos only see the production the sheen but we're like bro there's so much going on behind the scenes that if only you guys knew and like you said so many of the men it it and you guys are weak bro it's frustrating these guys are weak bro it's it's pathetic you know and and and that's why it gets to a point where i'm like winners win and losers lose for a reason bam you know it's just it's a sad reality of life i don't want you to be a loser i thought a man all the time a loser is a man who loses and chooses to lose he gave up you know a winner is somebody who probably lost many times but he got back up and so a lot of men are choosing to lose a lot of men have all the knowledge they did back in the day we didn't have youtube you know i mean back in the day if you wanted to read a book you could you have to go to a freaking library mars you know before barnes nobody like you couldn't afford books back in the day you have to go to a library and get a library card and check out books you know what i mean crazy fines for being late to get information and we all know there was no neil strauss the game was not at the local library you know yeah and so all the information that men are getting today is so much more than ever before overload almost overload like like you said you can literally build a whole life from youtube now and they take all the information and they simply go on only fans subscribe to it go on pornhub they subscribe to it they blow all their money they waste all this time and then they want to get mad at the women for what they have done for the life that they've the mistakes they've made and and that's the part that i want a lot of guys to realize those amongst you are not all of you they're not the guys you see them in the comments you see them saying this and that in the third bro behind closed doors men get exposed and you can lie to me you can lie to chris you can lie to rash you can lie to my record light or whomever you want to lie to but you can't lie to yourself bam well you can't lie to yourself but you're not lying you're not deceiving anyone but yourself because we all know what's going on and so like i said i i challenge every single man you're you're not playing me man you're not playing anybody but yourself now to the fun yeah so my question is i i consider this the five three five i'm maybe i'm gonna try my best there's five of the toughest dating markets in the world in the country i'm sorry not in the world los angeles oh new york city atlanta for show las vegas that's it no no you said miami and hold on what i said i forgot los angeles new york new york vegas vegas atlanta atlanta and miami thank you five toughest in the world it's it's unlike none other dating in miami is not like dating in pensacola dating in new york city is not like dating in buffalo dating in atlanta is not like dating in savannah dating in los angeles i don't know any cities in california so it's not like dating in portland or or anywhere else right yeah it's unique because what you have is you have some of the richest most successful men you have these big you have these athletes you have these entertainers and so the market is crazy yeah like none other before my question to you guys is in regards to what men care about the baddies which you can go go nines and tens eight point five to tens whatever you wanna do do you guys feel like you were honestly getting baddies consistently when you guys got to miami or since you've been in miami at the very beginning no i was dating threes and fours remember remember what i said right now i'm being honest so i came here five years ago right sorry six years ago and uh my first year i didn't date nobody i've been building myself up leveling up myself fitness um a little bit uh finances getting my mindset in order after that year though i started going out to bars and i spent two years doing approaching clubs so i'll go up monday to sunday bro that ass what years was this it's like 20 uh 16 17. okay so i had a roommate it would go almost every night telling the girls so over time i built up a lot of games just by talking to girls because obviously you know you're in a club taught 20 girls you might get like five ten phone numbers or that 5 10 you may get like three dates or or less so i got pretty comfortable talking to girls and sometimes i stutter so it's kind of like i don't overcome that in person long story short um i did all that and what happened was i realized that one a confidence went up and two i realized that these girls this [ __ ] stinks too so like they're not better than me right so over time what happened was that like without confidence and that and that knowledge i started approaching better tricks so i started talking like threes and fours which might be a little bit overweight whatever i got those covered went up a little bit more five or sixes seven eight and then when i introduced instagram to the game it was on lockdown because the picture is right it's level perception now so now i can create a perception where it is still me but i'm saying i'm showing lifestyle i'm showing who i really am and i can see it at a large scale san antonio goes from like texas l.a vegas if i'm going to see me because now they can see my my lifestyle and then guess guess what right the two years i spent in the club i had to go there physically and approach girls now i'm online in my bed you want to chill where you at what you doing let's link up all from my bedroom on my phone so what year do you think you were getting the the the baddies the baddies i would say like 20 18 2018 2019 okay right so i started mainly and via online online okay cool instagram dating apps all that stuff cool i started doing like instagram models you know celebrity girls all that stuff right and because i know how to social global presence online and it's funny because like i'm not the most attractive guy out there i'm not the most best in shape but once again girls like ambitious successful guys that have a lifestyle because once again people say oh you often need to be tough all the time no bro you gotta be smooth you gotta understand look i'm playing the part to get what i want but at the same time it's still you because you gotta speak women you gotta understand you know what when she says oh there's nothing happening tonight i'm just gonna come over that means [ __ ] you got it right but how do you know this why are you lying to me why are you when you say that from experience and knowledge you can now understand how to move in the marketplace so i say that guys all the time look you may not be the sexiest most good looking guy you may not have all the money but once you understand the foundation of the game and knowledge of how women really operate you can get what you want now here's caviar though when you're at a a low level it's like you're not successful you're not you have a good mindset it's kind of like you can get girls but like you're stuck at that level guess what you you smack a bad [ __ ] what do you get you bust a nut it's over onto the next one but that's it but if you're successful and you do it now it doesn't hurt you because why was this guys chase girls so much that hurts them and i've spoken to millionaires guys that are all the guys guys are unsuccessful and also they all say the same thing to me at the same time they say fresh or walter my name look man if i could go back in time and change one thing it would be not to chase women because that stopped a lot of my career going forward or it [ __ ] me up so bad i can't even like recover now or they might is this trick that was one divorce another the point is that like a lot of guys they just focus on chasing girls and that's that's cool to get experience but do it after you finish working on yourself so i don't care if you could just this perfect scenario here go to work right nine to five whatever then leave work working in business or we're working to learn how to invest or how to like grow yourself and then when that's done then go out with a girl or go to talk to girls don't do it before afterwards oh i'm going to the bar now and talk to girls no because guess what you're your uh core um foundation should be uh dwelling uh build up your mindset building up your finances because because at that point now you can attract rather than chase about you mar so i would say um yeah i consistently get them but like you'll get a baddie here an average girl here then maybe since when oh uh i was actually pulling more girls when i first moved here man in 2018 because i was just like doing my job and like you know doing my 905 and then like coming home and doing whatever but now with the youtube thing with entrepreneur life yeah i actually work more now so it's like and then since we're like really trying to grow right now sourcing less so like back in 2018 like you're new to a city right you didn't know people how are you pulling those kind of caliber of women at that time how was i doing it yeah oh so i was like so um when i first moved here right so just to give you guys a little bit of context so i moved here from south texas yeah where i was at in texas there were like no chicks and i was working all the time so when i got to miami i went nuts for like the first year in 2018. i got here march of 2018 i was going out to the to the bars i was running a night came like two three nights a week i was cold approaching the girls during the day i was using dating apps i was using every single avenue to like get girls right because we always say i always say like dating is like sales right and you have different lead sources so you got your night game day game social circle game uh you got your um uh yeah online dating etc so i was using all those avenues to pull leads in and then closing right and because obviously you're only gonna be able to small like close a small percentage of the girls you're actually like sourcing you know for anyone that doesn't know get chicks is tough so it's a numbers game so uh so i was getting i was doing really well with that sourcing girls you know you get a baddie here average girl here then maybe like a girl like a bunker buster here and then you go back you know and then go back and then you keep the girls that are actually like bad in the rotation you know what i'm saying the most attractive girls you keep them in the rotation and then like the the bunker buster you just don't talk to me and then as i like was in uh as i continued to stay in miami longer i started realizing like bro like these one-night stands are a waste of time because to get the one-night stand you got to go out do the whole club thing go to the bars and night game right i enjoy it but it's one of the hardest ways to get girls it is expensive bar yeah it's expensive it's uh loud it's obnoxious um if you're not running table game you really got to be on point uh so it's a very low roi but i enjoyed it because you know i was new to miami i always enjoy night game it is what it is but you know it comes with consequences and my physique starts to deteriorate a bit because i was like drinking all the time and all that stuff so you know it came at a cost you know and i was chasing girls and this is like when i was doing my job so it wasn't that big a deal because i got my crew whatever but now we're like youtube and everything is now on me too like we got to be successful because on us now yeah now we're like you know we cut those distractions out we still deal with girls but like more it's like but now it's girls like on our level like we ain't gonna be going around chasing girls and sourcing how we used to yeah so yeah man i would say uh with miami it's definitely hard though yeah like it's it's a dif it's a very difficult city to get girls because the thing about major cities is that like you said earlier like you got a lot of wealthy dudes celebrities athletes whatever and here in miami everyone that's like a somebody typically has like a second house here or if they don't they're here like multiple times a year yeah you know what i'm saying so and there's always parties there's always things going on and it's funny we didn't chase that like drake dates future dates yeah it's funny celebrities it's my celebrity so it's like okay it's my turn now yeah bro like like these chicks really began passed around with the celebs and everything else like that so it's like it's it's if you're on your p's and q's here in miami it's not it's not gonna be uncommon for you to deal with a girl that's also dealing with a nba player or a rapper or whatever it may be and that's why it's so competitive here because they have so many options like if you look at a girl miami that's like average looking you look at her dms she's going to be get hit up by rappers blue checkmark guys she's going to get involved invited to boat parties to clubs whatever like if you're a single woman in miami you're going to live life on easy even average girls let me add one more thing here right so dating bad girls right it's kind of like community property let me explain that so you could have a bad chick right and i've had a couple and it's kind of like okay she's bad as hell but guess what they don't offer much so what happens is you're ready for a little bit of time right let's say like two weeks or three weeks whatever uh this bitching work [ __ ] i'm out of here so you leave her on the next dude so just your turn when you whenever you do a bad checks here's the thing though right uh for example so when you do these tricks of course it's kind of like okay now that you've covered uh cover that mountain you're like damn i wanted this trick so bad and this is all she has to offer so a lot of these girls have very low character and they they've never took time to build up their character at all yeah so it's kind of you get you get you get the bad check it's like a smasher what's next oh let's go to the mall let's go shopping [ __ ] you talking to so it's kind of like they don't offer anything i think outside the section is kind of like you know what at that point as man you gonna say you know what is it worth my time on my investment and i'm really i'm really you probably not yeah i'll say this too yeah the bad of the chick guys the better she's gonna be for a relationship yeah you know what i'm saying like i'll give you guys like a little quick glimpse of what it's like to be like a bad chick so um i had uh i worked with a business partner and we did like a dating course right and before we released the course we used like tinder bumble all these different dating apps instagram whatever it may be so i was doing a split test so i had multiple phones i was running different profiles new profile here old profile here running boosts here whatever point is i have multiple profiles and i use the boost on all of them and i turn all my phones off for 24 hours right so i turn them off turn it back on the next day and i got a bunch of notifications from chicks and i was like hey okay okay you know what i'm saying i got like this little ego boost hit me right there hot chicks get this every single day all day if you are constantly validated for nothing else besides existing how much of a piece of [ __ ] person would you be and then that's when it hit me that's why a lot of these very very attractive girls bring nothing to the table they've never had a burner performance placed on them because they were given what women want attention and validation simply for existing so there's no need to self-improve or become a better woman when you're super attractive now this isn't all girls guys obviously yeah but i would say a healthy amount yeah that are very attractive yeah that's the type of that's the lifestyle they live that's how they feel and when i was in their shoes for a day i like it hit me bro if i got this type of attention and validation every single day i would be a piece of crap too so um one of my mentors his uh he he has three he has three girls and he had a son the three girls were the oldest the son was youngest one day his son was about two years old about two and a half he couldn't talk couldn't talk he was like couldn't communicate all his daughters were talking year and a half two years like you know like like geniuses takes the son to speech pathologists was like you know it's they have a learning disability you know hopefully it's not mute something like that they find out there's nothing wrong with the kid nothing wrong it's everything's developmentally perfect and like but he doesn't talk he doesn't communicate and they're like well what i want you to do is go ahead and watch it watch the kid live his life watch the kid do his thing and then tell me if you notice anything what the parents notice is that his every time he wants something his sisters get it for him every time he wants something sisters do it for him like he's like food he's like you know bottle so he what they realized was his sisters gave him everything in life to where he never had to use any of the vocal muscles or communicate and that hindered his uh vocal i mean i mean his communicative growth damn so he wasn't able to talk because his sisters were pa were like not pandering were babying him yeah and they had to tell the sisters that yo you can't do things for him you have to make him talk make him use his words make him express himself and by doing that obviously i love my love my boy and he's a great kid right now and and that's when i learned that's what happened to these women and that's the part i'm i'm at the part where i'm like transforming as i'm doing the content but before i was so mad at people and now i feel sorry for people because it's like i realize what happened to you your whole life you never learned what we have to learn which is be good and good will come back to you you never learned that because you had to just be and good came to you yeah you could be rude and god or be nice and god think about it it's like why would a person what would happen to somebody if they caught they smacked their mom in the face and they got a million dollars versus they were nice to their mom and they got a million dollars so like well i got to be nice i can just do whatever i want still get the same outcome yeah so like you said so many of these girls and especially bro when i was a teacher i was a teacher middle school elementary school and preschool even the little girls like we got to realize like they're be when they're babies they're getting treated like this it's not just when they turn 13 and hit puberty you know a lot of these girls if you ask some stories about what was it like when you were 10 9 8 years old they were getting treated like this their parents were you know marcia marcia marshall favoritism brady bunch you probably didn't watch that but favoritism so a lot of these women that's what happened to them and so now we live in generation like you said where validation is now free you know back in the day you have to go outside go to the club get dressed up actually to get validated now you can just sit at home but they put their feet on online ding ding ding and then so that's what has occurred going back to the point what the world that men has built and i just think that's why with guys i'm always emphasizing character because because for those girls it's harder for them themselves to have character because of the environment yeah and and the last illustration i would give is like the rich kid it's very hard to be a rich kid and to be as hard working as a poor kid yeah it's just hard you never had a reason to work hard yeah he and as they say nowadays have to get out the mud you shoot you never even saw what mud was until you were probably 30 years old and you're building your new new house you know and i'll say this go ahead go ahead hafiz just after that as well right so it's funny because i should date girls like every single day i know sounds weird three girls a day i don't ask each girl to see he's not online the same question right come to my house we will [ __ ] whatever and we're in a bed i'm curious how many things do you get a day just show me your phone right bro i would see blue check regular guy blue check regular guy i'm like why'd you choose me she be like oh um i like your smile or oh like you know you weren't uh aggressive right well but one thing stood up to me it was like they were saying basically there's so many options that's kind of like okay i'm choosing only the best options but remember they were still getting drunk getting crazy there was no type of like uh reasoning behind their behavior but they just all had the best options and hit me like it's like yo like like you said earlier imagine getting that all day 24 7. you're never going to be be kind of like how to put this discerning because you know what it just comes to you freely and it's like the average girl gets that the bad girls get that so where's the uh where's the pause button here it never ends you know what it is it's all the guys in her dms so that validation right there is uncontrollable and look social media is from everybody so it's kind of tough to like beat that you know what i'm saying i'll say this what's actually happened right with with uh feminism and wait do you want to use feminism or woman i don't care okay so what what feminism has actually done is it's actually inadvertently given the high value men all the leverage because what's happened is with the internet and the sexual marketplace becoming globalized now women have a false sense of reality of what their sexual market value really is that's why you got average chicks thinking i'm entitled to a high value man because high value men are dming them but what these women don't understand is these dudes are just trying to smash you and not take you serious hallelujah and a lot of women a lot of women make this cardinal mistake of thinking because a man is hitting on you your value is high no the man is hitting on you to get sex and women they love to play they like to use the male standards when it works for them but they like to use a female standards also one works for them so in other words i can run around and bang a bunch of dudes because i'm a girl well if you could do it why can't i but at the same time they're getting into clubs for free and they're using their pretty privilege i'm a girl treat me like a lady so and that's what feminism teaches women a lot of the time where they can absolve themselves of certain responsibilities and get the benefits of others and their roles are negotiable while while a man's are static but what they don't realize is that you've given the power and the leverage to the top 10 to 20 of men and these guys aren't going to take you seriously and here's the beauty of being a man you know this upfront at least you know that you have to create your value you know that you have to bring something to the table so at least you know why you're not getting what you want women don't know why they're not getting what they want and they don't realize it until they're too old why couldn't i get a guy on my level blah blah blah then they call it kevin samuels show and they realize you're 30 35 three two kids you're not as attractive as you used to be you can't compete with those 20 year olds that you used to compete with but what they thought was i could push the clock back i can like get the same caliber of guys but women a lot of the time don't understand that we're very different and women age like milk men if you take care of yourself age like wine you know what i'm saying so it is what it is and i like the fact that we at least get the upfront reality and we live in a fact-based reality if you don't perform you don't get what you want women don't get that privilege right where i'm not going to say privilege i'm going to say uh benefit they don't get that benefit because they're validated no matter what they do which is actually a gift and a curse if you're getting validated off feet picks making money off only fans dudes are simple for you you're getting dms from celebrities whatever what incentive do you have to become a better woman no because girls conflate guys want to talk to me as them being bad well yeah maybe attraction-wise but here's the thing guy game is attaining the girl girl game is retaining the guy post-sex and a lot of girls don't understand that your value is determined can you keep the guy and more importantly do you have a ring and most these girls can't say that but then they try to use the male standard well i can get any guy that i want it doesn't work that way baby girl we play by a different set of rules because we live a different reality yeah and another thing that i also i think is an important thing to realize it's kind of like to me the more the more i i i've been researching and learning and reading books and and like really expanding my mind i i'm such a i have such a um i'm not like a monk but like a uh i don't know i guess monk not wisdom but perspective on just life because i i see the correlations everywhere it's just it's i i i'm an environment guy i just believe you create this kind of environment there are some people who will transcend their environments right there's some people who can be there's always two kids right there's a kid who's a drunk because his dad was a drunk but then there's a kid who never drinks because his dad was a drunk yeah yeah most of the time unfortunately the kid's gonna be a drunk because his dad's gonna draw but then a few amount of times a kid is going to be me might not not drink repost proposed by or have moderation they'll make sure to never be what their father was exactly you know and that's a true transcendent person to be able to transcend your environment on the flip side is kids who live in really amazing homes right perfect homes and they end up to be these kids from hell and you're like where did you get that from sometimes it's not the parent right that kid is just so rebellious in his dna that he was in a great amazing home and he still effed it over yeah but then at the same time you have most of the time it's going to be relatively speaking every well-behaved kids right so there are some few people who can't transcend their environments and be successful but majority of time people are so when you understand that yo it's an environment thing and the environments which we raise men and women really shape their behavior everything starts to make more sense and you start to look at people like bro i feel sorry that you were raised here i feel sorry that you had this experience because then eventually you become trapped in it and another point and because it goes back to um what's it gonna say because you asked a really good question earlier yeah are people bad inherently inherently yes or is it are they a product of their environment and i agree with you that the all you can do is you could provide a good home and a good stable environment for your child but there's always that chance that there's still going to be a deviant but right but when you when you give them a good home and everything else like that you exponentially increase the probability that they're gonna become you know uh better people and then same thing on the other hand with the hood right if you grow up in a bad environment no father whatever there's still that chance that you could become successful but your chances of becoming successful have dwindled down because of the environment that you're in and there's so many issues that can i guess uh yeah that could there's so many issues that could derail you from that success i've had friends that were back in barbados their parents were lawyers judges had the best lifestyle and under druggies yeah i'll do smoke weed all day i've had friends that like came up poor as hell but they were they were up and under top level ceos at companies so you're right it doesn't matter um the person sorry it matters the environment because that kind of dictates it but also as well as the person individually they're going to determine their success you can always transcend adversity if your mentality is strong enough but typically those guys are exceptions to the rules exactly and so the point that i was going to bring up was that so the the more you start analyzing different types of human behavior you just start seeing patterns oh this this just happens in all kinds of environment because the same thing is like in in tv or entertainment if you give somebody smash let's say a rapper his first song is a hit yeah makes all this money it's usually straight downhill from there yeah usually that person has never really learned what it was like to work hard they've learned instant success and instant gratification came back to bite them in the long run at the beginning it was amazing being vanilla ice but in the long run there was immediate consequences versus a person like two chains who may have to take so many years and grind and hustle and you know me really get it through them from through the mud did that to the point where now when they get it bro they they're not leaving they're not leaving and they're constantly growing and that's the same correlation when it comes to men and women the women are like a lot of time these one-hit wonders who are just first song 13 years old whatever a 16-18 all this success all these male attention all this and he never learned anything and he goes downhill versus a lot of the guys who come to the space they come from rock bottom they come from and they have to learn how to be attracted learn how to be kind learn how to be charismatic learn how to be successful and then they eventually build it up and they take it to the moon and so i i want to because i know sometimes guys want to complain so much about oh modern dating sucks for guys yes but also if if we could all be a gender we would not be a woman if you're 100 we would nobody would pick being a woman i thank god every day no offense to you ladies you're watching this i don't want to know we wouldn't we wouldn't choose none you know dude i don't want to have a daughter swear to god i don't want a daughter right like i i say a man that knows his worth and has this type of awareness and understands that you gotta perform and can perform high value men have the best life of all yeah yeah if you're an average guy though it's gonna be tough yeah it's gonna be tough out here yeah uh but women i would say the thing with them is they get i always say like women are born with value and men have to create their values right which is why all the time on this podcast women try to tell me well why can't you just you know repress your sexuality do you have to bang anything that moves because they get mad when i say men don't cheat they just exercise options women cheat and what i always tell them is how are you going to tell a guy that's a self-made millionaire how to invest his money when you inherited your money yeah from from you know from birth so and women like i said before they think they could play by the same set of rules as us when it benefits them and then play by the set of rules as a woman when it benefits them and i'm here to tell them nah we're very different and things that make a man attractive make a woman repulsive we're complete opposites and uh damn there was another thing i was going to say on how about a candy store analogy oh yeah the candy store ah because i've heard that yeah i think i think i mean yeah yeah said it before same with husband store right it's it's a little different i mean i don't think i need to say right if i need to bring it up okay but um damn there was another point that you said something about uh women being they being incentivized you know oh yeah yeah the thing with men is that like you know i say you know typically like a lot of time women age like men age like wine i said it earlier i'll say it one more time i want to double down on this guys you only age like wine if you do the work yes you know what i'm saying a lot of guys tend to think like i'm when i get 50 i'm still going to be attractive no no you got to get in the gym you got to have your money right whatever because being a broke 40 year old you ain't no wine bruh yeah yeah yeah yeah there's some spoiled chardonnay at that point like yeah and then not only that i i was going to do a video but another one insider put out but also guys got to stop acting like 35 year old guys are looking better than they were when they're 22. yeah you know what i mean a lot of guys don't age better yeah you know like i said if they're if they're lazy when it comes to money you think they're lazy and the money but then working hard in the gym yeah yeah no you know i remember they said that 40 of women are obese and we talk about that data in the united states but then 35 percent of men are obese as well yeah so we're not that far behind i think entire thing is like 70 percent obesity not overweight and so and so to me i miss like a lot of a lot of men got to realize the future is literally in your hands yeah they have to they have to realize that and they can't complain don't complain to me but don't watch this only specific content yeah you know don't watch stuff that's only going to validate you make you feel good or or like yes that public girl school now is finally you know reaping what she saw or whatever it's like nah you have to take control of your life that's the beauty of being a man yeah you can control and change your reality as a woman yeah you get a lot of things handed to you or whatever but they have a finite amount of time to do it and then on top of that what people don't know is that with women they deal with problems too when you're attractive people don't take you seriously you know what i'm saying everyone's trying to smash you you know what i'm saying it and a lot of girls you know i'm not going to sit here and like give women sympathy or whatever because they're able to like a lot of girls are able to finesse in their favor which hey kudos to you ladies but as a man and you know what you're doing and you have this awareness in your higher status ball's in your court man and you can change your reality hundred percent yeah so last we'll wrap it up yes i want to talk about my one of my major disagreements with the red pill philosophy sure let's do it let's go okay let's get it we might not agree yeah so one of my major my major beefs is is the i don't want to use this word because i won't use this word is the pers is the messages about marriage uh-huh okay okay and the reason why i want to talk about this is this yo what's up everybody i hope you guys are enjoying this amazing episode with fresh and fit but hey guys this last segment i know it's extremely amazing segment is going to be on patreon yes this last segment is going to be on patreon so go to patreon right now www.patreon.comroommate to be able to see this last segment where chris and i and fresh and fit have a great debate about whether men today should get married it's a fantastic conversation patreon not only has the exclusive last segment that you guys are going to watch we have so many free courses such as the fitness course the finance course the identity course the character course we have this networking 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Published: Mon Jun 07 2021