Best Motivational Speech Compilation EVER - FOCUS ON YOU

[Music] i'll never forget listening to jim rohn i was taking a walk in the middle of the day i needed to get out decompress rethink realign and this message came through my headphones he said we must all suffer from one of two pains the pain of discipline or the pain of regret the difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons and i needed that i needed that because sometimes we forget why in the midst of the day-to-day the trials and tribulations of life we forget why we endure and there's a strange dichotomy that exists because you know you can't measure discomfort that hasn't arrived yet you can't identify regret that hasn't materialized [Music] yet in a way you have to you have to somehow make that tangible you have to know that sacrifices of today deliver you from the anguish of i wish or if only or maybe i could have [Music] i've heard it said that humans ability to delay gratification is what makes us so unique incredible even but that doesn't mean it comes easy [Music] so as i walked [Music] i became reacquainted with the trust that i had in myself in the future and the steps i was taking it wasn't that i'd reached some grand finale but that i gave myself permission to stop constantly expecting one [Music] worrying when things didn't go as planned feeling disgusted with myself when i fell short this is after all part of a process and if one stays the course builds a foundation of discipline to guide them towards what they believe in things will evolve [Music] we feel uncertain because new things don't have a precedent at least not a personal one and that feeling of you know i wish i knew or had some predictability it's real it's common but if minimizing regret is what means the most then it also means that we must have the discipline to walk steadfast into the unpredictability of tomorrow a long-term sustained discipline [Music] and one of my favorite interviews bronnie ware who wrote the top five regrets of the dying was talking about surrender and how she mentioned in her book letting go and i asked her can you explain that what's the angle because the way i look at life there's always something you can do you can always improve your situation somehow and she basically said it's not about what you can control what you can do it's about putting yourself in position to live the life you want to live and then letting go of that which you cannot control it's about not worrying over external forces as you walk your path because all you can do in life is walk your path and that became the marker or the question am i walking my path right now look at it like this first a vision gives you direction purpose keeps you excited injects meaning into life [Music] second discipline keeps you moving becomes the tiny steps that transport you through your pursuit of meaning [Music] and third trust in the process that you are here to give everything you have to give and then the rest as brony says must be surrendered [Music] but the reason i bring this up is because all of it fits together like a puzzle like three pillars of a parthenon and when people reach out to me all the time they're upset that they're not as disciplined as they'd like to be and they're listening to the speeches they're watching the videos they're absorbing the content trying to improve but nothing seems to get the engine going and i'm wondering what is your north star what are you aiming for because as far as i'm concerned it's impossible to be disciplined if you don't have a reason you know when jim rohn states that the pain is in ounces now well there's an implicit compared to what being asked right compared to that top of the mountain that you'd presumably miss out on so if the mountaintop's not defined you're on a fool's errand [Music] that's why i had so much trouble with my old career for example it's hard to be disciplined there's no buy-in on the purpose using my previous metaphor it's little steps sure but towards what if you don't know it's only practical then to look around and ask yourself why am i taking them why not go drink with my friends why not stream this series on netflix until 4am why not skip the workout [Music] you can listen to people on youtube scream at you to do more and be more and try harder all day but without that peace it will not get you very far [Music] a vision the discipline to pursue it and a trust in the process and you could say the same with someone who might have a clear vision a dream a perfect idea of what they want but never take action right the discipline never materializes makes the endeavor just as meaningless [Music] things don't change until you take that big picture that vision and you break it down into little things you can do every day that's it and isn't that amazing the greatest most influential people from the friends and family that inspire us to the greatest athletes and entertainers to our greatest thinkers creators world leaders all they do [Music] is a handful of things consistently every day in the direction of something that is meaningful to them a process that has been talked about since the beginning of time the compound effect as darren hardy calls it that breakthrough is huge for me [Music] the realization that i don't need to leap any mountain i just need to ascend one tiny rock at a time and that is not a superhuman ability that is a single decision [Music] so here the question isn't can you be more disciplined of course you can the question is which few things are most meaningful to you which will you be focusing on every day so that they expand and inject value into you and the world [Music] and then lastly there is trust sometimes the most difficult seeing the unseen maintaining confidence in that which is unknown an incredibly challenging expectation in an instantaneous world a world where things are immediate feedback is immediate messages are sent across the planet instantaneously goods and services arrive within hours we have forgotten patience because it is disintegrating before our very eyes we are a society of now [Music] but the best things in life they take time they require that we hold up our end of the bargain and that we trust life will fall into place [Music] belief in a process that will come to mean more than anything that arrives in 30 seconds ever could a vision the discipline to pursue it and a trust in the process so perhaps your overdue for your midday walk your little excursion into the soul to ask yourself what is it you are moving towards why are you doing what you're doing does it mean something and if not perhaps some adjustment is in order perhaps you've lost sight of that north star that lights up our lives and illuminates the way [Music] take solace in the fact that life is not as serious as we make it out to be we don't live in a world of right and wrong good and bad yes and no but a continuum an opportunity to seek out and find the beautiful ops and the meaningful downs to set our sights on the horizons that matter see when the little things feel too complex or burdensome it's because the big things are misaligned and that is a powerful idea to grasp it's never that life is too difficult it's that we have closed our eyes so don't be fooled by those selling you reality as some problem some obligation that must be dealt with no today is the greatest gift of your lifetime and the same will be true every day moving forward and to echo jim rohn absolutely it is a gift comprised of sacrifice discomfort along the way but that's a small price to pay for entry to the show for the ability to embrace the mystery and embark upon the adventure when you're pointed to the right north star well the road it feels less treacherous on your feet the hills less strenuous on your legs what we often deem to be a lack of preparedness ability strength well might just be a lack of alignment so adjust because this world flexible and limitless invites you to do just that it invites you to explore until you've uncovered your vision to pursue it like nothing else matters to sidestep the obstacles invert the setbacks and lastly to find hope when there appears to be none to set your sails walk your path run your race and surrender to that which is beyond your control and you'll find that with a vision with discipline with trust in the process there is no situation or circumstance outside the scope of what's possible for you [Music] sometimes success is merely hanging on when others would let go not doing anything spectacular or out of the ordinary not leaping a mile or jumping over a mountain but simply carrying on thomas edison has a famous quote that's really stuck with me over the years he says many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up right how close they were to the finish line when they turned their back and said it wasn't worth it it's really an interesting thing to grasp [Music] right success is seeing what others can't it's believing when others don't it's taking the abstract those visions those pictures in your head to make believe and finding the courage to make them real bring them to life it's this constantly evolving process and it grows a little bit every single day sometimes we feel that progress we feel the momentum we do something big and it's exciting and sometimes the progress feels small and there are times when we get knocked down and we don't see it at all we feel like because we weren't validated that we lost that we failed that it wasn't enough we forget that's part of the process that progress is a journey and it goes when you go and it stops when you stop [Music] just like that famous dalai lama quote right the only way to fail is to quit period no one ever stops because they can't they stop because they decide to they stop because they see that huge mountain and they think that's impossible they forget it's only made of little rocks [Music] they stop because they get so disheartened by the distance of the finish line that they forget it only takes a collection of little steps to get there you don't have to leap the entire distance you know i've been there it's this is me speaking from experience it took me years to figure it out and even now life is rapidly evolving i've poured my heart into things that let's be honest no one cared about i've invested in opportunities that fell apart right in front of me and each time it felt like the end of the world you know i've been lost i've been unsure gotten up after things didn't go as planned and it felt like a loser had to look myself in the mirror and pick myself back up off the floor but there's one thing that i kept doing that i never thought twice about and that's continuing on whether life lifted me up or it beat me down my plan for tomorrow was always the same get up and try again keep going and as i sat down this morning with my pen and a piece of paper i thought what's the one thing i would want to be told if i started out again what's the one thing that people need to hear most and it's to simply keep going keep taking steps because one day the world will start to make sense and you'll look around and you will be thankful for one thing that when most would have stopped you didn't when the world said no you said yes there is nothing so powerful as a soul that refuses to back down see persistence is not an important thing or an essential thing it's everything so live as to see not what can be lost but what will be gained find that light in darkness even if it's a flicker even if it's a spark see every loss makes you a little tougher and every instant of sadness uncovers something beautiful every moment of fear teaches you to be a little braver every broken heart opens the door to a new connection instead of doubting yourself feeling inadequate in life's darkest moments know that you need what you are going through you are uncovering the little victories hidden in plain view so when the world feels like too much and your patience is thin be stronger than that voice in your head begging you to think small stand on every experience the good and the bad let it elevate you to a beautiful tomorrow [Music] every day there is a specific decision you have to make it's the first and it's the most important decision because from it you effectively roadmap your destiny [Music] what i'm referring to is the choice to either have a positive outlook or to allow negativity and doubt to chart your course it's a dilemma that truly is that simple [Music] every morning you choose how you want to view the obstacles ahead of you and what you get out of life will be very different depending on your decision there's an old cherokee legend that touches on this conflict and in the story there's an older man he's talking to his grandson about life he explains that inside all people there is this fight going on the struggle consists of two wolves one manifests itself through negative energy he's anger envy sorrow inferiority all that is evil the other is joy compassion faith truth all that is good so he finishes explaining this the boy sits there he thinks about it for a minute he asked his grandfather well which one wins the grandfather replies whichever one you feed [Music] what we sometimes forget is that we are the soul makers of our own destiny there are always going to be external factors whatever they may be negative people tough circumstances maybe a lack of resources they'll be there but they cannot dictate your happiness or your success unless you let them yeah they may cause you to alter your approach you might have to make adjustments that's good that's how we develop that's how we improve but no one and nothing writes your story but you your attitude your emotions they directly coincide with how you see the world so anytime you feel discouraged negative envious anything that's not positive just stop don't waste your time with thoughts that aren't bringing you closer to your goal there's just no value in it tony robbins says this beautifully he says you have to be the guardian of your own mind allowing only what will help you because god knows the world will crush you if you let it so take the wheel what you need to do tomorrow when you wake up is look at yourself hard in the mirror make a conscious decision to feed the good wolf you'll be amazed at how far it will take you [Music] there's a quote attributed to seneca that states no man is more unhappy than he who never faces adversity for he is not permitted to prove himself meaning it's in pursuing the difficult thing that we obtain meaning recognition that we prove ourselves but prove ourselves to whom this is the same seneca who famously stated that we suffer more in imagination than we do in reality that he is most powerful who has power over himself and that's one of the beautiful things about stoicism it makes us ask a very simple but often overlooked question who's really the adversary here who's the opposition we're dealing with as we fight our battles what is it that must be transformed is it the outside world or the way our eyes view the outside world what's really holding us back the circumstances or our own personal thoughts about the circumstances and i think this is where we misunderstand the challenges before us i want to delve into this power of perspective to explain that we are the gatekeepers between ourselves and our ideal lives and very often we do a good job of ensuring that gate stays closed we sabotage our own goals our own dreams our own happiness while simultaneously pointing the finger at a million externalities see when we look at the difficulties of life and there's no doubt that life can be a very difficult thing it's easy to look at the world as this binary playing field right me versus the world and in fact we often visualize the world as the enemy pushing back against us as if its motives were counter to ours but so many of these narratives these stories they actually say nothing about the outside world and when we look deeper it becomes apparent that they actually say a whole lot more about us it's the one viewing that gets to decipher what the circumstance means and so all narratives are reflections of the observers jim rohn used to tell a story about two brothers who had an alcoholic father he'd come home drunk he'd abuse his sons they had a terrible childhood and as they each grew up and had families of their own their paths kind of diverged right one became abusive and the other was kind and loving and caring and when confronted the now abusive brother stated well look how can you blame me don't you see how i was raised but the kind loving and caring brother stated of course i'm like this i could never put my family through what i went through as a child same circumstances different lenses interpretations which means different real world results and the idea here is to emphasize how one of the most important abilities a human being possesses is the ability to interpret the world around him i think of us as subjects navigating a world of objects as though the things around us don't have meaning until we place meaning upon them that's what humans do create narratives out of objects and that often overlooked seemingly insignificant ability places a lot of power in our hands very rarely is it what we see it's what we think and what we do about what we see you ever hang out with people that just tend to be happy upbeat positive energy i have a very good friend like that where his first inclination is always to find the positive in moments where i've sort of trained myself to pause take a second sift through the emotion uncover the value in a tough situation refocus and take a strategic step forward i look over at him and he's already arrived there right he's been there for three minutes right eliminated the negativity it's his first instinct he's the metaphorical kid hopping around in puddles whistling at the top of his lungs while everyone else is hiding out from the rain or at least trying to find the courage to run out onto the street with then there are people who seem to always find the negative it doesn't really matter what this situation is happiness is fleeting only to reveal the negativity that never seems to go away right the kind of person that if they won the lottery their first thought might be oh no but what if i lose it all [Music] both examples are people projecting themselves onto the world around them the same way that smoke covers and consumes an entire room it's not the room that's the culprit [Music] here's another example from jim rohn since we're on a jim rohn kick he's making a similar point and this is all from a collection of speeches he has on audible comparing humans to oranges which is probably not a comparison you've made recently but he said there's consistency to an orange and then it can be filled with one thing when you squeeze an orange orange juice is coming out period it will never be apple juice or grapefruit juice it will only emit what it has inside which is orange juice and while here's the connection when life pressures us challenges us or metaphorically squeezes us we only emit the emotions that are contained and available that are alive and well within us if there is no jealousy contained in our thinking we're not going to project jealousy out into the world if there is no hatred within us we will not project hatred onto others why is that powerful it's powerful because again it's one of the most important things you can do certainly one of the most important things i've learned to do is take that finger pointing blame at the outside world slowly turn it around and point it back at myself and ask what thoughts what emotions what ideas am i letting live inside my head that's altering the narrative the story i'm telling about myself and the world that i live in and while one might think well that's uncomfortable that's unfair a little extreme why should i point at myself it's not my fault i would challenge you at least for the sake of the next few minutes to see such a change as empowering as your advantage as the bridge from where you are to where you want to be see if you always have feelings of let's say jealousy around a particular person that feeling in your stomach like oh they have it all they're ahead they live how i want to live they're this and that and i kind of hate them for it you're naively giving the external world the power you're saying i feel the way i do because of that out there some cosmic injustice [Music] you are powerless because you're neglecting your personal agency as a factor but when you turn that finger around [Music] and say i only feel this way because i'm allowing myself to then you can ask the question so many never think to ask why why do i feel this way which lights a path to how can i fix it see the key to a better life is realizing you don't have to be in the passenger seat pointing at and blaming the driver complaining about the road being taken no you can get into the driver's seat you can take the wheel you can take control inherit responsibility and there's more at stake there's greater vulnerability but the upside is unfathomable and i find myself thinking all the time man people are blaming the wrong things they're shifting blame to the wrong adversaries the real villain here [Music] is not the driver or the road or the weather the real villain is the voice in your head pleading with you not to take the wheel pleading with you to ride shotgun and complain as the world passes you by and of course it makes sense to qualify that with the inevitability that there are some things placed upon us that are just bigger than us that we can't control and you can make a list however long you want to natural disasters decisions and actions of others health problems we don't often get to choose the landscape so as the stoics would say understand that understand what you can't control and what you can because the beauty is that you can control how you navigate that landscape and that is power that is what makes the difference see the two brothers i mentioned a few moments earlier same landscape different navigational tactics different view of what it all meant one took the wheel and one did not so that seneca quote that states no man is more unhappy than he who never faces adversity for he is not permitted to prove himself it's perfectly clear as far as i'm concerned the the question is not whether or not to face adversity i think we all understand that what i hope we take from today is a better understanding of what the true adversity is a better understanding of the fact that in front of us there is always an answer a key to every lock some people just don't think to look they're so busy peering around every corner for external enemies and scapegoats that they don't give themselves permission to succeed maybe unfortunate but it's true you can hit the bull's-eye over and over again but if it's the wrong target it won't do much for you might as well have missed by 50 feet and i think that is what we overlook you can't always fix the outside world [Music] you can't change the unchangeable but you can always change yourself you can always fix you as tolstoy said everyone wants to change the world but no one thinks of changing himself you're capable of being both your greatest adversary and ally so choose wisely [Music] because the world around you will do nothing more than respond accordingly to your decision [Music] [Music] i see time escape from this view the sun is rising perfect just like the day before it i see people coming and going making their way into the world i see the steam rising up from my coffee cup disappearing into a sky much bigger than me i see ticking clocks [Music] i hear times impatient song an orchestra of chirping birds and crashing waves i hear people comparing and contrasting as they make their way into the world i hear the sound of my computer turning on each key a tiny rocket ship making my thoughts tangible and taking them to galaxies undiscovered i hear ticking clocks i feel times tough love the coolness of the breeze against my skin [Music] i feel people's uncertainty and their hope as they make their way into the world i feel the paper between my fingers as i turn the page converting stories to weapons tucked away for a future battle i feel ticking clocks [Music] if life is war time is a mercenary working for you when properly compensated or against you when neglected in the way i see it there are two approaches to any predicament add your solution or subtract your problem an invigorated soul has withdrawn detached from all that is not empowered walked away from everyone's standards and expectations but their own see ticking clocks are individualized symphonies they blend into the background and become the cadence to your triumphant marks when you have immersed yourself in that which you love time is your heart beat and when you have not it's a subtle warning sign whispering of roads untraveled and gifts unopened singing reminders that you must realign that time can't be stockpiled or saved it's loyal to no person when you find yourself fighting to remember how precious the moment or beautiful the day it's not a lack of time but a lack of direction you're fighting an enemy that would become an ally for the small price of passion and clarity that's the north star to be followed because beauty beauty is seeing ticking clocks not as a dwindling resource but has a flowing river and happiness is hearing ticking clocks not as a finite melody but as the breeze that you are back as you float downstream and perfection perfection is feeling ticking clocks not as an obligation or imposition but as a once in a lifetime journey a metronome for you to compose your masterpiece give a pulse to that which hides away in your soul waiting to emerge it is anything and everything seeking your direction one second one thought one breath at a time [Music] um [Music] einstein said imagination is more important than knowledge for knowledge is limited whereas imagination embraces the entire world stimulating progress giving birth to evolution there's a distinct difference between today and tomorrow the real and the so-called imagined one has already been created and the other is in desperate need of a creator and see until we learn that we can be proactive in this regard imagination doesn't mean much it's just a car without wheels plane without wings it's more of an escape than a bridge to something better but once we realize how much control we have over tomorrow we become in our own right creators not just waiting to read and react to stories already written and handed down to us but possessing this incredible ability to pick up a pen and craft something new become agents of change i recently came across an interesting article had some info that that made me think basically it said if you take some domesticated animals like pigs or chickens and you place them back into the wild some of their previously repressed uh biological tendencies come right back into play so for example chickens change their breathing habits how they take care of their eggs pigs regrow their hair and that mane going down their back and these old repressed kind of hidden away genes are re-selected for again over time and the animals begin to reacclimate as though that potential was never lost it just needed to immerse itself in the right environment and it's like well if we view ourselves in that same light now we might ask what if we positioned ourselves to gravitate towards an environment that was best for us what if i imagined a world not exactly like today but one better conducive to me being me a world where i'm set up to thrive where sure there will be bumps and bruises and losses and lessons along the way but where i'm immersed in a journey towards a destination that excites me that lights me up can i find the courage to not only imagine that finish line but also act accordingly move towards it [Music] you know i always say the hardest thing to do is to recreate outcomes that look different from the current moment because while the current moment is all we know it's all anybody knows and by the way it's all anybody wants to know right until something new is placed right in front of them at their feet until proof exists changing your life or the lives of those around you means you have to literally look at the road before you and see outcomes that are not there then you have to believe in those outcomes you have to drive towards those outcomes have conviction in your ability to overcome obstacles on your way to those outcomes truth be told chasing your imagination is simultaneously one of the greatest burdens one can endure as well as a key to that which makes life worth living there's something about being human that pushes us towards hope towards the possibility of a tomorrow better than today and that's not to say don't be grateful it's not saying don't see the beauty around you or appreciate the world you live in but i believe we're here to take that torch from yesterday and move it one step forward maybe it's in our own lives a small step forward in our careers a relationship or our health maybe it's improving the lives of those around us family friends maybe it's something larger societal whatever it is i'm convinced that true meaning in life is finding the courage to push one foot further down the path of possibility to add one step to that ascending staircase knowing that it will allow us to someday look back on today and be proud of what we faced and overcame and as i wake up and and i look around i think to myself that has to mean cherishing the ideas in our heads it has to mean we understand the power of our instincts of our beliefs of hope it means understanding that it justifies all the hardship that comes with taking those ideas and giving them life because everything around us was built with the courage to take little nothings and make them something [Music] and when we're lost or feel alone or for one reason or another forget that we need to remember that right now is not forever it can't be it's a stepping stone to whatever you decide tomorrow is and that goal isn't perfection you don't need all the answers you need the courage to take one little step in a new direction to write just one sentence on a brand new page because that imagination is not fiction it's not the delta between the possible or impossible it's not there to entertain it's there because it's your map and you may look at that map and think to yourself your loss that it's unclear that the directions well they're incomplete at best but what i can promise you is the pursuit of this world you've imagined it will bring you greater satisfaction than anything else could it will remind you why you're here and show you that life isn't supposed to be easy while helping you appreciate it for being that way see your imagination is your path to that ideal state where you can thrive be you push your boundaries and spread your wings don't ever let the current state of today convince you that your hopes and your dreams for tomorrow are too big that you've missed the mark or stepped out of a line in a world of reaction be one of the few who looks in the mirror and decides to live life proactively take initiative be one of the few [Music] who stands wholeheartedly behind that world they've imagined [Music] you

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Published: Fri Jan 21 2022