Focus on Yourself NOT OTHERS - Best Motivational Speech

he who says he can and he who says he can't are both usually right difference between depression and joy its purpose that kind of purpose that to live in service not to you but to live in service to humanity to live in service to your family to live in service to your church to your city to your country to the world living in service that is the purest form of joy to get something you never had you have to do something you never did make a choice like you just decide what it's going to be who you're going to be how you're going to do it just decide and then from that point the universe is going to get out your way imagine you're on your deathbed and standing around your deathbed are the ghosts representing your unfulfilled potential the ghost of the ideas you never acted on the ghost of the talents you didn't use and they're standing around your bed angry disappointed and upset they say we came to you because you could have brought us to life they say and now we have to go to the grave together when you wake up in the morning and your life means something to somebody other than you that you have a purpose if you don't go do the things that you're going to do people's lives will suffer and putting yourself in the game you're giving yourself an opportunity to achieve something that everybody else said was impossible there is no passion to be found playing small and settling for a life that's less nothing in life is worthwhile unless you take risks nothing it's not going to kill you the moment you realize the next step isn't going to kill you and that next step is the first step to evolving changing growing and learning and becoming literally the best version of yourself that's the most beautiful thing not how much you act it's what you do with what you have and we all have different gifts some money some love some patience some the ability to touch people but we all have it use it share it that's what counts the constant commitment to putting something in the world of value as long as you can stay focused on delivering your art and delivering yourself and delivering your energy and delivering your ideas for the world to be better the secret to success is doing a lot of little things consistently over a long period of time moment of every single day has a massive impact on where you ultimately end up the way to improve lives is to continually improve yourself good people have to get out of the bed every day and try to empty the ocean with a soup spoon you know as the the mentality of how you wake up every day to try to do good in the world you really gotta focus with all of your fiber and all of your heart and all your creativity dreams without goals are just dreams and they ultimately fuel disappointment goals on the road to achievements cannot be achieved without discipline and consistency what if i told you this was the last monday morning of your life what if i told you you died this week would you complain about your crap job or that test you don't want to take i doubt it you would go much higher level thinking well that's really what it takes it takes understanding that if you're not pumped right now if you're begrudging what you're about to do if you're if you're not looking forward to it look i respect practicality you got to go through school because your parents want to you got to pay your rent you got student loans i get it but please recognize the world we're living in we're living in a world where there's so much more opportunity this internet thing created way more opportunity for all of us way more i mean look you might not even be alive like your mom and dad could have had sex like three minutes later and you wouldn't even exist and you're complaining you could have ended up being a bus a tree i just don't get the mentality of being head down sad on a monday morning i'm gonna make monday morning my i'm gonna make you saturday monday morning that's what i want to do every morning that's what i want from you please take a step back and think about how awesome it actually is and then recognize that you can attack the world in a totally different way because you were lucky enough to be born during this year take full ownership for everything and then everything gets easy because then you're in control the separation of talent and skill is one of the greatest misunderstood concepts for people who are trying to excel who have dreams that want to do things talent you have naturally skill is only developed by hours and hours and hours of beating on your craft there's no easy way around it no matter how talented you are your talent is going to fail you if you're not skilled you know if you don't study if you don't work really hard and dedicate yourself to being better every single day we learn how to love to views we all have losses and so i like losses i love adversity i like the climb i like the chip on my shoulder i like when people like oh i knew it he's not that good i like adversity do you have the guts to fail you will fail at some point in your life accepted you will lose you will embarrass yourself you will suck at something embrace it because it's inevitable you hang around the barber shop long enough sooner or later every failed experiment is one step closer to success thomas edison conducted one thousand failed experiments because the one thousand and first was the light bulb everything up to the stepping out there's actually no reason to be scared it only just ruins your day you don't have to jump and then in that moment all of a sudden where you should be terrified is the most blissful experience of your life and god place the best things in life on the other side of terror on the other side of your maximum fear are all of the best things in life yet i went out in the world and i carried myself and i held my head high and i stood there and i looked people in their eyes and i talked to people as if i was deserving but you could be whatever you want to be you could do whatever you want to do and i want you to keep in your heart just know that you can your behavior is what's going to change you but you also have to start by asking yourself what do i want and why do i want it why don't i have it you know what am i willing to do to get it and i do think in terms of listening to to one of your earlier podcasts i do think there's value in writing things down but in a really simple way i've learned probably the most things through the best athletes in the world and michael johnson who had the gold shoes i'll never forget drew brees were training for the nfl combine in 2001. there's 18 guys michael just finished winning his fourth gold medal and he comes in and he's just just a badass dude fastest man alive fastest man alive at that point um he had just run uh the 43-18 um you know and then when he ran the 19-3 it was uh 26 miles per hour the fastest the fastest 50 to 150 he ran 9-1 flat so all these athletes were in awe of michael and i think drew at the time says hey man do you set goals you said yeah he said where'd you learn so what do you mean what i learned so where did you learn like do you learn in college saturday learning college he said did you learn like smart goals like your smart goals you know and smart goals are specific measurable attainable realistic and with the time frame michael said when i would go into safeway i recognize that if i walked into safeway and i wrote eight things down i would walk into safeway and i'd walk out of safeway in five minutes if i walked into safeway and had nothing written down i would be in there for 20 minutes and i'd find myself on aisle eight and i'd be anxious and i'd be nervous and i'd be why am i looking at the wind weepins and the ho ho's when i know i don't need any of those things and he said so because i wrote it down in safeway and it worked i figured why would i be any different about my athletic career and i think that that's the level that we need to educate people i hope it takes what it takes basically is an introduction to self-help that when i look at mindfulness being the brand and and headspace being a billion dollar evaluation and i sit there and think that you know 44 years old and growing up in this my whole life the only time i can meditate is at the end of church it's such a challenging skill and is it important absolutely it's important do our affirmations important absolutely they're important are changing from the inside out important yes but they're not the starting points don't say stupid [ __ ] out loud be mindful of what you consume if i watch three minutes of news it increases my probability by 27 i'm gonna say i had a shitty day see do you agree with me that our lives today as a generation of people has become far more comfortable and far more convenient simply because of our understanding of science and our exploitation of that knowledge as technology yes we are the most comfortable generation ever in the history of humanity no question about it isn't it yes we are super empowered because of the science and technology as there is a science and technology for our external well-being there is a whole science and technology for inner well-being unfortunately most cultures have ignored this and thinking that if you make all the external arrangements well everything will be okay united states of america is a huge statement that this is not how it works the most affluent country on the planet 70 of the population are supposed to be in prescription medication yeah wow what's the best way for people to interact with you they don't have to interact with me because learn because we can talk if inspiration is what you need encouragement was what you need i am willing to talk but talks will not bring solutions they will bring some clarity solution will come only when you take a proper inward step that's what in engineering processes we are doing everything possible to deliver it in as simple and as practical measures as it can be done there was a time it was thought in such a complex way today we have simplified it broken into five different pieces offering it as five layers of program so that people can experience it in small doses and slowly step by step they can go i'm seeing as you come into more and more affluent societies their steps are far more baby steps than other people so we've broken it into many steps so that small steps you can take one by one i'm not interested in how much somebody is doing i'm very interested in how they're doing it because that's what changes the quality of who we are because the content of our life will not change our life it is the context of our life which changes our life because your content you have changed and you see people are not happy content of our life is phenomenally enhanced compared to how our grandparents lived here isn't it even in this country yes how can people change their context that's what inner engineering is about if your context shifts from your psychological and physiological process to the life process that you are everything has changed because we must understand this as we sit here this is my body that's your body this is my mind that's your mind but there's no such thing as this is my life and that's your life this is a living cosmos everybody is free to capture as much as they want if you capture substantial amount of life your very presence will become a significant life otherwise you will become a mediocre life this is the important thing it's not the knowledge you gather in your head it's not the muscle that you gather in your body it's the life how much of a life are you this will make you significant in your very presence if world gives us an opportunity we'll do something impactful otherwise we're just a significant presence a huge oak tree standing outside it is not trying to create any impact it is just impactful if you go under its shade you will feel it otherwise also it's impactful most people notice it 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Length: 13min 55sec (835 seconds)

Published: Thu Nov 12 2020