ENTITLED ROOMMATE TRIES TO KICK ME OUT OF MY OWN PLACE TO HAVE IT FOR HERSELF!!! NOT TODAY!!! r/AITA

hello everyone and welcome to my channel my name is crown and today we are going to have some more stories from reddit but before we start it would be so much appreciated if you would subscribe to the channel like the video if you enjoyed it and maybe leave a comment down below these simple clicks would mean a lot to the future of this channel and really reward the effort that i put in every day and now without further ado let's go [Music] first story am i the jerk for telling my sister and mom what i really think of my sister my older sister and her husband got divorced about a year ago they have two young boys who they share custody of now but my sister is the primary and her ex has them one week a month and a couple weekends her ex and i also happen to work together as mechanics so i've been put in the unfortunate position where i get to hear about it from both parties their divorce was pretty nasty and in my eyes my sister was the one to blame for the divorce she got into trouble at her job and ended up getting fired then she was solely responsible for some financial problems that she tried to hide from her ex and when he finally found out about it he filed for divorce during the divorce my sister tried to take her ex for everything she could she tried to take his prized cars tools hunting and fishing equipment even the house the house was the one that really put my sister in a bad light to me because it was her ex's family house that he grew up in and she tried to claim it as a marital asset because they moved in after they were married even though her ex's parents charged them a token amount for it when they moved out so it was basically gifted to them luckily for her ex the judge saw through my sister's nonsense and let her ex keep most of his stuff in the house but awarded my sister primary custody because her ex didn't want to fight her on it anymore she basically wore her ex down into a shell of a man even now almost a year later she will constantly bad-mouth him around me even though he has held up every part of his end of the custody agreement and never missed a child support payment in private talks with my parents i've expressed how much i disagree with what my sister has done and how she refuses to see her own blame in the situation they always tell me to keep those thoughts to myself because my sister is going through a hard time and needs our support not our criticism last week she told me and our mom that she was thinking of suing him again to get the child support increased this is where i lost it on her i finally told her the truth about what i think of her and what she's done i told her how much i think she sucks for what she's done to her ex and how he doesn't deserve to be treated that way i told her she needs to look in the mirror and realize that she's more to blame for all of this than anyone else when i was done she stormed out of my parents place in tears and my mom started to call me out for everything i said i told her that someone needed to tell my sister the truth and that my mom needs to take off her rose-colored glasses and realize that her precious daughter has been acting like a complete jerk for over a year my entire family now thinks i owe my older sister an apology but i am not going to give her one she needed to hear how much she sucks and maybe it will help her come to some realization that she needs to change but i doubt it comments one not the jerk normally i would say you're the jerk and it is none of your business but you seem genuine in your concern and it sounds like she needs a reality check also sounds like she needs to be considering her kids in all this drama she's creating maybe your intervention will help in the end 2. not the jerk she needs to be more focused on what is beneficial for the kids rather than creating drama and ongoing negativity realizing behaviors is the only way they can change them 3. not the jerk she sounds selfish and is refusing to lie in the bed she made herself you're right someone needed to tell her the truth and she needs to do some self-reflection next story am i the jerk for telling my manager to go and polish her ego somewhere else so my manager is incompetent so incompetent in fact that her replacement is hired and being trained already i have a pretty good relationship with the owners so i know about her fate in the company while she still tries to get as much power as she can so we had some rostering issues mainly her changing the roster with a one-day notice not telling anyone and yelling at them for not showing up which resulted in a fight between me and her while i am generally calm and maintain being respectful i had to raise my voice due to her trying to apply a tag on me saying that i'm lazy and say i do not want to work i've only said that i do not want to work double shifts for three days in a row she told me to shut up over the phone after which i hung up she sent me a message saying that since i'm constantly complaining i work too much she decided to cut my shifts and that it's impossible for me to get mad since i can't have plans for when i get an extra shift off i had to decline a pretty important meeting because elftha roster she ended the message with your behavior and disrespectful attitude to me as your manager you like it or not that's what's unacceptable i've replied once again trying to communicate to her that i did not say i do not want to work what plans i missed out on because of her not telling me she changed the roster and said that i'm mad because i do not come home to smoke weed like her she's addicted and that since she told me to shut up she's the last person allowed to call me disrespectful ending with go polish your ego with someone else i am having more and more doubts about it being the right thing to do but i've had enough after months of emotional abuse from her side and now messing up my weeks on purpose am i the jerk comments one not the jerk your manager sounds like a nightmare i'm not surprised you snapped however maybe next time don't bring up people's personal lives in a professional argument it's not classy and your comment about weed makes you sound whiny to not the jerk but the whole weed thing doesn't really matter in this situation also if you're close with the owners you should tell them something about her conduct three with some people you've got to come at them hard as that's the only expression they understand hope you've kept all your exchanges in case she tries to escalate this or make your work life impossible not the jerk next story am i the jerk for calling out my brother for blocking me on social media i know it sounds petty but hear me out my brother don male 34 and tyler male 33 and me female 28 were very close while growing up five years ago don got fired and was in a bad place emotionally and financially i was earning good money during this time so i supported him as much i could he had some employment opportunities outside his academic field but he rejected them my parents were critical about it but tyler and i were there for him we were like dude follow your dreams we got you fast forward two years ago don gets a new job and he earns a lot of money he kinda drifts apart from tyler and me he meets a girl they get married and they have a baby he becomes kinda snobby i got fired during this time and when i asked him for money when my savings ran out he ignores me and says he is not in a good place to help me i start to see on his social media the good life he has and i get the word his wife says she hates that don has to support his lazy family i confront him and he implies that i am stalking him online he blocks me my parents tyler and me of all social media my parents don't mind they don't use them anyway tyler is upset but he is chill i am hurt but whatever we still call each once in a while a year ago while i was jumping between part-time jobs i started to work on an illustrated children's book writing a book has been my dream since i'm little and everyone in my family knows it last time like years ago i had a heart to heart chat with don i told him i was giving up my dream that's the last thing he listens to about the matter i've been documenting the creation of this book on social media and even my extended family got excited a week ago i got news from an editorial willing to publish this book it is not a millionaire deal but whoa i video call my family including the extended part and i tell them everyone is excited but don is dumbfounded he's like why am i just knowing this okay you say i never call but you never tell me what's going on in your life he kinda likes to blame us for not being close to him anymore i got upset because it was not the time to guilt-trip me my extended family gives him weird looks and tells him i've been documenting this process on every social media i have don is still sulking and then i say something like oh you don't know don has me blocked online because he thinks i am constantly assessing his fortune or something dawn is mad but we end the call pretending everything is fine mom is upset because i publicly called dawn out she has dumb rivalry with my extended family and likes to pretend we are the perfect family dad is saying he deserved it but he'd rather see me wait and confront him tyler is ecstatic am i the jerk i feel so stupid i feel i ruined my good moment and severed even more my relationship with don on the other hand i hate that he plays the victim comments one not the jerk despite having blocked you on social media he expected you to call him separately and give him the same updates you were issuing on social media this seems unreasonable i suppose you could have left it without saying that part but i don't see that you had two two not the jerk he blocks you then complains you don't talk anymore and he's left out of the loop i am boggled by what a jerk this dude is also to turn your big announcement around and make it about him what is he a child as far as i'm concerned telling others out of the loop family members that he blocked you a while ago was the nicest response certainly more polite than i would have been 3 not the jerk tyler is ecstatic good he should be good for you don sounds like a jerk next story am i the jerk for not wanting to leave my own apartment i'll keep this vague to avoid recognition since i believe the parts involved actually use reddit i'm a 28 year old male and i've been friends with my roommate a 25 female ever since we were babies our families were neighbors and we grew up together she's like a little sister to me and has always been after she graduated college she moved to the same city i currently work in and since she couldn't find an apartment close enough to where she worked i told her she could live with me we'd share bills and become roommates we never really had problems or fights as we knew each other for so long however recently things have taken a strange turn she got involved with someone from her work the guy seemed to be a nice guy i only ever spoke to him three times as they usually keep to her room but he was very friendly and honestly i was happy she found someone who seemed that nice after a few months of their relationship she sent me a text saying she needed to talk with me i figured there might be something wrong with the apartment it's not uncommon for things to break but i was wrong when i got home we started talking it's too long to write everything so i'll just summarize she told me that while she enjoyed living with me her boyfriend was starting to get jealous of his woman living with another man at first i raised an eyebrow but thought that this kind of thing isn't uncommon so i was like oh it's fine just let me know when you plan on leaving hope you two find a good place however apparently i was wrong she told me that she wasn't leaving she said that it was impossible to find someone closer to her work and that she was hoping i would let her take the apartment instead since my work wasn't close and all that thing is i really love my place it's close to the gym to the grocery store to pretty much everything i'm not gonna just leave my place because of something so stupid as this and i told that flat out that it wasn't going to happen she got visibly upset and started to rant about me being an egotistical jerk that i didn't have empathy to put myself in her shoes this happened a few days ago and she shut herself in her room only ever leaving to go to work or to pick up her boyfriend who became really unfriendly to me after that now usually i can be a jerk but i don't think this was one of these times so i thought i would ask for reddit's verdict am i really such a jerk edit i didn't expect this to get this much attention for those who have asked her name isn't on the lease as i lived in the same place for two years before she moved in comments one let me get this straight you have known her for over two decades you welcome her into your home and now she expects you to leave so she can live with her jealous boyfriend that she's just gotten on with not the jerk bro she is big time look at how she treats someone who is like a sibling to not the jerk and kick her out the second you can she may have been your friend when y'all were kids but she grew up into a how did she put it an egotistical jerk her and her boyfriend have decided they like your apartment so much they want to kick you out of it and keep it for themselves 3. not the jerk show her boyfriend the lease i'm sure she's telling him it's her apartment and you're the interloper next story am i the jerk for not letting my friend bring her baby on our vacation background a small group of us make an effort to get together once a year for a vacation early 20s two of the group have kids the friend in question has a baby who is still nursing in the past three years she has also muted and basically removed herself from our group chat made a point to flaunt the effort she puts into her other friendships and not ours and gone out of her way to avoid us when in town we've thought for a while she doesn't want to be in our lives anymore but still wants to include her because this friendship started with all of us and so that it's very much her choice if she bails fast forward we have a date for our weekend vacation which everyone agrees to including her a day later she bails i can't leave my husband alone with the baby and toddler and i really don't want to be away from my kids i'll just miss this one plan without me okay so we look for more accommodating options to include her we try to plan closer to her planned day trips she can come to whatever maybe she says otherwise no response or effort put forth in the meantime she has taken trips to see friends outside this group and avoided us like come to our cities and ask for recommendations for her and her other friends but not make any plans to see us has also bailed on dates for the friends in our group who are closer to her a month passed and we've planned a child-free weekend for the rest of us not including her she asks us so what's happening with the weekend can i bring my baby don't worry about saying no i won't be offended we tell her it's best she doesn't bring the baby as another friend isn't bringing her infant and that wouldn't be fair and realistically these weekends are for us to be together and on vacation we've done the bring the baby thing before and yes even though all babies are different it's still just complicated and we're not fully present with each other which is what this is all about she who said she wouldn't be offended is now offended and wants to talk about how we hurt her am i the jerk should we just scrap the plans and allow for all the babies to come comments one not the jerk don't scrap the plans scrap the friend who clearly isn't a friend at all just remove her from the group chat and move on to not the jerk i'm sure she can come up with rationalizations and excuses and reasons why and how but at the end of the day you gave plenty of options and time for her to step up and fix something herself she didn't because you put up with her so long you created the expectancy that she would be catered to cut her off already and be done with it three not the jerk halfway through the post i was thinking why are you still pursuing this friendship not the jerk but you and the group are almost the jerk to yourselves for catering to your friends needs when she is being wishy-washy and clearly not invested in this group next story am i the jerk for yelling at my mother-in-law for calling my son the wrong name even before my wife and i started to think about kids her mother has wanted us to name a son after her father let's say the name is sherman it's not actually sherman but think of something equally generational or old-fashioned perhaps the important thing is from day one i have absolutely hated the name at the end of 2020 my wife and i welcomed a baby boy to the world hooray but since the day we announced the gender her mother ramped up the sherman campaign you might even say it was to the point of scorched earth luckily my wife and i gave each other ten no questions asked rejects when it came to names obviously sherman was the first to go ultimately we named our son something we both really liked let's say his name is alexander over the past three months my mother-in-law has been a constant presence in the beginning that was a really nice thing having an extra pair of hands was a godsend when the wife was waking up every hour to breastfeed and i was doing laundry bottles dot etc on a never-ending loop and frankly it continues to help she makes us dinner she takes care of the baby etc but you can probably guess where this story is going with increasing frequency over the last few weeks she's taking to calling our son sherm or lil sherm she never calls him alexander or alex the first dozen times i let it slide the next dozen times it started to grate on me the next dozen times i started to remind her to call him by the right now in a joking way the next dozen times i reminded her in a matter-of-fact way to call him the right name all throughout i've told the wife about my building annoyance we have a tacit agreement that we would handle our own families and she said she would talk to her mother about it to be honest i don't know when she did or how forceful she was but clearly nothing had changed today i blew up at my mother-in-law i told her how disrespectful it was to me and alex that she continued to call him by the wrong name that i didn't want him to be confused about his actual name that she should call him by his real name or not come by anymore she didn't really say much in response i think she said something about how she's just been trying to help she got her things said bye to my wife and left my wife thinks i'm overreacting she says it's just a nickname no different from buddy or pal now she's especially upset because there's more stuff for the two of us to do she hasn't outright said that i should apologize or anything but i feel like she wants me too ultimately i feel bad that i put my wife in this situation given she's still recovering and maybe it really wasn't that big a deal but i also don't feel bad making myself clear to someone who clearly is disregarding my wishes in my own house with my child so i guess am i the jerk to my wife for not just sucking it up given all the help her mother has provided and might continue to provide edit many of you are asking why i didn't correct her from the get-go i don't know how many of you have had kids but in those first weeks when adjusting to new fatherhood getting barely any sleep and more worried about doing the right thing for the baby this honestly didn't even register even now looking back those first weeks were like a brain fog comments one not the jerk your son has the right to be referred to by his name pick a random name and start calling your mother-in-law with it let's see how she likes it 2. not the jerk she's not respecting any of you you've asked her to not do that and she hasn't she's doing it on purpose for her own reasons three not the jerk you did what was right although you and your wife might have to deal with the after effect of not getting an extra hand but at least you set things straight not just in the name aspect but in other aspects that are yet to come no gain without pain and now we have reached the end of today's stories thank you for watching my video if you liked it please subscribe to the channel like the video and leave a comment below underscore underscore

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Length: 22min 32sec (1352 seconds)

Published: Sat Feb 06 2021