Find out what makes woman can fall to a man

[Music] what is it then that causes um a woman to really fall for somebody like what should guys be um aiming at and she has to be naturally attracted to you first and foremost she can't fall in love without some element of on what what like if guys are going to go collect skills or attributes what are the skills attributes that women find enticing um well outside of her naturally being I always choose women who are attracted to you I always say to men you will never ever get the same level of respect and love from a woman who's not attracted to you choose a woman who's attracted to you when you try and bypass that because you want a woman above out of your league and you just want that she can be out of your league as long as she's still attracted to you some women are just attracted to you regardless so she has to be attracted and how you measure how attracted she is to you is how much a physical affection she initiates doesn't have to women won't always initiate sex but when we're attracted to a man we constantly initiate physical contact so how much she has to be attracted to you once she's attracted to you she has to trust your judgment how does she trust your judgment you have intense amount of self-control with at all areas of your life you're you're controlled with your money you're controlled with your food you're in control with with you know what your intellig everything you you have self-control if you are impulsive and you are chaotic some women will find that attractive but they are usually also very impulsive and chaotic women most women want a man that they know is is naturally somewhat responsible it might sound boring in the short term but in the long run there is nothing more unattractive than an old teenager what is an old teenager a grown man who's still impulsive so don't be that guy it's just not attractive to a woman learn to control your impulses whether that means your aggression whether that means your anger whether that means your sex whether it means your food you learn the art of self-control because only through self-control then you can achieve you can achieve whatever you want but without self-control it's like you have to stop and start everything you start in life you have to stop and start whether you make money or whether you have start a great relationship if you don't practice self-control you won't have self resect and therefore you won't you won't actually achieve your long-term Vision so really practice a lot of self-control I would say that is really important for women and you know the usual obviously charm and skills and all those things but you live a life that you're proud of one problem with men that you know not men but it can be for a lot of people is what's really unattractive is when a man lives a double life there are so many men that in public they might be very admirable might be very successful whatever it is but their private life is one that is sholic or one that they're embarrassed of or they're asham ashamed of they might be doing things privately that they're not proud of you need to become a man that if there was a camera following you in private you would have no you would actually be proud of the things that you do in private whereas when you live a double life the problem is you'll have to use your false self to attract a woman and then she'll discover the real you and she'll leave and you almost you know are always tiptoeing around women because you know that if she knew the real you she wouldn't be attracted so the key is to become a person who whose private self is congruent with their public self and as a result you'll be more attractive I know that's a very vague answer

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Length: 3min 14sec (194 seconds)

Published: Mon Jun 10 2024